# Legally Clueless A podcast by Legally Clueless. Legally Clueless is a weekly podcast by Kenyan media personality & social activist: Adelle Onyango!! Here, she documents her raw human journey as an evolving unapologetically African woman. The podcast is a space where people get to know just how okay it is to not know or not have it all figured out. It is also a space where Africans share stories from their lives; stories that teach, make us cry, make us laugh - real, authentic African stories. The #LegallyClueless hotline is +254768628790 Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/rss ## Latest episodes - [Your 40s Are For Living, Not Proving Yourself | For Mannerless Women Live](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/3a9cc01b0750) (2026-10-29, 56 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/128276020/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-28%2F435235192-44100-2-bd729b51637e5.mp3 - [Stop Demanding A Harvest From Your Planting Season | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/62e50c16969f) (2026-10-28, 32 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/128252486/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-28%2F0d4cc5f5-3113-c210-e7ea-698ac03eb75c.mp3 - [She Lost Her Parents, Her Home & Had to Fight to Survive PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 401](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/4ef8e2e5d927) (2026-10-25, 42 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/128056162/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-25%2Fe30a3c67-41d0-b604-2acd-ca27d11e5604.mp3 - [Your 30s Are For Becoming, Not Explaining Yourself | For Mannerless Women Live](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/6955e53ecc0e) (2026-10-22, 45 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127824181/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-21%2F434644085-44100-2-a747f0282fe6d.mp3 - [The Problem With Women Who Say "Could Never Be Me" | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/3940671286cd) (2026-10-21, 28 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127831272/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-21%2F658a3094-66ea-60e9-ca94-adef8231a702.mp3 - [She Lost Her Parents, Her Home & Had to Fight to Survive | Legally Clueless Ep 400](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/469f78297893) (2026-10-19, 48 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127705189/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-19%2Fe7f30cd3-cb10-8958-4059-f4aaa91518e3.mp3 - [She Survived The Abuse. Why Was She Carrying The Shame? | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/960d3b86aa60) (2026-10-15, 70 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656960/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415186-48000-2-110ac754a80fa78d.mp3 - [You're Not Bitter. Maybe Your Anger Is Trying To Tell You Something. | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/ef8a496af4b5) (2026-10-14, 24 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656787/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415075-44100-2-8ccec499e5478392.mp3 - [He Called It Love. It Was Coercive Control PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 399](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/6dc8fe11d6bf) (2026-10-11, 45 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656662/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414939-44100-2-fe1cabe563d2922f.mp3 - [Who Benefits When Women Make Themselves Smaller? | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/cf0a7884f21f) (2026-10-07, 62 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656722/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414961-44100-2-7a7fc0e163bb9279.mp3 - [Is It Love Or Are You Being Controlled? | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/ff90fe7bec93) (2026-10-06, 22 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656459/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414759-44100-2-c1f31cd3f8e8f59b.mp3 - [He Called It Love. It Was Coercive Control | Legally Clueless Ep 398](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/7ef1eb982de4) (2026-10-04, 40 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127657047/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415335-44100-2-cd68405d0bcb8cf3.mp3 - [When Choosing Yourself Means Distancing Yourself From Family | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/b2ecf3801948) (2026-10-01, 64 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656690/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414926-48000-2-3cd887afde8785ea.mp3 - [What If You Actually Believed Your Dreams Were Possible? | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/397672859656) (2026-09-30, 25 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656673/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414985-44100-2-8d36fbf3402a1098.mp3 - [She Quit School, Moved Countries & Questioned Everything She Believed PART 3 | Legally Clueless Ep 397](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/44c4e65fe924) (2026-09-28, 41 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656702/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414987-44100-2-cd4cd8bca7e20092.mp3 - [After Narcissistic Abuse: How Do You Find Yourself Again? | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/d9e2448e0680) (2026-09-24, 41 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656831/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415121-44100-2-99baca927eaa41e7.mp3 - [The Woman You Become When You Learn to Be Alone | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/7c87297861bd) (2026-09-23, 29 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656853/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415158-44100-2-5e14efa251acbad8.mp3 - [She Quit School, Moved Countries & Questioned Everything She Believed PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 396](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/4d748d12dd71) (2026-09-20, 35 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656487/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414773-44100-2-f212c1265839519f.mp3 - [They Love Bomb You, Then Break You Down: Understanding Narcissistic Abuse | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/f7936fef1404) (2026-09-17, 65 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656992/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415249-48000-2-b627e8c4fec32b84.mp3 - [Why Do We Hate Women We’re Secretly Jealous Of? | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/a0e8cbec1d43) (2026-09-16, 28 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656971/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415274-44100-2-00e32b1d06502155.mp3 - [She Quit School, Moved Countries & Questioned Everything She Believed | Legally Clueless Ep 395](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/26772180148e) (2026-09-13, 42 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656868/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415155-44100-2-f4d3b0c6610d9a49.mp3 - [It’s Never Too Late To Start Again | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/5b81988ff6e1) (2026-09-10, 55 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127657074/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415289-44100-2-6a0912e553e1d0f9.mp3 - [You Left. So Why Do You Still Want to Go Back? | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/8747d4a01bcc) (2026-09-08, 29 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656647/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414958-44100-2-f815179c60d607b1.mp3 - [I Thought I’d Marry Him. Then I Learned The Truth PART 3 | Legally Clueless Ep 394](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/503abb7ae3c8) (2026-09-06, 57 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656822/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415076-44100-2-ad71076240faa45e.mp3 - [Your Body Was Never The Problem | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/0b2b286180f5) (2026-09-03, 53 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656845/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414994-44100-2-7e5f7d6570603761.mp3 - [10 Of The Worst Pieces Of Advice Women Are Given | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/f90891584af9) (2026-09-01, 36 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656538/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414809-44100-2-c84a74c47ac672a6.mp3 - [I Thought I’d Marry Him. Then I Learned the Truth PART 2 | Legally Cueless Ep 393](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/672220e57b7f) (2026-08-30, 58 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127657020/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415305-44100-2-1a20e562801bfa93.mp3 - [How Much Of Yourself Have You Abandoned For Love? | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/697f32ff1eb1) (2026-08-27, 41 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656891/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415133-48000-2-9f609025ec9810e8.mp3 - [The Lies We Tell Ourselves To Stay In Relationships | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/008fee3a9ca6) (2026-08-25, 23 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127657033/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415350-44100-2-7022279b1b3faaf0.mp3 - [I Thought I’d Marry Him. Then I Learned the Truth | Legally Clueless Ep 392](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/a854959db6bc) (2026-08-23, 57 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127657060/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415348-44100-2-137cb26b9aa8b662.mp3 - [Starting Over in Your 40s: The Life You Didn’t Plan | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/e9fb3e9b286e) (2026-08-20, 64 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656996/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415179-48000-2-02bbc085aec3d85e.mp3 - [Would You Let Anyone Else Talk To You Like This? | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/ba9913e8553b) (2026-08-18, 27 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656820/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415132-44100-2-d5e89e802b5657b5.mp3 - [What Being a Woman in Aviation Cost Me PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 391](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/e885edbd4fd6) (2026-08-16, 50 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656532/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414794-44100-2-f4375b162d97138d.mp3 - [How to Trust Yourself Again: 7 Ways to Rebuild Self-Trust | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/599f6576d78d) (2026-08-12, 25 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656757/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415071-44100-2-53b1766961c82afa.mp3 - [What Being a Woman in Aviation Cost Me | Legally Clueless Ep 390](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/03def64f3c50) (2026-08-09, 50 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656694/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414957-44100-2-5e5a75de1abcaec6.mp3 - [The Lies Women Were Told About Aging (And Why So Many Of Us Believe Them) | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/66ee6b00c773) (2026-08-04, 29 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127657026/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415328-44100-2-080b4c656a4d5f1a.mp3 - [I Did Everything Right. So Why Isn't Life Working? PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 389](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/708ab72af890) (2026-08-02, 51 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656575/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414844-44100-2-b3757fc9514253c5.mp3 - [More Women Are Choosing Peace Over Pursuing Love. Here's Why | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/b306a4260113) (2026-07-28, 22 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656861/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415174-44100-2-a32a2c30858120a0.mp3 - [I Did Everything Right. So Why Isn't Life Working? | Legally Clueless Ep 388](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/221d992fd7f2) (2026-07-26, 49 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656796/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414776-44100-2-4e02b034ee36404e.mp3 - [The Truth About Why African Women Struggle To Choose Themselves | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/4a4567d4b225) (2026-07-23, 53 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656552/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414804-44100-2-59b7134b4462c7ea.mp3 - [Feeling Lost? 8 Ways to Reconnect With Yourself | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/d1604fc4f68c) (2026-07-21, 19 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656545/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414859-44100-2-1d15586acf97a708.mp3 - [I Was Bullied For Being Myself PART 3 | Legally Clueless Ep 387](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/ce2f7dec1c9d) (2026-07-19, 42 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656663/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414947-44100-2-9c2bad0d48f9a086.mp3 - [Why Free Women Make People Uncomfortable | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/220bb4813f4b) (2026-07-16, 58 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656504/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414733-44100-2-e7ddfb72bb772cfd.mp3 - [The Hidden Cost Of Losing Yourself In Love | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/601a116e64b7) (2026-07-14, 16 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656455/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414752-44100-2-86b2c962c5f9e322.mp3 - [I Was Bullied For Being Myself PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 386](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/3eea2f088fc5) (2026-07-12, 38 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656616/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414902-44100-2-98b0f5c50c77b51a.mp3 - [The Freedom Of Choosing Yourself | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/83bf55e7be06) (2026-07-08, 51 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656965/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415236-44100-2-02911a1012a7d5d8.mp3 - [The Silent Cost Of Being The Strong Woman | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/88fc84ca2011) (2026-07-07, 15 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656780/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415119-44100-2-73da9e0d88821317.mp3 - [I Was Bullied For Being Myself | Legally Clueless Ep 385](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/0490d9d4696c) (2026-07-05, 49 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127657028/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415321-44100-2-c85fb2acd700d985.mp3 - [The Most Powerful Question A Woman Can Ask Herself: "What Do I Want?" | For Mannerless Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/45f205350959) (2026-07-02, 55 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656804/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434415051-44100-2-a73fc8cd73cd554d.mp3 - [Your Marriage Ended. Your Story Didn't. | Finding Yourself After Divorce with Faith Guchu | Mid Week Tease](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1457549793/1fbc3ff16736) (2026-07-01, 53 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/118b78a04/podcast/play/127656533/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-18%2F434414780-44100-2-a00d32c539e1adc5.mp3 Shows are listed from Apple Podcasts' charts and directory, and Podcast Index where it is used. Every show and episode belongs to its publisher and plays from the publisher's own feed; this site hosts none of them.