# Second Date Update: Caleb Likes to Share and Jenna Does Not

An episode of [TJ & Amanda's 2nd Date Update](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1648065660), 21 Aug 2026, 5:34.

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## Transcript

[0:01] Speaker 1: The second Date update on kJ three, Caleb and okay,
[0:05] Speaker 1: see welcome the second date update.
[0:07] Speaker 2: Hey aleub Hi, good morning.
[0:09] Speaker 1: Let me get you another date with Jenna here. So,
[0:12] Speaker 1: I mean, all signs from your end at least that
[0:15] Speaker 1: this was.
[0:15] Speaker 2: A good date, right, Oh yeah, I mean we went
[0:18] Speaker 2: out for dinner, and I honestly I thought it was great. Uh,
[0:22] Speaker 2: you know, we couldn't get a table right away, so
[0:24] Speaker 2: we sat at the bar. We had a couple of drinks.
[0:26] Speaker 3: Nice.
[0:27] Speaker 2: It was very comfortable for both of us. I'm not
[0:30] Speaker 2: gonna lie. Her flirt game pretty strong. So so she
[0:35] Speaker 2: was selling some signals, yeah, faux show. She was selling
[0:39] Speaker 2: some signals, yes, yeah. But by the time we got
[0:44] Speaker 2: to there, you know, like our table, I was feeling
[0:47] Speaker 2: like fifth date energy. Dinner was smooth, the vibes were good.
[0:53] Speaker 2: I gave her a hug, and I just assumed, like
[0:56] Speaker 2: possibly we'd do it again. But I've tried asking her
[1:01] Speaker 2: out twice since then. In both times she says she
[1:05] Speaker 2: is busy, and now she's kind of barely responding to me.
[1:10] Speaker 2: So I don't know what I do. Maybe she's just busy.
[1:14] Speaker 1: You're gonna figure out how you screwed this up. Or
[1:16] Speaker 1: she's busy.
[1:17] Speaker 4: I'm always trying to be positive here.
[1:18] Speaker 2: Maybe she's really busy.
[1:19] Speaker 1: They say, you'll make time for what you want to
[1:22] Speaker 1: have time for. So let's see if we can make
[1:25] Speaker 1: make her find some time and hopefully get you another date.
[1:27] Speaker 2: Okay, okay, that would be great.
[1:30] Speaker 1: Hi Jenna, Hi, you sound a little more excited than
[1:34] Speaker 1: when we talked to you just a second again. Yeah,
[1:38] Speaker 1: you have some You have some thoughts on Caleb that
[1:41] Speaker 1: we need to find out what they are, because, honestly,
[1:45] Speaker 1: he said, you guys had drinks before dinner. By the
[1:47] Speaker 1: time he got to dinner, he felt fifth date energy,
[1:51] Speaker 1: you know, like he thought it was going great.
[1:53] Speaker 4: And I saw that energy too, And at first, oh.
[1:57] Speaker 2: At first, okay, okay, what happened?
[2:00] Speaker 4: Yeah? Well, this is just my thing. It's it's on
[2:04] Speaker 4: my nerves. Every time my pet peas, he kept mooching
[2:08] Speaker 4: my food. He orders his food, I order mine, and
[2:12] Speaker 4: as soon as my food comes out, he's like, can
[2:15] Speaker 4: I try that? Ah?
[2:17] Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay. Your territorial with your food is what
[2:22] Speaker 1: I call this.
[2:23] Speaker 4: Order your own food. He's like, can I can I
[2:26] Speaker 4: try your fries? Ooh, how's your sauce? Can I try that, like,
[2:31] Speaker 4: order your own food?
[2:33] Speaker 1: You really don't like this?
[2:34] Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a real pet heave. Oh, if you
[2:37] Speaker 4: wanted that, why didn't you order it?
[2:39] Speaker 1: Okay, Caleb, come on in here.
[2:41] Speaker 2: Well that's part of the experience. You know, you want
[2:44] Speaker 2: to try different foods.
[2:45] Speaker 1: Jenna, pass the play My kids call it passed the plate?
[2:48] Speaker 1: Were passed the plate?
[2:50] Speaker 4: Why not? No? No, if you want to try different foods,
[2:53] Speaker 4: you order those different foods.
[2:55] Speaker 2: You know, I offered you some of mine.
[2:57] Speaker 3: Don't forget can I didn't want your food because I
[3:00] Speaker 3: ordered my.
[3:01] Speaker 4: Own food, but you didn't even want it.
[3:06] Speaker 3: If you want fries, order fries, don't take mine.
[3:09] Speaker 1: Wait, she didn't finish it all, so he said, Caleb.
[3:11] Speaker 2: Yeah, no, she didn't finish it at all. No, she
[3:14] Speaker 2: didn't even finish any the plenty of food.
[3:16] Speaker 4: So yeah, this isn't a matter of scarcity mindset like
[3:20] Speaker 4: it's okay, No, it's that's irrelevance, Like I decide what
[3:23] Speaker 4: happens with the food I ordered. It's my food.
[3:27] Speaker 2: So you'd rather throw food away and like let me
[3:31] Speaker 2: have some just like a little bit.
[3:32] Speaker 3: Yeah, no, if you wanted that food, you should have
[3:35] Speaker 3: ordered that food.
[3:37] Speaker 4: That is a strong stance cross.
[3:39] Speaker 2: I think it's kind of crazy because you know, couples
[3:40] Speaker 2: they share food all the time.
[3:42] Speaker 1: I kind of want to go with Caleb. It is
[3:43] Speaker 1: kind of part of the experience.
[3:45] Speaker 3: We are not a couple, first of all, so a
[3:48] Speaker 3: couple of sure food, we're not a couple.
[3:49] Speaker 4: This was our first date, and you like.
[3:53] Speaker 3: Had your fork hovering over my plates.
[3:55] Speaker 4: But I was on board.
[3:57] Speaker 2: He was, I asked every time I was, I was like,
[4:02] Speaker 2: I didn't just take it, you know.
[4:05] Speaker 3: Which somehow makes it worse because then I'm like jilted
[4:08] Speaker 3: into either giving you my food or looking bad.
[4:11] Speaker 2: I mean, you could have just said you could have
[4:13] Speaker 2: just said.
[4:13] Speaker 3: No, and I am saying no right now.
[4:19] Speaker 1: There'll be no more food, Caleb, no more food ever
[4:22] Speaker 1: again ever from Jenna. And I'm also the person that's like,
[4:25] Speaker 1: what are we doing with those fries over there?
[4:27] Speaker 4: But I have some of those?
[4:29] Speaker 1: If he had kept his hands to his own plate,
[4:31] Speaker 1: would you be going out again?
[4:33] Speaker 3: Honestly?
[4:34] Speaker 4: I don't know. Like I it started awwread, but then
[4:38] Speaker 4: I couldn't even concentrate on anything other than defending my plate.
[4:45] Speaker 4: Interested not interested?
[4:47] Speaker 1: Okay, Caleb, She's not interested.
[4:50] Speaker 2: That's kind of unbelievable. I mean you you sound a
[4:53] Speaker 2: little selfish right now, Jenna.
[4:55] Speaker 4: And you sound like a food beef.
[4:56] Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I think we're not good anywhere here, Matt.
[4:59] Speaker 1: Thanks for coming on second date update next time. Okay, bye, Jenna.
[5:05] Speaker 1: But she really is bothering. That's intense, that's a that's
[5:08] Speaker 1: a lot.
[5:09] Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I don't I don't get this one at all,
[5:11] Speaker 2: because you know, if somebody orders something that looks good
[5:14] Speaker 2: and you say, hey, can I try a bite? That's normal,
[5:18] Speaker 2: you know, and she would have said no, I don't
[5:20] Speaker 2: share food, then you know I wouldn't have touched it
[5:22] Speaker 2: at all.
[5:22] Speaker 1: Got you listen, Sorry we didn't get you another date
[5:25] Speaker 1: or another bite. Thanks for coming on the second date update, buddy.
[5:29] Speaker 2: All right, thanks for trying to help me. I appreciate it.

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