# Dear Banya: A One-Woman Swarm

An episode of [Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1279955329), 21 May 2026, 32 min.

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It’s another round of Dear Banya, with some (almost)(not quite)(far from) expert advice! We help a single mom looking to step out of her comfort zone and make a connection with her new neighbor, we collectively lose our minds at lack of Mother’s Day posting, and we get into the hard hitting topic of our most used Emojis! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
[0:04] Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
[0:10] Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
[0:16] Speaker 3: Yes we are, another day another pod.
[0:20] Speaker 4: That's right. You know I'm feeling a little bit lucky today.
[0:23] Speaker 1: Oh tell me more, Mark, do you think there's any
[0:26] Speaker 1: chance in the next ten minutes you could make a
[0:28] Speaker 1: birthday game?
[0:29] Speaker 5: I'm on it, absolutely, I can.
[0:31] Speaker 4: I agree. Wow, what is it?
[0:34] Speaker 3: What? Why are you feeling lucky? Well?
[0:39] Speaker 4: I think it's my May Cause Miracles book.
[0:41] Speaker 3: Oh, I was gonna ask you about that.
[0:44] Speaker 4: It's so good. So what's the what do you what's
[0:47] Speaker 4: the process that's.
[0:48] Speaker 6: The latest miracle?
[0:49] Speaker 1: Yeah, well thanks for asking Easton. It's not like about
[0:54] Speaker 1: creating miracles. It's about opening up your space.
[0:58] Speaker 4: To receive them.
[0:59] Speaker 6: Okay.
[1:00] Speaker 1: We when we lean into fear, when we lean into
[1:04] Speaker 1: negative self talk, when we leave into lean into like
[1:08] Speaker 1: bad attitudes, when we lean into scarcity mindset, those are
[1:12] Speaker 1: all blockages or miracles. So it's kind of like like,
[1:16] Speaker 1: imagine there's like a spider web in front of you
[1:18] Speaker 1: in life, and I'm just kind of like cleaning out
[1:20] Speaker 1: the spider web.
[1:21] Speaker 4: So I have a clear path.
[1:23] Speaker 2: What are the like, what are the daily tasks to
[1:27] Speaker 2: do that?
[1:30] Speaker 1: Off the top of my head, it's hard to remember,
[1:32] Speaker 1: but like the first they they're in chunks. Each week
[1:35] Speaker 1: is like a different theme, and like the first theme,
[1:38] Speaker 1: the first week was all about like identifying the fears
[1:40] Speaker 1: that I have in my life and then kind of
[1:43] Speaker 1: reverse talking about those fears, like pointing out the positives
[1:47] Speaker 1: and like what could come instead of leaning into like
[1:49] Speaker 1: the fear. One day it was like all about gratitude,
[1:52] Speaker 1: like leaning into gratitude.
[1:55] Speaker 5: Yeah.
[1:57] Speaker 1: So they're weekly, they're daily, other daily, Yeah, but like
[2:00] Speaker 1: every week is like a different kind of like what's
[2:04] Speaker 1: the word.
[2:07] Speaker 3: Oh, okay, gotcha. So that's why you feel you're film
[2:11] Speaker 3: lucky today?
[2:11] Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just like good vibes, good cobsweb cobwebs are
[2:15] Speaker 1: coming down, and.
[2:16] Speaker 3: You major you were throwing paper into.
[2:17] Speaker 1: The towns making buckets earlier. It just like feels like
[2:21] Speaker 1: good vibes.
[2:22] Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, all right, Well stay tuned.
[2:23] Speaker 2: We do have some dear Bonio questions to get through
[2:26] Speaker 2: before we play games.
[2:28] Speaker 4: We gotta we gotta my advice hat feels strong.
[2:31] Speaker 3: Oh wow, wow.
[2:33] Speaker 4: Halfways have cleared? Whoa the guru hat?
[2:36] Speaker 1: Is on.
[2:37] Speaker 3: Well, let's jump in.
[2:38] Speaker 5: Here we go from Brook. I have been a single
[2:40] Speaker 5: mom of two young kids for a year and a
[2:42] Speaker 5: half and I have my kids full time, so it's
[2:44] Speaker 5: hard to date. I recently noticed the guy who moved
[2:47] Speaker 5: into a house in our neighborhood and I'm thinking about
[2:49] Speaker 5: approaching him. I'm a pretty reserved and shy person, so
[2:52] Speaker 5: this is out of my comfort zone to approach a man. First.
[2:55] Speaker 5: I wanted to get your thoughts on how to introduce
[2:56] Speaker 5: myself and find out if he's single. I've only seen
[2:58] Speaker 5: him outside a few times our daily family walked. I
[3:01] Speaker 5: thought about leaving him a note in his mailbox. Is
[3:03] Speaker 5: that creepy?
[3:05] Speaker 2: I think personally I would stick to you know when
[3:09] Speaker 2: you run into each other, or you could leave him
[3:12] Speaker 2: like I would say, like a basket of Like okay,
[3:17] Speaker 2: well I would say basket cookies, but like times are
[3:19] Speaker 2: just weird now, but like maybe an unopened bottle of
[3:22] Speaker 2: like champagne or something, say like welcome to the neighborhood,
[3:25] Speaker 2: so that it's friendly but like thoughtful.
[3:28] Speaker 1: Well, we don't know he should recently moved in. I
[3:30] Speaker 1: feel like there is a grace period, like if he
[3:33] Speaker 1: moved in six months ago and she brings him a
[3:34] Speaker 1: bottle of champagne, saying welcome to the neighborhood.
[3:37] Speaker 4: It's a little late, No.
[3:39] Speaker 2: Would just be like, I've been busy with my two kids,
[3:42] Speaker 2: but I wanted to welcome you to the neighborhood. That way,
[3:44] Speaker 2: you just throw it in there that that you're you've
[3:48] Speaker 2: got kids, and you're If he sees you out, he'll
[3:51] Speaker 2: be like, oh, that might be the girl that left
[3:54] Speaker 2: me the champagne.
[3:55] Speaker 1: So I love the note in the mailbox. Personally, I
[3:59] Speaker 1: think you start out with a lot of eye contact.
[4:02] Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's really intent.
[4:04] Speaker 1: So during the walks, you give him some eye contact,
[4:07] Speaker 1: you exchanged some pleasantry.
[4:08] Speaker 3: Show me what that would look like for you.
[4:10] Speaker 4: Like you're on a walk and I lock eyes with you.
[4:16] Speaker 4: It's cute, well, smirk eye contact.
[4:20] Speaker 1: So heavy eye contact on your walks, Okay, establish some
[4:23] Speaker 1: sort of pleasantry, some sort of interaction in that way.
[4:27] Speaker 1: After a couple of those, then I say, go into
[4:29] Speaker 1: the mailbox.
[4:31] Speaker 3: Okay, well, because who cares?
[4:33] Speaker 1: If he doesn't like you, he's not going to follow
[4:35] Speaker 1: through with whatever you ask him to do in the mailbox,
[4:37] Speaker 1: No harm, no foul, Who cares?
[4:39] Speaker 2: I think you leave a bottle of champagne, say welcome
[4:41] Speaker 2: to the neighborhood, and then when you see him on
[4:44] Speaker 2: a walk, they like, hey, like, I don't know.
[4:45] Speaker 3: I left you this champagne.
[4:46] Speaker 2: Or maybe he'll say like, hey, did you leave me
[4:48] Speaker 2: the champagne, and then that starts a conversation.
[4:51] Speaker 3: That's what I would do.
[4:52] Speaker 5: How about you this next time you see him outside
[4:53] Speaker 5: of the house, when you're on your walks, you say, Hi, Hi,
[4:55] Speaker 5: you the neighborhood.
[4:56] Speaker 3: Hi.
[4:57] Speaker 5: I just want to let you know I'm brook, I
[4:59] Speaker 5: live right around the corner. Nice to meet you.
[5:00] Speaker 2: She just doesn't know when that time's gonna happen, so
[5:03] Speaker 2: she's trying to expedite that. You my others, my other
[5:10] Speaker 2: thought was just wait till you see him out again.
[5:13] Speaker 2: Keep it simple.
[5:14] Speaker 4: But I have the eye contact can break barriers.
[5:19] Speaker 5: And really weird people out there.
[5:22] Speaker 4: Probably if he is weirded out by some eye contact,
[5:25] Speaker 4: he's not your guy. He's just not.
[5:29] Speaker 3: I would just be really super cool, casual and like.
[5:34] Speaker 1: Hey, we can't all for seed in life being cool
[5:36] Speaker 1: and casual like becatilla. I'm just gonna say that as
[5:39] Speaker 1: a fact. Know all have all people swarming to be
[5:42] Speaker 1: with us. Some of us have to work for it. Okay,
[5:44] Speaker 1: how how was that my life at all?
[5:47] Speaker 4: You had a lot, You.
[5:48] Speaker 1: Had a lot of swarmage in your day before you
[5:51] Speaker 1: were locked up.
[5:52] Speaker 3: That was like ten years ago. Whatever.
[5:54] Speaker 1: They still swarmed you. I was never swarmed. I had
[5:57] Speaker 1: to swarm.
[5:57] Speaker 4: I had to.
[5:58] Speaker 1: I had to the honey I swarm.
[6:03] Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, if they're not swarming, you go out and swarm.
[6:07] Speaker 5: Exactly.
[6:08] Speaker 1: So Becca was swarmed and I was the swarmer. There's
[6:10] Speaker 1: two types of people in the world, and I'm by
[6:13] Speaker 1: with Brooke. If she's on my side. You got to
[6:15] Speaker 1: put yourself out there.
[6:16] Speaker 2: All right, Brooke, you have three options. Heavy eye contact
[6:19] Speaker 2: that could break barriers, or put security out. Put the
[6:23] Speaker 2: letter in the mailbox after.
[6:25] Speaker 3: Oh wow, double whammy.
[6:27] Speaker 2: Okay, heavy eye contact plus leather letter in the mailbox.
[6:30] Speaker 2: I say, leave a bottle champagne, Welcome to the neighborhood.
[6:33] Speaker 2: See you around. And then Marcus just wait, wait until
[6:37] Speaker 2: you run into.
[6:39] Speaker 5: Him conversation First, to kind of suss out the situation,
[6:42] Speaker 5: he made something. Oh yeah, I moved out of here. First.
[6:44] Speaker 5: My wife's with the kids back in New Hampshire and
[6:47] Speaker 5: they're coming out here. Like, who knows, get a little
[6:49] Speaker 5: bit of life story first before you make a big
[6:52] Speaker 5: thing that's going to make it super awkward in the future.
[6:54] Speaker 3: I don't think any of these make it. The letter
[6:56] Speaker 3: in the mailbox, what.
[6:59] Speaker 4: Is that you bring him a bottle of champagne?
[7:02] Speaker 2: Oh, well, then you can gift it to someone. Well,
[7:07] Speaker 2: oh was that going to come up in the first conversation?
[7:09] Speaker 6: If then, are you working the steps?
[7:13] Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like a bottle of the alcohol is
[7:16] Speaker 1: a little risky, bottle of milk.
[7:19] Speaker 2: Club soda whatever, milk okay, broke good luck, But I
[7:24] Speaker 2: don't know that we helped you at all. But we
[7:25] Speaker 2: did get three different options, so keep us posted on.
[7:31] Speaker 5: All right, d says, Oh, I'm so yeah. We'll got
[7:34] Speaker 5: one time for one more before we take a break.
[7:36] Speaker 5: Dan's been listening to Scrubbing In since she was sixteen
[7:39] Speaker 5: and just got her license to be a therapist. She's
[7:41] Speaker 5: now twenty four, pursuing a doctorate to become a therapist.
[7:45] Speaker 5: Hearing Beca and Tony each we talking about their lives
[7:47] Speaker 5: and friendship has built me up in so many ways
[7:49] Speaker 5: as a young, confident woman. Wow, my girlfriend and I've
[7:53] Speaker 5: been dating almost six years want to get engaged in
[7:54] Speaker 5: next spring. Wedding planning is tricky because in the six
[7:57] Speaker 5: weeks we've been dating, my girlfriend's parents have expressed how
[8:00] Speaker 5: disapproving they are for religious reasons. They've never acknowledged us
[8:04] Speaker 5: as a couple. They've never had me over to their home.
[8:06] Speaker 5: They've never been invited to family events. I've never been
[8:08] Speaker 5: invited to family events. Talking about our weddings brought about
[8:11] Speaker 5: questions about how we go about the ceremony without her
[8:13] Speaker 5: parents and most of her families. Specifically, how do you
[8:15] Speaker 5: think would be best for us to walk down the aisle?
[8:18] Speaker 5: I always thought I'd be walked down by both of
[8:19] Speaker 5: my parents, but my girlfriend's expressed it that would be
[8:22] Speaker 5: difficult for her because no one and her family would
[8:24] Speaker 5: be willing to walk her down the aisle. Do I
[8:26] Speaker 5: walk alone and risk disappointing my own parents, who are
[8:29] Speaker 5: super supporting and loving. By the way, I'm looking for
[8:31] Speaker 5: creative solutions for walking down the aisle and the wedding
[8:34] Speaker 5: as a whole with her family being unavailable to the idea.
[8:37] Speaker 3: Oh, this is so hard. First of all, you listening
[8:42] Speaker 3: since her sixteen just blew my mind.
[8:44] Speaker 6: And now right now she's engaged. That's insane. Just started
[8:49] Speaker 6: the show last year.
[8:52] Speaker 2: I'm so happy that you have found someone that you
[8:56] Speaker 2: love and want to be with forever. I think navigating
[9:00] Speaker 2: people who are not approving of your relationship, especially family,
[9:05] Speaker 2: is really challenging and difficult, and I don't think that
[9:09] Speaker 2: pain goes away no matter how excited you are to
[9:14] Speaker 2: be with someone and have like a celebration like this.
[9:17] Speaker 2: I think the main thing is the beauty of life
[9:21] Speaker 2: and getting older is getting to find people who are
[9:24] Speaker 2: around you who are your chosen family. And I know
[9:27] Speaker 2: we use that term a lot, but I think those
[9:29] Speaker 2: people that you surround yourself with and that are supportive
[9:32] Speaker 2: and make you feel so loved and seen are so valuable,
[9:37] Speaker 2: and I think that focusing on them is going to
[9:40] Speaker 2: be really important for your or future fiance, future wife.
[9:46] Speaker 2: And I think when it comes to walking down the aisle,
[9:50] Speaker 2: I don't think you should not have your parents walk
[9:52] Speaker 2: you down, because if that's something you've always dreamed of,
[9:54] Speaker 2: I think it's really important for you to get to
[9:56] Speaker 2: have that moment. But maybe your girlfriend or your partner
[10:00] Speaker 2: can find either someone who is like a father figure
[10:03] Speaker 2: or a sibling, or someone who's really special to them
[10:06] Speaker 2: to walk them down the aisle, or maybe your parents.
[10:10] Speaker 1: I would say too to say, I think your parents
[10:12] Speaker 1: should walk both of you down.
[10:14] Speaker 2: The aisle, or maybe one at a time so you
[10:16] Speaker 2: both get your moment. But I think that could be
[10:18] Speaker 2: really special. Since your parents are supportive and they're going
[10:20] Speaker 2: to be her in laws, then getting to like introduce
[10:24] Speaker 2: that dynamic and to the people that are most important
[10:29] Speaker 2: to you, I think is a really could be a
[10:30] Speaker 2: really impactful special moment for them. And to be honest, like,
[10:34] Speaker 2: at the end of the day, her parents are the
[10:36] Speaker 2: ones that are going to have to live with the
[10:38] Speaker 2: fact that they weren't a part of that and that
[10:41] Speaker 2: someone else took on the role to walk their daughter
[10:43] Speaker 2: down the aisle and they missed out on something that
[10:45] Speaker 2: was so beautiful and important. And your partner should be
[10:49] Speaker 2: able to celebrate being loved and being seen by you
[10:53] Speaker 2: and not letting that damper it even though I know
[10:56] Speaker 2: it's like a painful thing.
[10:58] Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted to say too, sorry that you guys
[11:01] Speaker 1: are going through that. Yeah, I it just it sucks.
[11:04] Speaker 1: It's super selfish and it's not okay. But I also
[11:08] Speaker 1: had the idea of your parents, like walking one of
[11:13] Speaker 1: you down at a time, like taking one up, leaving
[11:15] Speaker 1: one going back and taking the other end. Because I
[11:17] Speaker 1: do think honoring your parents that way because they've been
[11:22] Speaker 1: so supportive, and I just think that's such a beautiful
[11:26] Speaker 1: way to honor your parents. And then kind of, uh,
[11:31] Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want to say, like
[11:33] Speaker 1: stick it to her parents.
[11:35] Speaker 3: But like I kind of kind of like listen, like
[11:38] Speaker 3: you guys want to be here.
[11:39] Speaker 2: Yeah, I do have support elsewhere, which is it You
[11:43] Speaker 2: never can replace the feeling of getting support from your
[11:47] Speaker 2: own parents. Like I don't think that's a realistic expectation,
[11:50] Speaker 2: but I do think I don't think it's fair for
[11:52] Speaker 2: you to take away your moment with your parents on
[11:56] Speaker 2: a day that you've probably dreamed of in a moment
[11:58] Speaker 2: you've dreamed of. And I think you're and you have time,
[12:02] Speaker 2: like you're not even engaged yet, so you have time
[12:05] Speaker 2: to kind of figure out what that would look like.
[12:06] Speaker 3: But there are so.
[12:07] Speaker 2: Many people who, even people who are in queer relationships,
[12:11] Speaker 2: who have family dynamics where it doesn't make sense to
[12:15] Speaker 2: have a parent walk them down the aisle or they
[12:17] Speaker 2: walk down alone, and it's going to be so beautiful
[12:20] Speaker 2: either way. And I think just knowing that your partner
[12:26] Speaker 2: is going to your girlfriend is going to have moments
[12:30] Speaker 2: where it feels really sad and heavy and that may
[12:34] Speaker 2: not ever go away, but she's also going to get
[12:37] Speaker 2: to have beautiful moments of seeing who is there to
[12:39] Speaker 2: support her and focusing on that.
[12:41] Speaker 6: I like to throw out one more thing. Allison's father
[12:45] Speaker 6: tragically passed before we got married, and so talking about walking,
[12:49] Speaker 6: who is you know, how is she going to walk
[12:51] Speaker 6: down the aisle was a big topic. And we walked
[12:53] Speaker 6: each other down the air like there was no one
[12:55] Speaker 6: up there, you know, from like I wasn't up there already.
[12:58] Speaker 6: And then she and I walked down together and it
[12:59] Speaker 6: was a really spared moment for her and I. And
[13:02] Speaker 6: that's another option, you know.
[13:03] Speaker 3: I do love that too.
[13:04] Speaker 6: Yeah.
[13:04] Speaker 3: I Also we went to Dean and Kaylen's wedding and
[13:08] Speaker 3: Kaylen walked down by herself and it was so it
[13:11] Speaker 3: was like a movie scene. I'll never forget that, like
[13:15] Speaker 3: kiss me by Yeah Rich I was playing.
[13:19] Speaker 2: It felt like in the weather was beautiful, and she
[13:22] Speaker 2: walked down and it was so powerful that she was
[13:24] Speaker 2: by herself. So you know, maybe your girlfriend can find
[13:28] Speaker 2: feeling empowered by that too.
[13:30] Speaker 4: Yeah.
[13:31] Speaker 2: So I'm really sorry you're going through that. And I'm
[13:33] Speaker 2: also so happy you found someone that you want to
[13:35] Speaker 2: be with forever. And there's there is beauty there two
[13:39] Speaker 2: things can exist at the same time, and I've learned
[13:41] Speaker 2: that a lot.
[13:43] Speaker 4: So say it again for the people in the back.
[13:45] Speaker 3: We love you and we're so happy for you.
[13:46] Speaker 4: Yeah, so happy for you.
[13:47] Speaker 1: Dee.
[13:50] Speaker 3: We need to take a break, we do.
[13:51] Speaker 5: Indeed, all right, we'll be right back.
[14:09] Speaker 3: We're ah, gotcha.
[14:13] Speaker 5: I think Becka won every single commercial break this whole week.
[14:16] Speaker 4: I would like to point out she did not, in
[14:18] Speaker 4: fact on Mondays.
[14:19] Speaker 5: Well for the birthday game for her from anonymous. Am
[14:23] Speaker 5: I crazy? Or is this normal? This is my second
[14:26] Speaker 5: Mother's Day. My husband's the best person ever. He is
[14:28] Speaker 5: Robbie two point zero. Wow, He's everything I could ever want.
[14:32] Speaker 5: I'm not complaining about him, But my question is about
[14:34] Speaker 5: Mother's Day. On the day itself, he posted a story
[14:37] Speaker 5: about his mom, who he's really close to, but he
[14:40] Speaker 5: never posted anything about me, the mother of his child.
[14:43] Speaker 5: I was a little sad about that, so we had a conversation.
[14:45] Speaker 5: He told me I'm not his mother.
[14:47] Speaker 4: Oh.
[14:48] Speaker 5: In a nice way. And that's why I didn't post
[14:50] Speaker 5: anything about me. I know this sicilian stop, but I
[14:52] Speaker 5: shouldn't be caring about it because the oh day was perfect.
[14:54] Speaker 5: He took care of me, he gave me the sweetest things.
[14:57] Speaker 5: But am I crazy for feeling sadilled down because he
[14:59] Speaker 5: didn't an Instagram story for me?
[15:03] Speaker 4: I would murder.
[15:04] Speaker 3: I'm a murder.
[15:05] Speaker 4: Murder murder.
[15:07] Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm murder.
[15:08] Speaker 4: Here's the thing.
[15:10] Speaker 1: If he didn't post anything on Mother's Day, I'd be fine.
[15:13] Speaker 1: I would be like Robbie two point zero. You're good,
[15:17] Speaker 1: we're good, we're solid.
[15:18] Speaker 4: Thank you for me.
[15:19] Speaker 3: But he did other things in person.
[15:22] Speaker 1: Yeah, she said the day was perfect. He was so great, great, right,
[15:25] Speaker 1: no problem. You decide to post a public shout out
[15:30] Speaker 1: to your mother, but not to the mother of your
[15:34] Speaker 1: child is absolutely diabolic.
[15:36] Speaker 3: Di'monical, and you're not You're not.
[15:39] Speaker 4: You are not my mother. No, but I am the mother.
[15:46] Speaker 2: Honestly, she is the matriarch of your your unit.
[15:50] Speaker 3: Now she's a matriarch.
[15:53] Speaker 1: I would be I don't know what should be angrier.
[15:58] Speaker 3: That is my advice.
[15:59] Speaker 1: I don't let me tell you father's days around the corner.
[16:01] Speaker 1: You better do a carousel of your dad and like
[16:06] Speaker 1: your neighbor's dad and your your word.
[16:11] Speaker 4: Father, yeah, father, priests, the community church. You shout out
[16:15] Speaker 4: every father in your life. Yeah, but you except for
[16:19] Speaker 4: him because he's not true daddy.
[16:21] Speaker 5: Yankee should.
[16:24] Speaker 3: Why did you shout out all those guys? Well, you're
[16:27] Speaker 3: not my dad, Yeah, you're not my father.
[16:29] Speaker 4: My father. That might be the petty approach, but I'm
[16:34] Speaker 4: all for it. Right around the corner, I'm over it.
[16:37] Speaker 4: It's right around the corner.
[16:38] Speaker 2: The amount of things that moms go through to be
[16:41] Speaker 2: a mom.
[16:42] Speaker 3: For your husband not to do a simple post while he's.
[16:45] Speaker 2: Praising mommy, mommy dearest is in furying the boy mom thing. No, no,
[16:56] Speaker 2: you should be angrier.
[16:57] Speaker 3: And that's my take.
[16:59] Speaker 1: Yeah, I honestly like you should be much angrier, Like
[17:02] Speaker 1: like like a fact to give us his number.
[17:06] Speaker 5: To keep in mind, he's Robby two point zero best
[17:10] Speaker 5: guy ever.
[17:10] Speaker 6: Let's remember that I didn't forget that.
[17:12] Speaker 4: Okay, goods on me. That was not lost on me.
[17:17] Speaker 3: Robby knows, Robbie one point oh knows better.
[17:22] Speaker 2: The fact is if he had been like, oh my god, baby,
[17:25] Speaker 2: you're so right, I.
[17:26] Speaker 3: Don't I was just thinking.
[17:26] Speaker 4: About my mom, Like, you're right, you are.
[17:29] Speaker 2: The mom in my life, like that is so important.
[17:33] Speaker 2: Next year, this will not happen. And I'm really sorry,
[17:36] Speaker 2: but that responds being.
[17:38] Speaker 3: You are not my mother.
[17:40] Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're not my mom.
[17:50] Speaker 1: It's like I don't even know what I would do.
[17:54] Speaker 1: I honestly think I would do the Father's Day thing,
[17:58] Speaker 1: just like match the energy. Yeah, you want to play
[18:01] Speaker 1: this game? Two can be on the court, buddy.
[18:05] Speaker 2: Oh.
[18:05] Speaker 3: Someone wrote into my podcast I listened to and it
[18:09] Speaker 3: seems like they had a similar situation. This is their advice.
[18:12] Speaker 5: She should play this for him. They would both get
[18:13] Speaker 5: a big kick out of it.
[18:15] Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, or played this for him, or wait till
[18:17] Speaker 1: Father's Day and give him a taste of his own medicine.
[18:20] Speaker 1: Whatever you choose, we don't support your support.
[18:22] Speaker 3: Listen and don't.
[18:24] Speaker 5: Yes, well, all right, here's a fun one before we
[18:27] Speaker 5: get mom.
[18:32] Speaker 2: Uh.
[18:33] Speaker 5: This is from Marissa, Becaitania, Mark and Easton. What are
[18:36] Speaker 5: your five most used emojis? What do you think they mean?
[18:39] Speaker 5: And how do you use them? How do you how
[18:41] Speaker 5: do we know such a thing?
[18:42] Speaker 4: Okay, Like you go.
[18:44] Speaker 1: To your text message and then you go to the
[18:47] Speaker 1: emoji like you're gonna put an emoji and your top five.
[18:50] Speaker 3: Are is it going down?
[18:52] Speaker 5: Yeah?
[18:52] Speaker 4: Or cross it goes down?
[18:54] Speaker 1: So like the first one, two, three, four on the
[18:56] Speaker 1: left are the ones you use the most, and the
[18:58] Speaker 1: next four over are the ones you used the next most.
[19:00] Speaker 5: Well, I think these are most recent, aren't they?
[19:03] Speaker 6: They are recent?
[19:04] Speaker 4: Oh so it's not most How do you use your favorites? Well, well,
[19:09] Speaker 4: e Scrubbert, we can't answer that.
[19:10] Speaker 5: Because we don't have and I can look into it.
[19:12] Speaker 5: Maybe there's a way to do it.
[19:14] Speaker 3: Well, I think those are your most use.
[19:16] Speaker 5: So no, because I have a gravestone on mine, I've
[19:18] Speaker 5: us did exactly one time. It was like a week ago,
[19:21] Speaker 5: So that's not my most use. Morbid everybody puts the skull
[19:26] Speaker 5: and crossbones. I can't do it.
[19:27] Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh like dead laughing, Sure.
[19:30] Speaker 5: I don't remember.
[19:32] Speaker 3: That's true.
[19:32] Speaker 2: I have a black heart, and I never used a
[19:34] Speaker 2: black heart, but I recently use one, so.
[19:36] Speaker 6: And it's different on my phone. I'm on my laptop.
[19:39] Speaker 3: WHOA, we're having.
[19:40] Speaker 2: Some complications with this question. Well, let's just name some
[19:44] Speaker 2: of our tops that you feel like. Name some from
[19:47] Speaker 2: that section that you do use all the time, because
[19:49] Speaker 2: mine are all in there.
[19:50] Speaker 1: Okay, mine is the praying hands. Okay, the ones that
[19:55] Speaker 1: go like this, I.
[19:56] Speaker 3: Don't have that.
[19:57] Speaker 6: Some people say it's a high five too, yeah great.
[20:00] Speaker 5: Yeah.
[20:00] Speaker 4: I also have the hearthand I have that too.
[20:03] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[20:04] Speaker 4: I have the thumbs up okay, classic.
[20:07] Speaker 1: And then I have the guy with the eyes that's like, oh.
[20:12] Speaker 3: Like wide eyed.
[20:13] Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'm in my bed so little love.
[20:15] Speaker 6: I am like it's like shocked or embarrassed.
[20:18] Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I think it's shocked.
[20:19] Speaker 3: Okay, what about you, Mark? Did you know?
[20:22] Speaker 5: Okay, it says it says the chick out of the left. Okay, what.
[20:28] Speaker 6: Mine. Let's say I use the devil smiling face a lot.
[20:31] Speaker 5: I like that.
[20:32] Speaker 3: The purple guy, Yeah.
[20:33] Speaker 6: Purple, I love him. I use the person speaking. It's
[20:37] Speaker 6: like a silhoute of a face.
[20:39] Speaker 4: I like that one too.
[20:41] Speaker 6: Your favorite one. This is a new emoji is I
[20:43] Speaker 6: don't know how you describe this, but it is like
[20:46] Speaker 6: it's wide eyes, but they're on opposite sides of the head. Uh.
[20:51] Speaker 6: It's it's like kind of bulging.
[20:53] Speaker 3: Oh, I don't I mean to have.
[20:56] Speaker 4: Let's see, I don't have that. Yeah, I don't have that.
[21:01] Speaker 5: Oh wow, that's cute.
[21:02] Speaker 3: I love I like him.
[21:03] Speaker 5: It's like a Boston Terrier.
[21:04] Speaker 6: That is, that's Joe Jonas's uh profile picture.
[21:09] Speaker 3: That's funny anyway, Yeah, I.
[21:12] Speaker 6: Love I love that and uh, I mean shell, I
[21:15] Speaker 6: keep going. I have many more, the Wilting Rose. I
[21:17] Speaker 6: use a lot.
[21:18] Speaker 3: Oh wow, this is so interesting all.
[21:20] Speaker 5: Right here, Well she asked me, So, I'm just gonna
[21:22] Speaker 5: tell you. I used the one with the teeth straight across,
[21:24] Speaker 5: not smiling. Use that one a lot. I don't know
[21:26] Speaker 5: what I mean.
[21:26] Speaker 3: Nervous.
[21:27] Speaker 5: Yeah, I usually like when I asked, like Sabrina, hey,
[21:29] Speaker 5: would you mind? Can I get that information earlier than usual?
[21:32] Speaker 5: Teeth like hey like that. He's got a lot. I
[21:35] Speaker 5: used the smiling tear and the and the and the
[21:39] Speaker 5: eyes filling up eyes yeah yeah, yeah yeah, emotional ones. Yeah,
[21:43] Speaker 5: I used to.
[21:44] Speaker 4: I don't know why mine didn't pop up.
[21:45] Speaker 5: I use that ah like I'm upset and uh and
[21:51] Speaker 5: then thinking, oh used thinking a lot, actually a lot. Yeah.
[21:55] Speaker 3: See I have the cry laughing one.
[21:58] Speaker 2: Uh huh, solid, have the'll figure a shock sometimes just
[22:04] Speaker 2: that's what you need to say.
[22:07] Speaker 3: I have this one like clock it.
[22:10] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[22:11] Speaker 4: I want to use that one more too, And.
[22:13] Speaker 2: Then I have the dead skull and then the heart
[22:16] Speaker 2: heart with like heart, the smiley.
[22:18] Speaker 4: With a heart.
[22:19] Speaker 1: So I used to use the school a lot, but
[22:22] Speaker 1: I quit because I don't want to be dead.
[22:26] Speaker 4: I want to be alive. Do you know what I mean?
[22:28] Speaker 1: Like I hate using like dying, like I'm not using
[22:31] Speaker 1: that anymore, okay, because I want to be like living okay.
[22:36] Speaker 2: Something probably thank you for sharing that.
[22:39] Speaker 1: Yeah, So in case you wonder why where the school
[22:41] Speaker 1: went and all my emojis, Oh yeah, I retired okay
[22:46] Speaker 1: for now?
[22:46] Speaker 4: No no, no, no more, only living?
[22:48] Speaker 3: All right? So is it time?
[22:51] Speaker 5: I'm ready? I got a good in for you coming
[22:54] Speaker 5: up next, he finished, Here we go. I've got the
[23:15] Speaker 5: birthdays for this week. I have seven categories, seven items.
[23:20] Speaker 5: We're gonna start over here with Tanya and we go around.
[23:23] Speaker 4: As such the raining champ.
[23:24] Speaker 5: Tanya is the raining champ, and that's why we begin
[23:26] Speaker 5: with her. Is everyone ready? We're ready. You'll hire a
[23:29] Speaker 5: lower today. They will all give a number, and then
[23:31] Speaker 5: we'll see who's the closest. If there is a tie,
[23:36] Speaker 5: whoever did not go over wins fair. Yes, here we go.
[23:40] Speaker 5: Today is not a great day for birthdays, but it
[23:43] Speaker 5: is today's birthday for Gautier. And if you don't know Gautier,
[23:47] Speaker 5: he's behind someone I used to know that song. How
[23:51] Speaker 5: old is he today? Forty two forty two, Becca, forty four,
[23:56] Speaker 5: forty forty Easton chees forty he is forty six. And
[24:02] Speaker 5: that's a point, Rebecca, jelly wow, I know it hurts,
[24:07] Speaker 5: all right, Next up, give her a point. This is
[24:11] Speaker 5: I did one point. I don't think he didn't.
[24:13] Speaker 6: Okay, I'll remember.
[24:16] Speaker 5: This is coming up on Saturday. This person's birthday. She
[24:18] Speaker 5: was not someone else terribly familiar with, and then suddenly
[24:20] Speaker 5: she became the most popular person or the most famous
[24:23] Speaker 5: person in America. Taylor Frankie Paul. How old is she
[24:27] Speaker 5: this weekend? Becca? She's twenty eight, twenty eight Easton? I
[24:33] Speaker 5: think thirty one, thirty one time, yeah, twenty nine, thirty
[24:39] Speaker 5: two Easton. That's the point. Very nice.
[24:43] Speaker 3: She was in her twenties.
[24:44] Speaker 1: I didn't think I saw her celebrate at thirtieth, but
[24:48] Speaker 1: I don't follow her, so I might have figured I
[24:51] Speaker 1: would have seen that somewhere.
[24:52] Speaker 5: All right, funny man and the host of the Price
[24:55] Speaker 5: is right. Drew Carrey's birthday is this weekend? How old
[24:58] Speaker 5: is Drew Carrey Easton is fifty six fifty six, Tanya
[25:04] Speaker 5: sixty seven sixty seven, Beca.
[25:07] Speaker 3: Oh, I have a huge I'm gonna say fifty nine.
[25:16] Speaker 5: Drew Carry this weekend turned sixty eight.
[25:19] Speaker 4: Years old, six seven currently.
[25:24] Speaker 3: He threw me.
[25:25] Speaker 4: I was like, wait, he's definitely on his fifties.
[25:28] Speaker 6: He looks good.
[25:29] Speaker 5: It's definitely good, Tanya, were going to you on this one.
[25:32] Speaker 5: I'm changing up a little bit here. I have two
[25:35] Speaker 5: celebrities this weekend that were both born on the exact
[25:38] Speaker 5: same day. So you have two different people to think
[25:40] Speaker 5: about when you guess their ages born on the exact
[25:44] Speaker 5: same day and same year. Yes, Wow, pop singer Jewel
[25:49] Speaker 5: and Jeopardy host Ken Jennings. They were born on the
[25:51] Speaker 5: same day of the same year. How old are they
[25:53] Speaker 5: both turning this weekend?
[25:58] Speaker 4: I wish I knew what Ken Jennings will. I have
[26:01] Speaker 4: no idea.
[26:02] Speaker 5: Well, you know Jewel, I know Jewel.
[26:04] Speaker 4: Doesn't give me much. I'm gonna say forty seven.
[26:08] Speaker 5: Forty seven. Becca, I'm gonna say forty nine, forty nine Eastern.
[26:16] Speaker 6: They both strike me as young gen X forty.
[26:20] Speaker 5: Six, so away, I'm sorry giving to me again.
[26:23] Speaker 1: Forty seven forty nine forty six fifty two Becka.
[26:27] Speaker 5: I gets the point and she leads two to one.
[26:30] Speaker 5: On Sunday Dancing with the Stars, dancer Mark Ballas has
[26:36] Speaker 5: a birthday. Mark Ballas, how old is he? This weekend?
[26:41] Speaker 5: I feel like there's somebody You've met both of you
[26:45] Speaker 5: many times at Easton. I would imagine I've not met him,
[26:47] Speaker 5: Oh my.
[26:48] Speaker 4: Gosh, many many times.
[26:51] Speaker 3: I'm gonna say thirty.
[26:52] Speaker 5: Eight thirty eight Eastern thirty six forty he is forty
[26:58] Speaker 5: spot On to Tanya to Becca one Easton, moving on,
[27:05] Speaker 5: I've got two more here. I mean it a tiebreaker,
[27:07] Speaker 5: I don't think so. Yesterday was a birthday for a
[27:09] Speaker 5: legend Share. This one goes to Easton.
[27:17] Speaker 6: Share is.
[27:20] Speaker 5: Seventy one, seventy one, Tanya seventy eight, seventy eight. Becca ooh.
[27:33] Speaker 3: Seventy six.
[27:36] Speaker 5: I see yesterday Wednesday, Share had a big birthday, the
[27:41] Speaker 5: big eighties, oh eighty.
[27:45] Speaker 3: And I was like, there's no way she's.
[27:46] Speaker 4: Eighty seventy nine. Wow, I'm good.
[27:49] Speaker 5: Here's where we are. Tanya three, Becka to Easton one.
[27:52] Speaker 5: I have one more to go. So if Tanya gets it,
[27:55] Speaker 5: she wins. If Beca gets it, we'll have a tie breaker.
[27:58] Speaker 5: If Easton gets it, Tanya wins because it'll be three
[28:01] Speaker 5: to two to two at that point.
[28:02] Speaker 1: Wow, if you get it, I went like, yeah, if
[28:06] Speaker 1: you just get it straight, Yeah, yeah.
[28:07] Speaker 5: That's right. This is the time there's questions she could end.
[28:09] Speaker 4: It right here, last person.
[28:11] Speaker 5: You know, both of these people, because it's the same
[28:13] Speaker 5: situation to celebrities, same day.
[28:16] Speaker 4: Really was not fair.
[28:17] Speaker 5: You know both of these DJ Marshmallow, which is tough
[28:21] Speaker 5: because we haven't seen his face.
[28:23] Speaker 6: Yeah.
[28:24] Speaker 5: So to help you with that, I'll tell you that
[28:25] Speaker 5: on the same day and the same year was born
[28:27] Speaker 5: Sam Smith, Marshmallow. Marshmallow and Sam Smith, same day, same year.
[28:32] Speaker 5: How old are they turning? How did they turn on.
[28:36] Speaker 4: Tuesday thirty seven?
[28:42] Speaker 5: Well, the game is not over because that is not right.
[28:44] Speaker 3: Shoot, I was going to say that. Shoot, I'm going
[28:55] Speaker 3: thirty six.
[28:56] Speaker 5: Going thirty six Easton, it goes to you. If you
[29:00] Speaker 5: win this, Tanya wins.
[29:02] Speaker 6: Can we make my point worth ten thousand?
[29:07] Speaker 5: You cannot, okay?
[29:08] Speaker 6: I think Sam Smith and Marshmellow are thirty nine.
[29:13] Speaker 5: Went what you went? Thirty six times? No, thirty seven
[29:15] Speaker 5: times thirty six? Becca thirty nine? They turn thirty four?
[29:22] Speaker 5: Is the closest and we will have a tie.
[29:25] Speaker 4: I knew he was younger than me.
[29:27] Speaker 3: I know, I was like, I know, he's younger than me, but.
[29:31] Speaker 5: Was getting warm in here. My goodness, Wait, how old
[29:35] Speaker 5: did they turn?
[29:36] Speaker 3: Thirty four?
[29:37] Speaker 5: Thirty four?
[29:37] Speaker 3: Are significantly younger?
[29:39] Speaker 4: I mean, come on, three years, that's not significant. That's
[29:42] Speaker 4: like pennies. All right, Victoria Garret Victoria Garrick Brown is
[29:47] Speaker 4: significantly younger. Yeah, yeah, yeah, respectfully.
[29:49] Speaker 5: All right, I'm going to go back to Monday and
[29:51] Speaker 5: grab somebody. Somebody had a birthday on Monday. All right,
[29:55] Speaker 5: here we go. This goes to Becca Easton. You will
[29:58] Speaker 5: not be a part of this. You will give the age,
[30:04] Speaker 5: and Tanya will say, Hi, you're a lower. Oh hire
[30:06] Speaker 5: a lower because it's only tour. Okay, okay, okay, Becca.
[30:11] Speaker 5: On Monday, it was a birthday four Tina Fay. How
[30:16] Speaker 5: old did Tina Fay turn on Monday?
[30:29] Speaker 3: I'm going to say Tina Fey turned forty five?
[30:33] Speaker 5: Higher, she's fifty six.
[30:44] Speaker 3: She was lucky today.
[30:46] Speaker 4: Let's do something else.
[30:48] Speaker 3: What do we do.
[30:52] Speaker 4: Something?
[30:53] Speaker 3: What's on a roll?
[30:56] Speaker 2: What's the place near Palm Springs?
[31:03] Speaker 4: I don't know. I'm not a big gambler, but like
[31:05] Speaker 4: I gotta do something.
[31:08] Speaker 1: Yeah, I like to thank myself and my knowledge and
[31:15] Speaker 1: what about Mark my brand the list.
[31:17] Speaker 4: No, I'd like to not think Mark because Kat was his.
[31:22] Speaker 5: Name is Ken.
[31:24] Speaker 3: I think you're thinking of someone else.
[31:30] Speaker 2: Wait before we go, Jong, before we go, we have
[31:35] Speaker 2: a really special guest on Tuesday.
[31:39] Speaker 3: We're not here Memorial Day.
[31:40] Speaker 4: Yes, spoiler alert.
[31:42] Speaker 3: Were vacation on Monday for Memorial Day.
[31:45] Speaker 2: So just know we're coming on Tuesday with Hailey Kyoko
[31:49] Speaker 2: in the building.
[31:50] Speaker 4: In the flesh. Girls like girls.
[31:53] Speaker 2: Like girls, and we're gonna be talking all about everything
[31:57] Speaker 2: she has going on because it's not just one thing,
[31:58] Speaker 2: because she is a multi high school happening. So everyone
[32:03] Speaker 2: tune in next week and have a wonderful week.
[32:05] Speaker 1: And we love you some may we love you Boom

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