# It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield A podcast by Abbie Chatfield. Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics. Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Feed: https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37 ## Latest episodes - [GRETTA RAY: How a Hidden Heart Infection Triggered a Stroke at 26](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/fb3209d0b607) (2026-10-26, 83 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6adec467d7970fe3c7f87ba0/media.mp3 - [BRIDIE CONNELL'S NMF: He Turned Our Texts Into A Play](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/fdcb8522b1c9) (2026-10-22, 27 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6ad94d8e7df468570210bc5e/media.mp3 - [SOLO: Unpacking That Kikiva TikTok & Filip From MAFS Has Advice For Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/81d81d1844de) (2026-10-19, 85 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6ad613f037850a3d3442cd83/media.mp3 - [NMF: An Urchin, A Kiwi Cheater, and An Attempted Mugging](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/4e5dee24c8d5) (2026-10-15, 40 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6ad06bbd8b8e709df65024f7/media.mp3 - [BBNO$ On Dating, The Antidepressent Honeymoon Phase, and Being Whatever He Wants](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/6abe93a99c84) (2026-10-12, 69 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6acc6a3b4aaaab6ed5f2131a/media.mp3 - [MICHELLE BUTEAU'S NMF: "This is First Testament Sh*t"](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/709b4f291904) (2026-10-08, 20 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6ac43eb77c84f5d4dd85550b/media.mp3 - [SOLO: Why The Cornell 7 Are Not Separate From Society](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/21b8507a805d) (2026-10-05, 58 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6abf576b90f8a952d4ca5305/media.mp3 - [SOLO: I'M BURNT OUT!!! HELP!!](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/206ba11731ab) (2026-10-05, 44 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6abf49e6f5a87132b38ffff5/media.mp3 - [NMF: Never Trust A Tate Lover](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/2963ffaee9c2) (2026-10-01, 30 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6abdef63205819f3d7114dee/media.mp3 - ["How Do I Co-Parent with a 'Boys Don't Cry' Dad?" - Dr Billy Garvey Answers Your Parenting Questions](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/40d604356400) (2026-10-01, 34 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6ab60c0862a47b6becf706de/media.mp3 - [DR BILLY GARVEY: Raising Boys, Masculinity, and Ending the Cycle of Violence](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/bb90835e8d25) (2026-09-28, 87 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6ab60af8864264ef3ed04ce8/media.mp3 - [Sage Advice From Granny Bingo](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/719068f50637) (2026-09-24, 20 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6ab4cf79079b46c819ac7b5a/media.mp3 - [GRANNY BINGO'S NMF: Setting Fire To A Lesbian & Retail Wars](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/da2a89985dee) (2026-09-24, 31 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6ab4ba6762a47b6beca427fb/media.mp3 - [Am I Actually AuDHD?? Chatting Neurodivergence with Dr Monique Mitchelson](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/fed3e531fd65) (2026-09-21, 80 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6aacb6718577b7eb507f5afb/media.mp3 - [BENSION SIEBERT'S NMF: The Threat That Made Him Go Public as a S*x Worker](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/428452ab0ff8) (2026-09-17, 34 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a9f6ffdf8f4d42589f77d21/media.mp3 - [IT'S A LITTLE: The Problem with the Lindsay Clancy Trial Discourse](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/24e3feee2f25) (2026-09-15, 43 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6aa8b7891563582c050023b5/media.mp3 - [SOLO: 'Why Men Don't Listen And Women Can't Read Maps'](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/ff9b2f4963a0) (2026-09-14, 78 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6aa78474b54f356fc78ecf2c/media.mp3 - [NMF: Everything's A Conspiracy!!](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/aec3a07491ac) (2026-09-10, 39 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a8e986883ad88db019daa39/media.mp3 - [MARC FENNELL: How AI Is Already Changing Us](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/9e889311ccbf) (2026-09-07, 65 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a9a021de7a9fe24789cc684/media.mp3 - [SOLO: Are Gen Z More Misogynistic Than Boomers??](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/b745f5163162) (2026-08-31, 74 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a95365653508d8b545dc6bf/media.mp3 - [NMF: Playlists, Triple Lives, and the Lion King Panic Attack](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/d6382e7f238f) (2026-08-27, 38 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a8b8b1520cb324b771d8f14/media.mp3 - [JENNIFER ROBINSON: How Defamation Laws Silence Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/853d7235631c) (2026-08-24, 53 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a86862c39e73ea8f35dca7b/media.mp3 - [HIGH SCROLLERS NMF: The Infernal Redneck Wedding (Ft. Brittney Saunders and Alright Hey)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/18ea2cdcf29d) (2026-08-20, 64 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a84f24b3c90594060e7cf34/media.mp3 - [SOLO AMA: Robert Irwin's Logies Joke, Burnout, and Beauty Standards](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/69b58f49339f) (2026-08-17, 72 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a82be7bff328abd846d18e7/media.mp3 - [CHLOE MIRA'S NMF: "Just Kiss Each Other"](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/3515833105f5) (2026-08-13, 11 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a7d60837d85cbdf96d34d96/media.mp3 - [Are Stunt Creators Bad For OnlyFans? Ft. Annie Knight & Chloe Mira](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/da4437f54163) (2026-08-12, 59 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a7bc1adb8e79c154d0a7f1d/media.mp3 - [DR JENI HAYNES: How Her 2,681 Personalities Helped Her Find Justice](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/9fe2125b430f) (2026-08-10, 90 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a7995e6efa771345a6ce0a6/media.mp3 - [MICHELLE BRASIER'S NMF: "I'm Laying An Egg In Newark Airport!"](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/79a2a887ab74) (2026-08-06, 35 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a71511d2031aa1a2817ed80/media.mp3 - [SOLO: Nara Smith Was Never A 'Tradwife'](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/5d06d35db144) (2026-08-03, 72 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a7050c20cbc3e73ce15235d/media.mp3 - [NMF: Trouble In The P*ssy Palace](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/aaf86ffad117) (2026-07-30, 29 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a68489635a551238ab995d9/media.mp3 - [LILY SCHUBERT: "I Spent Six Years Totally Bedbound"](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/715f7e9e9d36) (2026-07-27, 90 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a66c296614bacdace19b347/media.mp3 - [#AnklesOutForAndrew](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/7e2a3321cd88) (2026-07-26, 68 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a6300ae8c6152b11f55e2b0/media.mp3 - [NMF: Bunker Boy's Cursed House Party](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/6723968b10c5) (2026-07-23, 21 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a5ecd7619fcc7b0d056aec4/media.mp3 - [SOLO: Sludge Update, Tour Tales, and Calling WHO??](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/f88ac14f90b4) (2026-07-20, 42 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a5990d262e50b14bd6d50c1/media.mp3 - [NMF: Looksmaxxing, Birth Rates, Climate Change - A Male GC Perspective](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/37b192c0c790) (2026-07-16, 25 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a56d1db92be37cb7b530f1a/media.mp3 - [PROF JASON ABBOTT: Unpacking Your Endometriosis Questions](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/13f5251af5a8) (2026-07-13, 74 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a44af50e80d75fcb84b190f/media.mp3 - [RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST'S ADVICE: Am I Anxiously Attached??](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/2a4dd6dfddad) (2026-07-09, 22 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a38d85ff1612f1c69a33188/media.mp3 - [How To Break Trauma Bonds ft. Trauma Therapist Aleks Trkulja](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/a88041aa8156) (2026-07-06, 33 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a38d5664a187774acecf576/media.mp3 - [Sex Therapist Answers Your Questions!! ft. Aleks Trkulja](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/63d173ece1fb) (2026-07-06, 41 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a38d390b53e8a6e08932f08/media.mp3 - [NMF: The Scooter Stalker](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/b93b6e621578) (2026-07-02, 10 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a38817d4a187774acdc66e7/media.mp3 - [JESSICA BRADY: "A Man Is Not A Plan" And Other Money Lessons](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/2389873f7988) (2026-06-28, 65 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a34d9234a2a3be0f404963e/media.mp3 - [NMF: Dumped Into Oncoming Traffic](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/2064a81f3ddf) (2026-06-25, 15 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a27a7926642088a108e79c1/media.mp3 - [SOLO: I Watched Pauline Hanson's Speech So You Don't Have To](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/a86dc992f500) (2026-06-22, 97 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a34d4e84a2a3be0f4036e73/media.mp3 - [SAM HALES' NMF: Ruining Arcade Fire's Secret Afterparty](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/c752590a7763) (2026-06-18, 25 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a2badbc57a3c029dac56ab3/media.mp3 - [HARRI JAMES: From Survival Mode to Changing the Law](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/62fabf29d671) (2026-06-15, 43 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a278156c022d9c4fed6074c/media.mp3 - [NMF: The Chaplain's Secret](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/3cf4b55786d7) (2026-06-11, 21 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a1e657d626f8869c3d44c48/media.mp3 - [SOLO: Men's Rights Reddit HATES This Phrase](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/ff6648d2ff48) (2026-06-08, 63 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a2242e4be8560e74b5820cf/media.mp3 - [NMF: Healthcare Horrors ft. Emma Hardy](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/2e32573516e2) (2026-06-04, 20 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a1905c071443cf04ae56fee/media.mp3 - [Breaking Down the Budget with Larissa Waters](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/69b80e6ebf71) (2026-06-03, 55 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a1e280ac1105f0d1124d61a/media.mp3 - [EMMA HARDY: PMDD and the Myths of Monstrous Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1500849438/9d8d7651ec09) (2026-06-01, 54 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/69cc6ba892d007a765ac8c37/e/6a190519847a83997ed885bd/media.mp3 Shows are listed from Apple Podcasts' charts and directory, and Podcast Index where it is used. Every show and episode belongs to its publisher and plays from the publisher's own feed; this site hosts none of them.