# The Lion’s Code Brett Lavender on the Lost Languages & Mastering the Human Machine

An episode of [The Balanced, Beautiful and Abundant Show - Rebecca Whitman](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1504525713), 22 Sep 2026, 54 min.

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What if the way you think, communicate, and react is being shaped by patterns you don’t even realize are running the show? Learning how to decode those patterns could completely change the way you understand yourself, your relationships, and the people around you. In this episode of The Balanced, Beautiful & Abundant Show, Rebecca Whitman sits down with Brett Lavender to explore the fascinating connection between human behavior, communication, emotional awareness, and self-mastery. Brett shares the concept behind the Lost Languages and explains how understanding the different ways people process, communicate, and respond can transform our relationships both personally and professionally. He also breaks down what he calls the human machine — the unconscious patterns, conditioning, beliefs, and emotional reactions that influence so much of our behavior. Brett explains how greater awareness can help us move from reacting automatically to responding with more intention, clarity, and control. The conversation also explores persuasion, personal power, emotional intelligence, and ideas from Brett’s new book, The Lion’s Code. What You’ll Learn in This Episode • What the Lost Languages are and why understanding them can completely change the way you communicate with others • How the human machine works and why so many of our thoughts, emotions, and reactions happen automatically • How to recognize the unconscious patterns and programming that may be influencing your choices and relationships • Why creating space between a trigger and your response can give you greater emotional control and personal power • How better communication and a deeper understanding of human behavior can help you build stronger relationships and become more persuasive without being manipulative Connect With Brett Lavender Book: The Lion’s Code Available on Amazon: https://a.co/d/05HlOQqz Instagram: @brettlavenderofficial Website: www.thepersuasivelion.com #HumanBehavior, #EmotionalIntelligence, #SelfMastery, #CommunicationSkills, #PersonalPower, #Persuasion, #SelfAwareness, #PersonalDevelopment, #Mindset, #BalancedBeautifulAbundant ✨ CONNECT WITH REBECCA ✨ 💫 Coaching: https://pillar.io/rebeccaewhitman 💫 Grab the balanced beautiful bundle Balanced Beautiful Abundant: https://balancedbeautifulabundant.com/tier-1-bbb 🌸 AMARE - THE DUO: https://www.amare.com/2088608/en-US/shopping-cart/cce3d4 SOULFUL SLUMBER PARTY: https://balancedbeautifulabundant.com/feb-slumber-party MAGNETIC WOMAN MASTERMIND: https://balancedbeautifulabundant.com/mastermind 🌺 LEARN MORE: https://Rebeccawhitman.com 📱 FOLLOW REBECCA: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rebeccaewhitman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccaewhitman Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.whitman LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccaewhitman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@magnetic.midlife Website: https://Rebeccawhitman.com ✨ CONNECT WITH REBECCA ✨ 💫 Events and happenings https://pillar.io/rebeccaewhitman 💫 Grab the balanced beautiful bundle https://balancedbeautifulabundant.com/tier-1-bbb 💫Romantic Reset 15 min free coaching call https://calendly.com/rebeccaelizabethwhitman/touch-base-call 💫Help me plan my next retreat https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/survey-rebecca-whitman 💫Neucollagen with $10 off link https://amare.com/g10/2088608/p/ncol 📱 FOLLOW REBECCA: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rebeccaewhitman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccaewhitman Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.whitman LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccaewhitman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@magnetic.midlife Website: https://Rebeccawhitman.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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