# “Feel it, process it, move on!” Mary Earps: How to find gratitude after hardship

An episode of [Happy Place](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1353058891), 30 Jun 2025, 58 min.

Audio: https://sphinx.acast.com/p/acast/s/happy-place/e/685a9766f42ce0122423c111/media.mp3

Do you trust your gut to make the best decision for yourself? Former England goalkeeper Mary Earps has had to make some bold, brave choices recently. In this chat with Fearne, Mary explains how she knew retiring from international football was right for her, and they both explore the importance of having different chapters and challenges in your life. Having experienced periods of real mental darkness, Mary talks through the practices that now ground her in the present. She also reckons setting life goals might just be setting you up for disappointment. Should we be focusing on progress, instead of perfection? Mary has advice on how to be ok with not being good at everything! Plus, Mary recalls the euphoric day the Lionesses won the 2022 EUROs, and reflects on the emotional impact it’s had on women across the world. If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like: Sarina Wiegman Leah Williamson Molly McCann Child on the line is a three-part documentary podcast series celebrating the Volunteer Counsellors of Childline, and the brave children & young people who contact the helpline service. Listen here: https://www.childonthelinepodcast.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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