# Second Date Update: Katie from OKC rushed thru her lunch date with Ethan

An episode of [TJ & Amanda's 2nd Date Update](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1648065660), 13 Aug 2026, 5:52.

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## Transcript

[0:01] Speaker 1: The second date update on.
[0:03] Speaker 2: kJ Let's get Katie from okac in here. Second date update.
[0:08] Speaker 3: Hey Katie, Hey Katie, how are you?
[0:11] Speaker 2: We were trying to figure out why Ethan's ghosting you
[0:14] Speaker 2: right now? I mean, what are your thoughts here?
[0:17] Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I don't know. I just I just want
[0:20] Speaker 3: to know what happened. So it started. We wat for lunch,
[0:23] Speaker 3: right and and that was really the only time other
[0:27] Speaker 3: of us had available, So it was kind of a
[0:28] Speaker 3: quick date, like forty five minutes. And I was a
[0:31] Speaker 3: little rushed because I had to get back to work,
[0:33] Speaker 3: you know. And I remember I kept apologizing because I
[0:36] Speaker 3: was like looking at my watch, trying to keep an
[0:38] Speaker 3: eye on the time. So maybe that annoyed him, maybe, sure,
[0:43] Speaker 3: like like I was acting like I was trying to
[0:46] Speaker 3: like I didn't want to do it, like I wanted
[0:47] Speaker 3: to get done with the date.
[0:48] Speaker 4: But I mean, I thought it was a quality first date.
[0:54] Speaker 4: You know, it was fun, he was nice, and I
[0:56] Speaker 4: just want to do over.
[0:58] Speaker 3: You know, well, well we have some time, you know.
[1:00] Speaker 2: Yeah, you were on a time crunch, and I get
[1:04] Speaker 2: that at least you made the effort. So yeah, one
[1:06] Speaker 2: of those deals where I've been there where You're like,
[1:08] Speaker 2: do you have somewhere to be? You know why, but
[1:11] Speaker 2: you did you had to be back to work. Yes, Okay,
[1:15] Speaker 2: we're gonna we're gonna make this good for you.
[1:16] Speaker 1: Okay, thank you. Okay, hey, are.
[1:22] Speaker 2: You trying to figure out how you are going to
[1:25] Speaker 2: do the second date? Update? Now you remember your date
[1:27] Speaker 2: with Katie now she admitted She's like, listen, I know
[1:30] Speaker 2: lunch was rushed and she was looking at her watch.
[1:35] Speaker 2: She's like, I really need to get going. She thinks
[1:37] Speaker 2: you maybe thought she just didn't want to be with you,
[1:40] Speaker 2: and she kind of wants to do a duel over
[1:41] Speaker 2: on that first date.
[1:43] Speaker 1: You don't seem to want to, let me tell you.
[1:46] Speaker 1: I'm like, so glad it was short. I mean any
[1:49] Speaker 1: longer probably would have lost my freaking mind.
[1:53] Speaker 4: Why Oh my gosh.
[1:56] Speaker 1: So she's like asking the server, could you bring me
[2:00] Speaker 1: for a napkins? Oh you know what, an a more
[2:03] Speaker 1: sauce packet, and then he'll bring him to the table
[2:06] Speaker 1: and like she puts him in a purse.
[2:10] Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, she's like yeah, taking supplies home like.
[2:18] Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm like, I'm like, you know that stuff
[2:22] Speaker 1: not for personal you Saige at home. It's like for
[2:26] Speaker 1: here and en plus it's lunch. The waiter's dizzy, so
[2:29] Speaker 1: like he's bringing you additional stuff so you could have
[2:33] Speaker 1: this stock pile of assortments at your house.
[2:37] Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, first of all, this sounds exactly like
[2:40] Speaker 2: something Amanda would do.
[2:41] Speaker 1: Oh yeah, take that home.
[2:43] Speaker 2: And secondly, Katie, is this is I mean, is that
[2:47] Speaker 2: really what happened? You were asking for extra things so
[2:50] Speaker 2: you could take me home?
[2:52] Speaker 3: Okay, Like it was not like that. He makes it
[2:55] Speaker 3: sound like I shoved everything into my purse, like as
[2:58] Speaker 3: soon as they brought it out, you know, I asked,
[3:01] Speaker 3: I wait until you were done eating everything, and then
[3:04] Speaker 3: I put stuff in my furse because you're getting ready
[3:05] Speaker 3: to go.
[3:06] Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. Like when you print in your purse,
[3:10] Speaker 1: it's still not stuff you're supposed to take home.
[3:13] Speaker 3: Listen, like one that's been sitting on your table right,
[3:17] Speaker 3: Like once they're printing, they're staying cable. It's not like
[3:20] Speaker 3: they're giving it to another customer, right, They're just gonna
[3:23] Speaker 3: throw it away.
[3:24] Speaker 2: Okay, I'll go with that.
[3:27] Speaker 1: So why'd you ask for two sets of plastic silverware
[3:32] Speaker 1: to take with your leftovers? Then?
[3:33] Speaker 3: Like like so I could eat the leftovers at work.
[3:37] Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, so two sets of silverware you're going
[3:41] Speaker 1: to share with the you share with someone at work? Right?
[3:44] Speaker 4: No, because sometimes I eat the leftovers over a period
[3:49] Speaker 4: of time.
[3:49] Speaker 3: I might eat the leftovers over a couple of lunches
[3:51] Speaker 3: at work they give you.
[3:53] Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Or because you're building a freaking restaurant
[3:58] Speaker 1: and you gotta all the supply in your closet home.
[4:00] Speaker 2: Right.
[4:02] Speaker 1: Also, Oh, okay, so what about the sugar packet taking
[4:06] Speaker 1: the sugar brackets?
[4:08] Speaker 3: I touched them.
[4:09] Speaker 4: I was trying to think and I touched them, and
[4:12] Speaker 4: they were just gonna get thrown away, So I'd rather
[4:15] Speaker 4: use it later and let it go to waste.
[4:17] Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'm just gonna bring this up. I think
[4:20] Speaker 2: my mom does this. My mom's a wonderful woman.
[4:23] Speaker 1: Amanda.
[4:23] Speaker 2: You you do this right, for sure, Amanda, You're a
[4:26] Speaker 2: wonderful person. So this is enough of a deal breaker
[4:30] Speaker 2: that you're like, nah, doesn't I can't date someone that
[4:34] Speaker 2: takes some things home from the restaurant?
[4:36] Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it totally is that. It's freaking low class
[4:40] Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, I'm good.
[4:41] Speaker 3: Oh no, oh please, dude, you took me up for
[4:45] Speaker 3: a hamburger. Okay, I'm like, that is really what a
[4:48] Speaker 3: high class be it?
[4:51] Speaker 1: Whatever?
[4:52] Speaker 3: No, I'm good okay, Actually me too, I'm good too.
[4:58] Speaker 2: Oh you're done to.
[5:00] Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, everybody's done.
[5:02] Speaker 1: This wasn't gonna work out.
[5:03] Speaker 2: We can agree on this, right, I mean the.
[5:08] Speaker 4: Place I'm not robbing, the restaurant I wasn't asking for,
[5:14] Speaker 4: like bosses of back customer is always right.
[5:17] Speaker 2: All right, we're gonna let you go eat it. Thanks
[5:20] Speaker 2: for coming on the second date update.
[5:22] Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Okay, thanks.
[5:24] Speaker 2: If you're gonna give me a giant portion, I might
[5:25] Speaker 2: need to set the silver word to eat it later.
[5:27] Speaker 1: That's on you forgive me a giant portion. I'm with her.
[5:30] Speaker 3: That's not that big of a deal. It was just
[5:32] Speaker 3: a few napkins and sugar whatever.
[5:36] Speaker 1: Okay, you're probably a great person and he's missing out
[5:38] Speaker 1: now for something, well you know what.
[5:40] Speaker 3: That's on him exactly.
[5:41] Speaker 2: Way to hold your ground. Thanks for coming on the
[5:44] Speaker 2: second date updates.
[5:45] Speaker 1: Thanks awesome.
[5:46] Speaker 3: Thanks so much for try. I appreciate it.

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