# Crowning Ignorant Kings - Dr. Myles Monroe - Singleness, part 1

An episode of [Crowning Ignorant Kings](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1609667064), 30 Nov 2023, 1 h 10 min.

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People often mistake singleness as a curse or a punishment, but in reality, it is a gift and a goal. To seek to be married without first being single will leave your life in shambles, torment, and broken. The world's math says, your spouse is your better half, just 50% of a person. Marriage is 50/50 they will say. God's math says that 1 whole person, plus 1 whole person, plus 1 God, equals 1 complete being. Although the same tests will come, you will have a much greater foundation. Now, Let's Adjust Our Crowns! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/crowning-ignorant-kings--2714790/support. Crowning Ignorant Kings: The Online Kingdom Academy Follow this FREE plan to gather the resources that you need to learn more about experiencing the Kingdom of God on earth. Crowning Ignorant Kings: BLOG Crowning Ignorant Kings: The Kingdom Academy Crowning Ignorant Kings: Online Community

## Transcript

[0:09] You're listening to Crowning Ignorant Kings, a podcast for citizens with like minds who
[0:15] love God, follow Christ, and have a desire to be an ambassador for
[0:20] the Kingdom of Heaven on earth. We are John and Charlene Donaldson, who
[0:25] are teachers building a Kingdom community. Thank you again for joining us. Now
[0:30] let's sudjust our crowns. Good morning, everybody. It's good to be back
[0:42] in the great city of Atlanta in this area, and also to be with
[0:45] the most excited people in the world. The best people in the world are
[0:48] single people, and that is why I am still single. Standing there next
[1:00] to me is the most single woman I have ever met, and that's why
[1:03] I married her. Let's hold hands together. Please tell your neighbor it's good
[1:17] to touch an original. Tell your davy. If you knew who I really
[1:22] was, you would take me for lunch today. Absolutely true. The Word
[1:34] of God says wherever any too shall touch and agree concerning anything on the earth,
[1:41] it shall be done for them of our Father who is in heaven.
[1:45] Let's touch and agree right now. Father, thank you for filling this place
[1:49] with revelation knowledge. Thank you for wisdom from above to guide us and to
[1:53] apply to our daily living. Thank you for your promise that and become together
[1:57] in your name. You are all right in the midst of us to bless
[2:01] us. So I ask you, now, Lord, to invade our ignorance
[2:05] with your revelation, destroy our ignorance with your truth, and reveal to us
[2:09] the clarity of your principles, that we may live not only effectively, but
[2:15] we may live with a destiny. We thank you now for bringing us together
[2:19] to change us permanently. Speak to our hearts. Lord, in the name
[2:23] of Jesus. We expect it, we receive it in Jesus' mighty name.
[2:29] Amen, tell your neighbor watch me change right before your eyes. You may
[2:38] be seated. God bless you. I'd like for you to give a one
[2:42] welcome to the woman who have been married to for the past twenty five years.
[2:46] It's been wonderful. This is my lovely darling, wonderful, fantastic,
[2:57] beautiful, awesome wife, Ruth, the mother of the only two children I
[3:00] have on the planet, the woman that took my virginity away. And this
[3:09] year we are celebrating our silver jubilee year of marriage. It's a joy to
[3:15] marry the right person. It's a misery to marry the wrong person. She
[3:21] has been an asset of blessing every day of my life with her. Has
[3:24] been a positive influence in my life. It's been a joy and a pleasure
[3:28] of being married to her. I couldn't think of anyone better to live with
[3:31] than this woman. I tell you, I love you all my heart,
[3:34] my liver, my lungs, my pancras and everything. We please welcome Ruth
[3:38] Monroe. Thank you very much, good morning. It's really a joy to
[3:46] be here with you. How many of you are whole today? How many
[3:57] of you are enjoying the state you're in now? Amen, because you know
[4:04] the same misery that you're feeling now in this state you're going to take over
[4:10] in the state that you want to get in. So let's enjoy the state
[4:15] that we are in now. It's a process. It's a preparation for where
[4:19] we want to go. So if you are a whole person now, you're
[4:25] going to be a whole person for where you want to go. Amen.
[4:30] And for you singles, I want you to know that God is preparing you
[4:35] for whom He has prepared for you. So if you are looking for a
[4:46] maid, you want to be an asset because God will not bring a deficit
[4:53] to you. He's gonna bring someone to add to your life, to take
[5:03] you higher, not lower. So we are not gonna settle for anything less.
[5:12] We are always gonna settle for the best. Amen. So I encourage
[5:17] you to be strong. You are not alone. God says he will never
[5:23] leave you nor forsake you, no matter what state you are in. And
[5:28] He is preparing you. He's taking you through the process and you're gonna come
[5:32] out better, stronger, and even more mature for where He is taking you.
[5:42] Amen, and be encouraged. God only bring assets into our life.
[5:46] I can. I know I am an asset to him. He is better
[5:50] for marrying me. That's the way you have to feel. Anybody comes into
[6:05] your life, it's good for them. Amen. Amen. Oh boy,
[6:17] now you see why I married her. Huh. It's a joy to be
[6:23] here this morning. I know you had a great breakout sessions today, and
[6:27] uh, my job is to take you through to lunch. In other words,
[6:30] from here until lunch. So I hope you get yourself ready to go
[6:34] into some revelation. Uh, you can't hear me. Don't blame me,
[6:45] only my wife turns me on, so they better turn me on. Amen.
[6:56] Is that better? Now? Just a little bit more? All right,
[7:00] get your bibles pleased on a clean sheet of paper. I want to
[7:05] do two things today, and we're gonna take a break to come up for
[7:11] air. I want to speak on this subject single but not Alone. My
[7:28] subtitle today is the advantage of being single, the advantage of being single,
[7:36] And I believe that it's important to begin today with the worst scenario, and
[7:45] the worst scenario is a broken relationship. I don't think there's anything worse than
[7:51] a divorce. Some of you are here today because you are divorced. You've
[8:00] become what you call single again. I don't call it that, I call
[8:05] it unmarried. Those of you who are here today who have never been married,
[8:11] maybe you came from a family that has been divorced. Your mother and
[8:16] father got a divorce, and you know how tragic and traumatizing that is.
[8:22] It's very difficult to survive a divorce. There's nothing worse than going through a
[8:30] relationship that falls apart, that we call a broken heart. Some of you
[8:37] have never been married, but you've gone through the experience of a divorce,
[8:41] and what that means is you had given yourself to someone at a certain level
[8:46] of emotional attachment and then something went wrong in that relationship. Maybe you were
[8:52] engaged to be married, or maybe you went with a man or a woman
[8:54] for a few years and then it didn't work and you went through a very
[8:56] difficult tearing of that relationship, and so you did have some kind of experience
[9:01] of what a divorce feels like. There's no human experience more tragic than a
[9:07] divorce. Divorce is defined as the death of a relationship. Write that down.
[9:18] A divorce is the death of a relationship. Again, that may not
[9:24] be necessarily between two married people. It may even be between two people who
[9:28] have been very close for a few years and then something went wrong and your
[9:33] heart goes through that trauma that relationship died. Divorce is worse than physical death.
[9:43] The answer to most people's question why is divorced so tough, The answer
[9:50] is because divorce is worse than physical death. Some of you are nodding your
[9:56] head because you've been through that. You've been married for a few years and
[9:58] then some went wrong with the relationship. And the reason why it's worse than
[10:03] physical death. And I want the people who have never been married to understand
[10:05] this so that you can slow down. Because you think that marriage is a
[10:11] solution. It's not a solution. Why is divorce worse than physical death Because
[10:22] divorce is a debt without a burial. It is better for a person to
[10:33] die than for them to get a divorce and still be alive. Why because
[10:46] when someone dies physically, you can bring what they call closure to it.
[10:54] You can cry, go to a wake, you can have a funeral,
[11:01] you can weep over the grave. You can put the body in the ground,
[11:05] you can cover it up with dirt, you can put a marker on
[11:09] it, you can put a wreath on it. You can leave the cemetery
[11:13] and never go back. It's over and you never see them again. So
[11:18] you can bring closure to it. But when you get a divorce, the
[11:22] depth of relationship, it's burial free. There's no burial involved. Because when
[11:31] you get a divorce, you can't put the person in a hole. I
[11:37] know you wish you could, but you can't. You can't put dirt on
[11:43] top of them. I know you think about it often. You can't put
[11:46] them in a cemetery and leave them forever. The problem is they keep resurrecting
[11:54] in the food store, when you turn a corner, when you go to
[11:58] school to pick up the kids, as the resurrection again. When it's time
[12:03] to pay alimony or not pay it, or meet at the courtroom to get
[12:07] it, when you go to see the kids, or to bring the kids,
[12:11] or to exchange the kids, there's this resurrection and the pain keeps opening
[12:16] up. It's the worst kind of death, the death of relationships. That's
[12:24] why you do not want to get a divorce. The Bible has no arrangements
[12:31] for divorce. God made no arrangements for divorce, none at all. So
[12:37] nobody wants to experience a divorce nobody. Now, if any of you who
[12:43] have never been married would like to know how horrible divorce is, I want
[12:48] you to find someone in this seminar who've been through a divorce and let them
[12:52] talk to you. I guarantee you they will talk you out of marriage.
[12:58] Anybody. I'm talking about them. Those hands hees honest. See the divorce
[13:01] people, it's a horrible experience. And by the way, there's no way
[13:05] to solve it. You are permanently damaged. Why because divorce is not the
[13:13] parting of two people. It's the ripping of two souls. Parts of you
[13:20] are gone forever in the other person. And that is why the Bible has
[13:26] no solution for divorce except the miraculous healing of the Holy Spirit. It says
[13:35] in the Book of Luke, chapter four, it says, when the Spirit
[13:39] of God comes through the Messiah, it says he will open the prison to
[13:46] the prisoners, he will give sight to the blind, and then it says
[13:52] he will heal the broken hearted. In other words, the only solution to
[13:58] the pain of divorce is an actual healing by Jesus. A psychologist cannot help
[14:05] you with a divorce under pain of it. That's why most psychologists are divorced
[14:09] themselves. So this conference is to prepare you and to help you not make
[14:18] mistakes, not deal with the danger of having to go into a relationship.
[14:26] Now, let me just say this carefully. Divorce is impossible without marriage.
[14:30] Write that down place. I know it sounds simple, but you keep missing
[14:33] that. You cannot get a divorce unless you married. Secondly, marriage is
[14:43] impossible without individuals, So you need marriage to get a divorce, but you
[14:48] need individuals to get married. So the prerequisite for divorce is marriage and the
[14:54] prerectit for marriage is individuals. And thirdly, marriage, because of the prorections
[15:05] of a divorce is more important than divorce. Now, if marriage is necessary
[15:13] for divorce and individuals are necessary for marriage, then the most important thing in
[15:20] relationship is not divorce nor marriage, it's individuals. We put it this way,
[15:26] singleness is the prerequisite for marriage. Now, I'm gonna give you some
[15:35] definition and understanding of this concept because one of the biggest difficulty of today is
[15:41] that people keep thinking that singleness is a problem. Singleness is not a problem.
[15:50] Me talk about the key to marriage a little bit. First of all,
[15:54] your marriage is only as good as your singleness, So stop concentrating on
[16:03] getting married. Your relationships are as good as you are, no less and
[16:19] no more. You bring to the marriage what you are when you walk down
[16:33] the aisle in your white dress and your tuxedo. Whatever is wrapped up in
[16:38] those clothing is what the other person gets. Nothing happens at the altar.
[16:55] If you are lazy before you arrived, they are taking a lazy person home.
[17:03] If you are stingy before you arrived, they are taking a stingy man
[17:07] home. If you are stupid before you arrive, you got a well dressed
[17:14] stupid person. No more, no less. If their feet smell before they
[17:22] came to church, you take stinking feet home with you. Er very important.
[17:36] No miracles happen at the altar, just faith. In words, Singleness
[17:45] is a myth. It's a myth. To me, it's not real.
[17:51] And I want to destroy the myth of singleness today. I want to give
[17:56] you a good pointer to write down, and that is it's okay to be
[18:02] single, but it's not okay to be alone. Matter of fact, God
[18:11] wants you to be single. What he doesn't want is for you to be
[18:15] alone. The first defect that God found in his creation was this defect that
[18:23] he called alone. God normally, in his creative process, makes everything perfect.
[18:32] But the first thing God found wrong or defective in his product was the
[18:36] fact that he called this is alone. And this is not good for me.
[18:41] It is not good for the product to be alone. Let me just
[18:47] clap a point here and that it's not a singleness problem that we have.
[18:52] It's the problem of being single. It's a difference. Think we have a
[19:00] singleness problem, No, we don't. Our problem is being single. You
[19:08] should never get married until you are single. I'm gonna pause for you to
[19:17] get that point. I'm gonna say it very slowly. You should never get
[19:22] married until you are single. Most people get married because they are alone.
[19:34] People get married because they feel lonely. They don't get married because they were
[19:37] single single, and that's why you should never marry a person until they're single.
[19:52] We keep confusing singleness with being alone, and there's a difference. Relationships
[19:59] get better the more single you become. My marriage has been a rich,
[20:07] wonderful experience for twenty five years because my wife and I continue to be single,
[20:15] and every day we improve in our singleness. Singleness is more important than
[20:26] marriage, and most of you in this room have never been single. All
[20:34] you've been is unmarried. And thank god, I was thinking when I was
[20:47] flying from Los Angeles here last night about the fact that most of you I'm
[20:53] going to meet today need to ask yourself a question, and the question is,
[21:00] if you knew you the way you know you, would you marry you?
[21:15] Think about it. Think about your bad breath in the morning. Would
[21:19] you like to wake up next to that bad breath? What about your secret
[21:23] habits not bathing when you should, stinking socks, smelly underwear. I mean,
[21:30] would you sleep with that? Don't get funny on me. Now you
[21:34] might as well accept this and you asking people to take that home with them
[21:42] for the rest of their lives. Yeah, Singleness is a state to be
[21:56] pursued, not avoided. And that's why it's important to have this session because
[22:03] we keep misunderstanding the concept of singleness. It's a myth. We think singleness
[22:11] is a negative. Singleness is the most positive thing in the world, and
[22:15] it is the key to relationships. As a matter of fact, to be
[22:19] single should be the goal of every married person. As that for a confusing
[22:22] statement. The more single you are, the more successful your relationships will become.
[22:32] Not just marriage, I'm talking about friendships. Some of you get horrible
[22:36] friendships and they keep falling the part and their attention all the time, and
[22:40] you cannot get along with your friends because you are not yet single. Could
[22:45] you imagine getting married like that? You can't even keep friendships because you are
[22:52] having difficulty with your own singleness. Then talk about this very quickly. There's
[23:00] actually God's idea. It's God's original foundational plan for you. And let me
[23:04] show you some perspective. Matthew nineteen was read earlier. Let me just read
[23:08] it for you. Please turn that. I want you to underline this chapter
[23:11] for me very quickly. Matthew. Chapter nineteen is an important chapter. It
[23:15] starts out with a question in verse three, asked by the religious leaders to
[23:21] Jesus Christ, our Lord, And they said to him, is it lawful
[23:23] for a man to put away his wife for any and every reason? Again,
[23:26] he's talking about they talking about divorce, he answered, haven't you read
[23:33] that at the beginning? It was not so because the creator made them male
[23:40] and female. Stop reading right there. That's a powerful statement. They're talking
[23:45] about divorce. He ignored them. They're talking about a broken heart. He
[23:49] ignored them. He says, look, you guys talking about something that I
[23:52] know about. You talking about divorce and broken homes and broken facts families and
[24:00] where were children? You talking about her emotions and traumatizing your children. You
[24:06] talk about people fighting and beating up each other and domestic problem. He said,
[24:10] Look, in the beginning, it was not so. He took them
[24:15] behind the Genesis chapter three, back to chapter one, and he said,
[24:22] in the beginning, God watched my lips, did not create marriage. Watched
[24:33] my lips Again in the beginning. God did not create marriage. That's what
[24:41] he really was saying. They say, should a man divorced his wife?
[24:45] And in every reason, he said, no, no, no, it
[24:47] doesn't begin with marriage. He says, in the beginning, God made them
[24:49] male. He didn't make marriage. He made male first, and then he
[24:56] made a female and they got married. You are beginning with the wrong thing.
[25:02] You're beginning with the product of marriage. I'm beginning with the ingredients for
[25:07] marriage. Oh, I'm getting ready to talk to myself. He said,
[25:12] Look, you guys are focusing on marriage and divorce, and God's focusing on
[25:17] male and female. If you want never to experience a divorce, he says,
[25:26] you must begin with the male and the female in the beginning. Very
[25:34] important. He said, Look, God doesn't know what you're talking about,
[25:42] and I'm God, I don't know what you're to talk He says, I
[25:45] don't know what you're talking about. All I know is from the beginning,
[25:48] we made male, we made female. You guys made divorce. I never
[25:56] made divorce. Don't know what you're talking about. That's an ens of Moses.
[26:03] All I made was male and female in the beginning. Hey, boys,
[26:07] in the beginning, that's important, because you don't want to marry anybody
[26:11] who is not in the beginning. See, there are two males and there
[26:18] are two females. Let me tell you who they are. There's a female
[26:22] in the beginning, and there's female after chapter three. There's a male in
[26:30] the beginning, and there's a beginning. There's a male after chapter three.
[26:36] And if you marry an after chapter three male, you married a hazard.
[26:49] That's prove it. He says. For this reason should a man leave his
[26:55] mother and father and cleave unto his wife? And the two shall no longer
[27:00] be two but one? For what reason? He gave us the reason?
[27:04] The reason is they must be male and female in the beginning. That means
[27:11] the only time you should leave your mother and your father is when you found
[27:15] someone who is in the beginning. Oh boy, So your first question when
[27:25] a man looks at you and says he wants to marry you should not be
[27:27] do you love me? But where are you located? Are you before Genesis
[27:37] three or after Genesis three? Are you back in the garden or are you
[27:41] in the bush? We need to know or I need two days to talk
[27:48] about this. When she winks at your brother and say you're you're cute.
[27:55] Just say, baby, where are you located? Are you before Jenesis three
[27:59] or to Genesis three? That becomes your determination for a long term relationship.
[28:07] Why because that's the reason to leave home. We keep leaving the security of
[28:18] our homes to enter tents, shacks, shacking up. They neighbors, stay
[28:40] home. At least you know where it is. Crap your hands right there,
[28:45] that's right, you know where home is. I watched this verse six,
[28:56] So they are no longer two, he says, but one. Therefore,
[29:00] what God joins together, Let no acts old boyfriend, old girlfriend,
[29:15] or lawyer. For a suddener whom God joins together, he says, let
[29:27] no lawyer, no judge, no act, boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse
[29:40] or even prophet. Put asunder, the emphasis here is whom God joins together.
[29:57] God does not marry every The only people that God actually marries are the
[30:07] ones Jesus says qualifies in the beginning. So every marriage that is not in
[30:18] the beginning qualification is married by the state. Me put it another way,
[30:29] coming to a church building and standing here does not guarantee that God join you
[30:36] together. Most of the marriages that I have seen in churches should not have
[30:48] been done in churches. They should have gone to the downtown registrar office and
[30:55] let some legal person just kind of speak over them. Why because if they
[30:59] join you together when you're ready, they can put you asunder. Let me
[31:04] prove how that's so crazy. You come before God, you say to get
[31:10] married, but then you go before the lawyer and the judge to get divorced.
[31:12] That's confusing to me. If you come before God to be put together,
[31:22] then when you're ready to be put apart, invite everybody back. Come
[31:29] on, let's talk about this. Get the bridesmade, get the groom's men,
[31:33] get the music, get all the flowers, and make sure God is
[31:37] present, and say now we want to be put asunder. I dare you?
[31:45] How dare you come before God to be married and go before the judge
[31:52] to be divorced? You hypocrite you. I have a suggestion, whenever you
[32:10] are about to print your wedding invitations, put on the bottom, and if
[32:17] we plan to get a divorce, keep this invitation. That's how ridiculous it
[32:29] is to walk down these aisles in a white dress and the blues and in
[32:32] dark south until God I do before him and go before a judge and says,
[32:37] I don't verse nine anyone who divorces his wife except for married to unfaithfulness
[32:49] and marriage. Another woman commits adultery. She said, Look, I didn't
[32:52] pray divorce. I don't agree with it, he says, but at least
[32:57] I'll give you a standard. The standard is you shouldn't even think about divorce
[33:02] unless the other party has violated the marriage bed. In other words, the
[33:13] only qualification God allowed for you to do what you invented was sexual corruption.
[33:30] Now why does he use the word adultery. I'm gonna give you a quick
[33:35] lesson. According to Jesus, there's no other grounds for divorce. You can't
[33:44] say, well, I don't love him anymore, I don't love him anymore.
[33:49] It doesn't qualify for divorce. Or we outgrew each other, still ain't
[33:55] qualified. Or I got saved, still ain't qualify. The only way out
[34:10] of what you can't wait to get in is adultery. That means that right
[34:23] now in heaven, God have a lot of people already and still married who
[34:28] already divorced on earth, they're still married in heaven. Gods it know they
[34:30] ain't qualified or they're married that's why they keep committing adultery over and over gaining
[34:35] other people. Cause far as Heaven is concerned, you are still married.
[34:49] Let me give you another challenge. If you get married. Listen carefully.
[34:53] This is scriptural standard now, not religious standard. Cause religion. You know,
[34:59] they makes their own stand. That Christianity is a religion, it makes
[35:01] its own standard. I'm talking about the Bible, not a kingdom. The
[35:07] kingdom says, if you marry a person and you decide to separate, you
[35:14] cannot marry anybody else, no matter how long, as long as that other
[35:22] person does not commit adultery. So a lawyer and a church cannot destroy a
[35:31] marriage in God's kingdom. The only one that can destroy a marriage in God's
[35:37] kingdom is an adulterer. So if you decide you can't live with somebody anymore,
[35:52] not on the grounds of adultery, and you live apart, God's watching
[35:58] because in heaven you're still married. And I don't care how many women who
[36:01] wink at you, or how many men wink at you and say they love
[36:04] you. You can't get involved. Why in heaven you're still married. As
[36:09] long as another person does not commit adultery, you are married. Before God.
[36:16] It's this kingdom standard. Now, when they commit adultery and you know
[36:22] and prove it, you are free to marry again. That's the grounds of
[36:29] kingdom. Do you know why? Because whenever you get married and you constuate
[36:36] that marriage with sex, blood is spilled. That's why two men cannot consu
[36:44] made a marriage. And that is why two women cannot consume made a marriage.
[36:58] Why there's no bloo good covenant possible. See, marriage is not about
[37:14] rings, you know in santh Franl it's gonna in San Francs, it's gonna
[37:17] keep putting rings. It ain't about rings. It's about blood. Oh,
[37:22] you don't understand. It's about blood. That's why the Bible talks so much
[37:29] about the blood, because the blood is the foundation of both life and death.
[37:36] Life and death is in the blood. That's why every female comes to
[37:44] Earth locked up, completely locked up, comes packaged, locked up. Every
[37:52] female, every female comes to the planet locked up. And the designer did
[37:59] a good job. He locked her up with a little film of skin called
[38:01] the peani And that peanut of skin is filled with blood. Is actually an
[38:06] organ, the doctors say, and all the organ supplies is blood. It
[38:09] locks her up, and the only way to open up a female is to
[38:16] spill blood on yourself and her. It's a blood covenant. So when a
[38:29] woman is opened by a man for the first time, there's a covenant cut.
[38:32] No matter what you say, God marks in having a little note covenant
[38:45] follow me. Now, that's why sex is only relegated to marriage, because
[38:53] you don't want to cut a covenant with anybody who ain't gonna be with you
[38:58] forever. So my wife and I got a covenant on our wedding night,
[39:13] blood on both of us. As a matter of fact, if you read
[39:15] the scriptures carefully, you'll understand how deep this thing is to God. God
[39:20] told Moses that when a man or woman got married, when they went into
[39:23] the wedding bed the first night, the priest had to stand outside the door
[39:30] waiting for the sheet. We need to and standing next to the priest read
[39:45] the Old Testament, was the whole community and their parents with stones in their
[39:52] hands. And if the sheet came out and there was nothing on it,
[39:57] somebody died. We need to bring that back. Clap loud, don't get
[40:15] nervous. I know some of y'all ain't got no sheet at all, right,
[40:16] now, but I'm gonna help you. But that's how serious God takes
[40:25] the covenant. I'm talking to singles. Watch this. So when the blood
[40:40] covenant is cut between me and my wife in that marriage bed undefiled, that
[40:47] means there's no problem in the bed. Then if I was to have sex
[40:54] with another woman, I cut another covenant. Now you know the principle of
[41:04] covenant is the only way to break a covenant is to cut a new one.
[41:10] That's why you got the Old Testament covenant and the New Testament covenant.
[41:15] I wouldn't broke the covenant. It was blood on the cross. Oh you
[41:21] don't get it. So the blood of bulls and goats and sheep and turtle
[41:30] doves in the Old Testament was a covenant that lasted for one year. But
[41:34] here comes Jesus, the Lamb of God. He's gonna cut another covenant.
[41:37] This one is forever. That's why the Bible says when the new covenant was
[41:44] cut, the old was done away with it, and he has a better
[41:49] covenant. But it was what blood. So when a man or woman commits
[41:59] adultery, they cut another covenant, which means that the old one is dead.
[42:06] That is why the person is free to marry again. In my book
[42:20] I listed it's a long title. I know you probably got a copy of
[42:22] it. It's called Single, Married, Separated, and then Life after the
[42:29] Divorce. Please read the whole book. You see, first you're single,
[42:32] then you get married. But what about separation. There's some folks in here
[42:37] who ain't divorced yet. They just separated for years and they think they're free.
[42:40] You're still not free. If you just separated in heaven't God still got
[42:45] your tied. Doesn't married unless that other person committed adultery. That means once
[43:00] you get married in the Kingdom. Now let me just say this. This
[43:05] is a hopefully Christian conference, Am I right? Are you sure? So?
[43:14] There are no homosexuals in here, There are no lesbians in here,
[43:37] but there are believers in the Word of Garden here, which means that you
[43:46] are not a normal singer. That means I am judging you according to not
[44:02] all program free show, but according to this book. Am I right?
[44:13] Say amen? Loud? All right? So I could talk to you from
[44:16] this book. This book dictates how you live your single life, not ebony.
[44:46] My job today is to frighten you so you don't get married because someone
[45:00] You've got this weird idea that all your problems will be solved if you could
[45:07] just get married, And this book teaches the complete opposite. In Rice Corinthians,
[45:17] chapter seven, it says, if you are not married, it is
[45:22] good to stay that way, for if you do get married chapter seven,
[45:29] you shall have many troubles. Tell your neighbor, I can't wait to get
[45:37] in trouble. Some of you came to this conference. You ain't looking for
[45:50] God, You're looking for trouble. But I'm gonna meet me a fine lady
[45:54] there. Brother mm hm, I'm mean a fine brother there. No,
[45:58] you're gonna meet a lot of trouble. According to the word of God.
[46:01] You think you got problems as an unmarried person, just get married. And
[46:10] the only way out as a believer is adultery, not domestic violence, not
[46:21] emotional stress, not abandonment of kicking or slapping or cussing at you. You're
[46:28] still not out, God says, you're still in. The Only way out
[46:39] is for your spouse to break the covenant of blood. The disciples heard this,
[46:50] so here's what they said. In verse ten, the disciples said to
[46:53] him, now they're listening to him to talk. They said, okay,
[46:57] then if this is the situation between the husband and wife, then it is
[47:05] better not to marry. Give them a hand. That's my guys. Come
[47:13] on, everybody clap that. Disciples says. Look see they understood him.
[47:20] They said, my goodness, if you get in, there's only one way
[47:22] out. See Peter, I believe the one who said that because he was
[47:25] married already. He was catching hell from sister Peter, and Jesus just locked
[47:36] the door on him. You can't get out unless it's to Peter sneak with
[47:40] another man. Peter went, my Godter shouldn't have get married. The point
[47:45] is that Disciples understood the standard of marriage, and it was so high.
[47:53] They said, it's safer not to get in it. And most of you
[48:00] can't wait to get in it. We keep making the same mistakes. Let's
[48:10] talk about the principle of singleness there. Why is it so important therefore to
[48:15] be single? To Jesus, he said, male and female is more important
[48:19] than marriage. Singleness is the most important state of human development. Number two.
[48:27] Singleness is the foundation of God's design for human family. I didn't say
[48:30] marriage is that. Singleness is. It's the foundation of God's plan for the
[48:36] human family. It is singleness, not marriage. Very important. Number three.
[48:39] God began the human family with a one single human being, not a
[48:45] couple. I've heard people say we're the foundation of society is the family.
[48:54] That's not true. That's not what God started with. Some say the foundation
[49:00] of the society is marriage. Still not true. That's not what God started
[49:07] with. Today, there are six point seven billion people on Earth, six
[49:15] point seven billion, and God only made one from the soil. He never
[49:24] went back. God built the entire six billion people on one human being on
[49:38] the bottom. You know, and I know hopefully that when you're gonna build
[49:46] something, the most important thing is the foundation. Every building is only as
[49:57] valuable as its foundation. And God did not build the building of the human
[50:05] family on a couple. He built it on one. All of God's instructions
[50:15] were not given to a couple. They were only given to one. Oh
[50:22] hear me. The day, please, God created one human being, put
[50:28] that one human being in the garden, told that one human being Verse fifteen,
[50:34] chapter two, to work, cultivate, protect God, and keep his
[50:38] word. One person. He told that one person to have responsibility for the
[50:50] planet. And when that one person got all the information, the instructions and
[50:55] the directives. Then God said in verse eighteen, it is not good for
[51:00] this one person to be alone. I'm gonna say this again. All the
[51:10] instructions, all the directives were given to one person. That means, when
[51:17] you meet a person hear me please, and they are interested in you or
[51:27] you in them, stop talking about love. Don't talk about love. That's
[51:32] the problem. Find out did you get the instructions yet? Oh hallelujah,
[51:45] right the way it's eating down. Let me show you the first instruction is
[51:49] the one you keep missing. Everybody say Eden, there's a book called there.
[51:52] Hopefully they got it. I wrote this book after twenty years of research.
[51:54] The book is called The Purpose for Praise and Worship, And it's not
[51:59] about praiser and worship about Eden. The white Eden means presence or moment or
[52:07] spot. It's a strange word. It means presence, moment or spot.
[52:12] In other words, the white Eden is not a place. That's why you
[52:15] can't find eating today. No one can find eating. They never found eating.
[52:17] No archaeologists have found Eden. They can find everything up that they can't
[52:21] find eating. What Eden was not a place? It was an environment,
[52:24] an atmosphere. It was the presence of God. Oh, I want to
[52:31] talk about this. And the first place God put this one human being,
[52:37] the first place was not in the presence of a woman. The first place
[52:47] he put this person is in eden the presence of God, which means the
[52:57] first place you shouldn't meet a person. It's not at a singles club a
[53:07] church party. Ooh ooh. The first place you need to aks them if
[53:16] they love, is not your presence. And that's just the first instruction.
[53:34] If you meet a man who is ashamed to lift his hands, forget it.
[53:44] I meet it today, don't even give him a second thought. Yah,
[53:57] God, I need to be a little longer. See, if a
[54:00] man doesn't love the presence of God, you shouldn't like his presence. Brother.
[54:13] If you gotta leave church building to go and find a woman in a
[54:17] club, that's the wrong woman. Brother. If a woman doesn't love to
[54:22] worship, she's gonna make a bad wife. If a man doesn't like God's
[54:30] presence, you got a mildfunctioning male. And that's just number one. Now,
[54:45] seeing most women make this mistake. Men do it too, but women,
[54:49] most of the time, they would leave the church to go and find
[54:54] a hoodloom, marry him, and then try to drag him to eat.
[55:00] You are going to Eden, Yes you are, Oh, yes you are.
[55:10] Doesn't work and some of you are divorced right now because you violated the
[55:21] first requirement. You thought he would love God after you got married. Listen
[55:29] to me, please buy the CD. I'm gonna say it once. If
[55:32] he didn't change to get you, he won't change to keeping. God did
[55:51] not begin the human family with a couple. Stop making that mistake. He
[55:57] began it with what one Korah Bahashi Brasata. Write this down, God forever
[56:15] establish the foundation stone for all relationships, and that is the single individual.
[56:28] It is more important to be single than to be married. I believe we
[56:39] need more single conferences than married conferences. If we got the single conferences worked
[56:45] out right, we'll need less marriage conferences. Very important. And by the
[57:00] way, let me just say this, don't believe what anyone tells you when
[57:05] they love you, my God, cause everything is a fake. That sent
[57:15] you smell that ain't real. All up perfume and cologne they got all over
[57:21] that. Mm mm. They're here always fixed mm mm. Brother, you
[57:24] can see her in the morning. It em. You were created single,
[57:44] is't not beautiful? God made you by your self. This is very important.
[57:51] Genesis one twenty seven says, so God created man male and female.
[58:02] Created He them, He made them male and female. The next verse says,
[58:10] and God bless them, God bless you them? Who's them? Their
[58:16] male and female? Very important? Who did God bless male and female?
[58:28] Who did God bless male and female? Who did God bless male and so
[58:35] got the blessing the male and the female. Now the opposite of blessing is
[58:40] cursing. So God bless male and female. Then if you bring to him
[58:52] a male and a male or a female and a female, loose use your
[59:06] logic. Mm hmm. If he bless male and female, then obviously if
[59:15] you bring male and male, they're gonna get the opposite of a blessing.
[59:27] Mm hmm. Hallelujah. That's why every female comes to Earth locked up,
[59:35] completely locked up, comes packaged, locked up. Every female, every female
[59:43] comes to the planet locked up. And then the designer did a good job.
[59:50] He locked her up with a little film of skin called the peni,
[59:52] and that female of skins filled with blood. It's actually an organ, the
[59:55] doctors say, and all the organ supplies it locks her up. And the
[1:00:02] only way to open up a female is to spill blood on yourself and her.
[1:00:15] It's a blood covenant. So when a woman is opened by a man
[1:00:20] for the first time, there's a covenant cut. No matter what you say,
[1:00:23] God mosks in having a little not covenant. Follow me enough. That's
[1:00:37] why sex is only relegated to marriage, because you don't want to kind of
[1:00:45] covenant with anybody who ain't gonna be with you forever. So my wife and
[1:00:55] I call a covenant on our wedding night, blood on both of us.
[1:01:05] Matter of fact, if you read the scriptures carefully, you'll understand how deep
[1:01:07] this thing is to God. God told Moses that when a man of woman
[1:01:10] got married, when they went into the wedding bed the first night, the
[1:01:15] priests had to stand outside the door waiting for the sheet. We need to
[1:01:24] bring that back, and standing next to the priest read the Old Testament,
[1:01:37] was the whole community and their parents with stones in their hands. And if
[1:01:43] the sheet came out and there was nothing on it, somebody died. We
[1:01:51] need to bring that back. Clap down, don't get nervous. I know
[1:02:05] some of you all ain't got no sheet at all right now, But I'm
[1:02:07] gonna help you. But that's how serious God takes the covenant. I'm talking
[1:02:23] to singles. Watch this. So when the blood covenant has cut between me
[1:02:32] and my wife in that marriage bed undefiled, that means there's no problem in
[1:02:39] the bed. Then if I was to have sex with another woman, I
[1:02:47] cut another covenant. Now you know the principle of covenant is the only way
[1:02:55] to break a covenant is to cut a new one. That's why you got
[1:03:00] the Old Testament covenant and the New Testament covenant. I wouldn't from the covenant.
[1:03:07] It was blood on the cross. Oh you don't get it. So
[1:03:15] the blood of bulls and boats and sheep and turtle downs in the Old Testament
[1:03:21] was a covenant that lasted for one year. But here comes Jesus, the
[1:03:24] Lamb of God. He's gonna cut another covenant. Different is forever. Who
[1:03:31] a whin the Bible says when the new covenant was cut, the old was
[1:03:36] done away with, and he has a better covenant. But it was what
[1:03:40] blood. So when a man or woman commits adultery, they cut another covenant,
[1:03:52] which means that the old one is dead. That is why the person
[1:03:57] is free to marry again. In my book I listed it's a long title.
[1:04:12] I know you've probably got a copy of it. It's called Single,
[1:04:15] Married, Separated, and then Life after the divorce. Please read the whole
[1:04:18] book. You see, first you're single, then you get married. But
[1:04:25] what about separation. There's some folks in here who and divorce. Yet they
[1:04:29] just separated for years and they think they're free. You're still not freak.
[1:04:31] If you just separated in heaven't gossip, got your tie, doesn't married unless
[1:04:42] that other person committed adultery. That man's once you get married in the Kingdom.
[1:04:53] Now let me just say this. This is a hopefully Christian conference,
[1:05:00] Am I right? Are you sure? So? There are normal sections in
[1:05:04] here? There are no lesbians in here, but there are believers in the
[1:05:30] way of according here, which means that you are not a normal single That
[1:05:47] means I am judging you according to not open of every show, but according
[1:05:56] to this book. Am I right? Say amen loud? All right?
[1:06:05] So I can talk to you from this book. This book dictates how you
[1:06:15] live your single life, not ebony. My job today is to frighten you
[1:06:41] so you don't get married because some of you got this weird idea that all
[1:06:53] your problems will be solved if you can just get married. On this book
[1:07:01] teaches the complete opposite. In First Corinthians, chapter seven, it says,
[1:07:10] if you are not married, it is good to stay that way, for
[1:07:15] if you do get married chapter seven, you shall have many troubles. Say
[1:07:26] leave, I can't wait to get in trouble. If you meet a man
[1:07:35] who is ashamed to lift his hands, forget it. I need it today.
[1:07:46] Don't even give him a second thought. God, I need to be
[1:07:57] a little longer. See, if a man doesn't love the presence of God,
[1:08:03] you shouldn't like his presence. Brother. If you gotta leave church building
[1:08:15] to go and find a woman in a club, that's the wrong woman.
[1:08:19] Brother. If a woman doesn't love to worship, she's gonna make a bad
[1:08:25] wife. If a man doesn't like God's presence, you got a malfunctioning male.
[1:08:40] And that's just number one. Now, Seeing most women make this mistake.
[1:08:47] Men do it too, but women, most of the time, they
[1:08:49] would leave the church to go and find a hood loom, marry him,
[1:08:57] and then try to drag him to Eden. You are going to eat it
[1:09:01] yes you are, Oh, yes you are. That's gonna work. God
[1:09:17] did not begin the human family with a couple stop making up mistake. He
[1:09:24] began it with one one. Thank you for listening to Crowning Ignorant Kings,
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