# I'm Really Worried About My Mom

An episode of [Untraditionally Lala](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1494722390), 24 Jun 2026, 53 min.

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Lala shares a deeply personal update about her mom and the uncertainty their family is navigating. She and Easton also reflect on Father’s Day, share emotional moments from Ocean’s graduation, and talk honestly about dating in a way only they can. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally. Lala. Hey, babes,
[0:06] Speaker 1: it is Laala Kent, Welcome back to untraditionally.
[0:09] Speaker 2: Lala.
[0:09] Speaker 1: Hello, Tete, how's it going? Did you get your earring fixed? Now?
[0:17] Speaker 3: These are my other These are my big Bangers. I
[0:20] Speaker 3: stole from Lisa.
[0:21] Speaker 1: They're really good.
[0:22] Speaker 3: I know she said I used come on me so
[0:24] Speaker 3: much he gave them to me.
[0:25] Speaker 1: I used to wear those, yeah, and I love the
[0:29] Speaker 1: Ravens hat.
[0:31] Speaker 3: I got sunburn on my forehead. You're wearing that?
[0:35] Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys. There's something about Newport Beach in California,
[0:40] Speaker 1: because I know we're all fixated on Real Housewives of
[0:43] Speaker 1: Rhode Island right now, so don't get confused. Not Newport
[0:47] Speaker 1: out that way, but Newport out this way and the
[0:52] Speaker 1: sun there, like, I haven't been burned in years, and
[0:55] Speaker 1: I think, obviously it's because I don't go in the sun,
[0:58] Speaker 1: like I'm terrified of it. But when you're just out
[1:01] Speaker 1: on the beach and you got a few little umbrellas
[1:03] Speaker 1: that are, you know, staked into the ground, and as
[1:07] Speaker 1: the sun moves, you know it just I got the
[1:11] Speaker 1: top of my stomach is burned. I looked like a tourist.
[1:14] Speaker 3: Yeah, just everywhere was burnt on me. And then I
[1:19] Speaker 3: had a softball practice and my softball party that you saw.
[1:24] Speaker 3: So then I went to more and I put sunscreen on.
[1:27] Speaker 3: But when you're playing, like I was sweating, so I
[1:30] Speaker 3: was like rubbing my face and then before you know it, I.
[1:33] Speaker 1: Guess it's just this this strip of forehead.
[1:36] Speaker 3: And I didn't want to it's burnt. Yeah, And I
[1:39] Speaker 3: didn't wear I just didn't take a hat. I was like,
[1:40] Speaker 3: it's just practice, we'll just throw them around and now.
[1:43] Speaker 3: And then the one thing that I really did me
[1:45] Speaker 3: dirty was the pool. The reflection of the pool. That's
[1:48] Speaker 3: what I always forget.
[1:49] Speaker 1: I know. But you have to be careful because you
[1:51] Speaker 1: have such fair skin. I know, I know, like skin
[1:55] Speaker 1: cancer is no joke. You have to be diligent, even
[1:58] Speaker 1: if you're the guy who walks around like yes, I know,
[2:01] Speaker 1: but you get burned all the time, just here and there,
[2:05] Speaker 1: no anytime you're in the sun. And Easton just bakes
[2:08] Speaker 1: out there and he's like, yeah, but it'll turn to tan.
[2:11] Speaker 1: And in my mind, I'm like, it's going to turn
[2:14] Speaker 1: to skin cancer.
[2:15] Speaker 3: Who else does that? Who else doesn't go out in
[2:17] Speaker 3: the sun a good amount. So when they are, they're like,
[2:19] Speaker 3: just give me whatever you can and then it'll be
[2:21] Speaker 3: a tan for a good minute. Earn me again.
[2:25] Speaker 1: That is like giving me the most anxiety of my life, thinks,
[2:29] Speaker 1: I think, maybe an uneducated thing. A I don't think
[2:33] Speaker 1: about the future, kind of live fast.
[2:36] Speaker 3: I'm here. Whatever comes with me being here is going
[2:39] Speaker 3: to come. I I you know, I.
[2:43] Speaker 1: Just thinking about the way you're talking, especially because of
[2:47] Speaker 1: Mom right now. No I can That's where I am. Okay,
[2:51] Speaker 1: So we went. We went to Newport Beach for the week.
[2:54] Speaker 1: I think I told you guys a little bit about
[2:56] Speaker 1: our plan. We left on a Monday. I rented a
[3:00] Speaker 1: beach house with our family friends, the Russins. We had
[3:03] Speaker 1: two houses for you know, however many people we had,
[3:08] Speaker 1: it was a lot. The rust and clan just keeps growing.
[3:11] Speaker 1: Keep in mind, we've been going to Newport since the
[3:15] Speaker 1: time Easton and I were like tiny little tots. I
[3:18] Speaker 1: mean yeah, since I could form memories like that was
[3:22] Speaker 1: just our go to every summer, and my dad would
[3:26] Speaker 1: wake us up at the crack of dawn to get
[3:29] Speaker 1: to the beach where if anybody knows about June gloom
[3:33] Speaker 1: on the West coast. It is frigid. You need a snowsuit.
[3:37] Speaker 1: And we would be out there with literally nobody. It
[3:39] Speaker 1: would be so gloomy and almost dark, just wrapped in blankets,
[3:44] Speaker 1: and my dad would make us rocket until the sun
[3:46] Speaker 1: went down. And every single year I would break out
[3:50] Speaker 1: in a heat rash, and so I had to wear
[3:55] Speaker 1: like full clothing. I'd to wear full clothing. And my
[3:58] Speaker 1: dad cared, but not enough to like not have as to.
[4:02] Speaker 3: The point where he was like, grab another umbrella for you.
[4:05] Speaker 3: But we were still going on that beach.
[4:07] Speaker 1: We're still going to that beach. So I take my
[4:10] Speaker 1: two kids and you guys, both of them head to
[4:15] Speaker 1: toe heat rash. I originally thought it maybe was like
[4:18] Speaker 1: an allergic reaction to the sunscreen, and then I was like,
[4:21] Speaker 1: maybe it's little like sand mites that are biting them.
[4:25] Speaker 1: Sosa is still recovering from her rash on her face.
[4:28] Speaker 1: It felt horrible.
[4:29] Speaker 3: I'm no doctor, but I also think it's like sand
[4:32] Speaker 3: is the rocks. Yeah, and then you have like this
[4:36] Speaker 3: baby skin and where it is on her face like
[4:41] Speaker 3: everywhere with face, where like kids sleep with their butts.
[4:44] Speaker 1: Up like a stink bug position, and she would.
[4:48] Speaker 3: Push her face on the towel, but the towel was
[4:51] Speaker 3: full of sand, and I think that is another reason
[4:55] Speaker 3: that could very well.
[4:56] Speaker 1: Doctor, I don't know. All I know is she was
[5:00] Speaker 1: in a sweatsuit when I took her the last day
[5:02] Speaker 1: to the beach, and we were we had one more
[5:04] Speaker 1: day that we were going to stay down there. And
[5:09] Speaker 1: once I took the sweatsuit off because it started getting warm,
[5:12] Speaker 1: her entire body had a rash within like minutes. So
[5:17] Speaker 1: I don't know. I ended up leaving a day early.
[5:19] Speaker 1: I was like, I'm headed home. I gotta like take
[5:21] Speaker 1: care of this rash. I gotta get this sand off
[5:23] Speaker 1: of us. I need to like get back to normalcy.
[5:27] Speaker 1: I left midweek. Uh So we checked in Monday. All
[5:31] Speaker 1: of us went back to LA on Wednesday to prepare
[5:34] Speaker 1: for Ocean's graduation, and then we filmed the reunion, which
[5:39] Speaker 1: Andy posted the seating chart. As you guys know, I
[5:43] Speaker 1: cannot deep dive into anything with the valley, but I
[5:46] Speaker 1: am very very excited. I think it's going to be
[5:50] Speaker 1: a great one. I loved my look. The one thing
[5:54] Speaker 1: I'm nervous about, you guys, is the one thing I'm
[5:57] Speaker 1: nervous about I was in head to body makeup, and
[6:03] Speaker 1: when I took my dress off, it was like makeup
[6:06] Speaker 1: all right here? And I knew I was I like
[6:09] Speaker 1: told myself because I get like nervous sweats, like I'll
[6:12] Speaker 1: be freezing, shaking like a baby deer, but like sweating.
[6:15] Speaker 1: And I was like it was disgusting.
[6:18] Speaker 3: I'm revulsive.
[6:19] Speaker 1: But a few other of my cosmembers like we're saying,
[6:22] Speaker 1: They're like, what is this? I don't understand. I'm like, nerves.
[6:25] Speaker 1: This is called nerves. We're all just freaking nervous as fuck.
[6:28] Speaker 1: We're also probably very hormonal, and some of us could
[6:31] Speaker 1: be entering like perimenopause. But we're not even gonna summon.
[6:35] Speaker 3: That too up. We're not bringing that there. We're not
[6:37] Speaker 3: bringing that.
[6:38] Speaker 1: Onto us right now. No, And so I told myself.
[6:42] Speaker 1: I was like, I'm just gonna keep my arms down.
[6:44] Speaker 1: You guys know how I talk. I talk like this,
[6:47] Speaker 1: I'm hands I'm up in the air.
[6:50] Speaker 3: I'm like, she's really aggressive, she adds feet, She's like
[6:53] Speaker 3: a dancing spider when she's really pissed off.
[6:56] Speaker 1: Yeah, like a little kick here and there. No, I
[6:58] Speaker 1: didn't do any of that. I stayed in my seat,
[7:02] Speaker 1: but that's still want.
[7:03] Speaker 3: That's the one thing I'm nervous about that when.
[7:06] Speaker 1: I stand up, no one stood up.
[7:08] Speaker 3: That's okay. I needed a little bit of tea if
[7:11] Speaker 3: anybody got the pointing standing up, but no one pointing.
[7:14] Speaker 3: But no one stood up. No everyone.
[7:20] Speaker 1: It was a good reunion. And everyone looked like so
[7:24] Speaker 1: stunning and beautiful, you know, that's it. I looked around
[7:28] Speaker 1: and I was like, this group cleans up.
[7:30] Speaker 3: Nice, No, you've a it's a really good looking cast.
[7:34] Speaker 1: I don't know how Jasmine dealt with it, because going
[7:37] Speaker 1: from like the highest hige of like marrying the love
[7:40] Speaker 1: of your life and then going into that setting like
[7:45] Speaker 1: I have been in love, and let me tell you something,
[7:47] Speaker 1: when you're in your love bubble, nothing can burst.
[7:49] Speaker 3: But if I were, if I were them, I would
[7:52] Speaker 3: have been like, Okay, so that's we're gonna get married.
[7:55] Speaker 3: We're going to go do this fucking reunion, and then
[7:59] Speaker 3: we're gonna get on a plane and go on a honeymoon.
[8:02] Speaker 3: So you get like a high and then back and
[8:05] Speaker 3: then you get another high. All different types of life too,
[8:08] Speaker 3: because the reunion.
[8:09] Speaker 1: Is a high.
[8:10] Speaker 3: It is, but and most people go and travel after
[8:14] Speaker 3: the reunion. Everybody's like they're fleeing. No matter who it is,
[8:17] Speaker 3: they're fleeing. It's like, no, they're done working. So what
[8:20] Speaker 3: do you do? Like NBA players when the season's over,
[8:23] Speaker 3: they all usually travel. They're not fleeing and seasons over.
[8:26] Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, so like that season's over. Now we
[8:30] Speaker 3: go have function and it's our honeymoon.
[8:33] Speaker 1: Yeah, and we went into but you guys came back
[8:36] Speaker 1: and had Ocean's graduation, and because you and Mom were
[8:39] Speaker 1: nervous about doing Ocean's hair, so.
[8:43] Speaker 3: I couldn't can't.
[8:44] Speaker 1: It wasn't nervous, your mom was nervous, and so we
[8:47] Speaker 1: had CC the nanny come to do Ocean's hair the
[8:50] Speaker 1: way she wanted it that morning. But on Wednesday, when
[8:53] Speaker 1: I brought the kids home, which was the day before
[8:55] Speaker 1: reunion and graduation, Ocean knew that I would not be
[8:58] Speaker 1: able to go her graduation. And when I had told
[9:02] Speaker 1: her teachers, like I'm not going to be there, they said, oh,
[9:07] Speaker 1: we know, Ocean told us. She came up and said,
[9:12] Speaker 1: my mom isn't going to be able to make it
[9:14] Speaker 1: to graduation because she's all over people's TV. And that
[9:18] Speaker 1: day she has to film.
[9:20] Speaker 3: She was not wrong.
[9:21] Speaker 1: She was not wrong. But when we got back, I
[9:25] Speaker 1: told her, why don't we go to the mall and
[9:28] Speaker 1: get you the dress that you want to wear for graduation?
[9:31] Speaker 1: And she was like, can I pick it? Can I
[9:33] Speaker 1: pick whatever I want? I was like, anything that you
[9:35] Speaker 1: want to wear, I am not going to fight you
[9:38] Speaker 1: on it. Well, we did fight about it.
[9:40] Speaker 3: She wanted some horrific shit she wanted.
[9:42] Speaker 1: She wanted really got awful white shoes to go with
[9:45] Speaker 1: her dress. She had on like this red frilly dress.
[9:49] Speaker 1: The dress was amazing, dress was great. The shoes.
[9:51] Speaker 3: I was like, you look the accessory she was picking
[9:55] Speaker 3: with the dress looked like the three blind mice were
[9:58] Speaker 3: picking the Yeah.
[10:00] Speaker 1: And she said, you said I could pick whatever I wanted.
[10:04] Speaker 3: And I don't like to match.
[10:05] Speaker 1: And I was like, oh no, I said, you picked
[10:08] Speaker 1: the dress, and now I'm giving you options. These are
[10:11] Speaker 1: your options for shoes.
[10:13] Speaker 3: Like if you would have let her, you would have
[10:16] Speaker 3: had big daddy type scene of her I can't do it,
[10:21] Speaker 3: I can't do it, goggles on. She ended up really
[10:24] Speaker 3: digging the.
[10:24] Speaker 1: Shoes though, that she because once she put them on,
[10:27] Speaker 1: because I actually really loved these shoes mom. I was like,
[10:29] Speaker 1: I know, it looks freaking great. So you roll up
[10:33] Speaker 1: to graduation. She's in her fit, in her fit, all
[10:37] Speaker 1: the other kids.
[10:38] Speaker 3: It's just so special. It's a special day. And I
[10:41] Speaker 3: walked in and it is the cutest little thing. They
[10:45] Speaker 3: have huge posters of their like of each individual kid
[10:51] Speaker 3: their photo, like their little yearbook photo, and every little
[10:54] Speaker 3: kid is just the sweetest, cutest And then they all
[10:59] Speaker 3: had like the little like saying what they want to
[11:02] Speaker 3: be when they're older and what they would do to
[11:04] Speaker 3: help the world. And I lost it. I actually started
[11:09] Speaker 3: crying there there. She's she's special. That child holds a
[11:18] Speaker 3: very special place in my heart.
[11:20] Speaker 1: But look at the photo, her photo, She's so And
[11:24] Speaker 1: this is what she wrote, Ocean kent Emmett. When Ocean
[11:28] Speaker 1: grows up, she wants to be a soldier to save
[11:31] Speaker 1: the world. Oh no, I'm going to cry. Her favorite
[11:36] Speaker 1: part of being at the school that she went to
[11:39] Speaker 1: is playing in the big yard, snack time and lunchtime.
[11:43] Speaker 1: My kind of girl. If she could spread kindness in
[11:46] Speaker 1: the world, Ocean would help those in need by giving
[11:49] Speaker 1: them food and cozy jackets. And then this is her
[11:53] Speaker 1: self portrait that she Drew, this is how she sees
[11:55] Speaker 1: herself beautiful. It's a freaking stunner.
[12:00] Speaker 3: See the eyes again.
[12:04] Speaker 1: Sorry, my sweet baby. And Easton sent me videos of
[12:09] Speaker 1: her on stage and they were like singing and doing
[12:13] Speaker 1: the dance and you guys, my child is so into it.
[12:17] Speaker 1: And there was a moment where like something funny happened
[12:19] Speaker 1: but she was into it. But the performance stopped and
[12:22] Speaker 1: she looked so thrown off and she was like laughing
[12:25] Speaker 1: because everyone else was laughing. But it's like, this isn't funny.
[12:27] Speaker 1: Let's get back to what we're doing here. And then
[12:29] Speaker 1: the music started again and she was right back in it.
[12:34] Speaker 3: Dun She needs to be on television? What do we
[12:39] Speaker 3: do about that?
[12:40] Speaker 1: I don't. I go back and forth because I'm like,
[12:42] Speaker 1: she's such a performer and she wants to be on TV.
[12:44] Speaker 1: But then I also see like child stars, and I'm like,
[12:47] Speaker 1: do I really want that for her?
[12:51] Speaker 3: Like?
[12:51] Speaker 1: Do I really want to expose her all of that?
[12:55] Speaker 3: Here's the thing, yes and no. If it's something that
[12:57] Speaker 3: she wants to do, who are you to hold her back?
[12:59] Speaker 3: And all? So, you're an amazing mom, and I think
[13:02] Speaker 3: you would be step by step, And there's one girl
[13:05] Speaker 3: that I'm talking about. And I met her when I
[13:08] Speaker 3: was working on movie sets and she I think she's
[13:12] Speaker 3: doing amazing still. But when I met her, she was
[13:15] Speaker 3: she was an actress on the movie sixteen or seventeen
[13:19] Speaker 3: years old Beautiful, and her mom didn't leave her side.
[13:23] Speaker 3: And I was like, I feel like, you know the
[13:25] Speaker 3: girl and I think she's still going. But I feel
[13:27] Speaker 3: like you would be that mom where there's nothing she'll
[13:30] Speaker 3: be exposed to because I'm here right and I'm not
[13:33] Speaker 3: leaving her side. And if you tell me that I
[13:34] Speaker 3: need to leave her side, I'm really not leaving her side. Yeah,
[13:38] Speaker 3: And that would be you. So I don't think I
[13:39] Speaker 3: think people get exposed to too many things because parents
[13:43] Speaker 3: get a little.
[13:45] Speaker 1: Back off a little too much.
[13:47] Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're like I need to like a little
[13:49] Speaker 3: stage mommy. Yeah, or they're they're like, this is my child,
[13:52] Speaker 3: but I need to let them fly, and it's like,
[13:53] Speaker 3: but there's still a kid hover them.
[13:56] Speaker 1: Yeah totally.
[13:56] Speaker 3: So that's where I'm at, happy medium, But I feel
[13:59] Speaker 3: like hover in that industry until you die.
[14:04] Speaker 1: Yes. And before so, they had told me the school,
[14:09] Speaker 1: they were like, we know that you can't make it
[14:11] Speaker 1: to actual graduation, but we're having a rehearsal today if
[14:14] Speaker 1: you can make it, which we were supposed to record
[14:16] Speaker 1: the podcast that day, so I called our producer. I
[14:19] Speaker 1: was like, Hey, we got to cancel this recording today
[14:22] Speaker 1: because I need to go to my baby's school.
[14:25] Speaker 3: And I watch the rehearsal.
[14:26] Speaker 1: No, So I draw Ocean off, go home, do my thing,
[14:31] Speaker 1: go back to the school, and when I walk in,
[14:33] Speaker 1: Ocean is like beaming.
[14:37] Speaker 3: Mom, You're crazy.
[14:40] Speaker 1: What are you doing here? And I looked at her
[14:43] Speaker 1: and I was like and she was like, Mom, what
[14:47] Speaker 1: are you doing here? I'm like, I'm here to watch.
[14:51] Speaker 1: So they go up and she does her little thing,
[14:53] Speaker 1: and at the very end they sing Golden by the
[14:57] Speaker 1: K Pop do You and Hunter Clan or whatever, and
[15:00] Speaker 1: then she runs up to me and she says, why
[15:02] Speaker 1: did you come? I said, because I can't come to graduation,
[15:04] Speaker 1: so I wanted to see you guys perform. She gives
[15:06] Speaker 1: me the biggest hug. I'm telling you. She was beaming.
[15:09] Speaker 1: And there were so many moms, even in the comment
[15:12] Speaker 1: section when I originally spoke about this, that really were
[15:16] Speaker 1: very uplifting, And in that moment when I went to rehearsal,
[15:21] Speaker 1: It made so much sense what a lot of moms
[15:24] Speaker 1: had said to me, which is like, they're not going
[15:26] Speaker 1: to remember the actual day anything, things the little things
[15:33] Speaker 1: that you showed up and tried to do and showed love,
[15:37] Speaker 1: And it just all clicked in that moment where I
[15:40] Speaker 1: was like, I think she's I think she's going to
[15:42] Speaker 1: be okay.
[15:43] Speaker 3: Yeah, how funny that you said that. I have a
[15:45] Speaker 3: like a vivid memory of sixth grade where we were
[15:50] Speaker 3: in a play and I had to read into the
[15:53] Speaker 3: next scene. Do you remember that, like in yeah Shakespeare,
[15:56] Speaker 3: and like I hated that. Yeah, And guess what Mom
[16:00] Speaker 3: came and I'll never forget because we weren't there for it.
[16:03] Speaker 3: We went to I think we went to Newport Beach
[16:06] Speaker 3: leaving and.
[16:07] Speaker 1: So I was just doing it and then we wouldn't
[16:09] Speaker 1: be in school if it was summertime.
[16:11] Speaker 3: I have no idea where we were going, but I wasn't.
[16:13] Speaker 3: George was on the Point Pale whatever it may have been.
[16:16] Speaker 3: At that time. We were not going to be in
[16:18] Speaker 3: so we weren't there for but I was doing the
[16:20] Speaker 3: reading and things like that. But Mom came in just
[16:22] Speaker 3: saw me do like it, and I remember that. Yeah,
[16:26] Speaker 3: And then we just left and she was like, yeah,
[16:27] Speaker 3: I just came to see you do your reading and
[16:29] Speaker 3: I and now thinking about that, it just brought it up.
[16:32] Speaker 3: But yeah, that was in like six fifth or sixth
[16:33] Speaker 3: grade Shakespeare Place. Yeah.
[16:35] Speaker 4: I remember with like Christopher Walter, the whole clan. I
[16:43] Speaker 4: had some friends man, Danny.
[16:45] Speaker 1: Wait Christopher that you would call tofer good Old and
[16:49] Speaker 1: he always had ski goggle.
[16:51] Speaker 3: Uh oh he always had the raccoon tan.
[16:53] Speaker 1: Yeah, so many kids at our skill did because Fridays,
[16:55] Speaker 1: if you signed up to go skiing, you got to
[16:58] Speaker 1: miss school. And my mom and dad would be like.
[17:00] Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure to go skiing.
[17:03] Speaker 1: I was like, how I would rather be stuck in
[17:06] Speaker 1: a math class? Didn't you strap shit to my feet
[17:09] Speaker 1: and send me down.
[17:09] Speaker 3: To Eil Walter. Me and Walter we were like, oh, yeah,
[17:12] Speaker 3: we get to miss Fridays and then before you know it,
[17:14] Speaker 3: you have to be up at seven and then you
[17:16] Speaker 3: don't get home till four and you're like, I've been
[17:18] Speaker 3: out of school at one fifteen on a Friday. Yeah.
[17:21] Speaker 3: So then we started to pretend we are sick, did
[17:24] Speaker 3: not go anywhere. We really hated it. I was not
[17:28] Speaker 3: a Utah man.
[17:29] Speaker 1: I wasn't built for you. I was built different. Oh
[17:33] Speaker 1: my goodness, the biggest thing. And I know a lot
[17:37] Speaker 1: of you mothers will relate, especially my single mothers. By choice.
[17:41] Speaker 1: Best decision I ever made, by the way. However, I'd
[17:45] Speaker 1: be lying if I didn't say there are moments where
[17:49] Speaker 1: I go I wish it was someone else this weekend,
[17:52] Speaker 1: right now, because Sosa is kicking my ass. She is
[17:58] Speaker 1: a mama's girl. And I said to God and the universe,
[18:03] Speaker 1: I just want a baby that is all mine. They
[18:07] Speaker 1: took that and ran with it. The universe heard that
[18:11] Speaker 1: as a manifestation and said, you want a baby that's
[18:14] Speaker 1: all yours. Girl, Here you go. I mean, she is tough, y'all.
[18:21] Speaker 3: I'm trying to find a better way to reword it.
[18:26] Speaker 3: But I tell Lauren and she gets pissed off. Or
[18:28] Speaker 3: I tell law and she gets pissed off because she's like, well,
[18:30] Speaker 3: it's rude, it is. But I'm like, she is rough
[18:34] Speaker 3: on you, like this child. You guys are saying she.
[18:39] Speaker 1: Wants to be inside of me. She will put her
[18:41] Speaker 1: head into my neck and just like try.
[18:43] Speaker 3: To mama, mama, all of us are.
[18:48] Speaker 1: You can't get any closer to me?
[18:50] Speaker 3: Bart, and Bart was like, you're You're as close as
[18:53] Speaker 3: you can get, kid.
[18:55] Speaker 1: Yeah, like literally, you could not be any closer unless
[18:58] Speaker 1: you were to crawl back and my body. Yeah, and
[19:01] Speaker 1: I think she would.
[19:02] Speaker 3: But that's what I say to her, and she goes,
[19:04] Speaker 3: it's and it is rude. I'm trying to find a
[19:06] Speaker 3: better way to him. But when I tell you, if
[19:09] Speaker 3: law is not around, and it's just me and I wasn't.
[19:12] Speaker 3: I was filming the reunion after they had you have
[19:16] Speaker 3: the other, you had a whole other family even agreeing
[19:18] Speaker 3: with like it was not yeah, it wasn't just my mind.
[19:21] Speaker 3: It was like the entire Russian is an angel. She
[19:26] Speaker 3: just will walk up to me, I pick her up,
[19:27] Speaker 3: we go and walk around. But when she sees you,
[19:31] Speaker 3: nobody else exists. And it's almost like she knows that.
[19:36] Speaker 3: I don't even know what she knows. But it's like
[19:38] Speaker 3: when I'm with her, it's like fun, she's easy, but
[19:40] Speaker 3: then she's like it all builds up, all the fear
[19:43] Speaker 3: and all that. She's like, Okay, we'll just suppress it
[19:45] Speaker 3: until I see my mom and then we'll blow up
[19:47] Speaker 3: on her. I was scared forever. Where are you? It's
[19:52] Speaker 3: like you're all right, man.
[19:54] Speaker 1: Yeah, even Nick and Joe yesterday they came over and
[19:57] Speaker 1: so So was doing her thing with me again, and
[20:02] Speaker 1: they were like, it's so crazy because Easton brought her
[20:05] Speaker 1: over to the house this weekend while you were gone. Guys,
[20:08] Speaker 1: I almost took a picture because she was like the
[20:11] Speaker 1: easiest child.
[20:12] Speaker 3: It was an uncle mistake for sure, but like there
[20:14] Speaker 3: was a piece of cardboard that was like flapped. This
[20:18] Speaker 3: child hits it, face plants and it's just gust white
[20:23] Speaker 3: dust from saw boards and what do they puts? Yes,
[20:31] Speaker 3: and she just looks up at me kind of pouts
[20:34] Speaker 3: and I go, come me here, come here. I dust
[20:36] Speaker 3: her face off. He didn't even cry.
[20:38] Speaker 1: Yesterday she ate it and sobbed for five hours.
[20:41] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[20:41] Speaker 1: We now she's just really hard on me. So as
[20:44] Speaker 1: of right now, I don't want any more kids. I'm
[20:46] Speaker 1: freaking exhausted. We celebrated Father's Day in not any sort
[20:53] Speaker 1: of way. It was nice to kind of not have
[20:57] Speaker 1: a holiday. Here's the thing.
[20:59] Speaker 3: Love my dad. He is like a hands on uncle. Day.
[21:02] Speaker 1: All right, Well that's yesterday.
[21:06] Speaker 3: I didn't feel like it. Here's the thing.
[21:08] Speaker 1: Holidays with children are hard because I feel like there's
[21:11] Speaker 1: so much pressure where you're like make a reservation, what
[21:13] Speaker 1: are we doing? Like there's so much behind, Like I know,
[21:18] Speaker 1: that's how I feel about mine. That's why I secretly
[21:20] Speaker 1: wanted so said to come on my birthday because I
[21:23] Speaker 1: wanted to share that day. And it's like what a
[21:25] Speaker 1: beautiful gift, but like it's your day now, like I'm
[21:27] Speaker 1: handing it over to you. Go fly have a heyday.
[21:31] Speaker 1: But there's just the pressure of like how do I
[21:33] Speaker 1: make it special where we're doing something special, but also
[21:37] Speaker 1: the feeling is alive. It's kind of like Christmas where
[21:39] Speaker 1: I'm like, how do I get the spirit of Christmas?
[21:42] Speaker 1: Yesterday or Father's Day, Easton had a barbecue with his
[21:46] Speaker 1: baseball teammates, my.
[21:48] Speaker 3: Gay baseball teammates. Yeah, I saw all of them. Like
[21:51] Speaker 3: that was the other thing that I kind of liked
[21:53] Speaker 3: because we were all like, well it is Father's Day,
[21:55] Speaker 3: and everybody was like, well, I'm no.
[21:57] Speaker 1: Dad, and so everybody would you like to see him?
[22:02] Speaker 3: But everybody kind of came here from like a different stage,
[22:04] Speaker 3: so nobody so they were like, I just call I'm
[22:07] Speaker 3: just going to call my dad. So it was like
[22:09] Speaker 3: it was fun having a Father's Day with a whole
[22:11] Speaker 3: bunch of like guys that weren't fathers. Yeah, it was
[22:15] Speaker 3: like fun totally.
[22:17] Speaker 1: I agree. I think Mother's Day the kids should go
[22:20] Speaker 1: with the dad and on Father's Day and on Father's
[22:23] Speaker 1: Day all take the kid and you go do your thing.
[22:26] Speaker 3: I think that's kind of how it is. Though, No,
[22:28] Speaker 3: like on Mother's Day, I do know like a group
[22:31] Speaker 3: of girls that go to brunch altogether and they leave
[22:34] Speaker 3: the kids with that sounds awesome, yeah, and then they
[22:37] Speaker 3: go home and they do their thing. And then on
[22:38] Speaker 3: Father's Day, I know, the same group of dudes all
[22:41] Speaker 3: leave the kids. They all go golfing in the morning
[22:43] Speaker 3: and grab like lunch, and then they go home and
[22:46] Speaker 3: hang out with the family.
[22:47] Speaker 1: I was talking to Michelle, Janet and Brittany and I
[22:50] Speaker 1: was like, for Mother's Day, we should start a tradition
[22:53] Speaker 1: where we stay at the we check in on Saturday
[22:55] Speaker 1: night at Beverly Hills Hotel. We go to brunch in
[22:58] Speaker 1: the morning where someone brings the kids to us we
[23:01] Speaker 1: can all eat together. When brunch is over, we punt
[23:04] Speaker 1: the kids and we lay by the pool and have
[23:08] Speaker 1: the best day ever, and then we'll check out.
[23:11] Speaker 3: Better to me than a staycation.
[23:13] Speaker 1: I love a staycation. Janet does it all the time.
[23:16] Speaker 1: Our Father's Day was easy, and I did wish my
[23:19] Speaker 1: fellow single mothers by choice and not by choice, a
[23:23] Speaker 1: happy Mother's Day because I have a friend Meredith, who
[23:25] Speaker 1: also had a baby via sperm donor. However, her donor
[23:29] Speaker 1: is her gay best friend, so fun. I tried to
[23:32] Speaker 1: get Logan ear Leo to donate sperm to me, but
[23:34] Speaker 1: they said it would be weird and I was.
[23:37] Speaker 3: Like, why, Like, not for you, weird for them, and
[23:40] Speaker 3: I can get Logan said to me.
[23:44] Speaker 1: He was like, I'll just feel guilty. I'm like, I
[23:46] Speaker 1: don't expect anything from you, and he goes. You realize
[23:49] Speaker 1: I'm around ocean and when I leave her, I feel guilty.
[23:51] Speaker 1: Imagine if it was my.
[23:52] Speaker 3: Own kid, even though it's not your child. You're like,
[23:55] Speaker 3: I donated that kind of mine. Yeah, I have that
[23:59] Speaker 3: back there, so helpless thing but kind of like wonky,
[24:02] Speaker 3: you know, Like yeah, that's why I couldn't know the person.
[24:15] Speaker 1: Can I ask you, how do you feel on Father's Day?
[24:18] Speaker 1: With dad being gone?
[24:21] Speaker 3: Yeah?
[24:23] Speaker 1: Enough past, enough time has passed.
[24:25] Speaker 3: Why it's like it's a good Yeah, true day, You've
[24:27] Speaker 3: done amazing things I don't think like there's no it
[24:30] Speaker 3: doesn't take you out. No, yeah, I think I'm getting
[24:33] Speaker 3: over the taking me out. I'll cry and things like that,
[24:36] Speaker 3: but like, I don't think anything will debilitate me where
[24:39] Speaker 3: it's like this case putting me in bed.
[24:42] Speaker 1: You know, kind of what happens to me is Dad's
[24:45] Speaker 1: been gone for over eight years now, and I some
[24:48] Speaker 1: like whenever I hear the word dad, I kind of
[24:53] Speaker 1: shudder a bit. And yesterday when I was firing off
[24:57] Speaker 1: like uh, happy father Day text messages and posts to
[25:02] Speaker 1: like other single moms do I know, I was like,
[25:07] Speaker 1: You're such a fucking asshole lot. You haven't taken one
[25:11] Speaker 1: moment to be like you had an amazing dad. And
[25:14] Speaker 1: the only reason I thought about this was because Sosa
[25:17] Speaker 1: for five minutes was not freaking out and I had
[25:21] Speaker 1: a moment to kind of sit on the day and
[25:24] Speaker 1: be like, I'm I need to like really work on
[25:29] Speaker 1: that to not be triggered by the word dad, because
[25:34] Speaker 1: I had such a great one, and I think had
[25:37] Speaker 1: he not passed before everything went awry, I would be
[25:44] Speaker 1: able to look at men and fathers differently. But you
[25:48] Speaker 1: have to remember, like he died like three years before
[25:52] Speaker 1: all that shit happened, so had if he were still here,
[25:59] Speaker 1: I think I would look at dad differently. I think
[26:00] Speaker 1: I would look at men differently because I would see
[26:03] Speaker 1: my own dad and see him with my mom and
[26:06] Speaker 1: treating her kindly, and see him with my kids and
[26:08] Speaker 1: be like and see them see Brandon, I do, but
[26:13] Speaker 1: you guys are my brothers, Like that was my dad.
[26:17] Speaker 3: That was my dad. But also like you can see
[26:19] Speaker 3: Brandon and he's in like a very help he is
[26:21] Speaker 3: Dad really is.
[26:23] Speaker 1: And when I see them we talked about this on
[26:25] Speaker 1: the last episode. When I see Brandon and Chryl, I'm like,
[26:28] Speaker 1: this exists. It does exist, maybe just not in Los Angeles.
[26:33] Speaker 3: Just the right person. There's no matter where how to
[26:36] Speaker 3: find the right person. I don't think it depends on
[26:38] Speaker 3: where you are.
[26:39] Speaker 1: I know, what are you supposed to go out and
[26:41] Speaker 1: like search for the right person or do they like
[26:43] Speaker 1: fall with their laugh?
[26:44] Speaker 3: I don't know. Well, here's the thing, and I think
[26:47] Speaker 3: a lot of people, maybe I'll ask that I don't
[26:51] Speaker 3: like dating apps, okay, like swiping. I don't like that.
[26:57] Speaker 3: I like authentic in person. So what do I have
[27:00] Speaker 3: to do? I have to go to go out yeah,
[27:02] Speaker 3: because I don't want to just meet somebody on a
[27:04] Speaker 3: dating app. Is it There's something wrong with that?
[27:07] Speaker 1: Now?
[27:07] Speaker 3: Not at all. I just here it is. I know
[27:12] Speaker 3: what I like, and when I'm out and about, I'm like, Okay,
[27:14] Speaker 3: I like that. I'm going to go and talk to you.
[27:16] Speaker 3: I don't want to hope to god you're somebody I
[27:19] Speaker 3: like through a photo and then I meet you and
[27:20] Speaker 3: I have to hang out with a thousand girls to
[27:23] Speaker 3: meet one good one. I just not like that. Yeah, like, yeah,
[27:27] Speaker 3: I have a Tinder date. Like I know people who
[27:28] Speaker 3: have like Tinder dates nine ten times.
[27:31] Speaker 1: Friends that have a coffee date and a dinner date.
[27:33] Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. They have like a coffee and
[27:35] Speaker 3: then they'll go to dinner. They'll every day they have
[27:38] Speaker 3: one to two Tinder dates, and I'm thinking, what a
[27:41] Speaker 3: waste of time because you have to see her, and
[27:43] Speaker 3: like they'll even say they're like right when I sat
[27:45] Speaker 3: down and we like talked for the first minute, I
[27:47] Speaker 3: knew And it's like that is why I'm not wasting
[27:49] Speaker 3: my time on these dating apps, because if I saw
[27:52] Speaker 3: you in person right then, and I don't even need
[27:56] Speaker 3: to sit down and the pressure has gone to yes,
[27:58] Speaker 3: and I would have just been like, hey, I'm.
[28:00] Speaker 1: Numbers, continue the conversation.
[28:02] Speaker 3: Yeah. So like that's where I'm at. So there's people
[28:06] Speaker 3: who like dating apps and just want to flip through
[28:09] Speaker 3: them and they know that that's easy, and that's their character.
[28:13] Speaker 3: My character is reserved. I'm not just going to go
[28:15] Speaker 3: by the way. It's like shopping. I go in a
[28:19] Speaker 3: store and I day and if I see something, I
[28:21] Speaker 3: go and look. I don't go rack for rat M Totally.
[28:25] Speaker 3: I'm the same way. If I see something, I'll look
[28:27] Speaker 3: at it, not it I daze around. I do not
[28:31] Speaker 3: And that same with dating. I see it all I
[28:34] Speaker 3: like this and then you go and then.
[28:36] Speaker 1: I can Yes, you hung out with a girl the
[28:39] Speaker 1: other night, and I was proud of you.
[28:40] Speaker 3: I mean until five am. Everybody I know and I feel.
[28:44] Speaker 1: The same way though Easton I'm like, I do not
[28:47] Speaker 1: enjoy dating and sitting down and like Amber.
[28:51] Speaker 3: Graded gram is a little different. I will say, oh,
[28:54] Speaker 3: fire off like that, like that's a person I'm seeing you.
[28:57] Speaker 3: You're aesthetic on what you post. I'm getting a little
[28:59] Speaker 3: bit like I can't tell off of four hinder pictures but.
[29:04] Speaker 1: Just feels a little too formal and a little too
[29:06] Speaker 1: much pressure.
[29:06] Speaker 3: Yeah, so, like I will meet somebody that I've never
[29:09] Speaker 3: met through Instagram, if you know.
[29:11] Speaker 1: So.
[29:12] Speaker 3: I'm not against it. I'm just not a dating app
[29:14] Speaker 3: kind of guy. And I hear dating apps are just
[29:15] Speaker 3: like fuck apps, and I'm sorry, I ain't trying to fuck.
[29:19] Speaker 1: Oh, I'm trying to do it all. I met this
[29:22] Speaker 1: I was looking for this woman. Someone had recommended her
[29:27] Speaker 1: to me for like I forgot what it was like,
[29:30] Speaker 1: some publicist or something. I can't quite remember why I
[29:35] Speaker 1: was looking for her. But in the midst of trying
[29:37] Speaker 1: to find her on Instagram, I came across this really
[29:39] Speaker 1: hot guy and he lives in London, and it was
[29:43] Speaker 1: really fun and cute and we were like facetiming or whatever.
[29:46] Speaker 1: But then I think we both got over it because
[29:48] Speaker 1: of the time difference. By the time we would exchange
[29:50] Speaker 1: literally one message exactly, I was like, this, this is
[29:58] Speaker 1: maybe a little too much distance. It was fun while
[30:01] Speaker 1: it lasted. You look hot on the FaceTime. Wish you
[30:04] Speaker 1: the best. But by the way, if I ever end
[30:05] Speaker 1: up in London, I will be hitting him up because
[30:07] Speaker 1: he was fine, six', three looking like a whole snack.
[30:11] Speaker 3: OOH i don't get. Them that's WHEN i love THE.
[30:14] Speaker 3: Dms i'm no, Pressure I'M adm or. TWO i will do.
[30:17] Speaker 1: THAT i love A. Dm i'm old, school like it's
[30:21] Speaker 1: going down in THE, dms which came OUT i think
[30:23] Speaker 1: WHEN i was in LIKE i stay for.
[30:25] Speaker 3: Me it's still that.
[30:27] Speaker 1: WAY i am old school antiquated Af, anyway moving on
[30:32] Speaker 1: to some pop. Culture SO i just, finished, Uh Real
[30:37] Speaker 1: housewives Of Rhode, island the finale. EPISODE i was expecting
[30:40] Speaker 1: for it to be a little bit more, explosive but
[30:43] Speaker 1: THEN i started the reunion And i'm, like this is
[30:46] Speaker 1: gonna get. GOOD i had to pause it BECAUSE i
[30:49] Speaker 1: had to come on here with you. Guys But i'm
[30:51] Speaker 1: in the middle Of rula dancing around If liz had
[30:58] Speaker 1: cheated on her husband at any point in, time and
[31:00] Speaker 1: they're talking about How rula Saw liz out with a
[31:04] Speaker 1: man and they were very close and. Kissy i'm really
[31:08] Speaker 1: obsessed With Rhode island and what's wild is watching. It
[31:12] Speaker 1: sometimes with these, shows there are people who you dig
[31:16] Speaker 1: in people who you. DON'T i actually like all of.
[31:19] Speaker 3: THEM i like all of. Them is it first?
[31:21] Speaker 1: Season it's the first, season BUT i mean they were
[31:24] Speaker 1: putting it all out. THERE i Think brian is a
[31:26] Speaker 1: fucking clown AND i want to get into his arrest
[31:31] Speaker 1: because that happened we found out on the finale. Episode But,
[31:36] Speaker 1: rula the star of the.
[31:37] Speaker 3: Show is her new. Nose she got a new.
[31:40] Speaker 1: Nose people are calling it The Jennifer Aiden Knows. LIKE
[31:44] Speaker 1: i think it's very. CUTE i like.
[31:46] Speaker 3: It it does have that like that little, point like
[31:49] Speaker 3: the swoop. Happening, YEAH i won't. LIE i like a swoop.
[31:53] Speaker 3: Nose do you think they're going to they're. Cuter they're
[31:56] Speaker 3: cuter when they're all, natural, Though but if you got
[31:59] Speaker 3: to get, it you got to get.
[32:00] Speaker 1: It, well how lucky for someone to be able to
[32:03] Speaker 1: have it all natural? NOSE i, mean look at, Mine
[32:06] Speaker 1: look at my. Nostrils THIS i like this side of
[32:09] Speaker 1: my face because it tilts to the side, right but
[32:12] Speaker 1: it's crooked like my nostril and ocean is the same,
[32:15] Speaker 1: Thing like this one goes this. Way this one's. Straight
[32:17] Speaker 1: But i'm worried IF i fuck with, it get it like,
[32:20] Speaker 1: that Then i'm not gonna like either. SIDE i almost
[32:24] Speaker 1: want them to make this one more like that. One
[32:26] Speaker 1: but then you've got a straight, nose and THEN i
[32:28] Speaker 1: don't have one side THAT i.
[32:30] Speaker 3: LIKE i was just looking at my nose for a.
[32:33] Speaker 3: While look up in.
[32:34] Speaker 1: The, Air look up in the air like, this so
[32:37] Speaker 1: you've got a straight.
[32:38] Speaker 3: Nose then look at it this. Way this one's bigger
[32:42] Speaker 3: than this, one and it looks like, squidward just like somebody.
[32:45] Speaker 3: Through that is not.
[32:46] Speaker 1: True you have such a cute little. NOSE i went
[32:48] Speaker 1: to Doctor diamond AND i told HIM i really want
[32:51] Speaker 1: my nose, fixed and he told, me if you find
[32:53] Speaker 1: a doctor that will touch your, Nose i'm gonna need
[32:56] Speaker 1: you to run the.
[32:57] Speaker 3: Way so that was.
[33:00] Speaker 1: GOOD i also stated on the reunion multiple, times, y'all
[33:05] Speaker 1: if you're looking At, ANDY i don't care If i'm
[33:08] Speaker 1: next to him on the very very. END i don't
[33:12] Speaker 1: care if you have me sitting on the fucking. FLOOR
[33:16] Speaker 1: i have to be on the left side of, him
[33:20] Speaker 1: so camera hits the right, side and please don't call
[33:24] Speaker 1: me you know.
[33:24] Speaker 3: Who it has.
[33:25] Speaker 1: Nothing i'm. Not if they would have put me on
[33:28] Speaker 1: the other couch where, this it would have been, like all, right, fine,
[33:30] Speaker 1: whatever you, know like we.
[33:31] Speaker 3: Deal BUT i just.
[33:32] Speaker 1: Prefer to hit him with the cute tilt, side you,
[33:37] Speaker 1: know because it does have a little swoopy effect from
[33:39] Speaker 1: this side, anyway. Stupid she was the star of the,
[33:44] Speaker 1: show she, said Meaning rula's. Nose she also said that
[33:48] Speaker 1: she had a little lip, lift AND i was, like,
[33:51] Speaker 1: oh that's.
[33:52] Speaker 3: Cute Though.
[33:56] Speaker 1: I've been told like a little bit of botox just To.
[33:58] Speaker 1: BOB i can tell you some zoning. Out my most
[34:01] Speaker 1: favorite topic injections and. SKINCARE i do need up.
[34:04] Speaker 3: Here that's the only.
[34:05] Speaker 1: THING i Need some boatoks for My, yeah you could
[34:10] Speaker 1: use you could use a little in the, forehead BUT
[34:13] Speaker 1: i don't like when men are frozen like they.
[34:15] Speaker 3: Got to have a little no and TO i just
[34:18] Speaker 3: want to. Do here's the.
[34:20] Speaker 2: THING i have a, MOM i had a. Dad but
[34:24] Speaker 2: my dad was a wrinkly old. Man he was a very,
[34:27] Speaker 2: rinkly wrinkly. Guy so like that's Where i'm, like you,
[34:31] Speaker 2: Know i'm very like wrinkly.
[34:33] Speaker 3: Too like my eyebags are like LIKE i DON'T i
[34:36] Speaker 3: won't pull, them but like they're there this like.
[34:39] Speaker 1: You're elevens stop doing. That but, yeah a little bit
[34:45] Speaker 1: WHAT i want to like put IN i tell you.
[34:48] Speaker 1: Something you continue to get in the, sun you're going
[34:51] Speaker 1: to start getting, lines.
[34:52] Speaker 3: Right, oh, well that is WHAT i needed. Today but
[34:55] Speaker 3: dad is really playing with. Fire, okay well it was
[34:58] Speaker 3: a week in the sun and.
[35:00] Speaker 1: Yesterday do it all the time you need to Be
[35:03] Speaker 1: you should be the guy who walks around in full
[35:06] Speaker 1: zinc And i'm not a Shoking, well then you're going
[35:09] Speaker 1: to be a wrinkly old man like you're. Doing, well
[35:12] Speaker 1: you're not chaking very well of preventing it right. Now
[35:16] Speaker 1: so When brian was, arrested it's Because rula had a
[35:21] Speaker 1: feeling that she was being. Tracked, now keep in, Mind
[35:24] Speaker 1: brian has been accused the entire season of having an.
[35:27] Speaker 1: Affair rula knows about this. Affair what she doesn't know
[35:30] Speaker 1: is that it's still. Ongoing so the season wraps And
[35:37] Speaker 1: rula has this like weird suspicion that she is being.
[35:40] Speaker 1: Followed so she takes her car TO bmw and, SAYS
[35:43] Speaker 1: i have this like feeling that there's a tracker on my.
[35:46] Speaker 1: Car can you guys try to find. It they're, like
[35:48] Speaker 1: we can't touch the, car but you got to go
[35:49] Speaker 1: to like the nearest body. Shop she goes the nearest body.
[35:53] Speaker 1: Shop they do find a tracker on her. Car rula
[35:56] Speaker 1: in scene, SAYS i think that he had a tracking
[36:01] Speaker 1: device on my car because he wanted to know WHERE
[36:05] Speaker 1: i was IF i was approaching the house or IF
[36:08] Speaker 1: i did a drive by to the mistress's. House And i'm, like, Yes,
[36:11] Speaker 1: rula all season, long you have been denying that this
[36:14] Speaker 1: affair has been going, on and let me tell you.
[36:16] Speaker 1: Something where they's, smoke there's, Fire but this is the
[36:18] Speaker 1: first time where she's right on the. Money this guy
[36:22] Speaker 1: was tracking her car because he needed to make sure
[36:25] Speaker 1: that he was not caught with this woman if she
[36:28] Speaker 1: just shows up at the office and the mistress is
[36:30] Speaker 1: in there and they're doing funky. Business he needed to
[36:34] Speaker 1: know if the mistress needed to abort. Mission AND i
[36:39] Speaker 1: always found it so in my ex's old office space
[36:44] Speaker 1: and it all clicks. Now he chose this office where
[36:47] Speaker 1: you walk in but you enter through one. Wave but
[36:50] Speaker 1: then on the side where his desk, was there were
[36:53] Speaker 1: stairs to exit the. Building And i'm, like oh my,
[36:57] Speaker 1: God i'm sure every TIME i arrived and that door
[37:01] Speaker 1: was closed and, locked and he would yell, Like i'm
[37:05] Speaker 1: on the, phone someone, UNLOCKED i can't unlock the. Door
[37:08] Speaker 1: that there was probably a girl and he would sneak
[37:10] Speaker 1: her out the.
[37:10] Speaker 3: Bag what a piece of Shan't we.
[37:13] Speaker 1: Won't even get into, that But i'm curious to know
[37:17] Speaker 1: in this reunion it's only two, parts which is normal
[37:19] Speaker 1: BECAUSE i think they only had twelve episodes if she
[37:22] Speaker 1: acknowledges any of, this Because brian is at the fucking,
[37:27] Speaker 1: reunion he sits Behind, rula and he's been arrested for domestic.
[37:32] Speaker 1: Violence AND i learned so much ABOUT dv you guys
[37:35] Speaker 1: during my custody battle and what falls under that, category
[37:39] Speaker 1: and that very much a tracking device does fall under domestic.
[37:45] Speaker 1: Violence there are so many little things THAT i freaking,
[37:49] Speaker 1: learned AND i didn't like how they downplayed. It they were, like,
[37:53] Speaker 1: no it was nothing. Physical it's, like bottom line is
[37:56] Speaker 1: this man was fucking tracking. You it's, stalking focking.
[38:00] Speaker 3: You that is a big.
[38:01] Speaker 1: Deal like, no he didn't lay his hands on, you thank,
[38:05] Speaker 1: God BUT i didn't want it to be so, like,
[38:10] Speaker 1: oh you, know the headlines made it a bigger. Deal it's, like,
[38:13] Speaker 1: well it is a big. Deal it's a fucking big
[38:15] Speaker 1: deal that this man took it upon himself without you
[38:19] Speaker 1: knowing to purchase a fucking tracking device and attach it
[38:23] Speaker 1: to your car so that you wouldn't. Know that's a big.
[38:26] Speaker 1: Deal this guy's. Insane this guy is, insane and he should.
[38:31] Speaker 1: BE i loved that he wasn't allowed in the, house
[38:33] Speaker 1: like she filed some sort of restraining order or like
[38:36] Speaker 1: a no contact order where like he couldn't come. Around
[38:39] Speaker 1: clearly that went. Away because he's at the reunion with.
[38:42] Speaker 1: HER i am so curious to see what he has
[38:45] Speaker 1: to say for.
[38:45] Speaker 3: Him it's gonna be so.
[38:46] Speaker 1: Crazy And i'm curious to see How rula comes At,
[38:49] Speaker 1: joellen because let me tell you, SOMETHING i didn't Think
[38:52] Speaker 1: joellen was in the wrong at.
[38:54] Speaker 3: All neither was the.
[38:55] Speaker 1: One she was the one exposing. Things and WHEN i say,
[38:59] Speaker 1: exposing she would bring it To, rula like these things,
[39:02] Speaker 1: exist and, yeah she talks about it amongst the, group
[39:04] Speaker 1: because that's just what we fucking do when we're filming a.
[39:07] Speaker 3: Show you.
[39:07] Speaker 1: Know But i'm, like how are we so mad At
[39:12] Speaker 1: joellen when, like your man is in a car with
[39:16] Speaker 1: this mistress who you know he's cheated on you with
[39:18] Speaker 1: before there's a timestamp and they're, like well you can
[39:20] Speaker 1: make up time, stamps like not, really not, Really she
[39:25] Speaker 1: like is filming him the mistress and then takes a
[39:27] Speaker 1: video of the car dashboard where it says the date and.
[39:31] Speaker 3: Time i'm, like you can't make that. Up does anybody
[39:47] Speaker 3: Knows steve McBee Senior bravo, Show oh.
[39:51] Speaker 1: The McBee, Dynasty, yeah that. Guy know what happens in?
[39:54] Speaker 3: Prison oh the dad? Right?
[39:57] Speaker 1: Ye like two million dollars something For, oh he's.
[40:01] Speaker 3: Up he's in. Tweble he's in. Tweble and not only
[40:05] Speaker 3: is he In, tweble my Homie moe is with. Him
[40:13] Speaker 3: he called me yesterday and he, goes, BRO i got
[40:15] Speaker 3: something crazy for. You he, goes you Know steve. McBee
[40:19] Speaker 3: i go, no he goes he said he was On
[40:21] Speaker 3: bravo or. SOMETHING i was, like, no, ship, wait he's
[40:26] Speaker 3: in prison With steve. McBee what a small?
[40:30] Speaker 1: World? Right didn't tell him my friend is On.
[40:34] Speaker 3: Bravo So bravo was on some of the shows while they're,
[40:38] Speaker 3: there And The valley was on review and he, goes no.
[40:41] Speaker 3: Way he was, like The valley was on.
[40:43] Speaker 5: And he, goes, hey that's like my, sister and that's
[40:47] Speaker 5: when it's. Started he was, like that's like my sister right,
[40:49] Speaker 5: there and that's when it. Started he was, like, OH
[40:51] Speaker 5: i was On bravo and he, goes and, then, yeah
[40:54] Speaker 5: there it.
[40:55] Speaker 3: Was but he told me. Yesterday he was, like, Yeah
[40:56] Speaker 3: i'm in here With steve McBee. Man, Wow, Mo.
[41:03] Speaker 1: Wow, Yeah i'm so happy you brought that. Up how
[41:08] Speaker 1: did you not tell me this after the phone?
[41:10] Speaker 3: CALL i kind of forgot until right. Now that's WHY
[41:13] Speaker 3: i looked at. IT i have, that BUT i was,
[41:16] Speaker 3: LIKE i have to look it up next TIME i
[41:17] Speaker 3: chat WITH, mo, Though i'll bring.
[41:18] Speaker 4: You in on.
[41:19] Speaker 1: It. Wow that's fucking amazing next.
[41:21] Speaker 3: TIME i don't know when he'll, call But i'll be.
[41:23] Speaker 3: Ready you stay ready for those.
[41:26] Speaker 1: Already you have a call from an inmate at the
[41:30] Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah blah.
[41:31] Speaker 2: Blah you can look up where they are now, obviously
[41:35] Speaker 2: and Is?
[41:36] Speaker 1: Mo?
[41:38] Speaker 3: Mo CAN i talk about talk About?
[41:40] Speaker 1: Mo how we know?
[41:41] Speaker 3: Them funny? Enough So PALAZZO. M my mom and sister were.
[41:48] Speaker 1: THERE i was.
[41:48] Speaker 3: There they WERE mo was literally two units away from
[41:54] Speaker 3: my mom and. Sister so they were moving a HUGE
[41:56] Speaker 3: tv in and they were waiting for the elevator and
[41:59] Speaker 3: people just kept going in front of. Them so my mother,
[42:02] Speaker 3: goes do you guys not see that they're trying to
[42:04] Speaker 3: move A tv? In the elevator and so like they,
[42:07] Speaker 3: said thank. You so my mom got in with. Them
[42:10] Speaker 3: they started, talking and then every time they'd see each
[42:13] Speaker 3: other lily and then Had lily and they looked at
[42:18] Speaker 3: me and they, go isn't this some old lady and
[42:21] Speaker 3: girls old? Dog, yeah isn't this an older lady's. Dog
[42:24] Speaker 3: AND i was, like, oh, yeah my, mom and they,
[42:27] Speaker 3: go we were about to press you because we didn't
[42:30] Speaker 3: know if you were stealing the. DOG i was, like
[42:32] Speaker 3: oh my. Goodness so they had my mom's back already
[42:36] Speaker 3: AND i was, like no. Way so that Was that's
[42:38] Speaker 3: the reading of.
[42:38] Speaker 1: Moment they moved.
[42:39] Speaker 3: In, moo, Sico, FYI i do have to make music
[42:46] Speaker 3: With you've talked about. It, yeah they are coming out now,
[42:49] Speaker 3: yet we got the the files. Back everything is now
[42:53] Speaker 3: hours were, licensed So i'm going to release.
[42:55] Speaker 6: Them THIS i.
[42:56] Speaker 3: Love we got two songs coming. Out one is Called
[42:58] Speaker 3: baggage and the other one is Called shovel And baggage
[43:02] Speaker 3: is coming. Out but we want to do a remix with.
[43:04] Speaker 1: You really, yeah if you want, TO i do want.
[43:07] Speaker 3: To we want to do one with you for the
[43:09] Speaker 3: hell of.
[43:09] Speaker 1: It sounds so.
[43:10] Speaker 3: Cute here's the, thing, guys baggage is about my ex
[43:12] Speaker 3: and how MUCH i love. Her that's WHAT i wanted to.
[43:16] Speaker 3: WRITE i. Know, yeah we talked about, it just to
[43:19] Speaker 3: let you guys. Know, also when you hear these, Songs
[43:21] Speaker 3: i've been sing on them for like three, years so
[43:24] Speaker 3: like one is LIKE i was still like popping pills and,
[43:27] Speaker 3: Shit i've just been sitting on them for three. YEARS i,
[43:29] Speaker 3: thought why not release?
[43:30] Speaker 1: THEM i think it's. Great so that's Who moe. Is SO.
[43:34] Speaker 3: I shook it to my very. Core IF i can
[43:38] Speaker 3: get some inside stories from the, penitent yeah you. Should.
[43:43] Speaker 3: Yeah love it.
[43:46] Speaker 1: To. Mo thanks for the, content. Buddy in other, news
[43:50] Speaker 1: WHEN i was In, NEWPORT i saw the headline come
[43:52] Speaker 1: through That Jelly roll And bunny ix so are getting, divorced.
[43:54] Speaker 3: AND i was so. SHOCKED i was, shocked and THEN
[43:57] Speaker 3: i was sad to hear her. Side, well tell us
[44:00] Speaker 3: about her. Side it wasn't, mutual it was one. Sided
[44:07] Speaker 3: she didn't want.
[44:07] Speaker 1: It, well she, SAID i feel LIKE i always loved
[44:11] Speaker 1: my husband a little more than he loved.
[44:13] Speaker 3: Me, yeah and then to see, Like I'm i'm sorry
[44:18] Speaker 3: she was with you when you were he.
[44:20] Speaker 1: Was a, bigger a bigger. Guy and then he knew,
[44:22] Speaker 1: that like it was a health, issue so that and
[44:26] Speaker 1: it's like and THEN i started booking really huge collaborations.
[44:29] Speaker 3: With like really big. Artist, yeah and it's, like you
[44:32] Speaker 3: had A ride Or die and it's LIKE i feel
[44:34] Speaker 3: like you think you outgrew her or something or there's
[44:36] Speaker 3: better out, there and it's, like, dude you had the.
[44:38] Speaker 3: Best she's So ride Or. Die she's. BEAUTIFUL i bet
[44:42] Speaker 3: She's AND.
[44:42] Speaker 1: I think she was down for like open relationship type
[44:45] Speaker 1: not open, relationship but like bringing.
[44:49] Speaker 3: Which Is But i'm not going to lie to you
[44:51] Speaker 3: if that was my, wife nobody. Else i'm not sharing
[44:54] Speaker 3: that with, anybody And i'm not being shared with anybody that's.
[44:57] Speaker 1: Mine she also talked to on their podcast that they
[45:01] Speaker 1: fully even though the divorce is, happening they fully intend
[45:04] Speaker 1: on having a baby via surrogate and agreeing to co.
[45:09] Speaker 1: Parent And i'm, like, NO i just want to get
[45:13] Speaker 1: it out to say, no don't do, It, yes don't do.
[45:16] Speaker 1: That the person that you were once in love, WITH
[45:18] Speaker 1: i have heard is is not the person you. Divorce
[45:21] Speaker 1: and even THOUGH i didn't go through a, divorce the
[45:23] Speaker 1: person that you break up with just in general is
[45:26] Speaker 1: not the person who you met at the. Beginning the
[45:30] Speaker 1: person that you're gonna coparent with is not the parent
[45:34] Speaker 1: you thought you were going to. HAVE i really hope they.
[45:36] Speaker 3: Don't just do, It just do it by. Yourself, yeah
[45:41] Speaker 3: if you want a. Baby but by the, way he's
[45:43] Speaker 3: always on the Road's i'm, like what do you mean
[45:45] Speaker 3: you're now seeing.
[45:46] Speaker 1: Now you're giving this never going to be around, Success.
[45:50] Speaker 3: But, like there's my. Thing it's, like you might as
[45:52] Speaker 3: well just do it yourself and not have him, attached
[45:55] Speaker 3: BECAUSE i don't think he's going to give you. Much,
[45:57] Speaker 3: no he. Can't he's always on the, road the.
[46:00] Speaker 1: Performer now you're gonna have to ask him for permission
[46:04] Speaker 1: for things like school and freaking. Medical you want a,
[46:08] Speaker 1: baby go have it on your, own or go find
[46:11] Speaker 1: like the love of your life or What I've if
[46:14] Speaker 1: she is also into, women go have a baby with another.
[46:17] Speaker 1: Woman mm.
[46:18] Speaker 3: Hmmm, yeah we just were so in.
[46:21] Speaker 1: Sync we think, ALIKE i don't, know have a baby
[46:26] Speaker 1: with your. BESTIE i have a baby just, so that's
[46:29] Speaker 1: WHAT i. RECOMMEND a baby with, him a baby with your,
[46:32] Speaker 1: mom who with your brother or your, Sister that's WHAT i.
[46:35] Speaker 1: Recommend easiest co parent exiguation and villain on the. Planet all,
[46:41] Speaker 1: right let's jump to our aches and relief of the.
[46:43] Speaker 1: Week do you have an ache te? Teeth?
[46:46] Speaker 3: Yeah this and needing to get my life. Together my
[46:49] Speaker 3: ache is me not being smart this, uh this past
[46:51] Speaker 3: week on. Sunscreen i'm feeling. It last NIGHT i was
[46:55] Speaker 3: hot as could. Be and my relief of the week,
[47:02] Speaker 3: is honestly mom's doctor's. Appointments, OKAY i like. That, YEAH
[47:08] Speaker 3: i think we're going to get some answers for. Her
[47:11] Speaker 3: and it's not like for, me it's. Not, YEAH i
[47:13] Speaker 3: think my relief is for somebody, else AND i hope
[47:16] Speaker 3: it's for my mother to get some. Answers, yeah and
[47:18] Speaker 3: that would be a relief for me for the.
[47:20] Speaker 1: WEEK i Think i'm having so much anxiety right. Now,
[47:23] Speaker 1: Well i've had anxiety this whole. Reside here's the, thing
[47:25] Speaker 1: it's just it's not my. Mother but the sad thing
[47:29] Speaker 1: is is my mother knows it's not. Her. Yeah and
[47:34] Speaker 1: a lot of you guys have been asking for her
[47:36] Speaker 1: to be on the, podcast and you're, saying like she looks.
[47:38] Speaker 1: GREAT i, like did she have a? Facelift not a hip?
[47:41] Speaker 1: Surgery and, like my mom does not look like my.
[47:46] Speaker 1: Mother my mom is not acting like my. Mother and
[47:48] Speaker 1: as much AS i want to get her on the,
[47:50] Speaker 1: PODCAST i don't even think she could be on the
[47:52] Speaker 1: podcast right. Now my ache is definitely my mom BECAUSE
[47:56] Speaker 1: i like do not recognize her at, all And i'm really.
[48:00] Speaker 3: Scared i'm like really really, scared and.
[48:05] Speaker 1: This morning because she just got back From newport last
[48:08] Speaker 1: night and she's really trying to like be out and
[48:10] Speaker 1: about and keep her mental, strong but like she has
[48:14] Speaker 1: tremors and she feels foggy and she's having a lot of.
[48:17] Speaker 1: Anxiety the sleep abnea mask is not. Helping SO i
[48:21] Speaker 1: did look at your GUYS'S dms and.
[48:23] Speaker 3: Because the CLAUSTROPHOBIA i could, work, yes but the, claustrophobia.
[48:29] Speaker 1: My amazing our amazing listeners talked about like a mouthguard
[48:32] Speaker 1: that she goes in tomorrow to explore and hopefully we
[48:35] Speaker 1: can get. Her that she comes home last night and
[48:39] Speaker 1: we wake up this morning And i'm making coffee AND
[48:41] Speaker 1: i asked her how she's, feeling and she, said you,
[48:43] Speaker 1: KNOW i googled and then she just loses it and, said,
[48:47] Speaker 1: Like i'm really worried THAT i have parkin since BECAUSE
[48:50] Speaker 1: i have a lot of those symptoms And i'm, like
[48:54] Speaker 1: really pranking To god that.
[48:55] Speaker 3: It's not THAT i will say right. Now my mother
[48:58] Speaker 3: has been to enough doctor's appointments THAT i think this
[49:00] Speaker 3: would have been pinpointed. ALREADY i don't know saying this and.
[49:03] Speaker 1: THAT i called her doctor like very early this, morning
[49:07] Speaker 1: AND i, said you, know this is what she's feeling.
[49:09] Speaker 1: Like AND i know that we've done blood, work but
[49:12] Speaker 1: she googled and now she's worried About Parkinson's and he,
[49:16] Speaker 1: said is there any family? History AND i, said, yeah her.
[49:20] Speaker 1: Grandmother so he, SAID i want her to go into
[49:22] Speaker 1: a neurologist two. Days so after we wrap this, Episode
[49:25] Speaker 1: easton AND i are going to take her to that doctor's.
[49:27] Speaker 1: Appointment so just, LIKE i don't, know.
[49:31] Speaker 3: Send good vibes and. PRAY i.
[49:33] Speaker 1: GUESS i don't. KNOW.
[49:34] Speaker 3: M i'm freaking out, though mm.
[49:38] Speaker 6: Hmm and my, RELIEF i guess is, just you, know
[49:42] Speaker 6: one more doctor's appointment that we can check off the
[49:45] Speaker 6: list and hopefully it's nothing and we will get to.
[49:48] Speaker 3: The bottom of.
[49:48] Speaker 6: It i'm just feeling very. NERVOUS. M, Sorry, no you're.
[49:56] Speaker 6: GOOD i MEAN i feel nervous and just worried about
[50:01] Speaker 6: her and she's she was really really struggling this, morning
[50:06] Speaker 6: just like sobbing with her whole.
[50:09] Speaker 3: Body it was really hard to. Watch, Anyway.
[50:15] Speaker 6: I'm gonna keep positive thoughts and just put positive energy
[50:20] Speaker 6: out there that my mom is, gonna you, know bounce,
[50:24] Speaker 6: back and maybe this is just a reaction to a
[50:27] Speaker 6: foreign object in her.
[50:28] Speaker 1: BODY i don't.
[50:29] Speaker 3: Know that's the other thing THAT i keep telling everybody
[50:33] Speaker 3: in this family IS i was there WHEN i picked
[50:36] Speaker 3: up my mom from the, hip and they, said three
[50:39] Speaker 3: months is like when you start to feel better and get.
[50:45] Speaker 3: Better some people are better at three. Months and he
[50:48] Speaker 3: looked at me and he, said but with her, age
[50:50] Speaker 3: it could be six months to a, year because a
[50:53] Speaker 3: lot of people do take a full. Year my mom
[50:56] Speaker 3: is at two. Months, Yeah AND i tell, her like
[51:01] Speaker 3: because she, can't she won't just sit, out like she won't.
[51:04] Speaker 1: Wants to crawl out of her own. Skin and she,
[51:05] Speaker 1: SAID i feel like my feet are on fire and
[51:07] Speaker 1: there's pins and needles in, them and like when she
[51:10] Speaker 1: goes to do anything like even yawn like. Face but
[51:16] Speaker 1: WHEN i was hugging, her LIKE i know she was,
[51:19] Speaker 1: crying but you could it was almost like there were
[51:22] Speaker 1: tremors on the inside of her.
[51:23] Speaker 3: Body, YEAH i JUST i, mean there's obviously a solution to,
[51:28] Speaker 3: EVERYTHING i feel, like and we'll find. It but the
[51:32] Speaker 3: one THING i always want mom to do is like
[51:34] Speaker 3: give YOUR i, know your feet her And i'm, sorry
[51:36] Speaker 3: but LIKE i need you to give Yourself grace's in two,
[51:39] Speaker 3: Months you're allowed to go up on the. Couch you're
[51:42] Speaker 3: allowed to just sit there and watch a show at eleven. Am,
[51:46] Speaker 3: one put your feet, up order some. FOOD I i
[51:52] Speaker 3: just want my mom to take care of herself because
[51:54] Speaker 3: she never. Has, yeah but WHEN i told, her you
[51:58] Speaker 3: were not prepared for this in any. Capacity BUT i have,
[52:03] Speaker 3: hope AND i have high, hope AND i feel good about,
[52:06] Speaker 3: it AND i feel like we'll say.
[52:08] Speaker 1: Get back, yeah And i'll keep you guys posted on
[52:12] Speaker 1: what that doctor's appointment looks like. Today i'm really hopeful
[52:17] Speaker 1: that that's not. It but we just have to keep
[52:19] Speaker 1: like doing the process of elimination until we get down
[52:22] Speaker 1: to the bottom of. It so my my relief is
[52:24] Speaker 1: definitely THAT i know with every doctor's appointment that we
[52:29] Speaker 1: check off the, list we're closer to finding out what's
[52:33] Speaker 1: what's going on with my. Mama, ANYWAY i love you
[52:37] Speaker 1: guys so. Much thank you for listening to another episode
[52:39] Speaker 1: Of Untraditionally. Lala we're gonna catch you On monday for the.
[52:41] Speaker 1: Bonus remember regular episodes air Every, wednesday And An Unlikely
[52:46] Speaker 1: affair With myself And Amber childers is Every thursday night
[52:49] Speaker 1: at nine. Pm love you. Guys, bye

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