# First Date Follow Up: He Called Her a THIEF After Their First Date?! 🍰

An episode of [First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1601656415), 21 Sep 2026, 9:08.

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Nicole thought her first date with Adam went surprisingly well—even after an absolutely chaotic margarita mishap. They laughed, kissed, and seemed to hit it off… so why did Adam suddenly start ghosting her? When The Jubal Show calls him for a First Date Follow Up, he reveals the real reason he’s done with Nicole, and his accusation is so serious you might think the police were involved. Find out what happened on this bizarre first date, why a piece of birthday cake became a HUGE relationship red flag, and whether Nicole will get the second date she wants. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: • Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com • Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow • X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow • Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show • Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow • YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: Nicole is on the phone today for a first date follow-up,
[0:03] Speaker 1: and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Adam. So
[0:05] Speaker 1: we're about to call him and see if he'll tell
[0:07] Speaker 1: us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a
[0:09] Speaker 1: second date.
[0:10] Speaker 2: But first, Nicole, why do you think you're getting ghosted?
[0:12] Speaker 3: Probably because I sneezed my margarita all over his face.
[0:17] Speaker 3: Not once, not twice, but three times.
[0:21] Speaker 2: Oh, girl. You sneezed your margarita on his face three times?
[0:24] Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean.
[0:27] Speaker 5: The tape was going great until it wasn't.
[0:32] Speaker 2: Like in a row?
[0:35] Speaker 5: Yeah, well, yeah.
[0:37] Speaker 2: Well, okay. Yeah, go ahead and explain. How did that happen?
[0:42] Speaker 3: Well, he's... Adam's super cute, and we had so much
[0:48] Speaker 3: in common, and went to this cute little Mexican restaurant,
[0:52] Speaker 3: and my allergies were bothering me.
[0:55] Speaker 5: They've been just.
[0:55] Speaker 3: Really bad lately, and I didn't realize.
[0:58] Speaker 5: It, but when I took a sip of my margarita,
[1:01] Speaker 5: I had to sneeze. And there's no time to swallow
[1:06] Speaker 5: or do anything.
[1:07] Speaker 3: So....
[1:11] Speaker 5: I basically crop dusted his entire face with my margarine.
[1:17] Speaker 5: What did he do?
[1:19] Speaker 2: I might do it.
[1:21] Speaker 5: We just kind of laughed about it. You know, I
[1:23] Speaker 5: started panicking and I wiped his face of my sleeve.
[1:28] Speaker 4: Okay.
[1:29] Speaker 2: That was resourceful.
[1:35] Speaker 5: And you know we laughed and i apologized but then
[1:38] Speaker 5: it happened again and he didn't laugh as much as.
[1:40] Speaker 1: The first time oh yeah yeah i could see one
[1:45] Speaker 1: time being like funny and the second time you're like
[1:47] Speaker 1: okay are you doing.
[1:48] Speaker 3: This on purpose then then it happened again and no.
[1:52] Speaker 1: Laugh no laugh on the third time you sneezed your
[1:55] Speaker 1: drink in his.
[1:55] Speaker 2: Face No laugh.
[1:58] Speaker 3: And I'm pretty sure he thought I was doing it
[2:00] Speaker 3: on purpose.
[2:01] Speaker 5: And, you know, I apologize. I tried to joke, but
[2:04] Speaker 5: you know how bad my allergies are. And I had
[2:07] Speaker 5: to sneeze a few more times, so I was hoping
[2:09] Speaker 5: he'd give me a pass.
[2:10] Speaker 2: Hey, girl, my allergies are terrible, too.
[2:12] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[2:13] Speaker 2: I feel like you learn after the first time. Like
[2:15] Speaker 2: turn your head or something and take a drink?
[2:17] Speaker 5: Yeah.
[2:17] Speaker 2: Okay, so you think that's why he's ghosting you? It
[2:20] Speaker 2: could be.
[2:21] Speaker 5: I think so.
[2:22] Speaker 4: I mean.
[2:23] Speaker 5: At the end of the day, we kissed and he
[2:24] Speaker 5: made this joke like he already spit all over my
[2:27] Speaker 5: face a bunch of times.
[2:28] Speaker 2: So we might as well kiss to see how it goes.
[2:31] Speaker 4: Okay.
[2:31] Speaker 2: That's a good sign, though.
[2:33] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[2:34] Speaker 5: It was so embarrassing.
[2:36] Speaker 3: I like him a lot, but now he's not calling
[2:39] Speaker 3: me back and I want to know why.
[2:41] Speaker 5: You know, if he didn't like me, he wouldn't kiss me.
[2:44] Speaker 2: Yeah, you wouldn't think so.
[2:45] Speaker 5: Yeah.
[2:46] Speaker 2: Nicole, why don't you refresh our memory on why you
[2:48] Speaker 2: think you're getting ghosted again?
[2:50] Speaker 3: Well, I guess I thought it was because I sneezed.
[2:53] Speaker 5: In his face a bunch of times.
[2:56] Speaker 2: Not just regular sneezes. You drink in his face.
[2:58] Speaker 5: Yeah, the margarita. You know, I mean, we kissed afterwards,
[3:05] Speaker 5: so I didn't think, you know, I thought he kind
[3:08] Speaker 5: of forgave me. So I don't know why he's not
[3:09] Speaker 5: calling me now.
[3:11] Speaker 2: Okay, well, here we go.
[3:12] Speaker 1: I'm going to dial his phone number right now, and
[3:13] Speaker 1: we'll see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you.
[3:20] Speaker 2: Hello. Hi, is this Adam? This is Adam, yeah. Hey, Adam,
[3:26] Speaker 2: how are you? This is a radio show. It's called
[3:28] Speaker 2: The Jubal Show. What's up, Adam? I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. Hey,
[3:31] Speaker 2: my name is Jubal. How's it going?
[3:32] Speaker 4: Oh, well, good.
[3:35] Speaker 3: How are y'all? Good.
[3:36] Speaker 2: Thank you. You ever hear the show before?
[3:39] Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, sure have.
[3:42] Speaker 3: Okay. Awesome.
[3:43] Speaker 4: What's Why are you calling me?
[3:46] Speaker 1: We're calling you today because this is a first date
[3:48] Speaker 1: follow up, which I'm guessing you already know what that is.
[3:50] Speaker 1: But that's where if you go out on a date
[3:52] Speaker 1: with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that
[3:54] Speaker 1: person can email us to get you on the phone.
[3:56] Speaker 2: And find out why you're ghosting them. So we got
[4:00] Speaker 2: an email about you, Adam.
[4:03] Speaker 4: Yeah, well, that being the case, I guess I'm not
[4:06] Speaker 4: surprised to hear from you. Really?
[4:09] Speaker 2: It's from Nicole. Nicole.
[4:13] Speaker 1: She told us that you guys went on a date,
[4:14] Speaker 1: but now you're not talking to her. Would you mind
[4:16] Speaker 1: telling us why?
[4:17] Speaker 4: Well, I draw the line when it comes to dating thieves.
[4:22] Speaker 5: Thieves?
[4:23] Speaker 3: Yikes.
[4:23] Speaker 5: What?
[4:24] Speaker 2: She's a thief?
[4:26] Speaker 4: Well, listen, at first she seemed really cool. You know,
[4:30] Speaker 4: she was cute. She was pretty. You know, we had
[4:33] Speaker 4: a good time right at first, but it got kind
[4:35] Speaker 4: of gross because her allergies were really bad. And she
[4:39] Speaker 4: sneezed a drink in my face three times.
[4:42] Speaker 2: Yeah, she told us about that.
[4:45] Speaker 4: Oh, you know, projectile sneezing, you know, and I thought
[4:48] Speaker 4: it was a little annoying. I kind of laughed it
[4:50] Speaker 4: off at first. But after the second time, maybe cover
[4:54] Speaker 4: your mouth before you spew a margarita in my face.
[4:57] Speaker 4: But that wasn't really the thing to turn me off.
[5:00] Speaker 3: OK.
[5:01] Speaker 4: She wanted a dessert and then tried to be cute
[5:04] Speaker 4: and was like, watch this. And she told the waiter
[5:06] Speaker 4: it was my birthday. Also, she could get a free
[5:09] Speaker 4: piece of cake. And they came to the table and
[5:12] Speaker 4: sang happy birthday, you know, not too awkward at all.
[5:15] Speaker 4: And he thought it was funny. But in my opinion,
[5:19] Speaker 4: it's not. It's theft. And I won't stand for that.
[5:22] Speaker 4: You know, it was not my birthday. I had to
[5:24] Speaker 4: sit there smiling while complete strangers celebrated a fake birthday.
[5:29] Speaker 4: You know, a lie at that. And in my opinion,
[5:32] Speaker 4: not only is she a thief and a liar, she
[5:34] Speaker 4: also made me be one, too, because I didn't want
[5:37] Speaker 4: to stop him and go, hey, you know, this isn't
[5:39] Speaker 4: my birthday. It's just really awkward. And it's a huge
[5:42] Speaker 4: red flag. And I just can't feel like I trust her.
[5:46] Speaker 2: You sound very passionate about that.
[5:49] Speaker 4: Yeah. Well, you know, it just kind of takes some
[5:53] Speaker 4: red flags.
[5:54] Speaker 2: Okay. Well, thanks for being honest with us. I appreciate that.
[5:58] Speaker 1: And to let you know, Adam, Nicole is on the
[6:02] Speaker 1: phone listening and wants to talk to you.
[6:07] Speaker 5: Adam, are you seriously calling me a thief because I
[6:11] Speaker 5: got a free piece of birthday cake?
[6:14] Speaker 4: Well, yeah, the way you got it, you know, it
[6:17] Speaker 4: just wasn't.
[6:17] Speaker 5: It was your birthday and nobody got hurt.
[6:20] Speaker 3: And I thought it would be funny.
[6:22] Speaker 5: People do it at restaurants all the time.
[6:24] Speaker 2: They do.
[6:26] Speaker 4: Well, yeah. It was usually actually their birthday.
[6:33] Speaker 2: So you're really not cool with her faking the birthday
[6:36] Speaker 2: to get a cake.
[6:37] Speaker 5: We didn't walk out with the cash register.
[6:39] Speaker 3: And you're acting like the restaurant is.
[6:41] Speaker 5: Reviewing security footage right now to identify the birthday cake bandit.
[6:47] Speaker 1: And you know what, Adam?
[6:48] Speaker 5: You ate the cake.
[6:50] Speaker 3: That's the part you're leaving out. You didn't refuse the
[6:53] Speaker 3: sole merchandise. If I'm a thief, then you're my accomplice.
[6:59] Speaker 2: Did you eat the cake, Adam?
[7:02] Speaker 4: Yeah, I ate the cake because to not have at
[7:04] Speaker 4: that point would have been just tremendously awkward. And, you know,
[7:09] Speaker 4: what else am I supposed to do for crying out loud?
[7:11] Speaker 4: You know, so you could have.
[7:15] Speaker 5: Said, actually, it's not my birthday. Did you know you
[7:20] Speaker 5: just sat there and smiling while everyone's saying to you?
[7:24] Speaker 4: What else was I supposed to do? I was embarrassed.
[7:27] Speaker 4: You know, it just it just was awkward. And it
[7:31] Speaker 4: took me aback because I wasn't expecting it. Basically, dishonesty. Sorry.
[7:38] Speaker 2: You're serious about this, Adam. You really feel like it's a.
[7:41] Speaker 4: Yeah. And I hate to be, but come on, man.
[7:44] Speaker 4: You know, there are lines that just.
[7:47] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[7:48] Speaker 4: That aren't crossed.
[7:50] Speaker 5: You know, when they put the birthday cake down, you
[7:52] Speaker 5: didn't say, I can't accept this. It was obtained under
[7:56] Speaker 5: false pretenses. You know what he did?
[7:58] Speaker 2: What did he do?
[7:59] Speaker 5: He picked up a fork.
[8:00] Speaker 2: He just went right for it.
[8:05] Speaker 4: One more time for the people in the back. I
[8:08] Speaker 4: didn't want it to get even more awkward than it was,
[8:11] Speaker 4: so I felt like I had to go along with
[8:13] Speaker 4: it just to help save space for everybody. Not just
[8:17] Speaker 4: for Nicole, not just for me. No. For the staff
[8:22] Speaker 4: and everybody else, too.
[8:25] Speaker 5: This is like a definition of a red flag. Dating
[8:28] Speaker 5: you just must be exhausting. What happens if I take
[8:31] Speaker 5: some ketchup? Are you going to call the police on me?
[8:33] Speaker 4: No. He probably would.
[8:38] Speaker 2: Adam, would you like another date with Nicole? We will
[8:40] Speaker 2: pay for it.
[8:43] Speaker 4: No, thanks. I appreciate the thought, but I don't want
[8:46] Speaker 4: to have to keep my hand on my wallet the
[8:48] Speaker 4: whole time in case I get pickpocketed.
[8:50] Speaker 2: Okay. Wow. Sorry, Nicole. No second date.
[8:56] Speaker 5: I am so happy. So happy now that I sneezed
[9:00] Speaker 5: my margarita in your face. You, sir, are the dumbest
[9:03] Speaker 5: of all.
[9:07] Speaker 4: Okay.

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