# Dating a Gen Z as a Millennial: The Good, The Bad & The Ugly - Ep. 77

An episode of [Menisms](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536), 20 Jun 2024, 1 h 09 min.

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As a Millennial you'll think you've seen it all in the dating world till you date a Gen Z. In this episode, we share our experiences dating Gen Zs and delve into the differences in communication styles, fashion sense, mindset, exposure, personal experiences and more. Enjoy! Feel free to drop a comment. 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow Menisms on social media @menismspod: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/menismspod/?hl=en Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@menismspodcast?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/menismspod Follow the guys: Michael: https://www.tiktok.com/@sonariwoondeck?lang=en Murewa: https://twitter.com/olumurewa

## Transcript

[0:00] Why do you like thick women? Why don't you like, and I should
[0:02] say this and I say I just don't want to feel like bon bon bon
[0:06] every. I want.
[0:07] I want flesh. Let me when I wrap around, let
[0:10] me be like this, like wrap around and I'm just feeling so
[0:13] much, even your time. So I want your time to be bigger
[0:15] than my body. What up people is your favorite
[0:25] podcast, man. Back again with another one.
[0:27] My name is Michael Shannariro. And I'm very welcome, Claire.
[0:30] Are you back on manism? Ladies and gentlemen?
[0:32] What's happening? Hope you're good, hope you're
[0:34] blessed, Hope you're having a great week, and I hope
[0:36] everything is well with you. How are you feeling, Mangie?
[0:39] How's everything? I'm feeling all right. 9 Just at
[0:43] the mud house as usual, expressing new things every day.
[0:48] We are adulting. Like in Nigeria freaking Antebo,
[0:51] we get that little. We are adulting in Nigeria, OK,
[0:54] that's that's all it is. Yeah, yeah.
[0:56] It's not like Nigeria has not had problems, but when you're an
[0:58] adult, that's everything is on you Now you're like, fuck, So
[1:02] what our parents are going through?
[1:03] I know, right? Shout out to you, mom.
[1:05] Shout out to your parents. Speaking of.
[1:07] Parents even like Father's Day is around the corner, and so
[1:10] there's also that to think about when I get to becoming father.
[1:13] What's your plan on that? Oh man, the look is killing me.
[1:22] Sorry, that has caught me off guard.
[1:25] I'm going to become a father. Sorry, sorry.
[1:29] I'll tell you why off camera. Why, that could be a guard, but
[1:31] I'm not going to be a father till I'm married.
[1:33] So, oh, you know, that's fair. That's fair.
[1:35] I've made it to 30 so far. Thank God I'm not important.
[1:39] Thank God to all this random because I know I made a Tiktok
[1:42] about that. People are saying Are you sure
[1:43] you never go check who say by God's grace that's not the case.
[1:46] I was just very careful. Did I have instances that hey?
[1:51] But. Not too many of those instances,
[1:53] so thank God so I have time. What about you?
[1:57] When are you going to be your father?
[1:58] Or I mean also when I'm married it's.
[2:01] Do you have you? Do you know if you are outside?
[2:04] Damn, that's actually a very, very, is it?
[2:08] No. So I say this because for the
[2:12] longest time I always just thought no, of course I was, of
[2:16] course not, I'm not. But when I got to realize the
[2:18] concept of women being pregnant and not just telling the person
[2:22] that got them pregnant that they're even pregnant for the
[2:24] guy and just going ahead ghosting and having the child
[2:29] regardless is when I started to think way too.
[2:34] Can I actually completely rule out the possibility that I'm not
[2:37] a father somewhere because I didn't?
[2:40] Know that was a thing that way. Yeah, I I didn't know it was a
[2:43] thing like. She doesn't tell you to.
[2:44] Maybe later by the way. Yeah, I know.
[2:47] Your child, what the fuck? And.
[2:49] Then she's like, I'm only telling you just foreclosure.
[2:51] I'm like, you kept me out of the entire process where you're
[2:54] bringing me in now. That's evil, that's evil.
[2:57] I'm sorry. It's any woman that does that.
[2:59] I'm sorry. Like I know there's perspective,
[3:01] but you might as well say it from the get go.
[3:03] Like why wait till years later then just pour all this guilt on
[3:07] somebody. Then now it's like they've
[3:09] already correct as I created. You've already created an
[3:13] unstable, you know, yes relationship.
[3:17] And environments, yeah. And The thing is that they would
[3:18] even tell you that. Even them coming to tell you now
[3:21] it's not because they want you to be in the child's library
[3:23] yesterday. They should tell you.
[3:23] So why'd you tell me then? Why?
[3:26] No matter how you look at it, you are now unsettled.
[3:30] You're now constantly thinking about this child you never knew
[3:32] you had. And but.
[3:33] So, yeah, to answer your question honestly, I hope not,
[3:37] right? Because I think I've been
[3:39] careful enough to not, you know? You guys say hopefully.
[3:43] Well, you know, not that you're going to travel to one country
[3:46] or a day. So you're here.
[3:49] Yeah. Yeah, I've been there, man.
[3:53] That's. Why?
[3:53] I'll be That's why you're going to keep.
[3:55] Tabs on them just to check their story once in a while.
[3:57] No, no, no. No child yet.
[3:58] I agree with you. I agree with you.
[4:00] I feel like that's actually what's giving me the.
[4:01] Like wait she hasn't. She hasn't posted in a while
[4:04] though. Wait, she never posts into?
[4:05] Or bro, the one, I think there was one that I know how to start
[4:09] calculating with him when we stop talking 'cause I was one
[4:13] that I saw she was pregnant and gave us a child, but I had seen
[4:16] that she was seeing someone. But I also thought that, wait,
[4:20] has she been seeing this guy long enough for her to be
[4:22] pregnant with his child? That's the thing we do.
[4:25] When did she and I stop seeing each other?
[4:28] Well, luckily for me, the numbers didn't really add up
[4:30] because it was much longer. I'm like, OK, it's been a little
[4:34] about 10 months. I I ain't got that.
[4:36] I used to be a bastard sometimes, man.
[4:38] I used to be. And the worst part, it doesn't
[4:42] mean it'll stop it. But before, man, I ain't gonna
[4:44] last you. I used to carry that condom.
[4:45] Go be like, yeah, I'll be right back to the bathroom.
[4:48] And just, you know, you just take it out and just check this.
[4:53] Thank God. OK.
[4:54] Dump it. Pour it.
[4:56] Don't kill. Tear it, don't kill it.
[4:58] And The thing is, you relax yourself.
[5:00] Why are you doing this? If we we should you be with that
[5:02] kind of girl? See any girl even if I like that
[5:05] I love that I know they is scam. Yeah, to be honest, I feel like
[5:10] when you find out that she's, when she finds out she's
[5:13] pregnant, they become an entire different, different pregnancy
[5:17] scars. So obviously I've seen when
[5:19] someone thinks they're pregnant and how they start.
[5:22] I'm just like, OK, this is this is where you were going to be if
[5:25] you were really pregnant. OK, OK.
[5:27] Noted, noted, noted. Well.
[5:29] I mean, but you know, nonetheless, we still appreciate
[5:33] every father, as, you know, fathering properly right now.
[5:36] To be a father. Yeah.
[5:37] And so, yeah, happy Father's Day in advance.
[5:42] We're going to go to. We have a question to answer
[5:44] today and let's. Go I'll.
[5:46] Just run right through it and I'll read it and.
[5:49] But I think before we do, as usual, we need a drink.
[5:52] We need a. Drink.
[5:53] It's been a long week. I ain't got lots.
[5:55] It's been a long week. That's our very chill today.
[5:58] So I need a drink. Can we get a drink?
[6:09] All right, So yeah, we'll just get right into it.
[6:12] While we put ourselves in nice glass, we can use our whole
[6:16] body. OK, so we have this one here.
[6:19] This is from Savvy, and our Savvy says hi.
[6:27] What's the dynamic between bigger women and smaller men?
[6:31] I understand preference has a role in that, but is there
[6:34] something more to it? Second, Murua posted a lady
[6:38] sometime. I'm just going to stop for a
[6:42] second. Murua posted a lady some time
[6:46] ago. I really wanted to believe it
[6:49] was your sister, but you mentioned y'all are only boys
[6:53] and the fall. So it was and the fall mine, all
[6:58] mine. Song, another drink.
[6:59] From all right and the All Mine song in the background this
[7:05] person really not going to lie. I had to ask what are the
[7:09] streets saying? You there or not?
[7:12] OK so. I'll drink for you though.
[7:18] So first of all, I'm not on the streets anymore.
[7:24] So that was my girlfriend. Yes.
[7:30] What is what is what is going on?
[7:35] So I guess that answers that question.
[7:42] All right. Now for the actual question as
[7:45] we get back to focusing on ourselves.
[7:48] So this says that what's the role finish here?
[7:51] Because I knew you. Were still laughing.
[7:53] Oh yeah, sorry. I'm done.
[7:54] I'm done. Drink that.
[7:55] Yes, you need more. I'm OK, all right.
[7:59] So the second, no, the first question says what's what's the
[8:01] dynamic between bigger women and smaller men?
[8:05] This is also thickness. This is also thickness I guess
[8:10] also within my. Your your, your expertise.
[8:15] This is your expertise. Would you enlighten us, Sir?
[8:18] So, well, I, I don't think I'm a smaller man.
[8:21] I do understand the question she's asking, which is like
[8:23] skinny, skinny guys. I like big, big girls, right?
[8:27] To be honest, it's hard for me to speak on their behalf because
[8:30] I'm not a skinny, skinny man. But from the conversations I've
[8:33] had with some skinny guys, it's really more about one, this
[8:38] challenge of a thing you want to kind of conquer, which kind of
[8:41] plays a part, you know? Yeah, it's, it's something like
[8:44] I can show you that, you know, even as skinny as you think I
[8:46] am, I can handle you type of thing, you see?
[8:51] I'm not asking, no, no. No, I'm always saying that you
[8:53] agree with. The Oh yeah, Oh yeah, no, my
[8:56] skin is skinny. They shit.
[8:57] Yeah, shit. Yeah.
[8:59] So I think, I think that's pretty much it.
[9:01] It's, it's some sort of challenge.
[9:05] And I think some of them actually genuinely have the
[9:07] preference for, you know, because where am.
[9:09] I going because if you're OK, like for me, I'm athletic.
[9:12] I'm an athletic size. Yeah, it's like, I don't want to
[9:16] date my size. I want to date this anymore.
[9:18] Oh, don't your skin and bone just hitting each other.
[9:20] I need meat. Do you know I?
[9:22] Want a pillow? I want to just hold you
[9:24] sometimes. I just want to bite your stuff,
[9:26] Aaron. Do you know, I used to say this
[9:27] thing a while ago. I used to say that because
[9:30] people would ask me, oh, why do you like why do you like thick
[9:34] women? Why don't you like slimming?
[9:36] I used to say this thing. I used to say I just don't want
[9:38] to feel like I want. I want flesh.
[9:42] Let me when I wrap around, let me be like this, like wrap
[9:45] around that. I'm just feeling so much.
[9:47] Even your thighs up want your thigh to be bigger than my body.
[9:52] All right. Like like me.
[9:54] How's my thigh? Bigger than you?
[9:56] Like, don't get me wrong, there's some beautiful skinny
[9:59] model like and I've dated women that are skinny model type that
[10:02] were like beautiful and all that and we enjoyed.
[10:05] But obviously you still always will have to pick one
[10:08] preference, which is you got to be a little thick them.
[10:10] So like and thick them doesn't mean you have to be always be
[10:12] bigger than me. It just means you got to have a
[10:14] little thickness in you guys. Like OK, like and that's what,
[10:17] and what I mean by that is I'm more likely to look at the girl
[10:20] that's a little more thick than the girl that's like the model
[10:22] type. The model type is still going to
[10:24] be beautiful to me and I can move to her.
[10:26] But the thicker girl that's beautiful.
[10:27] Oh, I'm going to move to her quicker.
[10:29] Right. I mean, well, I fully, I, I
[10:30] don't even think I can see, I fully agree with that because
[10:32] evidently since the person's here.
[10:35] So I mean, I clearly fully agree with that.
[10:37] So yeah, I guess that answers that.
[10:42] You know, again, we also have the little segments in our Shiva
[10:46] as well. We like to talk about a little
[10:47] something, but even outside of that, someone asked a question
[10:52] that I think I should also bring to this table, which is about
[10:54] two of us actually. And the person said, what is it
[10:56] about? What is the favorite?
[10:58] What's the what I see here? What's the one favorite thing
[11:02] you like about the other person's personality?
[11:04] And they were talking about both of us.
[11:05] So basically, what is it about a personality that I would say I
[11:08] like the most? And what is it about my
[11:10] personality personality that you would say you like the most?
[11:12] Oh yeah, I'm listening. You want me to go first?
[11:15] OK, to be honest I I feel like I can say the personality I hate
[11:18] the most. Look at this idiot, like they
[11:20] said, the one which is. Always dragging me on tik toks.
[11:24] What's wrong with you? They said the one you like you
[11:26] they said the one I just like. I see men toxic masculinity.
[11:30] They say what you they like you, they go a pussy talk.
[11:32] Fair enough, So what do I like the most?
[11:34] Personally I would say that it's I think it's the go getter
[11:38] spirits. Honestly, I don't think I've met
[11:41] anyone in recent times that is a go getter like this guy.
[11:45] I can't explain like it's. It's really hard to explain like
[11:49] you. Can't see the video, I'm
[11:50] blushing. Don't kill me, please.
[11:52] Like he sets a goal, he's going for it like he's he's trying to
[11:55] create a vision he's doing everything to make sure that
[11:58] vision kind of just, you know, materialize yeah he's he's a go
[12:02] getter. I can't even I I definitely
[12:04] don't have that and I. Definitely.
[12:06] I didn't blush. I go from that.
[12:07] I didn't blush. Me so.
[12:08] Yes, that's definitely one trait that I'll say is my favorite.
[12:11] It's it's just the fact that he things of a goal start aspiring
[12:15] towards it and just it's going for us.
[12:17] Yeah. So thank you.
[12:19] That's my that's. My one mind about you, you be
[12:22] man. Sounds funny, but I'll say from
[12:26] what I've observed with you, from knowing you, is that you've
[12:30] actually been taking on. You've not been shy to tackle
[12:34] the role of being a man or being a young man.
[12:36] And I see how you carry yourself and is like very commendable and
[12:39] respectful. Like there's a way this carries
[12:41] himself that is like, Nah, I respect that.
[12:44] Like a lot of young guys. A.
[12:48] Lot of guys are still figuring. I'm not saying you're not
[12:50] figuring out at all, but there's a way you carry yourself that's
[12:52] very admirable. That is just like, Nah, I
[12:54] respect that a lot, man. Like.
[12:56] Appreciate that. You know, this is funny because
[12:58] we've never, Yeah, we've never had to have discussions like
[13:02] this before. Guys don't.
[13:03] What am I going to say? Yeah, You know that they like
[13:05] this thing about you, but you know the thing, you get it from
[13:08] random guys. You.
[13:09] Don't know. You don't know.
[13:10] Yeah. But your guy, guys are not
[13:12] obvious and The thing is not like where I should say just
[13:14] like because one is your guy. It's like, it's, it's like
[13:17] already. It's like.
[13:18] You shouldn't know. There's a reason why I'm always
[13:21] hanging with you, because I fuck with you on this.
[13:23] I don't know. The funny thing is that as much
[13:26] as that is valid, it's not the same thing as hearing it in
[13:30] person, like as hearing the actual words, you know?
[13:32] And this also brings us to a place of, I guess we just need
[13:36] to do more, you know, we just need to always.
[13:38] I feel like I would personally make it a conscious effort to at
[13:42] least once a week tell one of my guys as a star.
[13:45] So I just tell of all the guys I have just one of my guys.
[13:49] One thing I appreciate about them, that or more guy, just
[13:53] this is random, but I just actually let you know more.
[13:55] This thing we always do, I mean. I used to do that all the time.
[13:58] I still do it directly, but I used to do it more.
[14:00] But every one of my guys used to always just give me, they always
[14:03] do this moist thing or so Now do you like you guys since all of
[14:10] you want to be say, OK, I'll hold it.
[14:12] Right. Well, in this part of the world
[14:15] we're in, yeah, the that masculine love is, is very is is
[14:20] almost nonexistent. You see guys, I already see you.
[14:22] I did too with you every time. With with you yeah What do you
[14:24] need a game? Yeah, yes, I know I agree.
[14:28] I agree with that and it's the truth and I guess it's it's
[14:31] something that has also well, I guess that's why it's even been
[14:34] nonexistent for me in the 1st place 'cause like you mentioned
[14:37] earlier, is it's an unspoken rule.
[14:39] We know these things already while we seeing them again, you
[14:42] know so but it's I guess it's also nice once in a while
[14:45] because if it feels this good, it also means that as much as
[14:48] they say that you know you're all mushy or being, you know
[14:52] moist in those moments, they still kind of like it because no
[14:55] matter what they still do. So I guess regardless of their
[14:57] reaction, I'll just always say so it's something that they even
[15:00] if it's to make your day like, you know just your guy told you
[15:03] this and blah blah blah. So yeah guys, so this is a
[15:05] message to you guys. Just always remember to at least
[15:08] kind of give your guys. Give your guys their props.
[15:10] Man, yeah, give your guys your props.
[15:12] It could be that one guy that's just always coming through for
[15:14] you. You just want to commend his
[15:15] loyalty. You want to just commend someone
[15:18] who is always making sure they put over their time.
[15:21] People putting their time for you is always very important.
[15:22] So, you know, letting them know that you actually appreciate
[15:25] that time they're putting in also goes a long way.
[15:27] You actually have no idea. It might even be the one thing
[15:29] that someone needs to put their mental back in place.
[15:32] You know, they're having like a rough day.
[15:34] They can't even think straight. I just, you know, those few
[15:36] words just kind of put them back in perspective and put them back
[15:38] on track, you know? So.
[15:40] So yeah, I mean, it's pretty much what it is.
[15:42] But today's topic, we're about to talk about something very,
[15:45] very. Gen.
[15:46] Z baby, Gen. Z baby, do it.
[15:49] You won't understand it now when you hear the song Gen.
[15:51] Z Baby. Oh my God, go ahead, go ahead.
[15:54] When I say go get, are you? Because you know.
[15:56] Gen. Z baby.
[15:57] So today we're going to be talking about the the
[15:59] relationship dynamic between us millennials because we are
[16:02] millennials. And Gen.
[16:03] Z and Gen. ZS.
[16:05] Define. You know what, what is it like
[16:07] what, what, what, what are our experiences?
[16:09] And I think that's. So.
[16:12] So for me, obviously I had a few experiences with some Gen.
[16:16] ZS back in the day. Back in the day.
[16:19] Back in the day, just give that disclaimer before anybody see
[16:22] now recent I bet, but Gen. Z's opened my eyes so a lot, you
[16:27] know, 'cause The thing is, the Gen.
[16:29] Z's of today are more exposed and more informed than us.
[16:36] Yeah, and that brings us today's episode, where is going to have
[16:39] a lot of heads turning and be really controversial is dating
[16:43] Gen. Z's.
[16:43] Gen. Z baby Gen.
[16:46] Z baby. So yeah, it's basically our
[16:51] basically our experiences with with Gen.
[16:55] Z. So I'll start long time ago
[16:58] before I get in trouble. I actually fuck with Gen.
[17:02] Z girls, you know a lot because there's two sides I've seen of
[17:06] them. There's the actual dating being
[17:11] with them. One of them I remember like
[17:14] First off, they have more information than they should
[17:17] because they're born into an Internet age so they see a lot
[17:22] more right now. Doesn't mean everything they see
[17:24] is correct or they have all the info, but they're exposed to a
[17:28] lot more. So even though they're young,
[17:32] you have some that act mature, some that are still very
[17:35] immature but understand the game and then some that are just like
[17:40] they're not angle lights you they in a stress was some of the
[17:43] millennial counterparts. They some are, but there's some
[17:46] aren't because I'm OK I'll give an example.
[17:48] There's this one millennial girl.
[17:50] I said millennial 1 Gen. Z girl I was seeing she was
[17:52] younger than me, of course, but umm, very much she was not.
[17:57] I will I'll give her credit before she says I'm not.
[17:59] She was very much she was mature for her age.
[18:01] I would like to she was mature and you will still see those
[18:05] young qualities in her, but she knew when to switch on her like
[18:10] adult cap, if that makes sense. So it was nice in terms of like
[18:14] I knew how to interact, interact with her as a young in.
[18:17] But then there was still a lot of conversations we could have
[18:20] as adults. And then there was another time
[18:22] too. I was seeing this girl, but she
[18:23] was abroad and she was, she's a Gen.
[18:27] Z, but she had already graduated, she already had a
[18:29] good job, she already had her own car, cars, should I say she
[18:33] had her own place. So as a Gen.
[18:36] Z, she's already living like myself, an adult.
[18:39] So we could relate on certain things and our conversations
[18:44] were very fluid. And even me, like, I think the
[18:47] only time I'll see her Gen. Z side is like, maybe there's
[18:49] some experiences I've had that she's not had yet, but she's
[18:53] already had her experiences that I'll give her the game on.
[18:55] You get what I'm saying? But yeah, I ain't gonna lie to
[18:58] you, Gen. Z, you're fun to deal with if
[19:00] you have the right one. Because there's some that are
[19:03] fucking headaches. OK.
[19:04] So I think there's other ones that transfer dress.
[19:07] Because the headaches. Yes, because I've, I've, I've
[19:09] had, I've had some Gen. I've had, I've dazed some Gen.
[19:13] Z's or I've gone on dates with some Gen.
[19:16] Z's that are like, in fact, if you don't know their ages, they
[19:20] seem like millennials were because of how they behave and
[19:22] everything like that. But I've also dated some Gen.
[19:25] Z, Gen. Z's like the stereotypical
[19:28] definition of a Gen. Z babe.
[19:31] And, you know, at some point I started feeling like I was an
[19:33] African parent complaining about, you know, just so I think
[19:37] the problem is the. You have patience, that's why.
[19:40] I think the problem is the the shock of the change, like they
[19:44] come from all the angles, the fashion is different, the
[19:47] mindset is different. The when you say the.
[19:50] Audacity is different. Sounding like an African dad.
[19:53] What? The I literally I like when.
[19:54] You say the fashion is different.
[19:55] What do you mean? So are.
[19:57] You reveal too much. Well, I wouldn't even say it's
[20:00] about revealing too much. No, it's not really about
[20:03] revealing too much. It's about what is now like, OK
[20:06] to work. OK, let me give an example.
[20:08] I saw this babe at it's restaurant.
[20:10] I was, I wasn't dating her, but you know, I could.
[20:13] She was seeing someone that I knew, so I knew her age.
[20:16] I knew of her age basically. So I knew she was Gen.
[20:18] Z and she was wearing this transparent top.
[20:22] I went as a transparent. I don't mean like transparent
[20:25] like you can maybe see it. I mean transparent.
[20:27] You can see her titties like is right there.
[20:30] They get nothing wrong. Like wear what you want to wear,
[20:33] right? But I'm just trying to picture
[20:35] now if this was someone I was dating seen as a girlfriend.
[20:37] Like I'm sorry but personal preferences, but I don't think I
[20:40] am my. Girlfriend, the only, the only
[20:42] defence I'll give them is any woman, regardless of age, she
[20:47] will dress how she wants until she meets the man that's her
[20:50] man. Because whether you want to
[20:51] admit or not, when you're seeing even us too, when we're single,
[20:54] there's something the ways we dress or some shit we do, we
[20:56] don't give a fuck because. It's us, but I don't.
[20:58] Think, but when you're now in a relationship, you have to be
[21:00] conscious. Of the other person is not what
[21:02] I mean when I say her titties are like, I don't mean like
[21:05] cleavage. I mean I could see her breasts
[21:08] and again, nothing wrong with that.
[21:10] It's an outfit style, right? But it's an outfit style that's,
[21:14] I'm sorry, our generation wasn't used to.
[21:18] Have you not seen the way some millennial girls were dressing
[21:20] and still dress? You you could see see.
[21:23] Baba, why you, You. It's 'cause you know that, bro.
[21:26] It's 'cause you. Yeah, yeah.
[21:27] The thing is, you're looking at it in a different way when we
[21:30] look at it, when we look at it at this age, right?
[21:32] Don't forget, 'cause we're both in our 30s now, OK?
[21:35] When we look at things now, there's the way we process
[21:38] things or look at. I'm not on that stage anymore.
[21:40] No. When you did 21222224 he did see
[21:44] breast you did say. Oh my God again too.
[21:47] Much you they look at, I'll say. Wait wait.
[21:48] First, I think it's still context.
[21:50] I wouldn't walk into your restaurants and see a girls
[21:52] titties. It would either be I'm going to
[21:54] the nightclub or I'm going to party.
[21:56] Like there was still context to the sexy dressing or to the, you
[21:59] know, that kind of dressing. Now it's literally a normal
[22:04] restaurant. Like what I'm just getting off
[22:05] for lunch. I'm saying no, again, this is
[22:07] not me saying it's a wrong way of dressing, right?
[22:10] I'm saying it's a shock. That's what I started by saying.
[22:12] It's a shock in what we're used to saying stroke what they're
[22:16] used to wearing or what they're wearing now, right?
[22:18] And that's one aspect of the stereotypical Gen.
[22:23] Z. And again, this is not to say
[22:24] that this is something to stop you from dating them or
[22:27] anything, but it's something that you, again, I'm not
[22:30] walking. I'm not walking to meet someone
[22:32] so that they can change your name.
[22:33] You sound like a 30 plus right now.
[22:35] I go, but that's what and you are.
[22:37] We are. We are.
[22:38] There's no. Wrong.
[22:38] I mean, I guess that's why I'm really like.
[22:40] I'm just laughing at ourselves because bro, I'm telling you,
[22:43] I'm not saying you're wrong. And that's why I said I do it
[22:45] too now at this age where there's some ways I see girls
[22:48] now that I'm just like, oh damn, that's a lot like.
[22:51] But then I say a lot like 2121, like my brothers now are 21
[22:55] years old. It's like then if I see, I'm
[22:57] like, oh, see breast. Like there's a way.
[23:00] That's what if I'm being honest, you get what I'm saying?
[23:02] Like girls are. That's why I said it's crazy how
[23:05] we look. Like even you saying it now,
[23:06] it's like, I didn't want to meet him.
[23:08] Like he's right. Because there's a level of
[23:10] consciousness we have now that younger you will just love the
[23:14] bodies of women. But as you get older, it's not
[23:16] that we don't enjoy the women like women, please, just how you
[23:18] want. We love it still.
[23:19] You know what I'm saying? Like, but you, you know the
[23:23] limits of what is acceptable or what you don't put yourself.
[23:28] OK, let me put this way at this age, let me speak for myself.
[23:30] I don't speak for every guy at this age.
[23:32] If I see a younger girl that's that's 2122 wearing so much that
[23:37] she's reeling her breast and all that in my head, I'm like, yo,
[23:40] sis, it's a lot. You know, like you putting
[23:42] yourself out there in trouble really and truly like you are
[23:45] about you could definitely be a victim, God forbid, but you're
[23:48] putting yourself to be in trouble like that compared to if
[23:51] I see that you're still dressing in a sexy way, but it's still
[23:54] covers it. It's like, yo, that's sexy.
[23:56] Well, I mean, to be honest, there are different ways to
[23:58] interpret that cause again, it's still coming down to men having
[24:02] to learn to behave Nurse. But I get what you mean, right?
[24:04] You know, don't walk into a gang house if you're not hoping to
[24:06] get shots type of situation, you know, so but in the end, I'm
[24:10] even coming more from the again, I can't know Josie.
[24:13] So I'm not sure what the thought process is as to, you know, why
[24:16] the fashion has switched in that direction, right, because again,
[24:19] even the ones I've seen, it's not also necessarily because
[24:22] they're they're forcing the sexiness.
[24:24] I don't know if. You don't feel like girls our
[24:26] age we're doing the same thing. Personally, no.
[24:28] OK, let me give you an example. If girls are age, they're going
[24:32] to wear transparent tops, right? They'll wear pasties and then
[24:35] they'll be like, OK, I'll wear that, but I'll cover my nipples.
[24:37] OK, girls are not covering their nipples.
[24:38] Nothing. Free the nipple.
[24:40] Nothing, right, which and I guess I and I like see, look,
[24:43] it's all right, right, It's OK. It's just a lot for me.
[24:46] But then those are those Gen. Z's not like saying that every
[24:48] Gen. Z dresses like that, right?
[24:50] There's also the aspect of them being exposed to more, like you
[24:54] said, than we are. And so their their ones for your
[24:58] fast life is so much more. That's the issue I have with
[25:01] some Gen. Z's like.
[25:02] One for Gen. Z woman.
[25:03] Let me tell you guys so. Curiosity is crazy.
[25:06] So all the Gen. Z woman, I want you to hear this
[25:08] clearly. You're already powerful as you
[25:10] are. You're young women that are sexy
[25:12] fan that already have so much power.
[25:16] But some of you want to grow up so quick.
[25:19] Some of you want to just rush into this lifestyle so quick.
[25:22] This life is a long, long marathon.
[25:26] It's not any Sprint. Enjoy your youth.
[25:29] Let me tell you something. And you're not like us men.
[25:31] No, you see, men we age like fine wine.
[25:33] No, as we get older, we, they get fine.
[25:35] Now we, they get, you know, you understand, as you get older,
[25:38] nobody saying you're not getting fine now because you know,
[25:40] you're gonna have that older, mature, sexy look, but it's not
[25:43] the same. You might start having kids.
[25:46] You might start, you know. And so your body changes.
[25:48] Your body changes, you can't just come.
[25:50] Hey I always say this joke. You see all these girls that
[25:53] don't like to gym yet that look good in their early 20s and all
[25:57] that By the time you hit 2526 don't worry, no they workout.
[26:01] Continue to eat how you are eating and drink how you are
[26:03] drinking. It will start like this, then
[26:07] start like this, then it will start like this.
[26:10] If you don't want to take care of your body, you got no, I'm
[26:12] just saying hey, like that. But all I'm basically trying to
[26:15] say is Gen. Z girls live your life.
[26:17] Enjoy being young like you are. Powerful young girls.
[26:20] They control streets now. It's been like that for the
[26:23] history of generations. Young girls, they control
[26:26] streets because guess what? Those same girls that were
[26:28] controlling streets when they're young once they turn 2728 got
[26:31] this expired old, old woman. That's what the men on the
[26:35] streets to see or not me or. Men on street.
[26:37] Think about it now bro, you too I.
[26:39] Mean that's the reality of what? Girl, they're girls that used
[26:42] all the girls. Let me even make you.
[26:44] I love all of you. As I say this, I I literally do
[26:48] all love all of you and you know I do because I know all of you
[26:50] personally, but a lot of the girls that were coming to Sunday
[26:53] like share the stats. Oh God, a lot of the girls are
[26:58] concerned. I had to start.
[26:59] I have seen this year alone, the amount of relationships, the
[27:02] amount of engagements I've seen that I'm like maybe this girl we
[27:06] did those party for beach together.
[27:08] But guess what? Mama is 27/28.
[27:11] She got to think about her life. She knows I can't be on the
[27:13] streets. Imagine a 31 year old girl on
[27:16] the streets and a 31 year old girl on the street, and to
[27:18] compete levels D that's what you want, your girl, Yeah.
[27:21] So, and I think and I think I think one of the hardest things
[27:24] about Disney Gen. Z is just being able to keep up
[27:27] because there's. I ain't got that energy.
[27:30] I mean she's even as much as you think you're a Tiktok car do
[27:34] tick tock with agency. I don't even have people think
[27:37] people think I'm a full time tick tocker as far I go drop
[27:41] video every day. I go go live on every day.
[27:43] He not be like that. So I'm 31 years old.
[27:46] I have real life. I'm not saying tick tockers on
[27:49] because I want see, I want to get to that point that tick tock
[27:51] is pay me. That's my full time job, right,
[27:53] But I get real life responsibility now.
[27:56] Why I know they post every day. You understand because I think
[27:59] where am I going to? Even off of the jersey is crazy
[28:01] because besides the social media, there's also the things
[28:05] they are curious about that you've already experienced.
[28:08] It's like there's nothing. Like you see how all these want
[28:11] to go club and go party, go club and go party.
[28:12] But like I've done it like sweetheart before.
[28:17] Like some of you Genz girls think you are just running.
[28:20] Streets are not sweet. This is the most 30 plus episode
[28:24] we've had like. Hey, that's how one girl now I
[28:27] remember one girl you since was insulting me because I'll be
[28:30] going to like I'll be by 10:00 I don't tire by 9:10 I don't tire.
[28:34] Look at you, you have energy to go out again.
[28:36] I'm like look at this, you want being because you you just came
[28:39] to Lagos. You just enjoy yourself now.
[28:41] Do you know when? Since I've been on streets.
[28:43] And The thing is like when, when they use are hearing things like
[28:48] there was one time I was seeing one, yeah, three years ago.
[28:53] And she said this was now I'm self-employed right now being
[29:00] self-employed means that be self-employed means that on some
[29:06] days I can take a day off, right.
[29:07] So I think on this day, I maybe it was like a Wednesday or
[29:10] something. I'd said, OK, no, no work that
[29:11] day. You know, I'll take the day off
[29:13] and stuff. But you know, day off as an
[29:15] opportunity entrepreneur still means that some work goes today.
[29:18] If they call you like this, how your day off is gone, especially
[29:22] if it's good money, right? And even if it's your day off,
[29:24] there are certain things you're still not really doing 'cause
[29:26] it's your day off, but your mates are working.
[29:29] So he's still like, she was like that, you know, let's go.
[29:31] It was my day off. And then she was like, oh, OK, I
[29:34] guess because she could see that I had free time, I could crave
[29:37] for myself. This is a Wednesday.
[29:39] She's like, oh you know what, let's let's go swimming
[29:40] tomorrow. Maybe tomorrow at 11:00.
[29:44] Instead I was like, you don't have work.
[29:48] Thursday 11:00 AM You want to go swimming or.
[29:50] Just like that. And it's like, yeah, you know, I
[29:52] won't go swimming. I was going to be like maybe
[29:54] like the weekend, Thursday morning, 11:00.
[29:57] My mates will look at me. I would like see you.
[30:00] This is what you're doing with your life.
[30:02] Bro, I was there. Let me not lie to you.
[30:04] There was a year like two years ago where I was on, like I said,
[30:07] I was on street TV. Bro.
[30:09] I was trying to keep up with all these Jens.
[30:11] I remember there's one Ah, wherever you are indeed.
[30:14] No, The thing is this girl that told me this thing, she was my G
[30:17] like she's still my G, but it's like it it paid me to show me I
[30:20] was older. So it's like this one time we
[30:23] were chilling. We had gone out, came back home
[30:26] and then we just said we'll have some drinks.
[30:28] So we're drinking oversee stayed the night, had a nice round and
[30:32] shit me after that round. I'm thinking, hey man, I'm done
[30:36] and it's only like 10:00 or so Me.
[30:38] I'm already like, Oh my God, after the round I'm just sleep
[30:44] bro. This girl now looked at no when
[30:46] I was just about to start like the round don't finish.
[30:48] We had a great everything good that she just looked at me like
[30:51] that's it. When I wake up, I'm going again.
[30:54] And then this girl now started going to go and rule another
[30:56] Geo. So I had to beg.
[30:59] Hey, hey, hey, hey, I beg. Let me just rest like, what are
[31:04] you? What's?
[31:06] Wrong with you now is killing me.
[31:09] Oh, mind you, you've already probably had one.
[31:11] You've drunk already. You've had a one for me.
[31:14] You. See that you take a first.
[31:16] I take a second Jack. Like no, no, no.
[31:18] But don't we still have another blunt to go?
[31:19] What do you mean another blunt to go?
[31:21] What are you talking about the? Thing is, she's forget is like
[31:24] the stages, you are just starting this phase.
[31:27] We've been. Doing since I started.
[31:30] Trust me. See, let me tell you something,
[31:32] because life is only in my jersey face.
[31:34] You probably didn't have as much.
[31:35] You think I have People think I have energy now.
[31:37] See me, it's early 20s. Yeah.
[31:39] Oh, my God, Father. Thank you.
[31:41] Because I don't know how I made it this far.
[31:43] Because even me, when it came to girls see our singles, I was
[31:48] allowed to do it. If it's girl in one city, One
[31:50] city, bro, I didn't move like this.
[31:52] I didn't move like this. I have dates lined up, dates
[31:56] lined up. If it what is it energy you
[31:57] think I have? But now I have used so much.
[32:02] And you tell me I sound 30 plus? Yeah, don't kill me.
[32:04] I'll bet you. No, no, no, I have to.
[32:05] This is eventing and the thing. Is The thing is the worst ones,
[32:08] I think in my opinion, are the ones who need that extra kick.
[32:13] So let's say you guys are seeing, you guys are about to
[32:15] have a good time and everything and they're like, no, they need
[32:18] to have, they need to be on something.
[32:21] No see, no, see. Now see, right in our time, in
[32:25] our time, we would be the ones to bring the stuff, you know?
[32:29] Then when you are young, you'll be watching.
[32:31] Like Oh no let's just only stuff I would bring is weed that is.
[32:35] It or even a drink sometimes like you bring some do.
[32:38] You know Genzi, introduce me to Molly.
[32:40] That's what I was guessing at on that extra CP.
[32:43] I don't do that shit. No, I can't see, man.
[32:46] They'll just be like, yeah, no, it's fine, It's fine.
[32:48] It to make you feel good. Like what?
[32:50] No, see, like what are you? No.
[32:52] And it's always like you. They almost can't.
[32:55] You just know that something is going to be involved.
[32:57] You're not even sure what it's going to be today.
[33:00] You're not sure what it's going to be today.
[33:01] She'll tell you. Oh, yeah, there's this pill,
[33:02] this happy pill. Like, huh?
[33:04] Bro, this girl told me I'll never forget first time I did
[33:07] Molly. The girl had been doing it to
[33:09] like, not that she's doing it like crazy amounts, but like she
[33:12] knows how it works, she can handle it.
[33:14] All that experience. She kept telling me like oh, you
[33:16] need to try, you'll be good. I said I already smoke, it's OK,
[33:20] I'm good. I like my book and that's it.
[33:23] Like, no, just try it one time. Of course, peer pressure because
[33:26] you don't want to seem like that old guy.
[33:28] Mind you, I'm only what, 2930 at this point, so it's like I'm not
[33:32] that old. But hey, fair enough.
[33:33] I'm do it for you, baby. First time I do it, my thing
[33:37] couldn't go up. I did panic, you see.
[33:39] You know what they say. Yeah, it has almost has a
[33:41] different effect sometimes. First off, I started confessing
[33:44] every damn thing in my head. I couldn't stop.
[33:47] Just lovey dovey Amy and you know me already.
[33:50] Naturally I am Ah Molly, I'm extra.
[33:53] Then on top of that, hey, I'm just confessing everything.
[33:56] Then on top of that, when it's now time to do the deed and all
[33:59] that, almost Mister man was not agreeing because I just did
[34:01] panic. Did panic.
[34:03] There panic. So one thing is your that's
[34:05] uncle like I even Hank now your stuff is not.
[34:07] Coming through when I say I'll just see my head panicking,
[34:10] panicking, panicking, the girl just they laugh, just they
[34:13] laughing. You just need to come.
[34:15] I'm calm, I'm calm. It's not working, God, you see,
[34:17] it's not working. What's wrong with you?
[34:19] Like see, I sound like an uncle now.
[34:20] Jesus Christ. Oh my goodness, I'm sorry but I
[34:23] even thought I was sounding. Old but I I was panicking the
[34:28] 30. Plus is showing into.
[34:30] The worst one is have you ever dated the Gen.
[34:31] Z that you know her older sister?
[34:33] Oh damn. Yeah, we know you.
[34:35] You'll be there. Of course you'll be there.
[34:38] In my defence, In my defence, I had no idea they were sisters in
[34:44] my defence. Oh, and the worst part is that
[34:48] oh God, long time ago. Again, the worst part is that
[34:53] the younger sister does not care, especially when she's
[34:58] against she. Doesn't she?
[34:59] Doesn't she, Doesn't she even be the one to tell you?
[35:02] Like I know you know my sister. Dangerous, dangerous, dangerous
[35:09] place to tread. There's one girl I swear I
[35:11] wanted to so badly. She told me she was ready but I
[35:15] had too much respect for. Our yeah no, yes, I've had to
[35:18] fuck yeah like you just make those ones that you like there's
[35:21] no. And it's not like I've done
[35:23] anything with our older sister. Older sister is just it's.
[35:25] Just in line, don't cross. Just like people to me it's not
[35:28] like and the point I didn't know they were sisters.
[35:31] It's like the older sister and I have a separate relationship
[35:33] like not with my. Family that point you have been
[35:34] praying that you just didn't know like I wish I just didn't
[35:37] know, but when you discover you be like.
[35:39] And then Genesis, they like trouble because you.
[35:41] Know they like bro, they live by trouble.
[35:43] Am I not? Am I not a grown girl?
[35:45] They live by trouble. You tell you things like, okay,
[35:49] so how is she going to know? I don't get like she she just we
[35:52] just do our own thing and like. That should be tough tonight.
[35:56] I like. You.
[35:57] There's nothing more convincing than a genzy girl that wants you
[36:00] and knows that like maybe her older sister had access to you
[36:05] or something where like that. Like she will push.
[36:07] Like my sister couldn't get him so now I got.
[36:09] She would push. It would be itching her to bring
[36:12] it over. She would be like Nah, Nah, Nah.
[36:14] She just. Some of you guys marry me, Lucky
[36:17] I have morals because there's some younger sister.
[36:19] I'm saying this respectively. Obviously there's some of your
[36:21] younger sisters that I'm just like, I have too much respect
[36:25] for your older sister to even do this thing.
[36:29] And there's something about there's something about the and
[36:31] I think it, well, of course it, it didn't, it didn't start from
[36:34] our own generation. But like the because, like you
[36:37] said, the Gen. Z see a lot brought by 20.
[36:40] They're moving to you like mad as in you know, you know how we
[36:44] keep saying that in all time you still to be to the Gen.
[36:47] Z girls don't really if they see you, they like they they move to
[36:50] you or yeah, they move to you, bro.
[36:54] They will actually be convincing you how the age difference is.
[36:57] Fine, I'll be there. Be like I'll be there.
[36:58] I don't think I don't think this works.
[37:01] What's the youngest Gen. Z you've been with?
[37:03] So are we going to go by like the age?
[37:05] Because I'll say age difference, I'll say I'll say 10 years.
[37:12] And to be honest, I didn't even like, I didn't even at first, I
[37:14] didn't even know she was that young.
[37:16] But I'm like OK. Fair, mine was 8-9 'cause I was
[37:21] background put. Myself calculated.
[37:23] Calculated myself in trouble it. Was eight years.
[37:26] It was eight years. It was eight years, 29 a year.
[37:29] Yeah, but it was cool, like I said, 'cause she was, again, for
[37:32] me, being a Gen. Z body.
[37:35] Like, again, we're always going to make fun of you because
[37:37] you're younger, but it's again, how you carry yourself, how you
[37:41] move. Because even as much as all
[37:43] these girls I said did this, did this, there was a certain thing
[37:46] about them that for me personally that attracted them.
[37:48] Which means there's a level of maturity I see in your life and
[37:52] certain aspects. Yeah, that.
[37:53] So even with all the Gen. Z stuff, I can handle it because
[37:56] the main aspects of your life now, like for example, how you
[37:59] work, how you make your money, how you're living, you're even
[38:03] handling it, it's on your own. So that's like, OK, yo.
[38:06] Or even like giving you tips, giving you advice on some shit
[38:09] because again, like you said, they see things and you're like,
[38:11] OK, these are fair. There was, there was one, there
[38:14] was one putting me on like just the whole concept of making
[38:17] money off social media and I was just listening to her.
[38:19] Ah. And.
[38:21] I was just like. Nothing that my Gen.
[38:22] Z back then I was just baby. They give me Tiktok.
[38:25] I was just like. What?
[38:28] So, you know, when you hear all that, at that moment you're
[38:30] forgetting that she's Gen. Z.
[38:31] You're forgetting the age differences there.
[38:33] Of course things will happen. Now you see things that remind
[38:36] you that she's Gen. Z.
[38:37] But in those moments. Me of a story found fuck.
[38:42] So there was a girl she went to my that'll be too detailed, but
[38:47] we went to school together at one point.
[38:49] No, no, I say using the you have to be careful Cafe.
[38:52] So we went to the same school at one point, but she had a younger
[38:54] sister. So OK, there was this time in
[38:56] uni now like by my 3rd, 4th year or some shit, we went to a
[38:59] party. So I never actually used to be
[39:01] one of them Nigerian guys. I used to go to like Birmingham,
[39:04] Nottingham for parties. I knew all the guys, I did the
[39:07] parties, I knew people in all these cities.
[39:09] But I never traveled just because like I played sports.
[39:12] So I would actually be the ones doing parties in mind.
[39:14] You need that. So one time I said let me go and
[39:17] travel to this city now make I go, I go have the best time.
[39:22] I see so many friends, all that shit.
[39:24] One girl comes to be like you. You know I've known you for a
[39:28] while. I'm like who you be like.
[39:31] By the way, they don't look smaller, they don't look small.
[39:35] When I lie to you and I saw this guy like, yo, who is you?
[39:38] Like, I don't know you like when I'm trying to get to know you.
[39:42] So it's just like you won't Remember Me and all that.
[39:44] But you know, back in the day, like, and you are my sister's
[39:48] class. So as soon as she said that, I'm
[39:50] like, what's your name? Says her name.
[39:52] They say, what's your last name? Says her last name.
[39:54] Just like, Oh my George, just no, no, The thing is, at that
[39:57] point you look at her again like you look at.
[40:00] 'Cause I remember her from the younger years.
[40:02] Not for me. Girl did like this.
[40:04] No, no, mind you, when she did like this, I wasn't an adult.
[40:08] I also, yeah, I also, I'm her sister.
[40:10] 'S age, so I'm still like in. Maybe like in kids, teenagers,
[40:15] teen stage. Now you understand.
[40:16] So I'm not an adult, I'm a teenager.
[40:18] She was like a younger teenager. Yeah, seeing her now, shit like
[40:24] OK, you're looking like a grown ass woman.
[40:26] Boo. This girl is the one that set
[40:28] the pee up. I don't even know how it
[40:29] happened. Like film trick.
[40:30] She's the one that moved to me. And when I say moved to me, I'm
[40:33] not saying oh, she moved to me. Like oh, like obviously me too.
[40:36] I moved to her too. But like she she came with that
[40:38] confidence that moved to me after when she moved to me, I
[40:40] said, come, you ain't leaving me tonight.
[40:43] I stayed the whole weekend with our hey man so by the end of the
[40:49] weekend now remember she now brought up her sister.
[40:51] Oh man, that's. So at that point in my head, I'm
[40:54] like, why you? Oh, now you want to bring her
[40:56] up? Like after the whole weekend,
[40:57] you want to bring her up up and I'll bring her up.
[40:59] Like are you going to tell my sister that I'm just like, no,
[41:02] you, I'll be a grown woman. No, like it's our business and
[41:04] all that. I don't think I think she told
[41:06] her sister eventually, right? But like not like her sister
[41:09] will come and confront me. Like why would you do that?
[41:11] Her sister is grown but you see that kind of situations now.
[41:14] It's like if you move with accepting confidence is to start
[41:18] the balls in your cut. Yeah, to.
[41:20] Start the balls in your cut. I mean, something similar
[41:23] happened, but in my case I was just like, no, in fact, my own
[41:27] reason was that she was too young because I mean, I knew her
[41:32] sister, but she was also too young like.
[41:34] How was she like when you say too young?
[41:36] She was, I think at the time I was 20.
[41:39] I think at the time I was 28 and she was 19.
[41:42] Ah, no. No, no, no, no, no.
[41:43] Do you get what I'm saying? Was way too young.
[41:45] I was just. Like no, no, no, no.
[41:46] I was just like, no, I thought, I mean.
[41:48] I thought you even about to say 21.
[41:49] I'm like, no, I was 20. Eight she was.
[41:51] I was 28. She was 19, too.
[41:52] Young. Too young?
[41:54] I kept telling her, but if you see.
[41:57] Them once, them once bro. And you know what?
[42:00] So fucked you say that now you see how you say 2819 once she's
[42:04] 21 and you are 30. It's like fair.
[42:08] But if you see. But if you see her, if you see
[42:11] her, I, I, I, I imagine she would pass for someone who may
[42:15] even be older and be. Like so my rule is she's.
[42:17] Tall, she's. Bro my rule is you can be
[42:19] younger than my younger brother. I think that.
[42:21] I think that's. My youngest right now I'm we're
[42:25] ten years apart. That is what, 22 this year?
[42:28] So it's like if you younger than him.
[42:31] That's like the in fact, I don't even think I get to that point.
[42:34] I'm like once it's just I'm just hearing something teeny.
[42:38] Your age, huh? What even down to like the 2021?
[42:43] I'm still like very. Even I won't lie to you.
[42:45] I feel bad like tell I'm not. I told me if I'm it's not wrong
[42:49] when you think of the age number, but at that time, like I
[42:51] remember when I was like 24 and I go with the girl that was 19,
[42:56] my drum 24. So it's not that's five years.
[42:59] Yeah, it's not that bad. So it's not that bad.
[43:01] But even then it's like you're 24, 25, you're 24 going on 25 in
[43:07] Masters, right? This girl's 19 in first year.
[43:10] It's still it's not bad. I mean it's the supposed to be
[43:14] in the time like. Even for me then it already.
[43:16] Felt it already felt a bit. All it started feeling, it
[43:19] already felt all like I was. It was like one time, the one
[43:22] time I did it like I said the 19 the girl was 90 but she was bad.
[43:27] God damn. And I'm 24 so in my head even me
[43:31] I'm so overthinking it like should I should I should I And I
[43:33] did that one time and that was it.
[43:35] Since after that I was like I felt uncomfortable even that is
[43:39] but it's so. And you know how it was so
[43:41] funny. It's like that's 24/20/19.
[43:44] So even now that even when I was like 2829, if I met a girl that
[43:48] I was like 21, I'll still be like.
[43:50] Yeah, same. 21 You've graduated. Probably you have your.
[43:57] That's that's legal age globally.
[43:58] That's legal age because they're 21 years are with 30 + 40 plus
[44:02] men. Well, yet I'm 28 thinking like
[44:04] 21. In fact, this babe I'm talking
[44:07] about was seeing guys that were in the like late 30s.
[44:11] Do you know what's so fucked up about Gen.
[44:13] Z girls? You yourself will be thinking
[44:15] I'm too old. Meanwhile, she'll go and tell
[44:17] you about the older she's been dating or that has been on her
[44:20] roster that has been moving to her since and this is 40 plus
[44:23] city and he and he he's married by me.
[44:25] He's still like he's always tries to move to people.
[44:27] I always tell him no. I just play with him because I
[44:28] that stuff. And you just be like this, like,
[44:33] I'm only one Genji girl we've seen before.
[44:34] She'll be talking about older, way older than me.
[44:37] And I'm like, yeah, what am I? And then I'll start to ask
[44:39] myself, what am I feeling so bad for?
[44:42] That's yeah. Well, I guess it's personal
[44:44] ethic because again, no matter how much I know that you're
[44:48] seeing older guys like as long as you're not in 19, 2019-2020.
[44:54] One just like, like if you are like for me, like it's I'm a 30
[45:00] year old, like I was, I ain't looking, but it's like now I was
[45:04] like, you got me men, Louis, I can do this 22, eight years.
[45:09] Yeah. And even that eight years is
[45:11] like you are 22, that you've one graduated already.
[45:15] You have a job that you've been working.
[45:17] You have like there's certain things you already doing for
[45:20] yourself that doesn't much. Like you said from the
[45:22] beginning, there's a maturity level about you.
[45:25] Yeah, because it's very hard to relate to somebody that's not
[45:29] mature. Like as like, have you been with
[45:31] the girl? Have you been with the Gen.
[45:32] Z babe? That's fine as fuck, but you are
[45:34] so irritated by SO. So.
[45:43] So The thing is. There's there was this person I
[45:47] was saying, and in fact, I think that's what it was like.
[45:51] I just couldn't, I couldn't see past the fact that she was just
[45:56] taking life on a whim, like she was just, OK, whatever today
[46:00] brings, I'm like, you can't be this age.
[46:02] I'm doing whatever today brings. Like I'm what?
[46:08] And I, I mean, I guess I mean there's so many factors in.
[46:14] Between. I mean, friend of what you say
[46:20] like that, what you say like that, yes, well, but I mean, to
[46:26] be honest, that's that's really what I felt I I just felt like I
[46:31] felt like there was, you know, you know, when you're with the
[46:33] Gen. Z, right.
[46:34] And this is this. I feel like this is something
[46:36] that every every guy who's been on streets in at our age.
[46:48] How can you be taken? What is the truth is the truth
[46:55] is the truth. Can I?
[46:56] Actually, imagine you looking at.
[46:58] How was you looking? How did you end up in my?
[47:04] House that's I think that's what it was.
[47:06] I was just like, if I wasn't that, it was more like, how did
[47:09] you end up in this situation like?
[47:13] That's the funniest shit. I had to be like, in fact, I
[47:17] think, I think it was at that time.
[47:19] Oh shit, thank you very. Well, that I was like that.
[47:21] I was like, Nah, I'm not streets not doing it anymore.
[47:24] You know what? You get to a low, you get to a
[47:26] low and you're like you. Know you meet agency that they
[47:30] choose him St. Yes.
[47:34] Yes, you know that. You know that this babe was
[47:36] actually the one that let me know.
[47:37] I was like, Nah, let me tell you.
[47:38] Right. So this babe didn't have a job.
[47:41] Oh. Fuck.
[47:42] She had finished uni, but you know what was one of those
[47:46] finish unit? Just because they made me do it.
[47:47] It's not like I really had any plans with this degree.
[47:51] But again, I'm like, OK, fine. I mean, not put yourself in a
[47:54] box, just leave it as is. Let's see how things go.
[47:58] But she was literally like, you could see that her lifestyle was
[48:01] taking life on the whim because you could tell that other guys
[48:04] were funny. Her lifestyle, she was OK, you
[48:06] know, that was right. And so I just was like, but fine
[48:11] babe, hot babe, everything. Now, what's your plan?
[48:13] Now, listen on it was it was this moment she was talking
[48:19] about. We're just talking about we're
[48:21] talking on the she's talking about buying some jewelry.
[48:24] Oh, OK, OK. Come like, OK, let me get you.
[48:26] So, yeah, that, you know, one is gonna be like one she wants,
[48:29] wants to get to one in one in gold, one in rose gold.
[48:33] OK, fair. Yeah.
[48:34] You know, one is like $10,000 at that moment, that moment, that
[48:39] very moment, I was just like, bro, what are you doing?
[48:44] Look where you are. What is the bro I, I, you know,
[48:49] when you with a Gen. Z and you can actually feel that
[48:52] you are irresponsible with your life.
[48:54] Oh my like, like I could feel that my mates are making money.
[49:04] So that was see, I can't, I can't actually put words to it.
[49:20] I can't actually put words. That is the really shit I've
[49:23] ever heard. I know, I think.
[49:25] The worst part is, is when 'cause there's only so much,
[49:28] 'cause she can be fine as fuck and you ready to hit it and do
[49:34] whatever, but that post not clarity here because you know
[49:39] beforehand you can't tolerate a lot.
[49:41] Oh yeah, you hear? Cause me, I'm gonna lie to you.
[49:44] Somewhere loud there. Will be sometimes I'm laying in
[49:46] the bed we talking and shit you know you about to do with you
[49:50] will be hanging some rubbish and you're like, hey man, I came
[50:00] here for I came here for so you don't Yeah, tell me more than
[50:06] you finally get to the point that you do now you're happy
[50:09] once you do, if she starts that stupid conversation again, you
[50:12] just be thinking my why? Is this conversations bro?
[50:18] Those conversations would not really put you in perspective
[50:21] and most times I don't. I just I just caught.
[50:25] Sad times like that, I can't lie to you.
[50:26] Shit like that when I used to be in this situation, I'm like why
[50:28] the fuck am I not fucking with more millennial girls?
[50:30] And The thing is, I know why. Because millennial girls are
[50:32] looking for more serious at that age.
[50:34] If at all I'm going to fuck with any, let's be the older Genesis,
[50:36] like the ones that are closer to the millennial age.
[50:38] Like let it be that I'm actually somewhere where it's like, OK,
[50:42] she's only millennial, she's only Gen.
[50:44] Z by the age. Because I feel like all the Gen.
[50:46] Z's that are like in the 2726 age range, 25, right?
[50:52] That's 2527. I feel like they got more
[50:55] spillover of millennials than the ones that are much younger.
[50:58] The ones that are in the 20212220, like they're the ones
[51:02] that really hit. That and that's because those
[51:04] girls, they had their experiences early in their
[51:07] 20212222. So it's like even though you're
[51:11] so Gen. Z by the calculation you've done
[51:13] the young activities from 20 to 2324 that by 25 you too.
[51:18] They start to think yourself OK and I need to get my life and.
[51:21] Also I need to pre social media boom so they still they still
[51:27] experience life before the boom of lockdown because bro I feel
[51:31] like lockdown is where like locked everything shifted the
[51:34] whole dynamic you know so before that.
[51:36] Angle like some Gen. see, let me know, lie to you, some of you
[51:38] Gen. Z girls in Lagos.
[51:40] Yeah, as much as I have so much love for you, just because I
[51:42] have the love for younger people, like I'm still a young
[51:45] myself, but younger people. But he said it earlier of you
[51:48] are actually just trying to grow too fast and with this social,
[51:51] especially with this social media era.
[51:53] Because you see, one thing I notice is, First off, I'm gonna
[51:57] step on some toes with this shit, but I don't care.
[51:59] So even the way I give you uncle.
[52:02] I guess give you the game now, but it's like I see some of
[52:05] these Gen. Z girls that are now the quote
[52:07] UN quote influencers, all this shit.
[52:10] Yeah. What?
[52:10] OK, go on, go on. What even classifieds
[52:13] classifieds as an influencer because because you have K on
[52:16] your followers does not make you an influencer.
[52:18] Let's just start there because you they just post picture.
[52:21] Does it make you an influencer because what are you
[52:24] influencing? Now, I don't hate on it because
[52:27] a lot of them are learning to make money from it, which is
[52:29] fair, but they're trying to grow up so quick, trying to be this
[52:33] woman they want to be where? And they don't act like it.
[52:36] Your photos might make you look like a woman, but you don't act
[52:39] like it. You don't even have the
[52:41] experience to be a woman. And see, maturity is not by age,
[52:46] it's by experience. Yeah, and you should even be
[52:48] blessed that you've not had to have certain experiences as a
[52:52] young woman to mature so quick because those women that had to
[52:55] mature so quick as young women, their experiences were not the
[52:57] best at times that made them mature quick.
[53:00] So why not enjoy your youth? Yo, it's like I was saying the
[53:02] other day, I'm when I was 2021. We don't give a fuck about this.
[53:05] So I mean, social media was there, but we didn't give a fuck
[53:07] about that, yo. We went out to enjoy.
[53:09] If I meet a girl my age, I'm enjoying.
[53:11] I'm having pain. Nice to meet you.
[53:12] What do you do? I like this, I like this.
[53:15] You meet a 21 year old girl now because of the social media era
[53:18] we're in now is what do you have?
[53:20] What do you have yourself before you ask me that question?
[53:23] And you know, The thing is that they would even come to you as
[53:25] the. They'll come to you with the
[53:27] Yeah, and that I have is also another guy that is taking care
[53:31] of it. So again, right, there's nothing
[53:33] wrong with a guy taking care of you.
[53:35] But once you've now put the mantle on yourself to say by
[53:39] virtue of the fact that you've seen one or two rich people,
[53:43] because those rich people don't care for the age range and they
[53:46] just. Want to know girl easy, Do you
[53:48] understand? Exactly Target target.
[53:50] That's so all you Genzy girls. Let me explain something to you.
[53:52] Some of those rich that are taking care of you is because
[53:54] you're an easy target when you're 2120, you think you get
[53:57] sense. Don't worry now you want to meet
[53:59] a 30 or even A40 plus now and think you go out, send some.
[54:02] Don't worry, I will take care of you.
[54:05] Money day now so you you're comfortable and all that.
[54:08] Maybe you have to come see me in a while.
[54:10] Maybe I should do some favours. But I'm using you.
[54:12] That's what that is doing. Because he knows.
[54:15] Because you're so young you don't know shit, but you want to
[54:18] grow up so quick. Yeah, that's usually, that's
[54:20] literally their agenda, you know, and when, when the when I
[54:23] and that's exactly how I got into that position of just
[54:25] seeing. I mean, listen to a young girl
[54:27] now telling me $10,000 bracelet again.
[54:31] See, not that you shouldn't dream about stuff, right?
[54:33] But she was talking about it like, yeah, you know, this is
[54:36] this is the next thing I need to get.
[54:38] Like, you don't even have a job. You know, let's how about you
[54:41] start with getting that like, you know, because it started off
[54:44] with her seeming she's she was a hustler, right?
[54:47] And I could tell. I mean, I liked the fact that,
[54:49] you know, she just putting effort into stuff.
[54:52] You don't have to be established, right?
[54:53] You're young, right? But let me let's just even see
[54:55] that your your brain is thinking towards OK, what can I do?
[54:58] You're not just chilling because somebody was taking care of you
[55:01] also like trying to think. And that was the initial thing
[55:03] and I'm like, OK, maybe the day she just so I just I not
[55:06] realized that her pushing is just cause whoever was thinking
[55:11] of all the people that were thinking of her were just
[55:13] creating the platform for it. Like, OK, maybe they'll say, OK,
[55:16] I'll send you this money, go and start business.
[55:18] And that was what was making her hustle.
[55:19] Because that's another thing I didn't think about then.
[55:21] I was just thinking, OK, maybe just but the hospital was
[55:24] because she once in a while to wanted her own money and she
[55:26] didn't want. To don't get me wrong, there are
[55:28] Gen. Z girls that obviously they find
[55:30] the I want to take care of them and make their own hustle.
[55:32] I respect those. Ones.
[55:34] Oh yeah, of course. In the end, if man, of course,
[55:36] if man comes to me try and give you money, but as at least you
[55:39] have sense, I'll give her that. Oh yeah, she gets sense that she
[55:42] will flip it to her own business and do respect.
[55:45] Like I was saying, you don't have the business setting up
[55:47] yet. You're already thinking of
[55:48] buying $10,000 Brislets. So yeah, everything in two
[55:51] version of colors. I'm like, OK, like you do
[55:53] realize like this is not a smart money.
[55:56] But hey, in the end I was like, I can't, I can't really.
[55:58] It's and it was. It came back to the whole
[56:00] growing up too fast because you made it sound so normal.
[56:03] That's what I'm saying. A lot of these Gen.
[56:04] Z girls don't realize you're putting your I'm a little tipsy,
[56:07] so I can be honest. So I'm like to the Gen.
[56:09] Z girls that are doing this year know that I'm trying to be very
[56:13] polite. Fuck it.
[56:15] Don't put your pussy on sale. No, let's let's call it what?
[56:19] I didn't expect that, no. Bro because no, because I have a
[56:22] lot of younger cousins, right? And that's how I always felt
[56:25] like an older brother, like all my younger cousins like I used
[56:27] to be. I'm very protective with them
[56:29] and all that. Like now I've had to back off
[56:31] because you're all your 20s, you're a grown woman.
[56:34] I can't be doing but in their early 20s Any I was talking to
[56:36] him about who the fuck is he? And I'll go and find out who the
[56:39] are to just give you the game. And they understood it.
[56:42] But a lot of young girls now, I feel like a lot of them now,
[56:46] especially in Lagos now, you don't realize that when you're
[56:49] putting a price tag on yourself or your body, these men are
[56:55] never going to care about you 2 Psychologically, you don't know
[56:59] the effects it's doing to you. You're still a young woman.
[57:02] Yes I understand, I understand times are hard and all that but
[57:07] don't forget you're a young person in an Internet age that
[57:09] can figure out things for themselves.
[57:11] Again, if a man is moving to you and wants to give you bar and
[57:14] all that, I'm not saying don't collect it too.
[57:15] Because me I always joke and see if I was a woman by now.
[57:18] I have two houses. Banana.
[57:20] Yeah. I mean, I always joke, I say not
[57:22] that I'm stupid every man, but trust me I know I'm gonna do my
[57:25] hostel. You understand?
[57:25] But enjoy being young because it only is for a short period.
[57:31] You do realize this life by God's grace is a long life,
[57:33] which means you're going to live to a long age by 708090 but your
[57:38] youth is only from zero to maybe 30.
[57:40] I won't even say that cause 30 is too long.
[57:42] Let's let's give you 4040 is too young.
[57:44] But when I say youth in terms of irresponsibility, like there's
[57:48] not a lot of responsibility on your head until you reach 30 and
[57:51] have a level of consciousness that when you turn 30, trust me,
[57:54] I'm telling you, it's like a thief today nights.
[57:56] It could just hit you. Fuck, I got responsibilities.
[58:00] Imagine like I'm telling you and you start to think of all your
[58:05] decisions in your 20s, like fuck, OK, thank God I enjoyed
[58:08] this. Should I have done this?
[58:10] Should I have done that? And a lot of you girls are not
[58:12] enjoying those phases because you want to grow up so quick.
[58:14] You want to join the lifestyle of these Instagram models, you
[58:17] see and all that. Let me tell you something, the
[58:19] same Instagram models you're watching in America and all that
[58:21] shit, their lives are not straightforward though.
[58:24] The same Karisha a lot of you are praising with city girls,
[58:26] with Diddy and all that. Where is she today?
[58:28] The same girls you see on Love and Hip Hop or Bad Girls Club
[58:31] and all that. Where are they?
[58:32] They are fine girls that have millions of followers, but where
[58:35] are they? Do they have a husband?
[58:36] No. Do they have four or five baby
[58:38] daddies? Yes.
[58:39] Is that the life you want? If that's what you want, fair or
[58:41] for the money, fine. But understand you have a long
[58:44] life to live. Nobody's saying don't enjoy.
[58:46] Please enjoy dates, even in fact, dates.
[58:49] I like those Gen. Z girls.
[58:50] I said yeah, I got three on my roster.
[58:52] Fair, fair. So I think, I think another
[58:56] thing that's because again, thank you, Uncle Michael.
[58:59] Yes, yes. But I think another thing, I
[59:04] think it's generally just social media influencing that.
[59:07] It's kind of like, you know, really hard to see it to
[59:09] penetrate through because I see again, like I don't take
[59:12] anything personal into it. It's just observation for me,
[59:16] right? But every time I open Tiktok and
[59:17] I see young girls into one thing, if you don't mind, don't
[59:21] approach me. I'm just like, what do you know
[59:22] about life? Like what?
[59:24] What do you know about people who, because again, is this
[59:27] thing you're doing that makes guys who have money feel like
[59:31] that's the power you've enabled them with.
[59:32] Now they have the money, which is your 1 requirement.
[59:35] And now you know, So again, it's not that there's anything wrong
[59:38] with it, right? But now your pussy got to make
[59:40] all. Your tick tocks the mantle of
[59:42] if. He doesn't have money then this.
[59:44] Guess what? There's a price tag on your
[59:46] body, sweetheart. So yeah, I mean, it's, it's a,
[59:48] it makes it difficult for, you know, them to be navigate.
[59:52] Can I? Can I get can I give them free
[59:54] game? Yeah, of course, sweetheart.
[59:55] Let me just tell you something for you girlies that be saying
[59:58] if he doesn't have money all the time or like to put money on
[1:00:00] your hashtag on your social medias, the we all discuss it by
[1:00:03] the way, you think you think aren't discussing saying hey,
[1:00:05] you only have to do this now you only have to pay this.
[1:00:08] You think they're not discussing.
[1:00:09] So you you keep doing what you do, sweetheart, but just
[1:00:13] understand that the men that you're trying to attract all
[1:00:15] know about you and they just know it only takes a couple of
[1:00:17] dollars or a couple naira to get.
[1:00:19] Yeah. And also I think the worst part
[1:00:20] is that like that's that's tag you think is such big money is
[1:00:24] somebody's chicken exchange. So if you think that, you know,
[1:00:27] using Oh yeah, you have to spend 2 millionaire first, he's going
[1:00:31] to chase the guy away. There's somebody, there's
[1:00:33] somebody there that can cough that so easily.
[1:00:34] So again, I just don't think it's, you know, the standard
[1:00:39] people should say, but it is nonetheless.
[1:00:41] Unless you're going to be like, see, will I get in trouble
[1:00:46] saying? You might get in trouble.
[1:00:48] Yeah, I'm gonna be out because. It's like the joke I always
[1:00:50] says. You see the OG, We're even
[1:00:51] talking about it off camera just now.
[1:00:53] You see somebody, and I'm not saying you see somebody like
[1:00:55] Mrs. Shady or Thomas respectively.
[1:00:58] She was 1920 when she got married to her husband.
[1:01:00] Guess what she used to do? Still married to that to today
[1:01:05] and she's rich, enjoying. She had a plan.
[1:01:07] Some of you Gen. Z girls don't get plan.
[1:01:10] You just advertise yourself to any rich rich rich guy and
[1:01:14] you're just Lily dying like this.
[1:01:16] Then by the time you're 30 you are still joking.
[1:01:18] God when is my husband goes to God?
[1:01:20] That's when you now see them become tragic girls.
[1:01:21] They'll say I want to change my life.
[1:01:26] I'll just say have a plan or idea of what you are doing
[1:01:30] before you go and jump into it or just enjoy your youth.
[1:01:33] I mean, you know, I think one thing I would I would only say
[1:01:35] is you think Gen. Z is actually pretty fun, right?
[1:01:39] It's fun though. It's fun and it's you just have
[1:01:42] to be able to keep up, be current.
[1:01:44] You have to be able to you have to be current.
[1:01:46] It's fun, but at the same time you get to be exposed to what
[1:01:50] the reality, their reality is, which is what they've been
[1:01:53] exposed to, right, Which is, you know, again, unfortunately it is
[1:01:58] the I'm this rich man looking for the young, young girls.
[1:02:01] OK, find the one that is OK. And The funny thing is that a
[1:02:04] lot of older guys who are looking for young girls to
[1:02:08] write, I don't use the word pre on, but just, you know, you have
[1:02:12] as entertainment for themselves would go to apps like TikTok or
[1:02:16] Instagram. Just do for one, that's key.
[1:02:18] So I just do for one that scale your search, search, search.
[1:02:21] If you can reach out to average other.
[1:02:22] I would say that, you know, I appreciate mostly the Gen.
[1:02:25] ZS who are taking advantage of the opportunity and stuff like
[1:02:28] that, right? You have a key, and so you're
[1:02:30] using that to make sure brands come to you for.
[1:02:32] Yeah. And I know, and there's so many
[1:02:35] of them that, yeah, are very necessary that understand, they
[1:02:39] understand the game, yeah. They put me on serious game,
[1:02:41] they've told me they've explained to me so much about
[1:02:43] how like social media can work in your favour.
[1:02:46] And you know I That's even why the door to dating Gen.
[1:02:50] Z is even open because again, anything younger girls, huh?
[1:02:53] Nothing never. But when you get to functions
[1:02:56] that you meet people who meet young girls who are talking some
[1:03:00] good sense. Oh yeah, I love them.
[1:03:03] I mean unfortunately sometimes the Gen.
[1:03:05] Z in them still shows. Back and back and handle that
[1:03:08] because I already know. But you still get some senses
[1:03:11] like I like you. You can chill around me a bit.
[1:03:13] But there's some you experience, I just know.
[1:03:16] You you cause more headache. I mean, like I said, there was
[1:03:19] still that turn around point where you be with that you like,
[1:03:22] is this, is this what you should be doing with your life?
[1:03:25] See guys, the revelation is crazy.
[1:03:27] So that's one day I couldn't sleep.
[1:03:29] I just didn't look my my ceiling.
[1:03:30] Baby, they should just say sleep.
[1:03:32] I doesn't look my ceiling. God, I know you have more plans
[1:03:36] for me. Oh my goodness.
[1:03:39] Have more plans? The revelation is crazy.
[1:03:42] You'll be like this. Cannot be.
[1:03:45] You're better than this. Online.
[1:03:54] No. We're going to end this.
[1:03:55] Welcome. We're going to get in trouble.
[1:03:56] Oh my goodness, especially when especially when you're seeing
[1:03:59] the finished joints like 3 in the Astro.
[1:04:03] Yo, I remember trying to keep up with one Jhansi with just this
[1:04:07] more how they do bad guy. Yeah, yeah, I'm dying.
[1:04:11] I'm dying. Like YO1J is good for me.
[1:04:15] Let's do that. One J Wow.
[1:04:17] OK, one J for the day. Like me in a day.
[1:04:23] If I have a busy day, my one is OK.
[1:04:25] If I have a free day, let's say I did one in the morning.
[1:04:28] Like for example, like if I have a off day that I know I'm
[1:04:31] working from home or something, I'll go to the gym in the first.
[1:04:34] I have to go to the gym in the morning.
[1:04:35] So I'll do my two hour workout and then I do my post workout
[1:04:39] Jade that I work for the whole day.
[1:04:40] Then the next one will be evening where it's like, okay, I
[1:04:43] don't feel. Wind down time stuff like.
[1:04:44] Yo, one girl, this girl children me for a few hours.
[1:04:47] We don't smoke. 2-3 Jays already don't date Jason.
[1:04:51] You can see how you can see how doing this.
[1:04:53] Like you see how just rolling and all that shit you see just
[1:04:56] about this man, Fuck man. This is just how can we finish
[1:04:59] your whole pack in one day man, This whole pack usually lasts me
[1:05:02] one week. What the fuck like.
[1:05:05] See, let me tell you right, It's it's I think the the most the
[1:05:08] most exhilarating part of. I swear you're about to see this
[1:05:12] whole camera, but I can see it actually.
[1:05:13] Expressing them is just the fact that you can't see the things
[1:05:17] you can't keep up with. Yo, can I tell you a funny
[1:05:19] story? Go ahead.
[1:05:22] After this. We're ending, men.
[1:05:23] Yeah, 'cause you, like, get too much just from us today, man.
[1:05:25] Fuck you. Yeah, this one.
[1:05:27] Gen. Z1 time.
[1:05:28] But she said what do you always try to do?
[1:05:31] Me like you're trying to Make Love.
[1:05:32] Fuck me. Probably I am.
[1:05:37] Dead. This way, she said.
[1:05:40] I am dead. What's this?
[1:05:42] What? She said what's this love making
[1:05:44] shit? She said aggressive, be
[1:05:46] aggressive. You know, you know what I'll
[1:05:49] conclude on I honestly don't think we can because, you know,
[1:05:54] as much as we say that Oh yeah, every generation goes to, I
[1:05:58] really don't think we can really categorize like how Jessie babes
[1:06:01] are the way they are. Like, I don't think we can.
[1:06:03] Bro you know what I said Like when she said.
[1:06:05] Oh, there's a difference. There's actually, there's a.
[1:06:07] There's a difference. I would never.
[1:06:08] There's no millennial girl that can ever tell me that because
[1:06:11] she going there's. A young guy.
[1:06:13] There's no Jessie, but. You know that bro.
[1:06:15] When she told me that bro, I thought it was a joker first.
[1:06:18] So let me lied to you like because we are like have nice
[1:06:20] room and she just like you know what?
[1:06:22] This next round she's like don't be doing that love.
[1:06:24] Like bro, she looked at me saying don't be doing that slow
[1:06:27] R&B shit. I don't want that aggressive,
[1:06:30] yeah, aggressive shit. What the fuck?
[1:06:32] Oh damn. Anyway, shout out to you Genz,
[1:06:35] we appreciate. Don't worry as much as we said
[1:06:37] this, you notice something how we're seeing it.
[1:06:40] We're not attacking you guys. There's a lot of game and advice
[1:06:43] we're giving you because in the end, all we can do is observe.
[1:06:47] Yeah. You get what I'm saying?
[1:06:48] Like none of us we we both don't have younger sisters but I'm
[1:06:51] sure we have younger cousins. And it's like every time I see
[1:06:53] my younger female cousins I always just tell them the same
[1:06:56] thing. Boys are bastards.
[1:06:58] But just have sense because I've been there, you know?
[1:07:01] So keep doing your thing. Like a lot of you are making,
[1:07:04] like again, a lot of you are making hell of money now, like a
[1:07:07] lot of these influencer girls, you see some of them are making
[1:07:11] stupid money and keep doing what you're doing.
[1:07:13] A lot of them are hustlers, entrepreneurs.
[1:07:16] Keep doing what you're doing, but with sense, with sense.
[1:07:20] And again, don't and don't run away from being young.
[1:07:23] Yeah, I think that's the one thing right 'cause actually,
[1:07:25] yeah, trying to also them also trying to keep up with being old
[1:07:29] and trying to know too many things before the experiences
[1:07:33] is, you know how they always grow up too fast as well.
[1:07:36] You know, it has its good sides because you know, I'm trying to
[1:07:39] know more things than your age mates gets you exposed to like
[1:07:44] different kinds of money making, you know, experiences different
[1:07:47] kind of work. It does open you, you know,
[1:07:49] expose you to higher things. But at the same time, I guess if
[1:07:52] you're going to be doing that, you also have to be
[1:07:54] knowledgeable on the things you want to take home and things you
[1:07:56] want to leave behind. Because if you're absorbing
[1:07:59] everything and absorbing everything and, you know, you're
[1:08:02] trying to be too much of your age, then yeah, it gets it gets,
[1:08:05] you know, thrown back into your face and stuff.
[1:08:07] But yeah. Yeah, so shout out to all of
[1:08:09] you. Make sure you're following us on
[1:08:11] the Jesus Christ. Make sure you're following us on
[1:08:17] the Menisms podcast and all the audio platforms, Spotify,
[1:08:21] YouTube, iTunes, We are there. We appreciate you guys for
[1:08:25] always listening. Make sure you comment on our
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[1:08:30] you're on the listener and we appreciate you guys.
[1:08:33] Shout out to you, Gen. Z.
[1:08:34] We got a new track coming out soon.
[1:08:36] Gen. Z baby, you go see you soon.
[1:08:38] But until then, this is manisms. I am Michael Shonaruo.
[1:08:42] And I'm very welcome. And we'll see you next time on
[1:08:44] manisms.

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