# We Love a Lap Dance (RHOA Recap)

An episode of [Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1477524410), 16 Jun 2026, 47 min.

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Dolores starts off by giving her thoughts on RHOC’s opening titles. Why is Tamra not in the middle?! What is the truth behind Kandi and K. Michelle’s history? We need to do a deep dive! Plus, find out which housewife did not bug us this episode…for once! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:02] Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and tam
[0:06] Speaker 1: Ridge Edge.
[0:11] Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome back to another episode of Two Teas
[0:13] Speaker 2: and a Pod with myself and Dolores.
[0:15] Speaker 1: Good morning, Dolores, good morning. How are you. I'm good?
[0:19] Speaker 1: I am good. Oh good, Oh, I'm so good.
[0:23] Speaker 2: It was Spencer's twenty sixth the birthday yesterday, so we
[0:28] Speaker 2: went out to dinner. Nice Sophia and her boyfriend and
[0:32] Speaker 2: Spencer and his girlfriend. And yeah, So gonna do the
[0:36] Speaker 2: pod and then I'm gonna head out to Big Bear
[0:38] Speaker 2: for a week.
[0:39] Speaker 1: Nice. So I'm going to do the pod and then
[0:43] Speaker 1: I have to hurry up and get ready because my
[0:45] Speaker 1: niece is having her wedding today. Her marriage. Her party
[0:50] Speaker 1: is like next week.
[0:52] Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, hold on, She's having the actual ceremony
[0:55] Speaker 2: today because.
[0:56] Speaker 1: I was a ceremony. Because where she's getting married. We're Theresian.
[1:00] Speaker 1: We got married is the Park Chateau. It's beautiful, amazing,
[1:03] Speaker 1: there's a chapel. My mother is not okay with them
[1:07] Speaker 1: not getting married in a church, so today they have
[1:09] Speaker 1: to get married in the church. I have my paper.
[1:14] Speaker 1: I have to get up and read. I will be reading.
[1:17] Speaker 1: I hate nothing more than speaking in public. Couldn't you tell?
[1:20] Speaker 2: Really, I wouldn't think that you're the one that's like
[1:27] Speaker 2: full of advice, always helping people out.
[1:30] Speaker 1: Like like public speaking. I have run off stages, they did,
[1:36] Speaker 1: so I've turned down awards. I did so bad at
[1:39] Speaker 1: the last award. I got that people like I were
[1:43] Speaker 1: like this when I got off, throw tomatoes at you.
[1:45] Speaker 1: Just kidding. No, my I was sweating, my glasses were
[1:48] Speaker 1: coming down, I know what I was saying.
[1:50] Speaker 2: Okay, so you have your niece's wedding, and then you
[1:52] Speaker 2: have your son's wedding next, and then is your daughter's.
[1:58] Speaker 2: Is there a date for your daughter's wedding?
[2:00] Speaker 1: Nobody? You want to get married in Aspen? Okay? And
[2:03] Speaker 1: is there a date for your wedding? No? No, what
[2:07] Speaker 1: do you mean? No? No, there's just so much, too
[2:10] Speaker 1: much to get through. Well, I also have my niece,
[2:12] Speaker 1: my son, my daughter who wants to get married it
[2:15] Speaker 1: seems quicker by the day, and my nephew, my nephews
[2:19] Speaker 1: also getting married, lots of wedding, my sister's son, my
[2:22] Speaker 1: sister's my other sister's daughter. I'm one of five, so
[2:24] Speaker 1: there's always something a lot. It's a lot. Oh, my goodness,
[2:29] Speaker 1: a lot of money. Yeah, thats good money.
[2:33] Speaker 2: There's nothing less for me. So how are you acclimating
[2:37] Speaker 2: to filming and all that? Are you exhausted all the time?
[2:40] Speaker 1: I'm so tired.
[2:42] Speaker 2: It's a lot. People don't understand. It's a lot. Well,
[2:45] Speaker 2: I'm glad you are in the heat of it. Now,
[2:47] Speaker 2: what are you like three weeks in four weeks in filming?
[2:52] Speaker 1: Is that all?
[2:53] Speaker 2: I don't know, but you have Do you film the
[2:55] Speaker 2: same schedule as us, like three months usually?
[2:58] Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like about that. Yeah, around there, take or
[3:01] Speaker 1: give a week, give or take. Yeah. So, yeah, we're
[3:06] Speaker 1: gonna see. I think it's going really good. I'm so
[3:09] Speaker 1: excited that it was a good chemistry.
[3:11] Speaker 2: What did you think about the trailer.
[3:16] Speaker 1: Orange County? I cannot I think I feel like for
[3:20] Speaker 1: me if I'm just being my like, is it the
[3:23] Speaker 1: best trailer ever?
[3:25] Speaker 2: I love the old lady scene. It was so oh
[3:27] Speaker 2: you do I don't know. I mean I filmed it,
[3:29] Speaker 2: so I know what we did. So when I see it,
[3:32] Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, that's good. But to other people that haven't,
[3:36] Speaker 2: you know, had no idea, like is it like does
[3:38] Speaker 2: it draw you in?
[3:39] Speaker 1: Does it like, oh my god, draw me in. It did.
[3:41] Speaker 2: A lot of people are saying it's like old school housewives.
[3:44] Speaker 1: That's what I felt like, and that's what we all
[3:47] Speaker 1: long for.
[3:48] Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I thought it. I thought it was good.
[3:51] Speaker 1: It was great. I was you know, I was a
[3:53] Speaker 1: little surprised at the opening title. You have Shannon and
[3:57] Speaker 1: Vicki in the middle. Vicki's just back right, Yeah, I
[4:01] Speaker 1: mean Vicky obviously because she's the you know, she started
[4:04] Speaker 1: the Franchi longest. But it's never by seniority, it's not.
[4:08] Speaker 2: But because this is like the like I'm not gonna lie,
[4:10] Speaker 2: I was a little bit disappointed. I think this is
[4:12] Speaker 2: like the twentieth season of the show, you know what
[4:15] Speaker 2: I mean, and it was the original show.
[4:19] Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean I don't know. It's like how
[4:22] Speaker 1: long has so there's how long has Shannon?
[4:27] Speaker 2: Like twelve years? I think, okay, yeah, and you're how
[4:30] Speaker 2: long sixteen? So it's not by seniority, clearly.
[4:36] Speaker 1: I'm just saying, yeah, we need to figure that out. Yeah,
[4:40] Speaker 1: not by yet, Yeah, but I can't wait. So we
[4:43] Speaker 1: have like never defines just like where you sit on
[4:47] Speaker 1: the couch, it never defines who you are or what
[4:52] Speaker 1: kind of housewife you are?
[4:53] Speaker 2: Yeah, so we are recapping Atlanta.
[4:59] Speaker 1: Yeah, talk about that on episode eleven. You know, I
[5:03] Speaker 1: did you see Cynthia Bailey on Watch happ Inside? She
[5:07] Speaker 1: looks amazing.
[5:09] Speaker 2: I didn't see it because I was out to dinner
[5:11] Speaker 2: last night, but I saw just pictures, you know, clips,
[5:15] Speaker 2: and she looked great. And she was on with uh
[5:19] Speaker 2: Kelsey right or Alicia Alicia Alicia Cracker Cracker who is
[5:23] Speaker 2: now we find out making her own Cracker line. But
[5:25] Speaker 2: we'll get to that when we recrap. Recrap We Rhode Island.
[5:32] Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's hilarious.
[5:34] Speaker 1: That's a start. That's a fucking perfect name. Crap. Oh
[5:39] Speaker 1: my god, yes, so good? See what menopause? You know?
[5:51] Speaker 1: All right, listen up the Jonahs brothers here. Our podcast
[5:54] Speaker 1: is called Hey Jonas here. Since everyone has a podcast,
[5:56] Speaker 1: we wanted to as well, and we've had some incredible
[5:58] Speaker 1: guests so far. And now our good friend Nile Horne
[6:00] Speaker 1: is joining the show.
[6:01] Speaker 3: I was going, boys, hey, Nile, the same thing with
[6:03] Speaker 3: slow hands. Slow hands is not about anything else, really,
[6:05] Speaker 3: isn't you know? Or or tastes so good, comfy about food?
[6:09] Speaker 3: You do the same, Nick, But some of the stuff
[6:11] Speaker 3: that you've done.
[6:11] Speaker 2: You too, Joe, drop what you're doing and listen to
[6:16] Speaker 2: Hey Jonas on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts or wherever
[6:20] Speaker 2: you listen to your podcasts. So we are at Lake Bailey,
[6:33] Speaker 2: So Cynthia chats with Shemiah about her issues in the group.
[6:36] Speaker 2: Shemia then expresses her stress that the surrogacy won't take it.
[6:41] Speaker 1: She expressed, yeah, I don't think it's me. I think
[6:45] Speaker 1: if somebody comes at me, I hit back, No, it's not.
[6:47] Speaker 1: Because Cynthia is like, well, maybe do you have something
[6:50] Speaker 1: else going on? Then it might be the reason that
[6:53] Speaker 1: you seem to be mad or whatever it was on
[6:56] Speaker 1: eduing to on edge, Yeah, and she said no, and
[7:00] Speaker 1: then they went into the serrogacity. Yeah.
[7:02] Speaker 2: Well, Cynthia said, like, Chimia is usually a really good time.
[7:06] Speaker 2: Do you think that Shimiya seems off this season or
[7:10] Speaker 2: is she She's definitely acting different. Do you think she's
[7:14] Speaker 2: like pumping it up for TV purposes? Because this is
[7:17] Speaker 2: only her second full time season, right, So what do
[7:20] Speaker 2: you think is going on with her?
[7:22] Speaker 1: I think she's herself always, you do, because I feel
[7:26] Speaker 1: like last year she was there was a softer side
[7:28] Speaker 1: to her for a short time. For a short time,
[7:35] Speaker 1: because I still go back to the time she was
[7:39] Speaker 1: sitting across from portion. She was not bending. She was
[7:43] Speaker 1: like you didn't want me hearing and not showing up
[7:46] Speaker 1: from me, all these things, and she was not soft
[7:50] Speaker 1: in that conversation by any means. Yeah.
[7:54] Speaker 2: Well, she brings up the private text messages between her
[7:56] Speaker 2: and Porsche that were exchanged last year, now Sami were
[8:01] Speaker 2: shared with that.
[8:02] Speaker 1: Was like the catalysts to their issues. Yeah, he did
[8:07] Speaker 1: share them and that was wrong. I can't remember what
[8:10] Speaker 1: they were. It was over her seeing a therapist over
[8:12] Speaker 1: the divorce. Oh shit, yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no
[8:17] Speaker 1: no no. Yeah.
[8:19] Speaker 2: Well, Smia distancing herself from the cast and not inviting
[8:22] Speaker 2: everyone to a party like it was good for her
[8:25] Speaker 2: if they're not getting along, Well, she didn't invite a
[8:28] Speaker 2: lot of people to the party. I just feel like
[8:30] Speaker 2: when you do that, it's just not good, Like bring
[8:35] Speaker 2: it into the party, like.
[8:36] Speaker 1: That's that we're paid to do.
[8:38] Speaker 2: Like, if you have an issue with somebody, then bring
[8:39] Speaker 2: it to the party.
[8:40] Speaker 1: It's an easy it's an easy.
[8:42] Speaker 2: Time because you already have problems, Like come on, give
[8:46] Speaker 2: it to us.
[8:47] Speaker 1: Well in order to do that, you have to make
[8:51] Speaker 1: up with the person. It doesn't make sense to invite
[8:54] Speaker 1: someone to your party who you're actively fighting with.
[8:58] Speaker 2: Yeahs any her fight with Porsia that big of a
[9:02] Speaker 2: deal At this point, I just feel like they are
[9:04] Speaker 2: just ignoring each other or just being cordial to each other.
[9:08] Speaker 1: They're like avitating.
[9:09] Speaker 2: Yes, Yeah, so I don't see why she didn't invite Porsia.
[9:17] Speaker 1: Maybe there's some you know, you know those friends that
[9:20] Speaker 1: all of a sudden you think there was never a problem,
[9:23] Speaker 1: but underlying, they really hated you for a long time.
[9:27] Speaker 2: Yeah, and I know that you probably absolutely loved when
[9:30] Speaker 2: Shamiya asked for a lap dance from Cynthia. You know
[9:36] Speaker 2: me so well, my girls, Now, she only did that
[9:39] Speaker 2: because didn't Shamiya give Cynthia like some lap dance or something.
[9:44] Speaker 1: Well, I know that when Kelly was getting her teeth done,
[9:46] Speaker 1: Samia also gave her a lap dance. Ladies, there's another
[9:51] Speaker 1: occupation you could do where you could get to do
[9:53] Speaker 1: that all the time and get paid a lot of
[9:55] Speaker 1: money for it to Well.
[9:56] Speaker 2: Don't you feel like she's trying to show off her
[9:58] Speaker 2: new ass.
[10:00] Speaker 1: We've seen it all, yea, every all the bits and bobs.
[10:07] Speaker 1: We've seen it all.
[10:07] Speaker 2: I mean that skirt she was wearing when she was
[10:10] Speaker 2: showing Kelly the house, I mean, it was like this big.
[10:13] Speaker 1: It was body sanity. It is insane. I mean, God,
[10:18] Speaker 1: bless girl. I wouldn't be mad at anybody if I
[10:22] Speaker 1: look like that, but I do. You can, you can
[10:29] Speaker 1: well listen, you can, because I've also paid for many things.
[10:33] Speaker 1: I still don't look like that, So don't worry. It
[10:36] Speaker 1: all falls back to where it started after time. Don't worry. Shameya.
[10:41] Speaker 1: But but yeah, she is stressed over the sarrogacy because
[10:46] Speaker 1: this is really their last chance at a boy. And
[10:48] Speaker 1: I feel for her, and I hope that, you know,
[10:52] Speaker 1: it's up to God. I feel, you know, I have
[10:55] Speaker 1: to give up. I give things out of our control
[10:57] Speaker 1: up to God. And I know that she is a
[11:00] Speaker 1: spiritual woman, so I hope that it's got to be hard.
[11:04] Speaker 2: I mean, I've never had those struggles, so I can't.
[11:07] Speaker 2: You know, I relate to it, and I think that's
[11:09] Speaker 2: one of those things that you don't fully understand it
[11:12] Speaker 2: unless you've gone through it. But as a mom, that
[11:14] Speaker 2: had to have been very, very difficult, and one chance left.
[11:20] Speaker 1: One chance left that's kind of you know, when you
[11:22] Speaker 1: have you know, the stakes have never been so high
[11:25] Speaker 1: for her. Yeah. So yeah, but hey, all the luck
[11:30] Speaker 1: to them. Yeah. Well yeah.
[11:33] Speaker 2: At lunch, K tells Pinky that Shmia keeps saying I
[11:36] Speaker 2: want to be your friend, but nobody in Atlanta wants
[11:39] Speaker 2: me to be.
[11:40] Speaker 1: That's not a way to say something. No, I mean,
[11:44] Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't like that.
[11:46] Speaker 2: That's like when you get like DMS going, I don't
[11:49] Speaker 2: care what anybody says.
[11:50] Speaker 1: I like you. It's like fuck off, Yeah, fuck off,
[11:56] Speaker 1: people hate you, but I like you. It's like that
[11:59] Speaker 1: makes and feel number one so bad. Yeah. And I
[12:06] Speaker 1: if someone ever starts a conversation with me like that,
[12:11] Speaker 1: I immediately don't like them. I immediately, you know.
[12:20] Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, I don't like it, but it
[12:23] Speaker 2: really And she goes, which bothers her, which rightfully so
[12:26] Speaker 2: would bother her. So Pinky was talking about how nine
[12:29] Speaker 2: thousand dollars came out of her account and she's like,
[12:33] Speaker 2: I don't know what it was.
[12:35] Speaker 1: It was maybe food for the restaurant. Yeah, you got
[12:39] Speaker 1: to keep an eye on things, you kind to know,
[12:42] Speaker 1: maybe you know, we all have to really be knowledgeable
[12:47] Speaker 1: with our money, all of us, everyone listening, teach it
[12:51] Speaker 1: to the next generation. I mean, there's so much you
[12:54] Speaker 1: just it's not things. Life is different now. It's a
[12:57] Speaker 1: lot more complicated than either putting your mind in the
[13:00] Speaker 1: bank or in the fucking mattress. There's like so much more.
[13:05] Speaker 1: There's loans and this and that, and bills and things
[13:09] Speaker 1: we subscribe to and rip offs and all these things.
[13:13] Speaker 1: Every day I feel like, and I don't do it
[13:17] Speaker 1: because it just gave just gives me an anxiety every day.
[13:21] Speaker 1: We need to check our bank accounts every day. I
[13:23] Speaker 1: feel it takes a second, Yeah, just to make sure.
[13:27] Speaker 2: What's your thoughts on them sitting there kind of making
[13:30] Speaker 2: fun of Drew like Pinki's like Drew should do cruise ships.
[13:33] Speaker 2: I think they're making fun of like her singing and
[13:35] Speaker 2: then keys like Drew put out AI music.
[13:39] Speaker 1: What does that mean? Was she singing AI when she
[13:42] Speaker 1: did the Star Spangled Banner?
[13:44] Speaker 2: No, like that was her real voice.
[13:47] Speaker 1: I don't know.
[13:48] Speaker 2: Maybe, I mean I would imagine AI music is a
[13:51] Speaker 2: lot like auto tuned or something.
[13:54] Speaker 1: Is that the new way to auditor?
[13:56] Speaker 2: I honestly do, because there is like literally AI music
[14:00] Speaker 2: that people just create like that.
[14:02] Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, like you could listen to the
[14:05] Speaker 1: disco and the soul version. Yeah yeah. Well here's the thing.
[14:10] Speaker 1: I liked Ky Michelle in this episode. She was speaking
[14:13] Speaker 1: in full sentences. She was she wasn't like, I don't
[14:17] Speaker 1: read between the lines. Yeah, not this in this lunch,
[14:21] Speaker 1: in this scene, I'm sorry, I don't want it down.
[14:24] Speaker 1: I liked her saying saying what that you know, she
[14:29] Speaker 1: spoke exactly what happened she said. She didn't say, well,
[14:34] Speaker 1: she said something and then it was something like this,
[14:37] Speaker 1: and that's why I'm mad. And then it was another
[14:39] Speaker 1: thing that was said, and that's why I'm mad.
[14:42] Speaker 2: She knows me when she talks. So Kay says I
[14:44] Speaker 2: don't want to hear about candy coated nights, And I'm like,
[14:48] Speaker 2: what is she talking about?
[14:49] Speaker 3: What?
[14:49] Speaker 1: Why? Why did she say that?
[14:52] Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know, that's what I'm saying.
[14:54] Speaker 2: I'm like, I get so confused. I'm like, wait, what
[14:57] Speaker 2: is Kay have beef with Candy for?
[14:59] Speaker 1: Like? What did that have to I don't know. I'm sorry,
[15:02] Speaker 1: I'm super confused. Well, I mean, one thing I have
[15:06] Speaker 1: to say is I understood her interaction at the club with.
[15:14] Speaker 2: She's mom and what she's she's like she would have
[15:17] Speaker 2: forgot about that.
[15:18] Speaker 1: I don't know. Mom was like that what her tits
[15:20] Speaker 1: up to her neck and can't Apparently Candy's a friend
[15:25] Speaker 1: with people from Love and Hip Hop. That's Ky Michelle
[15:29] Speaker 1: that Cay Michelle doesn't get along with Ca Michelle holds
[15:33] Speaker 1: he Here's the thing, Cynthia said last night, I watch
[15:36] Speaker 1: What Happens Live that Ca Michelle is a great addition.
[15:41] Speaker 1: She's she's entertaining for me, she is, for sure, but
[15:45] Speaker 1: is it good for k Michelle? It's good for me?
[15:49] Speaker 1: I like watching her other than the frustration of her
[15:51] Speaker 1: not just coming out and saying what she means. But
[15:54] Speaker 1: then there's the good scenes, and then you know, there's
[15:57] Speaker 1: she's very honest about her very personal life. Not too
[16:01] Speaker 1: many people are like that on these and she has
[16:04] Speaker 1: been very much so it's been very very honest. She's
[16:08] Speaker 1: showed emotion and vulnerability. But is it good for her?
[16:13] Speaker 1: I don't know. Is it good for us? Hell? Yeah? Yeah? Well.
[16:19] Speaker 2: Porsia talks about how she's dating two people, and she
[16:23] Speaker 2: and Mike agree to continue to think take things slow.
[16:26] Speaker 2: Porsche tells him that her biological timeline is running out.
[16:30] Speaker 1: Now.
[16:32] Speaker 2: Porsche has said she doesn't want to have another kid.
[16:35] Speaker 1: So here's the thing, here's the thing. He wants a
[16:39] Speaker 1: little people. She went or shea said it on a stage,
[16:44] Speaker 1: and that's how he found out. So he came over
[16:47] Speaker 1: to have that conversation.
[16:48] Speaker 2: I feel like about dating two people.
[16:52] Speaker 1: Yes, Now he's like, so what's everybody talking about now?
[16:59] Speaker 1: Sway knew there was somebody else involved. Yeah, she told her. See,
[17:04] Speaker 1: there's this Jersey rule. Number one knows about number two,
[17:09] Speaker 1: Number two knows about number one. How does it go?
[17:13] Speaker 1: Number one?
[17:14] Speaker 2: Number three doesn't know about the rest? Let's kidding, Yeah, exactly.
[17:17] Speaker 2: I could never do that. I couldn't date like multiple
[17:20] Speaker 2: people me neither. It's not my personality. I just think
[17:25] Speaker 2: it'd be so hard. Well it's more of a free
[17:28] Speaker 2: spirit kind of thing, right, but I don't know. I mean,
[17:32] Speaker 2: it's just a different thing. I good for her, Good
[17:36] Speaker 2: for her, and she said she's taking things differently this
[17:39] Speaker 2: time and if it works for her, she's made it
[17:42] Speaker 2: very clear she will not be having more children and
[17:44] Speaker 2: her I don't know why biological timeline running out means anything,
[17:49] Speaker 2: because it's not a consideration so I.
[17:50] Speaker 1: Don't know why she said it, but I guess because
[17:53] Speaker 1: she didn't know what to say after he's just finding
[17:55] Speaker 1: out she's dating a woman.
[17:56] Speaker 2: Also, Yeah, and the producer asking Porschawash doesn't have a doorbell,
[18:04] Speaker 2: and did she say, like, because the door is glass,
[18:06] Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't think the doorbell goes on the
[18:08] Speaker 2: actual door goes on the wall outside.
[18:11] Speaker 1: Well, the doorbell is steel. She's the doors steal They
[18:15] Speaker 1: know how to find me if they want me. And
[18:18] Speaker 1: my door is glass and it doesn't keep people out
[18:21] Speaker 1: with steel and bulletproof. They melted through. Well, it wasn't
[18:26] Speaker 1: bulletproof yet. Now we have bulletproof, but they melted the glass.
[18:29] Speaker 1: If they had bulletproof glass in your house, now I
[18:32] Speaker 1: do really well. They came with a blowtorch, are you serious?
[18:38] Speaker 1: And they melted our door like the lock or the
[18:42] Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, when I was at the
[18:44] Speaker 1: Radio Knights party in Rhode Island, we got a call
[18:48] Speaker 1: they had a blowtorch. They came to the door. They
[18:52] Speaker 1: so the alarm wouldn't go off. They melted the glass
[18:55] Speaker 1: and just pushed it through. But see, we have so
[18:58] Speaker 1: many alarms that cops, we're here in four minutes. We
[19:01] Speaker 1: have lasers when we leave. Oh God, don't fuck her
[19:04] Speaker 1: out at your house. But now they're not getting through
[19:06] Speaker 1: because no, nothing's getting through that door. Yeah. You know
[19:10] Speaker 1: who did not bug me this episode? I do Kelly?
[19:16] Speaker 1: She was. I loved her this episode. I feel bad
[19:21] Speaker 1: for her. I do too. I do too.
[19:24] Speaker 2: She wasn't really insulting anybody. She was just like laying
[19:28] Speaker 2: it out there.
[19:29] Speaker 1: She had to move going through so much.
[19:32] Speaker 2: Have you ever had a neighbor that didn't like you filming?
[19:36] Speaker 1: Well, they can't like it. The trucks are in front
[19:39] Speaker 1: of their driveway, and this and that I have.
[19:42] Speaker 2: We we runted our house out, moved to a house
[19:46] Speaker 2: down the street because I wanted a pool and I
[19:47] Speaker 2: don't want to build one in.
[19:48] Speaker 1: This house, so bought a house over there. You moved
[19:51] Speaker 1: just for a pool.
[19:52] Speaker 2: Yeah, I wanted a pool. I just wanted like this
[19:57] Speaker 2: was always Eddie's house. I wanted to buy a how
[19:59] Speaker 2: I bought it myself. Actually this house we kept this one.
[20:02] Speaker 2: I bought the other house and then we were there
[20:05] Speaker 2: like ten months. It was the biggest nightmare house of
[20:07] Speaker 2: our life.
[20:08] Speaker 1: Stop it. It had leaks.
[20:10] Speaker 2: The neighbor was a pain in my ass and everyone
[20:13] Speaker 2: could ruin your life. The other neighbor, it was like retired.
[20:18] Speaker 2: He was a retired baseball player, not very old, but
[20:21] Speaker 2: the music was pomping all the time. I'm like, we
[20:24] Speaker 2: got to get out of here. We just got to
[20:25] Speaker 2: get out. And we weh tailed it out of there,
[20:28] Speaker 2: I mean ten ten months, and then we moved to
[20:30] Speaker 2: Codo and then we didn't even live in it ten
[20:33] Speaker 2: months because it took us months to remodel it.
[20:36] Speaker 1: Did you sell it quick? Yeah? Okay, did you make money? Yep?
[20:41] Speaker 1: Did all right, So it wasn't a loss. Wasn't a loss?
[20:44] Speaker 2: No, But that's the worst when you have a neighbor
[20:46] Speaker 2: like some neighbors are.
[20:47] Speaker 1: No, a neighbor can assault at her. Listen, she had
[20:51] Speaker 1: to go, but how about me? Is a See this
[20:55] Speaker 1: is where I get confused. She's such a good friend
[20:59] Speaker 1: to kell, to Kelly, Like letting her live there till
[21:04] Speaker 1: she gets on her feet is a big deal. Do
[21:07] Speaker 1: you think is it for free? Yeah?
[21:10] Speaker 2: Yeah, so Shamia just has a rental house.
[21:12] Speaker 1: It's empty. Yeah, she's just listen, she's very well off
[21:19] Speaker 1: as we can see, and she's letting her in, so
[21:24] Speaker 1: that can be very happy.
[21:26] Speaker 2: It could be a recipe for disaster too.
[21:29] Speaker 1: It's never friendship from me.
[21:30] Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's it's nice that you can let
[21:33] Speaker 2: somebody stay in your house that you know needs help.
[21:37] Speaker 1: At the moment. A million times they always wind up
[21:40] Speaker 1: turning if the dog destroys something, or you know what
[21:44] Speaker 1: I mean.
[21:44] Speaker 2: Like, I'm like, i'd be crazy about that. That's why
[21:49] Speaker 2: I don't rent out our house in Big Bear. I
[21:51] Speaker 2: don't want anybody putting a scratch on my cabinet. I
[21:54] Speaker 2: don't want anybody scuffing up the walls.
[21:56] Speaker 1: Some people resent you for helping them in the end.
[22:00] Speaker 2: Oh really you think so?
[22:03] Speaker 1: Sometimes people resent you even though you go to do everything.
[22:08] Speaker 1: There's also a part of them that resents you that
[22:11] Speaker 1: they had to take that from you, and they turn
[22:14] Speaker 1: on you. Yeah, I could see that. I've dealt with
[22:18] Speaker 1: that in the end. I've dealt with people who I've
[22:21] Speaker 1: let live in my spare room and at the end
[22:25] Speaker 1: of the day, not nice. Not nice, And it's happening
[22:30] Speaker 1: and more, It's actually happened several times to me.
[22:35] Speaker 2: Really, yeah, stop helping people out.
[22:38] Speaker 1: Oh that I stopped letting people live in my home
[22:42] Speaker 1: when my kids were smaller. You know, you're lonely sometimes too,
[22:47] Speaker 1: and it's a vulnerable time and you make decisions based
[22:50] Speaker 1: on that, and it wasn't always the right decision.
[22:54] Speaker 2: Yeah, we have a casita and we've had multiple people
[22:58] Speaker 2: stay in it.
[23:00] Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I that's fine, but not it's fine.
[23:03] Speaker 2: But why because Eddie put his office in there?
[23:07] Speaker 1: Okay, well, listen, I always wanted to help people when
[23:11] Speaker 1: I could, even when it was hard for me to
[23:12] Speaker 1: help people. But not everybody deserves that.
[23:16] Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't mind somebody staying in the casita
[23:19] Speaker 2: as much as them staying inside the house.
[23:23] Speaker 1: Oh, the casita is amazing. Yeah, it's nice, got its
[23:25] Speaker 1: own entrance. I don't actually like using other people's things.
[23:29] Speaker 1: It would be the app so loot last last resort.
[23:35] Speaker 1: I feel very uncomfortable taking from someone at my worst
[23:39] Speaker 1: of times. But then we'll get to more. Because the
[23:43] Speaker 1: girls seemed to be coming together for her, there was
[23:45] Speaker 1: a lot of good hearted sisterhood and camaraderie in this episode,
[23:50] Speaker 1: despite every other episode that we've seen.
[23:54] Speaker 2: I mean, normally, all they're doing is like insulting each
[23:56] Speaker 2: other's looks, making care of their bodies, doing all that,
[24:00] Speaker 2: which is it's getting old.
[24:01] Speaker 1: It's just old. It's you know, like, come on, ladies,
[24:05] Speaker 1: we need to be more intelligent and come up like
[24:08] Speaker 1: say fuck you, but right, don't like make fun of
[24:12] Speaker 1: somebody's body like they even in comments.
[24:15] Speaker 2: I've seen comments where people are like that's all they
[24:18] Speaker 2: do is like put each other down.
[24:21] Speaker 1: Well not in this episode. And I think Angela when
[24:25] Speaker 1: we see such, you know, needs her friends more than
[24:28] Speaker 1: ever right now, because it's a year coming up on
[24:30] Speaker 1: her mom passing away. And I remember us talking about it.
[24:32] Speaker 1: I'm like, we didn't know exactly when she did. I
[24:35] Speaker 1: think it came out later after at the reunion. It
[24:38] Speaker 1: was the reac yeah, yeah, and she was like on
[24:43] Speaker 1: the bench with her brother. She's going through it. She's
[24:46] Speaker 1: taking it very hard. She's got to you know, and
[24:49] Speaker 1: and then she's got you know, she's dealing with that.
[24:53] Speaker 1: And then she's upset that her daughter did not share
[24:56] Speaker 1: with her brother gives her a talk. You know, we
[24:59] Speaker 1: not only she falling up part of her daughter, but
[25:00] Speaker 1: her brother wants her to say, the younger kids need
[25:03] Speaker 1: to know their sisters married.
[25:05] Speaker 2: Wait, so that's so, did she just like run off
[25:08] Speaker 2: and get married she eloped? Okay, how old is she
[25:13] Speaker 2: old enough?
[25:14] Speaker 1: She's old enough? Okay, yeah, yeah, she looked very pretty girl.
[25:17] Speaker 2: Is this the first time we're seeing her brother? I
[25:19] Speaker 2: don't ever remember seeing them on the show before.
[25:22] Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know. But they are very close.
[25:24] Speaker 1: They have beautiful family pictures. I love old family pictures.
[25:29] Speaker 1: And they were dressed beautifully and very close and little
[25:33] Speaker 1: and cute, and you know, I just I feel for her.
[25:38] Speaker 1: I feel like, you're never ready to lose your mom.
[25:40] Speaker 1: I know you're just never ready for that. And the
[25:43] Speaker 1: Moss was there, lucky. We're so lucky to have our parents. Yeah,
[25:47] Speaker 1: we really are. So, you know, it was an emotional
[25:53] Speaker 1: talk because you know the thing with Angela is she's
[25:57] Speaker 1: so monotone. She can handle anything. Everybody could come at her.
[26:01] Speaker 1: They could go after a marriage, they can go after
[26:03] Speaker 1: her husband. She she keeps the coolest very upset about
[26:07] Speaker 1: her daughter getting married. Last season or the season, yeah,
[26:10] Speaker 1: last season when she spoke to her daughter and she
[26:12] Speaker 1: was like, you know, I needed to know that. I
[26:15] Speaker 1: think she's still very hurt about that. And then the
[26:19] Speaker 1: mother just breaks her down. That's where that's her achilles heel.
[26:23] Speaker 1: That's where she goes how sad. But but like again
[26:28] Speaker 1: like talking about the camaraderie, then you have like Phaedra
[26:32] Speaker 1: is now taking care of Kelly. Well, I didn't know
[26:35] Speaker 1: Faedra still is practicing. She has a law firm. I
[26:39] Speaker 1: didn't know that.
[26:41] Speaker 2: I thought that Phaedra was more in like entertainment business
[26:44] Speaker 2: and not like the funeral home. I didn't know she
[26:46] Speaker 2: was still practicing as an attorney.
[26:49] Speaker 1: Well, she has her life, she can always practice.
[26:51] Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but she's doing it pro bono, which
[26:54] Speaker 2: is really nice. Kelly's getting, you know, a lot of
[26:56] Speaker 2: help from her castmates. She's gotten a town home to stay.
[27:00] Speaker 2: I'm happy and she's doing She's tapped out, Yeah.
[27:05] Speaker 1: She's Kelly's tapped out, and I feel like, how much
[27:10] Speaker 1: more can this girl take? It's a lot. It's like
[27:13] Speaker 1: a lot. So I feel bad because you've been there,
[27:18] Speaker 1: and I've been there, and you feel like you're drowning,
[27:22] Speaker 1: like literally like just keeping your head above water, and
[27:26] Speaker 1: then you have the kids to worry about and everything else.
[27:30] Speaker 1: But listen, I'm glad to see everybody rallying for her
[27:35] Speaker 1: and helping her in the way that they can.
[27:38] Speaker 2: Yeah, so she's helping her out, but they it wouldn't
[27:40] Speaker 2: be housewives if they didn't do like a flashback of
[27:42] Speaker 2: Cynthia telling Phadri years ago to win a case.
[27:47] Speaker 1: Just win a case. Listen, it's free. She's not going
[27:52] Speaker 1: to lose. You know.
[27:54] Speaker 2: Phaeder had talked about, you know, we need to go
[27:57] Speaker 2: to court to try to get your kids to film.
[28:00] Speaker 1: That's a hard one.
[28:01] Speaker 2: I tried to do that in the earlier days when
[28:03] Speaker 2: I was going through divorce and all that. And what
[28:05] Speaker 2: they do is what they did to us, is like
[28:08] Speaker 2: we have to each one of the kids have to
[28:10] Speaker 2: go through an evaluation. You have to go through an evaluation,
[28:13] Speaker 2: almost like a psyche evaluation, to see if this is
[28:16] Speaker 2: a good fit for the kids to be on a
[28:19] Speaker 2: reality show. And most of the time the judge will
[28:22] Speaker 2: say yeah, if the husband doesn't want them, then it's
[28:24] Speaker 2: probably not great.
[28:27] Speaker 1: It's out of your hands. It's out of her hands.
[28:30] Speaker 1: I don't think she's going to get fired because the
[28:32] Speaker 1: kids aren't filming. Okay, that's how I feel about it.
[28:35] Speaker 1: I really don't.
[28:36] Speaker 2: She has one kid that can film and everything she's
[28:42] Speaker 2: going to do.
[28:43] Speaker 1: What are you going to do with kids her age?
[28:44] Speaker 1: We got to watch them do their homework. Look you know,
[28:47] Speaker 1: like we're good. But she did her job. She did
[28:49] Speaker 1: her job since the minute she took she took down
[28:52] Speaker 1: the she she went after she did take her down.
[28:55] Speaker 1: She went after the og right out of the box,
[28:57] Speaker 1: and people didn't turn on her for it.
[29:00] Speaker 2: So as job security, I mean, Phage is a lot
[29:03] Speaker 2: nicer than I would be because Kelly never really apologized
[29:06] Speaker 2: for calling her whack.
[29:08] Speaker 1: So carry on because someone called you whack. Pha is
[29:16] Speaker 1: also promoting her law practice.
[29:18] Speaker 2: That's how I see it too, because I personally I
[29:21] Speaker 2: didn't know that she was still a practicing law.
[29:23] Speaker 1: I didn't even know she's law Kelly Ohs or something,
[29:26] Speaker 1: you know, not really what to me, Kelly, Kelly owes you.
[29:30] Speaker 1: That's the way I am. You do something for me.
[29:32] Speaker 1: I owe you ten times more than what you did,
[29:34] Speaker 1: absolutely you. And I want to see something for free.
[29:37] Speaker 2: I want to see the funeral parlor or whatever it's called,
[29:39] Speaker 2: the mortuary.
[29:40] Speaker 1: The SI. I want to see that. I don't it's
[29:43] Speaker 1: interesting to me. I don't go watch Uh do you
[29:47] Speaker 1: watch those documentaries? I know? I just started. It's all
[29:51] Speaker 1: Teddy staff does an interest basic God forbid. Someday when
[29:54] Speaker 1: I have to I am in no mood to see
[29:56] Speaker 1: it anytime sooner.
[29:58] Speaker 2: Did you know who Montel Jordan was, Well, Montel Jordan's
[30:01] Speaker 2: is singer.
[30:02] Speaker 1: Yeah. They seem like a really nice couple. Yeah.
[30:07] Speaker 2: Yeah, So they're talking about their issues. I mean, if
[30:10] Speaker 2: your husband can't help you not file bankruptcy, why would
[30:15] Speaker 2: you not let him?
[30:18] Speaker 1: Because she said exactly what it is, he will be
[30:22] Speaker 1: financially strapped if he gives me what I need not
[30:25] Speaker 1: to do this.
[30:27] Speaker 2: I agree with her on that. I agree with her,
[30:29] Speaker 2: and she's been viiling personally right, not professionally.
[30:33] Speaker 1: I don't know about that shit. I don't know anything
[30:35] Speaker 1: about that stuff. I don't want to ever know about it.
[30:39] Speaker 1: Whatever it is it is, but she's not taking it.
[30:43] Speaker 1: But he was nice enough to ask, and that's what
[30:45] Speaker 1: means everything to me. He was nice enough to offer
[30:48] Speaker 1: without her having to ask. Yeah, and I respect that,
[30:52] Speaker 1: and I think he's a great guy. And I don't
[30:54] Speaker 1: even know why they're on marriage counseling for that, because
[30:56] Speaker 1: I don't know too many people that would even offer
[30:59] Speaker 1: their wife a freaking our day off compliment whatever.
[31:04] Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I think because she he found out after
[31:08] Speaker 2: the fact that she already met with a bankruptcy attorney,
[31:11] Speaker 2: and he's remember when they were taking their walk a
[31:13] Speaker 2: few episodes ago, like, well, why didn't you tell me?
[31:15] Speaker 2: Why don't She does not want anybody's help.
[31:19] Speaker 1: No, then don't give it to her. Nobody has to
[31:22] Speaker 1: beg you to help them. You don't want it. Fine, Fine,
[31:25] Speaker 1: you're good, Go do your thing, you know better, have
[31:28] Speaker 1: a nice day.
[31:41] Speaker 2: Then we get to lunch with Angela, Porsche, Phedra, and Cynthia.
[31:45] Speaker 2: Faja jokes that she invited Kay Michelle and everyone's like,
[31:50] Speaker 2: I was like, no, I'm just joking. I love when
[31:52] Speaker 2: Fada does her little snarky little jokes and stuff. She's
[31:56] Speaker 2: got the best like one liners in her confessional.
[31:58] Speaker 1: I doubt came Michelle would be. I'd know right away
[32:01] Speaker 1: that was a lie, because if Kay Michelle didn't get
[32:04] Speaker 1: the right invitation, she wouldn't take a secondary invitation from
[32:07] Speaker 1: someone who you know.
[32:09] Speaker 2: Yeah, well, evidently this like public appearance that Porstia did
[32:13] Speaker 2: really like triggered some people. So Drew gives the Girls
[32:16] Speaker 2: radio sidekick to tease. So, was this the first No,
[32:21] Speaker 2: it wasn't like the Was it the first time she
[32:23] Speaker 2: announced that she was dating a girl? Did the Girls
[32:26] Speaker 2: on the show. Not know is this how they found
[32:29] Speaker 2: out the girls on the show.
[32:30] Speaker 1: I feel like she brought Sway in as filmed, but
[32:36] Speaker 1: I don't know where my appearance was. If you showed up,
[32:40] Speaker 1: you you introduced me to one of your friends, I
[32:42] Speaker 1: wouldn't think you were a lesbian with her. You just
[32:45] Speaker 1: said she's your friend, and I believe your show. Oh yeah,
[32:48] Speaker 1: she's your friend. I mean you weren't with her.
[32:51] Speaker 2: No, I get that Sway films and everything, but I
[32:53] Speaker 2: just don't know when those public appearance was.
[32:56] Speaker 1: Did it happen before filming? We watched it, she watched it.
[33:00] Speaker 1: She came to a party early on. It was a
[33:02] Speaker 1: week you know, I know that. I know that.
[33:04] Speaker 2: I'm saying, when did porcha do this public appearance where
[33:09] Speaker 2: she announced she was dating two people?
[33:12] Speaker 1: Oh? It was at some so whatever it was. She
[33:16] Speaker 1: was on stage, and you know, if there's an audience
[33:18] Speaker 1: in front of you, it's getting out. Apparently that's how
[33:22] Speaker 1: Mike found out. But of course Sway was already very
[33:26] Speaker 1: in tune with everything.
[33:28] Speaker 2: So I take it we're not going to get any
[33:30] Speaker 2: Ralphs this year because we saw the dark Hole to
[33:34] Speaker 2: the basement.
[33:35] Speaker 1: It's like an abyss right, it's almost oppressive.
[33:39] Speaker 2: We don't see him.
[33:40] Speaker 1: Why not, though? Is he refusing to I don't think
[33:43] Speaker 1: they would not want him to. Let me tell you.
[33:46] Speaker 1: The tension between those two through the TV is like, wait,
[33:52] Speaker 1: I have a question. Have we seen Drew's kids this season? No?
[33:59] Speaker 2: So we haven't seen her kids and we haven't seen
[34:00] Speaker 2: her husband. So it leads me to believe that maybe
[34:03] Speaker 2: he didn't sign for them to film the season.
[34:05] Speaker 1: Well he didn't either. Maybe he felt that he didn't
[34:10] Speaker 1: like the way he looked last season. Yeah. Probably, it's
[34:16] Speaker 1: such a tumultuous time for them, and it's gotta be
[34:20] Speaker 1: like horrible list in that basement. He's not homeless if
[34:25] Speaker 1: we're looking at the basement. He's not toothless. He's not
[34:28] Speaker 1: He's not like you know, remember when Alicia had a
[34:31] Speaker 1: move in her grandparents' apartment, she said she's homeless. I
[34:34] Speaker 1: want to call Ralph homeless.
[34:36] Speaker 2: Now he's got a basement, he's like, might as well
[34:41] Speaker 2: be under the stairs like Harry Potter. But didn't something
[34:45] Speaker 2: happen like with their divorce where she moved out and
[34:48] Speaker 2: he has the house?
[34:48] Speaker 1: Now?
[34:49] Speaker 2: Am I making that up? I feel like something happened.
[34:53] Speaker 2: I don't think so in the courts, No, I don't
[34:55] Speaker 2: think so.
[34:56] Speaker 1: Where did I hear that? Then I could be wrong.
[34:59] Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that she was had to move out
[35:02] Speaker 2: and then he got the house. But then it got
[35:03] Speaker 2: reversed and she's back in the house. I don't know
[35:06] Speaker 2: if he's still in the basement.
[35:07] Speaker 1: I don't know.
[35:08] Speaker 2: I would just want to get out of there if
[35:09] Speaker 2: I was him.
[35:11] Speaker 1: Why it's cheap, cheaper to be there, I'm sure, I
[35:15] Speaker 1: guess nice, he gets to see his kids. I don't
[35:17] Speaker 1: want my ex husband to be like living in the
[35:21] Speaker 1: same Not sure she doesn't want him there either, But
[35:24] Speaker 1: for him it's no skin off his back.
[35:26] Speaker 2: So Pinky throws the eighties skating party. I've always wanted
[35:30] Speaker 2: to do a skating party on the show.
[35:32] Speaker 1: I've done. Margaret broke her wrist, I know, and had
[35:35] Speaker 1: to get screws in her freaking arm and surgery and
[35:38] Speaker 1: got up like nothing happened.
[35:40] Speaker 2: So Portia, who did the eighties skating party, also did
[35:44] Speaker 2: an eighties for The Ultimate Girls Trip, So she did
[35:49] Speaker 2: had two eighties parties in one year.
[35:52] Speaker 1: I mean, eighties parties just never get old. I hate
[35:56] Speaker 1: the eighties. You hate hate the hate. Ask my children,
[36:00] Speaker 1: because you.
[36:00] Speaker 2: Jersey people are still in the eighties.
[36:03] Speaker 1: I've never been in the eighties. I never band styles.
[36:08] Speaker 1: That that's true, but no that I fucking hated the
[36:12] Speaker 1: eighties styles till this day. I look back and I'm like,
[36:15] Speaker 1: it was horrible, horrible.
[36:20] Speaker 2: But we'll never see anything like that again.
[36:23] Speaker 1: I never want to. And I hate eighties parties and
[36:25] Speaker 1: I hate eighties music. Unpopular opinion. Ask my children, really,
[36:30] Speaker 1: who like mom talk to me about the eighties? I
[36:32] Speaker 1: graduated high school in nineteen eighty eight. No, I don't
[36:36] Speaker 1: want to talk about the I don't want to talk
[36:38] Speaker 1: about my tight pants. I don't want to talk about
[36:41] Speaker 1: my high hair. I don't I'm gonna. I'll send you
[36:44] Speaker 1: a picture, Guys, if you want to.
[36:47] Speaker 2: Who do you think had the best eighties outfit?
[36:50] Speaker 1: I can't even remember if they were wearing the stars
[36:52] Speaker 1: as eighties outfit. They you don't understand. You don't understand that.
[36:59] Speaker 1: Take the whole eighties out of my life. So what
[37:04] Speaker 1: size is your foot? Nine and a half? Now? Ten?
[37:07] Speaker 1: Paul bought me a paradult Chinku band sneakers yesterday, nine
[37:10] Speaker 1: and a half. They didn't fit.
[37:11] Speaker 2: Wait you're you're part of the big foot club.
[37:15] Speaker 1: I'm the big foot club.
[37:16] Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're five foot three, but I'm sure
[37:19] Speaker 2: like the bigfoots. I'm six and a half or seven.
[37:22] Speaker 2: Nobody can knock you down. Your feet are so big.
[37:24] Speaker 1: I used to trip over my own feet all the time.
[37:27] Speaker 1: How are your feet so big? I don't know. I
[37:29] Speaker 1: was supposed to be tall. I have a sister who's
[37:32] Speaker 1: got an eleven foot if you are a guy, but
[37:35] Speaker 1: not no, my sister's five ten size foot eleven. Wow.
[37:40] Speaker 2: So you got the height in the longness and the feet,
[37:43] Speaker 2: but you didn't get the height. If you were a guy,
[37:46] Speaker 2: you'd have a big wiener.
[37:48] Speaker 1: I know a short guy. I know. They say you
[37:52] Speaker 1: measure from your wrist to your elbow. No, bitch, wow wow.
[38:01] Speaker 2: Well they are teasing Angela saying I might be wrong
[38:03] Speaker 2: about the loan. Yeah, leave Angela alone. About her feet.
[38:07] Speaker 2: She's what six foot tall? She would look ridiculous with
[38:12] Speaker 2: size seven feet.
[38:13] Speaker 1: She wouldn't be able to stand over synth six foot tall.
[38:17] Speaker 1: She has to have big feet. Yeah.
[38:20] Speaker 2: I mean, they're like, she brought her own skates.
[38:23] Speaker 1: Here's your thing. I don't think she did. Yeah, yeah,
[38:25] Speaker 1: she did, and probably because maybe I don't want to
[38:29] Speaker 1: get athletes foot like I did from my pedicure. Oh yeah,
[38:34] Speaker 1: that wouldn't be That wouldn't be good. It's not fun,
[38:38] Speaker 1: is what happens? Your feet inch? Oh so bad? Burn bitch.
[38:43] Speaker 1: I thought I was dying. I'm like, I don't go
[38:45] Speaker 1: to gyms, I don't walk around. I never let my
[38:48] Speaker 1: feet touch the ground because I'm so have I don't
[38:51] Speaker 1: want to feel the ground on my feet. Never never love.
[38:56] Speaker 1: I wake up, I'm like, am I dying? Are my
[38:59] Speaker 1: feet burning?
[38:59] Speaker 2: All?
[39:00] Speaker 1: What is wrong? Why is? It? Woke me up? And
[39:03] Speaker 1: then it hit me. It went on for about a week.
[39:05] Speaker 1: I'm like, I would never have athletes's foot, There's no reason,
[39:08] Speaker 1: like Paul, take a picture at the bottom of my foot.
[39:10] Speaker 1: So I called Brian, doctor Brian from God. They helped me.
[39:16] Speaker 1: I'm sorry, well's stop? Was it? Phaedra?
[39:19] Speaker 2: They had the little kids walking things, Katie like to
[39:23] Speaker 2: go around the ring.
[39:25] Speaker 1: Phaedra and Kay and you know what at the end
[39:28] Speaker 1: of the day. First of all, the party started off
[39:30] Speaker 1: with everyone rallying around Angela for mourning her mom and
[39:35] Speaker 1: helping her through this hard time, and that beautiful picture
[39:39] Speaker 1: beautiful picture flowers. Everyone thought of her, everyone checked in
[39:43] Speaker 1: on her. Then we have this is the sisterhood I
[39:46] Speaker 1: like to see and the camaraderie. Then we have Kelly
[39:51] Speaker 1: was you know, she's finally someone's taken the weight off
[39:54] Speaker 1: her a little bit, giving her a place to live,
[39:56] Speaker 1: her and her children in Cha cha. And then we
[40:00] Speaker 1: have you know, Fhadra helping her with her divorce. So
[40:05] Speaker 1: I really love this. The party everybody had, yeah, it was.
[40:09] Speaker 1: It was a good episode.
[40:11] Speaker 2: And the fact that everybody was rallying around, well, most
[40:14] Speaker 2: people are rallying around everybody, but you know, in the past,
[40:18] Speaker 2: all it is is, like we said, like the whole season,
[40:22] Speaker 2: so constant, constant.
[40:24] Speaker 1: It's like, it's nice to see, you.
[40:26] Speaker 2: Know, a nice moment, yeah, with them helping each other.
[40:32] Speaker 2: Then we have Portia organized in her closet, Dennis tells
[40:36] Speaker 2: Porsha that she doesn't need and then there's like a
[40:39] Speaker 2: knock on the door because there is no doorbell, And
[40:42] Speaker 2: this whole scene was kind of sad, right, disturbing.
[40:47] Speaker 1: She was okay, right, she was so upset. She was
[40:53] Speaker 1: mad at production.
[40:54] Speaker 2: Did you see her like yell at him, like at them,
[40:57] Speaker 2: not yelled, but.
[40:58] Speaker 1: She's like, did you know did you know crying?
[41:01] Speaker 2: She was talking to production when she's like, did you
[41:03] Speaker 2: know Dennis is bringing the ring?
[41:06] Speaker 1: She's like, that's not right, you guys, that's not right.
[41:09] Speaker 1: Sometimes it's not nice, Like does he put on a
[41:13] Speaker 1: spot like that? She's like, you gave me this ring twice? Twice.
[41:17] Speaker 1: You broke my promises. Don't you dare fucking bring this
[41:19] Speaker 1: ring back? You're bringing it back now. She asked him
[41:22] Speaker 1: for it whenever, and you know why. He came in
[41:27] Speaker 1: and he started it off with why are you talking
[41:29] Speaker 1: about your dating life in public? She said, because I can. Basically,
[41:33] Speaker 1: do you think.
[41:34] Speaker 2: That these two still care about each other because it
[41:36] Speaker 2: feels like.
[41:37] Speaker 1: She's crying like she's a daist camera. Yeah, she wouldn't
[41:43] Speaker 1: be so upset.
[41:44] Speaker 2: Maybe she just has life unless she's mad at him.
[41:46] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[41:47] Speaker 2: Well, it starts out, guys, where she's organizing her closet.
[41:49] Speaker 2: Then there's a knock on the door and it's Dennis,
[41:52] Speaker 2: and I love the dentist is filming, I really do.
[41:55] Speaker 2: He tries to give her back her engagement ring in
[41:58] Speaker 2: a Cardia box.
[41:59] Speaker 1: And was it a Cardier diamond? I don't know. I
[42:03] Speaker 1: don't know good. It was beautiful. Hey girl, take the
[42:07] Speaker 1: ring and throw him out. Well that's what I'm saying.
[42:09] Speaker 1: Just take a god down. What are you doing?
[42:11] Speaker 2: Take the ring? Hold it for your daughter. He's not reproposing,
[42:16] Speaker 2: is he?
[42:17] Speaker 1: Well he said you give it to polar Well guess what, sweetheart,
[42:21] Speaker 1: if another girl comes and he wants to give that
[42:24] Speaker 1: ring to somebody else a longer way than he can.
[42:28] Speaker 1: You had it in your hand, You've asked for before.
[42:32] Speaker 1: She was so shocked, I think, like for what he
[42:36] Speaker 1: was trying to do, Like she's just trying to get
[42:38] Speaker 1: on her feet. She's going She's like, I was going
[42:40] Speaker 1: through a divorce, going through this, try to get my
[42:43] Speaker 1: life settled, and you throw this on me? Do you
[42:45] Speaker 1: know what? What do you care Portia? What do you
[42:48] Speaker 1: still care? From then we got another conversation half.
[42:51] Speaker 2: Do you think that he was trying to manipulate her?
[42:53] Speaker 1: Like bring the ring? Was he trying to men sometimes?
[42:58] Speaker 1: Was it performative? I don't want to did he did?
[43:01] Speaker 2: He just wanted on the show. It was just so
[43:03] Speaker 2: out of the left field, like he.
[43:04] Speaker 1: Just shows really was And she had every right to
[43:07] Speaker 1: be mad. I don't blame her for being mad.
[43:09] Speaker 2: And I'm like, did the production crew know that they
[43:11] Speaker 2: were going to bring the ring?
[43:13] Speaker 1: Like he was going to even know that they did.
[43:17] Speaker 1: They probably shit themselves when she got nervous and mad.
[43:21] Speaker 1: They probably got so nervous they're like, we're in trouble. Yeah.
[43:25] Speaker 2: Well, she was yelling, She's like, did you guys do
[43:28] Speaker 2: like she it was sad, like she was clearly triggered
[43:30] Speaker 2: by the whole thing, but she made a mistake.
[43:33] Speaker 1: She should have took that ring. Well, when you get
[43:36] Speaker 1: upset like that, and she was visibly, gutterably viscerally upset,
[43:47] Speaker 1: she was to the core her. And she's like, what
[43:51] Speaker 1: she said spoke volumes. You're the trauma, not that the drama.
[43:56] Speaker 1: I like that. So he must have really hurt her.
[44:00] Speaker 1: Sounds like it. Yeah, that's that's like a deep hurt.
[44:05] Speaker 1: And she was mad. I think you know what I
[44:07] Speaker 1: think she was mad about. I'm gonna tell you. She
[44:10] Speaker 1: was mad about I'm finally getting on my feet, which
[44:14] Speaker 1: he doesn't like. And you got this at me, you
[44:17] Speaker 1: want to pull me back in.
[44:19] Speaker 2: So well, she even admitted she's like, I'd love nothing
[44:24] Speaker 2: more than for Polar to have her parents back together,
[44:27] Speaker 2: but it's not gonna happen.
[44:31] Speaker 1: Listen, he's a problem. He's a problem. And you know
[44:35] Speaker 1: he was a little bit disloyal filming with Drew when
[44:38] Speaker 1: she asked him not to. Mm hmmm, that was not
[44:43] Speaker 1: so great. I feel like they still have a certain connection.
[44:49] Speaker 1: I think that they have unfinished business between the two
[44:51] Speaker 1: of them, judging by him not wanting her to move
[44:54] Speaker 1: on and her getting upset that he gave the ring.
[44:58] Speaker 1: But I think that she still needs more time to
[45:02] Speaker 1: get herself settled. It takes a long time to get
[45:04] Speaker 1: over something, a really long time to think straight. She
[45:08] Speaker 1: might not even make.
[45:09] Speaker 2: She got straight, then got divorced, and a lot happened.
[45:13] Speaker 2: It's not like they just split up.
[45:16] Speaker 1: I have felt that recently, and I'm fifty five and
[45:20] Speaker 1: I've been through shit and shit and shit. I have
[45:23] Speaker 1: felt that for some reason lately, I feel a difference
[45:27] Speaker 1: in myself.
[45:28] Speaker 2: I feel you're getting soft on us.
[45:31] Speaker 1: No, I'm getting I feel like more sensibly thinking. I
[45:38] Speaker 1: feel like my self worth and value is more apparent
[45:44] Speaker 1: to me, like what I think that I deserve and
[45:48] Speaker 1: what I expect from people. To get far less of
[45:51] Speaker 1: a people pleaser, I'm becoming. Yeah, you're more concerned with
[45:54] Speaker 1: your own well being, which is good. I still want
[45:57] Speaker 1: to please people, yes, but I feel like were things
[46:02] Speaker 1: where I wouldn't say anything. Now I'm open in my
[46:05] Speaker 1: mouth and that's been happening lately. And I'm not getting
[46:08] Speaker 1: a good budget.
[46:09] Speaker 2: We're gonna get a different Delories this season, aren't we.
[46:15] Speaker 1: I don't know if it's confidence. I don't know if
[46:17] Speaker 1: it's the stability I have now. Yeah, probably not just
[46:21] Speaker 1: with Paul, with my independent stability. All the things I
[46:25] Speaker 1: worried about that were so heavy on me that I
[46:28] Speaker 1: see what Kelly's going through, worried about the kids, worried
[46:30] Speaker 1: about finances, all the things that I've always worried about
[46:34] Speaker 1: that kept me down that are now settled are making
[46:39] Speaker 1: me feel stronger about my self forth. Yeah. Well, so
[46:44] Speaker 1: on that note, ladies, I hope you don't take as
[46:46] Speaker 1: long as I did to find my voice and my
[46:48] Speaker 1: self worth. It was nice.
[46:50] Speaker 2: It was a nice episode to see everybody rallying and
[46:52] Speaker 2: we got personal story and it was, you know, kind
[46:54] Speaker 2: of a sentimental emotional episode which we needed.
[46:59] Speaker 1: So good job, good job girls, Yes, good job girls.
[47:03] Speaker 2: And yep, so guys, thank you again for tuning in
[47:05] Speaker 2: to another episode of to Teas and a Pod.
[47:07] Speaker 1: We'll see you soon, See you soon,

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