# LOVERS by Shan A podcast by LOVERS by shan. LOVERS by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guests include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away. When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach. Sales and Distribution by Lemonada Media https://lemonadamedia.com/ Feed: https://feeds.megaphone.fm/LEME1350073476 ## Latest episodes - [Abstinence is the Only Correct Path to Sex says Tony Gaskins](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/01edd3248c5d) (2026-10-21, 96 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME3933738874.mp3 - [This Situationship Taught Me About What I Want in Bed ft. Sabrina Zohar](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/7f23b0725930) (2026-10-14, 59 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME6702128870.mp3 - [You Abandoned Me, Stop Calling it a Breakup ft. Shaun Ross](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/ea299698b06c) (2026-10-07, 37 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME2315684916.mp3 - [So We're Just Gonna Pretend Like... | Responding to Your Comments Live Via G](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/fae9b1f0b2d2) (2026-10-02, 43 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME1468566285.mp3 - [He Felt Like the Dad I Never Had. That Was the Problem ft. Via G](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/e39c46170ebd) (2026-09-30, 56 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME2646994058.mp3 - [If It Don't Apply, Let It Fly | Responding to Your Comments Live: Kendrick Sampson](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/edcf5c5753ca) (2026-09-25, 67 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME9123904380.mp3 - [Romantic Love Is the Most Narrow Form of Love ft. Kendrick Sampson](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/c506ebd36583) (2026-09-23, 59 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME7148001505.mp3 - [I'm (Still) Concerned About Our Love, Pt. 3](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/de0149bbd494) (2026-09-16, 49 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME9514279916.mp3 - [He's Gay. She's a Lesbian. They're In a Co-Parenting Arrangement With Their Son](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/a755081f13a9) (2026-09-09, 46 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME7123170345.mp3 - [Criticism Has No Place in a Relationship ft. The Gottmans](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/b2761227fc13) (2026-09-02, 69 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME2188524765.mp3 - [The Lengths One Catfish Went to Avoid Getting Caught](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/4b8d626f8c12) (2026-08-26, 50 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4150845639.mp3 - [Listen Again: Singer Mario Opens Up About Emotional Healing After Maternal Trauma](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/07d1fd0ed46d) (2026-08-19, 58 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME9701227668.mp3 - [Listen Again: Don’t Have Sex With Someone If You Both Can’t Do THIS ft. Lena Waithe](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/12fd44da9025) (2026-08-12, 56 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME8575063195.mp3 - [Listen Again: I Lost My Sex Drive Because He Never Did THIS ft. Cree Summer](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/b1536eca3f68) (2026-08-05, 62 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME5966628522.mp3 - [If There Was a Female Version of “Viagra”, Would You Take It?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/2ead85e42f2e) (2026-07-29, 66 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME3334378263.mp3 - [Naomi Sharon: Learning About OCD Taught Me Why I Can't Let Go](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/5dd150826298) (2026-07-22, 50 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME6691783820.mp3 - [Does Unrequited Love Mean the Love Wasn't Real? ft. Tanerélle](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/72f19ab19218) (2026-07-15, 61 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME7428298790.mp3 - [I Embarrassed Him and We Had to Talk About It](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/fd0f938f0463) (2026-07-08, 65 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME3950638521.mp3 - [Stop Turning Me Into Inspiration Porn — Ericka Hart on Nasty Work](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/9dc9934466f3) (2026-07-01, 42 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4956924365.mp3 - [Loving Someone Based on How They Present Is the Whole Problem](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/9ec01fb41d90) (2026-06-24, 41 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME9224790488.mp3 - [The Most Intimate Thing a Man Can Do for His Family ft. Jared Brady & Jonathan Singletary](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/fd39bb34aa9d) (2026-06-17, 56 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME9434715112.mp3 - [How to Be in a Relationship Without One Foot Out the Door - Inayah on Going from Leaver to Lover](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/cc7241f18569) (2026-06-10, 57 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME7073044681.mp3 - [He Cheated. Then He Had a Son. Here's What He Did Differently](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/0d2321c8932b) (2026-06-03, 74 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME3103012078.mp3 - [I'm Sorry.](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/bb38c0529cff) (2026-06-01, 32 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME3718393725.mp3 - [Part II: Finding Happily Ever After Without a Romantic Partner ft. Melyssa Ford](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/831194f22a87) (2026-05-27, 74 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME8470095164.mp3 - [Everyone Wants This Kind of Love… Until It Costs Them Something](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/3e90612607dd) (2026-05-20, 75 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME5214735774.mp3 - [Is It Wrong to Still Want Attention if You’re in a Relationship ft. Lauren Morrison](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/0d47a3c9c0d7) (2026-05-13, 76 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME8130096260.mp3?updated=1778661284 - [This Changes How You See Avoidantly Attached People ft. Dr. Amir Levine](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/b32c1b7223cf) (2026-05-06, 59 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4016230101.mp3?updated=1778045451 - [This Kama Sutra Secret About Hands Changes Everything](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/f1f5403d71f4) (2026-04-29, 55 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME7100957642.mp3?updated=1777672934 - [The Year I Decided I’d Never Divorce My Husband](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/94aed1e9ece1) (2026-04-22, 37 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME7196062307.mp3?updated=1776825373 - [I Spent Years Forcing Relationships… Here’s What I Learned ft. Affion Crockett](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/d36651d3cf50) (2026-04-15, 64 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4822784030.mp3?updated=1776739632 - [The Secret to Attracting a Husband, Not Just a Boyfriend ft. Kamie Crawford](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/e7af1c8c186e) (2026-04-08, 73 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME6975427652.mp3?updated=1776739538 - [I Thought I Wanted to Be a Trad Wife… I Was Wrong ft. Lisa Bilyeu](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/12140087df9d) (2026-04-01, 77 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME3731005354.mp3?updated=1776739604 - [Why “Normal” Sex Doesn’t Work for Many Black and Brown Women Ft. Aida Mariam Davis](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/85f803ed77e8) (2026-03-25, 59 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME3839413168.mp3?updated=1776739556 - [What Men Actually Think About Before They Propose ft. Mark Manson](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/632bd910c2f7) (2026-03-18, 76 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4787583069.mp3?updated=1776739588 - [Are You Nicer to Strangers Than Your Partner ft. DeWanda Wise](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/0f5266bca876) (2026-03-11, 56 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME3825365670.mp3?updated=1776739575 - [What If You Never Meet the One ft. Melyssa Ford](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/baa2ee6fff04) (2026-03-04, 88 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME5890808869.mp3?updated=1776739592 - [Can Intimacy Survive Porn, Drinks and Phone Addictions? ft. Dr Anna Lembke](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/7cd778eddeb4) (2026-02-25, 60 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4818323273.mp3?updated=1776739616 - [Spinning the Block Doesn’t Work Without This ft. Jerrie Johnson and Dria Brown](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/65aabda4239b) (2026-02-18, 68 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME5848742700.mp3?updated=1776739650 - [Do We Believe Her Now? | Abby De La Rosa Returns to Discuss Her Alternative Relationship](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/c704e745558f) (2026-02-11, 78 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4320434575.mp3?updated=1776739584 - [What Men Risk When They Stay Quiet ft. Kier Gaines](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/63d9948c3bb4) (2026-02-04, 55 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME2593052877.mp3?updated=1776739647 - [Rachel Lindsay’s Shocking Discovery About Intimacy After Divorce](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/497d17c22b23) (2026-01-28, 51 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME1965087800.mp3?updated=1776739547 - [The Real Reason We Started an Open Relationship](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/b91bca318330) (2026-01-21, 57 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4698905578.mp3?updated=1776739627 - [When Conflict Turns Lovers Into Exes ft. Touré](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/288d515ad7d0) (2025-12-17, 54 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME5624139080.mp3?updated=1776739604 - [Intimacy Started When This Secret Came to Light ft. Jonathan Van Ness](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/abbca110858f) (2025-12-01, 55 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME8384334834.mp3?updated=1776739572 - [Navigating Parenting Differences as Lovers](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/2179bb6ba86e) (2025-11-26, 33 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4613962796.mp3?updated=1776739517 - [Love Has Destroyed Me So Why Do I Keep Trying? ft Sabrina Claudio](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/753a0c5d1d29) (2025-11-19, 49 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME7635084707.mp3?updated=1776739550 - [Seema Anand on Overcoming Shame with the Kama Sutra’s Secrets](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/c77841100369) (2025-11-12, 67 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME6802363265.mp3?updated=1776739582 - [Sacred Sex For People Who Don't Believe ft. Tanerélle](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/84c6c9f986df) (2025-11-05, 48 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME2918139722.mp3?updated=1776739514 - [What My Autism Diagnosis Taught Me About Love and Feeling Safe ft. Chrisette Michele](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1586679298/6379461a6e9e) (2025-10-29, 42 min): audio https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/491/traffic.megaphone.fm/LEME4497720820.mp3?updated=1776739508 Shows are listed from Apple Podcasts' charts and directory, and Podcast Index where it is used. Every show and episode belongs to its publisher and plays from the publisher's own feed; this site hosts none of them.