# Sex Unlocked: Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby

An episode of [Untraditionally Lala](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1494722390), 15 Jul 2026, 40 min.

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Lala Kent and Salley Carson are pulling back the covers on modern intimacy. In the very first episode of SEX UNLOCKED, they get to know each other through their most unfiltered sex stories, from sober sex and squirting to turn-ons, toys, threesomes, anal and the bedroom moves that give them the instant ick. It’s NSFW and TMI and these two sexpot are just getting started. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: Let's talk about sex baby, Hello sexies. O MG, I
[0:09] Speaker 1: cannot believe we are here. I have been sitting on
[0:14] Speaker 1: this idea because we all know that I love to
[0:17] Speaker 1: talk about sex and some people get a little nervous
[0:20] Speaker 1: about it, and I'm still perplexed on why. And it's
[0:25] Speaker 1: usually women who get a little uncomfortable with other women
[0:28] Speaker 1: talking about sex. So when I thought about this idea,
[0:32] Speaker 1: I was like, who else is comfortable talking about sex?
[0:35] Speaker 1: Who I find so fun, so sexy, so interesting. That
[0:39] Speaker 1: could be my fucking co host who's also endearing as
[0:44] Speaker 1: it gets. So I have my co host, Sally Carson.
[0:49] Speaker 2: Hello sex.
[0:50] Speaker 3: So I'm so excited to be here.
[0:53] Speaker 2: Are you nervous at all?
[0:54] Speaker 3: I'm a little nervous. I mean I've never really done
[0:56] Speaker 3: anything like this before.
[0:57] Speaker 2: But you've been on podcasts.
[0:58] Speaker 3: I've been on podcasts.
[0:59] Speaker 2: Yes, Well, we're going to get to know each other
[1:01] Speaker 2: quite well, like we know each other, but we're about
[1:04] Speaker 2: to know each other. I know.
[1:05] Speaker 3: When when I first heard it was you as like
[1:08] Speaker 3: immediately yes, I think I like she my publicist like
[1:12] Speaker 3: called me and I was in Mexico and she said, like,
[1:14] Speaker 3: would you want to do a podcast with Lala? And
[1:16] Speaker 3: I was.
[1:16] Speaker 1: Like, are you like Lala Anthony?
[1:19] Speaker 3: I was like yeah, he was literally like me, Like
[1:24] Speaker 3: I was shocked, and I mean it was just.
[1:27] Speaker 2: It's just so meant to be. I've watched you on TV.
[1:31] Speaker 1: We've obviously connected met, but like there's just something about
[1:38] Speaker 1: you where when you're on camera, you're so authentically yourself.
[1:42] Speaker 1: You're so cute, You're hottest buck, you have no problem
[1:45] Speaker 1: talking about sex.
[1:47] Speaker 2: Does your mama watch the show Girl? Yes?
[1:51] Speaker 3: My mom is My mom is getting tagged. Thank god,
[1:54] Speaker 3: I have the best family in the whole wide world,
[1:55] Speaker 3: because like my mom gets tagged online right now saying
[1:59] Speaker 3: like she's your daughter likes to eat ass? Oh yeah?
[2:03] Speaker 3: And she I mean she's like.
[2:05] Speaker 2: She doesn't love it, but.
[2:09] Speaker 3: She's like, I mean, that's my daughter. She can't stop
[2:12] Speaker 3: her from talking.
[2:12] Speaker 2: About her mouth.
[2:13] Speaker 1: Do you like to eat ass or does it have
[2:15] Speaker 1: to be like a really comfortable situation.
[2:19] Speaker 2: Or depending on the alcohol.
[2:20] Speaker 3: Depending on the entire situation. I think, Okay, yeah, but no,
[2:25] Speaker 3: I don't. I don't like prefer like, I don't like
[2:29] Speaker 3: eating ass. I just like if it makes my man happy,
[2:32] Speaker 3: I'm all about I'm a pleaser. Oh yeah, So like wow,
[2:36] Speaker 3: my man is like, I am really into this. I'm like, okay,
[2:39] Speaker 3: I'll try it.
[2:40] Speaker 2: Wow, you're a bag of fun.
[2:43] Speaker 3: I mean I haven't done anything that crazy.
[2:45] Speaker 1: But before we deep dive into all the all the
[2:48] Speaker 1: sexy talk, because I also have like a rapid fire
[2:51] Speaker 1: game that I want to play you before you were
[2:55] Speaker 1: on Southern Charm.
[2:55] Speaker 3: You're like born and raised there right Greenville to like
[2:58] Speaker 3: three hours outside.
[3:00] Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, and I mean you how did you get
[3:04] Speaker 2: on the back? Was it bachelor? Bachelor?
[3:06] Speaker 1: Yeah?
[3:06] Speaker 2: Bachelor?
[3:07] Speaker 3: Yeah. So I was engaged and he I was twenty.
[3:12] Speaker 2: Four, oh shit, a baby.
[3:14] Speaker 3: Yeah, and he was one of my surgeons, like at
[3:19] Speaker 3: the hospital I worked at in Virginia, and he you know,
[3:23] Speaker 3: fell in love quickly, got engaged. And then a girl
[3:27] Speaker 3: DMed me twenty nine days before my wedding and she
[3:29] Speaker 3: was like, hey, girl, I've been hanging out with your Beyonce.
[3:34] Speaker 3: And I was like, oh perfect.
[3:36] Speaker 2: Did you believe her?
[3:37] Speaker 3: Not at first, but then she told me that he
[3:39] Speaker 3: was wearing jeans and flip flops and I was like, Yep,
[3:42] Speaker 3: that's that's a man.
[3:44] Speaker 2: Doesn't everybody where you live where jeans and flip flops?
[3:47] Speaker 3: Not jeans not pants and flip flops. I cannot get
[3:50] Speaker 3: down with that.
[3:51] Speaker 1: But shorts and flip flops, yeah, that's so. If they're
[3:54] Speaker 1: in shorts and flip flops, you'll eat ass.
[3:55] Speaker 2: But if it's jeans and flip flops, we'reing for me.
[3:59] Speaker 3: I know, go, I don't know. I mean, I was
[4:03] Speaker 3: engaged to the guy, but yeah, I mean canceled the wedding.
[4:06] Speaker 3: And then the Bachelor called me a week later and
[4:09] Speaker 3: they were like, we want you. We heard your story
[4:11] Speaker 3: and I was like, how they couldn't tell me.
[4:13] Speaker 2: Someone submitted you. Yeah, oh my god.
[4:16] Speaker 3: So I fly out there and then I was like,
[4:19] Speaker 3: what the hell am I doing? I was on my
[4:21] Speaker 3: bachelorette party a month before this, Oh my god, and
[4:24] Speaker 3: I was it was the weekend we were supposed to
[4:26] Speaker 3: get married, like when we started filming The Bachelor. So
[4:29] Speaker 3: I was like, I want to leave, and the producers
[4:31] Speaker 3: are like, you can't leave. You have to break up
[4:33] Speaker 3: with your boyfriend first, and I'm like, I don't even
[4:35] Speaker 3: know who the bachelor is. He's my boyfriend now, so
[4:39] Speaker 3: they make me go and here like and there's twenty
[4:41] Speaker 3: six other people that are dating him before we're meeting
[4:43] Speaker 3: him exactly, and I was like, this is weird, but
[4:46] Speaker 3: okay if it gets me out of here. And then
[4:48] Speaker 3: he offered me a rose and I was like, no,
[4:50] Speaker 3: I want to go home. And then I got back
[4:52] Speaker 3: together with my ex, the one that cheated, Yes, and
[4:54] Speaker 3: he cheated on me again. So then I went on
[4:56] Speaker 3: Bachelor in Paradise. Oh, and then I left because I
[4:59] Speaker 3: got bullied. So what does they bully you about him?
[5:03] Speaker 2: About him?
[5:04] Speaker 3: Yeah? And I didn't want his name brought up just
[5:06] Speaker 3: because of his career and stuff.
[5:08] Speaker 2: Wow, I mean like so nice.
[5:09] Speaker 3: Well you google his name and it used to be
[5:11] Speaker 3: all these medical papers and now it's like, who is
[5:14] Speaker 3: Sally's ex?
[5:16] Speaker 2: Isn't that such a wonderful thing?
[5:17] Speaker 1: It is now my fiance is also known as Lala
[5:21] Speaker 1: Ken's ex fiance. Good, it's a wonderful and like all
[5:24] Speaker 1: that hard work and that's all your known exactly.
[5:27] Speaker 3: It's great.
[5:28] Speaker 2: It is great.
[5:29] Speaker 3: Right, we got our payback?
[5:30] Speaker 2: Did you? What was the age difference?
[5:33] Speaker 3: He was forty two?
[5:35] Speaker 2: Wow?
[5:36] Speaker 3: Yes? Okay he was older? And how he was like hot?
[5:40] Speaker 2: Okay? How was the sex with him terrible? Really?
[5:43] Speaker 1: Yes?
[5:44] Speaker 2: What are we doing?
[5:45] Speaker 3: I don't know, but that was I feel like I
[5:48] Speaker 3: was young, and like I didn't really I hadn't really
[5:51] Speaker 3: experienced much that happened. Yeah, So like I was just
[5:56] Speaker 3: I didn't really know what was out there. I mean
[5:58] Speaker 3: now I'm like, oh my god, it would not have ground.
[6:01] Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because that's what age does and experiences, and
[6:03] Speaker 1: you realize, like what you're missing out on?
[6:06] Speaker 2: Do you sober sex?
[6:10] Speaker 1: For me, Like, I hadn't had sober sex ever until
[6:14] Speaker 1: I broke up with my fiance really yeah, this was
[6:19] Speaker 1: five years ago, Okay, but I got sober in the relationship.
[6:22] Speaker 1: Like I met him and I was deep in my
[6:25] Speaker 1: like we were gearing up to become like an alcoholic
[6:28] Speaker 1: and member of AA. But then when I was out
[6:32] Speaker 1: of the relationship, I was so nervous to go out
[6:35] Speaker 1: and date.
[6:35] Speaker 2: And I've spoken about this before.
[6:38] Speaker 1: And I met this guy and it was actually filmed
[6:41] Speaker 1: on vander Pump Rules. But I met this guy, and
[6:44] Speaker 1: I mean, we're in freaking Lake Havasu.
[6:46] Speaker 2: It's like no one who is my type.
[6:48] Speaker 1: Yeah, And it was like these men were just like
[6:51] Speaker 1: dropped into the bar for me.
[6:53] Speaker 2: God heard my prayer.
[6:57] Speaker 1: And I thought it was gonna be like a one
[6:59] Speaker 1: night stand. Could not sleep in the bed that night
[7:01] Speaker 1: because apparently when I'm sober and having sex, I turned
[7:04] Speaker 1: into a squorter. So that was fun to realize.
[7:08] Speaker 3: You didn't know.
[7:10] Speaker 2: No, I had no idea. I just thought some women
[7:14] Speaker 2: were squorters and some I don't.
[7:16] Speaker 3: Yeah, like I thought that too. Are you talking about
[7:18] Speaker 3: this yesterday? I have one time in my life, Yeah,
[7:21] Speaker 3: one time.
[7:22] Speaker 2: It's only been with this guy that it's happened to me.
[7:24] Speaker 3: He maybe does he like it because some guys know
[7:27] Speaker 3: how to do it.
[7:27] Speaker 2: Oh, he know how to do it.
[7:29] Speaker 3: Yeah, because like there was just one guy in Nashville
[7:31] Speaker 3: that I have history with and he like I stole
[7:34] Speaker 3: my stomach and like happened, and I was so freaked out.
[7:37] Speaker 3: I was like, I don't even know what just happened.
[7:38] Speaker 2: No, it's fucking amazing.
[7:40] Speaker 1: But I was at a dinner with a group of
[7:42] Speaker 1: girlfriends the other night and we were talking about scorting,
[7:45] Speaker 1: and I was convinced, along with my other friend Natalie,
[7:48] Speaker 1: that it is not pea And then the other guy
[7:52] Speaker 1: we were with was like, definitely, absolutely, and Natalie and
[7:57] Speaker 1: I were like, no, it doesn't come out of the
[7:59] Speaker 1: pea hole, comes out of where the penis goes the vagina. No,
[8:03] Speaker 1: so we googled it and it was like I was
[8:06] Speaker 1: shocked and disgusted and repulsed by myself. Okay, So, scientific
[8:11] Speaker 1: and medical research shows that scorting is primarily the involuntary
[8:15] Speaker 1: expulsion of diluted urine from the bladder, often mixed with
[8:22] Speaker 1: secretions from the scheme's glands.
[8:27] Speaker 2: The female prostates, Okay, while it contains chemical.
[8:32] Speaker 3: Markers of p where does it come out?
[8:36] Speaker 1: I thought it came out of the vagina hole that
[8:39] Speaker 1: the penis enters, but it comes out of the peele.
[8:42] Speaker 2: I'm disgusted. And now you're saying that he pushed on
[8:45] Speaker 2: your stomach. It's like, oh, yeah, that's pee.
[8:49] Speaker 3: I think I was googling it after it happened to me,
[8:51] Speaker 3: and it's like it's totally normal, and like you're fine,
[8:55] Speaker 3: don't be embarrassed about it. It's very natural that I
[8:58] Speaker 3: was like mortified.
[8:59] Speaker 2: What did he do while he was fingering?
[9:01] Speaker 3: No, we were having sex.
[9:02] Speaker 1: You're like, oh, okay, I was fully like spraying his
[9:07] Speaker 1: face when it happened.
[9:09] Speaker 2: Like he seemed fine with it. He seemed fine with
[9:13] Speaker 2: I'm sure he was. I would not be fine with it,
[9:17] Speaker 2: especially now knowing what it is.
[9:19] Speaker 3: Can you imagine does a man standing up in the
[9:21] Speaker 3: bed and just peeing all over you? So I feel
[9:23] Speaker 3: like that's.
[9:23] Speaker 2: That's called the golden shower. Yeah, I'm not into that.
[9:26] Speaker 2: I'm not into that at all. No, I was in
[9:30] Speaker 2: high school.
[9:30] Speaker 1: I was totally fine with it, really yeah, and I
[9:33] Speaker 1: would like put ice up there and have sex. It
[9:36] Speaker 1: was like weird, like the things that I was like
[9:39] Speaker 1: down for back in the day, like high school, a
[9:42] Speaker 1: little inappropriate and weird. Yeah, why do you think that
[9:45] Speaker 1: it's such a taboo thing, like when a woman talks
[9:47] Speaker 1: about sex still to this day, Like men are fine
[9:50] Speaker 1: with us talking about sex, but I find that other
[9:53] Speaker 1: women they get extremely judgmental anytime I've spoken about sex,
[9:58] Speaker 1: even you with the comment section we like your daughter
[9:59] Speaker 1: like to eat ass, It's like and okay, yeah, Like
[10:03] Speaker 1: I don't understand why.
[10:04] Speaker 3: Those are the people that are probably not getting any
[10:07] Speaker 3: They're unhappy.
[10:08] Speaker 2: Right, you know, like like just missionary style and.
[10:11] Speaker 3: It's yeah, and it's boring and not fun, or they're
[10:14] Speaker 3: just like really conservative like with that kind of stuff.
[10:17] Speaker 3: I just never have been like I've always lived my
[10:19] Speaker 3: life out loud, and I've never been embarrassed about like
[10:22] Speaker 3: things that I'm into.
[10:24] Speaker 1: I think it's great. I do too, And when people
[10:27] Speaker 1: say things to me like your daughter is going to
[10:30] Speaker 1: like hear you talk about these things. One damn like
[10:32] Speaker 1: she probably will. I didn't appropriate age, but yeah, like
[10:35] Speaker 1: I would rather her come to me and talk to
[10:37] Speaker 1: me about all the experiences I've had so she can
[10:41] Speaker 1: go out into the world and like live her best life.
[10:43] Speaker 3: Absolutely, is that horrible? No, Because I feel like I
[10:46] Speaker 3: was having not as great of sex I am now
[10:49] Speaker 3: because I wasn't talking about it right like back when
[10:52] Speaker 3: I was like younger, and now like I feel comfortable
[10:56] Speaker 3: communicating like what I want, what I like, what I
[10:59] Speaker 3: don't like, and then I've had way better sex life
[11:01] Speaker 3: from it that part.
[11:03] Speaker 1: I think Also when you're in like a partnership, I
[11:06] Speaker 1: think that there's also that element of like I can't
[11:09] Speaker 1: tell them that, like I don't like what they're doing
[11:11] Speaker 1: because I don't want to hurt their feelings.
[11:14] Speaker 2: You have to be compatible when.
[11:16] Speaker 1: It comes to the intimacy, yes, because yes, I feel
[11:20] Speaker 1: like when you get into a partnership, my biggest thing
[11:22] Speaker 1: is you have to have the foundation of like friendship,
[11:25] Speaker 1: right because that's gonna be what sustains you throughout. But
[11:29] Speaker 1: I mean, like, if you don't amber who I do
[11:33] Speaker 1: an unlikely affair with.
[11:36] Speaker 2: She said it perfectly.
[11:37] Speaker 1: When a man fingers me and it's soft, it's like
[11:40] Speaker 1: I need you to finger me like you're angry with me.
[11:43] Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's crazy. I don't like a.
[11:48] Speaker 1: Jack camera, so you would have to tell your guy
[11:51] Speaker 1: don't finger me like you're angry.
[11:53] Speaker 3: Like some people do that and I'm like, the fuck
[11:55] Speaker 3: are you trying to find in there?
[12:00] Speaker 2: It's nothing in there, Like I don't like it's crazy
[12:03] Speaker 2: trying to find it.
[12:04] Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I don't like that, like the aggressive like
[12:07] Speaker 3: because like that doesn't please me.
[12:09] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[12:10] Speaker 3: So I guess everyone's different and she liked different.
[12:12] Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like finger me like I've upset you. Wow,
[12:16] Speaker 2: I know.
[12:17] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[12:17] Speaker 3: See I don't like that.
[12:18] Speaker 2: Do you like being like spanked and all that shu?
[12:21] Speaker 1: Yeah?
[12:21] Speaker 2: Yeah, every time.
[12:24] Speaker 1: You're gonna stay choked, weren't you You're gonna stay choked?
[12:29] Speaker 2: Love it.
[12:29] Speaker 3: But it depends. Like the guy I was just telling
[12:33] Speaker 3: you about really good sex, yeah, didn't do any of that.
[12:38] Speaker 2: It was more soft.
[12:39] Speaker 3: It was more soft, So I like, I think it
[12:41] Speaker 3: just depends on the situation because I can go either
[12:44] Speaker 3: way like you can.
[12:45] Speaker 1: Do you find the do you have sober sex? Yes
[12:49] Speaker 1: in the mornings, Okay, do you find that when you're
[12:52] Speaker 1: sober you want more like lovey dovey?
[12:58] Speaker 3: Probably?
[12:59] Speaker 1: Yeah? More?
[13:00] Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think I just like go after like,
[13:03] Speaker 3: you know, the vibe, Like some guys you know, are
[13:07] Speaker 3: like softer mint, you know. And then there's other guys
[13:09] Speaker 3: that are just like I look at them and I'm like,
[13:11] Speaker 3: I want to be choked.
[13:14] Speaker 2: You want to turn into fucking Jane and Tarzan. Yeah,
[13:17] Speaker 2: I get that.
[13:18] Speaker 3: And they have to have that look. I mean, hmmm,
[13:21] Speaker 3: I don't know.
[13:22] Speaker 2: I do know exactly what you're fucking right there.
[13:25] Speaker 3: Some guys that I'm like, wow, you know, you're just
[13:29] Speaker 3: such a like soft emotional like sweet man. And then
[13:34] Speaker 3: another guy I look at and I'm like, take me down,
[13:36] Speaker 3: take me down, take me now. Can I tell you
[13:40] Speaker 3: the other thing though, when it comes to take me down?
[13:43] Speaker 1: For sure, But when I like, if I'm with a
[13:48] Speaker 1: dude and we're doing our thing, like before we go
[13:51] Speaker 1: do something right, like I've got my clippings ready to
[13:54] Speaker 1: go and I have my mouth down there. If you
[13:58] Speaker 1: fucking touch my head, I'm giving you.
[14:01] Speaker 2: Teeth yeah, Oh, so you hate it if I don't
[14:03] Speaker 2: have my weave in.
[14:05] Speaker 3: Yeah, you're good.
[14:06] Speaker 2: Bob me up and down like bobbing for an apple.
[14:09] Speaker 2: When my extensions are in.
[14:11] Speaker 3: Don't touch me.
[14:11] Speaker 2: Don't touch my fucking head.
[14:13] Speaker 3: Did you tell them that?
[14:14] Speaker 2: Yes? Okay. I literally will come up and be like,
[14:18] Speaker 2: you touch my head again with my weave in, you're
[14:21] Speaker 2: getting teeth. Yeah, don't do that.
[14:23] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[14:24] Speaker 2: Then when the weave comes.
[14:25] Speaker 3: Out, you're like, yeah, go time, Yeah, throw me around.
[14:30] Speaker 3: I can't get mine out though, I have to deal
[14:32] Speaker 3: with it.
[14:33] Speaker 2: Oh, yours are like attached to the head.
[14:35] Speaker 3: Yeah. So then sometimes you know when they start because
[14:40] Speaker 3: sometimes I like a good hair pool ouch, And when
[14:45] Speaker 3: they do that, my extensions sometimes come out and I'm like,
[14:48] Speaker 3: you can't do that. It's rbing my hair out.
[14:49] Speaker 2: See, so you too have to sometimes say you don't
[14:53] Speaker 2: do that.
[14:53] Speaker 3: I never, But then I'm like, so good, lose the weave.
[14:58] Speaker 2: See we can't get all out it. Tomorrow she comes
[15:01] Speaker 2: out with like the most like scraggly extensions you've ever
[15:05] Speaker 2: seen in your life. They're like you look a little different,
[15:07] Speaker 2: a little different this morning.
[15:09] Speaker 3: Yeah, go to sleep at end and wake up before.
[15:12] Speaker 2: You're I can tell you're fun. How about chicks? You
[15:15] Speaker 2: ever hooked up with the chick?
[15:17] Speaker 3: So we actually talked about it like this season. But
[15:21] Speaker 3: I went to Canada, okay, and I hooked up with
[15:24] Speaker 3: my first girl.
[15:25] Speaker 2: Just a ransom ago two months ago.
[15:27] Speaker 3: Wow, first time?
[15:29] Speaker 1: I yeah.
[15:30] Speaker 3: I mean we were just like making out in the
[15:31] Speaker 3: hot tub.
[15:31] Speaker 2: She was hot, Okay.
[15:33] Speaker 3: I was like, okay, this is great, and then I
[15:38] Speaker 3: could not get myself to go down.
[15:41] Speaker 2: Did she go down? Wow?
[15:44] Speaker 3: So but like you know, we were making out with
[15:47] Speaker 3: the guy too, Like a guy was like.
[15:48] Speaker 2: So it was like a threesome type of situation kind.
[15:51] Speaker 1: Of not like f one, right, but he just watched.
[15:57] Speaker 1: Yeah kind of that's all they're good for sometimes.
[16:00] Speaker 3: But it was great.
[16:01] Speaker 2: I mean I was could you do it sober?
[16:04] Speaker 3: Yeah? I think so. But I think that that's when
[16:07] Speaker 3: I knew, like, okay, I'm very straight.
[16:09] Speaker 1: Okay, but some people do try to put women in
[16:12] Speaker 1: boxes like that, well not just women, I think men
[16:14] Speaker 1: and women. If you are able to hook up with
[16:17] Speaker 1: the same sex, they automatically certain people want to label
[16:21] Speaker 1: you as by And I've hooked up with many women,
[16:25] Speaker 1: but I don't believe myself to be bisexual because I
[16:29] Speaker 1: couldn't be in a relationship with a woman exactly.
[16:32] Speaker 3: Yeah, so I see that.
[16:35] Speaker 1: Yeah, some people feel more comfortable like putting a label
[16:37] Speaker 1: on it, like you're bisexual, you can hook up with chicks.
[16:40] Speaker 2: For me, I'm like, I'm a straight person. I have
[16:43] Speaker 2: hooked up with chicks.
[16:44] Speaker 1: I would hook up with chicks, but because it wouldn't
[16:46] Speaker 1: go past the hookup.
[16:47] Speaker 2: Like, I don't think I'm bisexual? Is that what it's called? Vicurious?
[16:52] Speaker 3: But you're some curious about like no woman like you
[16:55] Speaker 3: know that?
[16:55] Speaker 1: You no? Like y curious seems like something where you
[16:58] Speaker 1: go out and you hook up with chick and it's.
[17:00] Speaker 3: Like you're trying to to figure out your sexuality.
[17:02] Speaker 2: Yeah I'm not trying to figure it out. You already know.
[17:05] Speaker 3: Yes, I don't know what it's called because I'm the
[17:06] Speaker 3: same like I would, I would do it again, but
[17:08] Speaker 3: I would never be in a relationship one.
[17:11] Speaker 1: So being the definition being bi curious refers to a
[17:15] Speaker 1: person who is open to exploring or experiment experimenting with
[17:19] Speaker 1: sexual romantic attractions to genders other than ones they are
[17:23] Speaker 1: typically drawn to. Okay, so maybe I am, yeah, exploring
[17:26] Speaker 1: and experimenting, though I've explored, I've experimented. That's like the
[17:30] Speaker 1: first one. But if it happens multiple times, like I
[17:35] Speaker 1: know that I want to end up with a man,
[17:38] Speaker 1: I'm not.
[17:39] Speaker 2: I'm not curious. I'm not.
[17:41] Speaker 1: I'm thirty six years old. Yeah, Like the experimental phase for.
[17:45] Speaker 2: Me is over.
[17:46] Speaker 1: Is over, Like you've done it well, unless it comes
[17:48] Speaker 1: to anal.
[17:49] Speaker 2: I've never done anal before.
[17:52] Speaker 1: Girl.
[17:53] Speaker 2: Wait, let's talk about it. I want to do the
[17:54] Speaker 2: rapid fire. Your favorite position to.
[17:57] Speaker 3: Orgasm probably me on top because I'm in control.
[18:01] Speaker 2: M I would say, me on top or from behind?
[18:04] Speaker 3: I see, I can't come from behind. Mind.
[18:08] Speaker 1: There's just something about the position, Like I think, what
[18:11] Speaker 1: happens when I'm on top, it's because you're getting all
[18:14] Speaker 1: the right places right, Like I need to share the
[18:16] Speaker 1: pressures there from behind. For me, when I get off
[18:19] Speaker 1: that way.
[18:20] Speaker 2: It's like the mental of like my ass in the air,
[18:24] Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
[18:25] Speaker 1: Yeah?
[18:27] Speaker 2: Ever encountered a micro penis?
[18:31] Speaker 3: Actually no, not like a clinical like not like not
[18:36] Speaker 3: a diagnose, not like a diagnose, Like I see micro
[18:39] Speaker 3: penises because I work in the hospital. Oh no, yeah,
[18:42] Speaker 3: Like I see all the things, but I mean I
[18:47] Speaker 3: see everything.
[18:48] Speaker 2: You see everything.
[18:49] Speaker 3: You see everything, but I've never encountered never encountered one. No,
[18:55] Speaker 3: but there is someone that is in my friend group
[18:59] Speaker 3: that is rumored death one. I'm not gonna blast them, but.
[19:02] Speaker 2: They're telling me off of the podcast. I have to
[19:04] Speaker 2: I must know.
[19:05] Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll tell you.
[19:06] Speaker 2: Okay, Ever queafed then wanted to vanish?
[19:09] Speaker 1: No?
[19:11] Speaker 2: Have you queathed during sex before?
[19:13] Speaker 1: Yes?
[19:13] Speaker 2: Yeah? Have you wanted to vanish after air in there?
[19:17] Speaker 3: I'm like no, Like that's like y'all's fault.
[19:19] Speaker 1: There are certain things that if a man freaks out
[19:23] Speaker 1: about it, I'm like, you're a.
[19:26] Speaker 2: Little fucking bitch boy.
[19:27] Speaker 3: That gives me the ick.
[19:28] Speaker 2: It gives me such an ick.
[19:30] Speaker 3: Like and if a man is like intimidated by my vibrator,
[19:36] Speaker 3: like literally grow up.
[19:37] Speaker 1: Oh my god, I have that question. How do you
[19:39] Speaker 1: feel about the vibrators? I love vibrator bringing it into
[19:42] Speaker 1: the bedroom with a man.
[19:44] Speaker 3: I don't necessarily need to, yeah, like because I feel
[19:49] Speaker 3: like I have good sex, Like I know what I want,
[19:51] Speaker 3: like whatever. But sometimes it's just fun.
[19:54] Speaker 2: I think it's fun to have toys. Yeah, because when
[19:56] Speaker 2: you're sleeping with the same person over and over again,
[20:00] Speaker 2: like you have to do something to spice it up.
[20:02] Speaker 3: Sometimes I think that's when it comes into play. Yeah,
[20:04] Speaker 3: but like a man like my ex was really intimate,
[20:08] Speaker 3: Like if I wouldn't use my vibrator when he's like
[20:10] Speaker 3: out of town, he like did not like it? What? Yeah,
[20:14] Speaker 3: like he did not like it. That is so crazy
[20:18] Speaker 3: to me, jealous, like thinking that the vibe the vibrator
[20:22] Speaker 3: was giving me better organizasms than him, which it was.
[20:26] Speaker 2: I was doing it to myself, So he was right.
[20:29] Speaker 2: He pinpointed it perfectly, he did.
[20:31] Speaker 1: But what if a guy that you're with, you're out
[20:34] Speaker 1: of town and he jacks off?
[20:36] Speaker 2: I don't do you care? I know, I don't care either.
[20:38] Speaker 3: I don't.
[20:38] Speaker 2: Yeah, like, do what you gotta do, buddy.
[20:40] Speaker 3: So that's a weird subject for me because one of
[20:42] Speaker 3: my exes was order line like porn.
[20:46] Speaker 2: I'm sessed.
[20:46] Speaker 1: Yes, when you are like having a moment with yourself,
[20:50] Speaker 1: self care, self love, do you need to watch porn?
[20:54] Speaker 3: I don't need to, but I do, and weirdly tell
[20:58] Speaker 3: me I love lesbian porn.
[21:03] Speaker 1: We're so on the same wavelength and that's actually very
[21:05] Speaker 1: very common.
[21:06] Speaker 3: Really, Yes, I just think a man is just like gross.
[21:10] Speaker 2: I do too.
[21:10] Speaker 1: I usually so your your search bar is like lesbian, yes,
[21:14] Speaker 1: very much, Like, yeah, that's kind of that's me too.
[21:16] Speaker 3: I love it.
[21:17] Speaker 1: There is this girl and I think her name is
[21:20] Speaker 1: Sammy s on porn Hub, and she's like got the
[21:23] Speaker 1: most banging body, and I always put her into my
[21:27] Speaker 1: search bar really yeah, And I think she makes it
[21:30] Speaker 1: with her boyfriend because it's always the same tattooed arm,
[21:34] Speaker 1: and I'm like, whatever is happening with this couple is
[21:36] Speaker 1: just working?
[21:38] Speaker 2: No, it's s a m y.
[21:41] Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, I mean mine's always like some
[21:44] Speaker 3: girl given a massage.
[21:46] Speaker 2: Oh my god, we watched the same porn. We watched
[21:51] Speaker 2: the exact same porn. Yeah, that's her. Wait wait, wait, wait,
[21:55] Speaker 2: she's the one. I'm obsessed with her. You have to.
[21:58] Speaker 1: And she's got like this giant she's got a little
[22:01] Speaker 1: alien tattoo in between her boobs, yes, and then from
[22:05] Speaker 1: behind she's got this giant lion tattoo.
[22:08] Speaker 2: Okay, yes, she's smoking, she's so hot. But you and
[22:13] Speaker 2: I are definitely looking up the same shit. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
[22:18] Speaker 2: that's her.
[22:20] Speaker 1: Go oh my god, you can google anything dirtiest thing
[22:24] Speaker 1: you've ever said during sex. That's a hard one for
[22:27] Speaker 1: me because I don't I I like dirtiest.
[22:31] Speaker 3: Ye, I don't know what a dirtiest one would be.
[22:33] Speaker 2: I mean, like.
[22:36] Speaker 3: I got I mean, I wouldn't call this dirty though,
[22:40] Speaker 3: saying like, you know, telling them on their little slut.
[22:44] Speaker 2: Yeah that's not Yeah, that's dirty, right, I don't think
[22:46] Speaker 2: that's that's pretty much as dark and deep as I'm
[22:49] Speaker 2: going to. But dirty talk for me, like the man can.
[22:53] Speaker 1: Quickly give me the ache depending on what he says,
[22:56] Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, I get it quick. Yeah, Like
[23:00] Speaker 1: I can talk about me being your little dirty sledge
[23:02] Speaker 1: the moment he says, are you my dirty little SLEDG,
[23:05] Speaker 1: I'm like, get the fuck.
[23:06] Speaker 3: I've had that, And I don't like that.
[23:08] Speaker 1: I don't either let me steer the ship. Yeah yeah, no,
[23:11] Speaker 1: please don't say that to me.
[23:12] Speaker 3: No.
[23:13] Speaker 2: And also I hate it when like the dude this
[23:19] Speaker 2: position for a man during like a four play moment,
[23:23] Speaker 2: this position when he's laying like this and does this
[23:25] Speaker 2: and touches himself.
[23:26] Speaker 3: Oh my god, get away.
[23:29] Speaker 2: Get away from me, like you're never touching me with it.
[23:31] Speaker 2: So enjoy that. So disgusting sex tapes in or out?
[23:39] Speaker 1: And I'm into what about naked pictures I recently just
[23:42] Speaker 1: started sending.
[23:43] Speaker 2: I like naked.
[23:44] Speaker 3: I sometimes even just take them for myself, Like if
[23:47] Speaker 3: I I do the same thing, if I think I
[23:49] Speaker 3: look good in the mirror, I'm like, might need this
[23:51] Speaker 3: one day?
[23:52] Speaker 2: Have you seen that?
[23:53] Speaker 1: I think?
[23:53] Speaker 2: Is it a meme? Who am I? But this girl no,
[23:57] Speaker 2: it's like an Instagram rail and this girl's being blackmail
[24:00] Speaker 2: with naked photos.
[24:01] Speaker 1: And he sends her the photos and she's like, oh,
[24:03] Speaker 1: this is me pre kids. She's like, please don't send it,
[24:05] Speaker 1: and she like takes a sip of her wine. She's like,
[24:07] Speaker 1: please fucking release them.
[24:09] Speaker 2: Literally, I have.
[24:10] Speaker 3: It's so funny because I have. I'm gonna show you this.
[24:13] Speaker 2: Like they could get out. I'm like, you're welcome. Then
[24:17] Speaker 2: I wish my motherfucker would.
[24:18] Speaker 3: Literally, That's how I mean. This TikTok that I'm about
[24:21] Speaker 3: to show you is exactly how I feel about it.
[24:24] Speaker 3: I'm like, don't threaten me with that.
[24:26] Speaker 2: Don't threaten me with never.
[24:27] Speaker 3: I'm not going to send you a nude. They don't
[24:28] Speaker 3: think I look hot in I'm on.
[24:31] Speaker 2: The same wavelength.
[24:32] Speaker 3: Release it, release it, release it.
[24:35] Speaker 2: And don't blur my face. You don't need to let
[24:37] Speaker 2: them know.
[24:38] Speaker 3: Here it is is that when you're starting to leak
[24:41] Speaker 3: your nudes and they're like you can tell everybody.
[24:44] Speaker 2: That's so good, that's so good. Well, your body's banging.
[24:48] Speaker 2: Your body is slamming.
[24:59] Speaker 3: Biggest turn on, I would say, like initially confidence, just
[25:04] Speaker 3: like coming in and just taking care of you, you know,
[25:09] Speaker 3: just like knowing exactly what you're doing. Yeah, for the man.
[25:12] Speaker 2: And then if you call me baby, I'm fucking done.
[25:15] Speaker 3: Really, oh my god.
[25:16] Speaker 2: Yeah, but I have to be into it. There have
[25:18] Speaker 2: been men who call me pet names and I'm like, please,
[25:20] Speaker 2: don't fucking do that. Wow.
[25:22] Speaker 3: Is there any pet names you like?
[25:25] Speaker 2: It depends on the guy.
[25:27] Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with that. Yeah, there's like there's a
[25:31] Speaker 3: man that calls me mommy.
[25:34] Speaker 2: With an eye. Yeah, you love it.
[25:37] Speaker 3: I love it.
[25:38] Speaker 2: I'll get how many people are on your roster right.
[25:40] Speaker 3: Now, like sexy roster?
[25:48] Speaker 1: Yeah, like sleeping with like I'm not speaking with anyone
[25:50] Speaker 1: right now really yeah, which is new for me. Okay,
[25:55] Speaker 1: But I mean, like I have guys that I'm talking
[25:57] Speaker 1: to that you haven't slept with.
[26:00] Speaker 3: Lives in Denver, one lives in La. Yeah, well no,
[26:02] Speaker 3: I've slept with one in La.
[26:06] Speaker 2: I love this.
[26:07] Speaker 3: But Charleston is just gross.
[26:10] Speaker 1: And I feel like everyone knows everybody, like if you've
[26:13] Speaker 1: slept with them, they've slept with like twelve other people
[26:15] Speaker 1: that you know.
[26:16] Speaker 3: So I'm moving very like cautiously in Charleston. But I'll recycle.
[26:20] Speaker 1: Oh, I recycle too. Comfortability is everything exactly?
[26:24] Speaker 3: So if like, if I'm like really needing something, like
[26:27] Speaker 3: I have some guys I can text.
[26:29] Speaker 2: And then the long distance though, do you feel like
[26:32] Speaker 2: it's gonna go anywhere with the guys you're just talking to?
[26:35] Speaker 1: No?
[26:36] Speaker 3: I mean I wish, but like I'm not moving away
[26:39] Speaker 3: from Charleston, like I'm not, and.
[26:42] Speaker 2: I don't think they're gonna move to you will they know?
[26:44] Speaker 2: Like what is there to do in Charleston?
[26:47] Speaker 3: I mean I love Charleston. I mean there's I'm on
[26:49] Speaker 3: a boat usually.
[26:50] Speaker 1: Yeah, but your life is there, Like if the guy
[26:52] Speaker 1: in La like what could he possibly do in Charleston?
[26:56] Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Is he in the entertainment world? Yeah?
[26:58] Speaker 3: Yeah?
[26:59] Speaker 2: See you could be on Southern charm or not into it?
[27:04] Speaker 2: All right?
[27:05] Speaker 1: You said spanking is a big one. You love being spanked? Yes,
[27:08] Speaker 1: depends on the mood for me? Is anal on the
[27:11] Speaker 1: table for a one night stand. Okay, you like ANAL
[27:15] Speaker 1: but one night stand?
[27:16] Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not like I don't like love it. One
[27:20] Speaker 3: night stand. Okay, this is crazy, but I have had
[27:24] Speaker 3: ANAL on a one night on my only one night stand.
[27:27] Speaker 2: What You've only had one one night stand ever? And
[27:30] Speaker 2: you let him?
[27:32] Speaker 3: I don't know what. Wow, I don't know why. I
[27:34] Speaker 3: don't know why. Okay, but it just kind of happened
[27:38] Speaker 3: and it was great.
[27:40] Speaker 1: Like I think that's not the only time you've ever
[27:41] Speaker 1: done ANAL though, No, no, god no, I've never done
[27:46] Speaker 1: it ever.
[27:46] Speaker 3: You need to try it, really, yes, because it's like
[27:50] Speaker 3: a different orgasm. Really, it feels just more intense.
[27:56] Speaker 2: Okay, how do I prepare for that? Though?
[28:01] Speaker 3: My eggs that I did it for five years, loved it,
[28:04] Speaker 3: so like that's how I got comfortable.
[28:06] Speaker 2: Doing it, doesn't it? Don't you have to like kind
[28:08] Speaker 2: of prepare for that though.
[28:10] Speaker 3: I mean I've actually one of my friends gave me
[28:13] Speaker 3: an in am at once because I was like, I
[28:15] Speaker 3: know he's gonna want to.
[28:16] Speaker 2: Okay, so you recommend myself out?
[28:18] Speaker 3: Yeah? And then I mean not every time, but definitely
[28:25] Speaker 3: fingers first, Yeah, because I'm a tight little lady right there,
[28:30] Speaker 3: like like anything you know.
[28:33] Speaker 2: Yeah, you would have first time.
[28:35] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[28:36] Speaker 2: I also I feel like I would have to be
[28:40] Speaker 2: very very comfortable with the person.
[28:42] Speaker 3: Absolutely. Yeah. I don't do it with anyone now, Like
[28:44] Speaker 3: I would never do it with like a one night
[28:46] Speaker 3: stand or anyone that I'm not comfortable with.
[28:48] Speaker 2: You had to have been blitzed.
[28:50] Speaker 1: I was on the one night stand absolutely, because it
[28:53] Speaker 1: wasn't even like phasing me, like I was like, whatever,
[28:56] Speaker 1: let's go, let's do it.
[28:58] Speaker 2: What were you blitzed on? Tequila? No vodka? That'll do
[29:02] Speaker 2: it to you. Yeah, that'll do it too.
[29:04] Speaker 1: You. Now I think I could have maybe I used
[29:07] Speaker 1: to have one night stands. I don't know that I
[29:09] Speaker 1: could do it now I couldn't.
[29:11] Speaker 3: I mean like I couldn't. I can't believe I did then,
[29:13] Speaker 3: Like I I have to be like I have to
[29:16] Speaker 3: like know you or at least know about you. You
[29:20] Speaker 3: can't just like come over yeah and go to a
[29:24] Speaker 3: bar and run into a guy and like just go home.
[29:28] Speaker 2: Do you have a condom drawer?
[29:30] Speaker 1: No?
[29:32] Speaker 2: I feel like I used to have one.
[29:34] Speaker 1: Now I don't need one because everything has to be
[29:37] Speaker 1: so thought out. It's like, well, I have my kids,
[29:40] Speaker 1: and it's but you know, so like to have a
[29:41] Speaker 1: condom drawer. It's like I don't really need because it's
[29:44] Speaker 1: never on a whim anymore.
[29:46] Speaker 3: Can you hate a condom? I'm not gonna lie.
[29:48] Speaker 1: We all do, babe, but we have to be safe.
[29:50] Speaker 1: I know there's a lot of stuff out there. Every
[29:53] Speaker 1: time I use a condom, I hate. It does something
[29:57] Speaker 1: to me. You have to wear condoms, I know, or
[30:00] Speaker 1: he does.
[30:02] Speaker 2: When people are like, no, it's.
[30:03] Speaker 1: Kew about method, I'm like, no, no, no, I'm not
[30:05] Speaker 1: worried about the baby aspect.
[30:08] Speaker 2: I'm worried about the other shit.
[30:09] Speaker 3: No, I am too, especially in Darlsan.
[30:12] Speaker 2: Really.
[30:13] Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's like maybe you should have the condom drawing.
[30:17] Speaker 3: I should probably have a condom draw And you know what,
[30:18] Speaker 3: I'm not taking home enough, Like it's not justified for
[30:21] Speaker 3: me to do that right now because like I'm really
[30:23] Speaker 3: not sleeping with a lot of people.
[30:27] Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just wild.
[30:29] Speaker 1: Like I feel like men should just be if they're
[30:31] Speaker 1: like sexually active, they should just be carrying condoms around.
[30:35] Speaker 3: I agree. I agree with that.
[30:37] Speaker 1: And you have to be very careful about who your
[30:39] Speaker 1: baby daddy is. That is like a whole different yeah,
[30:44] Speaker 1: I can't even think about that, like what you did,
[30:46] Speaker 1: and it looks like you were scared.
[30:48] Speaker 2: She's like, she's like, I'm good.
[30:52] Speaker 3: I'm thinking all the guys that I like are in
[30:54] Speaker 3: my past. I'm like, oh my god, if that would
[30:56] Speaker 3: have happened, I would have that would have been horrible.
[31:08] Speaker 2: What about music on or off? In what song?
[31:11] Speaker 3: Either? No specific song.
[31:14] Speaker 1: I lost my virginity to Lollipop by Lil Wayne, You're
[31:16] Speaker 1: kidding and a red condom and he like pulled it
[31:20] Speaker 1: off after and he was like, that's all you and
[31:21] Speaker 1: I thought I was just like bleeding to death and
[31:23] Speaker 1: started crying. Yeah, it was intense. Were you seventeen? How
[31:29] Speaker 1: old were you sixteen?
[31:31] Speaker 2: Yeah? Fine with your boyfriend? Or was it just boyfriend?
[31:35] Speaker 3: Yeah?
[31:36] Speaker 2: Same?
[31:37] Speaker 1: How long did it last? That not the same, but yeah, okay,
[31:42] Speaker 1: so similar to mine. I met him like seventeen and
[31:45] Speaker 1: we broke up when I was twenty.
[31:46] Speaker 3: Yeah, that was like got into like a five year relationship.
[31:51] Speaker 3: That's the one that got away.
[31:53] Speaker 2: Oh is he married?
[31:54] Speaker 1: No?
[31:54] Speaker 3: Actually, so sad he has a girlfriend. All my friends
[31:58] Speaker 3: are like, you need to go and text him, and
[31:59] Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm not touching that. Like this guy's happy,
[32:03] Speaker 3: it's finally happy. I would wreck his world right now
[32:05] Speaker 3: with the state of mind that I'm in.
[32:07] Speaker 2: You feel like you have a lot of toxic traits
[32:09] Speaker 2: right now.
[32:09] Speaker 3: Yeah, I do. I need to like heal this before
[32:12] Speaker 3: I can like really commit to someone.
[32:15] Speaker 1: I think, you know, I was actually talking to a
[32:17] Speaker 1: friend about this today because I have many toxic traits
[32:21] Speaker 1: and I have a lot of trauma. And I was
[32:24] Speaker 1: talking to a therapist on my podcast with Amber and
[32:28] Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like I've done all of
[32:30] Speaker 1: this work over the past, you know, four and a
[32:33] Speaker 1: half five years, and what I'm worried about, or I'm
[32:37] Speaker 1: asking you should I be worried about If I've met
[32:40] Speaker 1: someone and I notice things start coming up for me,
[32:43] Speaker 1: does that mean I haven't done enough work? And she said,
[32:47] Speaker 1: you can only do so much work on yourself before
[32:50] Speaker 1: someone else needs to come into the picture and start.
[32:52] Speaker 2: Healing those wounds that you have.
[32:54] Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's always been my biggest fear that I
[32:58] Speaker 1: will meet someone who's just completely wonderful and I will
[33:01] Speaker 1: fuck it up with my toxic traits and my trauma.
[33:05] Speaker 1: So I totally get your comment.
[33:06] Speaker 2: That's how I am.
[33:07] Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like it could be the most perfect guy.
[33:10] Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'll try. I'll find a way to like something.
[33:12] Speaker 3: To Savatah, what is that? I don't know. I mean,
[33:15] Speaker 3: this man called me the day before I got engaged
[33:18] Speaker 3: because my best friend told him that.
[33:21] Speaker 2: The one that got away.
[33:22] Speaker 3: Yes, you're talking. Yeah, my best friend told him like, hey,
[33:26] Speaker 3: he's planning on proposing just so you know, want he
[33:29] Speaker 3: want you to be shocked online or whatever. He facetied
[33:32] Speaker 3: me and I answered, and he was like, if it's
[33:34] Speaker 3: a ring you're looking for, I'll buy you one tomorrow. Like,
[33:37] Speaker 3: do not marry this man? And I was like, I'm
[33:40] Speaker 3: in du deep. It's the last time I ever talked
[33:42] Speaker 3: about Oh that is heartbreaking. That's like a movie. So sad.
[33:47] Speaker 2: And now he is happy and I.
[33:50] Speaker 3: See his brothers every once in a while, but yeah,
[33:51] Speaker 3: he's happy. He seems happy at least. Yeah, I know,
[33:54] Speaker 3: you can't fuck it up. That's so sad. I'm so sorry. Okay,
[33:59] Speaker 3: I think about them all the time.
[34:01] Speaker 2: Oh that is the worst.
[34:02] Speaker 3: I know.
[34:03] Speaker 2: I know.
[34:04] Speaker 3: But we're not I mean, we probably wouldn't work anyways,
[34:07] Speaker 3: if like we got back together.
[34:08] Speaker 1: I know, because you have a you have like this
[34:12] Speaker 1: vision in your mind of what it would be like,
[34:14] Speaker 1: but then you actually get into it and you're like,
[34:16] Speaker 1: the reality sinks in and it's completely different than what
[34:19] Speaker 1: you think.
[34:19] Speaker 3: It's going to be. Also, he's just like he would
[34:21] Speaker 3: hate all the drama that surrounds me in my life.
[34:24] Speaker 1: It's going to take a very special person to come
[34:26] Speaker 1: into your world and be able to separate reality from reality. Absolutely,
[34:30] Speaker 1: I know, trust me, Like we're kind of it's hard.
[34:34] Speaker 3: Hard, is like crazy just because I'm on reality TV. Yeah,
[34:40] Speaker 3: so I feel like it honestly, Like people are like,
[34:42] Speaker 3: this is going to widen your pool of people, and
[34:45] Speaker 3: I'm like, no, this has made it harder for me
[34:47] Speaker 3: to date.
[34:47] Speaker 1: It does because most people don't want their business out
[34:50] Speaker 1: there like that.
[34:51] Speaker 3: Yeah, now I'm will.
[34:52] Speaker 2: Saying people who you want to date don't want them.
[34:56] Speaker 1: No. And every time I go on watch Robins Live
[34:58] Speaker 1: or I run into like and Yet Bravo CON's like,
[35:01] Speaker 1: would you ever date someone in the Bravo universe?
[35:04] Speaker 3: And I'm like, no, would you not? No?
[35:06] Speaker 1: Yeah you would because you're like you you have like
[35:11] Speaker 1: really hot and tall men on your show where you
[35:15] Speaker 1: can like I haven't ever.
[35:16] Speaker 2: I haven't been on a show where the people that
[35:19] Speaker 2: are there are what I could be into. You know,
[35:23] Speaker 2: I feel like they're also like relationship.
[35:25] Speaker 3: But that's then, Yeah, that ship has sailed for me
[35:29] Speaker 3: with the Southern Drona boys.
[35:30] Speaker 2: Though. Have you ever started your period during sex?
[35:34] Speaker 3: Yeah?
[35:36] Speaker 2: And did the guy get aicked?
[35:38] Speaker 1: No?
[35:38] Speaker 3: Or if the if the guy got picked by period,
[35:41] Speaker 3: I would be itcked.
[35:43] Speaker 1: I was really young the only time that that had
[35:47] Speaker 1: happened to me. Because most of the men who I
[35:49] Speaker 1: have been with, if I'm on my period, they're like, okay, well,
[35:52] Speaker 1: let's just get in the shower, like do it on
[35:55] Speaker 1: fucking rubber, like.
[35:56] Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.
[35:57] Speaker 3: Some guys are like I'll still go down yeah, which,
[36:01] Speaker 3: by the way, all right, okay.
[36:05] Speaker 1: But this guy, he was a football player. He took
[36:09] Speaker 1: me out to Seattle and we sleep together. He busts
[36:13] Speaker 1: in probably thirty six seconds. Okay, so we're done whatever,
[36:19] Speaker 1: and he's like, I can't go out like that. We
[36:22] Speaker 1: have to go one more time, like I have to
[36:24] Speaker 1: show you. And I was like, all right, like such
[36:26] Speaker 1: a weird thing to say, too, Like where you trying?
[36:30] Speaker 1: If this is about me and you want to get
[36:31] Speaker 1: me off, then by all means, let's go because that
[36:33] Speaker 1: would be not more about him, but it was more
[36:35] Speaker 1: like he wanted to like prove to me, well the
[36:39] Speaker 1: second go around, the tiniest bit, the tiniest bit, and
[36:43] Speaker 1: I was coming off of my period. Yeah, yeah, and
[36:46] Speaker 1: he lost his fucking mind to the next day he
[36:50] Speaker 1: goes to practice.
[36:51] Speaker 2: I like washed the sheets.
[36:52] Speaker 1: It like was not a big deal, but he made
[36:54] Speaker 1: it such a big deal that like I started getting
[36:56] Speaker 1: a migraine because I was so in my head about it.
[36:58] Speaker 1: He comes back home, we like have a day together,
[37:02] Speaker 1: get in the bed. Keep in mind, this man has
[37:05] Speaker 1: a wound on his arm that he has wrapped up.
[37:08] Speaker 1: We're laying in the bed and there's like a dot
[37:10] Speaker 1: of blood and he goes, you couldn't get that out,
[37:15] Speaker 1: And I was like, look at your fucking arm right now,
[37:20] Speaker 1: that most likely is coming from you.
[37:22] Speaker 2: I'm just laying here, like, what the fuck do you mean?
[37:24] Speaker 1: I was so rosed out by it. Yes, at that
[37:27] Speaker 1: point then I got pissed. Yeah, Like it started with
[37:30] Speaker 1: a shame and I was like in my early twenties.
[37:32] Speaker 3: And what he say?
[37:34] Speaker 1: He just like sat there, he just sat there. I
[37:38] Speaker 1: was like, I cannot wait to get away from you.
[37:39] Speaker 1: Tomorrow and then when I've landed back in Utah, he
[37:43] Speaker 1: had texted me and was like, I'd really like to
[37:44] Speaker 1: bring you out again. I'm like, honestly, like I'm so
[37:47] Speaker 1: scarred by the interaction that we had after that happened
[37:51] Speaker 1: that like, I don't ever need to see you again.
[37:53] Speaker 3: Also, can we talk about the fact so you traveled
[37:56] Speaker 3: to see him, he flew you out? Yeah, that terrifies me. Well,
[38:02] Speaker 3: like I'm stuck, like I have a lot of guys
[38:04] Speaker 3: that have been like out here, let's do this, and
[38:08] Speaker 3: I've never met them before, and I'm like, what if
[38:11] Speaker 3: I get there and I hate you?
[38:12] Speaker 2: Well, I had met him before, Oh yeah, I had
[38:15] Speaker 2: met him.
[38:15] Speaker 3: Most people traveled when for someone that you don't you've
[38:18] Speaker 3: never met.
[38:18] Speaker 1: I've never traveled for someone that I've never met. But
[38:21] Speaker 1: even though, like as i've gotten older, because I'm a
[38:24] Speaker 1: control freak, now i'm very funny. If a guy offers
[38:27] Speaker 1: to fly me out, I'm like, you're not flying me anywhere.
[38:30] Speaker 1: Just tell me when to come and I'll book my ticket.
[38:32] Speaker 1: Even if he has a house, it's like I'm not
[38:34] Speaker 1: staying there. I'll stay at a hotel because God forbid.
[38:38] Speaker 1: And if I don't even use the hotel and I
[38:40] Speaker 1: stay with you the whole time. Great, I love that,
[38:42] Speaker 1: but I need to know that I have an escape
[38:44] Speaker 1: plan if this does not go the way I want
[38:47] Speaker 1: it to go.
[38:48] Speaker 3: Craig helped me escape a lot. Like I flew out
[38:50] Speaker 3: to see man first time have done it. I was terrified,
[38:53] Speaker 3: you've never met him before.
[38:54] Speaker 2: Ye, and.
[38:58] Speaker 3: I wanted to leave so bad, and Craig happened to
[39:01] Speaker 3: be there, And can you say where you were? I
[39:04] Speaker 3: was in Missouri, okay, but I was like, Craig, I
[39:10] Speaker 3: just want to.
[39:10] Speaker 2: Go, and Okaig rescued you nice, so sweet.
[39:15] Speaker 3: I know He's like, let's get you the fuck out here.
[39:18] Speaker 1: Oh.
[39:19] Speaker 2: I love that.
[39:20] Speaker 1: This is like.
[39:22] Speaker 3: Not that long ago.
[39:25] Speaker 2: Wow.
[39:26] Speaker 1: So even with your guys, is little whatever last season
[39:30] Speaker 1: is still swooping in if you need him.
[39:31] Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Craig's one of Craig's a great one in
[39:34] Speaker 3: my life. I love that for you, He's great. We
[39:37] Speaker 3: have our moments, but we fight like brothers sister. I
[39:39] Speaker 3: feel like like we'll get.
[39:40] Speaker 1: Like drunk and just scream at each other and then
[39:42] Speaker 1: totally come back to Oh that's the best. Some call
[39:45] Speaker 1: it toxic. I call it an evolved relationship. How do
[39:51] Speaker 1: you feel about our first podcast together.
[39:53] Speaker 3: I love it. I feel like I'm not I don't
[39:55] Speaker 3: even feel like I have a microphone, but I.
[39:57] Speaker 2: Know that's the best though. We are just talking.
[39:59] Speaker 1: Thank you, my loves for listening to the first episode
[40:02] Speaker 1: of Sex Unlocked right into our DMS because I want
[40:05] Speaker 1: to talk about it all Let's like take the stigma
[40:07] Speaker 1: away from women talking about sex.
[40:09] Speaker 2: Like women who talk about.
[40:10] Speaker 1: Sex, they're not whoores, they're not sluts. We're just a
[40:13] Speaker 1: bunch of women exchanging information. All right, Sally, I love
[40:16] Speaker 1: you baby, all right.
[40:17] Speaker 2: Bye guy Bye.

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