# Kendra Fell for Nolan's Texting Personality

An episode of [Marcus In The Morning Second Date Update](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1473865038), 12 Aug 2026, 6:09.

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Nolan and Kendra spent two weeks texting nonstop before finally meeting in person, and the chemistry seemed undeniable. But when date night arrived, Kendra felt like she was sitting across from a completely different person. So what happened between the texts and the table? The answer is VERY 2026. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning time once again for a
[0:01] Speaker 1: second date update. Let's just bring our guy on. Nolan
[0:04] Speaker 1: is here. Good morning, Nolan, good morning, hey man. Are
[0:07] Speaker 1: you ready to discuss your dates? And you're emotionally available
[0:10] Speaker 1: and prepared?
[0:10] Speaker 2: I'll do my best. Okay, I'll tell my story.
[0:13] Speaker 3: Thank you.
[0:14] Speaker 1: I want to talk about Hendra. I understand she has
[0:16] Speaker 1: ghosted you since your date. Now you're down there in
[0:19] Speaker 1: San Jose.
[0:20] Speaker 2: That's right.
[0:20] Speaker 3: Okay, how did the date go?
[0:22] Speaker 2: So a little context before the date, We've been texting
[0:28] Speaker 2: for about two weeks and uh had some incredible chemistry,
[0:33] Speaker 2: Like there were constant jokes, flirting, late night conversations.
[0:38] Speaker 3: Okay.
[0:38] Speaker 4: Kendrin even told me she hadn't laughed as much talking
[0:42] Speaker 4: to a guy.
[0:42] Speaker 5: In forever direct quote.
[0:44] Speaker 4: And then we finally that direct quote it's a text,
[0:48] Speaker 4: you know. Okay, So then we finally meet and nothing.
[0:54] Speaker 4: She stopped responding at the first date.
[0:56] Speaker 3: Did you do anything weird? Did anything crazy happen?
[1:00] Speaker 2: Oh no, that's a my knowledgey that wasn't like or creepy?
[1:04] Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, does a guy actually know if he's creepy?
[1:07] Speaker 3: I don't know, that's debatable. I'll tell you what. I
[1:10] Speaker 3: want to call her right now and get her vibe
[1:12] Speaker 3: on the date. Okay, hell, I am looking for Kendra. Please.
[1:23] Speaker 4: This this is sh Kendra.
[1:25] Speaker 3: This is Marcus calling from Star one on one three.
[1:28] Speaker 3: How are you good? Morning?
[1:31] Speaker 4: I'm good?
[1:32] Speaker 3: How are you good? Do you ever listen to the
[1:34] Speaker 3: show in the morning?
[1:37] Speaker 2: No?
[1:37] Speaker 5: Sorry, it's okay.
[1:40] Speaker 1: It's a radio morning show and we do a segment
[1:43] Speaker 1: on the show called second Date Update. So I got
[1:45] Speaker 1: your phone number from a guy that says he took
[1:48] Speaker 1: you out recently and that he thought it was gonna
[1:53] Speaker 1: work out, and then he feels like, maybe you're ghosting.
[1:55] Speaker 3: So do you have a second to talk about a
[1:57] Speaker 3: date on the air?
[1:59] Speaker 4: I guess.
[1:59] Speaker 2: So.
[2:00] Speaker 1: I'm just trying to figure out where my guy went
[2:01] Speaker 1: wrong if you ghosted? His name is Nolan. Do you
[2:05] Speaker 1: remember your date?
[2:06] Speaker 5: Okay?
[2:06] Speaker 3: Okay, So did you ghost?
[2:09] Speaker 1: Yeah?
[2:09] Speaker 4: I remember him? Yeah I can I did?
[2:15] Speaker 3: Okay, can you tell us why I need?
[2:19] Speaker 5: He wasn't rude or creepy or anything. He was fine, but.
[2:22] Speaker 4: He was just painfully boring.
[2:26] Speaker 3: Okay.
[2:26] Speaker 2: Like when we.
[2:27] Speaker 4: Were texting, he was quick, he was funny.
[2:31] Speaker 5: He was flirty, but then when we met in person,
[2:35] Speaker 5: it was horrible. Like I would ask him, hey, what
[2:39] Speaker 5: do you do for fun? And he'd be like hang
[2:42] Speaker 5: out and okay, even if I yeah, and even if
[2:46] Speaker 5: I made a joke, he'd be like huh, that's funny
[2:49] Speaker 5: and then silence and then like okay. I thought, well
[2:53] Speaker 5: let me my friend's one of our running jokes, right
[2:55] Speaker 5: And he didn't even remember it. So I literally was
[2:59] Speaker 5: sit there thinking who have I been texting?
[3:03] Speaker 3: So it was very weird, like two different dudes in
[3:06] Speaker 3: a weird way.
[3:07] Speaker 5: Very different Okay, night and day.
[3:09] Speaker 3: Okay. The other half of this is that Nolan is
[3:12] Speaker 3: actually listening and I don't know.
[3:15] Speaker 1: Sorry, I'd love to do I'd love to bring him
[3:17] Speaker 1: on because now I feel like we've got some clarity.
[3:19] Speaker 3: Nolan, are you there?
[3:21] Speaker 2: Yeah?
[3:21] Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here, So what's going on?
[3:24] Speaker 2: I don't know. I just I would say I'm better
[3:26] Speaker 2: over text.
[3:27] Speaker 5: You're a different person over text. Okay, Well I had
[3:34] Speaker 5: some help from.
[3:35] Speaker 4: Who chat GVT you're using AI?
[3:40] Speaker 5: Whyeah?
[3:42] Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean we now basically, whenever you texted me,
[3:47] Speaker 2: I would like pace your message into chat GBT and
[3:50] Speaker 2: ask like, oh, make me sound funny or you know,
[3:53] Speaker 2: make it a little flirty er tease her just a
[3:56] Speaker 2: little bit, and then I'd look at the different responses
[3:59] Speaker 2: and I'd pick one that I thought was the best.
[4:01] Speaker 5: Wait, hold I so wait, I've been flirting with a
[4:08] Speaker 5: robot for two weeks.
[4:10] Speaker 2: I wouldn't say that. I mean it was still me.
[4:12] Speaker 2: I just picked the responses.
[4:14] Speaker 5: Okay, so how much of AI did you use for
[4:18] Speaker 5: our conversation?
[4:22] Speaker 2: Six sixty? More like ad.
[4:26] Speaker 3: What eighty percent?
[4:30] Speaker 2: Listen? It could be pretty intimidating to like figure out
[4:33] Speaker 2: what I'm going to say, but I could look at
[4:35] Speaker 2: different messages and pick the perfect one.
[4:37] Speaker 5: Wait a second, hold on, what about Okay, what about
[4:39] Speaker 5: that picture that I sent you of my outfit before
[4:42] Speaker 5: the day and you responded like, you know, something along
[4:46] Speaker 5: the lines of, oh are you really going to show
[4:48] Speaker 5: up looking like that? Expect me to concentrate? Was that you?
[4:52] Speaker 2: I mean, I did know respond through but yeah I
[4:57] Speaker 2: chat GBT responded that way.
[4:59] Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh my gosh, so I got butterflies from a computer?
[5:05] Speaker 2: Well, hold on, this isn't like a trick or anything
[5:08] Speaker 2: like that. I just, you know, want what my messages
[5:12] Speaker 2: are to sound like how I feel in my head.
[5:15] Speaker 5: Well, apparently there wasn't much happening in your head at.
[5:18] Speaker 3: Dinner, Nolan. You have to be authentic, like you have
[5:21] Speaker 3: to be the same person otherwise.
[5:25] Speaker 2: Okay, I like that's that's valid, you know what I mean.
[5:29] Speaker 2: I can admit eighty percent is a lot. If if
[5:32] Speaker 2: you could just have one more chance, I can promise
[5:35] Speaker 2: you it'll go so much better.
[5:37] Speaker 5: I mean I would consider maybe if you didn't use
[5:44] Speaker 5: chat chat, GPT again or whatever it's called.
[5:48] Speaker 2: Like at all. Oh god, probably, but I mean, just
[5:53] Speaker 2: like a little quick edity.
[5:56] Speaker 4: Now.
[5:57] Speaker 5: I want an in person relationship, not a text relationship.
[6:02] Speaker 5: So yeah, that's not going to work.
[6:03] Speaker 3: I'm calling no second date on this. Hang on you guys. Wow,
[6:07] Speaker 3: No anyway, Second date update

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