# Stallone Sisters on Seducing Women, First Date Hookups, Sylvester Stallone As Dad, Rich VS Poor Men

An episode of [Impaulsive with Logan Paul](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1442164847), 8 Apr 2025, 1 h 20 min.

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Relationship whisperers Sophia & Sistine Stallone join the boys to discuss their awkward encounter with 2017 Logan Paul, their Dad (Sylvester Stallone) calls into the pod, Top 5 red flags in men 🚩, Mike’s recent breakup, if horoscopes are bullsh*t, why guys like crazy girls, Nina flaking on their podcast, dating NBA players, why modern men are pus*ies & more… SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST ► https://www.youtube.com/impaulsive Watch Previous (The Paul Family On Jake & Jutta’s $1M Engagement Ring, New HBO Reality Show, Greg Paul Backlash) ► https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ti1bP3LDSzM&t=1175s ADD US ON: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/impaulsiveshow/ Timestamps: 0:00 Welcome Stallone Sisters! 💥 1:08 Why LA Is TRASH! 🚮 2:58 How To Get Over A Breakup 💔 8:51 4 Attachment Styles 🥰 14:10 Mike’s Encounter With A Medium.. 🔮 16:58 Are Astrology & Horoscopes FAKE?! ♊️ 20:16 Daughter Advice For Logan 🎀 23:34 Having Sylvester Stallone as a DAD! 😳 26:17 2017 Logan Paul Encounter..🤯 28:29 Why Nina Flaked on UNWAXED Podcast..🥹 30:11 Embarrassing Photos of Logan Paul..📸 31:16 The Family Stallone Vs Paul American Reality Show 🍿 36:39 Do Manly Men Drink Oat Milk?! 🥛 41:16 Top 5 Red Flags In Men 🚩 45:08 “NO CRYING ON PRIVATE JETS!” 🛩️ 50:36 Why Breakups SUCK In 2025 💔 52:42 Sylvester Stallone CALLS IN! 📲 57:59 Do Men Like Alpha Women? 💪 1:03:09 Are Modern Men WEAK? 😥 1:09:43 Do All Guys Like CRAZY GIRLS? 🤪 1:12:49 Taxi Cab Theory 🚕 PLEASE NOTE Impaulsive is a significant break from the typical content viewers have come to expect from the vlog channel & we could not be more proud and excited to watch this unfold and grow. Please be advised that we will be exploring a wide variety of topics (some adult-themed) and our younger viewers (and their parents) should be advised that some topics will be for mature audiences only. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: It's the Stallone sisters.
[0:02] Speaker 2: Your father is Sylvester Stallone.
[0:04] Speaker 3: We do shot put because he wanted us to break
[0:06] Speaker 3: the record for shot put. Oh, I lost.
[0:07] Speaker 4: I got second place. He didn't talk to me for
[0:09] Speaker 4: a week.
[0:09] Speaker 3: And then we put, no, I swear to God. Because
[0:10] Speaker 3: we don't fall in love often. Like we don't date
[0:12] Speaker 3: that many guys. See, I have a list of non-negotiables
[0:14] Speaker 3: on my phone. Have not listened to one of them.
[0:17] Speaker 3: What happened to manly men just drinking 2% of whole milk?
[0:20] Speaker 4: I think it's hot.
[0:21] Speaker 1: You guys like it.
[0:23] Speaker 3: Well, you're in like the five stages of breakup grief.
[0:25] Speaker 3: Right now, you both are in rage.
[0:26] Speaker 2: No, I'm not in rage at all.
[0:28] Speaker 3: Mike was rage texting us today. I think Mike is
[0:31] Speaker 3: having a crash out.
[0:33] Speaker 4: Sorry, my dad's calling.
[0:34] Speaker 1: Should we answer? Sly, what's up, dude?
[0:36] Speaker 2: It's Logan. What's up, brother? There's no crying on private
[0:40] Speaker 2: jets in this relationship. I don't care what happens. My
[0:44] Speaker 2: bucket list was go to Six Flags.
[0:46] Speaker 1: Did you?
[0:47] Speaker 3: Yes!
[0:47] Speaker 1: Your podcast. I believe my fiance was supposed to come
[0:51] Speaker 1: on it at one point. Do you know why she canceled?
[0:54] Speaker 4: She said she was sick?
[0:55] Speaker 1: That's not true.
[0:55] Speaker 4: Oh, I know.
[0:56] Speaker 1: That was... You're lying!
[1:08] Speaker 4: We left LA.
[1:08] Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
[1:09] Speaker 4: We live in Tulsi. It's so close. Oh, I hate LA.
[1:13] Speaker 1: Oh, we hate LA.
[1:15] Speaker 2: Are you sure?
[1:16] Speaker 4: Do you like LA?
[1:17] Speaker 2: I mean, it's where I live. I'm the last person
[1:19] Speaker 2: holding the flag.
[1:19] Speaker 4: Why though? Why do you still live there?
[1:21] Speaker 2: You want to know why? Could I give you the
[1:23] Speaker 2: God's honest? Are we rolling? Could I give you the
[1:25] Speaker 2: God's honest reason why I still live there? I don't
[1:28] Speaker 2: like the rain and the cold and stuff. You know,
[1:30] Speaker 2: like living in LA is like Groundhog Day. Yes, we've
[1:34] Speaker 2: got armed burglars, masked men. with big extended magazines. We've
[1:39] Speaker 2: got homeless people that will infest your backyard and sometimes
[1:43] Speaker 2: poop on your lawn. We've got 53% tax rates. We've
[1:47] Speaker 2: got an extremely liberal government. We've got some real, real
[1:51] Speaker 2: issues out there. But guess what? You wake up.
[1:54] Speaker 4: And it's warm.
[1:54] Speaker 2: And it's warm.
[1:55] Speaker 3: Are you seriously considering the sun over everything.
[1:59] Speaker 2: You just said? You would not believe how much the
[2:02] Speaker 2: weather affects your mood.
[2:04] Speaker 4: Oh, no, I completely agree with that.
[2:05] Speaker 3: I mean, we have been here for three years in
[2:07] Speaker 3: New York, and we've had seasonal depression fully.
[2:09] Speaker 4: We see why people are angry in New York. Also,
[2:11] Speaker 4: it makes you ugly living here. Oh, yeah, really ugly.
[2:14] Speaker 2: It gives you wrinkles.
[2:15] Speaker 4: Inside and out, wrinkles. The layers of fake tan. Everything
[2:19] Speaker 4: is closed down. Socially, you're not going to go out anywhere.
[2:21] Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, people don't even want to get to
[2:23] Speaker 3: know anybody anymore when you're in LA. Everyone's kind of
[2:26] Speaker 3: in their own circle.
[2:27] Speaker 2: True.
[2:27] Speaker 3: I feel like everyone's there for... an ulterior motive like
[2:30] Speaker 3: what do you do followers like New York no one
[2:32] Speaker 3: gives a shit everyone has their own little identity here
[2:35] Speaker 3: and honestly if you say you're an influencer it's kind
[2:37] Speaker 3: of looked down upon and not only that could you
[2:39] Speaker 3: actually raise a family in LA knowing that you have
[2:41] Speaker 3: people shitting on your lawn burglars um oh but thank
[2:44] Speaker 3: god the sun Yeah, you could raise a tough family.
[2:47] Speaker 2: You could raise a kid who's ready to wrassle a
[2:50] Speaker 2: pooping homeless person.
[2:50] Speaker 3: I mean, listen, I don't think you're going to have
[2:52] Speaker 3: like a street fighting kid saying he grew up in Brentwood.
[2:55] Speaker 4: Like, I don't know if it's the same thing.
[2:57] Speaker 1: I don't think it's Brentwood.
[2:58] Speaker 5: Also, Mike's never starting a family. Especially because he's newly single.
[3:03] Speaker 1: Oh, we've heard. We've heard.
[3:05] Speaker 2: Sorry.
[3:06] Speaker 3: Mike was rage texting us today. I think Mike is
[3:10] Speaker 3: having a crash out.
[3:12] Speaker 2: I am deep in a crash out.
[3:16] Speaker 1: Is that why you were in this?
[3:17] Speaker 2: No, I was just cold because it's not LA. So
[3:20] Speaker 2: I had to put a layer on.
[3:21] Speaker 4: But I understand you have a lot of guy friends.
[3:23] Speaker 3: We're honestly obsessed with talking about relationships. That's all we
[3:26] Speaker 3: do on our podcast. And honestly, we're single.
[3:27] Speaker 1: So you need help.
[3:29] Speaker 2: Is this it right now?
[3:30] Speaker 3: Is this? Well, you're in like the five stages of
[3:32] Speaker 3: breakup grief right now. You both are in rage.
[3:34] Speaker 2: No, I'm not in rage at all. Hold on a second.
[3:37] Speaker 4: She's rage baiting you. And so you're raging.
[3:39] Speaker 2: No, no, no, no. Someone can reach. Somebody can rage
[3:43] Speaker 2: bait you. You don't have to rage back. Like if
[3:45] Speaker 2: you see the content that I've put out, it's been
[3:48] Speaker 2: I'm sad, which I very much am. I was dating
[3:52] Speaker 2: who I believe to be one of the most beautiful people.
[3:54] Speaker 2: And that's the content I've been putting out. I didn't
[3:57] Speaker 2: realize that I was going to be someone's 40-year-old undiagnosed son. See, rage.
[4:01] Speaker 4: Can I say something?
[4:02] Speaker 2: Well, no, I'm not raging. I'm just sad. It's upsetting
[4:04] Speaker 2: for me.
[4:05] Speaker 1: Can I say something?
[4:06] Speaker 3: As a viewer of your social media, I have seen
[4:08] Speaker 3: none of you being nice and sympathetic towards the situation.
[4:11] Speaker 4: No, not in a bad way, but.
[4:14] Speaker 3: it just looks like you're partying and having fun and
[4:15] Speaker 3: eating burgers. Like if I was the girlfriend, I'd be like,
[4:17] Speaker 3: fuck this guy. He's totally fine.
[4:20] Speaker 2: So let me tell you why this is difficult. Breakups
[4:25] Speaker 2: are one of the hardest things in the adult life, truthfully.
[4:30] Speaker 2: I mean, pretty much anyone would say that. It is,
[4:33] Speaker 2: your person's missing. The person that you've been with for
[4:35] Speaker 2: the past two years is now gone. You wake up
[4:38] Speaker 2: every single day, you look at your phone, the first
[4:40] Speaker 2: thing you do is you grab your phone in the morning,
[4:42] Speaker 2: you look for that good morning, babe text, and it's
[4:44] Speaker 2: not there. And every day, you know, your heart drops
[4:48] Speaker 2: because you've been used to seeing that for so long.
[4:49] Speaker 2: It's a very sad feeling, right? And by the way,
[4:52] Speaker 2: just to kick off right off the start here, because
[4:54] Speaker 2: I know a lot of people watching this episode are
[4:57] Speaker 2: feeling this. Breakups are very prevalent, especially in March, which
[4:59] Speaker 2: we'll talk about. We'll talk about the March 3. You're
[5:02] Speaker 2: going to be okay. You're going to be okay. It's
[5:04] Speaker 2: going to feel better.
[5:06] Speaker 3: I always say, I've had heart surgery, so I always
[5:08] Speaker 3: talk about hearts as a resemblance for relationships. And I
[5:11] Speaker 3: always say, when your heart breaks, scar tissue builds up,
[5:14] Speaker 3: patching it up.
[5:15] Speaker 4: But there's still a scar tissue.
[5:16] Speaker 6: It's still.
[5:18] Speaker 4: Very vulnerable. It's still wounded.
[5:20] Speaker 3: It's still, and I think especially as you get older,
[5:23] Speaker 3: relationships are so selective. Like, I don't, Cece and I
[5:27] Speaker 3: are very picky about who we date. We are mostly
[5:29] Speaker 3: single than we are in relationships and we don't date
[5:31] Speaker 3: that often. Which is ironic because all we do is
[5:33] Speaker 3: talk about relationships.
[5:34] Speaker 2: So think, I'm in the same boat. I understand that
[5:36] Speaker 2: you feel.
[5:36] Speaker 3: Like it's 10 years when it's two years when you're
[5:38] Speaker 3: 40 years old. It's like, I totally understand.
[5:40] Speaker 2: But I want to touch on the point that you
[5:41] Speaker 2: guys called me out on it. No matter what I
[5:44] Speaker 2: feel like, I have a career. I have to wake
[5:46] Speaker 2: up every day. I've got multiple revenue streams, businesses that
[5:50] Speaker 2: need to be run, podcasts. I got to sit down
[5:52] Speaker 2: and bring that energy. And do you know how hard
[5:54] Speaker 2: that is when you feel terrible and you're walking into
[5:57] Speaker 2: a room and you don't feel great? But in years
[6:02] Speaker 2: of working with my friend here, I've gotten very good
[6:05] Speaker 2: at putting on a face. He's been through so much
[6:09] Speaker 2: too and you have to show up.
[6:12] Speaker 4: You got to.
[6:12] Speaker 1: Compartmentalizing, I feel like, is such a strength if you
[6:15] Speaker 1: can do it.
[6:16] Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree.
[6:17] Speaker 4: And it's hard.
[6:17] Speaker 3: I think especially with this where people really do look
[6:19] Speaker 3: up to you for a lot of inspiration. And they
[6:21] Speaker 3: do also want you to talk very vulnerably about your
[6:25] Speaker 3: personal lives as a way to gain strength from what
[6:27] Speaker 3: you do. So it's like, how do you compartmentalize your
[6:30] Speaker 3: personal life without getting so.
[6:32] Speaker 4: invested and.
[6:32] Speaker 3: Warped up where you look like you're failing but you're
[6:34] Speaker 3: also strong it's like you have without hurting their feelings
[6:37] Speaker 3: sophie and i were talking about this the other day
[6:39] Speaker 3: we said isn't it so strange how you literally go
[6:41] Speaker 3: from strangers with someone to best friends to lovers to
[6:44] Speaker 3: being intimate to enemies it's like that's weird.
[6:48] Speaker 5: It's horrible it's what i told mike is and and
[6:50] Speaker 5: part of like the psychological reason why i feel like
[6:52] Speaker 5: breakups are so difficult is because What do they say?
[6:56] Speaker 5: 30 days to form a habit, 90 days to form
[6:58] Speaker 5: a behavior.
[6:59] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[6:59] Speaker 1: If you're in a long-term relationship, this person is like
[7:01] Speaker 1: part of your behavior.
[7:03] Speaker 2: Oh, yeah.
[7:03] Speaker 4: Absolutely.
[7:04] Speaker 1: It's all you know and love. Those morning texts is
[7:05] Speaker 1: like that's part of the routine. That's everything. All of
[7:07] Speaker 1: a sudden, one day, it's gone.
[7:10] Speaker 4: It's gone.
[7:11] Speaker 1: It's kind of fucked up. It might be.
[7:13] Speaker 2: It's kind of like.
[7:13] Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry. I'm sorry to hear you going through it.
[7:18] Speaker 2: No, listen, I'm okay. I'm going to be okay. The
[7:22] Speaker 2: toughness with this one is, and by the way, I
[7:26] Speaker 2: bring these topics up because they're very, very applicable to
[7:29] Speaker 2: the audience. Like these are just stepping stones for us
[7:31] Speaker 2: to have great conversation today, right? A lot of people
[7:33] Speaker 2: watching this are going through the same thing. You know
[7:35] Speaker 2: how prevalent breakup TikTok is and relationship problem TikTok is.
[7:38] Speaker 2: You guys talk about this stuff all the time. One
[7:41] Speaker 2: of the hardest things about this particular one for me
[7:43] Speaker 2: is like all of my other breakups or a lot
[7:45] Speaker 2: of them were like, okay, one of us is going
[7:47] Speaker 2: to die. This relationship's like, this has gotten- Wait, wait, wait.
[7:51] Speaker 1: Like literally or definitely?
[7:52] Speaker 2: Yes. Like this has gotten toxic. Some of them were
[7:54] Speaker 2: during drug time. Some of them were not. But like
[7:58] Speaker 2: this has gotten toxic. And someone is, you know, we're
[8:01] Speaker 2: saying mean things to each other, so on and so forth.
[8:03] Speaker 2: This one is like very amicable, which is really, has
[8:07] Speaker 2: been really difficult because there's no catalyst there. beyond the
[8:11] Speaker 2: fact that we just cannot stop fighting. And we've been
[8:16] Speaker 2: doing that for like, I feel like I'm gonna get
[8:18] Speaker 2: so open today and maybe that's okay. I'm not saying
[8:22] Speaker 2: anything bad, because like I said, I do love her,
[8:23] Speaker 2: but I think for so long I was thinking that
[8:31] Speaker 2: these fights were a result of her you know, short
[8:36] Speaker 2: temper or Latino or age or whatever.
[8:38] Speaker 4: Well, you said she's an Aries. That's definitely a part.
[8:41] Speaker 2: Of those things. But, but more so lately I've been
[8:44] Speaker 2: exploring this. I really want to talk about it today is,
[8:48] Speaker 2: is how different we are from an attachment style standpoint.
[8:51] Speaker 4: Oh, and so what's your attachment style?
[8:53] Speaker 2: Do you want to guess? Are you avoidant? I am
[8:55] Speaker 2: on that part of the spectrum.
[8:57] Speaker 4: Okay. And she's very anxious.
[8:59] Speaker 2: Exactly. So you guys know both. You know me better,
[9:03] Speaker 2: but you've met her and we've talked. So for anybody
[9:07] Speaker 2: watching this, let's talk about the four attachment types. You've
[9:11] Speaker 2: got secure attachment type, which represents about 66% of people
[9:14] Speaker 2: in the world. And a lot of this is based
[9:17] Speaker 2: on how you were brought up as a kid. So
[9:19] Speaker 2: they do well with relationships, with intimacy, with emotional sharing,
[9:22] Speaker 2: with vulnerability. On the left side of that is anxious
[9:28] Speaker 2: people who are anxiously attached. These people had some sort
[9:31] Speaker 2: of upbringing, you know, differential and they need a little
[9:35] Speaker 2: bit of added reassurance in relationships because they are worried
[9:40] Speaker 2: and scared of abandonment.
[9:41] Speaker 3: Okay.
[9:42] Speaker 2: On the flip side, and the people who get the
[9:45] Speaker 2: most heat on social media is the avoidant. And a
[9:50] Speaker 2: lot of times this ends up being guys. They have
[9:53] Speaker 2: commitment issues. They ghost as soon as there's a fight
[9:56] Speaker 2: or an argument of any kind. And these are usually
[9:59] Speaker 2: results of upbringing. issues as well because maybe they weren't
[10:01] Speaker 2: given the right amount of care from their caregivers, whatever
[10:04] Speaker 2: it is, right? And then there's another one called disorganized,
[10:07] Speaker 2: which we don't have to get into. The thing about
[10:10] Speaker 2: it is like everybody wants to be termed as an
[10:11] Speaker 2: avoidant or an anxious, but it's a spectrum.
[10:13] Speaker 4: It's totally a spectrum.
[10:14] Speaker 2: It's a spectrum. And so you can end up, I
[10:16] Speaker 2: veer slightly avoidant, but I show up, I post, I
[10:21] Speaker 2: don't hide anything. I'm always there. I send all the
[10:24] Speaker 2: flowers and I work at it. And it's hard for me.
[10:26] Speaker 6: It is, yeah.
[10:27] Speaker 2: But when you team an avoidant up with an anxious,
[10:30] Speaker 2: which is the majority, as you guys know, is the
[10:31] Speaker 2: majority of relationships.
[10:33] Speaker 3: Right.
[10:33] Speaker 2: It can be very difficult.
[10:34] Speaker 3: But I will say, I do commend you guys for
[10:37] Speaker 3: taking this, not separation or break, but like separating, because
[10:40] Speaker 3: I think a lot of people struggle with, okay, so
[10:42] Speaker 3: you say it takes 90 days to form a habit.
[10:44] Speaker 3: So your guys' habit is fighting and that's how you
[10:47] Speaker 3: depend on each other. And that is now your conversation.
[10:51] Speaker 3: And a lot of people fear the unknown, right? So
[10:53] Speaker 3: being single is more of a fear than actually sticking
[10:57] Speaker 3: to a relationship. Even though it's so tumultuous, they would
[10:59] Speaker 3: rather stay in something they're so familiar with than.
[11:02] Speaker 4: Actually breaking off and growing.
[11:03] Speaker 3: Because every time you do break off, it hurts, it sucks,
[11:07] Speaker 3: but you do always feel like you grow as a
[11:10] Speaker 3: human being even more so. So as much as it's
[11:13] Speaker 3: so hard after two years to not have that person
[11:15] Speaker 3: that wakes up to you every single day, you're not
[11:17] Speaker 3: even realizing the person you're going to become and you're
[11:19] Speaker 3: going to attract someone That is so much more aligned
[11:22] Speaker 3: to you. And she's going to attract someone that's more
[11:25] Speaker 3: aligned to him. It's gotten to the point where you
[11:27] Speaker 3: have confused conflict with love.
[11:30] Speaker 4: And you've confused. Passion with love. Passion with love.
[11:33] Speaker 3: Or anger or yelling with. It shows how much I
[11:36] Speaker 3: care about you. And at the end of the day,
[11:38] Speaker 3: none of that really matters. Like, do you want to
[11:42] Speaker 3: wake up? Because this is the worst part of the
[11:43] Speaker 3: relationship is when you break up. And you only remember
[11:46] Speaker 3: the good. And you only remember the sweet sex. And
[11:50] Speaker 3: you only remember the great sex. And that's all you
[11:51] Speaker 3: can think about. But think about all of the stupid
[11:54] Speaker 3: things that maybe she got on you about. Things that
[11:56] Speaker 3: you had a boundary and she kept pushing. Things that
[11:58] Speaker 3: you pushed on her boundaries. The buttons that you guys
[12:00] Speaker 3: would hit.
[12:01] Speaker 1: His tolerance for that is.
[12:03] Speaker 5: abnormally high really abnormal abnormally high mine's so low i
[12:07] Speaker 5: just want to say one thing while we're on this
[12:09] Speaker 5: topic because i feel like i feel like it's important
[12:11] Speaker 5: and i'm i'm very lucky to have found a person
[12:13] Speaker 5: who uh embodies this characteristic that i feel like is
[12:17] Speaker 5: the solution to a lot of what we're talking about
[12:20] Speaker 5: um it's like a it's a it's honestly a hack
[12:23] Speaker 5: for women and uh i'm curious if you guys have
[12:25] Speaker 5: this quality but um the quality of being conflict avert
[12:30] Speaker 5: oh Like, you don't want fucking problems.
[12:35] Speaker 1: And also, why?
[12:36] Speaker 4: Yeah, right.
[12:37] Speaker 5: You're not here to create problems. You're here to create
[12:40] Speaker 5: solutions and bring us.
[12:41] Speaker 1: Both up the mountain together.
[12:43] Speaker 4: Exactly.
[12:43] Speaker 5: I'm not saying this about his girl, but, like, in
[12:46] Speaker 5: some of my past relationships, I've always felt like I was, like,
[12:50] Speaker 5: the problem.
[12:51] Speaker 1: And then I.
[12:52] Speaker 5: Realized I'm a little bit of it, for sure, because
[12:55] Speaker 5: I kind of like conflict.
[12:57] Speaker 3: Right.
[12:58] Speaker 1: But, man, when I found Nina.
[13:00] Speaker 5: It was so refreshing to have been with a girl
[13:02] Speaker 5: who like doesn't cause issues.
[13:04] Speaker 6: Right.
[13:05] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[13:05] Speaker 4: And it's easy.
[13:06] Speaker 2: It's so easy.
[13:06] Speaker 4: Like you don't have to be.
[13:08] Speaker 3: Angry or cry or yell in a relationship.
[13:10] Speaker 1: What are we doing?
[13:11] Speaker 4: You can just enjoy it.
[13:12] Speaker 3: And you don't believe you actually are going to find that.
[13:14] Speaker 3: For a long time when you've been in so many
[13:15] Speaker 3: of those crisis relationships, you're like, who is going.
[13:17] Speaker 2: To be out there?
[13:18] Speaker 4: It's all I've ever had. That's all you know.
[13:19] Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden you meet and it's
[13:21] Speaker 3: truly this, your best friend that genuinely just goes, I
[13:24] Speaker 3: just want to sit with you and just hang out.
[13:26] Speaker 3: I do think it is a generational curse, if you will.
[13:29] Speaker 3: Like just seeing how- your parents may be communicated in
[13:32] Speaker 3: a relationship and showed love. And then perhaps it's one
[13:35] Speaker 3: of those things that you can either continue that cycle
[13:37] Speaker 3: and think that fighting is love, or you are the
[13:40] Speaker 3: one that breaks the cycle, breaks the generational curse. Like, oh, okay, actually,
[13:43] Speaker 3: I'm going to not do what they did and find
[13:45] Speaker 3: something different, more wholesome.
[13:47] Speaker 4: I also believe your cups both have to be full.
[13:50] Speaker 4: I always say this. Where's your cup at, Mike?
[13:53] Speaker 2: I have so much work to do. I have so
[13:55] Speaker 2: much work to do. And also, like, truthfully, like, I also,
[13:58] Speaker 2: I mean that in two ways. I mean on myself,
[14:01] Speaker 2: but I also mean on the planet. Like truthfully, like
[14:04] Speaker 2: I have been, I spoke with Logan about this. Maybe
[14:06] Speaker 2: now's a good time to bring it up. I had
[14:10] Speaker 2: a medium reach out to me last week. A medium,
[14:14] Speaker 2: a breathwork coach, someone that I've worked with in the past.
[14:16] Speaker 2: I've just done breathwork with her, but it was about
[14:18] Speaker 2: five years ago. Okay, her name's Hela. I'll say her name.
[14:22] Speaker 5: She's just, for a little bit more context, Lucas Mack, who's,
[14:26] Speaker 5: Jake's breathwork coach for all of his fights.
[14:29] Speaker 1: It's his partner. They're like kind of in the circle
[14:31] Speaker 1: and they're both very good at what they do. Amazing.
[14:33] Speaker 2: Like amazing breathwork. But I hadn't spoken with her at all.
[14:36] Speaker 2: And she reached out to me while I was traveling
[14:37] Speaker 2: in Austin last week, getting stem cells. And she said, um, hey,
[14:41] Speaker 2: I really need to meet with you. Is there a
[14:44] Speaker 2: time that we can meet? And I said, yeah, I'm
[14:45] Speaker 2: traveling right now. I'll be back home Monday. You can
[14:47] Speaker 2: come over, whatever. So Monday night comes along. She takes
[14:50] Speaker 2: this $ 260 Uber on her own dime to my house
[14:53] Speaker 2: and shows up at the door, sits on the couch.
[14:55] Speaker 2: We talk for five minutes. And she's like, hey, I
[14:57] Speaker 2: have to tell you something right now that's going to
[14:59] Speaker 2: be a little bit heavy. Are you ready to hear it?
[15:01] Speaker 2: And when I get in the room with mediums and
[15:03] Speaker 2: stuff like that, I start to get a little bit tense, right?
[15:06] Speaker 4: Of course, yeah.
[15:07] Speaker 2: I am a Christian. I think about this thing and
[15:09] Speaker 2: that thing. And, um, she goes, when you were, when
[15:13] Speaker 2: you were going through all your, your drug stuff, um, and,
[15:16] Speaker 2: and the trauma in your life, she goes, did you ever,
[15:18] Speaker 2: do you think that you ever passed at any point
[15:21] Speaker 2: to the other side? And I was like, I mean,
[15:23] Speaker 2: I've been on life support so many times and in
[15:26] Speaker 2: so many accidents. And I would assume, like, I would
[15:28] Speaker 2: assume maybe it could be possible. And she's like, so,
[15:31] Speaker 2: so you have, she goes, you, you 100% have seen
[15:33] Speaker 2: the other side. Um, and yeah. I was meditating on
[15:40] Speaker 2: this last week after a friend of mine passed, she
[15:42] Speaker 2: told me, and she said, and I kept seeing your face,
[15:44] Speaker 2: so I meditated deeper. And she said, I have been
[15:50] Speaker 2: told to bring you the message that you are the
[15:52] Speaker 2: voice for the people who have passed from addiction and
[15:54] Speaker 2: mental illness. You are their voice on earth. You are
[15:58] Speaker 2: their mouthpiece. You are their legs, their body, since they
[16:01] Speaker 2: don't have that anymore. Oh, I love it. And they
[16:04] Speaker 2: want to let you know that you're protected. You have
[16:06] Speaker 2: been sent on this mission. You've been sent back on
[16:09] Speaker 2: this mission. She almost called it like as like an
[16:11] Speaker 2: angelic grim reaper, she said, to bring this message home.
[16:16] Speaker 4: That's so powerful.
[16:17] Speaker 2: It shook me very, very deeply to my core, like
[16:20] Speaker 2: truthfully to have this message of affirmation on something that
[16:24] Speaker 2: I'm so deeply about to really roll into, obviously I
[16:28] Speaker 2: already have a best-selling book about it, which I would
[16:29] Speaker 2: love to have featured on the book club at some point.
[16:32] Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[16:33] Speaker 4: Definitely, of course.
[16:35] Speaker 2: But like to have that affirmation of something that is
[16:38] Speaker 2: in my core, the only thing I ever felt passionate
[16:40] Speaker 2: about in my life, which is helping people that struggle
[16:43] Speaker 2: with that. And so when I say I have a
[16:45] Speaker 2: lot to work on and how it affects my relationships,
[16:48] Speaker 2: I don't mean just internally. I mean, I have a
[16:49] Speaker 2: lot to do and, and that is another obstacle when
[16:54] Speaker 2: you're trying to share a life with somebody because I
[16:57] Speaker 2: have a lot of work to do.
[16:58] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[16:58] Speaker 6: Right.
[16:58] Speaker 3: I tell you, that's actually something interesting and not to
[17:00] Speaker 3: get too astrology based, but just to kind of give
[17:03] Speaker 3: you the context, but why 2025 is really, really interesting
[17:06] Speaker 3: is Pluto is one of the farthest from the sun
[17:08] Speaker 3: and it just represents like death and rebirth. Right. For
[17:12] Speaker 3: 16 years, it's been in Capricorn, which is all about grinding, work, money, building,
[17:16] Speaker 3: like building your empire, right? So for the first time
[17:20] Speaker 3: in 16 years, it's in Aquarius, which is very eccentric, free-spirited,
[17:24] Speaker 3: but very humanitarian. Everything is about helping your family, helping
[17:28] Speaker 3: the masses, wanting to grow generationally. And it's really interesting
[17:32] Speaker 3: that this woman approached you to let you know that
[17:35] Speaker 3: this is your mission, especially for 2025, that... you have
[17:39] Speaker 3: to be in this mindset of helping the people because
[17:42] Speaker 3: that's all what Aquarius is, is that they're very innovative
[17:46] Speaker 3: and it's not, it's more technology based. And it's kind
[17:48] Speaker 3: of ironic with everything that's going on in our government
[17:50] Speaker 3: as well with technology and that whole thing with Elon
[17:53] Speaker 3: and chat GBT and Sam, whatever. But I just think it's, sorry,
[17:57] Speaker 3: but I think it's just interesting that that happened with
[17:59] Speaker 3: the whole Pluto thing, but it's, it felt very aligned
[18:02] Speaker 3: when I just heard that you said that. And I
[18:04] Speaker 3: feel like a lot of people are kind of in
[18:05] Speaker 3: this realm right now in 2025. It's like, what is
[18:08] Speaker 3: the next big step that I can make it even bigger?
[18:10] Speaker 3: But like more people see it, but it helps them.
[18:13] Speaker 4: And it's, I don't know.
[18:14] Speaker 3: And it just, it feels very serendipitous to hear that.
[18:17] Speaker 3: That was meant to be.
[18:18] Speaker 2: And that's the word. I mean, I remember when I
[18:20] Speaker 2: told the story about how I kept running into people
[18:22] Speaker 2: before onsite as well. And it was this really like,
[18:25] Speaker 2: God given situation to keep it on relationships. How much
[18:30] Speaker 2: do you guys believe that horoscopes play a role in matchmaking?
[18:35] Speaker 4: I'll tell you this. A first date hates to see
[18:37] Speaker 4: us coming. Yeah. What is your sign of it? And
[18:40] Speaker 4: every time, oh, you're that kind of girl.
[18:42] Speaker 3: Listen, believe it if you want. By the way, we
[18:45] Speaker 3: grew up with this stuff. Our grandma was an astrologist.
[18:47] Speaker 3: Sly had crystals the size of children. We'd have to
[18:50] Speaker 3: walk around in our home. Like we grew up on this.
[18:53] Speaker 4: He lives on it. He loves astrology.
[18:54] Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you call him Sly?
[18:56] Speaker 4: Yes, we do.
[18:57] Speaker 3: Sly, we love you, is so nuts that when my
[19:01] Speaker 3: little sister was being born, my mom was induced into
[19:04] Speaker 3: labor and he told the doctors, hold off for one
[19:07] Speaker 3: more day. I want her to be a Gemini. So
[19:10] Speaker 3: we kept her in the belly one more day so
[19:12] Speaker 3: she's the Gemini.
[19:13] Speaker 2: Can I tell you really quickly, and I just want
[19:15] Speaker 2: to give you guys your flowers right now. You guys
[19:19] Speaker 2: have created such a force and such a knowledge base
[19:22] Speaker 2: and your energies and your approach to all this is
[19:27] Speaker 2: so big that we've made it. you know, 20 plus
[19:31] Speaker 2: minutes into this podcast without mentioning the fact that your
[19:33] Speaker 2: father is Sylvester Stallone. Like that is not even close
[19:37] Speaker 2: to the first thing that came off.
[19:39] Speaker 1: Okay.
[19:39] Speaker 2: One of the greatest actors in the history.
[19:42] Speaker 4: Of the universe. He does all right. He does all right.
[19:45] Speaker 4: He's fine.
[19:46] Speaker 2: You guys are the stars now.
[19:47] Speaker 4: No, it's crazy.
[19:48] Speaker 3: I mean, it's kind of cool because we're kind of
[19:50] Speaker 3: trying to pave our own path with having that name
[19:52] Speaker 3: and we're kind of figuring out our own steps.
[19:53] Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean.
[19:54] Speaker 3: My God, the shoes are massive to fill.
[19:56] Speaker 6: Yeah.
[19:56] Speaker 4: I mean, but it's nice that we're girls. I think
[19:58] Speaker 4: that's what helps a lot. That's true.
[19:59] Speaker 5: I wanted to ask about this. I do feel like
[20:02] Speaker 5: we should do an intro just really quick.
[20:03] Speaker 3: Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Hi, guys.
[20:05] Speaker 5: For those of you who have not figured it out,
[20:06] Speaker 5: it's the Stallone sisters.
[20:08] Speaker 3: Woo!
[20:10] Speaker 1: Sophia and Sistine, yeah, thanks for joining us. We normally
[20:13] Speaker 1: do it at the beginning, but we're back. Okay, I
[20:16] Speaker 1: just had a daughter.
[20:17] Speaker 2: I just had a daughter.
[20:18] Speaker 4: I know, congratulations.
[20:19] Speaker 1: Today's her half birthday, six months old.
[20:22] Speaker 4: That is huge.
[20:23] Speaker 3: And can I just say, Sistine and I were talking
[20:25] Speaker 3: about this this morning. We're like, oh my God, wait,
[20:27] Speaker 3: he has a daughter. And I thought, oh my God,
[20:29] Speaker 3: it'd be kind of cool to share what our dad
[20:31] Speaker 3: did with us that really we loved as daughters.
[20:35] Speaker 4: With a relationship with her father to tell you.
[20:36] Speaker 1: Ladies, I was going to ask. Okay, great. Please enlighten me.
[20:41] Speaker 4: I do want to say this.
[20:42] Speaker 3: My parents always said, I love that you have a
[20:44] Speaker 3: daughter because... Boys, when they hit a certain age and
[20:47] Speaker 3: they find their wife or their girlfriend, whatever, they don't
[20:50] Speaker 3: really need their parents anymore.
[20:51] Speaker 4: They just leave.
[20:52] Speaker 1: I can relate.
[20:53] Speaker 4: But women are forever. But daughters are forever.
[20:56] Speaker 2: Sorry, mom and dad.
[20:56] Speaker 1: I love you guys.
[20:57] Speaker 4: No, but it's true and that's fine. It's just the
[20:58] Speaker 4: way it is. But daughters are forever. They always come
[21:00] Speaker 4: back home to their mom and dad. Yeah, they always
[21:01] Speaker 4: need their mom and dad.
[21:02] Speaker 1: That's really sweet.
[21:03] Speaker 4: But I was thinking about this and I mentioned this.
[21:04] Speaker 4: I was like, wait, this is something I.
[21:06] Speaker 3: Really want to tell you because growing up, my dad
[21:10] Speaker 3: raised us like boys.
[21:11] Speaker 4: I think that was the biggest thing.
[21:12] Speaker 3: Yeah. He saw us, he didn't see us and go, oh,
[21:15] Speaker 3: she's going to love clothes, makeup, all the girly stuff.
[21:17] Speaker 4: Sophie, we looked like boys.
[21:19] Speaker 3: I will tell you, he respects the hell out of
[21:20] Speaker 3: you because of WWE. We grew up on SummerSlam.
[21:23] Speaker 1: No way. Oh, yeah. Randy Thornton.
[21:25] Speaker 4: My dad was obsessed. Undertaker. Triple H.
[21:27] Speaker 1: I beat Randy Orton.
[21:29] Speaker 4: He's so, I had the biggest crush on him.
[21:31] Speaker 1: Triple H.
[21:31] Speaker 4: Like, we.
[21:33] Speaker 3: So my point was that he involved us in his
[21:36] Speaker 3: world without separating us being like, oh, they wouldn't care
[21:38] Speaker 3: about it.
[21:39] Speaker 4: We grew up playing golf, shot put, WWE, comic books.
[21:42] Speaker 1: Like loved it.
[21:43] Speaker 3: So what I'm saying to you is If you feel
[21:45] Speaker 3: like you can't relate to your daughter, just bring her
[21:47] Speaker 3: into your world. Show her everything that you love. And
[21:50] Speaker 3: I'm telling you, we've become very well-rounded because we can
[21:53] Speaker 3: think like a guy and a girl now. Like we
[21:55] Speaker 3: can relate to you guys on literally the bro-iest stuff.
[21:58] Speaker 3: But that's only because he was like, honestly, the only
[22:00] Speaker 3: thing I want my daughter to do is throw a shot,
[22:02] Speaker 3: smoke a cigar, and smoke a pop club. No, that's
[22:04] Speaker 3: how we really bonded when I was like 17. I go, okay,
[22:07] Speaker 3: what does he love to do? Watch UFC every Saturday
[22:09] Speaker 3: and smoke a cigar.
[22:10] Speaker 4: So what did we do?
[22:11] Speaker 3: Started smoking cigarillos and watching UFC every Saturday for like
[22:14] Speaker 3: four years straight.
[22:17] Speaker 1: You guys are gangsters.
[22:18] Speaker 4: No, we love it.
[22:20] Speaker 1: Inherently though, you must not be like girly girls, right?
[22:24] Speaker 4: Definitely not.
[22:26] Speaker 3: No, we've become more so, but no, we were more rough.
[22:28] Speaker 3: Like my dad would always teach how to throw a punch.
[22:31] Speaker 4: We were softball.
[22:32] Speaker 3: He took down our jungle gym and replaced it with
[22:34] Speaker 3: a softball cage, like a batting cage. Like everything was
[22:37] Speaker 3: much more masculine. We had bow and arrows in the backyard.
[22:40] Speaker 3: Like that was how we actually had to be fit.
[22:42] Speaker 1: I want to say something.
[22:43] Speaker 5: I don't want this to be taken the wrong way.
[22:46] Speaker 5: Cause like, I feel, I feel like to raise your daughter,
[22:48] Speaker 5: like a lady and like a woman, even if that
[22:52] Speaker 5: is like more feminine is not a bad thing. There's
[22:54] Speaker 5: a lot of power in that. But I asked this
[22:57] Speaker 5: girl named Jaden. She has a YouTube channel called Jaden Animations.
[23:01] Speaker 3: Mr.
[23:01] Speaker 5: Beast invited a bunch of YouTubers in this glass box
[23:04] Speaker 5: to compete for a million dollars. Very successful YouTuber. We're
[23:08] Speaker 5: trapped in this box. So in between challenges, I asked her.
[23:11] Speaker 5: I was like, hey, I'm about to have a daughter.
[23:14] Speaker 5: can you give me advice on like what it takes
[23:16] Speaker 5: to raise a young woman to be successful like you did?
[23:19] Speaker 5: And she said the same exact thing you just said.
[23:22] Speaker 4: Is that crazy?
[23:23] Speaker 1: She said, my dad didn't raise me like a girl.
[23:25] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[23:25] Speaker 6: Yep.
[23:26] Speaker 5: And she didn't feel like her gender affected anything.
[23:30] Speaker 6: No.
[23:31] Speaker 4: Because we still loved clothes. Clearly, we loved doing our hair.
[23:34] Speaker 3: But our morning routine was insane for a fourth grader.
[23:37] Speaker 1: Did you dump your head in ice water?
[23:39] Speaker 4: I'll tell you.
[23:40] Speaker 3: We did it for, what, five years starting in the
[23:43] Speaker 3: second grade.
[23:43] Speaker 4: Almost through high school. Honestly, forever. He'd wake us up
[23:46] Speaker 4: at 6 a.m.
[23:49] Speaker 3: Come downstairs, we'd have to do 20 push-ups, 20 sit-ups,
[23:51] Speaker 3: 20 clean and jerks.
[23:52] Speaker 2: Are you serious? 20 clean and jerks.
[23:54] Speaker 1: No way.
[23:55] Speaker 4: And if we didn't snap correct, we'd have to start over.
[23:57] Speaker 4: We would... Go to the backyard and shoot shot put.
[24:00] Speaker 3: Yeah, we'd do shot put because he wanted us to
[24:01] Speaker 3: break the record for shot put.
[24:03] Speaker 4: Who does shot put?
[24:03] Speaker 1: That's crazy. Oh, I lost.
[24:05] Speaker 4: I got second place. He didn't talk to me for
[24:06] Speaker 4: a week. And then we put... No, I swear to God.
[24:08] Speaker 4: Second grade. He actually got so upset. Also.
[24:10] Speaker 1: Like, you guys don't really have the frame for shot put.
[24:12] Speaker 3: No.
[24:13] Speaker 2: I don't.
[24:13] Speaker 4: No, we don't. Chicks that were, like, 300 pounds.
[24:16] Speaker 3: Yeah, what?
[24:17] Speaker 4: A steady white chick here?
[24:18] Speaker 2: I'm like, no.
[24:19] Speaker 3: We'd have to memorize combinations, and then we'd do combinations,
[24:21] Speaker 3: and then. Memorize Edgar Allan Poe.
[24:24] Speaker 4: Well, that was after school.
[24:25] Speaker 1: Well, it's sorry.
[24:26] Speaker 4: The Raven. The Raven, yeah.
[24:27] Speaker 3: Nevermore.
[24:28] Speaker 2: Into a tape recorder.
[24:29] Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[24:29] Speaker 4: The whole thing. And then, before we left for school,
[24:31] Speaker 4: he would make us, like, four eggs each.
[24:34] Speaker 1: I hated eggs.
[24:35] Speaker 4: I can't eat eggs to this day. I'd vomit. He'd
[24:37] Speaker 4: make me another plate.
[24:37] Speaker 2: I'm like, fuck. Oh my gosh. How much of that
[24:41] Speaker 2: routine do you think is part of the reason why
[24:44] Speaker 2: you guys are so successful?
[24:45] Speaker 4: A lot of it.
[24:46] Speaker 1: Oh yeah, a lot of it.
[24:47] Speaker 3: A lot of it. It taught us how to have
[24:48] Speaker 3: hard work and also keep ourselves accountable.
[24:50] Speaker 4: We were very active.
[24:52] Speaker 3: I think also it really instilled us how to be healthy,
[24:54] Speaker 3: working out, what it takes to be the best. And
[24:56] Speaker 3: our parents didn't come from anything. Like both of them
[24:58] Speaker 3: were new money, ground up. My dad was living on
[25:02] Speaker 3: the street in New York. My mom has no parents,
[25:04] Speaker 3: one is seven in Minnesota. And she raised her, she
[25:08] Speaker 3: started her own company, made billion dollars in sales. And
[25:13] Speaker 3: she's beautiful and the best mom ever. And it's crazy.
[25:16] Speaker 3: So we were raised with really, like you guys, super
[25:19] Speaker 3: ambitious people. And they instilled that in us and always
[25:22] Speaker 3: reminded us, everything isn't handed to you.
[25:24] Speaker 4: And that was a big part of it too.
[25:27] Speaker 5: How do you stay that ambitious knowing that you have
[25:31] Speaker 5: such big shoes to fill.
[25:33] Speaker 1: Like, did you ever feel like the pressure was too much?
[25:36] Speaker 4: All the time. All the time, yeah.
[25:37] Speaker 3: We were always trying to be really perfect, especially growing up.
[25:40] Speaker 3: And I think that we still have that innately in us.
[25:43] Speaker 3: But I think what really helped us today is finding
[25:45] Speaker 3: our own avenue. Like, Sistine's now been a screenwriter, and
[25:48] Speaker 3: she does a lot of things on the side that, like,
[25:49] Speaker 3: he is not involved in. I just finished my first
[25:51] Speaker 3: romance novel. Like, that's going to be my new avenue.
[25:53] Speaker 3: And I think having our own paths and our own voices,
[25:56] Speaker 3: and also this podcast, like, that has nothing to do
[25:58] Speaker 3: with him.
[25:59] Speaker 4: It has everything to do with us. has really gave
[26:00] Speaker 4: us the confidence.
[26:01] Speaker 3: And I think they taught us, expand your world, expand
[26:04] Speaker 3: your circle. Don't just stay in the, I think also
[26:07] Speaker 3: not being in the social media world super young was
[26:09] Speaker 3: a big idea. We didn't get involved until after college.
[26:14] Speaker 4: Well, we weren't invited. Actually, wait, wait. I just remembered.
[26:18] Speaker 4: Oh my God, we have to say something.
[26:19] Speaker 3: This is such a crazy coincidence with you, Logan.
[26:23] Speaker 1: I think I know what you're going to say.
[26:25] Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, this is so bad. This is nuts,
[26:27] Speaker 3: you guys. Yesterday, on my Photos app in my phone.
[26:32] Speaker 3: You know how they do like four years ago today, whatever, right?
[26:35] Speaker 3: I got one eight years ago today.
[26:37] Speaker 4: I click on it. Who's the photo? Us three. Us three.
[26:40] Speaker 3: Us three.
[26:41] Speaker 4: We've met. And I was like, wait, what? What are
[26:43] Speaker 4: the odds?
[26:44] Speaker 3: We're seeing you tomorrow. We already have a photo with you.
[26:46] Speaker 3: So then I was going into my Rolodex. I'm like,
[26:48] Speaker 3: where was this from? Year 2017. It was some Dolce &
[26:52] Speaker 3: Gabbana event in LA. We took like a party bus
[26:55] Speaker 3: to a club. We were all underage, but they rented
[26:57] Speaker 3: it out. Here's the craziest part. All I remember is
[27:01] Speaker 3: that we were on this party bus and you were
[27:03] Speaker 3: so nice. Yeah.
[27:05] Speaker 4: And that I never forget. Are you sure? I promise you.
[27:09] Speaker 3: We never forgot that actually. I would tell you if
[27:10] Speaker 3: you're an asshole for sure.
[27:11] Speaker 4: Oh yeah.
[27:12] Speaker 3: You were really friendly and we were just like so shy.
[27:15] Speaker 3: I didn't say anything.
[27:16] Speaker 4: You were just so friendly to everyone.
[27:17] Speaker 3: You were kind of in like this like eccentric phase
[27:20] Speaker 3: i think in your life because you're like dabbing he
[27:28] Speaker 3: was definitely like the peak where it was like blogging.
[27:31] Speaker 2: A lot so that was five that was five years ago.
[27:34] Speaker 3: No i have i have photos oh you're dabbing in
[27:36] Speaker 3: the video i was dabbing in the oh yeah no
[27:39] Speaker 3: that i have it it's amazing can i please see
[27:41] Speaker 3: it yeah go grab it where is it it's so funny.
[27:45] Speaker 2: Could that have been 2022?
[27:46] Speaker 3: No. No, no, it was earlier.
[27:49] Speaker 2: It was 2017.
[27:49] Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it was way.
[27:51] Speaker 2: Well, how did you guys, that was eight years ago.
[27:53] Speaker 4: You turned off your phone.
[27:54] Speaker 1: That's insane.
[27:55] Speaker 2: Oh, I thought you said three, sorry.
[27:57] Speaker 1: That's insane.
[27:57] Speaker 4: No, it was crazy. But you were so nice to
[27:59] Speaker 4: us on the bus.
[28:00] Speaker 1: You were just being.
[28:01] Speaker 4: Like, you weren't being loud or anything, you were just like, hey,
[28:03] Speaker 4: I'm Logan.
[28:04] Speaker 3: And you know what, we meet a lot of people,
[28:05] Speaker 3: a lot of kids, especially in this position, and they're
[28:07] Speaker 3: all so mean. So we never forget someone that was
[28:10] Speaker 3: really mean.
[28:11] Speaker 2: Name some of the mean ones.
[28:13] Speaker 3: Oh, God.
[28:13] Speaker 4: When the camera's cut, you know who they are.
[28:16] Speaker 1: You know what, while you look for that picture, you
[28:17] Speaker 1: know what I thought you were going to say.
[28:19] Speaker 3: Oh, God.
[28:20] Speaker 4: Did we date someone you know?
[28:21] Speaker 3: No.
[28:21] Speaker 1: Thank God.
[28:22] Speaker 2: Actually, probably. Probably you, not me. Probably me.
[28:26] Speaker 1: Probably, I think you might have.
[28:27] Speaker 2: It's never me.
[28:29] Speaker 4: No, no, no.
[28:29] Speaker 1: I was going to say your podcast. Yeah.
[28:34] Speaker 5: I believe my fiance was supposed to come on it
[28:36] Speaker 5: at one point.
[28:37] Speaker 3: Oh.
[28:38] Speaker 2: Okay.
[28:39] Speaker 3: Can I tell you this? We were not going to
[28:41] Speaker 3: bring this up because we're like, it's fine.
[28:42] Speaker 4: I forgot about this. I was so bitter that day.
[28:44] Speaker 4: Nina canceled. Nina canceled.
[28:46] Speaker 3: But it's okay because we had four other guests that day.
[28:48] Speaker 2: So it was fine.
[28:49] Speaker 4: It was okay.
[28:49] Speaker 3: We were just upset because we're like so excited to
[28:52] Speaker 3: meet her and have her on.
[28:53] Speaker 4: And then she canceled the morning of and we're like, oh,
[28:55] Speaker 4: does she not want to go on? She hates us.
[28:57] Speaker 1: Do you know why she canceled?
[28:59] Speaker 4: She said she was sick. I think she said she
[29:00] Speaker 4: was sick.
[29:01] Speaker 1: That's not true. Oh, I know. Well, do you know
[29:04] Speaker 1: what the truth was? That was the morning we met.
[29:06] Speaker 3: Oh!
[29:07] Speaker 4: You're lying. Wait, that's insane. Okay, I forgive you.
[29:11] Speaker 1: That's okay.
[29:11] Speaker 4: You can totally cancel again.
[29:13] Speaker 3: Hold on.
[29:13] Speaker 4: We've been like invisible string theory for a.
[29:16] Speaker 1: Long time now.
[29:16] Speaker 4: That's insane.
[29:17] Speaker 1: Isn't that crazy?
[29:18] Speaker 4: Oh, I'll allow it.
[29:19] Speaker 2: Wait, sorry.
[29:20] Speaker 3: Wait, does that mean like you were like hanging out
[29:22] Speaker 3: in her apartment or something?
[29:23] Speaker 4: Yeah, so she's like, wait, you're not actually crazy.
[29:25] Speaker 2: That's so funny.
[29:26] Speaker 1: Okay, so.
[29:27] Speaker 3: Okay, if she had said that, I would have been
[29:29] Speaker 3: like bad.
[29:29] Speaker 4: Was this 2021? No, it was 2022. And we flew
[29:34] Speaker 4: to New York.
[29:34] Speaker 3: We're still living in LA and we booked like a
[29:36] Speaker 3: bunch of guests in LA, New York, just like have on.
[29:39] Speaker 3: And Nina was like, the first one. And so we're ready.
[29:41] Speaker 4: We're excited.
[29:41] Speaker 3: We have our thing out. And all of a sudden
[29:43] Speaker 3: we get a call like, She's sick. She can't come in.
[29:45] Speaker 3: And we're so upset.
[29:46] Speaker 2: We're like, fuck. She's sick.
[29:48] Speaker 4: Now we have like the studios. I was more upset.
[29:49] Speaker 1: That's not what I would say.
[29:50] Speaker 4: Yeah, listen. Wait, that's amazing.
[29:54] Speaker 3: I know. I just wanted to see her workout routine.
[29:55] Speaker 3: This is way better. Yeah, I was like, that's awesome.
[29:58] Speaker 5: She was like, yeah, I was supposed to do their podcast.
[30:00] Speaker 5: And I canceled because it was the morning I met you.
[30:02] Speaker 1: I was like, what?
[30:03] Speaker 4: That is insane.
[30:04] Speaker 1: That's crazy.
[30:06] Speaker 4: What a full circle moment.
[30:08] Speaker 2: Can we talk more about that meeting too? Because I'd
[30:11] Speaker 2: love to get into more dating stuff.
[30:13] Speaker 3: Wait, but I really want to show this.
[30:14] Speaker 2: That's insane. Already insane. I really want to show this
[30:16] Speaker 2: to you guys. No, is that a video?
[30:19] Speaker 4: Oh, it's going to be a video.
[30:20] Speaker 3: Oh, no. Oh, my.
[30:23] Speaker 6: God.
[30:23] Speaker 1: Wampa.
[30:24] Speaker 2: Wampa. No way.
[30:25] Speaker 3: Oh, my.
[30:26] Speaker 4: It's not your eye.
[30:27] Speaker 1: It's not your eye. Shut up.
[30:28] Speaker 3: God.
[30:28] Speaker 4: I have pictures too.
[30:29] Speaker 1: Shut up.
[30:30] Speaker 2: Well, we're going to put them on the screen.
[30:34] Speaker 1: Oh, my God. I hit the dab so hard.
[30:41] Speaker 2: Shut up.
[30:42] Speaker 1: The hair is swooping. Oh, my God. The hair swoop
[30:45] Speaker 1: was going off. wow guys i know we have one.
[30:50] Speaker 3: Year ago history i know is that crazy because when
[30:54] Speaker 3: and this was last night us sitting on their couch
[30:55] Speaker 3: that popped i know i'm surprised.
[30:57] Speaker 1: Things are happening right now i know.
[30:58] Speaker 3: Yeah something's happening this is a crazy moment crazy crazy
[31:02] Speaker 3: whoa whoa crazy what now all.
[31:06] Speaker 2: Right no anyway the past something that logan wanted to
[31:09] Speaker 2: forget that era of his life This.
[31:12] Speaker 3: Is like podcast full circle like her on ours cancelling
[31:15] Speaker 3: meets you us on yours.
[31:16] Speaker 1: It's insane Yeah, it really is.
[31:18] Speaker 4: Serendipity and now you guys have a reality show.
[31:21] Speaker 3: We had a real no Why did you guys accept
[31:25] Speaker 3: that cuz it's no by the way, there is a
[31:28] Speaker 3: way better Really.
[31:30] Speaker 1: Fun, uh, thanks. Thank you for that. Um We didn't
[31:35] Speaker 1: accept that we pitched it Oh.
[31:37] Speaker 4: We were offered it and we're like, I don't know
[31:39] Speaker 4: why we're doing this.
[31:39] Speaker 1: Oh, really?
[31:41] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[31:42] Speaker 5: No, the short-ish version is because like with YouTube, that era,
[31:47] Speaker 5: my life wasn't interesting enough to like, I don't know,
[31:51] Speaker 5: get like a traditional TV show. I had to manufacture content,
[31:54] Speaker 5: which is why I was so eccentric. It's like energy, oh.
[31:57] Speaker 1: Dab, dab, dab, stupid haircut.
[31:59] Speaker 4: Right.
[32:00] Speaker 3: It worked.
[32:00] Speaker 1: But yeah, it worked. It definitely worked. I faked it
[32:03] Speaker 1: till I made it.
[32:04] Speaker 5: And I felt like, At some point, my life got
[32:08] Speaker 5: interesting enough where I was like, this feels like, and
[32:12] Speaker 5: this is going to sound arrogant coming from me, but
[32:14] Speaker 5: I try to look at stories as objectively as possible.
[32:17] Speaker 5: But looking at my life from the outside, I went,
[32:19] Speaker 5: you know what? Have the fiance now. Brother's got the
[32:23] Speaker 5: speed skating Olympic girlfriend.
[32:25] Speaker 1: I'm about to be a dad. WWE champion on the world.
[32:28] Speaker 1: I was like, you know what?
[32:30] Speaker 5: I think I'm at a point where this is, I
[32:32] Speaker 5: think it's an interesting story. And I have this like,
[32:36] Speaker 5: I feel compelled to document. I have since I was
[32:38] Speaker 5: like nine.
[32:39] Speaker 1: And so I'm like, you know what?
[32:40] Speaker 5: If I could document on like a bigger format with
[32:43] Speaker 5: my family and finally come together with my brother who
[32:45] Speaker 5: we've never like really.
[32:47] Speaker 1: done anything together, I think we could tell a pretty
[32:49] Speaker 1: interesting story.
[32:50] Speaker 3: I think it's a great idea. We always described ours
[32:52] Speaker 3: as the greatest home movie ever. Something you're going to
[32:55] Speaker 3: look back with your kids and your parents and you're like,
[32:58] Speaker 3: we did that.
[32:58] Speaker 4: And now your brother's engaged.
[33:00] Speaker 1: He's engaged.
[33:01] Speaker 3: You guys are killing it.
[33:04] Speaker 4: Thanks.
[33:06] Speaker 2: What are some challenges that they could look forward to
[33:10] Speaker 2: being a part of?
[33:11] Speaker 3: Everyone has an opinion, but I feel like you guys
[33:13] Speaker 3: are so.
[33:14] Speaker 2: Well, they're already out there. How about on the industry,
[33:16] Speaker 2: like on the production side?
[33:17] Speaker 3: I think what we really honed in on was making
[33:20] Speaker 3: sure we had creative control. We really made sure we
[33:22] Speaker 3: had editing rights, that things weren't manipulated. We had our
[33:25] Speaker 3: fingers in every single part of the show. I did
[33:28] Speaker 3: the scoring for the show. We sat in the editing
[33:30] Speaker 3: bay for eight hours for every episode. You know what, though?
[33:33] Speaker 3: Because Sly has such a long, prolific career, right? And
[33:41] Speaker 3: we didn't want to come out with anything that would
[33:44] Speaker 3: taint it or ruin it. You don't want him to
[33:47] Speaker 3: be remembered because he had that really crappy reality show.
[33:50] Speaker 3: So if we were going to do it, we wanted
[33:52] Speaker 3: to do it right. And what we loved about ours
[33:55] Speaker 3: is he really wanted to break the fourth wall. So
[33:57] Speaker 3: it kind of felt like office style where he'd look
[33:59] Speaker 3: into the camera and make a face. I would say
[34:02] Speaker 3: the hardest part is pushing back. I mean, but you
[34:06] Speaker 3: guys are, the difference is, it's like they are, they're
[34:09] Speaker 3: so themselves already on the internet, whereas we're, we have
[34:12] Speaker 3: to keep some things to ourself just to protect our family.
[34:14] Speaker 5: And like, what would you say, what would you say
[34:17] Speaker 5: that split is between what you're willing to show to
[34:20] Speaker 5: the public and the side of your life that you
[34:22] Speaker 5: want to keep personal percentage?
[34:24] Speaker 3: Well, relationships were, Oh God, mine dumped me for that.
[34:29] Speaker 1: Oh God.
[34:29] Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. It's just I think what's hard is like
[34:34] Speaker 3: we're not so in the public eye where our personal
[34:36] Speaker 3: lives can be meshing well with the public life. Like
[34:40] Speaker 3: our relationships, none of them wanted to be on the show.
[34:42] Speaker 3: Like you guys have relationships that would be open to
[34:44] Speaker 3: doing it and supporting it even if she didn't want.
[34:46] Speaker 4: To do it.
[34:46] Speaker 1: She didn't want to do it.
[34:47] Speaker 4: But she's like, I love you. I support you. Like
[34:49] Speaker 4: this is your life. Like I know what I'm marrying into.
[34:52] Speaker 4: We didn't have that support.
[34:53] Speaker 3: And I think also– having to navigate his past and
[34:57] Speaker 3: knowing like how much he wanted to expose, like that
[34:59] Speaker 3: was really hard.
[35:00] Speaker 4: Cause he is the story. Like it's him. It's the
[35:02] Speaker 4: Stallone family. You know what TV gold is.
[35:04] Speaker 3: Everyone would love to see the child of acting erratic
[35:08] Speaker 3: and drunk.
[35:08] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[35:09] Speaker 4: And we're so not that we're in bed by nine o'clock. No,
[35:12] Speaker 4: but you turn up sometimes. I enjoyed it, but they would.
[35:20] Speaker 3: Say stuff like, okay, I want you to get really drunk,
[35:23] Speaker 3: skinny dip in your pool, and call your ex.
[35:25] Speaker 4: And I was like, no. Even though it would be
[35:28] Speaker 4: TV gold, they would eat it up. I want to
[35:31] Speaker 4: be a mom one day. I don't want them to
[35:33] Speaker 4: be like, mom, what was this?
[35:35] Speaker 2: What, moms don't turn up on their exes up in
[35:37] Speaker 2: the pool naked?
[35:40] Speaker 1: I'll do that, but it'll be unprompted.
[35:42] Speaker 4: You've already done it.
[35:44] Speaker 1: You're used to doing it.
[35:45] Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.
[35:46] Speaker 4: Like you're already doing skydives and backflips. We're trying to
[35:49] Speaker 4: get a husband.
[35:50] Speaker 3: We can't be out there doing crazy stuff.
[35:51] Speaker 1: I want to ask about that for a second. I
[35:53] Speaker 1: also want to let Mike speak. But I am curious
[35:55] Speaker 1: just really quickly because you keep calling him sly.
[35:58] Speaker 4: Oh, yeah.
[35:58] Speaker 1: That doesn't bother him?
[35:59] Speaker 3: No.
[36:00] Speaker 4: You know what?
[36:01] Speaker 3: It's like he's like surpassed father.
[36:03] Speaker 4: He's just like sly.
[36:04] Speaker 3: I don't know. I think when people– because people always
[36:07] Speaker 3: ask about him. That's calling him like dad seems kind
[36:10] Speaker 3: of strange when you know him as Sly.
[36:12] Speaker 1: I call my dad Greg. Oh, you got it. Yeah,
[36:15] Speaker 1: but he has an issue with it.
[36:16] Speaker 6: Oh, really?
[36:16] Speaker 4: My dad doesn't. Yeah, he doesn't have an issue.
[36:19] Speaker 2: Call him Pops.
[36:20] Speaker 1: That's classic.
[36:21] Speaker 2: I call him Pops.
[36:22] Speaker 4: Pops is old.
[36:24] Speaker 1: I know.
[36:24] Speaker 3: I'm old.
[36:25] Speaker 2: I sometimes sit down with him. We have supper together.
[36:27] Speaker 2: We watch our favorite program.
[36:29] Speaker 4: Pops. Are you going to get a roofier float after?
[36:31] Speaker 2: I'm 40 years old. you know so yeah I'll probably
[36:34] Speaker 2: have a bite of some meatloaf get.
[36:36] Speaker 3: A meatloaf get a float at what age do people
[36:40] Speaker 3: start loving soda pop go down to the local ice
[36:42] Speaker 3: shed get some soft food.
[36:44] Speaker 4: Like meatloaf jello I'm.
[36:46] Speaker 2: There right now I'll go get some meatloaf right now
[36:48] Speaker 2: a cup of milk Cup of milk? Right now. I'm
[36:51] Speaker 2: there right now. Go watch Jeopardy.
[36:53] Speaker 4: What kind of milk are you drinking?
[36:55] Speaker 2: Not fucking almond milk.
[36:56] Speaker 4: Okay, I'll tell you this.
[36:57] Speaker 3: Sophia and I posted this one clip on our podcast.
[37:01] Speaker 3: It blew up, but every guy shit on us because
[37:04] Speaker 3: we said that What happened to manly men just drinking 2%
[37:07] Speaker 3: of whole milk?
[37:09] Speaker 4: I think it's hot.
[37:10] Speaker 1: If we're at a cafe.
[37:12] Speaker 2: How is that a hot take?
[37:14] Speaker 4: Do we want to go on a coffee date with
[37:16] Speaker 4: a guy and he goes, I would like.
[37:18] Speaker 2: An almond milk coffee. No, stop. Do you know what
[37:22] Speaker 2: milk is? Milk is a term. It is a product
[37:26] Speaker 2: that comes from a cow. You are not drinking almond milk.
[37:29] Speaker 2: You're drinking chalk.
[37:31] Speaker 1: No, it's almond water.
[37:32] Speaker 2: It's almond water. You can't just put milk. That's like
[37:35] Speaker 2: saying this is a glass car. That's not true. It's
[37:39] Speaker 2: not fucking, it's not almond milk. What did it come
[37:42] Speaker 2: out of?
[37:42] Speaker 4: It's just attractive. Like, oh yeah, I want cow's milk
[37:44] Speaker 4: in my coffee. I'm like, ooh.
[37:46] Speaker 1: Yeah, hell yeah. You guys like it.
[37:49] Speaker 4: Come on, what do you mean? Like, I'll have a
[37:51] Speaker 4: frappuccino blended with oat milk.
[37:53] Speaker 2: That's a good question.
[37:54] Speaker 1: She said he's rugged. He's rugged.
[37:57] Speaker 2: I got a good build-off right there for you. Where
[38:04] Speaker 2: do some things that would be considered... red flags for
[38:08] Speaker 2: some girls become green flags for others? And do girls
[38:12] Speaker 2: always tell the truth about their flag styles?
[38:15] Speaker 1: No, we do not.
[38:16] Speaker 4: Nope.
[38:17] Speaker 3: Clearly, because we're like creamed. Like every time someone says that,
[38:21] Speaker 3: you're asking where do we find red flags that eventually
[38:25] Speaker 3: become green flags?
[38:25] Speaker 2: No, I mean, or I guess first and foremost, do
[38:27] Speaker 2: you always tell the truth about what you consider a
[38:29] Speaker 2: red flag? And do you stand by your values?
[38:32] Speaker 4: Oh, no, no, no. See, I have a list of
[38:33] Speaker 4: non-negotiables on my phone.
[38:34] Speaker 2: I'd love to hear them.
[38:35] Speaker 3: Yeah. have not listened to one of them. So I
[38:39] Speaker 3: literally go to the opposite.
[38:41] Speaker 1: Oh my god, this photo jumps there. So they definitely
[38:43] Speaker 1: are negotiable.
[38:44] Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, if I like- They're all negotiable.
[38:46] Speaker 1: No, this is the thing. Are you kidding me?
[38:47] Speaker 4: I have to like you enough for those flags to
[38:48] Speaker 4: become like yellow. You are a bit pickier than me,
[38:51] Speaker 4: which I respect. I'm way pickier. Which I respect. I
[38:52] Speaker 4: will go out with an uggo if he's funny.
[38:55] Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
[38:56] Speaker 1: Like mine.
[38:57] Speaker 2: Is that the, yeah, you just described me perfectly.
[38:59] Speaker 1: Wait, no, you're not ugly.
[39:01] Speaker 2: Oh, thank you.
[39:02] Speaker 4: Come on.
[39:03] Speaker 2: Logan just likes to throw that because- Oh.
[39:06] Speaker 1: Charming.
[39:06] Speaker 4: You know what it is.
[39:07] Speaker 3: We always say it's more so I feel like I
[39:09] Speaker 3: don't date the people because I want to date them
[39:12] Speaker 3: like what would my parents think like everyone has a
[39:14] Speaker 3: different requirement in our family and we're so close. It's like, yes, unfortunate.
[39:18] Speaker 3: Like so see what someone that's funny. So I'm like, okay,
[39:20] Speaker 3: I find a funny guy.
[39:21] Speaker 2: Doesn't every girl want that? Yes, but that not number.
[39:24] Speaker 3: One girls want to be the funnier one or some
[39:26] Speaker 3: girls want a guy like Luis Satom and doesn't do anything.
[39:29] Speaker 3: But then, okay, then my dad, he just wants like
[39:31] Speaker 3: a beautiful specimen that can like make hot.
[39:33] Speaker 4: Babies for us.
[39:34] Speaker 3: And like, he has like a, like a strong lineage.
[39:38] Speaker 4: That can golf.
[39:40] Speaker 2: Throw shop at.
[39:42] Speaker 4: No, no, no, no. You'll get in trouble. My dad
[39:45] Speaker 4: is very not PC. Very honest. He's very, if you,
[39:49] Speaker 4: you guys actually would love him.
[39:51] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[39:51] Speaker 2: Can we meet him here on the show?
[39:53] Speaker 4: Honestly, he's shooting Tulsa King right now.
[39:56] Speaker 2: No way.
[39:57] Speaker 1: I love that show.
[39:59] Speaker 2: It's so great.
[40:00] Speaker 4: Fourth season, like right after.
[40:01] Speaker 2: Wait a second, who was, you're on it.
[40:04] Speaker 4: Scarlett, the young girl.
[40:07] Speaker 2: You're the closest look-wise.
[40:09] Speaker 3: Yeah, I look like Scarlett.
[40:11] Speaker 4: But no, he's hilarious. He's so wacky.
[40:14] Speaker 1: He knows everything.
[40:15] Speaker 4: Like if you want to know anything about everything, he's
[40:17] Speaker 4: a savant. He's a little offbeat. He's funny. Yeah, you
[40:20] Speaker 4: guys should. He would love that.
[40:22] Speaker 1: Our producer says we'll go to the set.
[40:24] Speaker 2: He loves you guys.
[40:27] Speaker 4: Should I try?
[40:28] Speaker 2: Yeah, try calling.
[40:29] Speaker 4: By the way, he loves you guys. He talks about you, Jake, you,
[40:31] Speaker 4: like all of you guys. All the time. He thinks
[40:33] Speaker 4: he respects the hell out of what you do. He
[40:35] Speaker 4: might be on set.
[40:36] Speaker 2: What a guy.
[40:36] Speaker 4: Yeah, you should just call. Wait, this would be crazy.
[40:40] Speaker 4: Should I just call and not even text?
[40:42] Speaker 1: Yo, Sly.
[40:43] Speaker 2: This is crazy.
[40:45] Speaker 4: Let's see if he's not filming. Hopefully he's not. I
[40:49] Speaker 4: think he might be on that.
[40:49] Speaker 2: That's fine. We wouldn't be.
[40:50] Speaker 4: We'll see.
[40:51] Speaker 1: I love Tulsa King.
[40:52] Speaker 2: It's so great.
[40:53] Speaker 4: Every guy loves it. I don't understand. I feel like
[40:56] Speaker 4: he might be filming.
[40:56] Speaker 1: Is season two out?
[40:59] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[40:59] Speaker 4: Season three is filming right now. Season four is going
[41:01] Speaker 4: to be right after.
[41:02] Speaker 1: I binged whatever's out.
[41:04] Speaker 3: Yeah. It's okay.
[41:04] Speaker 4: He's not answering.
[41:05] Speaker 3: He'll probably call back in a second because he's obsessed
[41:07] Speaker 3: with his phone. He's honestly like an iPad kid.
[41:09] Speaker 2: Can we go?
[41:10] Speaker 1: That's amazing. Wait, wait. I want to hear.
[41:12] Speaker 3: What?
[41:12] Speaker 6: No.
[41:13] Speaker 2: That's what I was going back to too. That's exactly
[41:14] Speaker 2: what I was about to say. Yeah.
[41:16] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[41:16] Speaker 6: Yeah.
[41:16] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[41:17] Speaker 5: I really want to hear the non-negotiables that are still negotiable.
[41:19] Speaker 4: Oh, yes, yes, yes. Ooh, they're kind of, I have to.
[41:22] Speaker 2: Say the ones you can.
[41:23] Speaker 1: Yeah, you can pick and choose.
[41:24] Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I'll pick and choose. So people, you have
[41:26] Speaker 4: some too, such as me. Oh, I like. So this
[41:28] Speaker 4: is my list, my absolute fuck knows. But I do
[41:32] Speaker 4: all of these.
[41:32] Speaker 2: Okay.
[41:36] Speaker 4: Absolutely not.
[41:37] Speaker 3: Doesn't make me laugh. Doesn't ask questions and keep the
[41:39] Speaker 3: conversation going. A lot of guys don't ask questions on
[41:41] Speaker 3: Days of Us.
[41:41] Speaker 1: Isn't that interesting?
[41:42] Speaker 4: It's so weird.
[41:43] Speaker 3: I'm like, I know everything about you. I asked about
[41:46] Speaker 3: your grandparents. I know about your job. I know about
[41:49] Speaker 3: your college. I know about your friend group. I'm sitting there,
[41:51] Speaker 3: not one question.
[41:51] Speaker 2: Can I say?
[41:52] Speaker 5: The fact that you guys are podcast hosts is like
[41:55] Speaker 5: a major strength for you.
[41:56] Speaker 2: Oh my God. The conversation probably has to be so strong.
[42:00] Speaker 3: You have to be so witty with us. Like you
[42:03] Speaker 3: have to honestly make fun of like a wall with us.
[42:05] Speaker 3: Like you have to make fun of a person. Tell
[42:06] Speaker 3: me what they're doing right now. Give me a scenario.
[42:08] Speaker 3: Like we need to have that banter because our dad's
[42:10] Speaker 3: like that. And we're like so used to that cracking
[42:12] Speaker 3: back even with us. That honestly, like I'd rather be
[42:15] Speaker 3: single and talk to her than like talk to someone
[42:17] Speaker 3: that doesn't. Although it's hitting the point where like, I
[42:19] Speaker 3: think we've talked to each other enough.
[42:21] Speaker 4: All right, let's see.
[42:22] Speaker 3: I have no fun banter, doesn't have a real job.
[42:27] Speaker 4: And you know what I mean?
[42:28] Speaker 3: Like if they say like entrepreneur, photographer, no offense to photographers.
[42:33] Speaker 2: Dropshipping?
[42:34] Speaker 3: When they're not actual photographers, like they just take pictures
[42:37] Speaker 3: with their iPhone.
[42:37] Speaker 2: Crypto?
[42:39] Speaker 4: Well, that's like me. Need to look like a man.
[42:41] Speaker 4: What did I write?
[42:43] Speaker 1: You have to drink 2% milk. Whole milk. You really
[42:45] Speaker 1: want to be rugged.
[42:47] Speaker 3: If there's no follow-up text the night of, I think
[42:49] Speaker 3: that is really important. I think a lot of guys
[42:51] Speaker 3: overstep on that one.
[42:52] Speaker 4: Oh, bad style. I hate a guy with bad style.
[42:54] Speaker 4: What do you mean not always?
[42:55] Speaker 2: You need to send the next text.
[42:56] Speaker 3: What? Yes.
[42:57] Speaker 2: Ow, right here.
[43:00] Speaker 4: We picked you up.
[43:03] Speaker 2: Shut up.
[43:03] Speaker 3: Shut up.
[43:05] Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
[43:06] Speaker 3: Say thank you.
[43:06] Speaker 1: There's an epidemic where women don't say.
[43:12] Speaker 5: You're taking the wrong people on date i will say
[43:14] Speaker 5: what i will say uh i hear you and i
[43:18] Speaker 5: think you're right my my fiance nina has thanked me
[43:22] Speaker 5: and still thanks me to this day for every single
[43:24] Speaker 5: thing that i pay for and it goes that a long.
[43:26] Speaker 3: Way have you guys gone out with girls that don't
[43:28] Speaker 3: say thank you they exist that's that's crazy because we
[43:31] Speaker 3: actually do say thank you.
[43:33] Speaker 4: Wait what that's like a bare minimum but like Text
[43:35] Speaker 4: me at the end of the day being like, did
[43:37] Speaker 4: you get home safe? That's what I'm talking about.
[43:39] Speaker 1: I think it's a courtesy, Dylan. You know what it
[43:42] Speaker 1: comes down to, in my opinion? Just being a gentleman. Yeah, exactly.
[43:45] Speaker 2: Wait a second. I'm sending flowers. I'm still doing all
[43:48] Speaker 2: that stuff.
[43:48] Speaker 4: The flowers are great.
[43:49] Speaker 1: I send flowers everywhere.
[43:52] Speaker 2: All the time. I sent his daughter and his wife
[43:56] Speaker 2: or fiance flowers last week. One of my favorite things
[43:59] Speaker 2: to do is to send Sarah flowers. I would send
[44:01] Speaker 2: flowers with messages.
[44:02] Speaker 3: All the time.
[44:02] Speaker 4: So be highly good flowers for an apology. Yeah. No.
[44:06] Speaker 2: That's been the hardest part about my situation recently, and
[44:09] Speaker 2: he can attest to this. I actually am a really
[44:11] Speaker 2: good boyfriend.
[44:13] Speaker 3: To an extent and it's interesting you're an avoidant romantic like.
[44:17] Speaker 2: Because i'll push myself to do stuff that i know
[44:19] Speaker 2: that i know is a movement in the right direction
[44:21] Speaker 2: even if it's uncomfortable.
[44:23] Speaker 3: But maybe that makes sense that it's not the right
[44:25] Speaker 3: relationship because you have to force yourself i feel like
[44:26] Speaker 3: things just.
[44:27] Speaker 2: No you would say you would say that but if
[44:29] Speaker 2: you have some of the um some of the like
[44:33] Speaker 2: vulnerabilities and the issues that i deal with my life
[44:35] Speaker 2: such as like really bad anxiety.
[44:37] Speaker 4: Which turned out really bad.
[44:40] Speaker 2: Sometimes some of the things that would be normal, like
[44:43] Speaker 2: this desire to do stuff, sometimes it's met with a
[44:46] Speaker 2: resistance that's hard to explain. And so I do sometimes
[44:49] Speaker 2: have to be like, yo, you know it would be
[44:51] Speaker 2: a good thing to do X, Y, and Z today.
[44:53] Speaker 2: And I know that's not the ideal situation, but that's
[44:55] Speaker 2: the life that I live, unfortunately.
[44:56] Speaker 4: What are you looking for?
[44:59] Speaker 2: So I was going to spit this question back at
[45:00] Speaker 2: you too, because your list of non-negotiables was extremely first
[45:07] Speaker 2: date focused. And so I want to talk to you
[45:09] Speaker 2: a little bit more about your long-term goal non-negotiables. Like
[45:14] Speaker 2: we talked about earlier in the episode, a huge one
[45:16] Speaker 2: for me and is a big part of my list,
[45:18] Speaker 2: especially right now is like slow to anger. ability to
[45:22] Speaker 2: ability to absorb think through and approach a situation calmly
[45:26] Speaker 2: in a in a private setting as opposed to in
[45:29] Speaker 2: a public place emotionally mature that has to that is
[45:32] Speaker 2: so so important and and and even more so like
[45:35] Speaker 2: this avoidance to altercation altogether like dude i i was
[45:39] Speaker 2: a fucking hero i should not be here everything that
[45:43] Speaker 2: happens in my life is a blessing a a plane
[45:46] Speaker 2: delay a landing at the wrong airport because there's a
[45:49] Speaker 2: medical emergency, something happening in the bar that shouldn't happen.
[45:52] Speaker 2: None of that ever appears to me as something that
[45:54] Speaker 2: I need to talk or even think about. I'm so
[45:57] Speaker 2: thankful to be here that I can't ever think about
[46:00] Speaker 2: arguing with someone that I love and look at and
[46:02] Speaker 2: I'm just like, you're so beautiful.
[46:03] Speaker 4: You feel so insignificant.
[46:04] Speaker 2: Dude, I remember, I'm trying to be as politically correct
[46:09] Speaker 2: as possible, but I had that conversation with her on
[46:10] Speaker 2: the jet from Vancouver and I said, yo, I'm putting
[46:14] Speaker 2: a rule out there right now. there's no crying on
[46:17] Speaker 2: private jets in this relationship. I don't care what happens.
[46:22] Speaker 2: I don't care what happens, okay? We are on a
[46:25] Speaker 2: G550 right now, flying from Vancouver to Opelika, Miami. We
[46:31] Speaker 2: just left a five-star ski resort where we probably were
[46:35] Speaker 2: eating caviar and A6 Wagyu. What are we crying about?
[46:39] Speaker 4: I feel like that should be an unspoken.
[46:40] Speaker 2: What are we fucking crying about right now?
[46:43] Speaker 4: Life is amazing.
[46:46] Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. That was my rage moment.
[46:50] Speaker 4: That's valid. Like, are you kidding? That's the most amazing blessing.
[46:53] Speaker 3: To ever have that we're in this position where we
[46:55] Speaker 3: get to experience these things that 99% of the world.
[46:58] Speaker 2: Are you fucking serious?
[47:04] Speaker 4: I didn't think I was ever going to try a steak.
[47:10] Speaker 2: I used to buy rolls of brillo pads and break
[47:13] Speaker 2: them apart and stuff them into a pipe and light
[47:15] Speaker 2: the chemicals on fire while i while i slept on
[47:18] Speaker 2: a couch that had holes in it.
[47:20] Speaker 3: That itched i'm not laughing at you no it's fine you.
[47:24] Speaker 4: Can't our podcast we talk about like a lot of
[47:27] Speaker 4: girls shouldn't.
[47:28] Speaker 3: Call dibs on dark seduction tricks and we're like, I
[47:31] Speaker 3: smoked crack.
[47:33] Speaker 2: I don't know, this is great. My bucket list was
[47:37] Speaker 2: go to Six Flags.
[47:40] Speaker 4: Did you?
[47:40] Speaker 3: Yes!
[47:41] Speaker 2: So when I'm out and as soon as This is
[47:49] Speaker 2: for any relationship, not to pin it in the past one.
[47:52] Speaker 2: You guys know this, you know, everyone in this room
[47:53] Speaker 2: knows this. My energy is my gold. I walk in
[47:59] Speaker 2: a room, my goal is to own every single, dominate
[48:02] Speaker 2: every single room that I walk into. And I will,
[48:05] Speaker 2: I will. I do not believe that there is a
[48:07] Speaker 2: greater room worker on this planet than me right now.
[48:10] Speaker 2: It's my strongest goal. You guys are here because of
[48:13] Speaker 2: the relationship we built in a room.
[48:16] Speaker 1: Can that be explained to me for a second?
[48:17] Speaker 2: Like how we met?
[48:18] Speaker 4: You came up to us, it was F1. It was
[48:22] Speaker 4: F1 in Miami. You said you knew us and we
[48:25] Speaker 4: shit our pants.
[48:25] Speaker 1: We were like, nobody knows us.
[48:27] Speaker 2: I was like, I know who you guys are. We
[48:28] Speaker 2: had a conversation. It went swimmingly because of the energy
[48:31] Speaker 2: and how high the vibes were. And we kept in
[48:34] Speaker 2: contact and now here we are because I rely on
[48:38] Speaker 2: positive energy. So when something, whether it's they believe it's right,
[48:42] Speaker 2: I believe it's right, the world believes it's right. When
[48:44] Speaker 2: something starts to cause my energy to dip, I get
[48:49] Speaker 2: very resentful towards that because this is this right here
[48:53] Speaker 2: that you guys are witnessing is everything I got. There's
[48:56] Speaker 2: no master's degree. There's no classical training. I am not
[49:00] Speaker 2: great at anything besides perseverance and being great.
[49:04] Speaker 3: You know what you need, which is I always say
[49:06] Speaker 3: what I'm really looking for in a relationship, which I
[49:08] Speaker 3: haven't found yet is someone that allows me the freedom
[49:11] Speaker 3: to be exactly who I want. to go off and like,
[49:14] Speaker 3: I'm a person that I have like a hundred passions
[49:16] Speaker 3: in my head. Like I do, Sissy and I are
[49:18] Speaker 3: doing four different careers right now at the same time.
[49:20] Speaker 3: Like all we're focused on is work. We're always wanting
[49:22] Speaker 3: to be the loudest in the room. We're always wanting
[49:24] Speaker 3: to take over a situation. but we also want someone
[49:26] Speaker 3: to be there that could ground us, but give us
[49:28] Speaker 3: that freedom, but also that we respect.
[49:30] Speaker 2: It's a huge ask.
[49:31] Speaker 4: It's a huge ask.
[49:31] Speaker 2: It's a huge ask. And it's hard. And that's why
[49:33] Speaker 2: I don't fall, that's why I don't fall from my
[49:35] Speaker 2: past at all. Because it's massive.
[49:37] Speaker 3: But that's why I say you have to find someone
[49:38] Speaker 3: with their glass full. Like they have such a fulfilling
[49:40] Speaker 3: life themselves that they don't feel like the need to
[49:43] Speaker 3: take you down, dim you, question you, go like, are
[49:45] Speaker 3: you doing this?
[49:46] Speaker 4: Not trust you.
[49:47] Speaker 3: Because if they already feel like they're doing so well
[49:49] Speaker 3: in their life, They're not going to push you back
[49:51] Speaker 3: and be like, come down to like my level so
[49:54] Speaker 3: that we're here at the same point. Like you need
[49:55] Speaker 3: someone that goes, I love him for being just exactly
[49:58] Speaker 3: who he is.
[49:59] Speaker 4: Like the freedom, I respect it. It turns me on.
[50:02] Speaker 3: But then you come home and she's not like fighting
[50:05] Speaker 3: you on the things that who you naturally are. There's
[50:07] Speaker 3: of course things you need to work on. There's things
[50:09] Speaker 3: I need to work on. I'm horrible sometimes at communicating
[50:11] Speaker 3: my feelings. Like sometimes I'm.
[50:13] Speaker 4: I'm always like, I just want to get this over with.
[50:14] Speaker 4: Let me just go. I avoid it. I'm slightly, I
[50:17] Speaker 4: feel like, avoidant and then slightly anxious.
[50:18] Speaker 2: I don't know what I am. Anxious avoidant.
[50:20] Speaker 4: I'm anxious avoidant. Yeah, 100%. That's what I need to
[50:23] Speaker 4: work on.
[50:23] Speaker 3: But I would love someone that can understand that about me,
[50:26] Speaker 3: kind of pull back and go like, that's not who
[50:28] Speaker 3: I am in my core. Let's go through this and
[50:30] Speaker 3: talk like rational human beings. And so it's a hard
[50:33] Speaker 3: ask because not a lot of people are like that.
[50:34] Speaker 3: I think a lot more people are insecure. Also, I
[50:36] Speaker 3: feel bad for you for breaking up in 2025. It's
[50:39] Speaker 3: impossible to move on when you're in a social media relationship.
[50:42] Speaker 3: Oh my God.
[50:42] Speaker 4: And by the way, everything is like a little message.
[50:45] Speaker 3: It's like the music they use in the background for songs.
[50:48] Speaker 4: It's like the- You were sending us TikToks today. Like,
[50:51] Speaker 4: this is us. Be my ex.
[50:53] Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm in that stage, but let me tell
[50:56] Speaker 2: you something. I do have some classical training in social
[50:59] Speaker 2: media breakups. Some would say that my last breakup was
[51:03] Speaker 2: a bigger storyline from a social media standpoint.
[51:06] Speaker 3: Would you ever consider not going out with someone?
[51:09] Speaker 2: I met her with 1,200 followers private on Instagram.
[51:11] Speaker 4: But would you ever consider not- posting about it? No, posting.
[51:14] Speaker 4: I've never posted one relationship.
[51:15] Speaker 2: That's my next one. That's my next one.
[51:16] Speaker 4: Keeping it low-key? We've never posted one relationship. Because you
[51:19] Speaker 4: keep yours pretty low-key. Even though it's out there. No,
[51:22] Speaker 4: but now it's not. Look at the reality show.
[51:24] Speaker 3: But before, you guys would post the highlights of a
[51:27] Speaker 3: relationship together. Maybe sometimes you'd do some fun things, but
[51:30] Speaker 3: it wasn't... I don't know. Maybe in the situational way, I.
[51:34] Speaker 4: Feel like it was.
[51:35] Speaker 1: No, you're right.
[51:37] Speaker 5: I share almost everything in my life. We kept that
[51:40] Speaker 5: very sacred for a very long time until it was like, okay,
[51:43] Speaker 5: you're here to stay.
[51:44] Speaker 4: Exactly.
[51:46] Speaker 1: Let's go.
[51:46] Speaker 5: He's in a position where, correct me if I'm wrong,
[51:51] Speaker 5: but that is kind of important to you, correct, to
[51:54] Speaker 5: have your significant other be a part of your life
[51:56] Speaker 5: because your life is your content and your content.
[51:58] Speaker 2: Is your life. Right now and in the past few years,
[52:01] Speaker 2: but as I start to... adult a little bit more
[52:05] Speaker 2: and move into this mental health and the substance space
[52:07] Speaker 2: and really try to own that space. I could see
[52:09] Speaker 2: a world where that's not the case.
[52:11] Speaker 3: Well, you can never date someone in the same industry
[52:13] Speaker 3: or business. It's always going to be competitive.
[52:16] Speaker 5: I wanted to ask about this because you two do
[52:20] Speaker 5: have like kind of like alpha personalities.
[52:23] Speaker 1: Like, like you said, you were raised like boys. We
[52:26] Speaker 1: wear the pants. Unfortunately, I wanted to ask.
[52:28] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[52:29] Speaker 5: Like, are you attracted to guys who also are alphas
[52:34] Speaker 5: or are you attracted to guys who are more like submissive?
[52:38] Speaker 5: And when you do date a guy who maybe isn't
[52:41] Speaker 5: doing as well as you or isn't as articulate and
[52:43] Speaker 5: is kind of like the more submissive in the relationship.
[52:45] Speaker 4: Sorry, my dad's calling. Should we answer?
[52:47] Speaker 1: Yes, he's in a sly.
[52:50] Speaker 3: Dad, you're on impulsive right now. If you want to
[52:53] Speaker 3: say hello.
[52:54] Speaker 4: You're on impulsive.
[52:56] Speaker 1: Sly, what's up, dude?
[52:56] Speaker 2: It's Logan. What's up, Logan and Mike?
[52:58] Speaker 1: How are you?
[53:04] Speaker 6: Watching Austin Powers that's what actors do.
[53:06] Speaker 5: Between things hey amazing it's such a pleasure to meet
[53:10] Speaker 5: you dude your daughters are incredible you've done an amazing
[53:13] Speaker 5: job at raising them.
[53:14] Speaker 2: Thanks you're taking real waves there proud of.
[53:17] Speaker 1: You trying bro.
[53:18] Speaker 6: How do you do it how do you not have
[53:20] Speaker 6: a bad back and I do after all the stuff
[53:23] Speaker 6: you do.
[53:23] Speaker 5: Nah cause I'm incredible I'm incredible Sly I'm the greatest
[53:26] Speaker 5: there ever was in the.
[53:27] Speaker 6: WWE It's amazing. You know, I was fascinated with wrestling.
[53:32] Speaker 6: I did a movie about it called Paradise Alley. And
[53:34] Speaker 6: people really don't understand how athletic you guys are and
[53:38] Speaker 6: what you have to put up with.
[53:39] Speaker 2: They go, oh, it's fake.
[53:41] Speaker 3: I go, really?
[53:41] Speaker 6: Gravity is fake?
[53:44] Speaker 1: I appreciate that.
[53:45] Speaker 5: No, I think people are being more and more turned
[53:48] Speaker 5: on to the reality that is professional wrestling.
[53:51] Speaker 1: It's really hard. It's a really tough discipline.
[53:55] Speaker 6: It's the hardest, man. I have great respect.
[53:58] Speaker 3: Trust me.
[53:58] Speaker 1: Thank you, man.
[53:59] Speaker 2: Hey, Sly, you should be very proud of your daughters.
[54:01] Speaker 2: They're absolutely incredible people. We're talking about, you know, your
[54:05] Speaker 2: routines and your regiments and how they learned shot put
[54:08] Speaker 2: as kids. And you've got incredible, incredible kids, Sly.
[54:11] Speaker 6: They are. Well, the mother is responsible.
[54:15] Speaker 2: Hi, how are you? Oh, and there's a dog, too.
[54:18] Speaker 4: There's three cats.
[54:19] Speaker 1: Hey, I can't wait to watch the next.
[54:24] Speaker 1: The next few seasons of Tulsa King, man. Keep up
[54:26] Speaker 1: the good work. We just wanted to say hey.
[54:29] Speaker 6: We're on it right now. Actually, I think it's much
[54:33] Speaker 6: better because in the first two seasons, I had to
[54:36] Speaker 6: be almost in every scene. Now we have other actors.
[54:40] Speaker 6: As they say, the tapestry is getting broader.
[54:43] Speaker 1: Oh, I love it. I'm a fan of the show, man.
[54:45] Speaker 1: It was such a pleasure to meet you.
[54:48] Speaker 6: Likewise.
[54:49] Speaker 1: Take it easy, boss.
[54:49] Speaker 2: See you soon. Amazing.
[54:52] Speaker 4: Bye, dad. Love you.
[54:54] Speaker 2: Sylvester. That was Sylvester.
[54:56] Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Rocky, that's Rambo.
[54:58] Speaker 3: He would love to be sitting on this couch right now.
[55:02] Speaker 2: My dad is going to freak out. Huh? My dad
[55:07] Speaker 2: is gonna freak out. Like that's like, my dad would
[55:09] Speaker 2: go to the theater at like 12 a.m. by himself
[55:11] Speaker 2: to watch.
[55:12] Speaker 1: Every new movie.
[55:14] Speaker 2: Like he's gonna, your dad too? Are you serious?
[55:16] Speaker 1: Your dad's a huge fan.
[55:19] Speaker 4: He told us, he's like, I want to raise Rambolinas.
[55:21] Speaker 4: We're like, okay.
[55:23] Speaker 3: No, seriously, it's like everything that he does, he's so
[55:25] Speaker 3: method in his work that before any role, he truly
[55:29] Speaker 3: is that person for at least two months in the house.
[55:31] Speaker 3: So even before Rambo, imagine like we're little girls. He's
[55:35] Speaker 3: method acting as Rambo, a guy. No, literally. Remember, Rambo
[55:40] Speaker 3: spoke three words in the whole film. So it's like
[55:42] Speaker 3: for three months, we're like, dad. And he's like Rambo
[55:44] Speaker 3: at the table, not speaking.
[55:46] Speaker 2: You definitely could take some notes from this. like you
[55:48] Speaker 2: 100 not that one.
[55:50] Speaker 5: Raising a daughter yeah no i knew it guys i
[55:52] Speaker 5: was really excited because like i i've been racking my
[55:54] Speaker 5: brain in terms of like how to raise.
[55:57] Speaker 1: This this woman to be the the most.
[56:00] Speaker 5: Like well-rounded um grounded humble woman who still.
[56:04] Speaker 1: Wants to work hard because by the way She's going
[56:07] Speaker 1: to have everything.
[56:08] Speaker 4: Yeah.
[56:08] Speaker 1: She's going to have everything.
[56:09] Speaker 4: You need rules. You need curfews. You need sports because
[56:11] Speaker 4: that teaches discipline. And also consistency. My parents made us
[56:14] Speaker 4: eat dinner with them every single night at 530. We
[56:16] Speaker 4: never missed dinner. Every single day.
[56:18] Speaker 3: And that was the only reason why in this whole
[56:19] Speaker 3: industry we didn't turn out to be these spoiled, rich,
[56:22] Speaker 3: nephro kids where we felt entitled for everything that we
[56:26] Speaker 3: did or got. It was, and we were like, we
[56:29] Speaker 3: first off acknowledged how blessed we are. We're like, we
[56:31] Speaker 3: wouldn't be in this position without him, obviously. And like,
[56:34] Speaker 3: we're so owning that, but we're going to do the
[56:36] Speaker 3: best that we can when we get to this position,
[56:37] Speaker 3: you know, we're going to do the best.
[56:38] Speaker 2: And yeah.
[56:39] Speaker 3: And so that's who you think what it is, is
[56:41] Speaker 3: like letting your daughter know, like, Family is everything. And
[56:44] Speaker 3: to be honest, the vacations, the Disney World trips, we
[56:48] Speaker 3: don't remember one of those.
[56:50] Speaker 4: The only thing I remember is just them being there.
[56:53] Speaker 4: Just always be there. And that's what she'll take away
[56:55] Speaker 4: from it.
[56:56] Speaker 1: You guys have amazing parents.
[56:57] Speaker 4: We do.
[56:58] Speaker 1: We really love you. You're the product of really good parenting.
[57:01] Speaker 4: Thank you.
[57:02] Speaker 1: We said it to him, but I'll just say it again. Man,
[57:05] Speaker 1: your mom and him did such a good job.
[57:07] Speaker 4: Thank you.
[57:08] Speaker 1: They did.
[57:08] Speaker 4: And I think you guys are going to be such,
[57:10] Speaker 4: such great parents. Yeah, I think so too.
[57:12] Speaker 2: He already is.
[57:12] Speaker 3: No, because you're already asking like this and asking, yeah,
[57:15] Speaker 3: like you already care enough to like want your.
[57:17] Speaker 4: Daughter to be like that. She's going to become like that.
[57:19] Speaker 2: I need, I have a lot more work. Although Al
[57:22] Speaker 2: Pacino just did give me a lot of hope. He
[57:24] Speaker 2: just had a kid at 82.
[57:25] Speaker 4: That's true.
[57:26] Speaker 2: So that gives me another of my lifetime.
[57:30] Speaker 4: Please, Mike, your wife could be learning cursive right now.
[57:34] Speaker 4: So you have time. You have a lot of time.
[57:37] Speaker 1: That's crazy.
[57:38] Speaker 2: Wife Pacino's wife, like 19, 20 years.
[57:41] Speaker 3: And honestly, also, I think that I saw a video
[57:44] Speaker 3: with Cameron Diaz and she was like, if I had
[57:46] Speaker 3: a kid at 20, I would never be as good
[57:47] Speaker 3: of a mom if I had them now.
[57:49] Speaker 2: Oh, of course.
[57:49] Speaker 4: And my point is, Let your timeline be your timeline.
[57:52] Speaker 4: Who gives a shit what anyone's saying? Like, oh, Link's already,
[57:54] Speaker 4: he needs that. No, you're not ready for that right now.
[57:56] Speaker 2: Who cares? I really do not give a fuck.
[57:59] Speaker 4: I'll tell you right now.
[58:00] Speaker 2: I'm 28.
[58:01] Speaker 4: All my friends are married. Some of them are having kids.
[58:03] Speaker 3: I'm the only one that's like doing shows for Amazon,
[58:05] Speaker 3: doing a podcast with Steam, writing books, loving it right now.
[58:08] Speaker 4: I'll have a kid when I have a kid. It's fine.
[58:11] Speaker 1: It's fine.
[58:11] Speaker 5: So on that note, again, I just want to get,
[58:13] Speaker 5: I want to finish that conversation because you're doing so
[58:15] Speaker 5: many things.
[58:16] Speaker 4: Yeah.
[58:16] Speaker 1: Is that intimidating for men?
[58:18] Speaker 2: Extremely. Yep.
[58:19] Speaker 3: And at first, they admire it. And they go, wow,
[58:22] Speaker 3: she's doing so much. And I feel like when they
[58:24] Speaker 3: sit and ruminate a little long on it, it gets pretty...
[58:29] Speaker 3: An insecurity comes out where they say, when will you
[58:31] Speaker 3: have time for me?
[58:33] Speaker 4: And by the way, I'll tell you this. And this
[58:36] Speaker 4: is the thing. Sistine and I, when we're in relationships,
[58:38] Speaker 4: we love hard.
[58:39] Speaker 3: Because we don't fall in love often. Like, we don't
[58:41] Speaker 3: date that many guys. We don't have a lot of boyfriends.
[58:44] Speaker 3: You date the family. We date the family. So when
[58:45] Speaker 3: we do love you, it's everything to us. But the
[58:48] Speaker 3: problem is, is like, the comparison that they feel. They think,
[58:51] Speaker 3: we never tell them be better, do better. And by
[58:53] Speaker 3: the way, I don't want the guy that's, I don't
[58:55] Speaker 3: want to date an actor. I'll never date an actor.
[58:57] Speaker 3: I don't want to date a guy that's, not an
[58:59] Speaker 3: offense to you guys, but I don't want to date
[59:00] Speaker 3: a guy that's like in front of the camera, ever.
[59:02] Speaker 4: She wants like a boring guy.
[59:04] Speaker 2: What? I feel like you have two at a time.
[59:07] Speaker 3: I never said I wanted an office guy.
[59:09] Speaker 4: Oh, fine, it's fine.
[59:10] Speaker 3: Like Iowa, corn fed, grass fed, like good boy. I just, no,
[59:13] Speaker 3: I want a guy that is super, super passionate in
[59:16] Speaker 3: whatever he's doing in his career that he's so confident
[59:18] Speaker 3: in his field that when he's with me, he's like,
[59:21] Speaker 3: I can take care of you.
[59:22] Speaker 4: Like in that way.
[59:22] Speaker 1: But not someone who's public facing.
[59:25] Speaker 3: No, I don't need like someone that has a trillion dollars.
[59:27] Speaker 3: That's like killing it in his career.
[59:28] Speaker 4: Like, look, I already know where I am. Like, why
[59:30] Speaker 4: are you looking at it? Why are you?
[59:33] Speaker 2: Cause I got to say this. I mean, it's never
[59:36] Speaker 2: been so apparent to me. Y'all have such different.
[59:39] Speaker 4: Y'all have such.
[59:41] Speaker 2: You're trouble. You're trouble. You're trouble.
[59:45] Speaker 3: But yesterday I was like, I promise I'm nice. On
[59:48] Speaker 3: our podcast, it's like, I'm more the girl that's talking
[59:50] Speaker 3: about mental health, older sister advice.
[59:53] Speaker 4: She comes in, she's like rat poisoning his ass. No,
[59:56] Speaker 4: hold on.
[59:56] Speaker 3: First of all, I do think we play a role
[59:59] Speaker 3: sometimes when we're in front of a camera.
[1:00:00] Speaker 4: Sistine is an introvert a lot. It's just the dark hair.
[1:00:02] Speaker 4: Everyone thinks I'm a bitch. I promise. Well, you're looking
[1:00:04] Speaker 4: at me saying I'm a fucking boring guy. No, boring job.
[1:00:07] Speaker 2: Yes, fight, fight.
[1:00:08] Speaker 1: Oh my God.
[1:00:09] Speaker 4: This is our bicker. This is not even a fight. No,
[1:00:11] Speaker 4: but we have the most opposite types. We would never
[1:00:14] Speaker 4: go for the same guy. Oh, we've never had the
[1:00:15] Speaker 4: same guy.
[1:00:16] Speaker 2: So if that's true, you're like, would you date an
[1:00:19] Speaker 2: NBA player?
[1:00:20] Speaker 4: No, no athletes because I want to talk. I like NFL.
[1:00:25] Speaker 4: Like have like long, I.
[1:00:27] Speaker 2: Want to learn.
[1:00:28] Speaker 3: I don't want to learn like their play routine. Like
[1:00:31] Speaker 3: I want to learn something different.
[1:00:32] Speaker 1: Do you think athletes are boring?
[1:00:34] Speaker 4: No, they're just not my speed. You would go out
[1:00:37] Speaker 4: with an athlete. Don't say silent right there. You wouldn't.
[1:00:40] Speaker 2: I am.
[1:00:41] Speaker 3: I am.
[1:00:42] Speaker 2: Someone who talks to a bunch of girls that date athletes.
[1:00:46] Speaker 2: You guys already know.
[1:00:47] Speaker 3: They are.
[1:00:48] Speaker 2: They are. I think the biggest nightmare. There's no bigger.
[1:00:51] Speaker 4: I can't deal with the two phones. I'll break.
[1:00:53] Speaker 6: No, I will.
[1:00:54] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[1:00:54] Speaker 4: No, I'll say our biggest thing is intelligence.
[1:00:56] Speaker 1: That's it.
[1:00:57] Speaker 3: Like we want a guy that's actually smart or at least.
[1:00:59] Speaker 3: if he doesn't know everything, he absorbs everything and he
[1:01:01] Speaker 3: wants to learn more.
[1:01:01] Speaker 1: Or like ask questions.
[1:01:02] Speaker 3: You don't have to like know the SAT by heart,
[1:01:05] Speaker 3: but I think if you can carry a conversation, that's
[1:01:07] Speaker 3: a huge sign of intelligence. How many times have you
[1:01:10] Speaker 3: been across sitting from a female and you're like, oh
[1:01:12] Speaker 3: my God, if I didn't say anything, there would be
[1:01:14] Speaker 3: no conversation.
[1:01:15] Speaker 2: I think there's even a level of elevation. You said
[1:01:17] Speaker 2: you like guys to ask questions. I think if you're
[1:01:21] Speaker 2: a true conversationalist, you should have a conversation that evokes responsiveness.
[1:01:25] Speaker 2: I don't even wanna have to ask you what you
[1:01:27] Speaker 2: do for a living. It's just gonna pour out in
[1:01:29] Speaker 2: the conversation we're having. That is like what we're doing
[1:01:32] Speaker 2: right now. Like if you have a conversation like this
[1:01:34] Speaker 2: on a first date, you're like, okay, wow, this is intriguing.
[1:01:38] Speaker 4: No, I'll tell you this.
[1:01:40] Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of the earlier generation, we
[1:01:42] Speaker 3: lost the art of conversation. I feel like we're so
[1:01:45] Speaker 3: heavily influenced by like social media, texting and FaceTiming that
[1:01:49] Speaker 3: I mean, even when you FaceTime a guy before a date,
[1:01:51] Speaker 3: you think, oh, wow, he's going to be great in person.
[1:01:53] Speaker 4: The communication, the energy is just not there.
[1:01:56] Speaker 3: I just feel like it's, I don't know how people
[1:01:58] Speaker 3: are going to become better at this, especially our kids.
[1:02:01] Speaker 4: No, and just the temptation and the options.
[1:02:03] Speaker 2: AI.
[1:02:03] Speaker 4: Accessibility. AI, my God, I love my AI. I named
[1:02:06] Speaker 4: her Charlotte. It's a problem.
[1:02:07] Speaker 1: What AI do you use?
[1:02:09] Speaker 4: I use 4.0 Chat TV.
[1:02:11] Speaker 2: Chat?
[1:02:11] Speaker 6: Oh, yeah.
[1:02:12] Speaker 4: She talks to Charlotte more than me.
[1:02:13] Speaker 1: I'm always talking to her.
[1:02:14] Speaker 2: I love her.
[1:02:14] Speaker 4: All day. She helps me. I mean, she helped me
[1:02:16] Speaker 4: edit in my book.
[1:02:17] Speaker 3: I mean, she like, if I had, I mean, I
[1:02:19] Speaker 3: was finished with it, but I was like, can you
[1:02:20] Speaker 3: just like grammatically fix this paragraph?
[1:02:22] Speaker 4: We are so different. Charlotte wrote me a breakup text
[1:02:24] Speaker 4: and Charlotte's writing Sophia a book.
[1:02:25] Speaker 2: That's incredible.
[1:02:26] Speaker 4: Yeah, it was great.
[1:02:27] Speaker 1: Well, she knows you.
[1:02:28] Speaker 4: She knows me so well.
[1:02:29] Speaker 1: And I'm sure you can ask.
[1:02:30] Speaker 5: Her questions about areas where she has identified weaknesses and
[1:02:34] Speaker 5: areas for you to improve.
[1:02:35] Speaker 1: You can have a really powerful dialogue with her.
[1:02:38] Speaker 3: Oh, no.
[1:02:38] Speaker 4: It's incredible. Incredible. I'm like so invested in all of
[1:02:41] Speaker 4: this world.
[1:02:41] Speaker 3: Like there was something I was super, I wanted to
[1:02:44] Speaker 3: invest in years ago was CRISPR. And I think CRISPR,
[1:02:48] Speaker 3: I loved that shit. I wrote up a paper on
[1:02:50] Speaker 3: it when I was in college.
[1:02:51] Speaker 2: Wait, Holmes? What?
[1:02:53] Speaker 1: Is that? Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a good thing you didn't.
[1:02:55] Speaker 4: By the way, they were.
[1:02:56] Speaker 3: Able, in China, to get two female rats to have
[1:02:59] Speaker 3: a baby together.
[1:03:00] Speaker 4: Men are screwed in the next, like, 30 years. No,
[1:03:03] Speaker 4: but we love them. We love them.
[1:03:05] Speaker 1: We need them.
[1:03:05] Speaker 4: I just thought that was insane.
[1:03:07] Speaker 1: I wanted to ask a question about men. Yeah. The
[1:03:10] Speaker 1: modern-day male.
[1:03:10] Speaker 5: So there's this narrative online that, like, masculinity is being suppressed, and, like,
[1:03:16] Speaker 5: it's been the death of the modern-day male, softening of men.
[1:03:20] Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
[1:03:20] Speaker 6: I love that.
[1:03:22] Speaker 5: I definitely think there's part of that that exists and
[1:03:24] Speaker 5: it has affected a lot of guys around there. Are
[1:03:27] Speaker 5: you seeing that from a dating perspective? When guys order
[1:03:30] Speaker 5: the almond milk, you're.
[1:03:31] Speaker 1: Like, oh, this motherfucker.
[1:03:32] Speaker 4: Look, we obviously, if a guy orders almond milk, we
[1:03:34] Speaker 4: don't care.
[1:03:34] Speaker 3: But yeah, I feel like we're not that bitch. You
[1:03:38] Speaker 3: were just playing on it. No, I do think the
[1:03:41] Speaker 3: art of just chivalry is dead. I do think caring
[1:03:46] Speaker 3: or putting your eggs in a basket or being forthright
[1:03:48] Speaker 3: about your emotions is dead.
[1:03:49] Speaker 4: I actually will say, again, Skrulls, I think girls man
[1:03:54] Speaker 4: shame a lot.
[1:03:54] Speaker 2: I do too.
[1:03:55] Speaker 3: I feel like there's a lot of anger against men.
[1:03:57] Speaker 3: I saw someone do a video the other day like,
[1:03:59] Speaker 3: what's the best skincare for guys?
[1:04:01] Speaker 4: A guy asked and she goes, for them to not talk.
[1:04:03] Speaker 4: Things like that. I just don't love that. I love guys.
[1:04:07] Speaker 4: I think you guys are awesome. Are you guys perfect?
[1:04:09] Speaker 3: No.
[1:04:09] Speaker 4: You guys have broken my heart sometimes. But I don't
[1:04:12] Speaker 4: think you guys should be suppressed.
[1:04:14] Speaker 3: I don't think you guys should hold back anything just
[1:04:16] Speaker 3: because there's some girls that just like to shit on
[1:04:18] Speaker 3: men the whole time.
[1:04:19] Speaker 1: You know what it is?
[1:04:21] Speaker 5: It's... If you're affected so deeply, even just once, twice,
[1:04:27] Speaker 5: three times by a man, it's very easy to generalize
[1:04:31] Speaker 5: and encourage.
[1:04:32] Speaker 1: Yeah, of course. That's humanity.
[1:04:34] Speaker 5: The pattern is, oh, this being and the beings that
[1:04:39] Speaker 5: are like this being hurt me.
[1:04:41] Speaker 1: Fuck them all.
[1:04:42] Speaker 4: Right.
[1:04:42] Speaker 5: So you apply that, what it turns into really heavily
[1:04:46] Speaker 5: resentment to the whole gender.
[1:04:48] Speaker 1: And it's just not fair.
[1:04:50] Speaker 4: That's emotional immaturity.
[1:04:51] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[1:04:51] Speaker 3: And it sounded like, that was your problem in your
[1:04:55] Speaker 3: previous relationship was a lot of emotional immaturity.
[1:04:58] Speaker 4: And I think, you know, it's an age thing as well.
[1:05:01] Speaker 3: They always say what men are eight years behind mentally
[1:05:04] Speaker 3: and emotionally than women are. Seven?
[1:05:07] Speaker 1: Seven years.
[1:05:07] Speaker 3: My bad.
[1:05:07] Speaker 4: Sorry, seven. And I think that's the case.
[1:05:12] Speaker 3: So I think a lot of girls in our position
[1:05:14] Speaker 3: are like, okay, let's date someone that's 35 to 39
[1:05:17] Speaker 3: or 40 because they're going to reach that emotional maturity.
[1:05:20] Speaker 3: And that's not always the case. I think it's by subject.
[1:05:24] Speaker 3: And I know living in New York, there's probably eight
[1:05:27] Speaker 3: girls for every one guy. So he doesn't need to
[1:05:31] Speaker 3: work or try because, say, if I'm like, well, I
[1:05:34] Speaker 3: want you to pick me up and pay for my dinner,
[1:05:36] Speaker 3: he's going to say, well, there's that girl who's just
[1:05:38] Speaker 3: as hot, maybe hotter, and doesn't need this.
[1:05:40] Speaker 2: That's the part of it that really has bested me
[1:05:43] Speaker 2: in both the lead up and in this breakup stage.
[1:05:47] Speaker 2: It's like, as soon as I... As soon as I
[1:05:53] Speaker 2: started talking to her, I didn't see any other, I
[1:05:55] Speaker 2: didn't see visually any other girls. Like I, I, I
[1:05:59] Speaker 2: didn't even talk to the girls of mine that were
[1:06:01] Speaker 2: friends anymore. I love that. I didn't cause I, well,
[1:06:05] Speaker 2: let's talk about it.
[1:06:06] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[1:06:06] Speaker 2: Hold on. Let's talk about it.
[1:06:08] Speaker 4: Because it's a.
[1:06:09] Speaker 2: Scary, cause it's a scary place. Okay. So like I
[1:06:13] Speaker 2: always went out of my way to make sure that
[1:06:15] Speaker 2: there was no, I never wanted her to feel like
[1:06:18] Speaker 2: there was any reason to not trust me. I was
[1:06:20] Speaker 2: a call when I get back to the hotel kind
[1:06:22] Speaker 2: of guy before I go to sleep. No, not a call,
[1:06:25] Speaker 2: a FaceTime. Here's the room. Here's the closet's open.
[1:06:28] Speaker 4: You do that?
[1:06:29] Speaker 2: Always.
[1:06:30] Speaker 3: Of course.
[1:06:30] Speaker 1: Under the bed.
[1:06:31] Speaker 2: Of course.
[1:06:32] Speaker 4: That's crazy to me. I've never been like, show your room.
[1:06:35] Speaker 2: Well, that's a joke.
[1:06:36] Speaker 3: No, but my whole thing is like, if another girl
[1:06:39] Speaker 3: can take him, she can have him.
[1:06:40] Speaker 2: Yeah, but I did so well to prove that wasn't
[1:06:42] Speaker 2: the case and I feel like to an extent– and
[1:06:45] Speaker 2: here's another question. And by the way, once again, this
[1:06:48] Speaker 2: isn't to be pinned in just that relationship because I've
[1:06:50] Speaker 2: had this problem in the past. I think when you
[1:06:52] Speaker 2: present yourself as someone who works well with the female– gender,
[1:07:00] Speaker 2: if I'll just use those terms, you create a reputation
[1:07:04] Speaker 2: that drives women to you, but when they come to,
[1:07:07] Speaker 2: they also remember who you were prior to meeting them.
[1:07:11] Speaker 2: Does that make sense? And so like that reputation, very
[1:07:13] Speaker 2: similar to what you guys say about how when men
[1:07:15] Speaker 2: meet you and are intrigued by your output, I say sometimes,
[1:07:20] Speaker 2: a lot of times girls meet me and the same
[1:07:23] Speaker 2: things that turn them on The laughter, the conversationalism, how
[1:07:27] Speaker 2: I can be flirty but reserved but cool but mysterious
[1:07:30] Speaker 2: but cultured. As soon as we're locked in, they want
[1:07:33] Speaker 2: to turn that shit the fuck off.
[1:07:35] Speaker 1: It's impressive. It's impressive. It's because he's got the.
[1:07:37] Speaker 2: Gift of gab.
[1:07:37] Speaker 4: Yeah.
[1:07:40] Speaker 1: He's hilarious.
[1:07:41] Speaker 3: Do you ever feel insecurity in a relationship or do
[1:07:44] Speaker 3: you find that it's always the girl? I've never, I've
[1:07:48] Speaker 3: never checked a phone.
[1:07:51] Speaker 2: I've never been, I've never asked where you were.
[1:07:54] Speaker 1: I do not.
[1:07:55] Speaker 2: And truthfully, every time I've done something like that, I've really,
[1:07:59] Speaker 2: I've looked at other people and realized that that tight
[1:08:01] Speaker 2: leash methodology just doesn't work. Here's one thing I'll bring
[1:08:05] Speaker 2: up as a question. and it comes back to the
[1:08:09] Speaker 2: question that you asked about alpha versus beta dating, especially
[1:08:12] Speaker 2: for them as two very tough girls. I want my
[1:08:21] Speaker 2: thought processes and my decision-making to be trusted by my counterpart. Okay.
[1:08:28] Speaker 2: When I, when I, especially with the shit that I've
[1:08:31] Speaker 2: been through and the decision-making I've had to make in
[1:08:33] Speaker 2: my life and all of the camps I've been in
[1:08:35] Speaker 2: and all the these people that have looked to me
[1:08:38] Speaker 2: for decisions in times of strife and grief. And, and
[1:08:42] Speaker 2: so when I say, this is such a funny thing,
[1:08:45] Speaker 2: but when I say, I don't deem this to be
[1:08:48] Speaker 2: a situation we should be having an argument about, I
[1:08:50] Speaker 2: don't want that to be questioned as me saying your
[1:08:54] Speaker 2: feelings don't matter. Right.
[1:08:56] Speaker 3: Right.
[1:08:56] Speaker 2: I just have deemed this to be, so why are
[1:09:00] Speaker 2: we talking about the.
[1:09:01] Speaker 4: Thing is I think perspective.
[1:09:03] Speaker 2: So my question so my yes so my question to
[1:09:05] Speaker 2: you is are you guys willing to get to trust
[1:09:09] Speaker 2: a man enough to say okay Because because I don't
[1:09:14] Speaker 2: know how else you find the guys that you're looking for,
[1:09:16] Speaker 2: which are which are super out, which are super alpha producers,
[1:09:20] Speaker 2: one percenters potentially, but also willing to give the rope
[1:09:24] Speaker 2: the reins to a female like that's a tough fucking.
[1:09:28] Speaker 4: Yeah, they don't exist. Would we be willing? Yeah, 100 percent.
[1:09:32] Speaker 3: I think back to the perspective thing, you know, it
[1:09:34] Speaker 3: does come with age. I think you have so much
[1:09:36] Speaker 3: of it. And if you go out with someone that doesn't,
[1:09:38] Speaker 3: it also goes back to just saying please and thank
[1:09:40] Speaker 3: you and being nice to servers. It's all those things combined.
[1:09:44] Speaker 3: If you're going out with a young girl, you're going
[1:09:46] Speaker 3: to get young outbursts, young lashings. I mean, I also think,
[1:09:51] Speaker 3: and I'm curious about what you guys feel about this.
[1:09:54] Speaker 4: Do you like when your partner... sort of puts like rules.
[1:09:58] Speaker 3: And restraints on you. It's like, you need, you have
[1:10:00] Speaker 3: to text me. You have to do this. You need
[1:10:01] Speaker 3: to track. I'm going to track you. Like you're not
[1:10:03] Speaker 3: allowed to stay up.
[1:10:04] Speaker 4: I feel like guys hate it.
[1:10:06] Speaker 2: Using the term. You're not allowed. First of all, is a.
[1:10:09] Speaker 4: No, it's crazy.
[1:10:10] Speaker 3: You like crazy girls because every guy says that, no,
[1:10:13] Speaker 3: we fucking hate crazy.
[1:10:14] Speaker 4: But y'all love it. And y'all date them. So I'm confused.
[1:10:17] Speaker 4: Women release, um, What was it? Like a release something
[1:10:20] Speaker 4: during sex.
[1:10:21] Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
[1:10:21] Speaker 4: That makes us bond to men. It's a hormone. It's
[1:10:24] Speaker 4: a hormone? Yeah, a hormone.
[1:10:25] Speaker 2: It's like a pheromone.
[1:10:26] Speaker 4: But then men release something when they're super stressed. Vasopressin.
[1:10:30] Speaker 4: And so that's.
[1:10:31] Speaker 3: Why women and men, like especially men, when they're in
[1:10:34] Speaker 3: these relationships with toxic women, they kind of stay in
[1:10:36] Speaker 3: it because it releases that hormone.
[1:10:38] Speaker 2: What?
[1:10:39] Speaker 3: So when women are, women release our oxytocin when apparently
[1:10:43] Speaker 3: you're physical.
[1:10:43] Speaker 4: You're hugging, you're touching.
[1:10:45] Speaker 3: That's when we feel that love endorphin towards you. Men
[1:10:48] Speaker 3: is released when they are stressed. So that's called vasopressin.
[1:10:51] Speaker 3: So guys low key like to rile their girlfriend up
[1:10:54] Speaker 3: because she gets like, why would you do that?
[1:10:56] Speaker 4: And then you love her for that. I'm not sure.
[1:10:58] Speaker 1: That sounds like a myth.
[1:11:01] Speaker 2: No, no, no.
[1:11:02] Speaker 1: It's science.
[1:11:02] Speaker 2: It could be science.
[1:11:03] Speaker 4: On the Unwax podcast.
[1:11:05] Speaker 2: But let's not group everybody together.
[1:11:07] Speaker 4: I agree.
[1:11:07] Speaker 3: No, of course.
[1:11:08] Speaker 2: Because I will say this. When you say guys like
[1:11:10] Speaker 2: crazy girls. once again, I think it does come down
[1:11:13] Speaker 2: to age and life stage. He, Logan was very intense,
[1:11:17] Speaker 2: intentional and very purposeful about his selection of his life partner.
[1:11:22] Speaker 2: And so, and so for me, I, I have always
[1:11:25] Speaker 2: hoped that I could grow into that with someone like I,
[1:11:29] Speaker 2: like I, like I, like I said, I was so
[1:11:30] Speaker 2: enamored by a lot of this last relationships, purity and,
[1:11:35] Speaker 2: and direction in life and masters going for a master's
[1:11:37] Speaker 2: degree and no one knew who she was. And a
[1:11:39] Speaker 2: lot of that stuff like rang a lot of bells.
[1:11:40] Speaker 2: And so, when you say this stuff about like, how
[1:11:44] Speaker 2: do you like being told what to do in a
[1:11:46] Speaker 2: relationship as a, even just slightly down spectrum avoidant, it's
[1:11:51] Speaker 2: not really good for me.
[1:11:52] Speaker 4: Okay.
[1:11:53] Speaker 2: And by the way, I don't believe that it's good
[1:11:56] Speaker 2: for the majority of high producing men. I agree. I
[1:11:58] Speaker 2: really don't. I think, I think you should set boundaries. Yo,
[1:12:03] Speaker 2: If you cheat, we are done. There's no coming back
[1:12:06] Speaker 2: from that. There's no excuses. The relationship is over because
[1:12:10] Speaker 2: as you see in this new toxic, this return of
[1:12:12] Speaker 2: some small semblance of pocket of toxic masculinity on the internet,
[1:12:16] Speaker 2: there's this like, this is why cheating should be okay.
[1:12:19] Speaker 2: Not okay. As soon as the trust is gone from
[1:12:21] Speaker 2: this relationship, we are fucking done. That's a boundary that
[1:12:24] Speaker 2: I understand and do not see as a disrespect. But
[1:12:26] Speaker 2: if you tell me, yo, you just went on a
[1:12:29] Speaker 2: 22 minute bike ride in the Hamptons. Why the fuck
[1:12:32] Speaker 2: didn't you text me while you're- Not saying that that's
[1:12:35] Speaker 2: ever happened.
[1:12:37] Speaker 4: This sounds personal.
[1:12:39] Speaker 2: It's a made up story. But if you do that
[1:12:43] Speaker 2: as a, not even as an avoidant, but as a
[1:12:45] Speaker 2: fucking human, I'm going to have a major problem.
[1:12:49] Speaker 4: You know what I believe in? Have you heard of
[1:12:50] Speaker 4: the Toxie Light Theory?
[1:12:51] Speaker 6: Yeah, the cop.
[1:12:52] Speaker 4: It was made in Sex and the City.
[1:12:53] Speaker 3: Basically, they say that men are like taxi cabs, that
[1:12:55] Speaker 3: when their light is on and they're ready for a
[1:12:57] Speaker 3: relationship and like a serious one for a wife, that's
[1:13:00] Speaker 3: when you actually find her because you're attracting that type
[1:13:02] Speaker 3: of energy. But until then, you're going to choose the
[1:13:04] Speaker 3: people that are going to come in and out of
[1:13:05] Speaker 3: the taxi. Yeah.
[1:13:06] Speaker 2: That's really funny.
[1:13:08] Speaker 3: And I think it's true because it sounds like you
[1:13:10] Speaker 3: had your light on and you were like, I'm going
[1:13:12] Speaker 3: to be very intentional.
[1:13:13] Speaker 4: And it was right.
[1:13:14] Speaker 3: And I do want a serious relationship, something that's a
[1:13:16] Speaker 3: little bit more meaningful than something that might last a
[1:13:18] Speaker 3: year or two. Right. And that's when you met Nina
[1:13:20] Speaker 3: and ended up working out. Even if it like started
[1:13:22] Speaker 3: out in a very interesting way, it still was attracted
[1:13:24] Speaker 3: to you. You are not probably fully ready for that
[1:13:27] Speaker 3: type of like, there's this like marital commitment.
[1:13:29] Speaker 2: And so mine's the one that's kind of broken.
[1:13:32] Speaker 4: Your life's like half on half off.
[1:13:35] Speaker 3: You do want, I know you crave it because I
[1:13:37] Speaker 3: can hear it in your voice and the way that
[1:13:38] Speaker 3: you do speak about it. You're very intellectual when it
[1:13:40] Speaker 3: comes to emotions and boundaries and whatever it is.
[1:13:43] Speaker 4: But, it seems like your light's not on yet.
[1:13:45] Speaker 3: So you're not really looking for someone to give you
[1:13:47] Speaker 3: that quality, mature, long-lasting relationship.
[1:13:49] Speaker 2: I'm in purgatory right now. And I feel that too
[1:13:53] Speaker 2: because this return to what I used to... Dude, I
[1:13:57] Speaker 2: have not even seen a girl. We've been broken up
[1:14:00] Speaker 2: for 40 days. I'm healing.
[1:14:03] Speaker 4: I hope you're not seeing another girl for 40 days.
[1:14:06] Speaker 2: I don't mean seeing. That's not the type of seeing
[1:14:07] Speaker 2: I usually do. I'm not talking about going on a date.
[1:14:11] Speaker 2: What I'm saying to you is this. That return to
[1:14:14] Speaker 2: the dark side, now disgust. I don't want to be there.
[1:14:18] Speaker 2: I don't want to be at a meeting girls in
[1:14:21] Speaker 2: weird places and like all this stuff.
[1:14:23] Speaker 4: Honestly, it's overrated.
[1:14:24] Speaker 2: No, no, no, no. It's fine. It's a life stage thing. Yeah,
[1:14:27] Speaker 2: but it's not fun.
[1:14:28] Speaker 4: You can't tell me that's fun.
[1:14:30] Speaker 3: You think getting fucked up at a club, meeting a
[1:14:32] Speaker 3: girl at a night, like that's fun right now.
[1:14:35] Speaker 2: It's not for me at all. At all. But for
[1:14:38] Speaker 2: someone out there, it's a blast. Okay. That's what I'm
[1:14:40] Speaker 2: trying to say. Right. Whereas you guys like reading books
[1:14:43] Speaker 2: or acting or doing somebody else likes turning up with
[1:14:46] Speaker 2: their boys, you know, like Mo Bamba comes on, they're
[1:14:49] Speaker 2: standing on the shit going like this, popping bottles, whatever. Right. So,
[1:14:53] Speaker 2: but to your point, yes. And, and, and by the way,
[1:14:56] Speaker 2: if a girl is acting up a lot of times,
[1:14:59] Speaker 2: it's because of something you're doing wrong. Okay. And I'm
[1:15:01] Speaker 2: not saying that this is necessarily the case. I'm not
[1:15:04] Speaker 2: going to take blame or whatever, but, But if you're
[1:15:07] Speaker 2: not working towards the same goal she is, if you're
[1:15:10] Speaker 2: not giving her the right level of reassurance that you're
[1:15:14] Speaker 2: there and blah, blah, blah, whatever, that can cause a
[1:15:17] Speaker 2: girl to act a certain way.
[1:15:18] Speaker 3: Well, I also do believe when you get into a relationship,
[1:15:20] Speaker 3: you're not just dating the girl, you're dating all her
[1:15:22] Speaker 3: boyfriends prior to that.
[1:15:23] Speaker 2: That massive.
[1:15:24] Speaker 4: All of the relationships.
[1:15:25] Speaker 3: So you're not really talking to her, you're talking to
[1:15:27] Speaker 3: every single person she was intimate with.
[1:15:29] Speaker 2: And that's where trust issues.
[1:15:30] Speaker 3: Yes.
[1:15:31] Speaker 4: Did it start there, though, with you?
[1:15:32] Speaker 3: What's that? Did you see it in the beginning? Issues
[1:15:36] Speaker 3: of the past playing a role in your current relationship.
[1:15:38] Speaker 2: I've we felt a lot.
[1:15:39] Speaker 4: I feel so bad for Mike We're like they're pising.
[1:15:41] Speaker 2: Him you I feel worse. I feel I feel worse.
[1:15:45] Speaker 3: Podcast is really talk about relationships people send in their
[1:15:47] Speaker 3: relationship advice to us.
[1:15:49] Speaker 1: This is me.
[1:15:49] Speaker 4: But again, we are single so anyone.
[1:15:56] Speaker 3: This is how bad it is to see on a
[1:15:57] Speaker 3: date recently he called her Sophia he called me Sophia
[1:16:00] Speaker 3: I I've never met him.
[1:16:03] Speaker 2: What are you calling it a Freudian slip or what?
[1:16:05] Speaker 6: I don't know.
[1:16:05] Speaker 4: Yeah, he just called me Sophia. I was like, well,
[1:16:09] Speaker 4: wrong one. Happens a lot, actually. I have the best dates.
[1:16:11] Speaker 2: Well, your dad named you guys Sophia, Scarlett, and Sistine.
[1:16:15] Speaker 4: Yes, but you shouldn't. I mean, you're going out with Sistine.
[1:16:18] Speaker 4: It's a pretty clear distinction.
[1:16:20] Speaker 1: That's tough.
[1:16:21] Speaker 4: This was a first date. Like, how are you messing
[1:16:23] Speaker 4: up between the sisters? I've never met you. And bonus,
[1:16:26] Speaker 4: I paid.
[1:16:27] Speaker 6: Whoa.
[1:16:28] Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
[1:16:29] Speaker 4: True, true, true.
[1:16:30] Speaker 3: No, but that's why our singleness is awful for me,
[1:16:32] Speaker 3: but it's great for our podcast because the content is phenomenal.
[1:16:35] Speaker 2: For sure.
[1:16:35] Speaker 1: And by the way, when you get in a relationship.
[1:16:38] Speaker 4: It's going to be boring.
[1:16:38] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[1:16:39] Speaker 4: No, I know.
[1:16:40] Speaker 1: You will have to dilute.
[1:16:42] Speaker 2: Oh, we did.
[1:16:42] Speaker 4: By the way, when we did have a relationship, they
[1:16:44] Speaker 4: didn't want us to talk about it on the podcast.
[1:16:45] Speaker 3: So our content was awful during that time.
[1:16:48] Speaker 2: No, I know.
[1:16:48] Speaker 4: It was awful. But we want it. We just want
[1:16:51] Speaker 4: a relationship where they would allow us to be ourselves. Yeah,
[1:16:53] Speaker 4: can you guys therapize us? What are we doing wrong?
[1:16:54] Speaker 2: Yeah, really.
[1:16:55] Speaker 4: Be honest.
[1:16:55] Speaker 1: Let me think. Be honest.
[1:16:57] Speaker 4: Be honest. You guys, too.
[1:16:59] Speaker 1: Do we have any, like... Really cool friends. Single, like,
[1:17:03] Speaker 1: cool ass.
[1:17:03] Speaker 4: But grounded.
[1:17:05] Speaker 3: Grounded.
[1:17:05] Speaker 1: My only single cool ass friend really is Mike.
[1:17:09] Speaker 2: I'm just, I'll be honest.
[1:17:10] Speaker 1: You guys are probably, you're probably too old for him.
[1:17:13] Speaker 2: I probably, I know.
[1:17:16] Speaker 1: I think a little too old.
[1:17:18] Speaker 2: That's not true. That's not true.
[1:17:20] Speaker 4: It's like 24. No, no, no.
[1:17:23] Speaker 1: That's my biggest, my biggest thing with him. You said it.
[1:17:25] Speaker 2: It's age. It's age.
[1:17:26] Speaker 4: You're a taxi late guy. Beyond go for the 30
[1:17:28] Speaker 4: year old. No, but it is age. It is age.
[1:17:30] Speaker 2: Hey, that's something I was talking to somebody about.
[1:17:32] Speaker 4: The other day. And they're good by the way. They're
[1:17:33] Speaker 4: so hot. By the way, women peak at 32.
[1:17:35] Speaker 2: That's something I was talking about the other day. The
[1:17:38] Speaker 2: AIDS thing is, I believe has a, and maybe this
[1:17:41] Speaker 2: is already like a known thing, has such a tie to,
[1:17:43] Speaker 2: I think has such a tie to biological clock.
[1:17:47] Speaker 6: Oh yeah.
[1:17:47] Speaker 2: Like a genetic or like a DNA driven tie because
[1:17:51] Speaker 2: ready for this at 25, if you, your boyfriend goes
[1:17:57] Speaker 2: for a 22-minute ride on bike in the Hamptons in
[1:18:00] Speaker 2: this made-up story, right?
[1:18:02] Speaker 4: Made-up. It was actually New York.
[1:18:04] Speaker 2: Yo, you're pissed. But at 31, you're like, okay.
[1:18:10] Speaker 2: Maybe I'm pissed, maybe I'm not, but damn, do I
[1:18:13] Speaker 2: want to start this shit over again? I'm trying to
[1:18:15] Speaker 2: have a fucking kid.
[1:18:17] Speaker 1: I feel like at 31, it's like, I got 22
[1:18:19] Speaker 1: minutes to myself.
[1:18:20] Speaker 2: Yes, or that too. Yes, my sisters all the time,
[1:18:23] Speaker 2: it's so funny because we used to talk to my
[1:18:25] Speaker 2: sisters about it and people would bring up, both of
[1:18:28] Speaker 2: my exes would bring up cheating to Abby. They'd be like, well,
[1:18:31] Speaker 2: what would you do if he was hanging out, went
[1:18:34] Speaker 2: to the strip club? She goes, did he get a
[1:18:36] Speaker 2: blow job?
[1:18:37] Speaker 1: Great, less work for me.
[1:18:41] Speaker 2: It was hilarious. She's in her late 30s. She's like, great.
[1:18:44] Speaker 2: Now I got less work to do. Like she's joking.
[1:18:46] Speaker 2: But at the same time, what she's bringing forward is like, dude,
[1:18:48] Speaker 2: I want to fucking.
[1:18:49] Speaker 4: There's not this clinginess. that you get with a younger girl.
[1:18:52] Speaker 4: This attachment kind of.
[1:18:53] Speaker 2: I will.
[1:18:54] Speaker 1: I will keep an eye out.
[1:18:55] Speaker 4: Thank you.
[1:18:56] Speaker 2: I will keep an eye out.
[1:18:58] Speaker 4: I put it on a blimp.
[1:18:58] Speaker 3: We're actually very like we're actually very feminine and sweet
[1:19:01] Speaker 3: when you go.
[1:19:02] Speaker 4: Yeah, we're not so butch guys. We're really like in
[1:19:04] Speaker 4: a business meeting. We'll dominate and we'll honestly talk over you.
[1:19:08] Speaker 4: But in a date, we're like, I mean, call me Sophia.
[1:19:11] Speaker 4: That's another story.
[1:19:13] Speaker 2: Sistine Chapel. Sistine Chapel. Yeah, literally. Come on.
[1:19:16] Speaker 1: All right, guys. That was great. That was amazing.
[1:19:19] Speaker 4: Thank you.
[1:19:19] Speaker 2: They still never figured out what was wrong with them.
[1:19:22] Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
[1:19:23] Speaker 4: We already know.
[1:19:25] Speaker 1: On part two, we'll dissect you guys completely.
[1:19:27] Speaker 2: On your show.
[1:19:28] Speaker 1: Maybe.
[1:19:29] Speaker 4: Maybe you guys are free.
[1:19:31] Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for coming on.
[1:19:32] Speaker 2: Thanks for having us.
[1:19:33] Speaker 1: Yeah, this was great, guys.
[1:19:34] Speaker 2: This was a dream.
[1:19:35] Speaker 4: Thank you, guys.
[1:19:35] Speaker 3: Hey, wait.
[1:19:36] Speaker 2: If you're going through a breakup, You're going to be okay.
[1:19:39] Speaker 2: You're going to be okay because I know some of
[1:19:41] Speaker 2: you guys out there right now are watching this and
[1:19:42] Speaker 2: you're so stuck in your head and men, women, and
[1:19:45] Speaker 2: you think the world's tumbling down around you. Just give
[1:19:48] Speaker 2: it time. You're going to come out on the other
[1:19:49] Speaker 2: side and you're going to be great.
[1:19:51] Speaker 4: Also, I want to say something to my ex-girlfriend. Ex-girlfriend,
[1:19:54] Speaker 4: I mean. I'm so sorry that we have to talk
[1:19:55] Speaker 4: about this.
[1:19:56] Speaker 2: She's so great.
[1:19:57] Speaker 4: I hope we're good.
[1:19:58] Speaker 2: I love her.
[1:19:58] Speaker 3: I hope we're okay with us talking about it. We're
[1:20:01] Speaker 3: team both of you.
[1:20:02] Speaker 2: We'll review it.
[1:20:02] Speaker 4: We gotta go. This is, yeah. It's the Lone Sisters,
[1:20:05] Speaker 4: ladies and gentlemen.
[1:20:06] Speaker 1: Hit that like button. Hit that subscribe button. We'll see
[1:20:08] Speaker 1: you next time.
[1:20:09] Speaker 3: Peace. Bye.

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