# 7 Good Minutes: Extra - The Missing Column: What to Do the Moment You Start Keeping Score

An episode of [7 Good Minutes](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1346062517), 17 Oct 2026, 1:37.

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When the thought shows up—I always, I’m the only one, third time this week—you can use it as a cue instead of a verdict. In about two minutes, you’ll learn a three-step move called the missing column. Name two specific things the other person did recently that you didn’t count. Ask yourself what you need right now. Then ask for that one thing plainly, without bringing the whole list of evidence. You’ll also hear what to expect when you try it, and what the next step is if the missing column keeps coming up empty week after week. Feeling behind? Start with "A Simple Reset Plan for Your Next 30 Days" — a short, practical PDF you can read in under an hour. $7, with a no-questions refund. https://7goodminutes.com/guides/ Follow 7 Good Minutes for new episodes every day.

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