# 2nd Date Update: Roger from Midwest City wants to make Erin his Queen

An episode of [TJ & Amanda's 2nd Date Update](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1648065660), 17 Jul 2026, 6:09.

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## Transcript

[0:01] Speaker 1: The second date update on kJ three, Roger from Midwest
[0:06] Speaker 1: City on the second Date Update, Hi Roger, Hey, how
[0:09] Speaker 1: are you guys doing well?
[0:10] Speaker 2: We're trying to get you another date with Aaron.
[0:14] Speaker 3: Yeah. I would really like that to keep working out.
[0:18] Speaker 3: So Aaron, what can I say? Well? First off, the
[0:21] Speaker 3: girl was super hot, honestly I so I met her
[0:24] Speaker 3: at my friend Trevor's birthday party, and second she walked in,
[0:29] Speaker 3: I was like whoa who Yeah, I was like who
[0:34] Speaker 3: is this girl? You know, real like she was the
[0:36] Speaker 3: hottest person in the room. Didn't act like it at all,
[0:40] Speaker 3: super humble, really confident, you know, just all of that.
[0:45] Speaker 3: Uh definitely got her infels hit her up. The next day,
[0:49] Speaker 3: I stud to grab a smoothie bull at surf Bar.
[0:56] Speaker 2: That's good, like healthy to get to know you. First
[0:59] Speaker 2: date great, Yeah, it was really true.
[1:02] Speaker 3: We sat outside, we talked for an hour. I walked
[1:04] Speaker 3: away thinking I was like, Okay, I think I think
[1:07] Speaker 3: I got this. This can definitely go somewhere. Texture Later
[1:10] Speaker 3: that night, you know, I was like, hey, I had
[1:12] Speaker 3: a great time, and she said same with a little
[1:16] Speaker 3: smiley face. So I was like okay, okay, yeah, and
[1:19] Speaker 3: then it just got weird just started getting one word replies,
[1:23] Speaker 3: and I don't really know what to do with that,
[1:25] Speaker 3: like like cool, maybe a slow ghost come, Like she
[1:32] Speaker 3: ghosted me for real.
[1:33] Speaker 2: So gradual ghosting.
[1:35] Speaker 3: It's well, yeah, it's been six weeks now, so I'm
[1:38] Speaker 3: kind of like I should only move on.
[1:40] Speaker 1: But the rare combination of humble hot, if this was,
[1:46] Speaker 1: if this was the person that, like, you know, sparks
[1:49] Speaker 1: your flame instantly, we got to.
[1:50] Speaker 2: Get this try. So yeah, let's find out will help
[1:53] Speaker 2: me to heck out? Yeah, come on, well let's do it.
[1:56] Speaker 1: Okay, let's uh, we'll get Aaron on the phone and
[1:58] Speaker 1: we'll figure this out for Are you coming up all right?
[2:02] Speaker 3: Aaron?
[2:02] Speaker 1: Thanks for coming on the second date update. We know
[2:05] Speaker 1: you're busy, but we're trying to figure out why you
[2:07] Speaker 1: went from meeting Roger at a party, having a smoothie
[2:10] Speaker 1: bowl date, and then kind of just slowly ghosting him
[2:14] Speaker 1: after that.
[2:15] Speaker 3: Oh Rogers, he isn't that guy.
[2:19] Speaker 1: He's good looking at everything.
[2:21] Speaker 3: But yeah, when we were out, you know, like every
[2:28] Speaker 3: sentence started with when you're my girl?
[2:31] Speaker 2: Oh wait wait wait wait when like, yeah, when you're
[2:34] Speaker 2: my girl, we'll go to Vegas.
[2:36] Speaker 3: When you're my girl. You know I hook you up
[2:38] Speaker 3: with this private chef when you're my girl, you know
[2:41] Speaker 3: we're gonna go out and go by expensive gifts like Okay, okay,
[2:45] Speaker 3: I'm being so exact.
[2:50] Speaker 2: First of all, Roger Rogers trying to jump in. Yeah,
[2:53] Speaker 2: I'm curious now I want to know, yes, right.
[2:57] Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be honest. I was trying to show
[2:58] Speaker 3: you how I treat someone like that I care about,
[3:03] Speaker 3: And I don't know how that's a bad thing.
[3:05] Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's a level of like presumptiveness of like,
[3:09] Speaker 1: I haven't agreed to be your girl, So why are
[3:12] Speaker 1: we talking like it's going to happen already?
[3:15] Speaker 2: I mean, but but is this Roger?
[3:17] Speaker 1: It sounds like you were just saying like, well, I
[3:19] Speaker 1: mean if if we dated, we would have a lot
[3:21] Speaker 1: of fun together.
[3:22] Speaker 3: Right. What I was trying to say is that I
[3:24] Speaker 3: would spoil you. I would give you the world. So
[3:26] Speaker 3: if you're you saying that, you're like mad that I
[3:30] Speaker 3: wanted to spoil you, because I've been with any woman
[3:35] Speaker 3: I've ever been with has been all about that. Yeah,
[3:38] Speaker 3: but if you were getting to know, if you were tening,
[3:40] Speaker 3: like really get to know me, you might see that
[3:44] Speaker 3: that wasn't necessarily me there you go.
[3:47] Speaker 1: There's an element too of like you don't know me
[3:49] Speaker 1: well enough to know if you wanted me to be
[3:51] Speaker 1: your girl.
[3:52] Speaker 3: Yet. Really, I'm so sorry. That's That's not really where
[3:55] Speaker 3: I was trying to go with this, you know, I
[3:57] Speaker 3: just I want to get to know you and treat
[3:59] Speaker 3: you like the queen that you are. Yeah, it still
[4:03] Speaker 3: feels like a pitch, a pitch.
[4:06] Speaker 1: Like like he's trying to like he's trying to like
[4:10] Speaker 1: he's trying to trying to sell you to be his
[4:13] Speaker 1: What do I gotta do?
[4:14] Speaker 3: Like where is the chase and how do I cut
[4:16] Speaker 3: to it?
[4:17] Speaker 1: Aaron Rodger has said, like you walked in and you
[4:19] Speaker 1: were studying, and you went on the state and everything
[4:22] Speaker 1: was great, and I'm sure like he was like, Wow,
[4:24] Speaker 1: this is someone that I would like to, I don't know,
[4:27] Speaker 1: treat you like the queen that you deserve to be.
[4:29] Speaker 2: Is that nice? Awful?
[4:31] Speaker 1: No?
[4:31] Speaker 3: You just need it to be yourself and let me
[4:33] Speaker 3: be myself, not like oh, you're my girl, And you know.
[4:38] Speaker 2: He seems like he really wants another date though.
[4:40] Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I thought I was being
[4:43] Speaker 3: a gentleman. I mean, I didn't make you. I didn't
[4:45] Speaker 3: mean to make you feel any sort of way.
[4:47] Speaker 1: Really, last chance, would like, would you like to go
[4:52] Speaker 1: out with Roger again?
[4:54] Speaker 3: I'm sorry? No, okay, we try.
[4:58] Speaker 1: Oh sorry Roger, Roger I thought was that was that diabolical?
[5:03] Speaker 3: I just like I really did not expect that. Like
[5:06] Speaker 3: I thought this whole call thing was supposed to be
[5:09] Speaker 3: that you guys, that we could work this out. I
[5:13] Speaker 3: just I was just trying to show her that I
[5:15] Speaker 3: think she's special and different. Really didn't plan to treat
[5:18] Speaker 3: her that way.
[5:19] Speaker 2: But okay, all right, well Aaron, we're gonna let you go.
[5:21] Speaker 2: Thanks for coming on the second date update. Okay, I
[5:25] Speaker 2: don't know if you've ever listened to the second date update.
[5:28] Speaker 1: Most of the time it doesn't turn up that we
[5:30] Speaker 1: get to the second day.
[5:31] Speaker 3: I wish trying to give it don't usually work out because.
[5:38] Speaker 2: We want to work.
[5:39] Speaker 1: We try, Roger, it's it's we tried to broke her
[5:43] Speaker 1: that it obviously has it worked for you. I would
[5:45] Speaker 1: go out with you again, Roger if it were me,
[5:47] Speaker 1: but unfortunately it's not me.
[5:48] Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I should take you on the date.
[5:52] Speaker 2: Hey, when she's your girl, how are you going to
[5:54] Speaker 2: treat Amanda. Okay, Queen Baby, I heard it.
[5:57] Speaker 1: All right, Roger, thanks for coming on the second day. Okay, Man,
[6:01] Speaker 1: sorry this didn't work out for you, but hey, call
[6:03] Speaker 1: us anytime.
[6:03] Speaker 2: We'll do it anytime for you, Okay, all right.
[6:08] Speaker 3: M

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