# The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby

A podcast by Matt & Abby | Daylight Media. “Unplanned” dives into genuine conversations surrounding relationships & family. The show is hosted by high school sweethearts Matt and Abby Howard, who live in Phoenix, AZ with their two boys.

Feed: https://feeds.megaphone.fm/unplannedpodcast

## Latest episodes

- [Addressing your assumptions about us](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/a490ee1633eb) (2026-10-21, 63 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD1752678197.mp3
- [Dr. Becky debunks timeout, tantrums, and gentle parenting](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/cafc563081d9) (2026-10-14, 138 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD4695989354.mp3
- [6 week appointment: adjusting to life w/ 3 under 5](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/933a7b2ed218) (2026-10-07, 70 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD6552858398.mp3
- [Ken & Triston Cradic: Postpartum Depression w/ 3 Under 3](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/6a334d8d7028) (2026-09-30, 102 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD3329720273.mp3
- [Honest Postpartum Q&A: The Roommate Stage & Baby #4](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/71cc99538fb5) (2026-09-23, 90 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD9470425976.mp3
- [Surviving the Black Swan Murder with Eva Benefield](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/6647b171047c) (2026-09-16, 94 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD5651337594.mp3
- [The Newborn Stage: Hemorrhage Scare & Sleep Deprivation](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/043c0490bf5c) (2026-09-09, 81 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD4860642931.mp3
- [Traveling to 100 Countries as a Family of 5 ft. the Bucket List Family](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/c2dd23e0ad4e) (2026-09-02, 84 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD4890237642.mp3
- [Meeting our Rainbow Baby : VBAC after loss](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/59c08f7a379e) (2026-08-26, 78 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD9290012774.mp3
- [TikTok's "Steak Girl" : Engaged w/ a baby ft Kaydee Church](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/169069f2d5c2) (2026-08-19, 105 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD2832095061.mp3
- [Getting cheated on & co-parenting 7 kids w/ 4 fathers ft. Kail Lowry](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/a3cb7c3c16ce) (2026-08-12, 89 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD1508248646.mp3
- [It's baby time!](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/12ed529ef970) (2026-08-05, 77 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD9807923513.mp3
- [Waiting ‘till marriage & raising 2 kids in a tiny home w/ Carson & Brielle Matranga](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/2f605cb699e7) (2026-07-29, 107 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD4452375561.mp3
- [End of pregnancy Q&A](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/00b2122c9dbe) (2026-07-22, 79 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD5647552983.mp3
- [Co-parenting with an addict: divorce & raising a son w/ autism ft Laura Clery](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/9c38bb46c2d2) (2026-07-15, 105 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD3722323317.mp3
- [An honest conversation about marriage after a decade together](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/a0572baf503c) (2026-07-08, 89 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD9840492382.mp3
- [Signing a prenup, getting robbed, & living with my in-laws ft. Bryton & Jade](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/4817a5082484) (2026-07-01, 114 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD3022097415.mp3
- [Things we're doing differently postpartum](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/e2ef3be5fd42) (2026-06-24, 92 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD3205771175.mp3
- [Tay Lautner: My 1st trimester, body image, & protecting my baby from the public eye](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/29a5562a66b2) (2026-06-17, 77 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD2573648714.mp3
- [VBAC, Mood Swings & Skipping Our Babymoon](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/d359c3f6044d) (2026-06-10, 83 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD5716380579.mp3
- [Escaping a cult, going blind, & retiring my guide dog w/ Matthew and Paul](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/e4d15b9616d4) (2026-06-03, 107 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD7975082753.mp3
- [Love is Blind, Baby #2 & Postpartum Depression w/ Zack & Bliss](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/0ef6a71b53a3) (2026-05-27, 107 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD4471554770.mp3
- [My mom: Getting married young, Hawaii, and Parenting Now vs. Then](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/b89a80e899b8) (2026-05-20, 97 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD7550931524.mp3
- [Mormon Influencers, Filming Reality TV & Raising 5 Kids w/ Madison & Kyler (The FishFam)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/ebf24963498a) (2026-05-13, 92 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD2094300193.mp3
- [Who Knows Who Better: Husband vs. Wife](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/53e6d0d11805) (2026-05-06, 84 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD8661228695.mp3
- [Pregnancy Rage, Mood Swings, & Baby Names: 2nd Trimester Q&A](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/fa6cb7650d8d) (2026-04-29, 77 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD2792679197.mp3
- [Finding Out The Gender Of Our Rainbow Baby and Telling Our Families Finally](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/4c279c5c4650) (2026-04-22, 74 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD3314147354.mp3
- [Adopted from Russia, Leaving Mormonism, & Dealing w/ Hate Comments w/ Maddie Henderson & Matt Scharff](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/e8c28b563645) (2026-04-15, 105 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD4805938062.mp3
- [Navigating divorce, AI & What No One Tells You About Age Gap Marriages w/ Dean & Lisa Graziosi](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/18238c66d201) (2026-04-12, 70 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD7893739539.mp3
- [Elizabeth Smart: Kidnapped at 14 & held captive for 9 months](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/34a694f58ca9) (2026-04-08, 85 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD8009200328.mp3
- [Sisters-In-Law Play Agree to Disagree *Pregnancy & Postpartum Edition*](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/75b14647e093) (2026-04-01, 92 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD6863958952.mp3
- [We're pregnant with our rainbow baby](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/c72912d19a78) (2026-03-25, 78 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD4868834031.mp3
- [Modern Masculinity, Feminism, & Raising Boys in 2026](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/76cbb922fcab) (2026-03-18, 71 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD6065167736.mp3
- [Confronting George Kamel on credit cards, student loans, and financial infidelity](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/b80329507210) (2026-03-11, 96 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD6959098761.mp3
- [Remembering our daughter, the due date & our first marriage conference](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/20d118144fb3) (2026-03-04, 55 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD7128856382.mp3
- [Never Have I Ever w/ My Parents *TEA SPILLED*](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/d596a0c177c5) (2026-02-25, 65 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD8194616127.mp3
- [Brock, Boston & Kesley on Mormon taboos, surviving a plane crash, and waiting til marriage](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/bf44e44b06d4) (2026-02-18, 88 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD8141806273.mp3
- [Married Couple Answers Your Relationship Dilemmas (Cheating, Performance Anxiety, & Sleep Divorce)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/e16e57e1a1a7) (2026-02-11, 66 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD2405728026.mp3
- [Addressing your assumptions about us](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/49a030dcf80b) (2026-02-04, 62 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD5038495441.mp3
- [Mark Manson: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/64f2019e27af) (2026-01-28, 78 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD8276103821.mp3?updated=1774993925
- [A messy conversation about divorce](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/976c2ef7c37d) (2026-01-21, 64 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD8081733190.mp3?updated=1774993433
- [Tony Robbins: How to Build a Relationship that Lasts](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/26e54edca66f) (2026-01-14, 79 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD2912429253.mp3?updated=1774993152
- [Parenting through grief, career vs. motherhood, and raising confident kids - with the Abbys](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/fda2927dd331) (2026-01-09, 73 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD2430286071.mp3?updated=1773701013
- [Welcome to Plathville, Saving our first kiss, and the tragedy that broke my family w/ Lydia (Plath)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/cd8edb550171) (2026-01-07, 90 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD9223047642.mp3
- [Our origin story, marriage advice, & 2026 resolutions](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/4582145ba492) (2026-01-02, 75 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD2554809184.mp3?updated=1773701380
- [Our Emergency Room Visit & the Cost of Miscarriage in America](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/341ce79732d9) (2025-12-31, 68 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD3184192082.mp3
- [Welcome to Always Here](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/1ba3d6592f05) (2025-12-19, 1 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD9142550147.mp3
- [Married Couple plays Agree to Disagree *unhinged*](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/999ff96bd5fb) (2025-12-17, 84 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD6512065718.mp3
- [Growing up Duggar, 19 Kids and Counting, and cutting my dad out of my life w/ Amy Duggar King & Dillon King](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/a1cb3b9b83d8) (2025-12-10, 110 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD4601975114.mp3
- [Harvard Professor: Why marriages fail & the science of happiness w/ Arthur Brooks](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1669604504/5e81dd0d5b4f) (2025-12-03, 90 min): audio https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/433/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/ARTS0/tracking.swap.fm/track/3d6CsTAfO3grx1dlSbW7/traffic.megaphone.fm/QCD6841222000.mp3?updated=1770671709

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