# Menisms A podcast by Madeaux Podcasts. Menisms is an Urban Popculture Podcast that deals with all things Men. African men in their most vulnerable and completely honest state. Conversations on masculinity, navigating women, emotions, behavioural characteristics and sex amongst other topics. The podcast that answers the age old question, What do men really want?! Menisms is a "Madeaux Podcasts" Original! You can watch to our Visual Podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bUt3Bq10e1U Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/rss ## Latest episodes - [Why Are So Many Men so Lonely? | Ep. 131](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/b9c9be27954a) (2026-10-22, 64 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/127862925/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-21%2F3da69f65-aa20-eedc-9f32-06df8712c9c3.mp3 - [What Men Want In The “Perfect” Girlfriend | Ep. 130](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/83549c48fb88) (2026-05-28, 64 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/120655415/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-28%2Fe1627aaa-dd85-98e9-edd5-c742e182c055.mp3 - [Finding Purpose in Fashion and Events to producing GTCo Fashion Week ft. Sola Oyebade Ep. 129](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/54068abf4c03) (2026-05-21, 55 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/120316283/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-21%2F79e5ee55-a3e1-4156-e4a2-b5d1d5ff7f6b.mp3 - [The Best Rizz Game That Every Woman Falls For But Pretend They Don't | Ep. 128](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/960bec561eec) (2026-05-14, 73 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/119965359/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-14%2Fcbf31737-998f-93dd-5c4d-4a5dbec0406b.mp3 - [10 Non-Sexual Things Men Find Attractive in Women (But They'd Never Say Out Loud or Admit) | Ep. 127](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/cd8e6f88679c) (2026-05-07, 63 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/119620898/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-7%2F612a561a-9789-bf6c-0f2b-1282fe317c96.mp3 - [Dealing With Sexual Performance Anxiety as Men (The TRUTH No One Really Talks About) | Ep. 126](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/281cf6d98401) (2026-04-30, 93 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/119245912/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-29%2F899d717a-0cc6-5daf-db8b-14d35cc60e0c.mp3 - [Life After Big Brother to Nollywood & Becoming DAVIDO's Music Video Director ft. Dammy Twitch & Beverly Osu | Menisms 125](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/506b88fc0861) (2026-04-23, 102 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/118877536/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-23%2F6dbe0d48-eafd-f43b-8253-7d7d442d29fd.mp3 - [8 Things Men Do That Make ZERO Sense (But They’ll Argue It Does) | Ep 124](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/e91fe484db2a) (2026-04-16, 67 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/118498791/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-15%2Fde449d21-ade1-8749-9ed8-40748d0fd0fd.mp3 - [“I Want to Be More Than Friends” Ft. Binti Talks | Menisms Ep. 123](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/0c73c57cc8bf) (2026-04-09, 93 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/118182798/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-9%2F421717743-44100-2-c7e6e5d325bc4.m4a - ["I Was Losing My Mind": The Dark Side of Entrepreneurship Nobody Talks About | Menisms Ep. 122](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/d0edf028620c) (2026-04-02, 75 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/117798730/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-1%2F068a37c8-070f-4e8b-d1de-c5aeb96addf7.mp3 - [Is It Just Privilege? Or Are Men Still Out Here Proving Themselves? Feat. Tobi Bakre & Demi Banwo | Menisms 121](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/11e70f2f7ab8) (2026-03-26, 108 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/117475393/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-2-25%2F980fdc04-af68-ec22-806c-8e2529771eba.mp3 - [15 Things Women Do That Instantly Turn Men Off (Without Them Knowing It)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/8c68ff5bf62a) (2026-03-19, 82 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/117065843/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-2-17%2F852b337a-4522-fd96-6c82-1001e069bfa0.mp3 - [Are Nigerian Men Getting Married Too Late? Best Age To Marry in Your 20s or 30s? | Ep. 119](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/b2848d10f477) (2026-03-12, 92 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/116771020/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-2-11%2F50a43e78-0bca-ef91-1772-db46635afd4c.mp3 - [Tattoos, Respect & African Parenting | Ep. 118](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/c859a8ad1d1d) (2026-03-05, 82 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/116387187/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-2-4%2F2839476e-6421-fd19-652e-0e478e6af0bc.mp3 - [Can Nigerian Men Be Soft & Vulnerable Without Losing Respect? | Ep. 117](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/fedaa7ef2f14) (2026-02-26, 73 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/116037984/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-25%2Fdb9f9edd-f8be-83f1-f049-7a3254e20f55.mp3 - [Can Men Really Handle Rejection? | Ep. 116](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/d1edf2b9c7f7) (2026-02-19, 56 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/115704850/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-18%2Fa33a0d7c-fa15-ab2d-7ced-47adbda3d3d1.mp3 - [Valentine Is Coming… But Who’s Gifting The Guys? | Ep. 115](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/6de1d96fd106) (2026-02-12, 73 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/115367528/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-11%2Fbfddcbf7-9192-75b3-183a-6f3431a5d59a.mp3 - [Dating in Your 20s vs 30s... Have our taste changed? Crazy Experiences! | Ep. 114](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/03b11b47974f) (2026-02-05, 118 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/115037560/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-5%2Fcbbd81fa-38d2-5dd7-9048-4c61240ad8be.mp3 - [How Social Media is Shaping The Idea of the 21st Century Man | Ep. 113](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/fe5e6cf26789) (2026-01-29, 66 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/114698911/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-0-28%2Fea5f6d35-ddbc-8a37-9527-283cb8c491f8.mp3 - [Everybody go chop Breakfast? How do men Deal with Heartbreak? 💔 | Ep. 112](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/34055796743e) (2026-01-22, 93 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/114375890/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-0-22%2F16d36b18-045e-71d3-eacd-5454eac2fc8c.mp3 - [New Co-Host Reveal + Detty December Recap & 2026 Expectations | Menisms Ep. 111](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/cd7b9ba67897) (2026-01-15, 67 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/113923279/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-0-13%2Fd256f327-fe97-9e28-9e41-367c8fec42e0.mp3 - [Caught Between Men & Baddies - One Man's Dilemma | Ep. 110](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/77cf4bceade9) (2025-07-17, 51 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/105587220/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-6-16%2Fc43ce676-977d-1074-8718-67cdc0be393f.mp3 - [Men's Value: Is Wealth the Ultimate Metric?, Bad Money Habits in Your 20s | Ep. 109](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/573d413feda9) (2025-07-10, 42 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/105270607/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-6-9%2F691a3167-8bdd-413f-505f-e45eaa741b93.mp3 - [Lagos Dating Dilemma: Dating Your Spec VS The "Lock-In" Phase](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/5db5bfc3361c) (2025-07-03, 44 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/104968356/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-6-3%2Fb67ff6ff-f5e6-35fb-570c-0602672fd29e.mp3 - [Beyond the Bars: M.I. Abaga on The Pressures of African Masculinity, Therapy & Nigerian Identity](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/32a41f7ebb0c) (2025-06-26, 79 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/104572675/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-5-24%2F1bc627b1-c7db-df71-ee64-9a3376cf2757.mp3 - [Do men have financial boundaries when it comes to women?! | Ep. 106](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/f68374750687) (2025-06-19, 91 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/104352960/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-5-19%2F32575fbe-f453-95b9-ee3d-8c984a1e152c.mp3 - [Call Me Daddy | Father's Day Special | Ep. 105](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/c8b2291b6eae) (2025-06-15, 66 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/104144626/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-5-15%2F04778872-b82e-f848-7a12-3d9bd2289f02.mp3 - [Surviving Kirikiri, Poison Grapes and Genius Gorillas ft. Falz | Ep. 104](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/0680b4ad4255) (2025-05-22, 34 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/102973216/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-4-21%2F384193fc-c050-8040-0bd1-56e3c494eec1.mp3 - [Her Senior Brother Billed Me, Her Best Friend Seems To Have a Crush on Me | Ep. 103](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/8c24e67e90e9) (2025-05-15, 16 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/102582065/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-4-13%2F28689293-b379-c627-5a41-3dbab9f28c52.mp3 - [She Said WHAT?! Shocking Dating Stories & Red Flags | Menisms 102](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/c432789793d8) (2025-05-08, 20 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/102326262/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-4-7%2F5e6dd142-e64a-0509-e49f-0feae00f8ab0.mp3 - [Checking Your Partner's Phone, Monogamy, & Should Women Give Men Money | Ep. 101](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/08a0f271b959) (2025-05-01, 23 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/102023994/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-4-1%2F633e7c52-5073-51b1-6e07-6ff22cd15a26.mp3 - [We'll Be Back... Soon!](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/555279960217) (2025-04-10, 2 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/101094789/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-3-10%2Fcb1d3bcc-78b1-acd8-111f-19d251208832.mp3 - [Road to 100 Episodes ft. Wande Thomas (Menisms Producer) | Ep. 100](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/2b078860d634) (2025-04-03, 66 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/100771023/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-3-3%2Fc450b378-c38b-77bb-da74-31ad6d2f2dd9.mp3 - [What No One Tells You About Parties & Nightlife in Lagos ft. Jay Breeze | Ep. 99](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/54d5c1f077bd) (2025-03-27, 84 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/100444699/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-2-27%2Ff861077b-24d6-b5dc-66a8-9355fcf88226.mp3 - [Is Real Estate Overpriced? Best place to rent in Lagos Ft. Duru Bond | Ep. 98](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/89f174d27a3e) (2025-03-20, 99 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/100121395/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-2-20%2F1faa2a6a-d19f-0f78-7d7d-ee54b56297da.mp3 - [When Situations and Hookups Become a Nightmare | Ep. 97](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/f474ede1c109) (2025-03-06, 51 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/99441923/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-2-6%2Fbb8f2df5-0704-e698-9230-4c392393c9a7.mp3 - [Challenging Nigerian parents, wrong cultural and societal norms | Ep. 96](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/9eb717b242fe) (2025-02-27, 85 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/99099220/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-1-27%2F21f54d4c-90c0-5621-f8c9-fce7cf4c27e5.mp3 - [How Money, Women, Career & Ego Changes Friendships ft. Isomer & Iremide | Ep. 95](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/a6342f6c010d) (2025-02-20, 91 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/98764263/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-1-20%2Fbe504c90-cb61-0a62-dfc2-4f3ae08be577.mp3 - [IJGBs, Lagos vs London babes & More | Ep. 94](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/f1456a9ad573) (2025-02-13, 59 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/98430657/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-1-13%2F48fee699-d55a-2000-0516-4f736cfe1472.mp3 - [Surviving Detty December without going broke ft. Deji Osikoya | Ep. 93](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/3786cc4b727a) (2024-12-19, 55 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/95984788/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-11-18%2F60ef8f56-5599-fcb5-374e-993b17545ee9.mp3 - [Does money influence taste in Women and lifestyle? | Menisms Ep. 91](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/1bce8c7544e4) (2024-12-05, 59 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/95356908/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-11-4%2F4028f9f2-7a90-26b5-a6b1-f151f96c4264.mp3 - [Wild Tinder Experiences & Hookups Ft. Kolamide & Jesta | Menisms Ep. 90](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/ec6dc9b22d38) (2024-11-28, 73 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/95071817/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-10-28%2Fadf1137f-3424-0b9b-26ab-10458a4d1203.mp3 - [5 Ways I got confident as a guy in my 20s | Menisms Ep. 89](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/b3f7dab4f057) (2024-11-21, 65 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/94743810/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-10-21%2F4e02322c-2454-73ed-05be-361f92bd38b8.mp3 - [How to approach women in public ft. Toolz and Gbemi | Menisms Ep. 88](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/0ba89ddc2efa) (2024-11-14, 89 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/94396402/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-10-14%2Ff3de400c-ee17-c99d-6d07-4032cc54e7df.mp3 - [Should You Tell Your Partner About Your Past Secrets or Situationships? - Menisms Ep. 87](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/5cc8b169b115) (2024-09-12, 77 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/91605098/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-8-12%2Ff1edd619-461d-51a7-6279-bc2d4e46bb61.mp3 - [10 Things Men Want To Tell Women But Are Too Scared To - Ep. 86](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/e26eadd0bce8) (2024-09-05, 63 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/91303873/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-8-4%2Fe90a919c-c6cd-de7c-75a4-01aedd95dad4.mp3 - [Becoming Nigeria's Biggest Food Critic ft. Opeyemi Famakin - Ep. 85](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/1fb7458fc4ef) (2024-08-29, 115 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/91022118/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-7-29%2Fee734774-b03d-35c4-4fd7-04266f16eae6.mp3 - [Is it a Man's World? ft. Oiza & Meyi - Ep. 84](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/6565ce350ba2) (2024-08-22, 147 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/90734856/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-7-22%2Fe718bfa9-dd00-5d1f-f7c9-153263d9ff0b.mp3 - [Why Young Women Can't Leave Older Men - Menisms Ep. 83](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/326c429cbbe6) (2024-08-15, 62 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/90468746/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-7-15%2Fa3e8337b-5690-482a-46f8-b6349c69671a.mp3 - [Dating to Get Married, How Long is Too Long? - Menisms Ep. 82](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1608929536/6b0f64a3e84e) (2024-08-11, 69 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/81693d28/podcast/play/90291287/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2024-7-11%2Fd5b6c621-6783-6a0f-ec36-2df54ef8247e.mp3 Shows are listed from Apple Podcasts' charts and directory, and Podcast Index where it is used. 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