# Kayla says Brandon is Hot and Doesn't Know It

An episode of [TJ & Amanda's 2nd Date Update](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1648065660), 8 Oct 2026, 5:07.

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## Transcript

[0:01] Speaker 1: The Second Date Update on KJ103.
[0:04] Speaker 2: Hey, Kayla.
[0:07] Speaker 3: Welcome to Second Date Update. Kayla, from the email you
[0:10] Speaker 3: sent us, you're feeling some pretty hard vibes for Brandon.
[0:13] Speaker 1: Vibes. Definitely. So Brandon and I met on an app.
[0:17] Speaker 1: We matched and then we texted for like a week.
[0:20] Speaker 1: And then we had our first date and we went
[0:22] Speaker 1: out to dinner. Okay. Yeah, it was a good vibe.
[0:25] Speaker 1: He was funny. He was nerdy and really hot, which
[0:29] Speaker 1: is absolutely my type. Nerdy hot.
[0:31] Speaker 3: So that's like glasses kind of, you know, kind of
[0:35] Speaker 3: hot bod, but he doesn't really care about it that much.
[0:38] Speaker 2: Yes, exactly.
[0:39] Speaker 1: He has no idea how attractive he is, which is
[0:42] Speaker 1: really attractive.
[0:42] Speaker 2: Okay.
[0:43] Speaker 1: Definitely got the feeling that he was into me too.
[0:46] Speaker 1: And I mean, I did a little digging afterward, nothing crazy, but,
[0:50] Speaker 1: But as far as I can tell, he doesn't really
[0:52] Speaker 1: seem like he's out there trying to talk to a
[0:54] Speaker 1: bunch of women. So that made me feel even better
[0:57] Speaker 1: about him. Okay.
[0:58] Speaker 3: But now you're on the second date update, so he's
[1:00] Speaker 3: obviously not talking to you either, right?
[1:03] Speaker 1: Well, he texted me the next day saying, fun date,
[1:06] Speaker 1: let's hang out again soon, whatever. And then he started
[1:10] Speaker 1: really fading away, and now he's barely responding to me.
[1:13] Speaker 1: He's like, oh, I'll let you know, or he's busy,
[1:16] Speaker 1: and I just, I don't get it.
[1:17] Speaker 3: Well, we will get him on the phone.
[1:18] Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll call him.
[1:19] Speaker 3: Find out what's going on underneath those nerdy glasses.
[1:22] Speaker 1: Yeah, cutie.
[1:24] Speaker 3: And hopefully get you guys hooked up again, okay?
[1:26] Speaker 1: Thank you. Hey, Brandon. Hey, Brandon.
[1:29] Speaker 2: Hey.
[1:30] Speaker 3: Welcome to Second Date Update about your date with Kayla.
[1:33] Speaker 3: She was feeling some vibes.
[1:34] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[1:34] Speaker 3: Okay.
[1:35] Speaker 1: She likes you.
[1:35] Speaker 3: Why are you not wanting to go out again?
[1:38] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[1:38] Speaker 3: She felt a vibe, man.
[1:39] Speaker 1: What's the big deal here? Yeah.
[1:42] Speaker 2: She's kind of a schemer.
[1:45] Speaker 3: She schemes?
[1:46] Speaker 1: She schemes on you?
[1:47] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[1:48] Speaker 2: So the day after our date, some girls messaged me
[1:51] Speaker 2: on the app. And, you know, I don't respond whatsoever.
[1:55] Speaker 2: Then another girl messaged me on the same app. And
[2:00] Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, that's kind of weird. So I did
[2:04] Speaker 2: some research on Kayla's Instagram. And I'm looking at her pictures.
[2:09] Speaker 2: The pictures of those girls are both on Kayla's Instagram.
[2:13] Speaker 2: Both of these girls.
[2:15] Speaker 1: Oh, the girls that messaged you on the dating app?
[2:18] Speaker 2: Oh, okay. Wait, okay.
[2:20] Speaker 3: So you said she's a schemer. Do you think she
[2:24] Speaker 3: sent these girls in there, her friends, to see if
[2:27] Speaker 3: you were like a loyalty test?
[2:30] Speaker 2: I mean, these are the same girls, same faces. Come on.
[2:34] Speaker 2: She's trying to set me up here.
[2:36] Speaker 3: Wait, Kayla, come on in here.
[2:38] Speaker 1: Some people look alike.
[2:39] Speaker 2: They look alike and they have the same name.
[2:42] Speaker 1: Wait, okay, wait a minute.
[2:43] Speaker 3: Wait a minute, Kayla, Kayla, Kayla, Kayla. What he's accusing
[2:46] Speaker 3: you of is having your friends go into the dating app,
[2:51] Speaker 3: hit on him to, I don't know, see if he's
[2:53] Speaker 3: like a playa or something.
[2:54] Speaker 1: I mean, lots of people have the same names. Lots
[2:58] Speaker 1: of people look alike.
[3:00] Speaker 2: So two women who look exactly like your friends... with
[3:05] Speaker 2: the same names as your friends, both randomly message me
[3:08] Speaker 2: after our first date?
[3:09] Speaker 1: Look, I don't control what my friends do.
[3:14] Speaker 2: So they are your friends.
[3:16] Speaker 1: Are they your- No, I didn't say that. Did you
[3:19] Speaker 1: respond to them?
[3:19] Speaker 2: No.
[3:21] Speaker 1: I'm confused because, like, if these really are your friends,
[3:25] Speaker 1: they're not very good friends if they're hitting on the
[3:27] Speaker 1: guy you went on a date with.
[3:28] Speaker 3: But, Brandon, you're saying, no, you told your friends to
[3:32] Speaker 3: come in and hit on me?
[3:33] Speaker 1: Is that?
[3:34] Speaker 2: That's what it feels like. It feels like she had
[3:36] Speaker 2: her friends hit on me after our first date.
[3:40] Speaker 1: Is that what happened? Oh, you did? If somebody did
[3:44] Speaker 1: something like that, why would you care if you had
[3:47] Speaker 1: nothing to hide? If someone wanted to know whether a
[3:50] Speaker 1: guy was still looking around.
[3:53] Speaker 3: This would be something you would do.
[3:57] Speaker 1: Which, like, he should still be looking around after one date. So, like,
[3:59] Speaker 1: why does it even matter?
[4:00] Speaker 2: If she's already setting up traps for me now, what
[4:05] Speaker 2: happens if we actually start dating?
[4:07] Speaker 1: I see. Nobody set a trap. Okay. He's not buying it.
[4:12] Speaker 2: I don't know.
[4:12] Speaker 3: It feels like you're passing on another date here, Brandon.
[4:15] Speaker 2: Are we going out again?
[4:16] Speaker 1: I don't think he wants to.
[4:17] Speaker 3: Yes.
[4:18] Speaker 2: I am passing on another date.
[4:20] Speaker 1: Okay. All right.
[4:22] Speaker 3: Well, Brandon, thanks for coming on the Second Aid Update.
[4:25] Speaker 1: Thanks. All right.
[4:26] Speaker 3: Appreciate you, buddy.
[4:27] Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay.
[4:28] Speaker 3: Yeah. Okay, Kayla.
[4:29] Speaker 1: Kayla.
[4:30] Speaker 3: Now, if you did this.
[4:33] Speaker 1: If somebody wanted to make sure that a guy isn't
[4:35] Speaker 1: immediately trying to hook up with other women, having a
[4:38] Speaker 1: couple of friends check isn't the worst idea, right?
[4:41] Speaker 3: I mean, it's not.
[4:43] Speaker 1: A great idea. I don't love it.
[4:45] Speaker 3: I'm with you.
[4:46] Speaker 2: I don't love this idea.
[4:47] Speaker 3: I think it's kind of a good– I'm a schemer.
[4:50] Speaker 3: I would admit that's kind of.
[4:51] Speaker 1: A– But he caught on pretty quick, so it's not
[4:52] Speaker 1: a very good scheme. It didn't quite work here, girl.
[4:55] Speaker 3: It's not great. Well, I mean, so you– okay. Kayla,
[5:00] Speaker 3: thanks for coming on the second day. We appreciate you.
[5:03] Speaker 1: Thank you. Bye. Okay.

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