# By Order of the Faithfuls: He’s a Saint w/Mark Ebinger and Moke Coffey (Million Dollar Nannies)

An episode of [Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1477524410), 10 Jul 2026, 33 min.

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Dolores and Wells are joined by Million Dollar Nannies couple Mike and Moke! Would you ever let your husband’s ex live with you in the guest house? Mike and Moke explain why this crazy dynamic works so well to keep their family together. Plus, which housewife called Moke a f***ing saint? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:02] Speaker 1: All right, all you faithfuls and traders, welcome into other
[0:04] Speaker 1: episode of by Order the Faithful's Million Dollar Nanny Edition.
[0:07] Speaker 1: Well's Adams alongside the gorgeous, the beautiful, the talented Dolores Catania,
[0:11] Speaker 1: and we are joined by Dolries. I don't want to
[0:13] Speaker 1: speak for you, but I think our two favorite characters
[0:18] Speaker 1: on Million Dollar Nanny in Moke and Mark.
[0:22] Speaker 2: Wow.
[0:23] Speaker 3: Welcome to the show.
[0:24] Speaker 4: Welcome to this show. We have so much in common
[0:27] Speaker 4: you don't even know.
[0:29] Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't wait to hear.
[0:31] Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna tell you everything.
[0:33] Speaker 3: Okay, I just want to like start off the show.
[0:35] Speaker 1: So we are. We are basically four episodes into this show.
[0:42] Speaker 1: I have no context of this. I don't have kids,
[0:45] Speaker 1: Dolors has had Nanny's before. But for you guys just
[0:48] Speaker 1: watching the show, what do you think about what's happening
[0:52] Speaker 1: on this television show.
[0:55] Speaker 5: It's kind of crazy amongst the nannies at their house.
[0:58] Speaker 5: We weren't witnessed to that.
[1:00] Speaker 4: So you didn't know, Well, how would you know? Right?
[1:03] Speaker 6: So you see the way they're acting behind closed doors,
[1:06] Speaker 6: and I wouldn't have hired them knowing.
[1:08] Speaker 4: That, would you have?
[1:14] Speaker 7: Well, you know, we now have relationships with four of
[1:19] Speaker 7: them closely. We had four of them over to our
[1:21] Speaker 7: house a couple of weeks ago for a barbecue.
[1:24] Speaker 5: When they come to Los Angeles, they stay in our
[1:26] Speaker 5: house too, So we had.
[1:29] Speaker 2: Mitchell, we have Live as our nanny full time now.
[1:35] Speaker 7: Oh great for Los Angeles to be with us. So
[1:38] Speaker 7: she's our full time nanny now. And Taylor and Taylor
[1:42] Speaker 7: came over. So, you know, to ask you a question,
[1:45] Speaker 7: I think, I mean, I partied when I was in
[1:48] Speaker 7: my twenties, you know, and they really kept that separate
[1:51] Speaker 7: from the kids.
[1:52] Speaker 4: They did.
[1:52] Speaker 7: Okay, Yeah, so what we witnessed, what we've seen of
[1:55] Speaker 7: them with kids, they're all incredible nannies.
[1:58] Speaker 2: They're all professional nannies.
[2:00] Speaker 7: That's nice to hear, it is y Yeah, yeah, I
[2:03] Speaker 7: mean obviously if we hired Live, she's like, she's really fantastic.
[2:07] Speaker 2: With the kids.
[2:09] Speaker 6: So your kids are amazing, by the way them right now, By.
[2:14] Speaker 4: The way nanny's.
[2:16] Speaker 6: Nanny's can be a blessing and a curse at the
[2:19] Speaker 6: same time. Some nanny's right, you really need to connect
[2:23] Speaker 6: with them. They become a part of the family. So
[2:26] Speaker 6: it's really important that there's that chemistry there.
[2:29] Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure, it's they're an intimate part of the family,
[2:33] Speaker 5: everything going on, So yeah, you have to trustell me.
[2:36] Speaker 2: You have to be friends with them.
[2:38] Speaker 5: We tell each other we love you every day, so
[2:40] Speaker 5: it's it's really a good relationship.
[2:43] Speaker 4: I think I want to live in your house.
[2:46] Speaker 3: I'm no nanny for you guys. Listen, Yeah, really they
[2:48] Speaker 3: would like that.
[2:50] Speaker 1: Well, we've all been on reality TV shows on this podcast,
[2:54] Speaker 1: and I think we all can say it's not for
[2:57] Speaker 1: the feint of heart. I was never on a reality
[3:00] Speaker 1: TV show as a child. You got two kids on
[3:02] Speaker 1: this show. How are they affected by this TV show?
[3:07] Speaker 2: They loved filming it. They had so much fun.
[3:10] Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, they've been doing it for a couple
[3:13] Speaker 7: of years already on our show, Our Three Dads on YouTube,
[3:16] Speaker 7: and we have shorts and daily shorts on Instagram, TikTok YouTube,
[3:21] Speaker 7: and so they've been they've been used to it.
[3:23] Speaker 2: They've already been getting recognized.
[3:25] Speaker 7: But now with a million dollar nannies coming out, the
[3:28] Speaker 7: exposure is so great that you know, we're getting they're
[3:31] Speaker 7: getting stopped places and has to take their picture, and
[3:34] Speaker 7: you know, I think we've did done a good job
[3:37] Speaker 7: at keeping them grounded, like letting them. You have to
[3:41] Speaker 7: know who you are separate from you know, this TV
[3:45] Speaker 7: persona or this you know like you have to you
[3:49] Speaker 7: have to know who you are and because this could
[3:51] Speaker 7: be this is fun, but this could be gone tomorrow.
[3:55] Speaker 7: And I think they're really appreciative and grounded kids, and
[3:59] Speaker 7: and thank you.
[4:01] Speaker 6: I feel like they're very grounded and mature for their age.
[4:05] Speaker 6: They're definitely a reflection of amazing parenting. And I like
[4:09] Speaker 6: the fact that you all lived together and stay together.
[4:13] Speaker 6: There's nothing wrong with that. I'm best friends with my ex.
[4:16] Speaker 6: He lived with my ex boyfriend as well. But in
[4:19] Speaker 6: the beginning of our divorce and we I got divorced
[4:24] Speaker 6: when I was pregnant for my son.
[4:25] Speaker 4: My daughter was three then I was.
[4:28] Speaker 6: People gave us a lot of flak about the way
[4:30] Speaker 6: we lived and the vacations together and the things like that.
[4:35] Speaker 4: Yet our kids grew up really okay.
[4:38] Speaker 6: So I want you to know you already know this,
[4:41] Speaker 6: but I want you to know that what you've done
[4:43] Speaker 6: and what you've chose to do and handle the things
[4:45] Speaker 6: the way that you did is definitely a great example
[4:49] Speaker 6: of amazing parenting.
[4:50] Speaker 2: Oh, thank you.
[4:51] Speaker 7: That's wonderful to hear and you know, Bo is old
[4:54] Speaker 7: enough now that this is just like about a month ago.
[4:57] Speaker 7: She came to me and said, kind of reinforces, reiterates
[5:01] Speaker 7: what you just said. Both came to me and said,
[5:03] Speaker 7: you know a girl, a good friend of hers, her
[5:07] Speaker 7: closest friend, her parents are divorcing and it's very contentious,
[5:11] Speaker 7: and she's back and forth between houses.
[5:13] Speaker 2: And both said, you know quite, I have none of that.
[5:18] Speaker 7: She said, we have three dads that love us, and
[5:21] Speaker 7: I know what you've done to make this possible.
[5:23] Speaker 2: Dad, And I know it probably can't.
[5:25] Speaker 7: Be easy to be on all of you, any of
[5:28] Speaker 7: you all the time, but she said, we get it,
[5:31] Speaker 7: and we appreciate it.
[5:32] Speaker 2: Wow.
[5:33] Speaker 4: And how old is she nine?
[5:35] Speaker 2: Yeah?
[5:36] Speaker 6: Well is that not like nine going on twenty five?
[5:40] Speaker 6: After ordering the caviat But even the fact of she
[5:45] Speaker 6: knows how to order for herself. Some kids don't even
[5:48] Speaker 6: look you in the eye.
[5:49] Speaker 4: They don't give you the attention.
[5:51] Speaker 2: You know.
[5:51] Speaker 6: I knew right away when first episode, As soon as
[5:55] Speaker 6: I see in them, I knew exactly what kind of
[5:57] Speaker 6: people that you were. There's a saying I live by,
[5:59] Speaker 6: show me your kids, and I'll show you who you are.
[6:02] Speaker 2: I love that. Yeah, it's too, it's awesome, great, it's perfect.
[6:07] Speaker 1: This is how I was raised, and I'm wondering if
[6:09] Speaker 1: this is how you guys are doing it as well.
[6:11] Speaker 1: So my parents were very much like the Razor kid,
[6:14] Speaker 1: the French way, which is we're not making you guys
[6:17] Speaker 1: chicken tenders and like, uh, you know, hot dogs. You're
[6:22] Speaker 1: eating what we're eating and you're coming with us, and
[6:25] Speaker 1: you have to eat what what is on the table,
[6:27] Speaker 1: and it seems like and so I had a kind
[6:31] Speaker 1: of an advanced palette as a kid, and I liked
[6:33] Speaker 1: I remember I ordered carpaccio and oysters.
[6:36] Speaker 3: When I was like.
[6:38] Speaker 1: My dad was like, who are you? And I'm like,
[6:40] Speaker 1: what are you trying to you guys? Is that what
[6:44] Speaker 1: you guys are doing?
[6:45] Speaker 2: Are you?
[6:46] Speaker 7: We tried, We tried to give them hot dogs and
[6:48] Speaker 7: chicken tenders. Yeah, it's fine with that, but bo Is
[6:51] Speaker 7: just always said, I'm not having it.
[6:54] Speaker 4: Yeah.
[6:55] Speaker 5: Coy is a very different balette than Boda's, and she's
[6:59] Speaker 5: always been adventurous. We are at Jewish Shelly in New
[7:03] Speaker 5: York when we went to the premiere a million dollar
[7:05] Speaker 5: Nannies and bow Winder order of the beef Tom and
[7:08] Speaker 5: I'm like you got to.
[7:09] Speaker 2: Be just because she had never tried it and it
[7:11] Speaker 2: sounded exotic.
[7:14] Speaker 6: Oh, I love HER's definitely a Hamberger pizza chicken tenders boy.
[7:22] Speaker 3: All right, where is Tom?
[7:24] Speaker 7: By the way, he's at his He's here in Fort
[7:28] Speaker 7: Lauderdale because we break we come here because he still
[7:31] Speaker 7: has a house here and he has a luggage store.
[7:34] Speaker 7: So today he's at his luggage store today.
[7:37] Speaker 4: Tell him I said, hello, I will.
[7:39] Speaker 2: We'll see for dinner tonight. He'll get together with us.
[7:41] Speaker 4: Is he still wearing his wedding ring?
[7:43] Speaker 3: Yeah?
[7:43] Speaker 4: Is he?
[7:44] Speaker 2: Yes?
[7:46] Speaker 4: So, Moke, you're a good guy. And I know that Mark.
[7:52] Speaker 6: I know you're very conscious of hurting his feelings. And
[7:56] Speaker 6: it's nothing more than that, right, Moke.
[7:58] Speaker 4: And you know that, And.
[7:59] Speaker 6: That's that's why you're like, is it that big of
[8:02] Speaker 6: a deal If it means something to him, if that's
[8:04] Speaker 6: something sacred to him, Clearly, there's no nothing wrong with
[8:08] Speaker 6: your relationship.
[8:09] Speaker 4: You guys know who each other are.
[8:12] Speaker 6: You have such confidence in your relationship. So I have
[8:16] Speaker 6: to say it's because your relationship is.
[8:18] Speaker 4: So very strong. I understand that, Mok.
[8:21] Speaker 6: You could get annoyed by that, but it means nothing
[8:25] Speaker 6: to your relationship. It just means something to him, and
[8:28] Speaker 6: that's why I feel like Mark is the way he
[8:31] Speaker 6: is about it.
[8:31] Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I we you know Erica Jane from Uswives,
[8:36] Speaker 5: she came over to her house and did a photo
[8:38] Speaker 5: shoot with Mike Bruize and she's.
[8:40] Speaker 2: Like, what's the situation here? And I said, works.
[8:44] Speaker 5: Ex husband lives in the guest house and she said,
[8:47] Speaker 5: you're a bleep in saying so.
[8:49] Speaker 2: I love her for that.
[8:52] Speaker 4: No, you, but you are. You are. But it's it's
[8:57] Speaker 4: a good thing.
[8:58] Speaker 7: And I think really the ring to him as more
[9:01] Speaker 7: simple as like not wanting to be pushed out of
[9:05] Speaker 7: the family, like still making sure that he's part of
[9:08] Speaker 7: the family and part of the kids lives. I really
[9:10] Speaker 7: don't think it's like I don't think it's hanging on
[9:13] Speaker 7: to me, you.
[9:14] Speaker 4: Know, I don't think so either. I don't think so either.
[9:18] Speaker 2: Yeaeah.
[9:19] Speaker 4: I don't know if Molk feels that way.
[9:21] Speaker 5: But well, it was really like a bizarre situation when
[9:25] Speaker 5: I walked into it, and I've been in a relationship
[9:28] Speaker 5: prior to Mark that the guy had a boyfriend and
[9:33] Speaker 5: so it was a disaster. So when I met Mark,
[9:37] Speaker 5: I trusted him immediately I met him at the gym
[9:39] Speaker 5: in Fort Lauderdale, actually, and I just trusted him. And
[9:44] Speaker 5: he told me that he was separating from his husband.
[9:47] Speaker 5: So I was a little bit skeptical about that.
[9:49] Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a lot like sometimes it's a red flag
[9:52] Speaker 6: and is sure.
[9:53] Speaker 5: Yeah, But then it's my birthday two days later and
[9:55] Speaker 5: he sent me twenty four roses, So I let this
[9:58] Speaker 5: guy's the real deal.
[9:59] Speaker 2: So this is not really nice.
[10:02] Speaker 4: I love the two of you as a couple.
[10:04] Speaker 6: Please don't let anything come between it, because I think
[10:07] Speaker 6: it works, and I think you're very sensible, and I
[10:11] Speaker 6: think that you're just a great couple.
[10:13] Speaker 4: I'd hate to see anything ever happen.
[10:15] Speaker 6: So moving forward with this reality stuff and things that
[10:19] Speaker 6: maybe set you online, and I could talk to you
[10:22] Speaker 6: off camera about this, and I could give you any
[10:24] Speaker 6: kind of, you know, advice that you might need. I
[10:28] Speaker 6: would definitely give you my number. You could call me,
[10:31] Speaker 6: we could talk anytime. I've been doing this ten years
[10:34] Speaker 6: and I've been able to save my soul and my reputation,
[10:38] Speaker 6: So please feel free to always reach out.
[10:40] Speaker 2: Oh, I really appreciate that. We love that.
[10:42] Speaker 1: Sure, let's talk about the show, because you know there's
[10:53] Speaker 1: a lot of drama that's happening in this and if
[10:56] Speaker 1: you guys really aren't involved in it at least thus far,
[11:00] Speaker 1: or with the leah of it all and sleeping with
[11:05] Speaker 1: a kid's dad and then everyone finding out about it
[11:10] Speaker 1: when you're watching it back, do you do you care
[11:13] Speaker 1: about this at all? Is does this just a storyline
[11:16] Speaker 1: that's just made to be dramatic or was it like
[11:19] Speaker 1: really a thing happening in a beast?
[11:21] Speaker 2: It was really a thing happening.
[11:23] Speaker 7: But you know, somehow we I mean, I love all
[11:26] Speaker 7: of them, but it really was a real thing happening.
[11:28] Speaker 7: But I feel like somehow our family was able to
[11:32] Speaker 7: remain like unscathed and like the.
[11:35] Speaker 2: Like all one.
[11:36] Speaker 7: Somehow we were like the drama was surrounding us, but
[11:39] Speaker 7: we weren't ever like fully a part of it.
[11:42] Speaker 4: You got away with it this time.
[11:44] Speaker 5: Yeah, Yeah, we knew there was some crying going on
[11:48] Speaker 5: and everything at these parties, but.
[11:50] Speaker 4: I saw your faces. You kind of liked it.
[11:54] Speaker 5: Yeah, as long as it wasn't between us.
[11:57] Speaker 4: Sure you were, like you were standing at the Yeah.
[12:03] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[12:03] Speaker 7: I don't know if they're gonna, you know, come out
[12:06] Speaker 7: as I mean, we're gonna be part if there.
[12:08] Speaker 2: If there's a season two, we'll definitely come back if.
[12:10] Speaker 7: They ask us, because yeah, the blast and so hopefully
[12:13] Speaker 7: we'll escape again.
[12:16] Speaker 4: It's fun until it's not.
[12:18] Speaker 2: You're right right, we'll escapeing the likable ones.
[12:20] Speaker 1: I hope Where would you want to film season two?
[12:23] Speaker 1: You know, Bees is pretty nice Season one? You guys
[12:27] Speaker 1: want to go next?
[12:28] Speaker 2: They're talking about Greece.
[12:30] Speaker 4: That would be amazing. Maybe I'll show up, Yeah.
[12:33] Speaker 7: Yeah, Grace or Australia for Greece south of France or
[12:38] Speaker 7: Italy if it's Europe and then we've heard Australia or
[12:42] Speaker 7: Bali if it's uh, you know, winter and they can
[12:45] Speaker 7: film you know, feel like summer there. Yeah, I've always
[12:49] Speaker 7: wanted to see Bali. I mean I love traveling. The
[12:53] Speaker 7: kids are great travelers.
[12:55] Speaker 1: Yeah, doing some Hemisphere in the winter would be very
[12:58] Speaker 1: smart because then you can you can edit it air
[13:00] Speaker 1: later and it seems like, yeah, I like that idea.
[13:03] Speaker 1: Actually you kind of you told us that Live is
[13:07] Speaker 1: still with you guys. But let's let's talk about the
[13:10] Speaker 1: hiring process of Olivia and Mitchell. Very funny episode. Let's
[13:16] Speaker 1: just talk about the swimming thing. I thought that was
[13:19] Speaker 1: very funny. Did competition. Was that your guys' idea or
[13:23] Speaker 1: is that's like a race.
[13:29] Speaker 5: I'm not gonna tell you that, you know.
[13:32] Speaker 2: We're just trying to think of some funny things.
[13:34] Speaker 4: That, yeah, that would be funny, like and.
[13:39] Speaker 2: Let Cooy decide, you know who he was.
[13:45] Speaker 4: Coy decide when we going on vacation. Let Cooy decide.
[13:51] Speaker 2: It was my idea to do the test at the
[13:53] Speaker 2: gay bar.
[13:56] Speaker 7: Yeah, and I love if you've seen the spray tan thing, yeah,
[13:59] Speaker 7: but we white party to go to. I think that's
[14:02] Speaker 7: shown a few episodes later. And Tom has never had
[14:06] Speaker 7: a tan in his entire life.
[14:07] Speaker 2: He just like burns, and you know, he's pink at best.
[14:12] Speaker 7: So we thought, all right, let's make the Mannies give us,
[14:16] Speaker 7: like see who's up for us for giving us a
[14:18] Speaker 7: spray tan?
[14:19] Speaker 4: And he talked about that.
[14:21] Speaker 7: We did see that the Who's gay? I think he
[14:24] Speaker 7: had much more of a problem with.
[14:29] Speaker 6: Which is so funny in itself that alone its Yeah.
[14:34] Speaker 2: Well, Mitchell actually painted boats.
[14:39] Speaker 7: He lived here in Fort Lauderdale working on yachts, and
[14:42] Speaker 7: he was like, it's just like a spray you know,
[14:46] Speaker 7: It's just like banging a boat.
[14:49] Speaker 2: And so I was victim to that that Jack had
[14:54] Speaker 2: to spray and I was just like, oh my god,
[14:57] Speaker 2: he's not doing a very good job. I could tell.
[14:59] Speaker 6: So that's hysterical. That was classic. That should be a meme.
[15:04] Speaker 2: Well, yeah, for sure.
[15:07] Speaker 7: When you get to the white party, you'll see that
[15:10] Speaker 7: we all actually look really tanned.
[15:12] Speaker 2: And Tom is tan, you know, because he had white
[15:14] Speaker 2: clothes on.
[15:14] Speaker 7: You had the tan for the first time in his
[15:16] Speaker 7: life the club.
[15:20] Speaker 4: How do you look with the tan?
[15:23] Speaker 2: You know, it's just kind of gold well healthy. Yeah. Yeah,
[15:27] Speaker 2: you know.
[15:27] Speaker 1: You guys chose your nanny's and nanny early, like really
[15:33] Speaker 1: early in this show without and then you got to
[15:37] Speaker 1: meet all the other ones. Was there ever a time
[15:40] Speaker 1: when you were like, oh, I really wish we had
[15:42] Speaker 1: interviewed this one or this one because I think they
[15:45] Speaker 1: would have been a really good fit. Or do you
[15:46] Speaker 1: think that you got presented like the best two nannies
[15:51] Speaker 1: for your kids.
[15:54] Speaker 2: I feel like we had the best team.
[15:55] Speaker 7: Yeah, there were only two Mannis there in a visa,
[15:58] Speaker 7: and so got to between Jack and Mitchell, and then
[16:02] Speaker 7: Leah paired us with Live. She just after seeing you know,
[16:07] Speaker 7: the videos of bo and she said, I just think
[16:10] Speaker 7: that Live is going to be the perfect fit for Bo,
[16:13] Speaker 7: and she was right.
[16:14] Speaker 5: I mean, she's likes Live, calls Bogue or mini meat.
[16:20] Speaker 2: Everything together. They like all the same things. They love
[16:23] Speaker 2: love fashion, they love like jewelry, they love great. Yeah.
[16:29] Speaker 7: And also I think I think what's so great about
[16:32] Speaker 7: Live or Bo? Bo can be a little you know,
[16:36] Speaker 7: both gorgeous and uh, she can be a little timid
[16:40] Speaker 7: like around other girls, and it's really yeah and uh
[16:45] Speaker 7: and Live is you know, gorgeous, and she's very sweet
[16:48] Speaker 7: and loving, but there's like an edge to her where
[16:51] Speaker 7: like you're not going to push her around.
[16:53] Speaker 4: Right, And that's good for her to be talking about.
[16:55] Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. She's teaching Bo that.
[16:58] Speaker 7: And when both had a couple of problems with girl
[17:00] Speaker 7: friends at school that are being mean to her, you know, lives.
[17:02] Speaker 2: Like, you know, you don't have to be mean back,
[17:04] Speaker 2: but you don't have.
[17:05] Speaker 7: To take that. She's teaching her like how to maneuver.
[17:08] Speaker 7: And I think that's that's really great to see.
[17:11] Speaker 6: Well, it's very good when somebody, a wise girl, a wise,
[17:16] Speaker 6: older girl with an edge, is teaching her things that
[17:20] Speaker 6: she needs to know as a woman, because it's not
[17:22] Speaker 6: easy being a girl. Girls are mean when you're pretty
[17:25] Speaker 6: there's always a struggle.
[17:27] Speaker 4: So I think that's that is a really great match.
[17:30] Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, Live is so young, she's twenty two.
[17:33] Speaker 7: That she said, both Coy and Bow feel more like her,
[17:36] Speaker 7: She feels more like brother and sister.
[17:38] Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, which is what you want too.
[17:42] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[17:42] Speaker 7: I think they learn better from someone closer to their
[17:45] Speaker 7: own age, and like, we don't want to listen to
[17:46] Speaker 7: you if they do listen to us, but you know
[17:48] Speaker 7: what I mean.
[17:48] Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I do know what you mean.
[17:50] Speaker 6: And plus she knows she remembers how she was as
[17:53] Speaker 6: a kid, right, and she does talk about her childhood
[17:56] Speaker 6: in the first scene.
[17:58] Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, and I remember that.
[18:01] Speaker 6: And I didn't totally mind that. I always spoke to
[18:04] Speaker 6: my kids like they were adults. You treat your kids
[18:06] Speaker 6: like their adults. So she is good for that, she's not,
[18:09] Speaker 6: she's on their level.
[18:11] Speaker 2: Yeah, but we never talked baby talk to the kids
[18:14] Speaker 2: when they're younger, and.
[18:17] Speaker 5: We thought they really developed a strong, you know, vocabulary
[18:21] Speaker 5: because of that, I think, and not to say that's
[18:24] Speaker 5: not nice to do that, but we just thought we'd
[18:27] Speaker 5: do it that way. From what I've heard, a lot
[18:30] Speaker 5: of gay families do talk to their kids as adults
[18:34] Speaker 5: early on.
[18:35] Speaker 4: That's good. Yeah, you're learning from the from the dads
[18:37] Speaker 4: over here.
[18:38] Speaker 1: Wells, I know I've got some I've got some questions
[18:42] Speaker 1: from a super fan, a producer who absolutely loves this
[18:45] Speaker 1: show and we loves you guys, wanted to ask you
[18:47] Speaker 1: guys some specific questions.
[18:49] Speaker 3: So I want you to know that I didn't come
[18:51] Speaker 3: up with these questions.
[18:54] Speaker 7: Or me.
[18:54] Speaker 1: Yeah, these look like fun questions, all right. The first
[18:58] Speaker 1: one which dad had the most elaborate skincare routine.
[19:05] Speaker 5: That's easy, really, No, it's like you're the one that
[19:11] Speaker 5: has all this she He wears those things under his eyes.
[19:14] Speaker 4: All the time, eye patches.
[19:16] Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, oh come on, yeah, I say it is.
[19:21] Speaker 2: It's a tie between them.
[19:24] Speaker 4: Well what do you use? I just want to know.
[19:27] Speaker 3: Yeah, because you guys look great.
[19:29] Speaker 2: Thank you, go ahead the whole shebang.
[19:36] Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, I have a like a face scrub.
[19:40] Speaker 7: What I'm even not that good about using. I'd probably
[19:42] Speaker 7: use it once a week. I use a moisturizer every day.
[19:46] Speaker 7: I use the under eye patches maybe like once a
[19:49] Speaker 7: week and sleep in them. H And then you know,
[19:53] Speaker 7: I just get I did get.
[19:57] Speaker 2: They like remove your that's your ball.
[20:01] Speaker 7: They Yeah, they remove your blood and spin it and
[20:06] Speaker 7: make this plasma out of it, and then they like
[20:08] Speaker 7: shoot it under my eyes and it kind of like
[20:10] Speaker 7: filled in that.
[20:11] Speaker 2: Uh, that's the best thing I did. It lasts like
[20:13] Speaker 2: about six months.
[20:15] Speaker 4: Oh that's good.
[20:16] Speaker 3: It fixes dark circles.
[20:18] Speaker 7: Well, no, it fixes the the credit like if I
[20:21] Speaker 7: were kind of sunk it in there, and so they
[20:23] Speaker 7: shoot that in there and it like smooths it out.
[20:26] Speaker 1: All right, you guys are both jacked. I just real quick, like,
[20:34] Speaker 1: what does your workout? Your weekly workout routine consists.
[20:38] Speaker 5: Of, well, we normally work out like five days a week,
[20:41] Speaker 5: so we do Mondays, we do arms, it's an arm workout,
[20:46] Speaker 5: and abs Tuesday, we do chest and tries Wednesday, back
[20:52] Speaker 5: and uys Thursday.
[20:55] Speaker 2: Yeah, it is trapped neck right at yeah, legs and
[21:00] Speaker 2: we do.
[21:01] Speaker 5: We work out at Golds Gym and Venice, so it
[21:03] Speaker 5: is old school, but it's a great atmosphere there and
[21:06] Speaker 5: we love working out there.
[21:07] Speaker 6: That's the most famous one that was the original That
[21:10] Speaker 6: was Arnold Schwartzenhangers.
[21:12] Speaker 4: Wasn't it like that where there's a famous picture.
[21:16] Speaker 6: I used to be married to mister New Jersey by
[21:18] Speaker 6: the way, And yes, I'm from New Like, so everybody's
[21:23] Speaker 6: a big muscle guy around here.
[21:24] Speaker 4: I know a lot about the business.
[21:26] Speaker 6: I owned a few Golds gyms and Powerhouse gyms, so yeah, cool,
[21:30] Speaker 6: that's all. As you see, I don't really freak with
[21:32] Speaker 6: them much. I don't love working out like you guys.
[21:36] Speaker 2: What are you talking about?
[21:37] Speaker 3: I got I gotta know who can bench press more?
[21:41] Speaker 2: He can because I had a shoulder replacement.
[21:44] Speaker 6: So oh yeah, well of course you did, because the
[21:47] Speaker 6: old school working out makes you have to have those replacements.
[21:51] Speaker 2: I mean, I used to think the more you lived,
[21:53] Speaker 2: the better it is.
[21:54] Speaker 4: But it's not.
[21:55] Speaker 5: I'm growing older, it's not the case at all. I
[21:58] Speaker 5: wish I would eat just some lighter weight, higher ups.
[22:01] Speaker 4: Higher reps. It's you know what it is. The muscles grow,
[22:04] Speaker 4: the tendons.
[22:05] Speaker 2: Don't exactly absolutely right.
[22:08] Speaker 6: So my ex husband actually was walking, missed a step
[22:12] Speaker 6: and both his uh knees wound up in his shins
[22:16] Speaker 6: because of the years of working out. Yeah, and so
[22:20] Speaker 6: my ex and my ex boyfriend brought him in a
[22:23] Speaker 6: hospital back head. The whole thing took him, showered him
[22:26] Speaker 6: on all these things. I think they might get married.
[22:29] Speaker 5: I don't know, you know, a lot of our fans asked,
[22:33] Speaker 5: what's wrong with one of my legs? But I slipped
[22:36] Speaker 5: on a stair also in our old house, and I
[22:40] Speaker 5: tore my quad, So it's never happened, been properly.
[22:46] Speaker 2: Back together, reattached. Yeah, so I'm still struggling with it,
[22:50] Speaker 2: but speaking and that was from from doing heavy squats too.
[22:54] Speaker 3: I know that.
[22:54] Speaker 4: Yeah, but well Wells does heavy squats too.
[23:08] Speaker 1: This is a question that I don't really understand. But
[23:10] Speaker 1: maybe you guys will is Mark allowed to use Moke
[23:13] Speaker 1: or Tom's elevators? You know, yes, I am, because I
[23:18] Speaker 1: guess you has separate elevators in your house for some reason.
[23:21] Speaker 2: We do.
[23:22] Speaker 5: We have.
[23:22] Speaker 7: We had I put two elevators in the house because
[23:26] Speaker 7: Moke has you know, the difficulties he just told you
[23:29] Speaker 7: about with his quadtair and Tom has had knee surgery.
[23:32] Speaker 7: It has difficulty with the stairs, and so the guest
[23:36] Speaker 7: house in the back where Tom sleeps, it's like a
[23:39] Speaker 7: vertical uh steep.
[23:42] Speaker 2: Literally thirty steps about this staircase.
[23:46] Speaker 7: Yeah, so I put the type that's like, uh, you know,
[23:49] Speaker 7: the Willie Walker tube that, yeah, he has a tube
[23:55] Speaker 7: like that twobe elevator, and then we put one inside
[23:58] Speaker 7: the house from mog Yeah.
[23:59] Speaker 1: So uh but is it like the bank you remember
[24:02] Speaker 1: back when you go to the bank and you put
[24:04] Speaker 1: your checks in.
[24:04] Speaker 2: The Yeah, and they have this joke between them.
[24:10] Speaker 7: There's actually a toll box in the indoor elevator that
[24:13] Speaker 7: Tom's pay.
[24:15] Speaker 2: But there's it remains empty.
[24:20] Speaker 3: Okay, what are the details on Moke's special count?
[24:24] Speaker 5: So it's uh. Two sofas from Minoti in La and
[24:33] Speaker 5: they're very expensive. And when I was growing up, my
[24:36] Speaker 5: mother had this lemon yellow sofa in her living room
[24:40] Speaker 5: and she would never let us sit on it. So
[24:42] Speaker 5: I basically the same way with our kids and our family.
[24:46] Speaker 5: And they're they're made of mole hair, so they're really
[24:48] Speaker 5: like a fragile material and I just don't want them
[24:52] Speaker 5: to ruin them.
[24:52] Speaker 6: So that's a very Italian household. They actually had plastic
[24:58] Speaker 6: that we used to be allow and your skin would
[25:01] Speaker 6: stick to it in the sun.
[25:03] Speaker 2: We're not doing the plastic on these, That's why they're not.
[25:06] Speaker 4: So you're not allowed, just not allowed to sit on it. Yes.
[25:09] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[25:09] Speaker 7: Boe has a new white kitten that she's in love with, Snowy,
[25:13] Speaker 7: and Snowy weighs like two pounds.
[25:15] Speaker 2: She's like the only one that for some reason this.
[25:20] Speaker 4: I love that. I love you even more now, Moke.
[25:27] Speaker 1: Which reality show besides Million Dollar Nannies? Would the three
[25:31] Speaker 1: dads fit in best?
[25:34] Speaker 7: So? I don't know if this is really going to happen,
[25:36] Speaker 7: but I think this would be really fun. We were
[25:39] Speaker 7: contacted about being on uh wife swap, Real Housewives Wife Swap.
[25:46] Speaker 6: Oh, I love that one of the girls on my
[25:48] Speaker 6: show did that, Melissa Gorga did it.
[25:52] Speaker 7: Oh, I don't know if that's I mean, we're up
[25:55] Speaker 7: for anything, you know, we want to do more a lot.
[25:57] Speaker 4: Of actually a really nice experience for them.
[26:00] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[26:00] Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd love to see that.
[26:02] Speaker 7: That would be funny if they swapped some of the
[26:05] Speaker 7: dads out with, you know, with another fancy.
[26:10] Speaker 4: Good Have you watched Wife Swap?
[26:13] Speaker 2: Yeah?
[26:14] Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so they had to do some crazy stuff.
[26:18] Speaker 6: It's definitely different living conditions.
[26:21] Speaker 1: Yeah, speaking of dads and swamping. If Tom gets into
[26:27] Speaker 1: a long term relationship, will he move out or will
[26:31] Speaker 1: you just have a fourth dad?
[26:37] Speaker 2: He'll never move out, you know. I think he's open
[26:42] Speaker 2: to a relationship. I don't know.
[26:45] Speaker 7: I think what well he said, what he would really
[26:47] Speaker 7: prefer is to like have somebody to go to dinner with, movies, you.
[26:52] Speaker 2: Know, have a companion, but not another marriage. You know. Yeah,
[26:57] Speaker 2: I think I think that's what he's amongst things.
[27:01] Speaker 4: Right, right.
[27:02] Speaker 6: But here's the other thing with that is if the
[27:06] Speaker 6: person he winds up with is not okay with the
[27:09] Speaker 6: situation that's going on, like moch is amazing, right, or
[27:14] Speaker 6: it takes time for that person, you don't know how
[27:18] Speaker 6: he would Tom would be right different.
[27:21] Speaker 4: Anything can happen.
[27:21] Speaker 6: I don't think he would ever let anything come between
[27:24] Speaker 6: what he has. But you don't know if someone and
[27:27] Speaker 6: hey falls in love with someone and that person's not
[27:29] Speaker 6: comfortable with that, then the dynamics might change.
[27:32] Speaker 4: There's still time for that. That can happen at any day.
[27:35] Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, he's still an international flight attendant and
[27:39] Speaker 7: he goes on you know, four day, five day trips.
[27:42] Speaker 7: I think he I think he likes to maybe like, uh,
[27:46] Speaker 7: you know, meet somebody on a layover, go out to dinner.
[27:49] Speaker 2: You know, I think, Okay.
[27:52] Speaker 4: Yeah, he likes, he likes his life. I get that.
[27:58] Speaker 4: I get it. I actually get that.
[28:00] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[28:01] Speaker 7: I really think that's kind of and I mean I'm
[28:05] Speaker 7: not saying anything bad about Tom because we have a
[28:07] Speaker 7: great friendship now and you know, we're co parenting and
[28:10] Speaker 7: it's working great. But I think that's really more his
[28:12] Speaker 7: speed than like a bull type.
[28:14] Speaker 1: Right right, Yeah, you know, I was thinking about your guys'
[28:19] Speaker 1: situation as it pertains to being on television and exposing
[28:23] Speaker 1: people to different situations, living situations, different ways of raising
[28:30] Speaker 1: your kids, and it's funny, like I'm not I'm sure
[28:33] Speaker 1: you didn't think about this going into it, of like
[28:36] Speaker 1: being able to positive positively affect people who are maybe
[28:42] Speaker 1: a little more closed minded about what you know, a
[28:45] Speaker 1: typical family should look like. Yes, but the thing that
[28:49] Speaker 1: I've found watching the show is that you know, in
[28:52] Speaker 1: the beginning, you're like, this is a crazy situation. Yeah, right,
[28:56] Speaker 1: And then now in the show, I'm like, well, they're
[28:59] Speaker 1: the old normal ones of everyone here.
[29:03] Speaker 2: Had people say that, yeah.
[29:05] Speaker 6: Well that's the thing, but the proof is in the pudding.
[29:08] Speaker 6: Look at the kids. Yeah, they're amazing.
[29:11] Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean there's so we get some hate.
[29:13] Speaker 5: There's one comment that was, oh, those poor kids, So
[29:17] Speaker 5: I replied, they're not poor, the rich.
[29:20] Speaker 6: Yeah.
[29:21] Speaker 7: But you know, I never thought of myself as like
[29:25] Speaker 7: a gay activist. I never really understood Gay Pride until
[29:28] Speaker 7: the last couple of years because the messages we're getting
[29:32] Speaker 7: from all these people saying, you know you, all three
[29:37] Speaker 7: of us really inspire them to show that they can
[29:42] Speaker 7: be to have anything they want in their life.
[29:45] Speaker 2: And we had one that kind of just made me
[29:47] Speaker 2: cry last night when I read this.
[29:48] Speaker 7: It was a DM from someone that watched a million
[29:51] Speaker 7: Dollar Nannies and he's a young man that's a teacher
[29:56] Speaker 7: and he's not out to his family or the workplace,
[30:01] Speaker 7: and he said he was in such a huge depression
[30:04] Speaker 7: and he said, the three of you literally saved my life.
[30:07] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[30:07] Speaker 4: Oh see, So he said.
[30:11] Speaker 7: You're showing me that like what's possible, Like I can
[30:14] Speaker 7: have kids, I can't have a relationship.
[30:16] Speaker 4: I can you know you can't have a family of
[30:19] Speaker 4: your own, right you can?
[30:22] Speaker 3: Yeah?
[30:22] Speaker 1: Well, I just I just wanted wanted to kind of
[30:25] Speaker 1: applaud you guys for I don't think that that was
[30:27] Speaker 1: your initial, you know thing when you went on the show.
[30:30] Speaker 1: But that's what I've taken away from it is that
[30:32] Speaker 1: there's got to be so many families who are very
[30:34] Speaker 1: close minded, like you know, living in the South, or
[30:38] Speaker 1: like grandparents or something, and then they see you guys
[30:42] Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, their whole mind mindset
[30:46] Speaker 1: can change. So well done. I think really really cool
[30:50] Speaker 1: to have you guys on television and be showcasing your
[30:53] Speaker 1: guys's family and how it works so well. One of
[30:56] Speaker 1: my favorite things that's happening right now is that we're
[30:58] Speaker 1: on a zoom and so everyone's name is in the
[31:02] Speaker 1: lower third Dolores Wells. And then we have Bow's iPad
[31:06] Speaker 1: number one. I just like the fact that you're on
[31:08] Speaker 1: your kids iPad for this.
[31:12] Speaker 2: I didn't know more text savvy than.
[31:19] Speaker 4: He gets to pick the nannies.
[31:20] Speaker 6: He'll be paying the bills soon, he'll be making investments.
[31:24] Speaker 4: This is yeah, all right.
[31:27] Speaker 2: Yeah, and watch watch.
[31:28] Speaker 7: You can find out more ar three dads on YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, Facebook.
[31:33] Speaker 4: And that's the name our three dads are three dads.
[31:36] Speaker 4: All right, guys. You you heard it here. You can
[31:39] Speaker 4: find them on YouTube. Are three dads Instagram. That's your
[31:42] Speaker 4: Instagram handled.
[31:43] Speaker 7: Too, it is TikTok amazing, Yeah all right, and they
[31:50] Speaker 7: can FaceTime you on Bow's iPad number one.
[31:53] Speaker 2: There you go.
[31:55] Speaker 1: So much, have a wonderful rest of your day, and
[31:58] Speaker 1: you any time you'd like you so much.
[32:03] Speaker 4: Good luck.
[32:05] Speaker 1: All right, that was a lot of fun, Dolores, have
[32:07] Speaker 1: a lovely rest of your day. If you guys out
[32:10] Speaker 1: there aren't following us on social media, please do at
[32:12] Speaker 1: by order of the faithfuls on Instagram dm us any
[32:15] Speaker 1: questions you might have or any guests you'd like us
[32:18] Speaker 1: to have on We'll be back again in one week
[32:22] Speaker 1: recamping episode four and five.
[32:25] Speaker 3: I think that's what we're on right now.
[32:27] Speaker 1: Yeah, and these ones are very juicy, so make sure
[32:31] Speaker 1: you do not miss it. Dolores, I love you bye,

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