# 211. Una Primeriza Comparona \[ft. Katherine Collado\]

An episode of [El Club de las 4AM](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1474473624), 1 Apr 2024, 1 h 02 min.

Audio: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59239490/club_4am_katherine.mp3

Hoy junto a Katherine Collado alias la comparona, hablemos de ser mama primeriza siendo figura publica y desmontemos mitos de belleza en el embarazo. Quedate con nosotras.

## Transcript

[0:00] Today together here there is an alias the comparator. Let' s talk about
[0:03] being a first- time mom, making a public figure, and dismounting some
[0:07] beauty myths in pregnancy. Stay with us welcome to the tob of the four
[0:19] of man where we talk about the beautiful. I am not politically not so
[0:22] correct about motherhood on this side or towards sea Moon cos coas. We'
[0:28] re trying to survive her life two thousand twenty- four or WOW. After
[0:33] you my love has been and I never say two thousand so much again surprise
[0:37] me. No. I don' t want anything to surprise me. Please,
[0:40] because this year has been about three more and I feel like it'
[0:43] s been two centuries between months Wow for nothing. Mom, of the two
[0:46] most apple hebites of the earth phase, six- year- old Joseph manteus
[0:50] and my Luki had an earthquake category two recently, Wow, I discovered something
[0:58] similar. I wouldn' t have been born first. I would have been
[1:03] the mother of one, only he would have been the only child. Thank
[1:10] you, sir, for being so smart. Because, oh, Lord Jesus,
[1:15] I didn' t know that a people had so much suicidal distinct in
[1:19] port, so small. I mean, Your Honor, I can' t
[1:22] explain the carajito pods, that is, he sleeps perched. I found him
[1:25] the other day perched in bed, sleeping half a body, in bed,
[1:30] half a body, the pin but I love him to a pimp. But
[1:33] wow, wow, my Lukie wow, or anything on my right. The
[1:38] most beautiful, the most beautiful, the one that has perfected the grany Sexy
[1:45] Luke. Of course, I' m the one who baptised you, a
[1:49] grandmother. That one didn' t and yesterday that you put up a thing
[1:53] of an elleno coat, I said yes, then you got out of my
[1:57] coconut budget. It' s a little doñita trapped in another thirty- four
[2:01] year old' s body. No. No, no, no, no,
[2:04] you' re like Princess Diana, my po is dying of the other
[2:10] days and fral like the doña that is 80- year- old Doña B.
[2:15] Great view, she beautiful black I he came in a mix like that.
[2:22] Oh, okay, thank you. I love those two people, too.
[2:25] Hi I' m Monica, I' m mom from my Gali thing
[2:30] and Lucas from or nine seven six years old for five, not five,
[2:38] ay, but vams to I two so waits thanks to a nine pinteledad so
[2:45] they' re out of the blue three very sorry guys who have me very
[2:52] officiated are so cool and the age of million nine squal so that one can
[2:55] have conversations and be has a mini niger and I also remember so much of
[3:00] my life. Nine years old, you remember, nine years old, yes,
[3:01] I think so, I, yes, I remember that or nine,
[3:06] that' s serious thir exactly aha comes as just what comes before you discover
[3:10] that life isn' t so fun anymore. It' s true, like
[3:15] your last year of full absence. Although I wanted to go to Santa Clo
[3:20] as well as to the twelve years already a lot of the pampa there and
[3:23] to me it happened that my birthday nine I remember perfectly, that is like
[3:27] the birthday that I remember most and remember or a show in my house,
[3:32] but it was from those birthdays that they put smoke a here why not more
[3:39] than one birthday. Or you as an archestine Paris, but in your house,
[3:45] in my house, and it was like we did a showid tallen I
[3:47] remember I sang the locky of i mean t h Lockey of the Breakney che
[3:52] Soult mck a, Lance chess sp Shic Cras Cris Chris Wow. That song
[4:01] already paid for a year. Well over here, exact nicoles. Thank you,
[4:06] because already in my house or that my petito two thousand thirty- three,
[4:15] the two thousand thirty and more and more. I don' t understand
[4:17] myself. I' ve never laid that reference. Yes pal ate that is
[4:20] to add it pa literal not if you' re going to count the hobbies
[4:27] that I exactly not how it ends up dancing now, but well, Javi
[4:31] ' s mom, it' s good for me almost eight six. I
[4:36] have a problem with this because already for me, since between the year I
[4:40] think they are already the age that I would be like this. Yeah,
[4:44] I want us to meet in December. I feel good, but at first,
[4:47] that' s like April and May, and I' m really saying
[4:50] that you' re not a seven- year- old anymore, an eight
[4:55] - year- old boy close to logis or whore, I' d rather
[5:00] have a kid stay. But nothing. Gentlemen, before we start, someone
[5:02] ' s got a tanton, he' s got me for a while.
[5:05] Take seven two thousand twenty- four. That' s it, yes,
[5:10] I' ve already designed two thousand twenty- four. It' s the
[5:13] huntrum amber wow. Really wow. He has one in specific life my love,
[5:18] really done, I think I think my tantru me like me all week.
[5:24] I think next week' s gonna be softer and it' s like
[5:27] the opposite of me, like Monica, after it happens this week, you
[5:30] ' re gonna take it easy next week. No, no, I have
[5:33] a question. The preind moey ends at some point in your life, because
[5:36] math already has six milan I give seven, gentlemen, that dory On Frack
[5:41] is a hand paint of your personality. You don' t get it.
[5:45] I think you' ve always had him. Mommy Brent maybe not, no,
[5:47] no, I mean, I' m a real dor my being I
[5:50] know and I am. She' s my soul mate lost in the temple,
[5:55] but crazy, she' s strong, active, no, no,
[5:59] no. I too am not even aware that today we have to know what.
[6:02] Well, I don' t agree in half Ok, you know a
[6:08] greeting there for schools that Easter lasts like two weeks, why they do,
[6:14] why Easter starts on Monday, why the school has to poop on a Thursday
[6:18] and has to be interested in bearte, i e learn your school we took
[6:24] out the last nine. Yes, but my school has another week, next
[6:28] week' s vacation. No, but there' s a mari that says
[6:32] why. Why, for example, they make us not ok back to Tuesday
[6:35] because there is professor' s clausus and says but why. We met on
[6:39] Monday on a party news item, i e, they met on Friday.
[6:44] Ant, I mean, really. I think the hour tests need full vacations
[6:49] myself for their work too. You knew yes, but the tummy teachers soon
[6:55] so they could pay for your cume. Then it doesn' t matter the
[6:59] tests hours. I need a lot of cow. I agree, but why
[7:01] does it, yes or I love, what is the retima. Reister,
[7:05] you know I understand you, we understand you, we support you, and
[7:10] I' ve never judged you or you can have so much vacation and you
[7:13] get hit in high school. You' re in my nican crazy moment.
[7:15] I think the guest who' s here today, I love her, has
[7:17] to be one of the fans of the artiemp podcast not or I do love
[7:23] to get married. You' re sa, I tell her how your va
[7:27] is very prepared to be the pandemic. I never forgot an episode of you
[7:30] packing for the clinic when you' re going to give it and I wasn
[7:34] ' t engaged. I mean, I was in my house making beaty lap
[7:41] drive, hearing what' s going on for the clinic, and I'
[7:45] m ready for the buttons, the supper, I figured it out, Stone
[7:50] and I, like, you' re resounding so much now that it'
[7:55] s amazing, and if it' s the bully already clear, well,
[7:58] ah ok no, okay, I, I think I know that. No.
[7:59] I think that steppe that Milan literally grabbed me to sando sweet potato you
[8:03] remember, I have found myself in the clinic and I did dream And I
[8:05] have like Bobbia thinking that I' m going to give birth before it'
[8:11] s like, not premature, but I feel like I' m not going
[8:13] to get to my doubt and I have like two days telling it to César
[8:16] é Serra. I' m going to pariah before like I think it'
[8:18] s like three days before you want, not that the doubt is not like
[8:22] the thirty- nine week, not forty to forty, but I' m
[8:24] going to give birth like the thirty- seven, like I can already.
[8:28] I said they can' t do it any more at any time, like
[8:31] I feel like the next day they' re gonna do it. I don
[8:33] ' t have one. I have like a na to think that not preeling
[8:37] prepare yourself because I, clinic Nicole tells me and we weren' t going
[8:41] to meet today Aha and it was a game or ajam It gave me a
[8:45] dizziness and I crossed. I work in front of the clinic of the Bel
[8:48] Medio Mario. I was wrong and I said well, I' m going
[8:50] there to pass a serum. Whatever. I feel weird dad and I'
[8:54] m there and I hear the voice in the middle of Philip He writes to
[8:58] me that he gets tired, but in the amber meeting he' s giving
[9:03] birth literal and I, I mean, I' m in bed with my
[9:05] mom because I had the photo shoot. That Milan was born on a Thursday.
[9:09] The photo shoot was ah there' s that I did everything I super
[9:11] pressed in front of. There are so many things like that you have to
[9:16] do just before you leave or Paul, things I never did or killed you
[9:18] know the sixth to see when, because you have to look at the limit,
[9:22] because he has enough and I had in mind what they were going to
[9:26] do, at least at the same time of killing that went to the thirty
[9:28] - eight weeks. My mom used to tell me that I was older,
[9:30] I told you that i thirty thousand seven, thirty- six, thirty-
[9:33] six weeks and every pretty day yes, not there my or they were like
[9:37] that, they were paintings ninety- eight, I don' t know why
[9:39] fool that that is something that can happen to me, like I have it
[9:43] day thinking about it Cathrin, please, at thirty- eight, because it
[9:46] ' s cousin how beautiful your baby show to Yes I loved your sisters the
[9:48] same. I made my sister, or I' m too lin note and
[9:50] the truth because everything was like I hear I want like a garden, but
[9:54] it feels like it was an aunt who did it, like someone professional with
[9:56] few flowers then I like simple, and that people can see their faces on
[10:01] the table, because there are like events that put so much that you,
[10:05] you can' t see quintar in front of you. It' s true,
[10:07] it was beautiful and it was very you and it kind of looked like,
[10:13] like I eat you hop but it' s like it came but because
[10:16] it just feels nothing when something looks home and for me that fine you understand
[10:20] when someone knows like you brought it from my grandmother' s house, like
[10:22] I did, but I have to preciarly what I wanted and because I obviously
[10:26] don' t or that brings you a good taste. You pu dart of
[10:28] lite. That was carla. I' m not doing anything. She didn
[10:31] ' t teach me anything that just your head anymore. You' re his
[10:35] client, like his favorite kind of client, like whatever you want is that
[10:39] I have an opinion. It' s an icon, that' s a
[10:43] difficult opinion. People won' t accept it. But people say I say
[10:46] if I put a service on someone, I' m supposed to pay you
[10:46] because you know how to do something that I' m not like, what
[10:50] I' m going to do, what I' m going to do,
[10:52] what I' m going to do if I don' t know how to
[10:54] do what you' re doing, because oh no, I couldn' t
[10:56] do what you do. Guess what you' re not. Please, please,
[10:58] me as you were like, please, let' s go to a
[11:00] workshop and explain my ball. Or it was like it' s the budget
[11:03] you want, whatever you say, you' re the one you know.
[11:07] I want to be fabor, I don' t do weddings, I don
[11:09] ' t know what is important about a voice you want. But this kind
[11:11] of client doesn' t like them exactly for when you hire me to do
[11:16] you have to let me work, but what was there touches what that other
[11:20] one does too. But in the world of events they' re a unicorn
[11:24] and they' re not that good a customer, because you get used to
[11:28] the good, so when they get to a microman it' s all more
[11:31] difficult. But please, it was more like I didn' t say.
[11:35] I need you to understand how much better the clue. Like this or like
[11:37] this. So it is you who know. Put the cella you know.
[11:41] I say it that way too, you' re the one who knows what
[11:43] you want, but I love Carla. Let' s talk a little bit
[11:46] about your experience, because, as you well say, you were ready for
[11:52] motherhood, at least and information. But I was looking for you first exactly
[11:58] how you got to motherhood and, on the other hand, how, as
[12:03] you have felt, you have been like what you had expectations about pregnancy,
[12:07] what you had heard, what you had been told about machea with your experience
[12:13] and your reality. The subject of opinions is worse than, I mean,
[12:18] I was warned and I knew it was going to be bad. But it
[12:22] ' s amazing because of my close circle, no one says anything. They
[12:26] ' re all strangers who think open then, but I think because my family
[12:31] is a little scared of me. Yeah, I mean, they don'
[12:39] t know you, so they know that I' m very firm opinional.
[12:41] Then later, I kind of independed, like Catherine said no and like nobody
[12:48] ' s gonna contradict me, then with all the motherhood, like nobody'
[12:52] s told me anything, because they know and my mom gave birth twenty-
[12:56] one or two years ago, that is, she tells me I have to
[13:01] take all the course with you, because I don' t, I don
[13:03] ' t. I don' t remember there was a ban, but I
[13:03] don' t remember. So, like your Council, she knows that there
[13:07] are many things that have changed. So, and so is my mom,
[13:11] as very relax my mom is like half hippie in those things. So my
[13:16] mother- in- law, who has a newborn baby, has my sister
[13:18] - in- law that is, not newborn. Oh, his granddaughter,
[13:20] she' s a two- year- old granddaughter, that mom' s
[13:24] nothing, that' s newborn. For me she also has a two-
[13:26] year- old granddaughter, but she has her other daughter who is like super
[13:31] methodical, who reads it all, who gives her a little book, who
[13:33] checks her out, tells her everything. So, since with Daniel he learned
[13:35] to ask permission, I can' t do anything, or then they trained
[13:39] you there that' s fun. So, like nobody tells me, nobody
[13:43] and me why nobody tells me anything until they get on Instagram and everybody says,
[13:46] everybody gets in and that' s why you think it' s a
[13:48] reality, that everyone lives or something that' s about quality. I feel
[13:54] like you let things get to where you lose it. So I' ve
[14:01] heard a lot of stories because whenever I come to put my limits on my
[14:09] social networks, people write me with horrible situations, like I couldn' t
[14:13] lactate for my mother- in- law or for my mom or I couldn
[14:16] ' t. And me, but that you let yourself because I do,
[14:18] because in my house I put a tantrum and the exact problem is no,
[14:22] and in the end it was opinions that gave you. In the end all
[14:24] you give yourself yes, then I think it' s a very personality subject.
[14:28] There are people who the opinions of their parents are law, for example,
[14:33] for my husband the opinions of their father Ley and he is never against
[14:37] him, he will never do anything contrary that he says to his parents and
[14:41] I respect him very much, I mean, I knew him that way and
[14:45] he followed a lot of his parents. But I' m the opposite,
[14:46] I mean, because I tell my parents. It doesn' t mean it
[14:50] ' s right, it' s automatic, I mean, I don'
[14:52] t give it as good and valli and I automatically should, but not then.
[14:54] But I' m very much about forging my own opinions and I say
[14:58] let me get through. I want to miss myself. You look like people
[15:01] learn clearly, so, no, yeah, no, not then. But
[15:05] I' m also very airtight and very independent so that can give a little
[15:11] bit of loneliness, not loneliness, but as I isolate a little bit,
[15:16] which is the weirdest thing you' ve been told by instagram or like how
[15:18] bad everything says, you don' t look at a client in the living
[15:20] room. There' s my God I had to put up with it because
[15:22] I was a client. I told you in person. Yeah, I got
[15:26] a lot of tummy stuff like I' ve got I' ve done all
[15:28] day with my hand in my belly,' cause I don' t know,
[15:35] because I was feeling uh and you came with a little table included.
[15:37] Wow. I' m kind of holding your hand, I' m kind
[15:41] of scratching myself and I literally gave me a term hand like I didn'
[15:45] t love you and I kind of stayed cool and I was, wow and
[15:54] I was scratching you when you scratched it and it got you out and I
[15:58] was standing up and I was people and I was, I was like,
[16:02] I was wearing clothes, I had a robe on and I was like holding
[16:06] the mother in my body. Whatever, yes, exactly, you can do
[16:08] what you' re like and I' m not me and I' m
[16:11] like even asking him to notice on show like I' m feeling the baby
[16:17] that' s moving a lot. Don' t pay for it I'
[16:19] ll be watching you get out. Me and I felt all the time.
[16:22] Then that day I went to dye myself, I was outside, I wasn
[16:25] ' t like in my office. Then I took the worst mother in the
[16:27] world all the time in the living room like aha like I can' t,
[16:32] I can' t attack, but suddenly it says like that wats because
[16:34] I did do it that way, because I did this when it happens to
[16:38] you like you don' t put me the other day, you, that
[16:41] you would have said tony tol colh look there, you played a part and
[16:47] I would have said it two things, but I can' t be tampo
[16:49] lipe, because at least to me being pregnant. One of the things that
[16:51] gave me the skirt of the earth, that you came to touch me,
[16:53] that is, boumon Thuris, that is, me. If I see a
[16:56] pregnant product, I can touch you. Or I do it as people very
[17:00] close to me, to me as if it were Monica or nicoleo as you
[17:03] automatically are. Yeah, yeah, you don' t know me the way
[17:07] you care, but there' s strange people like him in time. Oh,
[17:10] yeah, yeah, it' s strong. It happened to me at
[17:11] the cattle fair. There' s a strange lady coming, and she put
[17:17] my hand in my belly. I don' t mean, I don'
[17:18] t like that God sold it. She' s a female. She'
[17:22] s a true female and I cost value is a male, not a female.
[17:27] You' ll see, you' ll remember Mecca and it Luca.
[17:30] Don' t look at that thing like that for me is so and that
[17:37] you talked about in your partner networks. I read I' ve empathized a
[17:40] lot with you. Pregnancy is so different for everyone. There are people who
[17:44] tell you that everything is extremely good, everything is extremely bad. And there
[17:48] ' s people like you get scared of pregnancy that you kind of haven'
[17:52] t been able to sleep before. You don' t know anything, I
[17:56] mean, I took advantage and rest now and I say you do. You
[18:00] know that the dream does not accumulate tonces for what advice is it? I
[18:04] feel that people who have negative experiences take advantage of it, because there are
[18:10] those who want to have a child, they can' t. It'
[18:11] s not a compstema like you don' t know that pregnancy isn' t
[18:17] so desired or so beautiful for many people. Or they have issues, for
[18:18] example, of couple that family, like your couple' s reaction changes a
[18:22] lot. And I feel that people have that desire to ventilate the bad that
[18:26] happened to them so that someone will accompany them in their misery. I'
[18:30] ve noticed that because beautiful things are very little. Those who have told me,
[18:36] that is, always come to me with a tragic story of something that
[18:40] happened to him, and I feel that that is someone looking to accompany him
[18:45] in his misery and tragedy. So when you see someone who, for example,
[18:48] has to have a very small belly, leave, let you arrive the
[18:52] week so much that after it already begins to grow. I got a bleeding
[18:56] bread. I don' t know what you' re looking at. It
[18:59] doesn' t matter that you put on cream since you gave birth that I
[19:02] know you do or don' t, that the rocks burn you as much
[19:03] as your satis is more like projecting, it' s projecting. His reminds
[19:08] you then and most give advice that you genuinely are not practical, that is
[19:17] to say, as much as someone else tells you, you don' t
[19:18] learn from someone else' s head that I believe what we want. I
[19:21] bought a lot of clothes the first quarter, because of course, for me,
[19:25] my big belly didn' t wear anything, but how many people didn
[19:27] ' t tell me. Those are things that you have to let the other
[19:30] one live them, like people have to live their own experiences and you tell
[19:33] me not to buy clothes, it' s not going to stop me from
[19:36] buying clothes, look at my box, believe me in my so. I
[19:40] ' ve tried that exactly. For example, I almost explained myself and talked
[19:42] to you once for instagram. I think I' m one of the few
[19:45] people who, literally, gentlemen, I loved being pregnant and told you about
[19:49] it. It' s the only stage of the woman' s time where,
[19:52] literally, you' re not alone. I mean, you' re
[19:56] not alone. I can never have people with you. All the time I
[19:59] was going to the, I was super cute because I felt like I was
[20:02] a blinejate and I was going to see my guy and I got excited and
[20:06] I bought him, I mean, I really really enjoyed my pregnancy, because
[20:10] there and I always did, the woman is magic to see how your body
[20:12] changes, how your body is creating an independent being and it is literally a
[20:18] pimp. At least I did well with some things that were difficult. I
[20:23] enjoyed it too because I said this woncean a lift I can get pregnant too.
[20:27] It' s gonna be different again, and I enjoyed it. And
[20:30] in that sense, sometimes you scare a pregnant woman by bombarding her with so
[20:36] much information and so much that you get scared and you say," I
[20:38] mean, I' m not going to sleep badly again" There' s
[20:40] never a baby who sleeps, there' s others who don' t,
[20:44] there' s many who do, I mean, I don' t want
[20:48] to tell you to get ready that you' re not going to sleep isn
[20:52] ' t going to change the fact that bad nights are coming and that'
[20:52] s inevitable. I mean, there are things that come with him, with
[20:55] having children that thank you, that is thanks for the information. I know
[21:00] that the baby has to eat every two hours in every three hours and I
[21:03] ' m not going to sleep more than three hours running, probably during the
[21:07] areo. But I' m gonna tell you all that. Your pediatrician,
[21:08] I' ll tell you. Imagine, logo is going to be telling me
[21:11] to get ready because of course I' m pregnant. I know that understands
[21:15] how you believe, for example, what Millo has in nine years. I
[21:18] ' m almost not going up from them, that' s like things I
[21:23] ' m doing whatever it is, because always ah but wait for him to
[21:27] be fourteen, when he' s sixteen, when he' s every fifteen,
[21:33] not the longest comment. I was organizing my closet, which is my
[21:37] office, I was doing deep cleaning and I' m organizing perfumes in a
[21:41] drawer. Lords, very high, that is to say, she' s
[21:45] the first time, or she' s almost tall, and you' re
[21:49] big, and I' m five nine, that is, she' s
[21:51] pretty tall. Let Tasting have two years that you' ll tompar all the
[21:55] waits so a girl. Yeah, yeah, I kind of either understand them
[22:00] for years or I don' t even live in that house. It'
[22:03] s just that you want me to make you not clean because in two years
[22:07] I' ll probably already give you the height that I play as if you
[22:11] say yes is like the need to say something ugly or like that yes and
[22:15] I feel that that activates with motherhood, because it never happened to me and
[22:18] let me my life do, let people feel a right to say look.
[22:22] It' s just that I feel like I' m seeing myself in a
[22:25] society that' s, like, very adult, central, because it'
[22:27] s an argument, for example, that I have with a crystal that in
[22:30] my house has made you or eight. I tell you, boy, they
[22:32] live here. My house doesn' t kill perfect. It interests me that
[22:34] they play, that they face each other, that they make room for you.
[22:37] I mean, I have a mare Your house is a mess. I
[22:41] ' ve got a kid, I' ve got a white furniture that lives.
[22:42] If you want to come clean it up, you want to help me,
[22:47] not because you want to turn the couch for a dark one. Not
[22:48] doing it would get bad when you see that I have an armchair not on
[22:52] a cream of white armchair. People. Every time I raise that chair like
[22:56] it' s possible you have. Or I was told that you have children.
[23:00] I' m three years old with the couch Then I' ve got
[23:06] a year like a dog. So having a baby I' m sorry,
[23:10] don' t be offended, but the one with a puppy, gentlemen,
[23:14] almost the same as we have at reggaero level. I' m sure you
[23:15] do. And if you take it very small, you have to go material
[23:18] to it every three hours, that is, it' s very much like
[23:22] a baby. Then we know you and I understand that everyone who listens to
[23:26] this podcast knows you. Yeah, you know your networks, but so do
[23:33] you, besides everything you are, because I know you were a lawyer.
[23:37] We agree on a better one at the Law School. Yeah, yeah,
[23:41] yeah, yeah, you don' t look and if it' s not
[23:47] a multi- faceted pear, really. But and I have almost as many
[23:49] hobbies as Nicole, uh, nothing better after a living and I don'
[23:55] t have everything right. But in addition to that, which is also more
[24:00] recently, you have specialized a lot in the subject of hair, hair care
[24:07] you are a privateist and others talk to us. A little bit about because
[24:11] I think it' s something we' ve never dealt with here in the
[24:17] podcast, about how these hormonal changes work inside a pregnant woman' s body
[24:22] and what effects you' ve already seen firsthand, not only that maybe you
[24:26] already had clients who are in pregnancy, a matter of the Act and so
[24:32] on, but as one of what happens in that sense, in that department,
[24:38] and maybe some myths that are around the topic of hair care ok Mira.
[24:44] The first thing is that you have to be very careful about who you
[24:49] take the Council and the consultations with the doctors. Something I say a lot.
[24:55] I say my gynecologist is not a hematologist. He can give me a
[24:59] generic overno if you don' t. But really the one who specializes bo
[25:03] from whether the skin doctor is the dermatologist. So, when I have very
[25:07] specific questions, I don' t ask my gynecologist, because my gynecologist'
[25:11] s function isn' t that. I have not had the skin ra before
[25:15] is another, many other things, many others. So, he can give
[25:19] me as a basic guide, for example, to skin care foods, what
[25:23] to use and what not. But very aeric. It is very generic and
[25:30] is not your responsibility to specialize in all updates and know all the cream.
[25:33] So I' m going to mediarmatologist, I say look I' m pregnant,
[25:37] I' m not. So already that dermatologist is going to do you
[25:41] as something much more specific, because they have every year congress, where they
[25:45] are updated, in the brands, in the releases, they really know that
[25:48] they do not. Much deeper, because that' s your g than so
[25:52] much sense. I wouldn' t have thought about it. I was all
[25:55] asking my money, it says," What do I know?""
[25:59] Anyone shoots" So, for example, when I got pregnant, two things
[26:04] happened to me, my eyesight got much worse and in my hair. I
[26:07] started to get dandruff and my hair started to come out. Okay. I
[26:11] already came with an earlier process. So with the subject of the view why
[26:18] I' m going to go to my gynecologist to tell you, Doctor Pay
[26:25] Blind, I already had a hoop. I' m pregnant. Actually,
[26:27] I' m two years old I' m not coming. Then help me
[26:32] k I explain to you what processes happen in pregnancy that can take your eyes
[26:36] off and explained a lot to me. He' s not being a gynecologist
[26:41] because, I mean, he' s ophthalmol is to, he can'
[26:48] t exactly in the clear a gynecologist of what' s going on, that
[26:52] changes your change. This happened to me, but I' m very good
[26:53] at going to the specialists. The Dominican is very afraid of the doctors here
[26:59] and there is much fear of I want to ask him or the doctor wants
[27:02] him to go for whatsapp. It' s a consultation like people wait to
[27:06] be dying to go to the doctor who' s serious and loves him.
[27:10] Mouth buo. They told me then, when you say who told you not
[27:14] my mom, who gave birth thirty years ago. Okay, cool. I
[27:18] ' m not invalidating, but the information is being updated. I mean,
[27:21] 30 years ago, they told you that you can' t make more than
[27:23] three eggs a week because Colestero' s gonna see you He was more materil.
[27:26] And thirty years ago, they sent babies to give him a test,
[27:30] and now it' s been discovered that they' re tedious and even more
[27:33] baromantic, they' re toxic. Exactly then. There are so many things
[27:37] that were previously for information. Then the information is being updated. Probably as
[27:41] I have seen cases of women who perhaps gave the first child was op only
[27:45] had very young or month, eighteen years old, return to thirty- five
[27:49] to have children and is another two world. Then conchalle what it costs,
[27:56] like to upgrade, as more like and a little bit more to the pair
[28:00] Then the hair and the main doubt is the dye. With medirmatologist I learned
[28:10] because with several changes I' ve had, like I' ve been,
[28:12] like my cup lacks me with pregnancy is taking care of myself. I mean,
[28:17] I make up every day. I don' t vulvo it to two
[28:21] of cove air. I fix my hair because to feel good, because it
[28:23] ' s so much change that you don' t see everything as magical as
[28:27] loving, as they say, or it takes time to assimilate. At least
[28:30] that did happen to me then the way I dealt with that was I got
[28:34] filial fear in the arranged and exact. I always started to fix myself a
[28:41] lot more for and everyone that there is the globe and I' m going
[28:44] to be enlightening you that I bought me or all the r yes I mean,
[28:48] and every time they tell me, I always raise it in my nets.
[28:49] Gentlemen, Prime Glow has been a lie to me. I' m
[28:53] going to show you what I' m doing every day so you can see
[28:56] that you can' t shake it. I carried it exactly. I did
[29:00] what I put in. I put it on then how it happened to me
[29:04] that I started getting better at what it was that woman was saying, not
[29:11] before ping, the dye thing, the guy thing, right before I got
[29:15] pregnant. I was in a transition process of removing the strong red I had
[29:21] in my hair and changing a more natural tone that would also help me make
[29:25] maintenance easier. There are times when people ask questions that I ask myself.
[29:30] You think I' d purposely publish something that I know can hurt my baby
[29:36] and recommend it. I mean, it' s kind of like that ok
[29:42] sure must be that kind of people in the world, the world and everything.
[29:45] But the hell with me, then there you go to a poor parenthesis
[29:51] of you, and you upload a story by washing yourself out of your head.
[29:52] Then Nakata' s gonna be able to go over everything,' cause
[29:56] I' m telling you, I don' t care. Really. I
[30:00] ' ve already gone to the pediatrip ro to dilavate my emma hair. If
[30:03] you want some people to go, you' ll wear it to the clinic.
[30:07] I didn' t hear it at three o' clock, sure,
[30:10] because I gave birth to sweat full yes, horrible, that is, then
[30:12] that goes up. Everything was all right generational. They told me. They
[30:15] told me. They said yes to me, and no one at any time
[30:19] questions anything she calls annoying. They kind of told you that you were already
[30:23] fucked and you assumed it was good and valid. You used google to see
[30:26] whether it was right or not. Then the dye is the first thing they
[30:30] ask you. In the skinker and in the world of beauty are things that
[30:34] are absorbed into your body, that have systemic absorption and there are things that
[30:40] do not pass from a certain layer of skin. Then what are the things
[30:45] that absorb the strongest. For example, retinol is absorbed into the hair,
[30:49] minoxidil, which is a medicine used to treat the truth hair loss, not
[30:52] to grow. It' s going to give you as a result of growth,
[30:57] but it shouldn' t be used for growth, but it' s
[31:00] os of onus against the lopecia that hair loss, all those things your body
[31:04] is absorbed in blood. So what you have to be careful with is what
[31:07] ' s absorbed in blood, because your baby can absorb it, too.
[31:11] That' s why it makes sense. Yes, exactly. What' s
[31:15] topical, that is, what doesn' t happen is that surface layer.
[31:18] You probably don' t have a problem It' s like the two big
[31:22] ratings. So what is absorbed is recommended to avoid it, not because there
[31:27] is a study that says it does harm and that the fetus is going to
[31:30] have a problem is because maybe there is not enough study. Then fix it.
[31:33] If it is not recommended to avoid. So, for example, first
[31:37] of all, I suspended retino everything that has been derived to vitaminade because it
[31:41] is absorbed. I wasn' t taking anything with minoxidil or anything against hair
[31:45] loss that has systemic absorption. Then I didn' t have to suspend anything
[31:48] there. Then anything that is a conditioner, a living mask, that you
[31:52] buy over the counter or want you to buy in a store, in a
[31:56] supply, in a seffor, in a verie lab where you want to buy
[32:00] it. Probably all that you can wear without any problem, because I say
[32:06] probably because here there are many over- the- counter products that in other
[32:10] places have a perscrippe exactly then, like minofcidil, it is over- the
[32:16] - counter, but you shouldn' t ask in that case if there are
[32:22] products that wouldn' t be recommended for pregnancy I should say so OK most
[32:30] cosmetic products that are made in Europe United States. Here is another regulation,
[32:34] but FDA that the US and Europe forgets. Hair cosmetics require FDA. Therefore,
[32:43] the label can endure many things and not necessarily. There has to be
[32:46] a study that backgd UP needs if you see most of the supplements that don
[32:51] ' t need FDA and non- dermal cosmetic products either. Most say that
[32:57] if she' s pregnant she consults with your doctor, then that leaves her
[33:01] open to you at your own risk. But most of it doesn' t
[33:06] absorb at all. No, it' s okay in principle. So with
[33:09] the dyes that happen, it doesn' t absorb it, because guess what
[33:13] color comes out of the ray when you grow it. Thanks, I'
[33:17] ll start there. Then it makes a prophytic clear sense, gentlemen, but
[33:22] questions and a little bit of this information that I didn' t try.
[33:29] Yes and many times reading the instruction is that I realize a lot of things
[33:34] and a question. They also ask because I' ve heard myself like you
[33:39] dye. Yeah, no problem, but you can' t discolor the coloring
[33:43] head that' s not gonna happen the same thing as if you' ve
[33:45] never dyed or colored your hair. Some brands have strong smells, that is,
[33:52] they have odors. There' s no way that the smells that have
[33:53] shape the one that has chemical doesn' t smell like you get a perfume
[33:59] and smell and there are people that make certain smells. They can make allergies
[34:01] or irritation. So you' ve never dyed yourself, don' t dye
[34:05] yourself, and you can get pregnant with the exact intensive values. If you
[34:07] never have redness, don' t do it the exercise exactly, then what
[34:13] happens to the scalp, you should even be more careful the dye than the
[34:16] coloring one, because it rarely discolours from the root, always at a certain
[34:22] distance to the root your hairy skin or touch the root skin. You can
[34:28] develop allergies. There are people who are allergic to dyes, to certain literal
[34:31] ingredients sometimes ammonia. There are times when there are so many things that people
[34:37] would read of that same pigment. So, if you' ve never dyed
[34:39] yourself, don' t get used to dyeing yourself. Perfect if you,
[34:44] to dye you have to take a medication that you are challenging and pregnant.
[34:46] But since I haven' t asked you exactly, but in principle, there
[34:51] won' t be any harm. You also have to go with the methodology
[34:55] you carry. I' ve been very relaxed Everyone tells me you don'
[35:00] t look like you' re first. He tells me that you ta with
[35:02] everything like you' re sick of it already. Of course I go after
[35:05] four years going to the podcast and you do because with many things I see
[35:10] as true, as albono you and I who watch technology has also advanced a
[35:17] lot. For example, who teaches me Mary dermatologist, he told me look
[35:22] who they are. In conclusion, the idea was to go with your doctor
[35:25] ' s current. There are no doctors who won' t even let you
[35:30] exercise. You' re working out. Your whole life and they tell you
[35:32] he can' t do it. Yeah, you do, yeah, there
[35:36] ' s a lot that does. Then it' s not that your doctor
[35:37] is right or wrong. That' s suff his book, that' s
[35:40] his school. Yeah, if you remember that school, you go too.
[35:44] I have a doctor who' s as relaxed as I am. So,
[35:46] when it' s worrying, it worries and when it doesn' t worry,
[35:51] it doesn' t worry then I' m leaving for that current.
[35:52] You have to go with your team, go with the current you want to
[35:55] go, either relax strictly and s n n n n ns give a pound,
[36:00] eat everything, eat nothing. From then. That' s important because
[36:05] there are people who tell me. My doctor gave me cano I dyed you.
[36:07] I' m not gonna hire you I' m never gonna contradict an
[36:12] edict what a doctor tells you that' s okay, it' s wrong
[36:15] for me to do it, don' t do it. That' s
[36:15] my problem. But as for exercise, gentlemen, we' ve seen the
[36:20] case of one that was crosfit, was that she was doing her normal crossfit.
[36:22] I mean, and that' s exactly what you' re saying.
[36:24] Every doctor has your little book, every doctor has it in his school and
[36:28] you have to follow it. And technology, gentlemen, has changed a lot.
[36:31] In my case, for example, my dermatologist was telling me the theme
[36:34] of stars is genetic and we' re not going to see. You Te,
[36:37] I can count a lot of cream. You Te, I can count
[36:38] a lot of oil and you lose the one that' s going to tell
[36:42] you if it' s going to stretch or not. If they come out,
[36:44] stretch out, gentlemen, look at the laser. I wish for two
[36:46] fragmented. It' s the final pussy, that is, she' s
[36:49] already screaming my love. You think they teach you mine don' t exist.
[36:51] There' s a smell you trust. If I' m going to
[36:53] show you the little pinky little girl, I did it to me with mateo.
[36:59] When the belly paid for it, he began to give in to Milan.
[37:02] I was overweight and I make very big tummy. Hey, when it
[37:07] goes when it' s like, when you think of a box, you
[37:09] ' re gonna realize that the belly' s coming down. That' s
[37:10] when I got stretch marks with milan I was overweight. I make big bellies
[37:15] and that thing that I increased 17 pounds the entire pregnancy came out stress.
[37:22] I went where my aesthetic doctor did the treatment of sheodo fragt mind cado.
[37:27] Gentlemen, the fucking ending. I don' t have any frightful tweezers.
[37:31] I thought that kind of got better. But in my case, for example,
[37:36] I have understood that when they are like fresh outings like roses, we
[37:40] still notice exactly. Not me, mine was white son, no and uncomfortable
[37:44] it hurts, but I made it myself. I have growth stars from when
[37:50] I too mine are like verticals, they are not even have as in places
[37:53] and in the field, since you here, in the case of dessert I
[37:58] give birth with the hair out. There my dermatologist at the time told me
[38:04] to look, there' s not much you want to do because it'
[38:07] s going out. There are some medications you can try, but there are
[38:10] people who tell me they recommended me to shoe sole. Don' t let
[38:15] me squeeze your hair choir, look, I' m gonna earn several animal
[38:17] eat it, tantalum it in your hair, you virus of caneas of itself.
[38:22] Hair growth in pregnancy is not due to prenatals, it is due to
[38:24] the progesterone that rises and your hair stays in a growth phase, that is
[38:30] you. Change has phases, growth phase, fall phase, rest phase.
[38:35] She doesn' t fall during pregnancy, supposedly because she complains to me.
[38:39] I' ve given half my head on what I' m carrying from pregnancy.
[38:45] That' s why I' m saying there can be a lot of
[38:46] cases. That' s hormonal, clearly vitamin deficient tta, that those vitamins
[38:52] can have as a side effect on hair loss, like the vitamin of three,
[38:55] the iron, the zinc that all of that sends you to take pregnant.
[38:59] If you have a deficiency and you fall for it and supplementation guesses,
[39:02] what' s going to happen, Charlock, No, you' re not
[39:05] going to stop falling hair. So, when with prenatals, when you finish
[39:10] postpartum, many doctors are recommended to continue taking. Not so you don'
[39:17] t drop your hair is because many times in the postpartum you lose so many
[39:23] things that within what you lose are various nutrients that are in the flatale That
[39:28] ' s why they have already launched postnatals. In case they didn' t
[39:30] know, that' s great. And another yes, there are many brands
[39:35] that have prenatals are launching the postnatals that are made more specific to that hormonal
[39:39] shock that comes from there and in helping you have enough nutrients for breastfeeding.
[39:45] And that said like this is specific, for example, for the hair nova
[39:50] more if clear giga etica hair asks already well, it would walk very small,
[39:55] already very agreed, but in the end the loss of hair is given
[40:02] people by the same profesterone that is returned, that is, everything that goes
[40:07] up you falls in pregnancy, in the postpard, then that hormonal shock.
[40:10] Remember that our body in women is ruled by hormones or an endocrine system that
[40:17] where all your beautiful hormors are. That' s what they don' t
[40:21] rule. It' s the women. We are cyclical, the Horite woman,
[40:23] very happy. Today we' re inflamed another day. It' s
[40:25] not very swollen one day, we' ve got livid another day. No.
[40:28] All that is regulated by our endocriminal system. Miss, for a book
[40:32] that you recommend Woman Code, Women Code, Mom read it more. Yeah,
[40:37] over there I have a theory. But already as the woman or ball,
[40:40] the granula males to the witnesses communicate I in my head trained the dwelling
[40:50] of the men is their finances. Yeah, really. It' s true
[40:58] what' s forty. You already know when they' re in monanza.
[41:01] It' s all right. It' s yes, it' s signed,
[41:04] conf It' s already men' s hormones. No, but I
[41:06] have that theory. Let me know if you guys have any big men sniffing
[41:08] around your house. Bully women are gonna think about it. But well,
[41:13] this is governing our beautiful endo grino system that there are many functions and everything
[41:17] else We have not been taught to care for our hormones and to know them.
[41:23] That should be a class at school for women. I feel that part
[41:28] of the kind of reproduction of all that clear human drinking stuff, must include
[41:35] that. Unfortunately, not and it is very complex. I' m studying
[41:38] it now because half the way it' s pregnancy. Thank you for that
[41:40] I say maye pulpio and I to the stop there we go to some title
[41:46] that brings the tasting. Let' s see why then I have suspended it,
[41:50] because between the trips, the room and the aches that I have been
[41:54] given, now I have come down. But I' m good at it.
[41:57] The point is that, since they don' t teach us, we
[42:00] forget all that process that goes through our body and we say that you already
[42:07] prenatalize and you as Framinas. I dropped clear love, because every body is
[42:09] different from me. In pregnancy I didn' t put my hair on pretty,
[42:14] in the first trimester I got dandruff, I fell on locks then stopped
[42:15] falling And now I' m with a Bebehears that I look like I'
[42:22] m eight months postpartum, that is to say I look like a rising sun.
[42:27] Then all that moved him and I didn' t give birth. Don
[42:30] ' t even tell me they' re the parana. Tarle please, of
[42:32] course, you have to give up, there' s something baby hera stick.
[42:36] I don' t pigeon that doesn' t explode. I gave you
[42:37] the money, I cut it out and it says happy clear and leave them
[42:44] and comment or you have incomn. It can happen from month three to month
[42:46] twelve postpartum, that is, you from three months postpartum until the baby is
[42:50] year old. You may be suffering that loss. Why it could last longer
[42:54] if you developed, for example, postpartum depression, the same lack of dreams
[43:00] are many other factors that make the hair go out more or make it more
[43:05] chronic the process. So there are a lot of things that we talked about,
[43:13] about opinions, about family pressure. You feel bad, mood swings and
[43:15] emotional issues channel a lot of partner issues around. There are people who,
[43:22] after giving birth, suffer from a separation, suffer from many situations that affect
[43:25] you emotionally. All that makes you come out, agne, come out,
[43:30] dandruff, change your hair, that is, it' s nothing more than
[43:32] the blessed pasilla. Even I had an armonic release and I noticed because of
[43:37] a mini depression that gave me that I said that everything coughed up a developed
[43:43] teacher depression. If you have vitamin C deficiency, for example, everything has
[43:46] been connected exactly. So ideal is if there are pills that are supplements that
[43:53] are basically vitamins that your body needs for your hair, your skin and can
[43:59] be your dreams. They are also in optimal condition, which is iron,
[44:02] zinc part of the vitamin B group. But it' s very difficult for
[44:07] someone to have vitamin B deficiency, which is where biotin, complex B,
[44:13] etc comes from. I already said vitamin D three and then, if you
[44:21] ' re going through auto- immune diseases, it' s obviously providing for
[44:27] recording and auto- immune diseases also damage your autoimmune system. So there you
[44:32] have to take vitamin D three resbratrol and it also does so there are other
[44:37] supplements. There are many people who are anti- supplement, say they have
[44:40] all the food and have pleasant breakfast eat mashed potatoes with cheese and have dinner.
[44:45] There' s no zero prophesy in there So, you know, sometimes
[44:51] eating isn' t that easy, I mean, you know all the meat
[44:53] I have to eat to get those iron sights. Of course it' s
[44:58] a lot of the woman, that is, we don' t get to
[45:00] what we have and can' t protein the day and the woman, or
[45:04] that also doesn' t weaken. So, gentlemen, you' re a
[45:07] chis one, that' s for sure. The texture of the hair.
[45:10] When the baby ear comes, that is, after the post- pair you
[45:14] can see that hair that they' re going to be, it' s
[45:15] going to be different from what you had before. Yes, also the new
[45:17] hair is weaker and it is like a little bit more rebellious and as the
[45:21] kinky is paired, the texture can change. But I' ve seen people.
[45:25] I' ve seen it in evaluation that his hair comes out even the
[45:30] color of his hair changes all those hormonal changes. And those hormonal changes aren
[45:36] ' t prevented, I don' t know, you can' t prevent
[45:40] a hormonal change. Well, yes, you can prevent it with habits.
[45:43] But when that goes over there and changes you like you darken your hair or
[45:46] clear it, or, for example, you have super loop hair and you
[45:52] come out curling, it can change your texture. That' s completely the
[45:57] new one. Yeah, and you can' t do anything with that.
[46:00] Yeah, yeah. There are many things it is. I am very much
[46:06] of adopting lifestyle changes, I am very provided and now, studying the hormone
[46:09] issue a little bit more, I realized that that is what helps all of
[46:13] what is the first meal you eat in the morning or at noon, when
[46:20] you do what is the last. All this influences how your hormones are operating.
[46:29] Obviously, the bullies. The function of the elbows is to oxygenate the
[46:31] scalp, i e to pollute blood. That' s why most people feel
[46:36] mentholed, feel that freshness. They tell you I slaughtered it, that'
[46:38] s to oxygenate it. So that' s going to help reduce the fall
[46:43] a little bit and stimulate growth. There' s not a fall biker and
[46:46] a growth biker. I mean, everyone' s going to work the same
[46:52] thing simultaneously and you can use it and it' s going to help you.
[46:53] It' s not that it' s not going to help you,
[46:57] but it' s going through a hormonal process that can take up to a
[47:00] year then you have to understand and make peace with that can last up to
[47:06] a year, you can take pills and you have your supplementation if you'
[47:10] re left with deficiency, which is very normal in postpartum your telmonqu therapist breaks
[47:19] relationships with whoever you have to break in your process so that you take it
[47:21] as pleasantly as possible. Surround yourself that in whom you have to surround yourself
[47:23] to make the process more bearable, because the process is going to be difficult
[47:28] however it may be. So that' s the solution. Come here to
[47:30] Caesar, your husband has given him bad symptoms of all eyesight. I want
[47:36] you to pregnancy my dog coast since I got pregnant, he hit you with
[47:42] that and he but he' s not going to vet and he' s
[47:45] the one who' s going to bathe you because he has to bonding with
[47:47] the dog. So I' m going to show it or be clear as
[47:52] if it' s a second baby or something. I feel that he'
[47:55] s like projecting, aha projecting like super eternity. Uh, yeah, yeah,
[48:01] yeah. He' s been hystric with the dog worrying levels and craving,
[48:07] yes, he arrives. I haven' t done everything at all.
[48:09] I have my theory that mimes are manipulating women 100%. Uh, no,
[48:15] of course I don' t, and I' m just looking forward
[48:19] to port. Yeah, me all my life. He' s telling me
[48:22] to take care of you He was telling you, but I already have a
[48:24] wish like a lemon py. But divine I know that. I am if
[48:27] all my life. If I don' t eat life, so tomorrow is
[48:29] another exact day. As a friend says, the body cannot be given so
[48:31] much joy. Then you can' t take away all the atoms you have,
[48:35] neither because they got you pregnant, nor why not, because I want
[48:37] two things of muddy pregnancy and I want what capota closed, that true,
[48:44] I don' t cough two of then not for them sa that way,
[48:49] that that one that wins insatiable something at an hour in the fish and that
[48:52] it' s going to come out or keyboard and that you one thing.
[48:57] It happened to me. I got the two of you and I know it
[49:00] was a manipulation, because Javier doesn' t live here. Then I was
[49:05] the one who had to ride my own man. Yes and I have pits
[49:07] that love me, for example, it' s going to be all cold
[49:12] like I now drink water with ice, water as I like, salad cooked,
[49:15] cold, like everything I could eat cause. H wow, I ate
[49:19] tapacho all day long that that happens to me like cold things and you want
[49:22] dematic and ice that if you give me that didn' t happen to you.
[49:25] Or I know if he got hormonal yesterday with the food. I don
[49:30] ' t know if he got it yesterday. I have I want to eat
[49:32] a sweet and I, but from your sweet not because if I see as
[49:37] ho chocola the theme, my granny suffer my big was he le chocolate whatever
[49:42] and I my love already holy week in whatever he and that I lost dinner
[49:46] and he hi dulo about an hour thinking like as I say it will fit.
[49:51] It is that it was for dessert and that he did not want to
[49:54] harm his healthy habits, but that he leaves and asked for two shakes.
[50:00] The mean came two glasses of te tama, that is, side by side
[50:05] to the house or has not been put on. No. I do,
[50:09] like, a little bit. She' s not a fighter, but she
[50:14] was invisible to me. Don' t be afraid, for example, of
[50:16] pregnancy. You have to ask for a lot of help, and you don
[50:19] ' t. You don' t do it alone. I hate it,
[50:21] but I obviously could help by myself. But, for example, even in
[50:23] the ranks of the bank, I don' t like it. Ch you
[50:25] get in there, they' re just keeping me pregnant. I don'
[50:28] t eat it either, but I park it for you I feel like it
[50:30] ' s me. When I ask for help, I feel useless. I
[50:35] ' m also a bar I' m also a ful therapy but he'
[50:39] s working. You have to treat my step. Then, when something looks
[50:44] wrong with me, I got angry. There' s a frustration like a
[50:47] little kid Everything when a kid' s trying to do something, and since
[50:52] they don' t, you see it getting hysterical. I get like this,
[50:53] yeah, but it' s because I feel like I should be asking
[50:55] for help, but I don' t. How many of you are going
[50:58] wrong with me. I don' t want to. Ay ay amigo or
[51:00] I understand, but he did put lota on me doing. It was the
[51:04] pregnancy. Oh, that' s good. And if I had movies,
[51:07] you kind of cry, no, but I gave myself. I don'
[51:08] t want to see anything new and I' m left with two episodes to
[51:14] finish Hoots and that you don' t know. I don' t know
[51:15] if it was. Then he can see you full like Rewart. Yeah,
[51:19] if I think of you as I have to watch series to I gave myself
[51:22] yes, but the cron then I love the thing I have spec but it
[51:25] gave me. It gave me a lot of peace. And this as be
[51:29] Rewatch and also huge postpartum. It' s very supposedly good and that as
[51:36] you seek comfort in something and I know and as something you can have in
[51:39] the background. And I mean, I, like I Beth, don'
[51:43] t call her. Yes, Spanish gentlemen, I do, I don'
[51:46] t see any film t Valeria, ah there' s no good couple series
[51:52] for her. The thing is, it happened to be sterns actualls. Yes,
[51:55] but how it was that when I came back they are one that was
[52:00] in two thousand twelve, gentlemen, I was leaving school, I mean,
[52:02] I don' t remember what I remember in two thousand thirteen, but what
[52:07] I know then, like it was for me to see her again, because
[52:12] it was via. In fact, good for you when I entered my capo
[52:16] in the two thousand thirteen, which was the Apogee of Sutts, we all
[52:20] believed each other. Rachael and I mean, I remember he hesitated what his
[52:22] name is Olympia or pencil, pencil type and as a success, because I
[52:28] was Rachael. All right. So you know how I need to see that
[52:34] I found myself starting at that time that I' ve already forgotten a little
[52:37] bit about being, you know what happened to me, that I had Luca
[52:39] and it was the football World Cup. That was the best I could get
[52:44] up and in the World Cup and I don' t even go to football,
[52:47] yeah, yeah, I remember and that she went super well. So
[52:51] I remember that n I nasm i mean, I also think s parida was
[52:55] born to you today. He thanks me because I let him go to Paris.
[53:00] Okay I remember what I was three weeks born that not two weeks or
[53:04] had done to my wife. Or that I' m gonna make you one
[53:07] see life. You don' t know when France wins again, go away
[53:10] aha and he told me you said yes or what, and I do go
[53:14] yes, there, say something that' s going to happen as between June
[53:16] July, which is in Miami, and I remember that I was about four
[53:20] months pregnant and he writes that I need such a date that I borrow in
[53:27] the apartment, that I' m going to go with Fulano and Fulano and
[53:30] I kind of ignored it. So my sister- in- law who has
[53:32] the group says you didn' t look like a child this much or she
[53:37] won' t have a month to go. You think your base and I
[53:38] told him that whore thinking and you ended up saying that I feel bad,
[53:45] think three days and I didn' t tell him anything because I can'
[53:51] t think. No. I, as my first baby, would not have
[53:52] left it, but it was my third baby already I knew what I was
[53:55] doing and I knew that fran I was one. He doesn' t know
[53:58] when France will win a World Cup again. Yeah, and like something in
[54:00] Miami that if they' re gonna put together a bunch of football teams,
[54:01] it' s like when you have them so close that you don' t
[54:04] have to leave. Okay, so it was as easy to get to Miami
[54:07] to that and I kind of didn' t. Now you hadn' t
[54:13] thought about it, no, but now that you' ve said it,
[54:15] you' ve said it, you' ve said it, but come on,
[54:19] I didn' t exactly take it into account. But right now,
[54:22] when I' m your taster, I' m gonna say that I'
[54:24] m gonna take the line instead. You really don' t know what the
[54:28] channel' s gonna be that you won' t want to be taken out
[54:30] of your house. And he that hysterical point, like he stops working,
[54:31] so much so that I know that I don' t ok it' s
[54:37] that we' re both very much at work, then he sometimes worries and
[54:42] tells me when before in the house, like you should go to the living
[54:45] room and I kind of know, but going to the working room doesn'
[54:46] t, I mean, of course, wash your head. But another thing,
[54:50] that is, something that will sing, as for me to explain,
[54:52] something that is unspeakable. I don' t think it touched me like in
[54:55] my pregnancies, uh, because I' ve always been, I mean,
[55:00] with the two of you, I was good, I didn' t happen
[55:05] with avio more or less, but only with the maternity leave studies, that
[55:12] is, when you' re an entrepreneur when you depend on yourself. Gentlemen,
[55:15] or there' s that subject. I see people who work content creation
[55:20] like us and said that I see Look and the pair gone working on an
[55:23] exact animal. Nicole has how she bore you, yes she is and so
[55:31] and making you first like wow that mateo didn' t have a month to
[55:35] me it didn' t touch me, but I don' t know if
[55:37] you give her what you' ve explored like that ok, what' s
[55:43] going to be my take on this look there' s a life, look
[55:46] for tasting in the deputy there' s no space, but it doesn'
[55:46] t matter. She' s gonna be in the same middle. I have
[55:50] a lot of flexibility to take advantage of. I mean, I' m
[55:53] not gonna keep you on schedule. I don' t have to be here
[55:54] for an hour. I don' t have to leave at an hour and
[55:57] you can choose your exact one and I choose that' s schedule. Secondly,
[56:04] my content creation work is the relatively easy one, because I can do
[56:07] it from wherever I' m more or less already. The energy issue,
[56:13] the way I feel, etcetera. That' s another subject. We'
[56:15] re talking about the terrain. I have to leave a month and a half
[56:21] before giving birth. And that was my strongest marriage crisis to date, because
[56:24] I said I wasn' t going to leave, but I' m leaving.
[56:30] I told you I was gonna give it to you here. I didn
[56:32] ' t want to leave because of what it meant to leave. Let'
[56:35] s remember independent women who think they' re super Wowman, etcetera. So
[56:37] you have to depend on me, to have to go away that was I
[56:42] have to depend, no, no, I have to depend on other people
[56:44] totally that is, I can' t stay alone because of course I don
[56:49] ' t take a car and I' m going that way. I can
[56:50] ' t, I mean I need someone, for example, to help me
[56:53] with all the cleaning issues in the apartment. I don' t know what
[56:55] I have here, I mean my home is my place, I don'
[56:59] t have the logistics, because on my planet it' s going to come
[57:01] out of your roll and I don' t have it, my system works
[57:05] and it' s all right. So I' m leaving is okay.
[57:06] I have to depend on someone else staying with me, on having to take
[57:09] care of me again, on having to cook for some people that I can
[57:13] ' t throw a punch when it does something wrong that I have to eat
[57:16] it as it comes that I can' t give many intrusions. I might
[57:21] not have the facility to do so many things myself and it was like being
[57:24] out of my house all that time. So that' s before you give
[57:32] birth and already part of it. So what I did was I' m
[57:36] supposed to be scheduled for the end of a month. So I did it
[57:38] was that if I have ten fixed customers that are my clients that hire me
[57:43] annually, I suspended half of one mail to mité in the other to have
[57:46] less charge of t ok then let' s say if I have an obligation
[57:52] to upload ten publications a month. I between those two months I' m
[57:55] gonna go up five and five and he' s got you and he'
[57:59] s got to take your thing over there. So I already, for example,
[58:00] already found that they appear there which are the month that yes, but
[58:04] I do have it here, I am not going to. I' ll
[58:06] take it in a suitcase. I prepare what I mean so far, exactly
[58:07] and then, when I fall valley and come, he brings me something.
[58:13] It returns something to give up space. Sure, but honestly, the beury
[58:19] lab doesn' t support me. I mean, we' re paying,
[58:22] we' re preda, we' re starting business for a new business.
[58:27] And my brother and I both have another job than that we live on.
[58:30] Then the one I live on depends solely and exclusively on this tropical body.
[58:36] Of course, then I' m going to do nothing between milk tomas and
[58:44] siestas recording my love, because you know I' m not a housewife.
[58:49] I have my responsibilities, we have to pay. I' m going to
[58:53] lower my charge. Last year, thank God, I organized a lot and
[58:57] I already compared it. It' s not operating like it' s a
[59:00] company, it' s not like a piggy bank, it' s something
[59:05] like crazy. I already have a payroll structure of everything, that is,
[59:07] there' s no such thing as money coming in from me, but I
[59:09] have a salary that depends on the monthly income there. I have, I
[59:14] mean already on a combaron salary no yes, I mean there' s no
[59:16] such thing as aha. I realized that I was spending all the money and
[59:20] where it was. You understand like that and that shouldn' t be like
[59:23] that. So I think it' s a salary, and the company has
[59:27] its operating income. Then I can work, I can' t not work
[59:30] for about two months and give me everything for good. You understand not the
[59:34] ideal, but because the idea that you can always do thoroughly I am doing
[59:39] it to you to receive less income. Then you also know all about the
[59:43] fact that suppliers pay for ninety days. To regret, but I have told
[59:47] you to thirty tape And so then, according to maybe when I postpone you,
[59:53] I will be receiving input from things that were done in March, in
[59:58] April that are going to be quiet. They' re accurate. I'
[1:00:00] m going to have your payroll how it' s going to be, because
[1:00:04] you' re so minimalist with your lump to take your spot I clone that
[1:00:07] I' m an animalist, that you don' t understand the sarcasm to
[1:00:13] my husband, yes, it' s full minimalist and whenever we' re
[1:00:15] not going to become pythotic because and I have to walk with so many things
[1:00:16] take away your jobs. You have to do content or that Japan trip when
[1:00:20] you enter farfas, but already you selected more or less, what you'
[1:00:23] re going to take. Of course I' m not seeing you take things
[1:00:27] work where I have to take this exact thing and maybe they' re not
[1:00:30] essential to a podcast round. And my husband knows, I told him,
[1:00:32] so don' t limit me. I' m gonna go with all the
[1:00:37] suitcases. I have to go End of conversation. I' m really doing
[1:00:40] it going exactly, I' m already complading you, yes, now imitate
[1:00:45] and that now you know that you, when you last a month and how
[1:00:51] many days and fifteen days before you give birth, you' re going to
[1:00:55] buy like a crazy because you get two yes, yes, yes, we
[1:01:00] ' re going to get in and how you left. We take a corner
[1:01:00] or sting and the net is a pepe thing. Lord and love Dik Twiter,
[1:01:07] jos three and supermarket, I mean you. You have to bring the
[1:01:12] boxes they said on the Panda podcast. Oh send it away Uh- huh
[1:01:19] I have a daughter You know they have to have a company that gases clear,
[1:01:22] but well, I mean, the books, not like I' d
[1:01:25] get out to me, my mom, really anyone clear to have the reading
[1:01:30] or exact. Not your house. I don' t send it to happen,
[1:01:35] and thank you very much. Everything already is, well, this is
[1:01:38] too fast. We' re not going to another episode, please, we
[1:01:43] need another episode. I loved that. We put it a lot four months
[1:01:47] the other and I' m going to say hypothetical case that after I heard
[1:01:51] this thing it looked like Miguel Rubia. We wish you everything and the good
[1:01:54] in your pregnancy, for everything to go well. We will learn a lot
[1:01:59] the dance of the second hand painted. Thank you all for listening to us.
[1:02:07] We' re here next Monday, Chao.

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