# Who Let the Dogs Out

An episode of [Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1279955329), 10 Mar 2026, 46 min.

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The Harry Styles album is out and we are ready to listen all the time! But Becca might be only playing it “occasionally”. Find out what we really think of the new songs and if Tanya inspired one of the singles! We dive deep into the Love is Blind finale, Rob from Traitors and the Birkin he gifted Maura, and… is it ever okay to take your shoes off on a plane?? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
[0:04] Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody,
[0:13] Speaker 1: we are scrubbing it out.
[0:17] Speaker 2: Oh.
[0:19] Speaker 1: I'm sitting in tanya seat that she sits in for
[0:21] Speaker 1: the morning show and her volume is quite loud.
[0:26] Speaker 2: Yeah that's how I like life, loud and blaring.
[0:29] Speaker 3: Wow.
[0:29] Speaker 1: Yeah, huh, Well I live a very quiet, calm life.
[0:33] Speaker 1: So this was jarring.
[0:34] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[0:36] Speaker 1: Mark and Easton were both blown away.
[0:38] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[0:39] Speaker 1: Rough, we needed Oh no, I was saying it was
[0:41] Speaker 1: high energy.
[0:42] Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, great, rough and great because.
[0:44] Speaker 1: It's the first Monday of Spring forward, which is I
[0:48] Speaker 1: lose an hour of sleep.
[0:51] Speaker 2: So brutal this morning.
[0:53] Speaker 1: Yeah, your text at six point thirty, I was like, nauseit. Well,
[0:57] Speaker 1: I was nauseous for multiple reasons, but I was increased
[1:00] Speaker 1: my nausea that I was already feeling.
[1:02] Speaker 4: I think the problem is because I can't go to
[1:04] Speaker 4: bed early on Daylight Savings for some reason. It's harder
[1:07] Speaker 4: for me to fall asleep obviously because it's an hour earlier,
[1:12] Speaker 4: and so then I end up staying up later than
[1:14] Speaker 4: I'm used to.
[1:15] Speaker 2: So then my alarm in the morning is.
[1:16] Speaker 1: Just like m tough, tough.
[1:20] Speaker 2: Yeah, so we're struggling, but we're here.
[1:23] Speaker 1: We're here on a Monday. Yeah, when we're back in
[1:27] Speaker 1: the studio, all of us together, it's been.
[1:29] Speaker 5: A minute, has been a minute? That's great.
[1:31] Speaker 1: Yeah, last week we were in the Bahamas. Mark, wasn't there?
[1:34] Speaker 1: A week before we were in the oo, know we
[1:37] Speaker 1: were here? Wasn't here?
[1:39] Speaker 4: Oh?
[1:40] Speaker 1: Yeah?
[1:40] Speaker 2: Were we in the other studio at something a week before? Yeah?
[1:45] Speaker 2: We're nothing if not nimble.
[1:48] Speaker 5: We roll with those punches. Yeah, nimble quick, yeah.
[1:52] Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Put us wherever you want us and we
[1:55] Speaker 2: will podcast.
[1:56] Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to throw us in the Bahama studio?
[1:59] Speaker 5: Bye bye, bad removed staff, willy nilly.
[2:02] Speaker 1: Make it work.
[2:03] Speaker 2: We'll make it work, rain or shine.
[2:05] Speaker 1: Well, that's what you get when you've been podcasting for
[2:08] Speaker 1: almost ten years. I know it'll be nine years this September.
[2:12] Speaker 2: September.
[2:13] Speaker 4: I was thinking about that the other day because someone
[2:17] Speaker 4: was like, are you still doing that podcast?
[2:18] Speaker 2: I was like yeah, yeah, and he goes, what do
[2:21] Speaker 2: you guys talk about? I was like, I don't know.
[2:23] Speaker 2: Tune in, tune in, Why don't you give.
[2:26] Speaker 1: Us the damad? It is funny. When I sat next
[2:30] Speaker 1: we flew back from the Bahamas, and I sat next
[2:34] Speaker 1: to this lovely gentleman who we were quiet the whole flight.
[2:38] Speaker 1: You know, it was a thirty minute flight from the
[2:40] Speaker 1: Bahamas to Fort Lauderdale. But at the end when we landed,
[2:43] Speaker 1: he was in the window seat. So he's like, oh,
[2:45] Speaker 1: he was showing me something that we were flying over that,
[2:47] Speaker 1: oh the hard Rock cafe, the big guitar building, and
[2:52] Speaker 1: so he's like, oh, have you ever seen this? And
[2:54] Speaker 1: I was like, oh, no, it's cool. So he was
[2:56] Speaker 1: really nice, and he was, you know, chit chatting with me,
[2:58] Speaker 1: and Tanya is in front of me. So I'm in
[3:01] Speaker 1: the middle seat. I have this guy next to me
[3:02] Speaker 1: and then Tanya Haley on my other side, and I
[3:05] Speaker 1: can see Tanya in front of me through the crack
[3:07] Speaker 1: of the chairs, also in her window seat, filming me,
[3:12] Speaker 1: and I don't know that.
[3:13] Speaker 4: I'm just laughing that she got sat next to a Tanya,
[3:15] Speaker 4: so like, I have to capture this.
[3:17] Speaker 1: But this man doesn't know that lore So I'm like
[3:22] Speaker 1: praying to God that he can't see her filming us.
[3:26] Speaker 1: And so I'm like chit chatting, trying to pay attention
[3:29] Speaker 1: to him, knowing that Tanya's like got her iPhone on me,
[3:33] Speaker 1: and I was going to where with that?
[3:39] Speaker 3: I think you got there, didn't you?
[3:42] Speaker 1: I don't know. I thought I had a point to me.
[3:45] Speaker 2: I actually enjoyed that.
[3:46] Speaker 4: You actually enjoyed having conversation with a stranger on an airplane.
[3:50] Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sure, it's fine. I mean because we had landed.
[3:53] Speaker 1: I'm fining to talk once I've landed, because I'm already
[3:55] Speaker 1: I'm not.
[3:57] Speaker 3: By the way for a minute to start a conversation.
[4:02] Speaker 1: But what my point was that he asked, He was like, oh,
[4:05] Speaker 1: what were you in the Bahamas? Moara? Again, I'm trying
[4:07] Speaker 1: to explain that we were there doing a podcast at
[4:09] Speaker 1: this new podcast studio Baha Mar And he goes, oh,
[4:13] Speaker 1: what's your podcast about or what's your podcast called? And
[4:17] Speaker 1: I go, well, it's called Scrubbing In And he goes, oh,
[4:20] Speaker 1: it's like a medical podcast. I go no, we were
[4:23] Speaker 1: like obsessed with Gray's Anatomy and it kind of started there,
[4:26] Speaker 1: and it's just it's been almost nine years, so it's
[4:31] Speaker 1: you know, we get the name. Yeah, And he goes, oh, well,
[4:34] Speaker 1: what do you all talk about? And I was like, huh,
[4:36] Speaker 1: also a tough question. Just our lives me and this
[4:41] Speaker 1: girl who's filming us, she's.
[4:44] Speaker 2: A great, great way to slide it in there.
[4:49] Speaker 1: So yeah, it is. It's it's funny, it is. It
[4:52] Speaker 1: goes deep with the lore of scrubbing in because unless
[4:56] Speaker 1: you've been here from the beginning, how do you describe
[4:58] Speaker 1: it to somebody?
[4:59] Speaker 2: You can't. But I love that, like we're still doing it.
[5:03] Speaker 1: We do, We're still doing it. I like that, Yeah
[5:08] Speaker 1: we are.
[5:09] Speaker 2: I think it's nice. It is comforting.
[5:11] Speaker 1: Brings me comfort, and I hope it brings you all
[5:14] Speaker 1: comfort who are listening to me.
[5:15] Speaker 2: I will just uh.
[5:18] Speaker 4: Because Beccho was talking about the flight back, I got
[5:20] Speaker 4: sat next to a lady who decided to take her
[5:22] Speaker 4: shoes off.
[5:27] Speaker 2: Proceeded to.
[5:29] Speaker 4: And like, maybe this is my karma because I eat
[5:31] Speaker 4: like smelly food all the time.
[5:33] Speaker 2: But she put she had like you know how like
[5:35] Speaker 2: they have.
[5:36] Speaker 4: Those body oils and they're in like those small brown
[5:39] Speaker 4: containers essential oils. Essential oils. Yeah, because I was very
[5:43] Speaker 4: into them for a while, so I was familiar with
[5:45] Speaker 4: the bottle. But she smelled of this like the essential
[5:48] Speaker 4: oil that they ask you like if you want to
[5:50] Speaker 4: get a massage, like the one that you do not
[5:52] Speaker 4: want on you you know, like that's what she was
[5:54] Speaker 4: slathering all over her. It was like I saw her
[5:56] Speaker 4: pull it out of her backpack and like slathered it
[5:58] Speaker 4: on her wrist and then she went to go put
[5:59] Speaker 4: it on her feet, and I was like the bare
[6:03] Speaker 4: feet next to me was.
[6:05] Speaker 1: She had her bare feet out the whole time?
[6:07] Speaker 5: Dogs out, wild.
[6:09] Speaker 1: Dogs out on the plane might be one of the
[6:11] Speaker 1: craziest social What are you like a faux paul? I
[6:16] Speaker 1: don't know, whatever you call that, just like disrespect, the
[6:20] Speaker 1: lack of respect.
[6:22] Speaker 2: I couldn't get over it. And I don't know.
[6:25] Speaker 4: I don't know if she had tennis shoes on that
[6:27] Speaker 4: she slid off, or if she was wearing sandals. I
[6:29] Speaker 4: can't see because the shoes were under her backpack. Oh,
[6:33] Speaker 4: she could have been like Nativa's or something.
[6:35] Speaker 1: And still you should, if anything, just for the sake
[6:38] Speaker 1: of cleanliness, you keep them on, keep the germs away.
[6:42] Speaker 2: I agree.
[6:43] Speaker 1: Do you think she saw you before she sat down
[6:45] Speaker 1: and said I need to get my oils out and
[6:47] Speaker 1: lather up.
[6:49] Speaker 5: My black liquorc oils. You're being here.
[6:51] Speaker 2: Somewhere, so it was quite the journey.
[6:55] Speaker 3: Yeah, where are you guys on? Removing shoes on a
[6:58] Speaker 3: flight now barefoot, I think we all can agree is reprehensible.
[7:02] Speaker 3: What about just slipping off your shoes. You're there in
[7:04] Speaker 3: your socks, Like, is that acceptablettom plan?
[7:06] Speaker 2: It's pretty gross.
[7:07] Speaker 1: So if it's a long overnight flight, I'm taking my
[7:09] Speaker 1: shoes off.
[7:10] Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, long overnight flight.
[7:12] Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a longer flight than three hours. I go
[7:15] Speaker 1: shoes off. Otherwise, my shoes are single on. Why do
[7:17] Speaker 1: I need to take them off?
[7:19] Speaker 4: I'd say five hours is appropriate to take your shoes off.
[7:22] Speaker 1: Yeah, five hours. I'm saying you sang three huh more
[7:27] Speaker 1: than three hours.
[7:28] Speaker 3: You're saying a three hour minimum for shoes off, tewing,
[7:30] Speaker 3: you're saying a five hour minimum.
[7:31] Speaker 2: For shoes off.
[7:33] Speaker 1: So you're saying, well, did you not take your shoes
[7:35] Speaker 1: off on the way to Florida? That was less than
[7:39] Speaker 1: five hours? It's five hours? Just right? Five? Okay?
[7:42] Speaker 2: Yeah?
[7:43] Speaker 1: And you kept your shoes cross country and you kept
[7:45] Speaker 1: your shoes on?
[7:46] Speaker 2: No, I did not.
[7:47] Speaker 1: Well, I'm confused. I feel like I'm lost in the
[7:49] Speaker 1: sauce that's happening.
[7:51] Speaker 2: Let's cut even at four hours, so.
[7:54] Speaker 1: You need to keep them on if it's four hours,
[7:58] Speaker 1: ha ha, But that's still the same amount of time,
[8:02] Speaker 1: whether you're up or not. If you want to be
[8:05] Speaker 1: comfortable for that amount of time, mark where are you
[8:08] Speaker 1: standing on it.
[8:08] Speaker 3: I will slip my shoes off, but I leave my
[8:11] Speaker 3: socked my socked feet on my shoes. You know what
[8:14] Speaker 3: I'm saying, Oh.
[8:16] Speaker 5: Your feet don't leave the like sock, general realm of
[8:19] Speaker 5: the shoe.
[8:20] Speaker 3: Correct, They're right there with the shoes. So it's not
[8:22] Speaker 3: obvious to anyone that I have done this.
[8:24] Speaker 4: Oh, you're putting your shoes up in the overhead compartment
[8:28] Speaker 4: right and.
[8:28] Speaker 3: I'm not putting my sock up on the I don't know,
[8:30] Speaker 3: arm rest in front of me, anything like that. You're
[8:32] Speaker 3: not even gonna notice. But if I go to the bathroom,
[8:34] Speaker 3: those shoes are right back on. Walking to the bathroom
[8:37] Speaker 3: and socks or bare feet barf.
[8:39] Speaker 1: If you are if you, first of all, if your
[8:44] Speaker 1: dogs are out on the plane barefoot, jail time yeah.
[8:48] Speaker 1: If you're going to the restroom, dogs out wild.
[8:54] Speaker 2: Literal prison for life, yeah.
[8:56] Speaker 1: And if you if you're dabbling with socks on in
[8:59] Speaker 1: the bathroom. Sometimes I look at the bathroom floor and
[9:01] Speaker 1: I'm like, did someone just did a man? Just like
[9:04] Speaker 1: throw weird?
[9:07] Speaker 4: I have to just tell myself that it's just like
[9:09] Speaker 4: water from the hand washing. I have to tell myself
[9:12] Speaker 4: that because I can't go down the darker path.
[9:15] Speaker 1: It's upsetting.
[9:16] Speaker 2: It is upsetting.
[9:16] Speaker 1: Connectiquette is very fascinating.
[9:18] Speaker 2: It is not universal. It's not universal, not one size
[9:21] Speaker 2: fits all. No, it's not no.
[9:24] Speaker 1: And I'll be honest, Like when we when we went
[9:26] Speaker 1: to Japan in December, it's so fascinating how everything is
[9:31] Speaker 1: so clean and tidy and there's no trash anywhere, And
[9:35] Speaker 1: I'm like, what is it that Americans in their brains
[9:39] Speaker 1: can't keep things nice and clean? What is that?
[9:42] Speaker 2: Yeah, it's tough.
[9:44] Speaker 1: Like have respect for your things. You should be able
[9:47] Speaker 1: to go to a public restroom and not feel like
[9:49] Speaker 1: you were going to contract a disease.
[9:51] Speaker 4: Yeah, I started flushing with my shoes. I used to
[9:55] Speaker 4: flush with my hands, not anymore.
[9:58] Speaker 5: That I'm kind of split on.
[10:00] Speaker 3: I am torn on.
[10:01] Speaker 5: That because then that just guarantees that the handles is
[10:05] Speaker 5: going to be filthy.
[10:05] Speaker 3: Yeah right, you're ruining it for future people.
[10:08] Speaker 2: Well, people have ruined it for me.
[10:09] Speaker 4: I the last time I touched one, it was wet,
[10:12] Speaker 4: and that is when I said game over.
[10:14] Speaker 2: I am not anymore.
[10:16] Speaker 1: Their foot up and had stepped on pea and then
[10:18] Speaker 1: they washed it with their foot.
[10:19] Speaker 4: If you sprinkle, why you tinkle, be as sweetie and
[10:22] Speaker 4: wipe the CD.
[10:23] Speaker 1: Oh that's lovely.
[10:25] Speaker 2: Okay, it's a great rhyme, I know, but nobody seems
[10:27] Speaker 2: to do that.
[10:28] Speaker 1: No, I That's what I'm saying.
[10:29] Speaker 2: It is, so now you get the shoe.
[10:31] Speaker 1: I just really encourage everyone to be thoughtful that maybe
[10:34] Speaker 1: someone's going to come in after you keep your socks on.
[10:40] Speaker 5: I did on the flight to the Bahamas. I wore
[10:42] Speaker 5: crocs on the plane for I think the first time.
[10:45] Speaker 5: I typically wear like regular shoes, and they say on
[10:48] Speaker 5: these crocs I wore had bare feet printed on top
[10:51] Speaker 5: of them, like it was there was a I think
[10:53] Speaker 5: I saw it was. Yeah. So some people thought I
[10:56] Speaker 5: had my dogs out when I was walking onto the plane,
[10:59] Speaker 5: which made me laugh.
[11:00] Speaker 1: Wow.
[11:00] Speaker 5: But I slipped them off for a little bit in
[11:02] Speaker 5: the middle of a flight, and I felt like I
[11:03] Speaker 5: was living so dangerously. I didn't have feet. I was
[11:06] Speaker 5: wearing socks in the crocs and crocks. Slipped them off
[11:11] Speaker 5: for like thirty seconds, stretch my feet, put the crocs
[11:14] Speaker 5: back on. I felt we're doing it.
[11:16] Speaker 2: I didn't like it.
[11:18] Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad we got that out of the way
[11:19] Speaker 1: to know where everyone stands. But we're all on the
[11:21] Speaker 1: same page. Mostly.
[11:25] Speaker 2: There was other earth shattering news this weekend. I'm gonna
[11:29] Speaker 2: get get to make it back.
[11:32] Speaker 1: Okay.
[11:35] Speaker 5: If there's one thing our audience loves, it's commercial.
[11:58] Speaker 1: We're back, We're back. What happened this weekend?
[12:06] Speaker 4: So I don't know if you guys heard, but a
[12:08] Speaker 4: little guy by the name Harry Styles released an album
[12:12] Speaker 4: he did.
[12:16] Speaker 2: Is anybody as excited as I?
[12:17] Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think anyone in this room is as
[12:20] Speaker 1: excited as you are, but we're excited.
[12:22] Speaker 4: So it's called Kiss all the Time Disco occasionally, and
[12:27] Speaker 4: I have to say that this might be my favorite
[12:31] Speaker 4: work of art from Harry Styles himself. Wow, And it's
[12:36] Speaker 4: a lot of words. It's big words to say it
[12:38] Speaker 4: is it is? But I really mean it.
[12:40] Speaker 1: What can you tell us your highlights of the album?
[12:43] Speaker 4: Yes, So it's very funny because I was seeing a
[12:46] Speaker 4: lot of scuttle on the internet this weekend about like
[12:50] Speaker 4: some of the lyrics and how like he's saying not
[12:53] Speaker 4: a lot in this album. Some of the songs do
[12:56] Speaker 4: have some crazy ridiculous lyrics that don't seem to mean anything,
[12:59] Speaker 4: which I can give them credit for. But then there's
[13:01] Speaker 4: some deep meaning in some of these songs, so it's
[13:03] Speaker 4: like a it's a.
[13:04] Speaker 2: Mixed bag, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, which he's allowed
[13:07] Speaker 2: to do.
[13:07] Speaker 1: What were some of the outrageous lyrics that don't have meaning.
[13:11] Speaker 2: That I'd have to do a little digging on my phone?
[13:13] Speaker 4: Okay, but I think that it was in I think
[13:16] Speaker 4: it was in the Waiting Game or are you listening yet?
[13:18] Speaker 4: But my favorite favorite favorite song on the album is
[13:21] Speaker 4: American Girls.
[13:22] Speaker 1: I like that one too. That was what you predicted
[13:25] Speaker 1: you would love.
[13:26] Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I did, and I didn't know, Like I
[13:29] Speaker 4: knew nothing about the album, and I thought that'd be
[13:30] Speaker 4: my number one, and it is my number one.
[13:32] Speaker 2: My number two is Taste Back.
[13:34] Speaker 1: Oh I like to Tastepec too.
[13:36] Speaker 2: Yes.
[13:36] Speaker 4: My number three is ready said he go. And that's
[13:39] Speaker 4: my tops up, my top three. And then honorable mention
[13:41] Speaker 4: goes to Carla's song.
[13:42] Speaker 1: M We always love when there's a name in the song. Yeah,
[13:48] Speaker 1: I listened up until coming up Roses and I haven't
[13:52] Speaker 1: finished out no because no no, I had it. I
[13:57] Speaker 1: kind of have had a weirdly busy weekend and I forgot.
[14:02] Speaker 1: But here's the thing. The first up until that point,
[14:05] Speaker 1: I realize all I want to do is garden and
[14:09] Speaker 1: go float in our pool hot tub and listen to
[14:12] Speaker 1: this album because it flows. It's like a flow, like
[14:15] Speaker 1: you just want to like Garden.
[14:18] Speaker 2: Garden.
[14:19] Speaker 4: I did not take any edibles. I listened to it
[14:21] Speaker 4: totally sober and enjoyed it thoroughly.
[14:23] Speaker 1: I know, but it makes me want I'm saying it
[14:26] Speaker 1: makes me want to do that.
[14:27] Speaker 4: It's an It's an album to be enjoyed sober or
[14:30] Speaker 4: under the influence.
[14:31] Speaker 1: Totally, and I want to do it under the influence.
[14:35] Speaker 2: So you're waiting until you're gonna do that?
[14:37] Speaker 1: No, no, no, I was saying. When I was listening
[14:39] Speaker 1: to it this morning, I was like, Oh, I just
[14:41] Speaker 1: want to get high and want to listen to this
[14:43] Speaker 1: and float in the pool. Oh but I I loved
[14:47] Speaker 1: Harry's How so much.
[14:50] Speaker 2: That did too.
[14:51] Speaker 1: That I'm so fascinated that you say it's your favorite
[14:54] Speaker 1: of all because Harry's House is one of my favorite albums,
[14:56] Speaker 1: just like period of any artist. I know.
[14:59] Speaker 2: Wow. I know it was big words, but I mean
[15:02] Speaker 2: them like I genuinely mean them.
[15:04] Speaker 1: I believe you.
[15:04] Speaker 4: Yeah, and I actually it was like a big thing
[15:07] Speaker 4: because you know how Robbie feels by Harry styles jealous,
[15:10] Speaker 4: a little bit.
[15:11] Speaker 1: Jealous, and only jealousy Robbie has ever shown.
[15:14] Speaker 4: Literally, And we were doing a lot of stuff on
[15:17] Speaker 4: the house this weekend, and so I kept asking him like, hey,
[15:19] Speaker 4: can we listen to Harry's album?
[15:20] Speaker 2: Can we listen to Harry's album? And we listened to
[15:22] Speaker 2: it five times? So he like, are so no speakers?
[15:26] Speaker 2: Which was a lot. Yeah, he loves it too, He
[15:30] Speaker 2: loves it too.
[15:31] Speaker 5: Wow.
[15:31] Speaker 4: I tried to get in to watch the Netflix special
[15:35] Speaker 4: that didn't go over so well. So I'll be watching
[15:37] Speaker 4: that on my own later today.
[15:38] Speaker 1: But you don't want to watch it? I mean no, Well, yeah,
[15:44] Speaker 1: it runs deep.
[15:45] Speaker 2: It runs deep. Yeah he knows the lore. Yeah, of course, yeah,
[15:50] Speaker 2: we all do. Yeah, and could have been heard about me,
[15:54] Speaker 2: but no proof or nying.
[16:00] Speaker 1: Yeah no, there's no denying.
[16:02] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[16:02] Speaker 1: Hey, did you ever figure out what scissor sisters meant?
[16:05] Speaker 1: Or we just still like hold both holding the scissors together.
[16:12] Speaker 3: I wasn't there for that, but I enjoyed that on Instagram.
[16:16] Speaker 1: I still haleys like does she does she get it?
[16:20] Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, so.
[16:25] Speaker 2: I understand now, okay what scissor sisters are.
[16:29] Speaker 4: However, I still feel as though if we were to
[16:33] Speaker 4: have cut the ropes together, we would have been scissor sisters.
[16:38] Speaker 1: Maybe.
[16:39] Speaker 2: I mean every scissor sister has a scissor.
[16:43] Speaker 1: Yeah. No, you can just be holding scissors, which doesn't
[16:46] Speaker 1: happen a lot though, Like it didn't even happen for us. Yeah,
[16:49] Speaker 1: I know.
[16:50] Speaker 2: We did not get to hold the scissors. Those were
[16:52] Speaker 2: one man scissor holds.
[16:53] Speaker 1: Tonya was pretty far away actually for all.
[16:57] Speaker 5: As far as you could be from the scissors. No,
[17:00] Speaker 5: I was so sad.
[17:01] Speaker 4: I was like the one person that wanted a scissor sister,
[17:03] Speaker 4: and like I got kicked to the curb.
[17:06] Speaker 1: You could have been a scissor brother and sister. Yeah,
[17:09] Speaker 1: just done it with you. Yeah, but okay, well I
[17:11] Speaker 1: was just checking in to make sure.
[17:13] Speaker 4: Thanks for the heads up in the moment, like we
[17:16] Speaker 4: got to leave a sister struggling.
[17:18] Speaker 1: A sister was struggling. Yeah, that's the high five. I
[17:23] Speaker 1: was like, I can't really high vibe you too hard
[17:26] Speaker 1: on this.
[17:27] Speaker 2: Why is that another innuendo?
[17:30] Speaker 1: Fine? No, because you're like Scissor Sister, and I was like, oh,
[17:33] Speaker 1: I can't do that, no, but I was laughing because.
[17:39] Speaker 2: Later was it.
[17:40] Speaker 1: Over the weekend, Tanya sends me this reel and she
[17:43] Speaker 1: was like, oh, I thought this would be cute for
[17:44] Speaker 1: us to do, and then they kissed at the end.
[17:48] Speaker 2: It was like this really cute, real like two best friends.
[17:50] Speaker 2: And it was like, I can't remember what the sentiment was.
[17:52] Speaker 1: I don't think they were best friend.
[17:53] Speaker 4: I thought they were best friends. And then at the
[17:55] Speaker 4: very end they just started making out. I was like, oh,
[17:57] Speaker 4: I wanted to recreate this, and then it just went
[18:00] Speaker 4: a different direction.
[18:01] Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a fine line everything up until kiss. So yeah,
[18:06] Speaker 1: you ever see, I think our algorithm switched because of hers.
[18:10] Speaker 1: She's get.
[18:15] Speaker 4: You know what that reminded me of though I left
[18:17] Speaker 4: those when I went to go Scissor Sister, high five you.
[18:20] Speaker 4: I was wearing these bangles and I left the Bengals
[18:23] Speaker 4: in the studio in Baha Mar.
[18:25] Speaker 2: Yes, and they are my favorites. So now we have
[18:28] Speaker 2: to go back to get them.
[18:29] Speaker 1: Let's go anytime anytime? Oh man, Oh my gosh, how
[18:36] Speaker 1: wedding anniversary is coming up?
[18:38] Speaker 4: I know it's this weekend, which actually so last weekend,
[18:42] Speaker 4: we were going to the mall to like run some errands.
[18:47] Speaker 4: We had to like make some returns and like get
[18:48] Speaker 4: a couple of things, and then it was dinner time,
[18:50] Speaker 4: so we were just gonna have dinner at the mall
[18:53] Speaker 4: and Robbie was like, oh, like, I'm like looking forward
[18:56] Speaker 4: to like some like a date night with you, And
[18:58] Speaker 4: I was like, this is not a date night. We're
[19:00] Speaker 4: literally running errands and grabbing food at the mall. And
[19:03] Speaker 4: he was like, no, any quality time that we have
[19:06] Speaker 4: together is like a date night. It's Friday night. So
[19:08] Speaker 4: I post it on Instagram. And every time I post
[19:11] Speaker 4: something on Instagram to like get people on my side,
[19:14] Speaker 4: it always backfires and everybody always votes not on my side.
[19:19] Speaker 5: I was shocked by that day.
[19:20] Speaker 3: I'm with you on right.
[19:22] Speaker 5: I think it has to be a specifically plainned thing.
[19:24] Speaker 4: Yeah, it's intentional, Like me and you are gonna go
[19:27] Speaker 4: have a meal and you're gonna dress cute or do
[19:29] Speaker 4: whatever you want and like pick you up at six hmmm,
[19:32] Speaker 4: five thirty.
[19:33] Speaker 1: I disagree.
[19:35] Speaker 2: You think going to the mall to return stuff is
[19:37] Speaker 2: a date.
[19:38] Speaker 1: Yeah, anything's a date if you want to make it
[19:40] Speaker 1: a date. Time together is a date.
[19:43] Speaker 2: Your settings where I need to be in life.
[19:45] Speaker 1: So if you were if you were just going and
[19:47] Speaker 1: doing errands and it was like business and there was
[19:50] Speaker 1: no dinner involved and like sitting down and like having
[19:53] Speaker 1: a meal together, I'd be like, sure, that's just running
[19:55] Speaker 1: errands and like.
[19:56] Speaker 2: But the dinner was just a product of the fact
[19:59] Speaker 2: of the time, which we were going to the mall.
[20:01] Speaker 1: But did y'all sit down and have a meal together?
[20:03] Speaker 2: We did, But just because it was dinner time and
[20:06] Speaker 2: it was at the mall, and it was at the mall.
[20:07] Speaker 1: It's a date. Nothing more romantic than an erin date
[20:10] Speaker 1: night at the mall.
[20:11] Speaker 2: Oh my god.
[20:13] Speaker 1: Like, if Haley and I do that, she'd be like, Babe,
[20:15] Speaker 1: that was so fun. I had the best night with you.
[20:19] Speaker 1: She loves an errand she loves the mall.
[20:22] Speaker 5: I think if you and Robbie weren't married and you
[20:24] Speaker 5: did that, I would think you were in the friend zone.
[20:26] Speaker 1: That's what I said.
[20:27] Speaker 4: I was like, if we weren't married and some guy
[20:29] Speaker 4: said I want to take you to run errands with
[20:31] Speaker 4: me and go grab food for as a date, I'd
[20:33] Speaker 4: be like.
[20:34] Speaker 1: That's so intimate to me, going to run errands and
[20:36] Speaker 1: do returns together is like such an intimate thing to
[20:40] Speaker 1: do together. I'm not trying to do that with a stranger.
[20:43] Speaker 1: I want to do with a friend or with my partner.
[20:45] Speaker 2: Wow, this is very polarizing.
[20:48] Speaker 1: Clearly y'all need to romanticize life a little bit more.
[20:52] Speaker 4: I realized maybe I need to be like romanticize the
[20:55] Speaker 4: day to day, the mundane.
[20:57] Speaker 2: Nah, the mundane on the Monday, Monday, on a Monday.
[21:02] Speaker 1: I'm actually shocked about you, Easton, Thank you Easton.
[21:05] Speaker 5: I mean, like I've done some we do daty things
[21:09] Speaker 5: all the time, but I really think that, like there
[21:11] Speaker 5: can't be a chore involved, because.
[21:12] Speaker 1: That you consider an air like a chore.
[21:15] Speaker 5: Yeah, even if we're having a blast, which we typically are,
[21:18] Speaker 5: it still is a date. If we're going to ikeaes.
[21:22] Speaker 2: You take for granted how much time we spent together.
[21:25] Speaker 5: I was like, whoaow.
[21:28] Speaker 2: Brah, he went there, he went there.
[21:32] Speaker 1: Well, it's only it's been a not only a year somehow,
[21:35] Speaker 1: it's been a year into y'all's wedding, which marriage a
[21:40] Speaker 1: year since the wedding? Yeah, yeah, year into your marriage. Sure, However,
[21:45] Speaker 1: the day like isn't that what you're celebrating on the
[21:48] Speaker 1: one year universary or.
[21:49] Speaker 2: One year marriage anniversary.
[21:51] Speaker 1: From when you got married at your wedding. Yeah, okay, okay,
[21:57] Speaker 1: what are y'all doing?
[22:00] Speaker 4: We are gonna go to dinner and we're gonna say
[22:03] Speaker 4: our vows to each other again, not like in front
[22:07] Speaker 4: of people, but like just to each other.
[22:09] Speaker 2: Could you imagine you saying up at the restaurant, We're like, hello, everybody, we.
[22:14] Speaker 1: It's our anniversary.
[22:15] Speaker 2: Yeah, please every every uh what do you call them?
[22:21] Speaker 1: You know, it's so funny. Okay, I have this idea
[22:25] Speaker 1: that if I it's just a concept, if you secretly
[22:29] Speaker 1: told all of your friends and family to come to
[22:32] Speaker 1: the restaurant and you rented out the restaurant, and then
[22:35] Speaker 1: Robbie showed up and it was everyone from the wedding
[22:37] Speaker 1: at the restaurant for your anniversary. You know, that's such
[22:42] Speaker 1: a fun concept. He's a tough.
[22:47] Speaker 2: Guy everyone on earth. Should I try to do that?
[22:53] Speaker 1: Maybe? No? It feels a little rush tight turn around,
[22:58] Speaker 1: but I think I could do it. But like you
[23:00] Speaker 1: walked it in and you run into somebody, You're like,
[23:01] Speaker 1: oh my god, hey, and then you look around and
[23:03] Speaker 1: it's everyone to be so funny.
[23:05] Speaker 2: I doubt I could get everyone, but I can't fight.
[23:08] Speaker 1: But oh, that's it, just like me, Paulleena Cynthia.
[23:13] Speaker 2: Last minute like that. I'm not giving people four days notice.
[23:17] Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's a it's an idea.
[23:20] Speaker 2: It's a cute idea.
[23:21] Speaker 1: Yeah. Anyway, so you're not gonna say your vows, but
[23:23] Speaker 1: you're going to say them to one of the Yeah.
[23:24] Speaker 4: We're gonna say we want to do that every year.
[23:26] Speaker 4: I think we decided every year we want to say
[23:27] Speaker 4: our vows to each other.
[23:28] Speaker 3: Has he found his vows?
[23:30] Speaker 1: No? Oh? Shoot, what kind of.
[23:33] Speaker 4: Dude just writes them on a piece of paper and
[23:36] Speaker 4: then hands them to his wedding planner? And then that
[23:39] Speaker 4: sea like what, I have my like saved on my
[23:43] Speaker 4: computer on a nice word document. I have my bridesmaid speech,
[23:48] Speaker 4: you have your bridesmaid speech, and my husband doesn't even
[23:50] Speaker 4: have his vows. Yeah, so then I guess Ryan took
[23:54] Speaker 4: them from us obviously at the ceremony, and Ryan put
[23:59] Speaker 4: them like his briefcase, and now they're like gone, dang,
[24:03] Speaker 4: Yeah that's tough. So he's gonna have to like watch
[24:06] Speaker 4: the video or something to get his I don't know
[24:09] Speaker 4: how he's gonna do it, but you'd better be doing it.
[24:13] Speaker 1: He might have a brand new said avows. He's like, actually, babe,
[24:17] Speaker 1: I didn't want to do the same bells.
[24:19] Speaker 2: I want to do different ones every year.
[24:21] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[24:23] Speaker 2: Yeah, growth Actually I love that.
[24:25] Speaker 1: So the one year anniversary is paper, right, that's a gift.
[24:28] Speaker 1: So have you are you follow are y'all doing that tradition?
[24:33] Speaker 2: I don't know if he is.
[24:34] Speaker 1: Okay, we have to give him, Robbie a chance. This
[24:37] Speaker 1: is the Valentine's Day conversation. He has to have.
[24:40] Speaker 2: Give the heads up then, Becca.
[24:42] Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna check in.
[24:44] Speaker 4: So I if anybody's listening, don't tell him this, but
[24:47] Speaker 4: I does he not listen definitely not to the full episodes,
[24:54] Speaker 4: but he'll listen.
[24:55] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[24:55] Speaker 5: The research shows he tunes out of.
[24:58] Speaker 1: Which we are going to get to it to that.
[25:01] Speaker 4: So I actually like I found this girl on Instagram
[25:05] Speaker 4: who she basically like takes little pieces of like your
[25:09] Speaker 4: relationship and she puts them on she like sketches them
[25:11] Speaker 4: onto like this like painting.
[25:13] Speaker 3: Wow.
[25:13] Speaker 4: And so I'm making like like an art piece. She's
[25:17] Speaker 4: gonna send it rolled up like I'm not. It's not
[25:19] Speaker 4: gonna be like frame. It's gonna be like it's a paper.
[25:22] Speaker 4: And I just gave her kind of like some things
[25:25] Speaker 4: from the wedding, like our first dance, some like little
[25:28] Speaker 4: the colors that we had, like our wedding invitations. I
[25:31] Speaker 4: just sent her to a bunch of stuff and she's
[25:33] Speaker 4: gonna she's not going to create it in time for
[25:35] Speaker 4: our anniversary, but she's gonna basically give me like a
[25:37] Speaker 4: piece of paper that is like a like a moss of.
[25:41] Speaker 2: It or something like that, Yeah, to give to him. Okay, Okay,
[25:44] Speaker 2: so yeah it'll be paper.
[25:46] Speaker 1: Okay, well I really need to give him a heads up. Yeah,
[25:49] Speaker 1: we're on a strict time crunch. R yikes. Yeah okay, Well.
[25:56] Speaker 2: One could say that like a card is technically paper.
[26:00] Speaker 1: Do you be happy with a card?
[26:03] Speaker 2: H Yeah, a nice thoughtful one.
[26:09] Speaker 1: Something he made or not made, but.
[26:13] Speaker 2: Words how the cardley? I really do love a thoughtful card. Okay,
[26:22] Speaker 2: it goes a long way.
[26:22] Speaker 1: Okay, I'll let him know. I'll let him know that
[26:26] Speaker 1: it is paper so he can get as creative as
[26:28] Speaker 1: he wants. But you'll be happy with a card if
[26:32] Speaker 1: that's what he has time for. Yeah, okay, thanks so
[26:35] Speaker 1: much for that.
[26:36] Speaker 2: Let's doing the lord's work. Friend.
[26:40] Speaker 1: Not everyone knows. I never knew about the anniversary stuff
[26:43] Speaker 1: until Easton was telling us about it. So that's not
[26:46] Speaker 1: something that I think is general knowledge, correct, And I
[26:49] Speaker 1: want him to be set up for success.
[26:51] Speaker 2: Yeah, we want him high scores.
[26:54] Speaker 1: Okay, I said that we were going to get to
[26:55] Speaker 1: this later, but I want to talk about something. We're
[26:58] Speaker 1: going to take a break and we'll do it when
[27:00] Speaker 1: we come back.
[27:22] Speaker 2: We're back, We are back, baby.
[27:27] Speaker 1: Tanya said. There was some scuttle in the Facebook group
[27:30] Speaker 1: regarding our episode length.
[27:32] Speaker 2: There was am I'm not the only one that has
[27:34] Speaker 2: seen the scuttle correct.
[27:36] Speaker 1: Well, just like the general the consensus that like they
[27:39] Speaker 1: wish the episodes were longer.
[27:40] Speaker 4: Yeah, they noticed that they were getting shorter, right, right,
[27:43] Speaker 4: So we got researched some time ago, I want to
[27:46] Speaker 4: say a while ago at this point. Yeah, that people
[27:50] Speaker 4: are only tuning in for twenty thirty minutes, so so.
[27:57] Speaker 3: If you do a fifty minute show, you just what.
[27:59] Speaker 2: Yeah, you were talking to ourselves with us, so we're like,
[28:01] Speaker 2: why are we doing that?
[28:02] Speaker 3: Why?
[28:02] Speaker 1: We're happy to do We love talking to ourselves.
[28:05] Speaker 2: We love talking to ourselves. We talk amongst ourselves for
[28:08] Speaker 2: hours and hours on end.
[28:10] Speaker 4: Yeah, and so I think that was kind of like
[28:12] Speaker 4: the encouragement to shorten our episodes, Okay, which is what
[28:17] Speaker 4: we did.
[28:18] Speaker 2: Well.
[28:18] Speaker 4: I had this epiphany the other day because I am
[28:22] Speaker 4: a podcast listener, So I do not just host a podcast.
[28:25] Speaker 2: I am a student of the craft.
[28:27] Speaker 4: I enjoy I just enjoyed listening to people's other people's podcasts. Yeah,
[28:31] Speaker 4: and what I realized is I only listen in increments
[28:35] Speaker 4: of twenty to thirty minutes, even if it's like Hillary
[28:38] Speaker 4: Duffon Call her Daddy. I'll listen on my drive home,
[28:42] Speaker 4: or I'll listen on my part of my walk. But
[28:45] Speaker 4: I never listened to a full episode of any podcast
[28:48] Speaker 4: in one sitting. However, I always come back. I finish
[28:53] Speaker 4: every podcast that I listen to. So I'm like this,
[28:58] Speaker 4: these this information is probably accurate that people listen in
[29:01] Speaker 4: twenty thirty minute increments, But like people come back, they
[29:04] Speaker 4: want more, they want.
[29:06] Speaker 2: To space it out.
[29:07] Speaker 1: That's what I do.
[29:08] Speaker 2: How did I not have that epiphany until like last week?
[29:10] Speaker 1: Well, I think that's what we need to know. Are
[29:12] Speaker 1: people coming back or did they listen to the first
[29:14] Speaker 1: half and then they're like, I've had enough of that.
[29:16] Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is just that's enough. Yeah, so are
[29:19] Speaker 2: you That's what I have.
[29:21] Speaker 4: My question is is the scuttle because they want them
[29:23] Speaker 4: longer because they do come back or are you enjoying
[29:26] Speaker 4: the twenty thirty minute stints?
[29:29] Speaker 1: Yeah? It's like, well, I guess it also depends when
[29:31] Speaker 1: are you listening, because not many people in life. I
[29:34] Speaker 1: mean I do, but not many people have like an
[29:38] Speaker 1: hour or hour and a half where they can just
[29:40] Speaker 1: sit and zone out and listen to something unless you're
[29:42] Speaker 1: doing that instead of watching TV or like yeah, your
[29:45] Speaker 1: nighttime routine, or you're on a commute that you have
[29:48] Speaker 1: a long commute. But I would imagine if someone has
[29:50] Speaker 1: a commute, let's say it's a twenty thirty minute commute,
[29:53] Speaker 1: they're listening to the first half on the way there,
[29:55] Speaker 1: and then maybe on the way back they tune back in. Right,
[29:58] Speaker 1: So we just need to know are you coming back
[30:01] Speaker 1: after the mode? Because we can talk all day if
[30:08] Speaker 1: you need.
[30:08] Speaker 2: Us, We could talk all day every day.
[30:10] Speaker 1: Not in fact, I oh, I don't have that much
[30:14] Speaker 1: to say that people don't want to listen to.
[30:16] Speaker 2: But I would love to do this every day.
[30:19] Speaker 1: Well, I'm not doing an hour show every day. I
[30:22] Speaker 1: literally don't have content for that.
[30:24] Speaker 3: That was the discussions. Rather than if you're doing ninety
[30:27] Speaker 3: minutes a week, let's say, are you better off doing
[30:29] Speaker 3: two forty five minute episodes or four twenty two minute episodes?
[30:34] Speaker 3: Oh right, what's better for the listener? Don't know, just
[30:38] Speaker 3: thrown it out. That was the discussion.
[30:40] Speaker 1: I guess if if we did an episode and it
[30:43] Speaker 1: was like a certain length and then we were chopping
[30:45] Speaker 1: it up into twenty minute episodes, I'd be so annoyed
[30:48] Speaker 1: if I was trying to listen and then I was like, what,
[30:50] Speaker 1: I don't get to hear the rest of this till tomorrow.
[30:53] Speaker 5: By saying hi and goodbye something like yeah, yeah.
[30:57] Speaker 1: We got a lot of highs and goodbyes and we're backs. Yeah,
[31:01] Speaker 1: So it's just something that we're curious about.
[31:03] Speaker 4: On your end, you know what I will say, I'm
[31:05] Speaker 4: like more invigorated and like motivated and inspired ever than lately,
[31:11] Speaker 4: lately than ever.
[31:14] Speaker 1: I don't know what you're trying to say.
[31:16] Speaker 2: I'm more invigorated now than ever than ever before, than
[31:20] Speaker 2: ever before.
[31:21] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[31:21] Speaker 2: Wow, Like I'm going to start the artist's way I
[31:23] Speaker 2: told you yesterday.
[31:24] Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, Well we've talked about doing that many times.
[31:26] Speaker 4: But now I'm like feeling the vigor inside me, Like
[31:29] Speaker 4: there's something inside me that wants to like repolish. Not
[31:33] Speaker 4: change our podcast, but like repolish fine tune and with
[31:37] Speaker 4: other things in my life.
[31:39] Speaker 1: Beautiful.
[31:40] Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a springtime thing, I think, Yeah, spring forward.
[31:45] Speaker 4: I don't know, there's something in like in me, like
[31:47] Speaker 4: I've got.
[31:47] Speaker 1: This, like something has changed within me. Wait, did you
[31:53] Speaker 1: watch the Love Is Blind finale? Yes?
[31:57] Speaker 2: Can we talk about it? I'd love nothing more because you.
[32:00] Speaker 1: Know with here's the thing with certain shows, it's like
[32:04] Speaker 1: people talk about it for a day or two and
[32:06] Speaker 1: I don't care. So if we're gonna do.
[32:08] Speaker 4: It, let's talk about Love is Blind. Do not let
[32:10] Speaker 4: me forget to talk about traders at the end in
[32:12] Speaker 4: the Burken Well, okay, just remind me.
[32:16] Speaker 1: Here's my thoughts on Love is Blind. A quick recap
[32:21] Speaker 1: spoiler alert if you haven't watched. First of all, DeVante
[32:26] Speaker 1: and Brittany, I want to just shake her and be
[32:30] Speaker 1: like girl.
[32:32] Speaker 4: First of all, they did her so dirty on that edit,
[32:35] Speaker 4: and those producers knew what they were doing when they
[32:37] Speaker 4: were doing that. That was a dirty edit, truly, Yeah,
[32:41] Speaker 4: and because it made her look desperate, so desperate.
[32:45] Speaker 1: But here's the thing. The girl bought a wedding dress
[32:48] Speaker 1: before she came on the show. So there's nothing wrong
[32:50] Speaker 1: with that. And I knew you would say that, and
[32:52] Speaker 1: I knew you would say that.
[32:54] Speaker 4: But like she was manifested to record that that is
[32:58] Speaker 4: a proactive queen.
[33:00] Speaker 2: That is going to sign that that is.
[33:01] Speaker 1: Going to scare men.
[33:04] Speaker 2: Is not the right one.
[33:06] Speaker 1: Maybe, no, Tonia Robbie.
[33:09] Speaker 4: If I had bought a wedding dress prior to meeting Robbie,
[33:13] Speaker 4: he'd still be my husband, guaranteed.
[33:16] Speaker 1: If you told him that the first date.
[33:18] Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna ask him.
[33:19] Speaker 1: He's of course, baby, because he knows this is going
[33:22] Speaker 1: on the podcast. But I know the truth. I know
[33:25] Speaker 1: his truth, and that is that he would have been
[33:28] Speaker 1: freaked out. Here's the thing, Davante is my nightmare personally.
[33:34] Speaker 1: He had he She literally is like, I know you're
[33:37] Speaker 1: not someone that's ever gonna gush over me or tell
[33:39] Speaker 1: me I'm pretty. And he's just like nodding looking at her.
[33:43] Speaker 1: And of course I don't know if that was an edit.
[33:44] Speaker 1: Maybe he said, of course, I think you're pretty and
[33:49] Speaker 1: gush over you, but that's not what we saw. And
[33:51] Speaker 1: then we hear her saying, and then he goes, I
[33:56] Speaker 1: have to go. We'll be in touch.
[33:59] Speaker 2: Yeah, we will be in touch. Is so darkness, it's
[34:03] Speaker 2: so dark.
[34:03] Speaker 1: And then the next clip is her going, which again
[34:06] Speaker 1: I get editing and producing, but it's like, I'm ninety
[34:10] Speaker 1: eight percent sure we're gonna.
[34:11] Speaker 2: Gea get married. Yeah, And I'm like, I just want
[34:13] Speaker 2: to shake her.
[34:14] Speaker 1: She's so beautiful, she's got her thing, she's got, she's independent,
[34:18] Speaker 1: she's got everything going. She's just she wants to be
[34:21] Speaker 1: married so badly that it's like she has blinders on
[34:24] Speaker 1: for all the red flags.
[34:25] Speaker 2: But that happens to people. So let this be a
[34:27] Speaker 2: warning to us all.
[34:29] Speaker 1: Don't let that happen.
[34:30] Speaker 2: Don't let that happen, not just in relationships like that
[34:33] Speaker 2: can happen in like life and.
[34:35] Speaker 1: Career, like yeah, I mean it's like, no, you're worth,
[34:37] Speaker 1: know you're worth, and ad tax and attacks and then
[34:43] Speaker 1: Alex Alex and Ashley that, Okay, I'm proud of you.
[34:48] Speaker 4: I'm very proud of you for knowing all of their names,
[34:50] Speaker 4: because if that does not put the little chiron underneath,
[34:54] Speaker 4: like I am lost, Like I'm like I cannot I
[34:57] Speaker 4: don't know what anybody's names are.
[34:58] Speaker 1: I'm like the blonde girl in the song player. Yeah,
[35:01] Speaker 1: you know who I'm talking about. So he terrifies me.
[35:06] Speaker 1: The way he speaks is so almost like threatening, and
[35:10] Speaker 1: I don't know how to explain that further. Then that's
[35:12] Speaker 1: what I feel when he speaks, because it's like a
[35:14] Speaker 1: master liar.
[35:15] Speaker 4: But it's like he makes you seem like it's actually
[35:18] Speaker 4: really scary because I think there's men out there like that.
[35:20] Speaker 4: But he makes you like, he makes you feel like
[35:23] Speaker 4: he's not lying, he's telling you the truth, when actually
[35:26] Speaker 4: he's like fully lying and spinning stories. But the way
[35:29] Speaker 4: he's saying it makes you sound like you're crazy.
[35:31] Speaker 1: It's a script that he's memorized. In my how I
[35:34] Speaker 1: viewed it is it's a script that he's memorized so
[35:37] Speaker 1: well that he thinks it's true, right, and so for
[35:39] Speaker 1: you to question him is like how dare you? Which
[35:42] Speaker 1: is scary.
[35:43] Speaker 2: That's called a narcissist.
[35:45] Speaker 1: It's called manipulation.
[35:46] Speaker 4: But my favorite thing was it's like his wedding day
[35:49] Speaker 4: and Alex has a piece of fuzz in his beard
[35:53] Speaker 4: he's got some cracker like he looks like he eats
[35:55] Speaker 4: saltine crackers and just like put his hand in his hair.
[35:59] Speaker 2: He was like, I'm assaulting crackers and it's all over
[36:01] Speaker 2: his beard. I was like, why is nobody helping him?
[36:04] Speaker 2: It's his wedding day and he's got crackers all in
[36:07] Speaker 2: his beard and hair.
[36:08] Speaker 1: I don't think anyone likes him, No, clearly not.
[36:11] Speaker 2: It's all I could watch the whole time. I could
[36:13] Speaker 2: knock it.
[36:14] Speaker 1: Over that, and I totally think that he would have
[36:16] Speaker 1: said yes, yeah, because he needs her. She's like successful
[36:20] Speaker 1: and comes from it seems like it comes from a
[36:22] Speaker 1: well off family. Yeah, and he's like a nomad who
[36:25] Speaker 1: has wants to have a bunker in New Zealand in
[36:28] Speaker 1: a house in Dubai. I'm like, what the hell, how
[36:31] Speaker 1: are you doing that? As a soccer coach?
[36:35] Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it was crazy.
[36:38] Speaker 1: So I was really happy that she said, I don't
[36:40] Speaker 1: even need to hear your answer because it's not God.
[36:43] Speaker 4: I feel like, and I'm all for like a woman
[36:46] Speaker 4: standing on business, but I felt like it wasn't her,
[36:50] Speaker 4: Like I felt like she was being pushed to just
[36:54] Speaker 4: like really lay in thick on him and it just
[36:56] Speaker 4: didn't feel like her, you know what I mean.
[37:00] Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad whoever got into her head she did it, but.
[37:03] Speaker 2: I feel like she did it to an extent that
[37:05] Speaker 2: was like a little too much.
[37:08] Speaker 1: Yeah, personally, I know what you're saying. Like someone was
[37:10] Speaker 1: like you need to.
[37:11] Speaker 4: Just like lay it on him and give it to him,
[37:13] Speaker 4: and you know what I mean, she was just they
[37:14] Speaker 4: were like working her up to just like unleash.
[37:17] Speaker 1: Well yeah, because they're probably has he touched you? He
[37:20] Speaker 1: said that you're not his tie.
[37:21] Speaker 2: Like it felt like she was wound up, like somebody
[37:23] Speaker 2: had wound her up.
[37:24] Speaker 1: Probably her dad. I feel like her dad was like
[37:26] Speaker 1: thank god.
[37:28] Speaker 3: Uh, the.
[37:30] Speaker 2: The reunion is airing this week. M just a note
[37:33] Speaker 2: to Netflix. I don't enjoy waiting a week for the reunion.
[37:39] Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I'd rather just see it right right after.
[37:42] Speaker 4: And like, I don't know if you've seen my algorithm
[37:44] Speaker 4: was like all these people on TikTok being like anyone
[37:46] Speaker 4: else watched the the final episode of Love is Blind
[37:49] Speaker 4: like this, and she's like fast forwarding until like the
[37:52] Speaker 4: parts where they say I do or I don't, yeah,
[37:54] Speaker 4: because it's like it is, it's.
[37:56] Speaker 1: Kind of filler they could actually do all the idea.
[38:00] Speaker 1: Do is the wedding part in a thirty minute increment,
[38:02] Speaker 1: and then do the.
[38:03] Speaker 2: Reunion and give us what we want when we want it.
[38:05] Speaker 5: For the reunion, is this like because it was taped
[38:08] Speaker 5: a while ago?
[38:09] Speaker 2: Yeah?
[38:09] Speaker 5: Really? So is the reunion that was that taped like
[38:13] Speaker 5: this week?
[38:13] Speaker 1: Yes?
[38:14] Speaker 4: I don't know. Actually because last year, the last season,
[38:19] Speaker 4: like one of the contestants had a baby.
[38:22] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[38:22] Speaker 2: I do you think the reunions filmed like kind of
[38:24] Speaker 2: closer to in real time, which might be why they don't.
[38:28] Speaker 1: Well, allegedly DeVante has a fiance and a child on
[38:31] Speaker 1: the way. Sure, yeah, no, no, yeah, shoo yeah. And
[38:38] Speaker 1: then apparently Amber and Jordan had I guess no not
[38:41] Speaker 1: Amber and Jordan's don't don't don't tell me.
[38:46] Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, they're.
[38:47] Speaker 5: Gonna say the exact same thing as a joke.
[38:51] Speaker 1: I heard you, and I was like, he's been turcastic.
[38:53] Speaker 2: But I'm being so sincere, like they are my precious too,
[38:57] Speaker 2: I need them to the broken up.
[38:59] Speaker 1: Well, I don't know, but in the reunion, she walks
[39:01] Speaker 1: off the stage. And then I've heard rumors that they
[39:03] Speaker 1: had both said that they weren't going to say yes,
[39:05] Speaker 1: and then they did and it threw everyone off. That's
[39:08] Speaker 1: the rumor I heard, so stay tuned.
[39:10] Speaker 4: Oh no, the two precious ones that got married. I
[39:13] Speaker 4: need them to stay married forever, like they are precious girl, Sine, Christine.
[39:20] Speaker 4: They're gonna they might have three babies by now.
[39:23] Speaker 2: Yeah, I love I need them to last.
[39:26] Speaker 5: Amber. So sorry, I'm trying to get caught up here spoilers.
[39:30] Speaker 5: Amber injured, and there were rumors that they had both
[39:32] Speaker 5: planned to say no, and Amber posted on Instagram a
[39:39] Speaker 5: screenshot of a text to someone named Laura saying, for me,
[39:44] Speaker 5: it's still a yes and has always been a yes.
[39:47] Speaker 5: I typically now. I totally understand Jordan's skepticism. However, I
[39:50] Speaker 5: think it was very important for us to talk this
[39:52] Speaker 5: past week for me to truly understand that if he
[39:54] Speaker 5: says no on Sunday, we're still playing on going forward
[39:56] Speaker 5: with our relationship regardless. I know he's dead set on
[39:59] Speaker 5: saying no right now, and I have decided not to
[40:01] Speaker 5: pressure him, but he does saw the chance to meet
[40:03] Speaker 5: Emma tomorrow, which may change everything. Again. We have made
[40:06] Speaker 5: it clear to each other that we are okay either way,
[40:08] Speaker 5: even if he isn't ready to say yes on Sunday
[40:10] Speaker 5: and she goes on Okay.
[40:11] Speaker 4: It seems like it's little teddy Bear, and like I
[40:13] Speaker 4: think that she's like had bad relationships in her past,
[40:16] Speaker 4: and like I just feel what you disagree, you disagree what.
[40:22] Speaker 1: I just don't know that they make sense as much
[40:26] Speaker 1: as people are trying to make them make sense together.
[40:28] Speaker 2: How do they not?
[40:29] Speaker 1: Well, like he doesn't want to move because he likes
[40:30] Speaker 1: to go into bars and concerts, and it's like she
[40:33] Speaker 1: has a daughter that needs to stay in a certain
[40:35] Speaker 1: area for her school and stuff.
[40:37] Speaker 2: And it's like, well, relationships are compromise.
[40:40] Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope compromise.
[40:41] Speaker 2: They could move in the middle.
[40:44] Speaker 1: City. And the daughter was crying and I don't know
[40:47] Speaker 1: how to process that. That felt dark to me.
[40:49] Speaker 2: She's at the reunion.
[40:50] Speaker 1: No, she was crying at the wedding when they said okay. Anyway,
[40:58] Speaker 1: So I'm excited to see what goes down. I hope
[41:00] Speaker 1: it's interesting. Sometimes, you know how I feel about reunions.
[41:03] Speaker 4: I get I love and I love love love, and
[41:06] Speaker 4: I feel like I'm watching a lot of TV shows
[41:08] Speaker 4: right now that are one by one weekly episodes, and
[41:11] Speaker 4: it's so treacherous.
[41:14] Speaker 2: Is that the word I'm looking for, like hard, Yeah,
[41:16] Speaker 2: so hard, It's so hard.
[41:18] Speaker 5: I love it the pit right now, and I love
[41:21] Speaker 5: the indie.
[41:22] Speaker 4: Episode a week like I feel like I haven't seen
[41:24] Speaker 4: an episode of Paradise in a month.
[41:26] Speaker 1: There's a new one today, I know, but we watched
[41:28] Speaker 1: it last night.
[41:30] Speaker 2: I watched it last Monday. Well to night's your night,
[41:33] Speaker 2: I know, but it's like been done, Like what happened
[41:36] Speaker 2: that lad last episode? I don't remember.
[41:37] Speaker 1: That's why there's a recap at the beginning of every episode. Okay, wait,
[41:40] Speaker 1: you wanted to talk about the Burken and Rob and Mara.
[41:43] Speaker 4: Yes, okay, because I never thought about this and I
[41:46] Speaker 4: saw a couple people from Traders talking about it, So
[41:50] Speaker 4: spoiler alert.
[41:52] Speaker 2: From Rob wins the Traders and he what we're talking
[41:57] Speaker 2: about this?
[41:57] Speaker 4: But Maura, he promised Maura a bag which is like
[42:01] Speaker 4: fifteen thousand dollars.
[42:02] Speaker 1: Okay, okay, ten thousand is like the minimum for a
[42:05] Speaker 1: Burken bag.
[42:07] Speaker 2: They can go anywhere up to like twenty five, say.
[42:09] Speaker 1: Like tens like the minimum minimum. I can go up
[42:11] Speaker 1: to a one hundred thous it can go up.
[42:12] Speaker 2: Oh it can't.
[42:13] Speaker 5: Oh yeah that was hard to get, Like you can't
[42:15] Speaker 5: you have to No, no, you can't.
[42:18] Speaker 2: You can't just like walk into a store list right,
[42:20] Speaker 2: You have to build.
[42:21] Speaker 1: You have to like purchase other items at Ermez.
[42:24] Speaker 5: Samantha Lu's name to get Sex and the City.
[42:28] Speaker 4: Oh my god, I never understood that until now. Yeah,
[42:33] Speaker 4: you can't just like go in and buy one. And so, uh,
[42:38] Speaker 4: he bought her this bag. I don't know how much
[42:40] Speaker 4: it costs about the specific bag that she got. But
[42:43] Speaker 4: Rob also revealed on the reunion that he now has
[42:45] Speaker 4: a girlfriend, and I was like, if you were Rob's
[42:49] Speaker 4: girlfriend and you're watching him buy this beautiful woman a
[42:53] Speaker 4: Burken bag, would you be jealous?
[42:57] Speaker 1: Yeah?
[42:58] Speaker 2: Right, So did he buy one for his new girlfriend?
[43:00] Speaker 1: But that seems maybe she doesn't want one though, and
[43:03] Speaker 1: maybe she doesn't want to. Maybe she's like, I don't
[43:05] Speaker 1: need a Burken but like I would like your life,
[43:08] Speaker 1: so i'd more so be like I need some reassurance,
[43:12] Speaker 1: a like public display of affection and no attention. Yeah,
[43:15] Speaker 1: but she also might not want it because she might
[43:17] Speaker 1: be like, here's the thing that's hard with Robin Mora specifically,
[43:21] Speaker 1: is they had a lot of chemistry and like people
[43:24] Speaker 1: make fan edits of them and It's like the girlfriend
[43:26] Speaker 1: probably can't even escape seeing those things, right, So I'm
[43:30] Speaker 1: hoping she's either just a very confident, secure person and
[43:33] Speaker 1: is like this is just a bit for this publicity,
[43:39] Speaker 1: or she's having some really serious conversations with him.
[43:43] Speaker 2: I was like, wow, Actually I never thought about the girlfriend.
[43:45] Speaker 4: Like if I saw my hot boyfriend buying a Birken
[43:50] Speaker 4: bag for Maura Higgins, I'd.
[43:51] Speaker 5: Be like, yeah, the bag was allegedlar They think it
[43:55] Speaker 5: was sixteen grand is the bag and he won?
[43:58] Speaker 2: What? Yeah?
[44:00] Speaker 1: I think that I think Dad. I think that he
[44:07] Speaker 1: he's not like playing into the romance of it. He's
[44:10] Speaker 1: very like, here, I got to the bag that I
[44:12] Speaker 1: promise you. Like, everything's very matter of fact with him.
[44:15] Speaker 1: So I do think he's being very respectful on how
[44:17] Speaker 1: he's navigating it.
[44:19] Speaker 2: Yes, I agree that.
[44:20] Speaker 1: That happened and was filmed way before he met his girlfriend.
[44:22] Speaker 1: He made that promise before she was even in the picture,
[44:25] Speaker 1: it seems, so it's like he's he's fulfilling the promise
[44:28] Speaker 1: that he made to someone. And I think he's also
[44:31] Speaker 1: being very like just dry. He's not like flirting with her.
[44:35] Speaker 2: No, I agree.
[44:35] Speaker 1: I think they just have natural chemistry, which sucks with
[44:38] Speaker 1: the girlfriend. But I don't think he's being disrespectful. Yeah,
[44:41] Speaker 1: and I'm sure he was like, hey, I would love
[44:43] Speaker 1: to buy you at Broken Back too, do you want one?
[44:46] Speaker 1: And maybe she was like, I'm good, bro, it's been
[44:48] Speaker 1: two months. Relax. Maybe she's got the upper hand.
[44:52] Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't know. Maybe she's a big question marked
[44:55] Speaker 2: to me.
[44:56] Speaker 1: She's very pretty.
[44:57] Speaker 2: You've seen her.
[44:58] Speaker 1: Yeah, she's gorgeous. I'm a TikTok sleuth.
[45:02] Speaker 2: Can you send me some videos? I'd like to see
[45:04] Speaker 2: her myself.
[45:05] Speaker 1: Yeah, she's pretty all right. Well, we are ending the
[45:10] Speaker 1: episode now, yes we are, but we look forward to
[45:13] Speaker 1: your feedback as always.
[45:15] Speaker 2: Yeah, I am looking forward back, looking forward to this.
[45:18] Speaker 5: If you made it this far, let us know.
[45:21] Speaker 2: Yeah, let's give him a code word.
[45:23] Speaker 1: If you are one of twenty people who made it
[45:25] Speaker 1: this far, Messa.
[45:26] Speaker 2: Just taste back. It's a Harry style song. No, yeah,
[45:32] Speaker 2: taste back, yeah sure, paint by numbers, I mean good,
[45:36] Speaker 2: it's very specific.
[45:37] Speaker 1: So taste back if you If you made it this far,
[45:42] Speaker 1: and we love you so much, we will be back
[45:44] Speaker 1: on Thursday with the dear Bonia, So don't worry you
[45:47] Speaker 1: haven't heard the last of us this week. You love
[45:49] Speaker 1: you love you

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