# First Date Follow Up: Remy & Tarika - She Ghosted Him Over His Frozen Yogurt?! 🍦

An episode of [First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1601656415), 25 Aug 2026, 10 min.

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Remy thought his first date with Tarika went incredibly well—they spent hours together, hit three different spots, and seemed to be vibing. But after two weeks of silence, he has no idea why she's suddenly ghosting him. When The Jubal Show finally gets Tarika on the phone, the reason is so unexpected that Remy may never look at frozen yogurt the same way again. Will this First Date Follow-Up lead to another date, or is one very chaotic dessert enough to ruin the whole thing? Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: • Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com • Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow • X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow • Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show • Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow • YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: Remy is on the phone today for a first date
[0:02] Speaker 1: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by Tarika. So in
[0:05] Speaker 1: a minute, we're going to call her and see if
[0:07] Speaker 1: she tells us why she's ghosting and maybe get another date.
[0:09] Speaker 1: But first, Remy, how long has it been since you
[0:11] Speaker 1: heard from Tarika?
[0:11] Speaker 2: It's been about two weeks now.
[0:14] Speaker 3: OK, have you reached out to her?
[0:15] Speaker 2: I mean, at first I was reaching out, but no,
[0:18] Speaker 2: I've kind of gotten the point and, you know, held
[0:21] Speaker 2: back recently.
[0:22] Speaker 3: But why don't you tell us about your date?
[0:25] Speaker 4: Yeah, sure.
[0:26] Speaker 2: So we went out to a steak place in town
[0:28] Speaker 2: I really like. And then after that, we went out
[0:32] Speaker 2: for fro-yo. And then we even went out to a
[0:36] Speaker 2: little dive bar I really like after that. So I
[0:39] Speaker 2: don't know. It was a great night. You know, we
[0:41] Speaker 2: met up around 7. And, you know, by the time
[0:44] Speaker 2: I dropped her off, it was, you know, almost already night.
[0:46] Speaker 2: So great night. A lot of fun.
[0:49] Speaker 5: It is always weird to me when you go to
[0:50] Speaker 5: three different locations and then you get ghosted because at
[0:52] Speaker 5: that point you have a pretty good feeling that like
[0:55] Speaker 5: this person wants to spend time with you. Like you
[0:57] Speaker 5: had an out two different times. Did you feel like
[0:59] Speaker 5: she was super nice?
[1:00] Speaker 2: Yeah, she was super nice. I like, you know, we
[1:04] Speaker 2: talked a while before even our first date and like,
[1:06] Speaker 2: I don't know, we're both vibing really good together. And yeah,
[1:10] Speaker 2: just really weird that she didn't tell me anything was wrong.
[1:13] Speaker 6: Could it be like work or family related that she's
[1:15] Speaker 6: not like something's going on in her personal life?
[1:19] Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, she sounded like she really had her
[1:21] Speaker 2: stuff together, but, you know, it's definitely possible she could
[1:23] Speaker 2: have just gotten busy. But, you know, like I said,
[1:26] Speaker 2: it's been a couple of weeks, so I figured if
[1:28] Speaker 2: she wanted to go on another date, maybe she would
[1:29] Speaker 2: have answered me. But I really at least, you know,
[1:32] Speaker 2: want to know why.
[1:33] Speaker 5: During the date, Remy, did she give you feelings that
[1:36] Speaker 5: she liked you? Did she say that? Or is there
[1:39] Speaker 5: something that could have possibly happened that would have made
[1:41] Speaker 5: the date kind of take a turn?
[1:43] Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.
[1:44] Speaker 2: Like, so I guess the one thing is, I was
[1:47] Speaker 2: making like kind of some suggestive comments, like, you know,
[1:50] Speaker 2: because things were going so well, like, you know, how
[1:52] Speaker 2: much I like her and stuff. And it seemed like
[1:55] Speaker 2: those feelings were kind of reciprocated. But I don't know.
[1:58] Speaker 2: Maybe I pushed too hard. Like, that's the only thing
[2:00] Speaker 2: I could really think of.
[2:01] Speaker 5: But like, what did you say? What direction were you pushing? Like, oh,
[2:04] Speaker 5: I really like you. I can't wait till we get married.
[2:07] Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[2:08] Speaker 2: No, no, nothing like that. But just like, oh, yeah.
[2:12] Speaker 2: you know, Oh, next time I'll have to do this. And,
[2:14] Speaker 2: you know, things like that, like, you know, kind of,
[2:16] Speaker 2: you know, you know, insinuating that, you know, this wouldn't
[2:19] Speaker 2: be the only, you know, date.
[2:20] Speaker 3: I think that's a good thing.
[2:22] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[2:23] Speaker 4: Yeah.
[2:23] Speaker 1: You can't think of anything awkward that happened or any
[2:25] Speaker 1: reason that you'd be getting ghosted.
[2:27] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[2:28] Speaker 4: I don't know. Like, uh, I don't know.
[2:30] Speaker 2: Maybe I wasn't dressed right. Like I was wearing like
[2:33] Speaker 2: corduroy pants or something. Maybe she was judging me on that.
[2:36] Speaker 2: I don't know.
[2:38] Speaker 3: Corduroy pants. I think corduroys are in now.
[2:40] Speaker 4: Ish. Ish.
[2:41] Speaker 3: Okay. So maybe you were getting judged on that.
[2:44] Speaker 2: I like them. I mean, I like them.
[2:46] Speaker 3: How tight were they?
[2:51] Speaker 2: They fit just.
[2:53] Speaker 4: Right, man. Okay. All right.
[2:55] Speaker 1: Remy is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Terica.
[2:58] Speaker 1: So in a second, we're going to call her and
[3:00] Speaker 1: see if she tells why she's ghosting him and maybe
[3:02] Speaker 1: get him another date. But first, Remy, why don't you
[3:04] Speaker 1: catch everybody up on your date with Terica?
[3:07] Speaker 2: So, yeah, we went on the steak place. We had
[3:10] Speaker 2: frozen yogurt. You know, we went to a dive bar,
[3:12] Speaker 2: you know, all together. We were together probably for about
[3:14] Speaker 2: five hours. It was a great date. You know, I
[3:17] Speaker 2: texted her a few times after the date, but now
[3:19] Speaker 2: it's been about two weeks. Haven't heard from her. Don't
[3:22] Speaker 2: know if she was judging me on my corduroy pants
[3:24] Speaker 2: or some of the talent I was making, you know.
[3:27] Speaker 2: You know, hoping that we would, you know, it wouldn't
[3:29] Speaker 2: be our only date or anything like that. And, you know,
[3:32] Speaker 2: I'd just really like to hear from her again or
[3:34] Speaker 2: at least find out, like, why I haven't heard from her.
[3:37] Speaker 3: Okay, cool. You ready for us to call her?
[3:39] Speaker 2: Hell yeah.
[3:39] Speaker 1: Okay, here we.
[3:42] Speaker 2: Go.
[3:44] Speaker 4: Hello?
[3:45] Speaker 3: Hi, may I speak to Terica, please?
[3:46] Speaker 4: This is Sherry.
[3:48] Speaker 1: Hey, Terica, how are you? My name is Jubal, and
[3:50] Speaker 1: I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.
[3:52] Speaker 3: Hi, Terica.
[3:53] Speaker 5: I'm Nina.
[3:53] Speaker 3: I'm also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
[3:55] Speaker 4: Seriously?
[3:57] Speaker 3: Yeah, seriously.
[3:58] Speaker 4: That's cool.
[4:00] Speaker 3: You listen to the show ever?
[4:01] Speaker 4: Yeah, I have.
[4:03] Speaker 1: We do a segment on the show called The First
[4:05] Speaker 1: Date Follow-Up, where if you go on a date with
[4:07] Speaker 1: somebody and ghost them, that person emails us to call
[4:10] Speaker 1: you up and ask why you're ghosting them.
[4:12] Speaker 3: Okay.
[4:13] Speaker 4: Okay.
[4:14] Speaker 3: She thinks that part's funny.
[4:17] Speaker 1: We got an email about you.
[4:18] Speaker 3: Okay.
[4:20] Speaker 4: All right.
[4:22] Speaker 1: It's from a dude named Remy.
[4:24] Speaker 5: Oh, no.
[4:26] Speaker 4: Oh, yeah. Yep.
[4:28] Speaker 3: Are you ghosting Remy?
[4:29] Speaker 4: Can I say yes or no?
[4:34] Speaker 3: Okay.
[4:35] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[4:35] Speaker 3: Do you mind explaining to us what that means, though?
[4:38] Speaker 6: I definitely put off messaging him back.
[4:45] Speaker 4: I'll put it that way. I put off messaging him back.
[4:47] Speaker 1: So he's not totally ghosted yet.
[4:49] Speaker 3: It's just delayed.
[4:49] Speaker 5: I should have just mailed him a letter at this point.
[4:55] Speaker 3: It sounds funny.
[4:56] Speaker 4: It wasn't anything like... I literally just got thrown off.
[5:01] Speaker 4: That was it. Like, it wasn't, like, anything. I was
[5:05] Speaker 4: just thrown off. Okay, so I couldn't stop thinking about
[5:10] Speaker 4: what happened when we went to get frozen yogurt.
[5:12] Speaker 1: Like..
[5:14] Speaker 4: I don't know what happened, but like he went bonkers.
[5:17] Speaker 6: Like he added everything like cookies and gummy bears and.
[5:23] Speaker 4: Sprinkles and the chocolate syrup and and the strawberry.
[5:27] Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like he was having a good time
[5:28] Speaker 3: at the frozen yogurt shop.
[5:30] Speaker 5: Yeah, it sounds like something I do, too. I know
[5:32] Speaker 5: he's spending 40 bucks at those places. The toppings are
[5:37] Speaker 5: so good.
[5:38] Speaker 3: I don't understand. It's hard to choose just one.
[5:40] Speaker 2: Right.
[5:42] Speaker 4: Well, it was my thought process, but I was like,
[5:44] Speaker 4: I was like weirded out. I was like, okay, this
[5:46] Speaker 4: thing is going to weigh 40 pounds. And I was
[5:48] Speaker 4: just like, has he never been to one of these places?
[5:51] Speaker 4: Like is this first time out of the house? Like
[5:53] Speaker 4: I was very confused. So I just, I guess I
[5:56] Speaker 4: thought about it like way too much. And then I
[5:59] Speaker 4: was like, well, I'll get back to him. You know,
[6:01] Speaker 4: I was still in my head.
[6:02] Speaker 6: And then I completely forgot to get back to him.
[6:08] Speaker 3: Okay.
[6:08] Speaker 4: You just forgot?
[6:09] Speaker 3: That sounds like something Victoria would do.
[6:11] Speaker 4: Yeah, 100%.
[6:12] Speaker 5: Obviously, you're judging him on having so many toppings. Does
[6:15] Speaker 5: that does that tell you something about his character or
[6:18] Speaker 5: you're just really not sure how somebody can mix cookies
[6:21] Speaker 5: and gummy bears together? I'm not really understanding how this
[6:24] Speaker 5: was like an ick for you.
[6:26] Speaker 6: Um, it's just like a lot. Like, I think I
[6:29] Speaker 6: was just stunned. Um, it was kind of like a
[6:32] Speaker 6: train wreck kind of thing. I was just watching it
[6:34] Speaker 6: and I'm.
[6:35] Speaker 4: Like, I just can't, I can't stop thinking about it. Okay.
[6:38] Speaker 5: Let me ask you this, Terica. This will help me understand.
[6:41] Speaker 5: What do you put on your frozen yogurt?
[6:43] Speaker 6: Oh, well, like the flavors coordinate, like I'll do like,
[6:46] Speaker 6: you know, two, three flavors that.
[6:48] Speaker 4: Like all make sense together.
[6:50] Speaker 3: But no toppings.
[6:52] Speaker 4: I'll do some toppings, but I'll.
[6:53] Speaker 6: Do like, oh, like, let's do like a strawberry and
[6:56] Speaker 6: a chocolate with like some fresh strawberries on it or
[6:58] Speaker 6: something like that.
[6:59] Speaker 4: That makes sense. Like I do a couple of things. Yeah.
[7:03] Speaker 3: No, no, I get it. Now her closet is like,
[7:04] Speaker 3: it's color coordinated. A hundred percent.
[7:07] Speaker 4: It is actually. Yeah.
[7:08] Speaker 3: See, that's okay. It just needed to understand. Ah, okay.
[7:12] Speaker 3: Why the chaos was throwing her.
[7:15] Speaker 4: Off. Chaos is a good word for it. Yes.
[7:18] Speaker 1: That's the reason that you're ghosting him is because of...
[7:21] Speaker 1: The topping's on its fro-yo.
[7:22] Speaker 6: I was just kind of picturing, you know, how like
[7:25] Speaker 6: there's those people at the like soda fountains that they
[7:27] Speaker 6: get like a splash of every single flavor in the cup.
[7:29] Speaker 4: Like that always blows my mind.
[7:31] Speaker 3: Okay, I do that too.
[7:31] Speaker 1: What?
[7:32] Speaker 4: Yeah.
[7:32] Speaker 3: Are you serious? It's a great little concoction. It's called
[7:34] Speaker 3: the Nina. I understand. You call them your name?
[7:38] Speaker 1: It's like Nina-ade, you know, like lemonade. But it's like, anyways. Terica,
[7:42] Speaker 1: thank you for telling us. I should also let you
[7:44] Speaker 1: know that Remy is on the phone listening and wants
[7:46] Speaker 1: to talk to you.
[7:49] Speaker 4: Oh, sorry.
[7:54] Speaker 2: So, yeah, I guess I kind of like, you could say,
[7:56] Speaker 2: a fruit punch of frozen yogurt. Like, you've heard of
[8:00] Speaker 2: the kid in the candy store? Well, I'm like the
[8:02] Speaker 2: man in the fro-yo place. Like, I just can't make
[8:04] Speaker 2: up my mind. So, I guess maybe I didn't want
[8:07] Speaker 2: to hold on the date. So, instead of deciding, I
[8:09] Speaker 2: just added a little bit of everything. Sorry about that.
[8:11] Speaker 3: I don't think you need to apologize for that.
[8:19] Speaker 4: I don't know.
[8:20] Speaker 2: You sounded pretty offended, so.
[8:21] Speaker 4: I wasn't. Okay, so clarification. I'm so sorry. I was
[8:26] Speaker 4: not offended. I was just blown away. Like, my mind
[8:31] Speaker 4: is just blown. Like, I don't think I had the
[8:32] Speaker 4: power to think after that.
[8:34] Speaker 2: You know, maybe sometime I could go out for pizza
[8:36] Speaker 2: or something, but, you know, I like to order a
[8:38] Speaker 2: lot of toppings on those, too, so.
[8:40] Speaker 4: I was going to say, like, how many toppings go
[8:42] Speaker 4: on your pizza?
[8:43] Speaker 6: Like, are you one of those people that puts, like,
[8:45] Speaker 6: sardines and peanut butter or something?
[8:47] Speaker 2: I can't remember. No, but maybe some sausage and pineapple
[8:54] Speaker 2: and green pepper and onion and Canadian bacon and taco and,
[8:58] Speaker 2: you know, pepperoni and black olives, green olives. So not
[9:03] Speaker 2: too many mushrooms, but not too many toppings.
[9:07] Speaker 3: I like it that way, too. I don't know. Remi
[9:10] Speaker 3: sounds a lot like me.
[9:12] Speaker 4: Well, at least like with pizzas, you can usually order
[9:14] Speaker 4: like a half and half. Yeah.
[9:17] Speaker 2: But yeah, so it was just a pro-yo, huh? I
[9:20] Speaker 2: was really kind of just wondering what I'm hearing from you.
[9:24] Speaker 4: Like, I wasn't really, like, ghosting you because of it.
[9:27] Speaker 4: I just got in my head about it, and then
[9:30] Speaker 4: I honestly, I meant to get back to you, and
[9:32] Speaker 4: then I just didn't. Like, that's it. Like, I wish
[9:36] Speaker 4: I had a better excuse, and I have nothing.
[9:40] Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with Remy again? We'll
[9:41] Speaker 1: pay for it. I mean, we'll pay for most of it.
[9:44] Speaker 1: I don't know how much his Froyo costs, if you
[9:46] Speaker 1: guys get Froyo, but we'll pay for it.
[9:48] Speaker 4: I mean, I guess the bigger question is, like, is
[9:51] Speaker 4: he willing to go out with me again?
[9:53] Speaker 3: That's fair.
[9:54] Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that uh pizza with the 20 toppings
[9:57] Speaker 2: is sounding pretty good now so uh that'd be awesome
[10:01] Speaker 6: Well i mean if you want a third date just
[10:03] Speaker 6: don't get the 20 topping pizza and we should be
[10:04] Speaker 6: good

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