# Love is Blind UK: S3 Eps. 9&10 w/Brian

An episode of [Tayne Talks: A Reality TV Podcast](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1522401890), 10 Sep 2026, 56 min.

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The weddings are here and the couples are making their decisions at the altar. We see their stag and hen do and meet the friends and family members we haven't met yet as we close out the season. We also talk about the latest LIB franchises coming soon. Get bonus episodes on Patreon on documentaries, MAFS content and reality shows like Sister Wives and 90 Day Fiance. Different levels are available - a tier to listen to episodes ad-free ($3), a tier for bonus episodes ($5) and another to listen ad-free, bonus episodes and get regular episodes early ($10) Join the conversation in the Patreon Community Chat and on Instagram, Twitter, Bluesky and Threads - @taynetalks Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

## Transcript

[0:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Hi everybody, welcome to another episode of Teen Talks.
[0:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I am your host Tane here to talk to you today about love is blind UK season 3 episodes 9 and 10 aka weddings and then some here with me as always is Brian from Mass Virgin hi Brian what up
[0:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What up, HBO Max has an OD Simpson documentary.
[0:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Everyone should watch it.
[0:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I've told you about 91 times in the last half hour.
[0:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's about, he had a reality show called Juice.
[0:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It was punked, but he was doing it.
[0:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I feel bad for everybody that got juice.
[0:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: None of them were celebrities.
[0:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So just watch that part.
[0:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Part one and two were yesterday, part three and four were out tomorrow.
[0:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's like, guys, this is the trying time.
[0:56] \[SPEAKER_00\]: This is Bryce take 10, 11.
[1:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So we have tried the intro multiple times.
[1:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It technology has said, no, you won't, not today.
[1:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You're not going to do it.
[1:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So Brad is hoping against hope.
[1:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Try to be time.
[1:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Even though we have a whole two episodes to cover.
[1:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: A racing.
[1:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But every time he says, oh, Jay's name, he freezes.
[1:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So, you know, that's why that's what's going on.
[1:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But welcome.
[1:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Welcome.
[1:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Welcome to the new episode.
[1:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And let's hope that take 11 12 13 this goes well.
[1:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We're able to record the episode, man, the VTS of a lot of these things, technologies always against you, but still we rise.
[1:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Remind your page or not, come slash Taint Talks.
[1:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You can go check out bonus episodes.
[1:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You can check out at free episode, A.
[1:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Join me for Death for Passers Wife, 90 day P. on say, tell all is coming through.
[1:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Go check that out.
[2:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Part of my hobbies is telling Brian what new love is blind franchise is coming out Just sediment tax message and every time he's like another one.
[2:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, they never stop Because there's always one coming next week.
[2:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They're like bunnies.
[2:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They just keep multiply.
[2:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, they just don't quit
[2:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So the next one is supposed to be um love is by Netherlands and it's the first one and we haven't counted a lot of firsts of love is mine.
[2:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We had like you know friends, we had Poland, we had Italy, so I don't know what do you expect from Netherlands?
[2:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Uh, you know, I think, um, it's interesting because I could see it being like kind of two different shows, right?
[2:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We have people that are very normal and what you would expect where like, oh, I, you know, I'm, I don't know, speech pathologist or like a normal life.
[2:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And then I think Netherlands has like some freaking geeky weird stuff going on here and there.
[2:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I don't know if you're going to get somebody that's like really out there like that the one ball dude from Germany or
[3:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And it'll you live in the castle.
[3:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[3:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like I think we might get a couple of real odd balls.
[3:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[3:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Which would be, which would be fun.
[3:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't think we see what the UK gave us for odd balls.
[3:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And they aren't that odd.
[3:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I want some real weirdos if we're doing it that way.
[3:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, no facts, no proofs, no receipts, no historical anything.
[3:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: The bar is low for me, even Netherlands.
[3:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm not expecting much.
[3:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I expect it to be so melod and just be just well-behaved people.
[3:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And maybe it's reverse psychology.
[3:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm hoping I say this and it turns out to be like a hot mess.
[3:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And so good.
[3:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So like throws a chair through the wall to give us a ride.
[3:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So we'll see.
[3:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We'll see if we're able to cover it.
[3:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm going on vacation soon.
[3:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So we'll see.
[3:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I need a break y'all.
[3:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So we'll see if that happens.
[3:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But more importantly, we've been talking about love as blind South Africa.
[3:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That still no date.
[3:56] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Still coming in 2026.
[3:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But they're teasing us and they're like, guess who the hosts are?
[4:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: How the hell we supposed to know who the hosts are?
[4:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know.
[4:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know them.
[4:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Give me the show.
[4:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But I'm excited because that I fully expect to be a mess, that I fully expect no one to make it to the altar.
[4:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, to make it to the altar and say, no, that I get like a cheating scandal.
[4:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I just expect a lot.
[4:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The only way you can get me with the guess with the host are is if it's syndrome from 90 to 80 on say, if it's syndrome and Ronald.
[4:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: definitely not gonna have it.
[4:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's gonna be more people in South Africa that could probably do that.
[4:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I'm looking forward to that.
[4:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I cannot wait to.
[4:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So that for sure We will be covering.
[4:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I have not checked.
[4:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We will be covering.
[4:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We'll do that.
[4:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[4:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: South Africa 9 months ago.
[4:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We found out they were people in South Africa.
[4:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I signed him on like nine months ago since we've been waiting for you.
[4:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sure.
[4:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Okay.
[4:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So that's that.
[4:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then we were wondering about all the couples who got engaged and all the stuff.
[4:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Shout out to listener, tip.
[5:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Let me know that none of the couples except wants to get from the people that we're not.
[5:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I would've rather watched that.
[5:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[5:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: For the people that are not chosen.
[5:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But you know what?
[5:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Shout out to the casting people again because they picked right, right?
[5:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They rolled the dice and they found the right ones.
[5:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, um, my for you page because you know, your phones are always listening those that I'm talking about this.
[5:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Some couple, um, showed up on my page already because they saw me talking about it.
[5:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, it's a couple where she's a mom.
[5:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She has a kid and she's like, who knew I signed up for a show and that would have missed out on this or ended up getting this and all that.
[5:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I think they might be the one couple that's still together.
[5:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So that's the case.
[5:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Either way.
[5:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well done, UK, especially with this wedding episode's well done.
[5:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I cannot wait for the reunion.
[5:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So still, those spoilers, guys, we have not watched the reunion yet.
[5:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So yeah, I don't know who's still together, who's not, I've been avoiding everything like line minds.
[5:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I know nothing on that.
[6:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Alright, let us start with Cuban and Ryan.
[6:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Spoiler alert, we got an out of break up, but you know,
[6:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Here we go, Brian said it, you know, when nothing is worse than when they have the couple of new music, nothing just silence, so you can lean really heavily into the awkward silence.
[6:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You're like a bag of chips rustling in the background.
[6:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They really did that.
[6:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They were just a lot of dollars and he's like a lot has been going on and his mind is much Honestly, understandably so.
[6:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know the work the everything I feel that was within his control But you know he's losing his man.
[6:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's broma like that's not and that's a death in the family That's a lot like grief is a lot
[6:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: filming a TV show, getting a new person, that's a lot, you know, that's going on.
[6:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They have a conversation where she's saying like she has no clarity of anything and she loves him so much, but she doesn't know what he wants from her.
[6:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And he says like what she's feeling is what she feels like, you know, he hasn't had the luxury of just focusing on just this.
[7:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Again, I understand he's grieving, but I, you know, that was so
[7:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I didn't it didn't feel like he it felt like two people who don't have an emotional connection.
[7:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yes, it's kind of how that whole thing felt like you're going to take her consider in her feelings into consideration at all.
[7:20] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's you're not oh yeah, I understand this is also very hard for you as none of that.
[7:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, yeah, none of that for him.
[7:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He says he wants to give her clarity and decisiveness, but he just doesn't have that.
[7:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And that's his truth.
[7:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: His truth is that he's unsure.
[7:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, I get it that you are speaking your truth and you're trying to be factual, but I guess this is what Nikki was saying about shot.
[7:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like you are devoid of any emotional.
[7:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, you know, temperaments in what you're saying to this person who's giving you all the grace and all the understanding.
[7:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But she's like, yeah, that's not what it is.
[7:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You have cold feet.
[7:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's like, yeah, I'm sorry that the way I'm trying to show up is not enough.
[7:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And she's like, don't do that.
[8:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's not fair.
[8:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, you know, I'm kind of glad that she's standing in her ground and just kind of calling off what it is.
[8:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She's like your biggest problem is just like you're not ready to be stripped off your independence and honestly that was before the grieving started she called it bereavement It just felt weird to say I'm sure that's a British way of saying like we use bereavement but we use that like yeah I'm taking bereavement leave but not like yeah I'm going through very myth right now
[8:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This might be a vacation holiday situation if we just call it something different.
[8:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, so he was like, and she's like, it doesn't make you a bad person to be on sure.
[8:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, you know, you could just say that, but she just wants him to make her feel reassured in some way so she can fight and she's not going to hate him.
[8:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like Cuba.
[8:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What are you fighting for?
[8:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, he's a real lady.
[8:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's gone.
[8:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's gone.
[8:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's gone.
[8:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, and that's not like you have this deep intense connection you're trying to sell, but you have not seen this man in weeks, guys are barely friends.
[9:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yep, she asks, you know, what's stopping him from leaving?
[9:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And he's like, yeah, I just want to be clear.
[9:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I want to be sure that I'm making like the right call.
[9:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, um, but here's the thing.
[9:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And this is the thing women do all the time.
[9:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Why she not leaving?
[9:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Why she waiting for him to leave?
[9:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She's like, what's stopping you from leaving?
[9:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What's stopping you from leaving?
[9:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like you have agency in this relationship, you know?
[9:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, and your album is not getting much you need.
[9:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So like, leave, bail.
[9:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He says she feels like he has a fear of commitment and he's like, yeah, I just need time to claim my mind.
[9:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then he ties up his shoelaces and then he goes for a run.
[9:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm thinking we're gonna weigh we're gonna get like 10 flash scenes like they've been giving us.
[9:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He comes back, he's like, okay, I'm back.
[9:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: My thoughts are clear now.
[9:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, oh, I read about the block one time.
[9:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It took a jug.
[9:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He made it to the end of the road.
[9:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He was like, yeah, I'm clear.
[9:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm coming back.
[9:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then he tells her basically, like, you know, I don't think it's right for us to continue.
[9:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, did anyone else think there was any other, you know, solution?
[10:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, no, I don't know.
[10:07] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This was obvious.
[10:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yes.
[10:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: There was no other way this could have gone.
[10:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yes, this was it.
[10:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She says she feels very disappointed and he doesn't understand how he can love her and run away.
[10:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, because he doesn't love you and she said she fell in love with who he was in the pods and she Want someone who chooses her and she feels like she gave everything to him and she did not get that back and she just thinks that He finds it hard to give emotionally.
[10:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He says right now.
[10:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, and he's what we've been going through this whole season Neither of them is wrong
[10:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: No, no, they just aren't, they're not for each other.
[10:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like you thought you were like me said last time, you guys thought you were because you had like some weird, very specific beliefs that you guys shared and that was like, what drew you to each other?
[10:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Just because you have some shared specific beliefs, does not mean this is your person though.
[11:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, and I think the thing is that he's definitely not hiding behind.
[11:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But because all the things did happen, it's just wrong timing.
[11:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Absolutely wrong timing.
[11:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But it's like, even if this didn't happen, they were not meant to be with each other.
[11:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Because the thing about this is like, if even if they liked each other, you are going to go through hard things like this, which season was it?
[11:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Maybe it was Sweden or was it Poland, where he had the brain cancer?
[11:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, uh.
[11:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: No cancer.
[11:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But he had the tumor.
[11:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That might have been the do you had that really like reddish pinkish lips in France was a Chris Chris
[11:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: No, I don't remember that I remember thinking like, oh, I thought that we're good.
[11:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think it was Poland.
[11:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think I thought we're not going to end up together.
[11:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: The one who was she took out her nose piercing and she was pregnant by the reunion.
[11:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But you know, they went through hard stuff.
[11:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then I think someone's person died, like you can sweeten, the ladies died, or you know, they had to take care of like real life things happen when you're in a relationship because life doesn't stop.
[12:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: How are you going to deal with that with that person?
[12:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think regardless of all of this happening they weren't going to be together but it's kind of easy to say like all this happened and I think that's the point Cuba was trying to make and he was just like well I don't know what to tell you and there she's like well if I like you I'd stay but yeah I don't got that right now and then she's like well at least you can go home now and then he reaches for a hug she did not reach for that hug I tell you that
[12:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What is wrong with you what sir all this respect what is wrong with you?
[12:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's, again, it's the way he was so robotic about the whole thing, and he's like, oh, well, I mean, it is what it is.
[12:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then he goes to cut himself a mango, and he did just cut it.
[12:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He cut it into little cubes, and then he goes there, and I'm like, uh, what?
[13:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Anyways, look, I don't, I don't want to call him a psychopath.
[13:07] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I just don't have another way to finish the sentence.
[13:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I got to know what that was about.
[13:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's insane.
[13:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, this girl is crying in her confessional in the bedroom and he's just like, oh, I didn't want to hurt her but my body is resisting like we're lying on many things, but not marriage.
[13:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What?
[13:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I thought it was going to save the opposite.
[13:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We're lying on things, but not other other things, but he's like, no, we're lying on many things, but not marriage.
[13:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Okay, then date.
[13:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: If that's really what he does then date, you know.
[13:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, she's saying that she wanted love.
[13:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She wanted marriage and she's crying.
[13:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But you know, she knows that she has to move on.
[13:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So another one by the dust and we lose Ryan and Cuba.
[14:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Which we kind of called, we kind of felt like it was missing.
[14:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And it was never around, you know?
[14:05] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Never around.
[14:05] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This is totally fine.
[14:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: All right, I'll take a first break and we'll talk about dress shopping.
[14:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: All right.
[14:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We are back.
[14:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So dress shopping happens like you just I like how they did this and again I do not remember how the rest are I feel like the rest usually were like they tried this dress They don't like this dress.
[14:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They try another one.
[14:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They just they picked This is your mom.
[14:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: This is your friend.
[14:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I like this.
[14:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Oh, you look great and then we moved on But um, friends mom shows up and we are still waiting for this blessing and mama's like I'm not giving you no blessing.
[14:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm here and that's enough eat.
[14:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Okay?
[14:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I guess, I mean, I get it, but yikes.
[14:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I was wondering about how the rest of them were going to know about the breakup, because sometimes they just act like, oh, they're not here.
[14:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's it.
[14:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But Emma just come in and then she shares with them, about the breakup.
[14:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So unfortunately, two people are not going to be there and Matt does the same thing for the guys during their talks shopping.
[15:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I thought that was well done, so that was cool.
[15:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: um they each came out in their dress.
[15:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean all of them were dresses that were suited for them.
[15:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sophie's dress was classic.
[15:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It was pretty um same with Kira.
[15:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She had like a corset look and like detailing in there and at this point I was just like huh she and friend.
[15:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: The last we heard was like don't talk to me.
[15:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Don't come near me.
[15:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Don't read around me.
[15:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We're gonna talk to you again.
[15:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What's going on here?
[15:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: um, Faye comes out and Faye is boobs first.
[15:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Very skinny.
[15:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'll find what that.
[15:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But it was classic and her mom was like, yeah, this is a nice dress but it's not nice for you.
[15:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's too plain.
[15:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then, you know, I just thought that this whole group of fair will be so nerve-wracking.
[15:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Because they have all of them sitting like they're in an audience and everyone is coming out and then other people are trying their dresses on too.
[15:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's too much for me.
[15:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So how mom tells her that, you know, you deserve the world, but maybe not in that dress.
[16:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And everyone is laughing.
[16:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It was kind of funny.
[16:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Uh, when I thought you were going to say, like, you have too much skin in the show.
[16:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I was like, no, no, it's not fancy enough.
[16:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Titi's refined.
[16:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But I was like, get some beads on there or something.
[16:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's what I thought he was going to say.
[16:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, oh, you went to class.
[16:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, you waited day when she was like, no, not in that dress.
[16:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So when she got, I mean, Faye laughed because Faye has a great sense of humor.
[16:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And when she goes in to change, her mom is like, I'm a horrible mother on time.
[16:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like everyone was like, she's like, I know, so I didn't cry.
[16:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Everyone else is crying, everyone's saying these things.
[16:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm saying all of that.
[16:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But, you know, I had to remember that, you know, they didn't have the best impression of Jack at this point.
[16:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They knew about the going on a walk, find my friends and all that stuff.
[16:40] \[SPEAKER_01\]: should have hung over all that.
[16:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, and then Fran comes out last.
[16:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Hadress is cute.
[16:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's of the shoulder and it's like poofy.
[16:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She's the only one who doesn't have like the uh like skin tie is it mermaid that is called mermaid dress but hers has like the Cinderella poofy thing going on.
[16:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So they look good um tuck shopping.
[17:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: AJ for some reason.
[17:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I feel like AJ turns into a little boy around
[17:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: because he's explaining everything to his dad.
[17:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, oh, dad, who thought we would be here?
[17:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Oh, dad, this is Matt, this is the host.
[17:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: This is the host.
[17:17] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, uh, yeah, there was, I also a point where he's like, we're gonna have the best time aren't we, dad.
[17:24] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And I'm just like, yeah, that's why my kid says to me, he's seven.
[17:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's so funny, yeah.
[17:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like yeah, what is going on?
[17:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He feels like not tough.
[17:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, but even around Kira because I think in the beginning that's what I was saying was like oh, I feel like he has a little insecurity, but I don't know what do I know so yeah
[17:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He says that he wanted to wear a white jacket, but Kira was like absolutely not.
[17:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I think it's that little kid in him that enjoys being boss around by Kira, like, just tell me what to do.
[17:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Then I don't even have to think.
[17:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So that's fine.
[17:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I kept wondering, what was the big turnaround that all of a sudden?
[18:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: AJ's parents went from I don't want to be on camera.
[18:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's a suddenly there on camera for like it's one thing to just come meet her But they don't camera now and you're coming here for the talk like it's great don't get me wrong I'm happy for him that they're involved but I need to know why that even happened and why that even became a thing is
[18:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[18:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I mean, I'm going to be optimistic and just say they saw that there's someone was hurting and they kind of got over whatever hangups they were and like we need to be there for our kid.
[18:27] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's probably not what it was.
[18:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But I am I'm going to hope against hope that they were just like man.
[18:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Our kid is really going through it because of what we're doing.
[18:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We're being dumb.
[18:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This is hopefully going to be his only wedding ever.
[18:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We should go to this.
[18:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Okay.
[18:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Let's let's go with that.
[18:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Happy happy thought.
[18:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[18:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, you know, he's that is like everyone is so excited to see him get married, they never thought this was going to happen.
[18:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Uh, well, at the beginning of the end, I like the album.
[18:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, Jack says it's the first time that he needs to realize that there's someone else besides him who cares about him.
[19:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm he's like that's a new feeling.
[19:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And Joseph is still harping on about not receiving the blessing yet.
[19:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um,
[19:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sophie and Taylor is just a little highlight here.
[19:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They're talking about their planning they're waiting.
[19:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They're going only waiting planning that we actually see and their conversations are hilarious when it's like to be shown your brain through.
[19:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And he's like, you're going to be mad because I'm going to have just four family members in the rest.
[19:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You're going to be my mates.
[19:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And she's like, you're not going to do that.
[19:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You're going to have actual people there.
[19:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then they're talking about the meals that he wants there.
[19:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's talking about pineapple and cheese on sticks because he thinks he makes himself like fancy.
[19:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's just like, yeah, that's not the wedding.
[19:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And what I'm doing that food, read food.
[19:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But shut up, she's like, I like how you're listening all these things that I don't know how to spell.
[19:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And it's like, oh, confidently, B.R.O.S.S.E.T.
[19:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, what is after?
[19:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, no, why do you think that's how you spell it?
[20:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Then they talk about the cake flavors that they're gonna have.
[20:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They finally get it, it was like marzipan, she's like, no, we can't have that.
[20:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's like, Oreos, it's just like, what?
[20:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We can't, I have Oreos on it.
[20:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You're a child, are you seven, two, three?
[20:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Odyssey was just funny watching them playing.
[20:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It was like, how about salted caramel?
[20:22] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I like that.
[20:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Let's do that.
[20:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I was like, at least you're doing it together.
[20:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So it was just kind of fun.
[20:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Just insight into the personality of what their relationship is.
[20:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: All right, we have stagnant and we have the hand do so in the stagnant they call Joseph I'm like what's happening right now and it looks like he ruptured a tendon and he's just sitting there in pain and they're like why what are you trying to do and he's like oh I'm trying to be as big as AJ now it sounds like that's a joke but for the fact that he said it more than once I really do feel like maybe Joseph was in a one sided competition with AJ trying to be as big as him
[21:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: If they're the two tall guys, so I guess that's possible.
[21:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Thank God it's five days before the wedding.
[21:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Because I thought it was the day before the wedding.
[21:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I was like, how is this going to what's going to happen right now?
[21:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He needs something more than those strips.
[21:15] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We don't share wedding, huh?
[21:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He has on there.
[21:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What are they doing?
[21:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They're going on a hot tub boat.
[21:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm like, what have we done to deserve hot tub boat dates?
[21:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, it's not really your date.
[21:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I never want to do this.
[21:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I can never want to do this.
[21:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't like a hot tub.
[21:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I like a boat.
[21:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't need both the same time.
[21:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, Connecticut says yes you will.
[21:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Taylor is saying nice things about Sophie and how his family just speaks so highly of her and that just makes him look at her even better and at first when the friend is like, I think when they all go to They switch from the hot tub boat and they go to an actual party.
[21:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's an actual like
[22:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, so the friend was like, I'm with Taylor and they're like, oh, cheers to Deb.
[22:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, who's Deb?
[22:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm oh, wait, they're talking about his mom.
[22:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It took me a second because I was like, did he say the wrong name?
[22:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's trying to be funny, but it was like, you know, talking about his mom because he's he lost a mom when he was younger.
[22:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: AJ says like, it's been a roller coaster.
[22:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, they had the argument.
[22:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's been intense, but, you know, they're all good.
[22:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They're all cool.
[22:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Just want to shout out AJ's friend.
[22:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's
[22:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And there's a, there's a, there's a huge, of course, there's a huge Nigerian population in London.
[22:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So it's not even that, you know, extra, but you know, it's what I do.
[22:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Right.
[22:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So he says, you know, whenever they have an argument, it makes him wonder, like, Oh, do we need more time?
[22:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm like, yeah, do you, do you need more time?
[22:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, Jack's friend is like, huh, this is so interesting because we've never heard you speak about marriage in 20 years.
[23:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, huh?
[23:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It is like, what does that mean?
[23:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What does marriage mean to you?
[23:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know, like now, now you say that now?
[23:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's convenient timing, yes.
[23:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He says like, you know, they all feel like kids.
[23:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, he was like, we all, okay, maybe I should speak for myself.
[23:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'll feel like his and Mary just seems like this grown-up thing, you know, that you do, that it wasn't on his agenda.
[23:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And like, he's never met anyone that he wanted to get married to, but you know, with Fay, he just feels seen.
[23:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And he just feels like he's ready.
[23:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And that's where he's at.
[23:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know, I felt bad for Joseph missing out on this.
[23:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like he just, you know,
[23:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Is that what can I have?
[23:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's bummery.
[23:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Hopefully.
[23:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I mean, yeah, it would have been nice to have him there.
[23:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I was also happy none of them were dressed as ginger spice, Allah Joshua from 90 to 80 on say.
[23:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So that's nice.
[23:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, it's something they had a fine time.
[23:54] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But yeah, bummer that Joseph wasn't a part of it.
[23:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yes, wasn't part of that.
[23:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, they take the party up a notch because they have all the waitresses come out so that doing shots in their mouth and putting it, you know, for each of the grooms.
[24:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Surprisingly, Jack was like, nope, you're not gonna catch me doing that.
[24:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm not doing it.
[24:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm not going to listen to you in tomorrow.
[24:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, so that was it for the guys and then for the women, they all went to Magic Mike and this is where we see the four women that I told you was a spoiler and Netflix.
[24:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: If you press pause and see the four women, so you knew, I don't always gonna have a party.
[24:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And they go there and they have a blast.
[24:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sophie is having a blast.
[24:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sophie is glitching.
[24:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sophie is all her life.
[24:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know, last episodes I've been talking about, oh, we haven't heard anything about, you know, friends religion.
[24:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, twice they mentioned it, when they just look back before the wedding, they talk, they show a scene.
[24:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: where she's like, you know, God isn't everything that she does and he got it's, you know, where he does.
[24:56] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So maybe I missed it.
[24:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So apologies, but also here she's like, I'm having a good time, but I don't know what's going on.
[25:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm a woman of God.
[25:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I'm like, okay, well, that's her religion, which is like, but I don't mind it though.
[25:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I'm not God.
[25:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, still a warm blooded woman.
[25:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So they meet with their friends at the actual party party and Kira has new friends and when I say new friends, I mean these are not the friends that we saw when she introduced AJ at the restaurant we did not meet any of her parents we will meet them at the wedding.
[25:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So at this point, I'm just like where her parents at was going on.
[25:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Right.
[25:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: but um they have no idea what AJ looks like i'm like these are your friends that you haven't texted like especially someone you are so proud of how they look and they all seem to focus on their look she has a friend named john j-a-w-n which uh the Philadelphia version of john john as and it means literally any noun j-a-w-n filly can fill it like for any noun it's just john is like the
[26:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: but that is his British name.
[26:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's his name.
[26:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's his name.
[26:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's his name.
[26:05] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's his name.
[26:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's his name.
[26:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's his name.
[26:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like AJ's parents and I'm gonna like this so I want to keep this to yourself.
[26:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And they're like, they're so happy.
[26:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They're so happy for her.
[26:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She does tell them about the fight, but then she spins it.
[26:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She should be in PR.
[26:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She's like, as she really is seeing the good, the bad and the ugly.
[26:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So you know, and he wants me.
[26:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So it's great.
[26:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm glad to have that.
[26:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[26:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sophie says nice things about Taylor how he's a gentleman he appreciates her and she doesn't have a question how she feels about him because he's always showing her how he feels about her
[27:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, Kira does pull franticite to clear detention.
[27:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, I did appreciate that.
[27:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know, saying, like, hey, I knew you think that this was happening, but I was called into the conversation and I just wanted to have her back.
[27:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I just sat there and, you know, just watching.
[27:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm like, yeah, that's true, but you kind of lit the match.
[27:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So let's not like they just called you and you just sat there, you know.
[27:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, she played very innocent when it's like you mastermind it all this for a week.
[27:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You set it up.
[27:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sorry, we Cuba and I beat the that you came back and you had lunch and you told them at the party France party and then now all they just called me.
[27:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But Frances, like listen, Chef coming back was irritating and unnecessary and they'd been building a their own friendship So for Kira to see some of the things, I just felt like what she was saying was like the friendship that we're building was nothing in comparison to what she had to be chef
[27:56] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, I mean, that is true though, like it's not a real story, yeah, but it's factual, too.
[28:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So, I mean, I don't think she could compare the relationship that they had, but she could have just told her, don't be messy.
[28:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, it has nothing to do with you.
[28:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What me and Joseph have, that's between me, Joseph and Sheminique, but you don't, you know.
[28:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Because if you didn't relay the message, how would anyone know?
[28:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You're shoving it, exactly.
[28:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Exactly.
[28:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: How would we know?
[28:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So Kira says no, but she didn't want her to feel uncomfortable.
[28:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And so she just sat there and she has never said anything against their relationship.
[28:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: word?
[28:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You sure?
[28:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[28:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Let's just go with that.
[28:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But they hug it out because Brits always ever polite say everything's cool, everything's great.
[28:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But if the friend I've gotten to know is the friend I know, she's just like, I got one eye, I'm looking at you girl.
[28:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like I can be the same room, but I'm looking at you.
[28:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Faye shares with the girls about the whole fine my friends fiasco and she's just worried about what state He's gonna be in tonight like he's gonna be so drunk.
[28:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's not gonna show up Which is why I was thinking the wedding was the next day, but it was a fake out Yeah, it wasn't the next day.
[29:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So it looks fun.
[29:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think that's what I like about this everyone Look like they were having fun like all the girls with dancing and was having a great time Cuz the American was always seem so boring.
[29:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They make the guys go to some sports thing.
[29:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They make the girls sit in a spot and
[29:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's never anything fun, but this was fun and I love that for them, you know?
[29:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, no, they seem like they had a really great time.
[29:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, I agree.
[29:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Okay.
[29:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: All right.
[29:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I will take a break and I will be right back.
[29:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And we're back.
[29:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: All right.
[29:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think they were supposed to spend the night apart, but I think this is also when I realized that Oh, maybe they're not spending night apart because friend goes home to Joseph and he's like, oh, you look good.
[29:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm like,
[29:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's right, but she was holding up to her dress and I'm like, what is happening right there?
[29:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Did she unzip did something happen because she was holding on for dear life?
[29:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Oh, for that to that dress, but also she looked really good.
[30:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She looked really good.
[30:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She did that's hope this whole drop of episode she looked great.
[30:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, I think she takes a dig at AJ you tell me how you took this because here's when he mentions again Like he owe something something as big as AJ and she goes just to winches because guys AJ six six and Joseph is six four and she's like just to which is and he's like Oh two inches is a lot like I don't know if you know, but it's a lot and she's like all right Whatever he has on you and inches you have in personality was that a dick to you because
[30:31] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I mean, I could certainly see it taking that way.
[30:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think if she and AJ had any beef, I'd take it that way.
[30:38] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I think this is more just like, I need to build you up a little bit.
[30:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, you obviously are somehow fixated on these two inches.
[30:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You tower over basically everybody, both of you.
[30:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And you're still like, I don't know, man, two inches though.
[30:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's just like, no, chill, you're fine.
[30:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You are better than him, don't worry about it.
[30:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, I think it is a dick because I do think
[31:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He seems boring.
[31:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[31:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He seems pretty flat.
[31:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: All right.
[31:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, Fran had a great time.
[31:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Magic Mike did its thing because the last thing I heard was Fran telling Joseph, okay, strip down.
[31:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Now, I'm expecting a show.
[31:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I was like, yes, a bum shoulder lady.
[31:17] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You know, that's your adventure.
[31:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So you do the work.
[31:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Right.
[31:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: The next morning, everyone is hung over.
[31:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Everyone is just like, oh, so I'm like, I'm happy for you guys.
[31:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You had a great time.
[31:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Which is probably why the waiting is not the next day.
[31:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We're not taking that risk for that.
[31:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Never do it the next day.
[31:34] \[SPEAKER_01\]: A terrible idea.
[31:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[31:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: At this point, he has to be a production choice because we see cure a giving AJ yet another set of rules for living together.
[31:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He has to do the bins.
[31:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They have to make the bed every morning.
[31:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They have to do this.
[31:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He has to make her coffee.
[31:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They have to and I'm like, and this is all they've shown us.
[31:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm sure they have good times.
[31:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We are just not privy to it.
[31:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And at this point everyone separates and everyone leaves.
[32:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And Jack, of course.
[32:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Of course, he has like this tiny hand luggage.
[32:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm like, did you really leave?
[32:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Did she just walk in a way and then he came right back?
[32:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So that was it.
[32:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He's got a grocery bag.
[32:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Actually, I am so crazy as hand luggage because I just thought, like either backpack or maybe a trash bag.
[32:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I was put by stuff in there.
[32:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Because I got a simple man, you know?
[32:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Let's see that in a while, okay, so we go straight into the weddings, and we have Sophie and Taylor.
[32:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They're saying all these nice things that I'm just like guys just get on with it.
[32:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: If this too aren't a yes, I don't know what it is.
[32:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like there's no doubt in my mind like at all signs point to yes.
[32:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: His sister gives him a card with some nice things written in it, which he does retour us.
[32:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And her parents come by and her dad is just telling her her dad is giving Caitlyn sad and it's just like you rushed it there's not enough time to know anybody in that space and you know when all of this has gone when the crew has gone all these people are gone he points to as a camera then what you have to face real life so what is this what is this thing you're doing.
[33:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like dad.
[33:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yep, they said this any other time.
[33:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Not bad.
[33:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So her dad is like, so are you moving or is he moving and like we had like interviews lined up?
[33:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Did he missed that?
[33:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What?
[33:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What?
[33:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What happened to the interview?
[33:29] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's a mystery.
[33:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Did he get a job offer?
[33:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: none of our business apparently.
[33:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well union time will find out and see what I'm yeah.
[33:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But I'm surprised I shouldn't even say like no we are playing to move together.
[33:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He is planning to move to Manchester instead what she says is like yeah we're not rushing into that.
[33:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yes you are.
[33:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You had a whole discussion which is why here applied for jobs.
[33:50] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, my mom is like stories full out of order or something.
[33:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, so her mom is like, um, can I have a moment we just heard basically boys get out and you talk to my daughter because I don't know what energy you're bringing into this because we can't do it.
[34:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So her mom is like, you know, we like Taylor, I like Taylor, but I just wanted to be right, you know, as their dad said they are in a bubble, but you know, they still didn't know him very well.
[34:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And the dad is ranting and raving outside.
[34:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I guess I was to a producer.
[34:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We never see producers in the international franchises.
[34:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And he said, what?
[34:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We want for a curry for like three hours.
[34:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And also if he stays in London, we're never going to know him.
[34:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: OK, there's a train.
[34:33] \[SPEAKER_01\]: There's a train and also no offense to our English listeners.
[34:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: England is not that big, where it's just like, there's no way to get there.
[34:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, my M.O.S.
[34:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: live three and a half hours from us.
[34:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We see them all the time.
[34:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Like, it's now like you can't, there's roads in England.
[34:47] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You can get from here to there.
[34:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, he was being very dramatic.
[34:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You would think that he was moving her to another country.
[34:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, it's just London to Manchester.
[34:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You can make a weekend out of it.
[34:59] \[SPEAKER_01\]: How are you going to get to Mongolia?
[35:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: the train, it was crazy.
[35:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So yeah, and then the dad and brother, I think it was our brother, just chimed in and he's happy in the dad too.
[35:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's like, yeah, I don't like reality TV.
[35:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You're on one, buddy.
[35:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We're seeing you on camera.
[35:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know?
[35:15] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[35:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: so he says that he's happy for her because she is happy but personally he's gutted and now Sophie is torn or wait we're supposed to believe that's what she's supposed to think get out of her so then she walks down the aisle Taylor tells her that she looks stunning they say they're a vows
[35:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Horace Taylor says I do so few whispers.
[35:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I love you to him and then they were like she gets like a pause and then she's like I do and then she nods at her dad.
[35:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Her dad nods back.
[35:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I thought that was cute and then she says like yes she was nervous but as soon as she's on Taylor she was settled and you know she's doing all the talking afterwards.
[35:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We're married with this and Taylor is just saying nothing but you know loveie too and that's it and that's all he needs to say honestly.
[36:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We didn't see one dispute from them the entire season, the idea they tried to trick us into making all their might not say, yes, like get out of here.
[36:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: This was Cameron and Michelle.
[36:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yes, yes, it is moving on to Kira and AJ she says like she feels ready to get married She feels very secure with AJ her friend John listen John was made to be on TV This is the gateway to it if someone plucks him off from here, but he is coming here with all the one Linus I think he even said the hottest single tune has left the building.
[36:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, okay
[36:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: a way to hack your friends he can't have lines he has no idea that Kira is you know the mild level villain of the season but you know the hottest right in his left and no idea she's not gonna tell me she doesn't realize she's in the right thing that's all I've been in 10th grade
[36:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: John asks him what she thinks he would say and she says like I feel like he's gonna say yes like on the sea I would be blindsided if he said no and John said you know just go in there have fun because you know what this is an iconic moment what is iconic about saying I do John nothing man this guy just I'm I'm getting on camera I'm out of my moment we know for sure that she's saying yes because she says like I would be hard
[37:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: once again ages that is here giving his blessings again and they're saying that they're so part of him and he tells him like you know we love Sierra but sorry I said Sierra we love here on
[37:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We all see her.
[37:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We also do shout-outs, congratulations, baby number five.
[37:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But he loves Kira, but today he has to think of himself and do what's best for him.
[37:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I'm like, uh-oh, where are we going?
[37:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Kira sees her dad, and this is the first time we're seeing her dad, too.
[37:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And she loses it like nowhere.
[37:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She just sets crying and it's so cute because her dad is just like, are you sure about everything?
[37:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She says yes.
[37:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And again, this is what we always ask for.
[38:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Follow this.
[38:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Your child is doing it for better for worse.
[38:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's what they want.
[38:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I got your back and that's it.
[38:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I just loved how he said, are you sure about everything?
[38:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She says yes.
[38:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And that was it.
[38:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's all.
[38:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, okay.
[38:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Call me to them.
[38:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's very supportive, tells her that he loves her, and that it would be the biggest honor of his life to walk her down the aisle.
[38:21] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Very sweet.
[38:22] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So how did we get?
[38:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Don't like her.
[38:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Love that.
[38:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What?
[38:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What do you railed?
[38:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What was found?
[38:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You had a boarding school?
[38:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, Carthalice.
[38:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They worked on the aisle.
[38:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He tells her AJ tells her you look beautiful.
[38:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She mounts.
[38:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I love you.
[38:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: The efficient speaks in.
[38:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I want to say it was Hindi.
[38:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But I don't want to.
[38:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yes, we can be but that's that's my guess.
[38:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She does translate it and she's saying like that's how we welcome everyone, you know, into this ceremony and then confirming because last time I said that his name was AJ Paul and I wasn't sure it is because that's what she says that his name is a Nepal and they share their Vows and of course she says I do because we know that and then when it was his turn, I'm ready
[39:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: For Age of Paul to say, I love you, I can't, I did this man says, I do, I literally said, wow, I do.
[39:16] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I was just like, oh man, why?
[39:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: What you doing?
[39:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know, I was very, very surprised about that.
[39:24] \[SPEAKER_01\]: If you were to say no, his DMs would have been flooded.
[39:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You'd have been justified.
[39:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But yeah.
[39:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So they said, I do, we get our second I do and then they go party and it's a fun time for everyone.
[39:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Okay, Francesca and Joseph.
[39:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So this is not the season for you to look at the order that coming in, or how is it?
[39:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Sometimes it's just like, this is gonna be bad.
[39:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's gonna be good while they're coming first, while they're coming, it doesn't matter, guys.
[39:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It doesn't matter.
[39:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It doesn't matter.
[39:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So Francesca and Joseph come in and in Joseph is scared.
[39:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Because he's now saying like he doesn't want to disappoint anyone.
[40:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He doesn't want to disappoint her family.
[40:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: His friends all come by and I was like, yeah,
[40:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She'll use Nigerian, and all of them.
[40:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you go, there you
[40:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[40:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's what you want.
[40:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: How can you be a picky person that come on love is mine?
[40:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's crazy to me.
[40:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, well, I can see it both ways.
[40:37] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Because it's like, I am picky enough.
[40:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: If I'm one of these picky people that goes and loves mine, it's like listen, I'm gonna go in there and have 15 people like shoot my shot at.
[40:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: If none of them meet up, that's fine.
[40:50] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'll just stay picky and like get out.
[40:52] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But like what if I find somebody that's exactly what I want in this process?
[40:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: could be me, but I'm not that picky though, I guess so, who am I saying, but you're picky because so you're going to care about what the person looks like and yes, that's fair.
[41:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They bring attractive people, but there's a chance that they might bring someone that you don't find attractive and you care about that.
[41:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's a couple of people that we have that they're like, I don't care what you look like.
[41:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It doesn't matter to you know, to me, whatever.
[41:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know if they're lying, but these people that genuinely because they got to know the person, there's some people that are like, nah,
[41:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I gotta can do it and I saw you on my guy, I'm just gonna.
[41:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So that's what's surprising to me is that you're picky and you took the gamble to do this.
[41:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But again, love is mine is on Marida for a site.
[41:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, it is Marida for a site now.
[41:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's not a finding there.
[41:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You can leave.
[41:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So maybe that's the comforting part for them.
[41:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's like, you know, I don't have to, you know, get Marida or I could say no at the old.
[41:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[41:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They ask what his reservation is and he says he just needs to hear that blessing from her mom and he's not sure if he can say yes without that
[42:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: which I was off to me because at first it was like I need to get that blessing from you to add.
[42:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Did you get there?
[42:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yes, they were talking about stuff.
[42:07] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But you didn't actually pull him aside and ask for the blessing.
[42:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But like, I think even when you said he read the room, it was like the vibe during the air.
[42:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I was like, yeah, all the time.
[42:16] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But now all of a sudden you want to get it from her mom and I'm just like, I mean, which is great, but I just I didn't stand to switch up.
[42:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You know, it almost feels like there was a conversation we didn't see where she was just like, yeah, my dad, whatever, like I really needed it like with my mom over or something like that.
[42:32] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Otherwise, I don't know why this would jump at them.
[42:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But here's the thing about getting blessings from the parents.
[42:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You're already doing something on conventional.
[42:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You should have done the blessings before you got on the show.
[42:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's the thing, again, season three.
[42:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's not the first season.
[42:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's not brand new.
[42:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We know how the premise works.
[42:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, he says he wants to feel like the family he's entering accepts him.
[42:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So maybe get the blessing before today.
[42:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know.
[42:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Let's tell you.
[43:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Well, they wouldn't have said no less than he saw them.
[43:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So like, he options were limited.
[43:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, okay, so Francesco's treating her hair for the wedding.
[43:10] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I was like, oh, I missed her curls.
[43:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, she looks great either way.
[43:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So it was great.
[43:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But her mom tells her because she was asking when her mom comes in.
[43:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So you like Joseph, yes.
[43:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You like the, you, he makes me happy.
[43:22] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So what is the issue?
[43:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And her mom is like the issue is not Joseph.
[43:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's just not enough time.
[43:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I think it's the thing with human beings.
[43:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We have all these rules.
[43:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We have all these things should be this way.
[43:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And when things kind of divert, it's like,
[43:36] \[SPEAKER_01\]: You know, just with, yeah, it takes some time to to recalibrate what you think is okay.
[43:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[43:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Joseph tells his friends and his brother, how, you know, they've been through a lot and growing up.
[43:48] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They saw a tough love and that's not the kind of marriage that he wants and then everyone says tearing up.
[43:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Now, that's not the issue.
[43:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think what I, he was saying like growing up who went through a lot.
[43:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We've been through a lot.
[44:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We saw a tough love, but I was like, did the friends grow up?
[44:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: the way it sounded was like, because he says, we've all been through a lot, growing up.
[44:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He was like, no raffles.
[44:12] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm probably saying it wrong, but not like, I'm sure, like, maybe they've been through a lot as friends, but the way he phrased it was like, growing up, you know what we saw.
[44:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I mean, so he's brother, yes, you wanted the same roof.
[44:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I get it for the rest.
[44:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I was like, what am I missing?
[44:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, they grew up together in the opening scene of Goodfellus.
[44:28] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Well, it just kids up to no good.
[44:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But the other thing I was wondering too, so you know, like how, you know, some of them might not even be a blood relative, like I know it's normal, like during culture, like people who are not related to you, they live with you, you call them cousin, you have no blood relation.
[44:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Is that what the case was?
[44:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Maybe that's it.
[44:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know.
[44:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Could have been.
[44:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: they saw the things that he's referring to.
[44:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But his brother, just he really gets choked up.
[44:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like he couldn't even get the words out.
[44:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And his brother was like, you know, people look up to you.
[44:56] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You have no idea.
[44:57] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like there's no way, like if you do say yes, you are not going to let her down.
[45:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And you know, you are not going to let down her family.
[45:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So basically just, you know, follow your heart.
[45:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Um, friend with her dress put her veil on and can I just say that she looks so amazing.
[45:15] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I would hand it over to Brian because Brian sent me a text.
[45:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I can't, I can't act it out, I, I, I, I, I, I, I used this, there's a whole series of these gifts that I will send where it's always at the cartoon wolf like going and saying, eyes, bug it out like, it's off of a head with a hammer, it's all that I saw her and I think I might have said, oh, go out loud.
[45:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, like good, she looked great.
[45:42] \[SPEAKER_00\]: For reference, oh, this sucks because I don't remember their names.
[45:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: The last time's
[45:49] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, oh god, it was her name.
[45:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I see that.
[45:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[45:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But you guys, you know them, it was, it was a two black woman in that season.
[46:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yep.
[46:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yep.
[46:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Brian said that.
[46:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's me.
[46:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's what I'm gonna do.
[46:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So, um, his mom shows up finally, I'd been waiting, I just wanted to see it, I just wanted to see it.
[46:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And I know he said his mom was born, and I can't remember where, but she and I turned into it.
[46:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So, because I was thinking like, you need to see his dad who was, but...
[46:22] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She definitely is.
[46:23] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She's very supportive.
[46:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She just wants him to be happy and she says a prayer for him.
[46:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know right before and you know, that was it.
[46:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He walks out to the aisle and walks on the aisle stands there and his brother asks if he spoke to friends mom and he said no because friends mom is sitting right up in the front right there and then it looks like Joseph is in prayer.
[46:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She just realized I spoke on the British way, M-U-M.
[46:56] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I mean, the toe does on screen.
[46:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Is that good?
[46:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Great.
[46:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: My brain switched.
[47:01] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Has a concrete conversation to ask her her thoughts and ask if she gets the blessing.
[47:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She's like, listen, we've gotten to know each other better, which is nice.
[47:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That means that they've hung out, besides, you know, we'll be saw them there together.
[47:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: and since Fran is so happy and since they make each other happy and it seems like it's real that they have her blessing.
[47:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I don't know, was it the prayer?
[47:21] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Was it producers?
[47:22] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Either way, he got the blessing.
[47:24] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, who could say?
[47:25] \[SPEAKER_01\]: He got what he wanted.
[47:26] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He got this whole time.
[47:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's brothers so dramatic because he's Joseph's brother.
[47:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's making faces, but it feels like they can hear the conversation.
[47:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: everything seems to be reacting to the conversation that they're having and when she gives the blessing, it could be editing too, but when she gives the blessing everyone smiles and jocers like, ah, just as brothers like, ah, so yeah, could this be really really good editing of like a lot of b-roll of people who just put a camera on that dude's face, we will figure what we're going to do with it.
[47:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[47:56] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then we see Joseph's dad.
[47:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't know if this was a surprising for you as it was for me because the way he spoke about his dad and everything I thought his dad was not in the picture and his dad left his mom and left them to I mean it would not be hard to interpret that way
[48:14] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, this man did not say one word.
[48:17] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He did not get a professional.
[48:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We do not know what he thinks.
[48:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Always saw was what felt like the same scene over and over and over in smiling.
[48:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It was the same.
[48:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They kept splicing in.
[48:26] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We got one shot that he left.
[48:30] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But yeah, I was very, very surprised that he was there because I was like, oh, and I just wish they spent more time showing us because he talks so much about the relationship that he saw growing up that I wish I saw like the dynamic and what it was and to give a glimpse of something I'm thinking is again as a culture.
[48:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: this new wave we've seen like Nigerian parents like on reality TV and stuff they don't you are not going to show our air or dirty laundry talk about it like anything they do not do that and you know if you remember when he was talking to his mom and he was thinking his mom or something she felt uncomfortable and she's like all right Joseph thanks like stop this
[49:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I don't mean exactly it got that out of the oceans.
[49:11] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, we don't we don't do that We don't want to do that and that's what Joseph is trying to correct in his own marriage because This is usually what it's like.
[49:19] \[SPEAKER_00\]: There's a lot of people who grow up and they have not seen their parents even hold hands because it's just I would not drive
[49:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's in a lot of like, you know, the older generations of Nigerians is just business as usual.
[49:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You have kids.
[49:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: We pay your school fees.
[49:34] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You do this.
[49:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That's it.
[49:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And see, I think we have separate bedrooms.
[49:39] \[SPEAKER_01\]: See, my parents are mid 70s to this day when they come in or go out of the house.
[49:44] \[SPEAKER_01\]: They give three kisses.
[49:45] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It's been that way.
[49:46] \[SPEAKER_01\]: My earliest memories.
[49:48] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So this is the only way that I know how to be.
[49:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, I mean, good, good for you.
[49:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: But it's very cute.
[49:55] \[SPEAKER_00\]: No, but it explains why Joseph is very like PDA very affectionate like he's just trying to do the opposite of everything You know that he grew up with but in a way.
[50:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm happy for him.
[50:04] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Boogie's parents were there.
[50:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: They did not interact, but you know what They're there but they were both physically Joseph has just been friend have a full choir there and they're singing amazing grace as she walks down and when she walks down Joseph immediately does not disappoint and is like, right
[50:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I mean, I would have said the same thing in volunteer room.
[50:29] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So since we have the blessing Joseph says I do Francesca says I do afterwards, friend is like, I married and they're doing all that and then they say it and the last name Mr. and Mrs. Shubo La so congratulations to them.
[50:43] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She says, well, super proud.
[50:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: All right, we got Fee and Jack final final.
[50:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, okay, why are they last?
[50:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: What's gonna happen?
[50:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And Jack is casually talking about having a hangover like, can see you know, nothing.
[50:58] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And Fee's friends are worried about his behavior the last time, like she's still worried.
[51:03] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And that's what I realized that the groups men are sitting there and Jack is not there with them.
[51:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, and they, they, they, they say it the most British way possible, which is he was meant to be here at to be a pro.
[51:14] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It was an empty couch.
[51:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I know because I was like, oh, they're all seated here.
[51:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I was like, wait, oh, and then I remember that that's how the season started.
[51:24] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Where they're like, where is he?
[51:25] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Is he not here, but it's a fake out.
[51:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I mean, Jack shows up for whatever.
[51:30] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She's just running weight.
[51:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[51:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Faze mom tells her that she has to feel 100% about her decision.
[51:37] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He is freaking out.
[51:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, his head is busy.
[51:40] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He's just like, she's perfect, but it's such a big responsibility taking someone else in your own life.
[51:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I got to tell you that Jack Rick looked really good in his quilt.
[51:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: His cornish.
[51:50] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He did.
[51:51] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I mean, he cleans up really nice.
[51:55] \[SPEAKER_01\]: The mustache is a mistake, but his eyes are very piercing.
[51:57] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So it kind of bounces out.
[51:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah, but he also looks very distressed.
[52:02] \[SPEAKER_00\]: This is besides hunger.
[52:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, he looks very distressed.
[52:05] \[SPEAKER_00\]: He looks like it was a good pass out from panic or fear.
[52:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Mm-hmm.
[52:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Faze dad goes over to Jack and Jack is so sweet and he's telling him like, you know, I haven't had a dad, you know, a father figure in my life but just a few times we've hung out.
[52:18] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I look up to you massively.
[52:20] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So I look forward to having that relationship with you.
[52:22] \[SPEAKER_00\]: His dad tells him, like, I really want you to be a part of a family, but they have to be honest with each other, life-country responsibility, and if they decide to take this journey, he's going to be very proud of them.
[52:33] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I'm like, that's real.
[52:35] \[SPEAKER_01\]: That's very nice.
[52:36] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So, okay, there in the aisle, he tells her that she looks incredible.
[52:41] \[SPEAKER_00\]: She says, oh, I love your killed.
[52:43] \[SPEAKER_00\]: This is a different dress, right?
[52:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: than what she was.
[52:46] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It is.
[52:47] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[52:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: It's the same style, same family, but I think that it was different.
[52:53] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah.
[52:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So they say their vows face as I do when it's time for Jack, they're all there.
[52:59] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I think he pauses and then he says I do and I'm like, what are we for for for?
[53:04] \[SPEAKER_01\]: We're for for in.
[53:06] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Wow.
[53:08] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Wow.
[53:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: And even even when it happened, I'm like.
[53:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: there's not even that much suspense within the couple's like the thing they in Jack had some suspense where I felt like they were going to have if they were if they were going to be a know they would have had him go first.
[53:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So he could say yes and then she could go you vanished on me and you drink too much and I'm out but no the four for four is is insane.
[53:32] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Yeah the only people I thought we're going to get to know was Kiran AJ and once they were yes I was like whoa oh
[53:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: so far so good.
[53:44] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Well, everyone seems to have a great time.
[53:45] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, even her dad, her dad actually coughs to him and says, like, you know, I was so nervous before the wedding, but she's happy, so this is great.
[53:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And then we see, hey, doing the warm on the dance floor.
[53:56] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And if that isn't Jack soul made, I don't know what to tell you guys.
[54:00] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah, I will say, my brother-in-law's wife, the term that is co-sister, I found out.
[54:07] \[SPEAKER_01\]: She did the war amount of wedding and chip-a-tooth.
[54:09] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So I was very nervous for her.
[54:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I'm like, oh no.
[54:10] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Oh, you're doing your wedding day.
[54:11] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Don't do it.
[54:12] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Keep your head up.
[54:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Oh, that's it.
[54:15] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It was, and it wasn't like a broken half.
[54:18] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It wasn't like a little chip off the corner.
[54:19] \[SPEAKER_01\]: It was, she had like half a tooth.
[54:22] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Oh, that sucks.
[54:23] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[54:24] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Good woman.
[54:24] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Yeah.
[54:27] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That was it guys.
[54:28] \[SPEAKER_00\]: That was, you know, the weddings and we got four for four.
[54:31] \[SPEAKER_00\]: And now we just got to see, but I mean, everything's been going great for everyone.
[54:35] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I fully expect four for four at the reunion, too.
[54:38] \[SPEAKER_00\]: But who knows?
[54:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Who knows.
[54:39] \[SPEAKER_00\]: I look forward to that.
[54:41] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I don't know.
[54:42] \[SPEAKER_01\]: I really hoping that AJ and Kira are no longer together, but I think they're probably going to be so we'll see what they're in your holds for us.
[54:49] \[SPEAKER_00\]: if they like it, we love it.
[54:51] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Who are we?
[54:52] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Like, you know?
[54:53] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Why do you like it, AJ?
[54:54] \[SPEAKER_00\]: You know, you know, I'm just hoping, praying for his wallet.
[55:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: $300 dinners.
[55:00] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Right.
[55:01] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So we're home.
[55:02] \[SPEAKER_01\]: Let's now, by the way.
[55:03] \[SPEAKER_01\]: So yeah.
[55:06] \[SPEAKER_00\]: So we'll see.
[55:08] \[SPEAKER_00\]: All right, guys, that was it.
[55:09] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Send any questions and comments and we'll be back for the reunion.
[55:13] \[SPEAKER_00\]: Until next time, guys.
[55:27] \[UNKNOWN\]: I'm full.

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