# 1 in 3 Women Live With Incontinence and Most Never Ask for Help | Dr. Rena Malik

An episode of [Live Well Be Well with Sarah Ann Macklin | Health, Lifestyle, Nutrition](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1508380100), 8 May 2026, 8:13.

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## Transcript

[0:02] This is a beware moment, the most replayed moments from my
[0:05] latest conversation. It's a glimp into the wider
[0:08] episode, which you can find LinkedIn the show notes below.
[0:12] Because sometimes one small moment is enough to reconnect to
[0:16] living well and being well. What is urology and what do you
[0:24] think that we need to be paying more attention to in this area?
[0:29] I mean, urology is a great specialty.
[0:31] We cover. We're essentially medical and
[0:34] surgical doctors of the genital urinary tract.
[0:37] So anything from the kidneys all the way down to the genitals, we
[0:41] cover it. And so that can be things like
[0:43] kidney stones, tumors, urinary issues, infertility issues, kids
[0:48] with urinary issues. And you know me, I specialize as
[0:52] you mentioned earlier, in female pelvic medicine, reconstructive
[0:55] surgery and sexual medicine. And so those fields essentially
[0:58] encompass things like urinary leakage, prolapse, issues with
[1:03] bladder that's associated with prostate, with nerve conditions,
[1:07] and also any sort of reconstruction of those areas.
[1:11] And then, you know, in sexual medicine, we're talking about
[1:13] ejaculation, arousal, orgasm, you know, those sorts of issues.
[1:17] So any, any issues surrounding that area essentially and pelvic
[1:22] pain, interstitial cystitis, there's just a whole host of
[1:25] things that we take care of. And I think that, you know,
[1:29] it's, it's a field that people delay seeking care in, right?
[1:34] Like whether it's even a urinary issue, which is embarrassing,
[1:38] right? If you're wetting your pants,
[1:39] you kind of embarrassed about it, right?
[1:41] They don't come, They delay care for for a variety of reasons for
[1:46] a long period of time, which ultimately builds shame, may
[1:50] worsen their condition over time because they're not getting care
[1:53] early when it's easier to treat. And so, and ultimately, like if
[1:57] you have blood in the urine, that's one thing I will say
[1:59] people still will delay, but that needs to be evaluated to
[2:02] like rule out cancers. So I think those sorts of things
[2:04] like, again, people will be like, I'm OK, I see a lot of
[2:08] like young men with lumps in their testicles.
[2:12] I don't see a lot of it. But there are, you know, in, in
[2:14] the history of my career, I've seen a lot, few a year where
[2:17] they've delayed seeking care because they have a testicular
[2:20] mass that turns out to be might be testicular cancer or penile
[2:24] mass that might be penile cancer, right?
[2:26] So like those sorts of things because they're in, you know,
[2:30] very private areas and we're scared about what it could be.
[2:34] And like, my favorite thing is someone comes in for something
[2:36] that's completely benign and I get to tell them, like, I'm so
[2:39] glad you came and you don't have anything wrong with you, right?
[2:42] Because I get to give them that like reassurance.
[2:45] And you might be like, oh, what a waste of a visit.
[2:47] But I just gave them like their life back, right?
[2:50] The anxiety they had about this little thing that's completely
[2:53] benign, not cancerous, not going to hurt them.
[2:56] Now they know that and they can go live their life without
[2:58] anxiety and stress. So like you might think like,
[3:01] oh, that's a waste of time. It's not.
[3:03] It is super important for you to be comfortable living your life
[3:07] and feeling comfortable and nothing's wrong with you.
[3:09] Completely. And I think I've heard a lot
[3:11] about this. You mentioned kind of like the
[3:12] prostate as well around like men going to get their prostate
[3:16] checked regularly. And is that something that you
[3:18] think should be more talked about?
[3:19] Because I was just Googling the stats and one in eight men will
[3:22] be diagnosed with prostate, prostate cancer in their
[3:24] lifetime. I mean, it's a huge thing.
[3:26] And I don't think I know many of my male friends in this 30s or
[3:29] 40s that are going to get their prostate checked.
[3:31] And actually, it's something that's really important.
[3:33] So in their 30s and 40s, you don't need to unless they have a
[3:36] family history. So if you have a family history
[3:38] of prostate cancer or you're African American or you have
[3:42] other genetic like conditions that are so and you would know
[3:45] that because you had multiple family members with cancer, you
[3:48] can get screened early. But usually at about 55 is when
[3:52] we start screening for prostate cancer.
[3:54] And so that includes usually a blood test, like a PSA, which is
[3:58] a screening test. So you can have a high PSA for a
[4:00] variety of reasons, but it sort of tells us, OK, should we look
[4:03] further into this and rule out cancer?
[4:06] And then also a digital rectal exam, which is essentially a
[4:11] finger in the butt where we feel the prostate, make sure we don't
[4:14] feel any nodules. And it inspires a lot of anxiety
[4:18] in young men. But I would say like, we're
[4:20] used, this is like our job. And we do this all day.
[4:23] We make it as comfortable as possible for you.
[4:25] And if you're uncomfortable, we stop, right?
[4:27] We don't have to do it, but it's important to get done because
[4:31] sometimes you can get higher grade, more aggressive prostate
[4:34] cancers. And I think there's a ton of
[4:35] misinformation around like prostate cancer doesn't kill you
[4:39] and you don't need to get checked.
[4:40] And yes, there are low grade cancers that will probably never
[4:44] become a problem and can be watched or observed for some
[4:46] period of time or, you know, getting recurring biopsies.
[4:49] But then there are higher grade cancers that will get worse and
[4:53] create problems and metastasize. And those are the ones we want
[4:56] to catch. And so I think if you're between
[4:59] the ages of 55 and 69 and have good health, absolutely get
[5:03] screened. After about the age of 70.
[5:05] We usually have a discussion with you saying if you think
[5:08] you're going to live longer than 10 years and that's a hard
[5:10] discussion to have, then you should continue screening.
[5:13] But if you don't, then you're probably going to die of
[5:15] something else, right? And so it's kind of assessment
[5:18] of your other healthcare problems because usually
[5:21] prostate cancer is very slow growing.
[5:23] Well, OK, so that's interesting. So over the ages of 55, so
[5:26] actually I've just kind of taught off my friends for no
[5:29] reason and this conversation. So apologies to anyone that says
[5:32] that I said that to for me, it was something that was really on
[5:35] the kind of topical conversation this year.
[5:37] I keep seeing it a lot in the media about men needing to get
[5:39] their prostate checked. And I kind of thought it's
[5:41] probably quite important to go and get your MOT, but good to
[5:44] know that that's from 55 and within this, like is there
[5:48] anything that you just really find is important to kind of
[5:50] mention that people should be paying more attention to?
[5:52] Because obviously, you know, for me, getting the most out of this
[5:55] was banishing the shame around sex, sexual health, you know,
[6:00] understanding more about our pelvic floor.
[6:02] I think it was so isolated to women.
[6:04] I only heard about it in Pilates and from my friends that had
[6:06] babies. But men, I think I asked my
[6:09] partner and he didn't, you know, he didn't really even know how
[6:11] to answer that question. So I think kind of like covering
[6:14] these areas are really important.
[6:15] But for you as a urologist, is there anything else that you
[6:17] think that we really need to be paying more attention to in this
[6:20] area? I would just say that if you
[6:24] feel like there is an issue in any of the areas I talked about,
[6:27] like don't delay. But I would say that for for
[6:31] women, the one thing I do notice a lot is that people start to
[6:34] think that leakage after having a baby is normal, right?
[6:37] Like, oh, of course I leaked a little bit when I, you know,
[6:40] when I jumped on the trampoline with my kid.
[6:42] And it is common. It is about one in three women
[6:46] that will experience incontinence.
[6:47] But there are options to treat it.
[6:50] And so if it's bothering you, you can get help.
[6:53] And then in terms of men, I will say, and, and women too, if
[6:56] you're having issues in the bedroom, we know this better for
[7:00] men because again, there's more studies, but I think it's
[7:02] probably the same for women as if you're having issues with
[7:05] erectile function or in women's case like clitoral engorgement
[7:09] and sensation. It can be like a Canary in the
[7:13] coal mine we call. So a sign that there may be
[7:15] heart disease or other cardiovascular conditions
[7:19] because the blood vessels to the genitals are much smaller than
[7:22] the blood muscles to the heart. So if they become blocked for
[7:25] whatever reason, if you have some blockage in your heart,
[7:28] right, the first place you're going to see it is your
[7:30] genitals. And so if you're having issues
[7:33] in the bedroom, see your primary care doctor, get a
[7:37] cardiovascular evaluation. So whatever that may be for you,
[7:40] depending on your other risk factors, can be blood work, can
[7:43] be an EKG, can be a stress test. Again, that's all kind of
[7:46] decided by your doctor, but get that evaluation because it can
[7:49] be very important. It could save your life.
[7:54] Thank you for listening to this be 1 moment if it resonated.
[7:57] The full conversation is LinkedIn, the show notes and I
[8:00] hope it gave you a small pause to take a moment for you and to
[8:04] reconnect to living well and being well.
[8:07] If you loved it, please do leave a review, follow the show or
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