# Love is Blind USA - S11 Eps. 6-8: Part 2 w/Brian

An episode of [Tayne Talks: A Reality TV Podcast](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1522401890), 26 Oct 2026, 56 min.

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## Transcript

[0:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Hello everybody, welcome to another episode of Tain Talks, welcome to part two of the Love As Blind Season 11 episode six to eight recap with myself and Brian Hello, Brian ready for part two.
[0:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: not getting any ready here.
[0:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So that thing.
[0:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So all right.
[0:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We just hopped off the plane and we landed back in Boston.
[0:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Nick and Vanessa, like I mentioned, uh, U.S. is a one where the host don't go with them to the getaway, but they show up in the cities and they, um, it's funny every time they do like, uh, you know, the couple's come, they live together, will race, finances, opinions of others, but when Nick says opinions of others, the camera pants
[0:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I saw what you did there guys, I saw what you did.
[0:58] \[SPEAKER_01\]: All right, Blake and Erica must be nice for Blake to have a home, you know?
[1:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She and a nice home.
[1:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this
[1:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Go with it.
[1:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Not so different in this iteration.
[1:24] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So when her home came up, I was like, oh my god, this is really nice.
[1:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Then I remember she's in Connecticut.
[1:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm in Connecticut.
[1:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's not.
[1:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, um, she tells us like okay, so at this point, Erica seems like she's warming up to Blake like I can see her like okay She I think she likes him not your wife, but I think she does But she says like they've been looking at places and looking at Zillow redfin or whoever is we're trying to surprise She they allowed her say Zillow.
[1:56] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like she's my depot emotional fee
[2:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: of that and she's hoping that he falls in love with it and having a home base and I'm like you see that's your mistake number one.
[2:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Every time you think you can change a person this goes man or woman don't why do you want to put yourself through that because it's a gamble it's a maybe she's hoping he falls in love with having a home base he's hoping she falls in love with sailing around the world and the funny part is like this man probably has like
[2:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: A syllable, this is like, so tiny and he's selling it to be like a yacht or something.
[2:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: If it's one double bag on board.
[2:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So, yeah, she takes him to her home, which is great.
[2:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I know I'm not doing this in order, but like I mentioned, I was watching this from my cousin, we were taking braids out.
[2:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So we had all the time.
[2:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And she's just like, so at this point, three out of five men can't pay rent.
[2:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So now we're just having this.
[2:56] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[2:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Wow.
[2:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[2:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This is not
[3:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: not at all.
[3:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Bosses look real real rough all of a sudden.
[3:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So this man is just so happy.
[3:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's like, this is really, like, really, really nice.
[3:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Um, the bright side of all of this is like none of these men feel emasculated.
[3:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They're all, I'm down for the down, but I don't know.
[3:22] \[SPEAKER_01\]: At the flip side, should we be worried that they're fine being sugar babies?
[3:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know.
[3:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, it's tough because I shouldn't have managed for you so much that I'm just like, I mean, I'm happy you guys aren't like grossed out a KG style that she has money, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
[3:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: to be very specific, jumping ahead.
[3:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I can't even hear I'm going to have a conversation.
[3:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And he's like, listen, I pay 750 right now.
[3:56] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then she's like, well, I'm willing to pay more.
[3:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, he's like, I'm not going to stop you.
[4:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: If you want to pay.
[4:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, because this thing was like, listen, man, if it's that important to you to live in this neighborhood, I can't do that.
[4:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So like, you got to come up with the buckets on your road.
[4:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I guess.
[4:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Here's the thing the issue is not I don't care if whoever makes money whatever the couples are comfortable with what I have issue with the men is like none of them seem to be like they claim right that they're ready to be married and settle what do they think
[4:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It entails because a lot of them in the pots also were like kids.
[4:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I can't wait to have kids.
[4:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I can't do you think we use monopoly money to raise kids So that's my thing.
[4:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's like, oh, I'm not gonna stop you.
[4:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Go ahead But how did you think you were gonna live when you made that decision?
[4:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm ready to get married I'm ready to sit out like all these things where I'm gonna join my finances We're gonna do things together.
[4:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's what my concern is is that none of them seem motivated to kind of like change
[4:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: how they were living before and now that there's an addition.
[5:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[5:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: To the family, especially given that may or may not, kids may come soon, what is the plan?
[5:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You know?
[5:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's not one.
[5:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's been no, we touch on that with Kevin and he had, there's not a plan.
[5:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's no thought for us.
[5:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So this life happens to you and then you are suggest.
[5:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[5:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Um, I don't think Blake listens when he's having a conversation.
[5:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's already like he listens to respond So she's talking about something and he's just like, uh, hey, you want to sail around the world and she goes, hey, you want to stay here Like my god Brick up You guys are not right She says in the confessional that she doesn't want to change him.
[5:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, but you do I do.
[5:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know what else to say you do.
[5:50] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Your your your relationship is based on hope
[5:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You're hoping that he changes his mind and he wants to stay here.
[5:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But he has been very clear about wanting to sell the world.
[6:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They had that conversation about three months.
[6:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I don't know, pick a random country this man says, right?
[6:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But she's also being clear about wanting to have a home base.
[6:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I don't know what they're both doing.
[6:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like he's not listening.
[6:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She's not listening.
[6:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's stupid.
[6:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's stupid.
[6:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: This, this, this was doomed from the start.
[6:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Mike, there's no way you're going to make this work.
[6:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: This is absurd.
[6:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: This only works if one of you is willing to completely change their entire life and neither of you are.
[6:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And that's fine.
[6:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It just means you can't beat together.
[6:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know what to tell you.
[6:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, no, she should have run like he's a Joker like again, this is just a fun experiment.
[6:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Kind of like how he sells like the sailing stories right now.
[6:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This is going to be one of his many stories in his arsenal.
[6:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That one time I said it for that show.
[6:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Love is mine.
[6:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Let me tell you.
[6:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I, yeah.
[6:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Then I came back and saw, but Nina.
[6:56] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You know, if it was a case of like the UK jack and fake.
[7:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know.
[7:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sure, yeah, I think that was a couple.
[7:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's a fake.
[7:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[7:05] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But Jack, Jack is like, he's a free spirit, right?
[7:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But she was on the same page, which is why after they said, yes, of the altar.
[7:13] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Sorry if you haven't watched UK spoiler alert.
[7:15] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They just traveled for a year and just went around and they were on the same page.
[7:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The problem with these two is they're not on the same page.
[7:22] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They're not even on the same page for the three months out of the year or 15 weeks or whatever.
[7:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Where, oh, guys, I mean, remind you, he asked her, do you know how to cook?
[7:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Do you want to be chef?
[7:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: what for the rest of your life right that's it's your job now you're a chef.
[7:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So yeah, I just really want to know how much he's making because again when you say you're commonly broke, what are we dealing with like are you joking joking or are we being serious about this?
[7:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: All right, Anita and Cam, they're moved into their apartments.
[7:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That apartment's so nice, you know?
[7:56] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, they are.
[7:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The one that they have for Boston, she gets on his case for unpacking.
[8:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I'm like, we are really just gonna pick out him for every.
[8:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She hates him and then she goes, well, I have something to tell you and you might be upset but she doesn't butter him up at all.
[8:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It is not me.
[8:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I have something to tell you like it's not the best news but I got your back.
[8:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I just want to give you to tell you that first.
[8:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's more like, I got something to tell you, you might be upset and it's almost like a smile that's full of glee.
[8:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yes.
[8:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Hey, where's some bullshit about you?
[8:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, no, I don't want to hear
[8:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then she goes, well, my parents don't want to have any parts with this at all.
[8:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, they don't want to be on here, like, I didn't think I knew that's an estation, but I didn't think that they would not want to be on camera at all.
[8:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: How would you have known if you just told them you're going on a dating show and you didn't tell them that they'd have to participate?
[8:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think that she just, like, I know them enough to know that like, they're going to hate all of this, then I wouldn't be involved in any of it.
[9:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Again, if that's important to you and I understand why it is, do not come on to this show.
[9:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And if you do, don't get engaged.
[9:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Find somebody you like and say, listen, I, I, we, we engage when it's going to be too quick for me, but like I like you, I want to see if you can build something together.
[9:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: My parents are going to be kind of a hard one to win over, but let's do it together.
[9:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, I, she, speaking of having no plan.
[9:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What was your plan?
[9:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You had no plan for this.
[9:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think that's part of the Full Transparency.
[9:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We've talked about it in terms of medical conversations, like John and his MS, the lady in the UK would have Villaguo and things like that.
[9:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I think this is one, like, hey, Full Transparency.
[9:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: My parents are not fully on board with this, but hopefully they come around, but that's not going to deter me.
[9:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then they can make a choice, a make a call, and if they want to participate with this or not.
[9:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So he does ask, like, will you still marry me if they don't speak to me?
[10:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Her response, I quote, is, there's a world where that's possible.
[10:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So reassuring.
[10:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I, you know, again, that's my answer.
[10:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We're doing the multiverse now.
[10:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Thank you for real.
[10:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Come on.
[10:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's a nonstop of negativity, her delivery is trash, and she's just lucky that
[10:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: a good job.
[10:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I would not be jail for any of this.
[10:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'd be like, I need to leave.
[10:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But the thing is, Cam is just still thinking about her and saying, like, he wants her to have a good wedding.
[10:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And like, you know, he knows he couldn't marry, get married without his mom there.
[10:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And, you know, I would want that for you.
[10:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, I know, would you want to get married without your mom there?
[10:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And she says, oh, that's nice.
[10:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Uh-huh.
[10:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Because she hates him.
[10:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But she hates him.
[10:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Fred is just exaggerating.
[10:56] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She's like, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh,
[11:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It also, it feels a little bit like, there's no right answer, give me whatever answer you're going to give me so that I can be mad at you when it doesn't work out.
[11:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: No, man.
[11:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They move into her apartments.
[11:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They go visit her apartments.
[11:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Why wasn't he his apartment a mess?
[11:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I've never understood that you know, cameras are coming.
[11:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It was so bad.
[11:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They just this is spring for a cleaner spring for your friend tell your friends please Just get this for me.
[11:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think that's the thing like you can be messy I mean, it is what it is everybody has their flaws But if you know a camera is calming like you fake it.
[11:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, that's just pretty cool And frankly she was like well, I was trying on a bunch of different stuff and I was packed and okay cool.
[12:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I got that
[12:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What happened when you finished packing?
[12:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Cause I know you didn't finish packing while like the Uber pulled up in front of your place to go to the airport.
[12:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You have to like rush out with shit like in full chaos.
[12:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So you packed and then presumably went to bed under this pile of laundry.
[12:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: listen I'm not a clean I'm not a neat person at all yeah but like with stuff like this I can't just go to sleep with like a bunch of laundry sitting out or shit like it takes you 10 minutes max to get us up put back away do that you knew they were coming you knew those are chance cameras are going to be in here
[12:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: in a very, very slight defense.
[12:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Folding laundry is one of the worst things that I hate and you don't even mind it.
[12:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's one of the choruses that I have between me and my husband.
[12:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But it's, but if I had cameras, like I said, I would be on my best behavior.
[12:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But also, I don't know what's for the cameras or what's not, is the embarrassment?
[12:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Because I felt like she was putting walls up.
[13:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like he's coming in.
[13:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This is a person that you claim you love.
[13:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You're gonna engage to, no, no, no, no, don't open that.
[13:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Don't open the closet, like how do you think of your relationship if you're stopping everything, but is the embarrassment because it's not just him looking at it, it's us as well, but also if you feel that strongly, much like your parents, why don't you do something about it?
[13:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I had a time.
[13:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, yeah, she's just frustrating in general.
[13:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I am just frustrated by her.
[13:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[13:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Um, then that's when they have the conversation and he mentioned that he pays 750 for his apartment.
[13:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We find out later is because he shares a house with two other people.
[13:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I thought it was an apartment that was 750 and I'm like, is this what you just covered, uh, Maff's Boston?
[13:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This is a mark the shark type situation.
[13:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's bad bugs on.
[13:50] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, because they go over to his place and he's giving her the tour and I'm like, oh, for 750, that's not bad.
[13:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, I would say when he and I would live here and all that, but impressively, Cam got spices.
[14:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm not shocked, but Cam got spices.
[14:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Seasoning is plural.
[14:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, he like Alan from apps.
[14:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He got spices.
[14:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So that's when I realized that it was a house and he lived with his sister in a roommate mookie.
[14:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So is mookie his sister's fiance?
[14:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You don't see, I think.
[14:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm pretty sure, yeah.
[14:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So why did he say my sister's fiance?
[14:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He said I didn't like her sister in a roommate.
[14:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I just thought both of them had a roommate called mookie.
[14:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Maybe that's like it.
[14:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I thought that was the sister's fiance.
[14:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That was the vibe that was giving.
[14:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Y'all tell me what you thought, because I would say if it is, why are you calling you sisters fiancee, almost you're in love, you're roommate.
[14:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's weird.
[14:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I would say I live with my sister and her fiancee is probably what I would say.
[14:56] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Okay, yeah, because later on, the sister says, don't get it twisted.
[14:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He lives with me.
[15:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[15:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, I don't know.
[15:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know.
[15:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: His sister and Anita have a conversation.
[15:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I don't know if his sister is anti-disunion because she's not saying things to help.
[15:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Kim's case?
[15:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She's making it so much worse.
[15:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'd all.
[15:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She's like, well, if you want structure, you're going to have to provide him for yourself because it's not going to be camp.
[15:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Me and my mom, we practically make all the decisions for him.
[15:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Run his whole life.
[15:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[15:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: For example, I went to this school.
[15:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I went to, he went to that school.
[15:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I came back and moved back here.
[15:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He moved back here.
[15:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He just does whatever.
[15:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think I'm like,
[15:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: not cool.
[15:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, okay, I don't know specifically where they're from.
[15:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: If you're from that area, go into Boston College, it's not like, that's a weird niche school you went to.
[15:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That makes sense what you would go there.
[16:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Similarly, if you graduated from BC, moving to Boston seems like the most logical move, you're decreasing the most power there.
[16:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: These aren't things where I'm like, oh, you're making decisions for him.
[16:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm certain there are dozens of other examples, but I'm like these two are just what happens when you go to college and graduate.
[16:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: This is a little bit too much for me.
[16:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But can I say, though, that it was very hard for me to reconcile what his sister was saying with everything Cam said in the pods.
[16:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He did move to Ghana by himself.
[16:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You did that.
[16:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He did that by himself.
[16:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He is simulated in a completely different culture.
[16:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's reading correct me if I'm wrong.
[16:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Was it Gita?
[16:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Was that the book?
[16:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, he's doing that.
[16:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He is still listening to himself.
[16:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's learning about the world.
[16:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He did all that.
[16:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's sister didn't do that.
[16:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So he... We're going to love his blind.
[16:50] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, so he doesn't.
[16:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It wasn't jelling together.
[16:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That seems like someone who's making, who's an actual hand in his life.
[17:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I, again, I'm not defending him.
[17:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know him.
[17:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But that was just my thing.
[17:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I was like, oh, this doesn't, I don't know.
[17:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It doesn't match.
[17:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It doesn't match.
[17:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, he was she was saying, I'm surprised.
[17:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And he had to say nice things.
[17:13] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She was like, you know, but the thing it, when this is saying all this thing, she's like, but you know what?
[17:17] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's cool because he brings out the fun part of me because I can be so serious all the time.
[17:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And maybe I can provide that for him.
[17:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I was like, and she's like, and it's just balance.
[17:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We just balance each other out.
[17:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, okay, I mean, you can actually do it.
[17:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You have the tools.
[17:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's there.
[17:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You just don't like this man.
[17:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So, she did end the conversation and was saying things like, you know, we'll train him.
[17:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And his sister was like, yeah, we don't like that.
[17:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like my, what's your share husband?
[17:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Her fiance hates it.
[17:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[17:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[17:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: When she says that, and she's like, okay, yeah, we won't.
[17:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But, I mean, I think she gets awkward.
[17:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I think she was trying to impress his sister.
[17:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So, she was just saying whatever it was.
[18:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm...
[18:05] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, this is her does ask, like your parents, you know, not wanting to be involved, how does that affect you?
[18:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, what do you think?
[18:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She's like, I would still marry him, but my sister, because she's always moving the goal post.
[18:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Because now it's not the parents.
[18:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's like, I think my sister, if my sister meet him and he's still not sold, then, oh, I don't know.
[18:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I might not be able to do this.
[18:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I'm like, wait, there's more.
[18:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Cause next is gonna be the uncle.
[18:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's more.
[18:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Next is gonna be the Godfather, who's been there since she was little.
[18:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: If my landlord doesn't like him, I'm not sure I'm supposed to do about that.
[18:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So yes, so that was it.
[18:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And
[18:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They go back to their apartments.
[18:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We see them trying to make dinner.
[18:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think she's making like tofu and cooking.
[18:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm always so in awe of these people who are cooking in there.
[18:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Work clothes, it looks like she's got back from work.
[18:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: As soon as I get back, I just want to be out of my office clothes, man.
[19:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, I'm not cooking the kitchen with heels and nice clothes.
[19:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You're going to smell a food and...
[19:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's my first thought.
[19:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't want to get this washed and then like, oh, she did so smells like stir fry.
[19:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know, yeah.
[19:13] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[19:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So she is picking at him.
[19:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She wants to put the tofu on the other level of the oven, but apparently cannot do it by herself.
[19:22] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And he has to come do it, but she's of course barking orders at him.
[19:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You can do this.
[19:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You can put that in.
[19:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So she suddenly just.
[19:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: flips, not flips, but she just flips the topic and is like, you know, in the pods you were thoughtful and now you're just harsh.
[19:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I'm like You have been picking on him since you got out moment at the reveal where you said he looked like this You said he didn't make over.
[19:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You said your parents were participate to parents care that he's white and you thrown all these things at him and You think he's harsh on I have not seen him be harsh with her at all
[20:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I don't know.
[20:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think what she meant was like a distance or his colder I think that makes yes that makes more sense and Harsher is just what came out and He goes like well, I mean you've been doing all these things and you've been testing me and she goes what and he was like That you do that you left the line on and you came back and said I left the light on just to see if you were gonna turn it off Or if you're gonna make a comment if you're gonna say something about it
[20:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, see something about it and then you tell me like, I don't want to feel like I'm being tested and she was like, well, but you did.
[20:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, oh my god, that is not the point.
[20:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The way is not if he did or not.
[20:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And she's laughing and I'm like, oh, no, it seems like she was happy.
[20:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He said something.
[20:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It was like I'm going to leave this light on.
[20:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He, this man is such a complete disaster.
[20:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's a mess with his life and incapable of living as an adult.
[20:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's not even going to say anything.
[20:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He'll be the light on all day and just like, I guess I didn't have been a big deal.
[20:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then I can get mad at him for letting me waste electricity.
[21:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm just like, what are we doing?
[21:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Why are you acting like this?
[21:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I know and I wish I could recreate her tone because tone goes along with all of this because at first she was trying to be like you're being ridiculous, but then she's like you know what yes I am testing like I'm getting married to someone she waves her finger around is like I have to assess the situation I'm like this is not a cybersecurity attack where we have to assist not an FBI raid
[21:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: where we assess the situation, this is just a boy that met a girl behind a wall, they claim they like each other and they're trying to figure it out.
[21:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But she started talking to him like she was a sergeant and he had to listen.
[21:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then she was like, also, if that's one of your eggs, because he's like, I don't want someone testing me, I don't want to feel like I'm being tested.
[21:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm not a child.
[21:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And she's like, if that's one of your eggs, then you need to reassess, because
[21:50] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I like, sorry.
[21:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: God forbid, she just go, oh, man, I didn't want to make you feel like that.
[21:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, I didn't, I didn't realize it was going to be that serious to you or whatever.
[21:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, so you know, this is what you're going to listen if you don't like it, get the fuck out.
[22:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm just like that's not, come on.
[22:07] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But the thing is she just told him not long ago, like I need you to open up to me.
[22:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I need you to talk to me and then he's like, okay, let's give it a try and then he's like, well, I feel like you're testing me.
[22:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I feel like he thinks she's like, yeah, take that back.
[22:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Go reassess your life.
[22:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like what this is what you think is a part.
[22:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, oh no.
[22:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It is Courtney and make all over again.
[22:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then she goes like if you like I don't think that she gives this long speech is like I would never test you like if you think that I'm going to do that That is very childlike you just funny because that's how I described her in three last week Like I would not do that, but I yes you saying all the words, but any you were testing him I don't know to put it you did test him you wanted you said I your words verbatim was I did this to see if you would comment
[22:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: and he did and even in this argument you were like okay but you did like you passed the test.
[23:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah and you want him to open up and you like that he's talking now and it's just this is not the way to go about it.
[23:07] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I understand whatever frustration is but it's just you have to communicate things better.
[23:13] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You just gotta be like I feel like I'm not close to you but you also have to be able to receive criticism.
[23:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We're all human beings.
[23:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We all have areas we could work on.
[23:24] \[SPEAKER_01\]: If you claim that you love this person, you have to hear them.
[23:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And some things that maybe a big deal to you might not be a big deal to him, but you have to like, that's how you learn and you grow.
[23:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But again, she doesn't like him.
[23:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So she doesn't care about that.
[23:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's why some girls don't like him.
[23:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So they're done fighting.
[23:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The tofu was ready, I guess.
[23:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And after ripping him a new one, they just sit side by side and eat in silence.
[23:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then she's like, hmm, not bad.
[23:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then he says, I named my horse male.
[23:58] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Sometimes I call him may your nays.
[24:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: No, sometimes may your nays.
[24:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: No, sometimes may your nays.
[24:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Sorry, I watched that joke.
[24:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I was like, you know, I experienced with these dad jokes.
[24:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, boy.
[24:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I mean, it was kind of cute because there was he laughed and he worked.
[24:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You know, and that's what fight.
[24:17] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[24:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: because it was almost like she was saying like, I miss how you were in the pod, to send it to me.
[24:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like I want, I think she's lying to him, but she was basically like, if you were just who you used to be, then I'd be fine.
[24:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And his way to let her know, hey, I heard you is, I'm gonna do the same corny-ass dad joke of what had done in the pod, and it works for her.
[24:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And it's like, this is cute.
[24:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's bullshit, but it's cute.
[24:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[24:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[24:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I mean, she does bring it up again.
[24:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I was like, okay, yeah, yeah, you made me laugh.
[24:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But the whole point is like, you don't talk to me.
[24:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like I need you to talk to me because I need to know you.
[24:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I told you in the pods that I need reassurance.
[24:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But I think that irony is like, you want him to reassure you.
[25:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But nothing about what you've done since you left has been reassuring.
[25:05] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, is he supposed to feel?
[25:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, it's not.
[25:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I just like how would she handle it if he turned around was like yeah my family because she did ask I think in the beginning like we Family care that you're bringing a brown girl over whatever looks.
[25:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So what if he came and was like well they care about the fact that because I think that's the point.
[25:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He says I identify as Christian because I I don't know how they're going to get over this hump and it's up to her and so far she's not giving any indication that she's ready to bunny and
[25:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You're not even the least.
[25:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Now, do you think we are going to meet this sister?
[25:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, it's a sister going to be a phantom like that one dude from love is blind who sister really didn't want to.
[25:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Destroyed the whole couple.
[25:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: My first thought was, I bet she didn't have a sister.
[26:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I bet she made this all up.
[26:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's me being petty.
[26:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I do think what meet the sister, I don't think we're going
[26:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Okay, but I could see like the sister being the proxy for the parents.
[26:15] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Okay, okay, all right.
[26:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I hope we do we never met the sister.
[26:22] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm what I'm hoping for them is like AJ and Kira.
[26:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't want to be.
[26:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't want to be in all of a sudden we could not get enough of his parents.
[26:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They even showed up at the reunion.
[26:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They showed up at the wedding.
[26:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They gave the blessing and all that.
[26:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I, but in that regard, AJ,
[26:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: was putting in the effort right and doing all the things exactly to make sure that they had it I'm not seeing that from her yet so maybe this cute moment means as hope and maybe just editing making us think it's worse than it is because that's been a reason why camera still here right so yeah in theory yeah we'll see what happens I mean because they do talk and then they both apologize to each other and this is a cute moment where
[27:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: a kiss, a pack, I something, but they just sat there.
[27:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yep.
[27:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We got nothing, so.
[27:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: All right.
[27:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Rubbing Michaela.
[27:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The conversation in bed was interesting, they were just talking about life after the pause, life for the future and all that.
[27:22] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I think she made a comment like, so what are you thinking, big guy?
[27:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Here's my read on this, you tell me Brian.
[27:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I thought he's demeanor changed right after that.
[27:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: My cousin that I was watching it, had no idea what I was talking about and was like, yeah, I see nothing.
[27:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know what you mean.
[27:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think he'd be like, because at some point, I don't know if you caught it, when he said that was condescending.
[27:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, I don't know.
[27:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't think I noticed it like when I watched it, but it is interesting that you bring it up because it did seem like something had changed with their dynamic in this part of this drop.
[28:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, well, I think that's bigger as we go further I would explain, but for that particular one when they were in the bed, I thought like he's he didn't eat I mean, I don't I don't know what his issue was with that I don't know if it's a size thing like big guy is kind of like well, I guess it is a size thing
[28:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a big, it's a
[28:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, so I don't understand, but it's not I could have let it go, but I think the fact that he immediately said big guy was that about like that's kind of something I don't know that I would describe it as condescending so that was all interesting for me, but then it brought me to another thing about them now I wondered is it chemistry that I'm seeing or are they too broy?
[29:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They could be a little bit chilly or it's it's sometimes it feels like it's either that or it is we're going to go a little bit over the top in our interest for each other because like we know we're on camera we know we're supposed to be very much in love.
[29:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I thought this when they had their initial meeting or it's like.
[29:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: any time there was a drop in the conversation or things got a little bit quiet they were starting to make it out.
[29:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[29:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And so I'm just like I'm wondering if it's a little bit put on because you're trying to manufacture something where maybe there isn't yet and you think if we just keep on doing this it'll it'll grow.
[29:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know.
[29:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know either because one thing all everybody else kept saying at the meet-ups was like she's a perfect person for him,
[29:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I know someone said a choir taste.
[29:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's just sounds harsh, but he has to be, he's not for everybody, that is in a choir taste tank.
[30:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, he's a big personality.
[30:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And that doesn't last to everybody else's personality.
[30:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It depends on what he is.
[30:07] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, and that everybody will be able to,
[30:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: not tolerate him, but keep up with him.
[30:13] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Let me put it down.
[30:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I think, no, not tolerate.
[30:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But I think Michaela is able to keep up with him.
[30:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think she has the back and forth, and she can hold his interest and hold his chaos.
[30:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, not communicated by how big he is with his personality and his humor and all that.
[30:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, he did that 30-minute long, tripping pressure.
[30:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm sure he does it all the time.
[30:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So like, it would take some time to get adjusted to that if you're not already kind of in that mindset.
[30:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, so that's the only thing was just like, okay, is it chemistry or are they just like best friend being and it's like, oh, she's one of the bros and all that stuff.
[30:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So he's that they meet his mom and his brother and his girlfriend his girlfriend does not say a word, his brother doesn't say much, but I always joke and I create a dialogue in my mind whenever we meet this, the family and this is sibling and a significant other because we did have this in the Minnesota.
[31:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: season where the sister was getting married and she seemed pissed that now the sister showed up but you're getting married before me.
[31:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I'm looking at the girlfriend and all I wanted to know was how long has his brother dated this girl?
[31:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: How long you should be waiting for a rick?
[31:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And Rob shows up.
[31:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Good on your mind, aren't you, too?
[31:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Just projection guys none of this.
[31:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I have nothing to support this, but his mom is so sweet.
[31:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh my god his mom is like the best which also makes me think like she produced Rob.
[31:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Why is everybody saying Rob is this?
[31:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Whatever guy and yeah, for whatever they're saying I see what you said big personality All that's it, but I don't see him as like this awful.
[31:58] \[SPEAKER_01\]: No, like Blake would get on my nerves first
[32:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Blake would get on my nerves.
[32:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: John would get on my nerves back in the pods.
[32:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: More we got on my nerves in an episode and a half.
[32:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like I've not been bothered by Rob at all.
[32:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, so I don't this narrative that that maybe if we have professionals, maybe we'll feel what they want us to feel.
[32:17] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But it's not jelly.
[32:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Everything everyone was saying.
[32:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then meeting his mom, that didn't help because her is almost like she's so sweet heart.
[32:24] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So go back to the Broadway thing.
[32:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They're talking about meeting the friends because I think the mom was like, have you met and she names names?
[32:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They're like, um, no, she has to meet the boys.
[32:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And they're like, are there a wife's coming?
[32:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's like, no, he has to meet the boys first.
[32:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And that brought back again.
[32:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Is it because again, she fits in so well as a bro versus could be.
[32:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, certainly could be the case.
[32:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's a lot of, a lot of bread crumbs being laid here to follow them for real.
[32:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Then his mom, I mean, she's sweet again, but on the session, we need to speak, and I'm like, does this an ad for Netflix?
[33:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Did they figure out how to put it
[33:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I had in the show we're already watching and then he's like a clip out there she goes I've been binging I went on Netflix and what Netflix and love his mind has done It's so amazing to bring you guys together I'm sold on it.
[33:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It works and I like to watch it Watching you don't need to be sold on it, but yeah, it's a lot.
[33:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's a lot James Allen drew us all over again
[33:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She does give her blessing though to it.
[33:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But on the flip side, she's still like, I don't know you, I don't know for sure.
[33:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then, he's talking to, they go for a walk and it's just his mom and Rob just talking.
[33:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And she's like, are we on camera?
[33:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know what I should say.
[33:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, yeah, they're recording all of this.
[33:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's what he says.
[33:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, and she talks about like, oh, um, you know, after all that he's been through.
[34:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I mean, she did speak in present tense, but for
[34:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Suddenly short, his dad seemed to have been sick and went through treatment and passed away.
[34:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And his mom has a professional where she's crying, where she says she feels alone and doing this alone.
[34:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And it would have been great for, wasn't his dad's name, Bob?
[34:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Because I think I remember saying, she named their son, Robin.
[34:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: His name was Bob.
[34:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Now I'm a certain, he's, he's probably like a robber and a robber junior.
[34:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And he was written out by Bob and Robby, whatever.
[34:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: forget the brother's name.
[34:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I should have put that on there.
[34:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But um, yeah, and she's just like I put I know he's here.
[34:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I asked him to be here with me and he's here and it was just lovely.
[34:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Um, she kept saying, do what is right for you?
[34:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: No, actually Rob is who kept saying that.
[34:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Because Michaela kept saying, I'm gonna marry him.
[34:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I know I'm gonna marry him and he just can say we're gonna do what's right for us.
[34:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We're going to do what we think is best, no one's putting any pressure.
[34:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And even when he's talking to her afterwards, when you're debriefing in the apartment, he's just like, yeah, we have to do what's for us.
[35:07] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, she's not putting any pressure, she doesn't have to do anything.
[35:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And when his mom, you know, kept trying to talk and say something, he just kind of rusted off.
[35:13] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So Rob seems like the kind of guy who doesn't want to sit in his emotions.
[35:17] \[SPEAKER_01\]: When his mom was getting emotional about their dad, he just kind of like,
[35:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's fine.
[35:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Now let's just give it to us to dad and cheer and we happy and move done with that.
[35:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So that's what I'm getting from Rob is I don't doubt that he likes Michaela, but one I don't know if it's like a bro level type thing and two it's like I feel like yes it feels right but he's just like in his brain constantly what the fuck am I doing what the fuck am I doing like do I have to do I have to and I think he's panicking.
[35:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think he is too.
[35:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's trying to cover it and he's doing a better job than others we've seen in the past.
[35:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But it does feel like the gravity of what's going on in a certain way and have a little bit more than he probably thought.
[35:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[35:58] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[35:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Um, they do, um, they go visit his house.
[36:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's not, it's nice.
[36:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She doesn't mind living there, but it is two hours from work for her.
[36:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And he's like, yeah, I'm not going to make you do that.
[36:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So yeah, they'll have to figure something out.
[36:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But I never understand what they mean when they say these things like, um, we'll figure it out because part of the problem is he doesn't want to live far away from his mom.
[36:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So what exactly is the possible solution?
[36:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's not, well, outside of moving your mom to be closer to where you're gonna live now.
[36:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, I can see, I guess that's a possibility, but that's the only one.
[36:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's not many other choice.
[36:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You can make it drive an hour to work.
[36:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's also not good, especially because like, it's one thing if you work for a company.
[36:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You could leave that job if you needed to and like find a similar job and a competing company whatever it's closer to home.
[36:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She can only do her job where she does her job, like it's it's retail locations and she seems to love it and especially yeah and especially as young as she is you're not going to like leave that and go do a similar job for like another company like you're with this one and building a thing here that is going to take some time so I don't I don't know what the plan is going to be.
[37:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Also, how do you get someone who's lived there for how many years out of their house that is probably almost paid for this child.
[37:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's all right.
[37:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So that's going to be tough.
[37:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So we'll see all these things they should have talked about, but okay.
[37:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Because we see it in the international franchises like where we're going to live.
[37:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We're going to live here.
[37:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Where there's going to be here.
[37:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That shouldn't have talked about.
[37:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So.
[37:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yep.
[37:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: All right.
[37:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Jo and Sarah,
[37:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They have a whole thing, where they're in the apartment, he comes back from work.
[37:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Sarah is very focused on him helping out with dinner.
[37:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think she's trying to set the precedence like, we're not both doing all this shit.
[37:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then I come back and I'm the only one who's concerned about dinner.
[37:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like we're both going to do it together.
[37:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So he's like, you're a drug intelligent.
[38:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So he lays down that I think he was expecting her to like, it almost came up the tip of his tongue like, you are going to, you expected to make dinner for me.
[38:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Well, he's like, I just need a few minutes to chill.
[38:15] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He lays on the couch and all that.
[38:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She's like, okay, look, two minutes are up.
[38:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Let's go.
[38:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Let's make some food.
[38:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's time.
[38:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then he decides that he wants to pay a bill at that very moment, which I was so confused by this.
[38:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: very very God, but I guess he thought of threatening messages that were going to cut off his power.
[38:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So he goes into the room.
[38:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Now I will say, I did think it was odd that she followed him into the room.
[38:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And this, you know, the version of you are in the phone and you're like, hey, whenever someone comes in, are you in the phone?
[38:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, right.
[38:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Clearly, I am.
[38:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Do you see me on the phone, right?
[38:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So she says, are you on the phone while he's on it?
[38:56] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then she goes, yeah, can you hang up and do that some other time and I'm like, uh, what?
[39:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So he's like, cursing into the phone.
[39:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yes, he's yelling at the customer service person.
[39:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I was like, can you give me a fucking minute that you just told me and it's telling me everything is fine?
[39:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know how much of that she heard.
[39:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think that's the other thing.
[39:13] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You have to be kidding.
[39:15] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know how much she heard.
[39:17] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know how much she did.
[39:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It adds to the story when he's cursing out someone and she's coming in and then he makes it seem Especially given the conversation that's to come For that so the only thing I found odd was like he was on the phone and then she followed him and walked into the room True with him, but she just wanted him to help with dinner So they finished her dinner and they're sitting and they're talking and then she brings up the fact that she will not tolerate yelling at all
[39:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Again, I don't know if it was coincidental that that was a conversation or if she actually heard him and the only reason I say maybe is because if she did hear him
[39:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: yelling, right?
[39:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: In addition to the example that she had where they lost her luggage and how, you know, he was just yelling at them and he's like, I'm trying to get reassurance that our luggage will be fine.
[40:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, have you not traveled before?
[40:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Then don't get your luggage when your yelling is not what's going to magically make that, you know what, that guy out there who drinks raw milk really upset.
[40:15] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We need to find his, that's good.
[40:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: His luggage now.
[40:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: that's not you're thinking intimidation is the only way you know to get that but I don't know why she didn't mention like you know for this evening I just heard you talking to that guy and that you know you could be nicer about it she just not mentioned that at all she only mentions the luggage and he throws out like being stern has allowed people to walk all over now Brian he said being stern has allowed people
[40:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: through my life, not being stern has a lot of people to walk all over you.
[40:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He says you and I'm like, does he mean her or does he mean himself?
[40:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think he means himself, but he's not good at speaking.
[40:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: that's what happened here is like I mean she does not give off the impression of people have been walking all over me like I don't I don't get that from her I can see how he would just like screw up the way that he was talking but I'm wondering I am one of those people where like my biggest turnoff is you being unkind to like service people.
[41:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I could see if she was just like if she really got the egg watching him just like lean into whatever was going on with the bag and just be like This is how you are when something doesn't go your way and like you're just gonna be little as person and you know They can't fix anything Like they didn't know it's gonna happen till you came up to the desk
[41:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I just feel like she had a strong case like in it to include the customer service thing to because at this point it's a pattern.
[41:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I've seen it more than once and that's why I'm bringing it up to you, but in his mind, especially if he's not if, especially since he's in the manifest fair, it is mine he's protecting someone I love in that way and she's just saying like, I don't think you need to talk to people, you know that way and he's saying like, I don't yell.
[42:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I'm like, okay, what is her do you Ellen and then randomly he's just like there were other guys in the pots that were assholes, but not me.
[42:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, who brought up other guys?
[42:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Not anybody I saw.
[42:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What are you Sarah did not thought so once again You see her trying to walk on eggshells and placate him because she's just like because I think he was just like Where is this coming from like I don't yell why you telling me like you don't tolerate yelling and she's like no No, no, no, no, I'm not saying you do.
[42:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm just letting you know that is just something that I put of course something must have inspired this
[42:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, so yeah, say you with your chest and then she says more than being alone, which means or explains why she's with him because she's scared or being alone It's I'm scared of someone switching up on me and I'm like well if you pick someone who's showing the signs and the true nature is going to come out soon Uh-huh.
[43:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's not switching up the signs have always been there
[43:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He was this in the beginning.
[43:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We all saw these red flags.
[43:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You just barrel right past them.
[43:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, we need confessionals, man.
[43:17] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm never going to tire it to stop saying that.
[43:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They meet her friends and they all seem to like him.
[43:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And the healthcare thing comes up.
[43:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She does the same thing, brushes over it.
[43:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's willing to look over that.
[43:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And there was like, oh, he likes milk.
[43:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And they're like, oh, this is the signs of the times that we're in.
[43:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The friends all like,
[43:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, whole milk?
[43:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, guys, right?
[43:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: People still trick you.
[43:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, I will say, I don't know the last time I sat down with like a nice cool glass of milk was like 1991 or something.
[43:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So if I really was an adult who just like, you know what, I want some milk.
[43:56] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, wait, what?
[43:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like from a cow?
[43:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like I would be so confused.
[44:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: No, I know a lot of you will be so drink milk and also like because we have all these reiterations it might be the safest one out there because now it's like very milk spikes of blood sugar this does that because yes because it's not milk.
[44:13] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, guys, I hate milk, but I hate milk in general.
[44:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The only reason I use them is like sometimes I make I see all these coffee recipes and lattes and I just like to play around with it, but
[44:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I thought that was so funny.
[44:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The way everyone was just like we've gotten to the point where the actual milk We all grew up in is like the anomaly and she's like yeah, actual whole milk Like like from a dairy
[44:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: um yeah and then the whole raw milk comes up and you can see the look of concern and her friends but no one says anything and they're like, you go straight from the cow.
[44:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I got to tell you that I don't know if John's story was real or fake.
[44:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I could not tell.
[44:50] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know.
[44:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know if he was joking.
[44:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know.
[44:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He has since a few more of a serial killers.
[44:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know if it's fine or not.
[44:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I just know where to tell.
[45:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He was describing like he goes to certain plays and like the other, you could just there's something they have, you sit there drink the milk, it has to be a joke.
[45:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: For my sake, I hope, but I don't know if you're if you're opposed to pasteurization, who knows, man?
[45:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, what else would we shit you're in, do?
[45:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Well, I think it went well, but I don't think we, I don't know.
[45:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know what they truly think.
[45:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Maybe they're saving it for later.
[45:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know.
[45:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But they meet his family.
[45:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That goes well to his family seems so nice.
[45:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like everyone was just there and they don't bring up the whole thing, the religion thing, and they do ask her about it.
[45:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And she's like, I'm glad they didn't.
[45:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like maybe he already told them.
[45:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And, you know, I think he did.
[45:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think he mentioned that like, he told them coming in or whatever that she's not Christian or whatever it was.
[45:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I mean, that's it.
[45:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They, they, they're still on a high, yeah, but I don't know what's going to come to the, um, as the days go by.
[46:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So yeah.
[46:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: All right, let's wrap things up with Willney and Wilson.
[46:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yet another person, he doesn't have a place.
[46:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And he just moved back for New York.
[46:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Stand by it.
[46:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I get it, you're trying to get that, but if you're trying to figure out yourself, why do you think you're ready to get married?
[46:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Let's get ourselves together.
[46:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like what, I don't know.
[46:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But as we looked around, I'm seeing the green walls.
[46:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I kept telling myself, it is Boston.
[46:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I've been told that, and then he tells us that he is living with his family house.
[46:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He basically lives in the basement.
[46:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And he has his own space.
[46:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But this does not bother Willie.
[46:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This is not a Michelle situation.
[46:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: In fact, she spins it, she has her own house.
[46:50] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And when she did that, she lived her family.
[46:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She saved money.
[46:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So if that's what he's doing, that's fine.
[46:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like he can save all the money he wants while he stays with her.
[46:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I'm like, these women open hearts.
[47:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Can't lose.
[47:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yes.
[47:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know, not bothered by shit.
[47:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, that's what we asked for.
[47:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So the thing is, I did not hear Wilson say with his own mouth
[47:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: he is saving money for a house now we heard will he say I live okay that is a confessional it's just you know we need more where she said where she says you know like I did this to save money save that's what he's doing I don't feel any type of way about it why am I here will say I am living here because I'm saving money I just move back I just I do this is a question for all the guys what is the plan
[47:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, yeah, I mean, I don't even think it needs to necessarily be a good plan.
[47:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Just do you have a plan?
[47:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Do you have something in mind for what you think this is going to eventually turn into?
[47:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And it doesn't seem like these guys have much of a plan for their future at all.
[47:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And this explains again, the lack of accents, he's come back from the York.
[47:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know where all the other people, you know, right?
[48:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I come from Blake, doesn't even live here.
[48:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He has no home base, he has no home.
[48:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He has no fixed address, so the man who says, glad, I was like, oh, I have a home base here.
[48:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He wants a long distance marriage.
[48:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He wants to be an absentee father and be staying both while you have a newborn.
[48:17] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Does that make any sense?
[48:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, that doesn't make any sense.
[48:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Um, yeah, but Wilson is not prioritizing finding a place instead.
[48:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He went to duty application for love is blind, you know, from that.
[48:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Great.
[48:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Go to her house.
[48:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Her house is spotless.
[48:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So what the hell was that preview we got last week?
[48:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It was Okidoq.
[48:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That was John's apartment.
[48:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Hey, this place yet right.
[48:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: No, when they showed like like next week on the next episode or coming back or whatever, they showed that like John lives like an animal like that was his fridge that they should they open the fridge and there was like spilled shit inside of it and there was another part of the show the base boards okay had like a lot of dirt and grind all over them and everything if that doesn't give Sarah the egg.
[49:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It changed so long for like, then I don't know what else will like, you know, even if she's willing to look over all of that, if that if a grown man, it's, it's, it's like knowing that a camera is coming.
[49:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So, well, boots of the people before making it seem like it was will-needs.
[49:22] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What the hell was that?
[49:24] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That was a dirty edit.
[49:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It was a really dirty edit.
[49:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know why they chose to do her like that.
[49:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's nice.
[49:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Stop it.
[49:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's what I was talking about.
[49:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: All right, as we go through the whole thing, she says, this is my sister's room.
[49:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I'm like, oh, so what happened to see a sister?
[49:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The Boston market as I hear is expensive.
[49:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Where's she gonna live?
[49:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Is she gonna live with you guys?
[49:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: On the streets.
[49:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What is the plot time card or asking?
[49:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: these people I don't I have no idea I don't know what I don't I don't know Operating with vibes here people I need a plan truly so yeah, I all right you're guess is good as mine We meet her friends have friends in her sister and
[50:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: these are not people who are in a honeymoon phase because all of a sudden Wilson is just like something wasn't happened there is a gap of the there's something I'm missing Wilson's like you know she had more personality in the pods but now she's all whiny and she just wants to be a princess you can see will they be all like wait wait where is this covered from?
[50:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Wilson has a smiley face when he's saying all that with a smile and you're like, uh, that's not a couple of bits.
[50:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What's going on?
[50:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Right.
[50:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And she's like, I told you that.
[50:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I told you like, you know, my dad, you know, he does all that on my friends.
[50:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They also show like all the love and they're there for me.
[50:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I don't have to do anything.
[50:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And he was like, that the friends was like, that's a good thing, right?
[50:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's like, no, not really.
[50:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That means I have to work harder.
[50:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yep.
[50:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And they say, She wants that fruit.
[50:56] \[SPEAKER_01\]: How he's supposed to be and Wilson does his best Sean from maps.
[51:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's like, no, it's not and I'm like, oh, no.
[51:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, no.
[51:05] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This is a man who likes to argue the new man We're seeing on reality TV and he was like one of the things we connected on was no gender roles So we're not going to do all that.
[51:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like Wilson You're meeting her friends and family.
[51:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What this is?
[51:22] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Express yourself with her, but this is where you should be your best foot forward.
[51:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Be charming.
[51:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Be your charming self.
[51:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: When you pretend you're in the pods, do something.
[51:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But this is not the time for all this.
[51:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know, like you can't want to be right.
[51:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Now it's not the time to be right.
[51:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We're facing like what six women on here and you're fiancee that you love.
[51:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So that's what she talks about again, being spoiled and she's like, you know, I can't do things on my own but if I do it, you won't like it because I don't want to be in my masculine energy and like, oh, here we go.
[51:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Here we go.
[52:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Does night health that Wilson just has laughing at this point?
[52:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like Wilson.
[52:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What is happening with you?
[52:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You live in your basement.
[52:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, stop.
[52:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Right.
[52:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: No.
[52:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think I think you bounce out.
[52:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, man.
[52:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then the friend was like, you know, but you know, for you guys, like, yes, you don't want to have a mask on the energy, but you guys need to be each other's babies.
[52:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, you know, when you come home, you can be safe in that space.
[52:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And he's like, yeah, I hear you, but it just feels like I have to be on all the time.
[52:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, Wilson.
[52:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Calibrate, real it in.
[52:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What is happening right now?
[52:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Showing out.
[52:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Then five seconds later he's like, but she makes me feel safe though.
[52:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I feel safe and I can be.
[52:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, I don't know if he was drunk.
[52:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But he has flailing in the conversation.
[52:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I have no idea what that was about, but it's showing me traits of Wilson that I feel like I should be on the lookout for.
[53:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, he's boiling point is coming.
[53:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's gathering steam and Chuga Chuga.
[53:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Chuga, it's coming.
[53:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's full circle.
[53:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So yeah, but at the end of the day despite all the looks they gave each other her sister is like I'm choosing to give you the benefits of the doubt if she likes you I'm choosing I trust her and I'm gonna love you the way that she loves you.
[53:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know anything now, but hope to get you know you better and that was it for them
[53:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So, you know, it was entertaining.
[53:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: There were things.
[53:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[53:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It wasn't a horror.
[53:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I was never bored during this drop.
[53:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I just also don't have a couple that I really believe in.
[53:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And there's not a couple that is such a disaster that I get excited to watch them fight each other.
[53:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So it's like we're just a little bit.
[53:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know, we're a little bit right in the middle where it's just like it's fine.
[54:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I want.
[54:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I want one of these couples to not stop screaming at each other.
[54:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I want for Robin McKayla to just rub McKayla, right?
[54:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's who he's with.
[54:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yes.
[54:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I always want them to like take their pants off and just like, you know, just do something because it just feels like right now.
[54:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know where they're going.
[54:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I don't.
[54:22] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know, it's unbalanced season.
[54:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They seem to be doing well.
[54:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[54:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[54:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You can tell something's missing.
[54:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So what's right?
[54:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[54:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What's not?
[54:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We don't know.
[54:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[54:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We don't know what it is.
[54:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Because again, my interpretation is like, Rob is having some hesitations.
[54:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But I can't tell if it's like a self sabotage thing or being scared.
[54:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like it's too good to be true or if he has like valid concerns.
[54:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That.
[54:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[54:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We don't know because they won't give us confessional.
[54:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So there's no way to know.
[54:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They don't want to give it away, maybe, I don't know.
[54:50] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That was a choice, but yeah.
[54:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: OK, so that's it for part two.
[54:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And until the next drop, I think the next drop is we've been spoiled by the internationals.
[55:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Usually like three weeks weddings were done, green and but we have episode nine to 11.
[55:05] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think for the next drop, so we'll see what happens.
[55:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That should include like the baschella party and all of the things and then the next one will be weddings and then they'll be a reunion.
[55:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So any last thoughts, spring?
[55:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Nah, I think we got it all out.
[55:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: All right, we'll share with people where they can find you.
[55:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yep, I am hosting Maps Virgin.
[55:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We're doing the boss and season the merit at first sight right now.
[55:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We are coming up on decision day soon.
[55:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So that means we need to pick out what's he's and we're going to do next.
[55:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Probably get that discussion going in our Facebook Group, the Maps Virgin fan club this week.
[55:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Toss out some ideas.
[55:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So if you guys have a season that you want to cover of merit at first sight, that you think that we might not recognize right away, hop into the Group and let us know.
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