# Charge it to the Game

An episode of [Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1279955329), 27 Jan 2026, 44 min.

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Becca survived a quick, frozen trip to New York, with a return flight that may have transformed her into a plane clapper, while Tanya had a revelation about the lack of audio privacy from her neighbors in the bathroom. There may be something going on!! Tanya gives us a full rundown of Nick Jonas’ Sunday Best show, we dive into more Harry Styles reactions, and we try to break down the Taylor Swift and Blake Lively texts! Plus, how should you handle cursing around your kids? Do you have a swear jar or do you let the Fs fly?? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
[0:04] Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
[0:10] Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in that we are.
[0:17] Speaker 3: Happy Monday.
[0:19] Speaker 2: Happy Monday. How you doing.
[0:21] Speaker 3: I'm doing all right? How you doing? I'm okay, okay, Yeah,
[0:26] Speaker 3: just beca came back from New York or went to
[0:28] Speaker 3: New York this weekend.
[0:30] Speaker 2: Yeah, I went Friday and got out before the storm
[0:34] Speaker 2: on Sunday.
[0:36] Speaker 4: What kind of temperatures were you dealing with?
[0:38] Speaker 2: Very cold ones that I have no interest in to
[0:41] Speaker 2: ever feel again?
[0:42] Speaker 4: Yeah?
[0:43] Speaker 2: Actually you know what it was. I so I was
[0:47] Speaker 2: told on Thursday officially that I was going to New York,
[0:50] Speaker 2: so I like booked the flight and everything. I looked
[0:53] Speaker 2: at the weather app and it said twelve degrees on
[0:55] Speaker 2: Saturday or seventeen and then low of eight, and I
[0:58] Speaker 2: was like.
[0:58] Speaker 3: Feels like and negative? Someone who cares what it feels like?
[1:02] Speaker 3: I saw one important.
[1:04] Speaker 2: No, eight was enough for me. So I'm like looking
[1:08] Speaker 2: at my closet I had. I was going to a
[1:10] Speaker 2: work event, and I was like, well, I'll be inside.
[1:13] Speaker 2: So I packed just kind of I wanted to take
[1:15] Speaker 2: a carry on, which I never do I'm the worst
[1:17] Speaker 2: packer in the world, but I was sensible. I was like,
[1:20] Speaker 2: I'm gonna pack, I'm gonna wear my jacket on the
[1:23] Speaker 2: plane and I'll just pack my outfits and then something
[1:26] Speaker 2: to travel home. And well, I was not prepared in
[1:31] Speaker 2: any slide like it was. It was so cold. I
[1:34] Speaker 2: don't even know how you prepare without just layering and
[1:37] Speaker 2: layering and layering. So we got through it. And then
[1:39] Speaker 2: everyone I told I was leaving on Sunday, they were like, okay,
[1:43] Speaker 2: good luck.
[1:43] Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna get stuck for sure.
[1:46] Speaker 2: So Saturday morning, our flight back got canceled like the
[1:50] Speaker 2: day the twenty four hours before it already was canceled,
[1:53] Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, no, we're here. We're definitely
[1:55] Speaker 2: here till Monday. So I'm just gonna get settled in
[1:58] Speaker 2: this hotel. And then I saw that there were still
[2:01] Speaker 2: six am flights and seven am flights available, and I
[2:03] Speaker 2: was like, they must think that those flights are going
[2:06] Speaker 2: to miss the storm coming in. So I'm frantically trying
[2:10] Speaker 2: to book it. It takes me like three tries of
[2:12] Speaker 2: it saying like denied, deny, denied, and I get through
[2:15] Speaker 2: and I send the girl who is on my management team, Michelle.
[2:18] Speaker 2: I send her and she's like, oh my gosh, we
[2:19] Speaker 2: got one all day. We go to the event and everything.
[2:22] Speaker 2: We get home and we go to check in and
[2:24] Speaker 2: we're like, I go. Mine says it doesn't. My itinerary
[2:28] Speaker 2: got canceled. She was like me too. So I'm searching
[2:32] Speaker 2: everywhere because at this point, I'm realizing I didn't bring
[2:35] Speaker 2: enough clothes. I didn't underwear. I had enough underwear because
[2:40] Speaker 2: I overpack underwear. I bring like ten pairs. Oh wow, okay, yeah,
[2:43] Speaker 2: I'm an aggressive underwear packer. But I thought, how cool
[2:46] Speaker 2: if it snows, like getting to see Central Park in
[2:48] Speaker 2: the snow. But what shoes am I going to wear?
[2:50] Speaker 2: I don't have rain boots or whatever you wear in
[2:53] Speaker 2: the snow.
[2:53] Speaker 3: I feel like I was sending you a lot of
[2:54] Speaker 3: tips on how to stay warm, like wrapping your toes
[2:56] Speaker 3: and foil and stuff. Yeah I send that to you.
[3:00] Speaker 2: No, but no, I didn't.
[3:01] Speaker 3: However, heard I said that too.
[3:04] Speaker 2: Even if I put my toes in foil, the shoes
[3:07] Speaker 2: I had would have beensling. Go on what So anyways,
[3:11] Speaker 2: I'm frantically searching. I find one a flight at six
[3:15] Speaker 2: am and I go to book it and I'm like,
[3:17] Speaker 2: it's here, and then I realized it's just one seat,
[3:20] Speaker 2: and I can't leave Michelle behind, and she goes, you
[3:22] Speaker 2: can take it, and I'm like, I'm we're a team,
[3:26] Speaker 2: not leaving you. I find one. I look up all
[3:29] Speaker 2: the airports nearby. I find one to Santa Anna, which
[3:31] Speaker 2: is like an hour away, and they had two at
[3:34] Speaker 2: six thirty five. So we get to the airport. I
[3:36] Speaker 2: woke up at like three thirty. Get to the airport
[3:39] Speaker 2: and six thirty five passes and we're not moving, like
[3:43] Speaker 2: We're all on the plane and I'm like where I
[3:46] Speaker 2: see the snowflowers coming down. I'm like, okay, are we
[3:48] Speaker 2: taking off? What's going on? We finally take off. I
[3:51] Speaker 2: wanted to I'm not a clapper on a plane. I
[3:53] Speaker 2: wanted to like cheer when we took off.
[3:57] Speaker 3: And was it taking up just a couple of minutes?
[3:59] Speaker 2: I think we left like thirty minutes.
[4:01] Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's stressful thirty minutes.
[4:03] Speaker 2: It was a stressful thirty minutes. But I got home
[4:06] Speaker 2: and I feel really grateful because it looked very, very cold.
[4:09] Speaker 2: I was very unprepared.
[4:11] Speaker 1: Seventeen thousand flights canceled. Yeah, and that most since the pandemic.
[4:15] Speaker 2: And so so luckily someone on Instagram, her name's Kate,
[4:19] Speaker 2: she reached out. I don't know if she's a scrubb
[4:21] Speaker 2: or not, but she reached out and she was like,
[4:23] Speaker 2: I go back and forth all the time, and there's
[4:25] Speaker 2: always weather stuff. So she was like, I would book
[4:27] Speaker 2: a flight, a refundable flight for Monday and Tuesday, just
[4:30] Speaker 2: in case, because once they are all everyone's trying to
[4:32] Speaker 2: rebook from their canceled flight, it's going to be chaos.
[4:35] Speaker 2: So you want to have something just booked. So I
[4:37] Speaker 2: booked two extra flights that were I could just get
[4:40] Speaker 2: refunded immediately. And that was really great advice.
[4:44] Speaker 3: So always get the refundable tickets.
[4:47] Speaker 5: Yeah.
[4:47] Speaker 3: Yeah, gathered in my in my yonder years.
[4:51] Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's a good time fun, you know, work trips,
[4:56] Speaker 2: et cetera.
[4:56] Speaker 3: Yeah, busy gal, busy bee. Yeah. I this is so weird,
[5:04] Speaker 3: But I I'm not somebody that like spends time in
[5:08] Speaker 3: the bathroom like you're talking about. You know, guys just
[5:12] Speaker 3: like go in there and like read the paper or whatever.
[5:14] Speaker 3: Like I just see bathroom. Yeah, I just go in there,
[5:17] Speaker 3: do my thing, and.
[5:18] Speaker 2: You don't you don't have like a you don't read
[5:20] Speaker 2: or do anything. Oh my gosh, I just go.
[5:23] Speaker 3: When I need to go, I go and then I
[5:24] Speaker 3: get out. But I was in there a little bit
[5:27] Speaker 3: longer than usual the other morning, and I hear these
[5:30] Speaker 3: like noises coming from my neighbor's house, and I was like,
[5:35] Speaker 3: they it sounds like sexual noises, like very sexual noises, Okay,
[5:41] Speaker 3: but it's going on for a long time. Like I
[5:43] Speaker 3: was in there for like at least fifteen minutes and
[5:46] Speaker 3: it was like the whole time.
[5:47] Speaker 5: So I like.
[5:49] Speaker 3: Recorded them because I was like, I wanted to send
[5:52] Speaker 3: it to Robbie to see like what was what this
[5:56] Speaker 3: was invasive? Well, my biggest concern is if I can
[5:59] Speaker 3: hear them? Can they hear us?
[6:02] Speaker 2: Definitely?
[6:03] Speaker 3: And then should I tell them that I could hear them? Like,
[6:08] Speaker 3: wouldn't you want to know? I would want to know.
[6:10] Speaker 2: But why then you're you have to be like quiet?
[6:13] Speaker 5: No.
[6:13] Speaker 3: But I feel like if somebody could hear me, I
[6:16] Speaker 3: would want them to tell me so that I could
[6:17] Speaker 3: maybe like close the windows or something. I don't know.
[6:20] Speaker 3: So then I'm like, do I go to my neighbors
[6:22] Speaker 3: and tell them there are two very lovely men that
[6:28] Speaker 3: one of us bonded because both of our cars got
[6:30] Speaker 3: hit when that drunk driver came and like swiped our cars.
[6:33] Speaker 3: That's really the only interaction I've had with them, either
[6:37] Speaker 3: of them. But so it's not like we're like besties.
[6:40] Speaker 3: Were not really like bessies with either of our neighbors. Yeah,
[6:43] Speaker 3: but when our cars got hit, we had like some
[6:45] Speaker 3: pleasantries and some nice exchanges.
[6:48] Speaker 2: Well, how would you go about that?
[6:49] Speaker 3: That's what I don't know. But then I was leaving
[6:52] Speaker 3: the house and I saw a U haul in front
[6:55] Speaker 3: of their house, like pulling, like like lifting things out
[6:59] Speaker 3: of their house. Then I'm like, were they like moving
[7:01] Speaker 3: their bed or were they like moving stuff and grunting?
[7:05] Speaker 3: I don't know. Then I'm like, if they're moving, do
[7:08] Speaker 3: I really need to say something?
[7:09] Speaker 1: You have a recording of it, Yeah, well you want
[7:13] Speaker 1: to play it for us and we can give you
[7:14] Speaker 1: our opinion. It seems like the scrubbers would want to
[7:16] Speaker 1: hear that I cannot.
[7:17] Speaker 3: I cannot, I cannot.
[7:19] Speaker 4: Okay, Fine, well let's give them the benefit of the doubt.
[7:21] Speaker 1: Then we'll call your neighbors Shane and Ilia and will
[7:24] Speaker 1: assume that they were just moving furniture.
[7:27] Speaker 3: So then I did nothing about it.
[7:29] Speaker 2: What are you hey, I heard I heard the grunting yesterday.
[7:35] Speaker 3: I would want to know if my neighbors could hear me,
[7:38] Speaker 3: I would want to know.
[7:39] Speaker 2: I think if their window is open, they don't.
[7:41] Speaker 3: Care, or maybe they just needed some fresh air.
[7:46] Speaker 2: I'm not opening my window knowing that I'm at a
[7:48] Speaker 2: close proximity with other homes, like people could be outside,
[7:52] Speaker 2: so I think they if they cared, they would close
[7:55] Speaker 2: their window. And if there was men moving stuff around,
[7:59] Speaker 2: it could have very well that I can't do it
[8:01] Speaker 2: without proof of sound, but I don't. I don't think
[8:05] Speaker 2: there's a world where it makes sense for you to
[8:07] Speaker 2: go over and tell them, And there's no way Robbie
[8:09] Speaker 2: thinks that's what you should do.
[8:11] Speaker 3: I haven't gone that far with him yet. I just
[8:13] Speaker 3: wanted to confirm the noises. I was like, that's as
[8:16] Speaker 3: far as I gone. I haven't told him about the
[8:18] Speaker 3: U haul yet.
[8:19] Speaker 4: Are they moving, because that's another reason to not bring this.
[8:22] Speaker 3: That's the thing. I don't know, but I'm assuming if
[8:24] Speaker 3: there's a U haul that and I saw men like
[8:26] Speaker 3: moving stuff out of their house, that means they're moving.
[8:28] Speaker 4: Well, goodbye. That's the end of it, right.
[8:31] Speaker 2: Okay, Like if you want to send them like a
[8:34] Speaker 2: card that says, by the way, I heard you, good
[8:37] Speaker 2: luck with everything, no sad, like good.
[8:41] Speaker 3: Stuff as just like myself, I would want if my
[8:45] Speaker 3: neighbors heard me, I would want to know.
[8:48] Speaker 2: I would not really what am I supposed to do
[8:52] Speaker 2: with that information?
[8:53] Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe like close your windows or close.
[8:56] Speaker 2: Your doors, like it's depending if my waybows open while
[8:59] Speaker 2: I'm doing that. I don't don't care who hears it.
[9:02] Speaker 3: See, we just keep our windows open all the time.
[9:04] Speaker 2: Then people are definitely hearing you.
[9:05] Speaker 4: Yes, that's how sound travels.
[9:08] Speaker 2: Yeah, when the windows closed, you don't hear anything, and
[9:10] Speaker 2: then when the windows open you hear things.
[9:12] Speaker 1: Because it's weird because you say you care and you
[9:13] Speaker 1: don't want them to hear you. Well, then close your windows.
[9:17] Speaker 3: I don't think about it like that. I didn't think
[9:19] Speaker 3: about that until I heard my neighbors. I swear I
[9:23] Speaker 3: didn't even think.
[9:24] Speaker 2: Well, now it's something to think about.
[9:26] Speaker 3: Yeah, if you care thinking about it, and I do.
[9:29] Speaker 2: Care, then the windows should be shut and locked. Stress
[9:34] Speaker 2: maybe with the extra layer on them, maybe consider double pain. Yeah,
[9:43] Speaker 2: but I'm glad that you don't have to have. I'm
[9:45] Speaker 2: glad that you asked, because I don't think that's a
[9:47] Speaker 2: necessary confrontation conversation.
[9:50] Speaker 3: It would not have been confrontational. I would have made
[9:52] Speaker 3: it like sounded good. I wouldn't have made it saying confrontational.
[9:58] Speaker 2: Well, there's confronting some one and telling them like, like
[10:02] Speaker 2: that conversation is that you're confronting.
[10:05] Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yah, I mean it's gonna be like.
[10:07] Speaker 2: Negatively conversation, no confrontational. It just as you're confronting them.
[10:15] Speaker 3: Thinking about having that conversation makes my arms, my hands sweaty.
[10:19] Speaker 2: Then you shouldn't do it. There's a lot there's a
[10:23] Speaker 2: lot more important things than them, you know, grunting hearing
[10:28] Speaker 2: them grunt.
[10:29] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[10:32] Speaker 2: So that's what your weekend consisted of. Anything else?
[10:34] Speaker 3: No, I did. I actually did. My parents came in town,
[10:37] Speaker 3: which was really nice, and and I did like a
[10:40] Speaker 3: karaoke night, which is like the first night, my first
[10:43] Speaker 3: like real night out that I've like had. I was
[10:47] Speaker 3: so tired by like nine pm.
[10:50] Speaker 2: Well yeah, that's a karaoke takes a lot out of
[10:52] Speaker 2: out of oneself.
[10:54] Speaker 3: But I will say the day that the Hairy Style
[10:56] Speaker 3: song came out. I like listened to it, I think
[10:58] Speaker 3: probably one hundred times on repeat, and I had it
[11:00] Speaker 3: on my headphones and I was just like dancing upstairs.
[11:03] Speaker 3: And Robbie was like, this is the first time I've
[11:05] Speaker 3: seen you like this joyous in a really long time.
[11:09] Speaker 3: And so I'm like, I feel like I'm on the
[11:11] Speaker 3: up and up.
[11:11] Speaker 2: You just needed Harry. You need the aperture.
[11:14] Speaker 3: I needed the aperture. But yeah, I was like dancing.
[11:17] Speaker 3: I had like my headphones in because my stepson was
[11:20] Speaker 3: doing his homework, so I was trying to be respectful,
[11:22] Speaker 3: but like blasting in my headphones and like, dam.
[11:25] Speaker 4: Harry styles pillow for the occasion.
[11:27] Speaker 3: I did not. It stays in my office respectfully.
[11:31] Speaker 4: Yeah, I understood.
[11:32] Speaker 3: Yeah the pillow. Becka got rid of my pillow with
[11:36] Speaker 3: my face on it.
[11:38] Speaker 2: I offered to give it back to them, and Robbie said,
[11:42] Speaker 2: basically like that's okay. He was like, all right, why
[11:46] Speaker 2: would you give that away? Like that's so mean, And
[11:49] Speaker 2: I was like, well, then you should take it, and
[11:51] Speaker 2: he was like no. So I don't know who hazard
[11:56] Speaker 2: or where it is, but you are amongst the world
[12:00] Speaker 2: a big pillow portion of you.
[12:02] Speaker 1: The good wheel or something maybe, Oh, I'd love that
[12:04] Speaker 1: if some random person gets a Tania pillow.
[12:07] Speaker 4: How fun?
[12:08] Speaker 3: It's very comfortable. Yeah, I'm very big.
[12:13] Speaker 2: It is large. It's a large pillow. It's just like
[12:16] Speaker 2: little head. No, how was the Nick Jonas event? You
[12:21] Speaker 2: just like skipped right over that. You just have an
[12:24] Speaker 2: interview with Harry Styles and then goes to like a
[12:26] Speaker 2: intimate Nick Jonas concert and nothing nothing to report?
[12:29] Speaker 3: Do you want to know something that was so sweet
[12:31] Speaker 3: about that whole thing? What this is a message to
[12:35] Speaker 3: everybody listening, because it just goes to show you the
[12:38] Speaker 3: power of vulnerability and like not making your life out
[12:43] Speaker 3: to be this like picture perfect thing that we all
[12:45] Speaker 3: do on social media. And I'll tell you that story
[12:48] Speaker 3: when we come back.
[12:50] Speaker 4: Oh sorry, you completely caught me off.
[12:52] Speaker 5: Yeah, me too.
[13:08] Speaker 2: We're back. Oh, we're back. Okay.
[13:11] Speaker 3: So are you familiar with JP Sacks?
[13:14] Speaker 2: Yes?
[13:15] Speaker 3: Okay, Mark you know who he is?
[13:17] Speaker 4: Yes?
[13:18] Speaker 3: Okay, So I want to say, like.
[13:20] Speaker 2: Summer, well, do you want to tell the people who
[13:21] Speaker 2: he is?
[13:22] Speaker 3: And so Jp Sacks Grammy nominated Artists. Okay, we'll just
[13:27] Speaker 3: leave it at that. But so he went on Instagram
[13:30] Speaker 3: over the summer and basically like was like it was.
[13:34] Speaker 3: I can't remember exactly how he captioned it, but like
[13:37] Speaker 3: screw being cool and just like set his truth. Basically,
[13:40] Speaker 3: he needed to sell twenty thousand more tickets for his
[13:43] Speaker 3: tour not to get canceled, okay, which is something that
[13:46] Speaker 3: like happens to a lot of artists, but they do
[13:49] Speaker 3: not go out there and say it. They'll cancel tours
[13:51] Speaker 3: because of like scheduling conflicts, or they'll make up some
[13:56] Speaker 3: sort of whatever.
[13:57] Speaker 4: Like exhaustion, exhaustion.
[13:59] Speaker 3: Whenever it is, nobody comes out and says like, I
[14:01] Speaker 3: couldn't sell him the ticket. So it was really brave
[14:03] Speaker 3: and really like vulnerable, and the story was kind of everywhere.
[14:07] Speaker 3: And Nick Jonas saw it and he invited JP to
[14:10] Speaker 3: come out when the Jonah's brothers, you know how they
[14:12] Speaker 3: kept having like guests during their tour. They invited JP
[14:16] Speaker 3: to come out to one of their tour stops and sing,
[14:18] Speaker 3: and then through that, Nick reached out for him to
[14:21] Speaker 3: work on this solo album with him. So he went
[14:25] Speaker 3: from like and I'm sure this happened with other artists
[14:27] Speaker 3: and him too, you know, had he not shared that
[14:30] Speaker 3: and been vulnerable and like been you know, not cool
[14:33] Speaker 3: or whatever, he got a lot of work out of it,
[14:36] Speaker 3: and so he wrote he helped Nick Jonas on this
[14:39] Speaker 3: new album, so he Jp Sacks was kind of moderating
[14:42] Speaker 3: this like album preview, which I thought was really cool,
[14:45] Speaker 3: kind of like that story of just kind of how
[14:47] Speaker 3: it all went down, and he played a couple of
[14:49] Speaker 3: the songs, told like stories about kind of what the
[14:53] Speaker 3: songs meant, and then he performed like a handful of them.
[14:59] Speaker 3: And I just I love Nick Jonas. I love the
[15:01] Speaker 3: Jonas brothers, love everything they do. I love that they're
[15:03] Speaker 3: like making music as the brothers. I love that they're
[15:06] Speaker 3: making solo music. I love that they're touring together but
[15:09] Speaker 3: doing all these little things for themselves too. So that
[15:13] Speaker 3: was really cool.
[15:14] Speaker 2: Did you get to say hello to Nick?
[15:17] Speaker 5: So?
[15:17] Speaker 3: I didn't say hello to him, like I right when
[15:19] Speaker 3: it ended, I left just because I had like some
[15:22] Speaker 3: work stuff I needed to do. But he definitely saw
[15:26] Speaker 3: me because I was like.
[15:27] Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right there, I was right.
[15:29] Speaker 3: I can't imagine, and he locked eyes with me, you know,
[15:32] Speaker 3: and they gave me like.
[15:33] Speaker 2: The hey, yeah yeah, yeah, see yeah, I see ya.
[15:35] Speaker 3: I see yeah. Nice yeah.
[15:37] Speaker 2: So fun.
[15:39] Speaker 3: It really was, and like he does it on Sundays
[15:41] Speaker 3: because the album is called Sunday Best, so he does
[15:44] Speaker 3: he's doing these like sessions on Sundays, which I thought
[15:46] Speaker 3: was like, you know, I love a theme.
[15:49] Speaker 2: So creative, Sunday Best on a Sunday, it's so cute. Yeah,
[15:55] Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, what other day when you do it
[15:58] Speaker 2: on Monday?
[16:00] Speaker 3: Took her for a drink on Tuesday.
[16:03] Speaker 2: Well, the album has been released for Harry Styles.
[16:09] Speaker 3: The track list and.
[16:10] Speaker 2: That's what I was meaning, kiss all the time disco occasionally. Yeah,
[16:15] Speaker 2: we have how many songs? One, two, three.
[16:18] Speaker 3: Four, twelve songs?
[16:21] Speaker 2: Twelve songs and we have titles? So shall we guess
[16:25] Speaker 2: what we think our favorites are gonna be?
[16:26] Speaker 3: I already know which one's gonna be my favorite?
[16:28] Speaker 2: Have you listened to it?
[16:29] Speaker 3: No? Okay, I wish? Okay, go for it. American girls,
[16:33] Speaker 3: that's gonna be your favorite? Okay, what's your gonna be
[16:36] Speaker 3: your favorite?
[16:38] Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with I really like coming Up Roses.
[16:43] Speaker 3: Oh, but I also.
[16:45] Speaker 2: Like, are you listening yet? Because it sounds like it
[16:49] Speaker 2: could have a powerful message. And then I have one
[16:53] Speaker 2: more please Carla song because his song Matilda is like
[16:59] Speaker 2: the oh yeah, I have never like that song did
[17:04] Speaker 2: something like it changed me. And every time I hear
[17:07] Speaker 2: I think about he has to have or whoever wrote
[17:12] Speaker 2: that song with him or Harry himself to be able
[17:15] Speaker 2: to write something that's that relatable and deep and emotional
[17:21] Speaker 2: to someone's life is I'm like, he knows someone who's
[17:24] Speaker 2: been through this, right, because you can't write that type
[17:28] Speaker 2: of song and not have a personal connection to it.
[17:31] Speaker 2: It's one of my favorite songs of all time. So
[17:33] Speaker 2: I feel like Carlos.
[17:34] Speaker 4: Song gott to Be Powerful, got to be a.
[17:36] Speaker 2: Power, and it's the last one.
[17:38] Speaker 1: All of these are basically song titles, like they all
[17:41] Speaker 1: seem like song titles, except for Season two Weight Loss.
[17:44] Speaker 1: That's a very interesting, not typical song title. So I'm curious.
[17:49] Speaker 1: But I don't think he's my favorite. I'm just kind
[17:51] Speaker 1: of pointing it out.
[17:52] Speaker 4: I think my.
[17:52] Speaker 1: Favorite is gonna be Ready Steady Go, because I bet
[17:54] Speaker 1: that's a banger. I bet that's a party I.
[17:57] Speaker 3: Think they're all going to be bangers.
[17:59] Speaker 4: Well, I don't is Aperture a banger?
[18:01] Speaker 1: Yes, I'm not saying it's not a great song banger,
[18:05] Speaker 1: but is it a dance like?
[18:08] Speaker 4: Is it a party song? I don't know. I'm not
[18:11] Speaker 4: sure it is. Okay, tiny things, I'm crazy fine.
[18:13] Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it's a party song. I think
[18:15] Speaker 2: it's a roll your windows song. I think it's a
[18:17] Speaker 2: dance in your room song. But I don't think it's
[18:19] Speaker 2: a party And.
[18:19] Speaker 4: I think it's a big hit, but I don't think
[18:21] Speaker 4: it's a party song.
[18:22] Speaker 2: Yeah. It's kind of like a cold Play song where
[18:24] Speaker 2: you're like like, yeah, like it's just vibes. It's not
[18:29] Speaker 2: a bad thing, a cold but it's not like Watermelon
[18:32] Speaker 2: sugar High.
[18:34] Speaker 3: It's far from a cold place.
[18:36] Speaker 4: Certainly, not like Kiwi.
[18:40] Speaker 2: It's not like Satellite. Oh, Satellite is truly one of
[18:44] Speaker 2: my favorite songs of all time.
[18:45] Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very up, but.
[18:47] Speaker 2: I'm I feel like Aperture was a great release and
[18:50] Speaker 2: it just makes me excited for the album. Wow, I'm
[18:53] Speaker 2: sorry about the offensive words.
[18:55] Speaker 4: Have you Did you watch the video because my daughter
[18:57] Speaker 4: and I watched it the other night. Yeah, I was intrigued.
[19:00] Speaker 3: It's so good.
[19:02] Speaker 4: Yeah, it's very good.
[19:03] Speaker 3: Did you read the meaning behind it?
[19:05] Speaker 2: No.
[19:06] Speaker 3: Allegedly it's supposed to kind of be the the a
[19:10] Speaker 3: depiction of the relationship with the.
[19:12] Speaker 4: Fans that guy represents the fans kind.
[19:14] Speaker 3: Of like they're always like there and then he's kind
[19:17] Speaker 3: of like looking over.
[19:18] Speaker 1: Her shoulders, and it could be an antagonistic relationship, yeah, where.
[19:21] Speaker 3: They're like chasing each other, or like beautiful harmonious where
[19:24] Speaker 3: they're like dancing together.
[19:26] Speaker 1: So if you haven't seen it, Harry checks into a hotel,
[19:29] Speaker 1: calls a number, which, by the way, I don't get
[19:30] Speaker 1: where that's going. He calls someone, Oh yeah, room six
[19:34] Speaker 1: o five.
[19:34] Speaker 4: Remember that.
[19:35] Speaker 1: He calls room six oh five, rings and rings and rings,
[19:37] Speaker 1: puts it on speaker, rings and rings and rings, goes
[19:39] Speaker 1: and brushes his teeth, still ring and ring and ring,
[19:41] Speaker 1: and that not answering. So he leaves his room, goes downstairs.
[19:44] Speaker 1: There's a guy sunglasses, yeah, long hair, like a bag,
[19:50] Speaker 1: like a plastic bag like from a convenience store, chases him,
[19:55] Speaker 1: fights him, and then they start dancing together.
[19:58] Speaker 4: Yeah, and then he goes back to his room and
[20:00] Speaker 4: goes to bed.
[20:04] Speaker 2: Something to be interpreted.
[20:05] Speaker 3: Yeah, well it was lost on me the the and
[20:10] Speaker 3: then I was reading like people's comments and stuff, and
[20:12] Speaker 3: it was some people were saying that it's like the
[20:15] Speaker 3: it's the depiction of his relationship with the fans.
[20:19] Speaker 2: You love a fan theory.
[20:21] Speaker 3: I love it.
[20:21] Speaker 2: You just like if you see something you like, you
[20:24] Speaker 2: adopt it.
[20:24] Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the lore.
[20:26] Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, Like I don't know personally, but this is
[20:30] Speaker 2: what someone else said.
[20:31] Speaker 3: So, you know what somebody asked him that I thought
[20:33] Speaker 3: was a really great question.
[20:35] Speaker 2: What uh?
[20:36] Speaker 3: They asked, Harry, who in your life is like he
[20:41] Speaker 3: cares the least about like who you are, what you do?
[20:44] Speaker 2: He said his sister, Well yeah that makes sense.
[20:47] Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was just like cute and he was
[20:49] Speaker 3: just like she could care less about like the.
[20:53] Speaker 2: Is she older or younger?
[20:54] Speaker 3: I don't know.
[20:55] Speaker 2: Well, if she's the older sister, she's probably like that's
[20:58] Speaker 2: just my like little thinky little brother. No, I love
[21:05] Speaker 2: my Julius styles has been brought up multiple times here. Yeah.
[21:13] Speaker 3: So I like that question.
[21:15] Speaker 2: It's a good question, it's a it's an understandable answer.
[21:20] Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I'm surprised more like his mom or something.
[21:26] Speaker 3: But you know he'll asked for one.
[21:27] Speaker 2: Yeah, one picked one. Yeah. So these text messages between
[21:33] Speaker 2: Blake Lively and Taylor Social released, which man, it's got
[21:36] Speaker 2: to be so hard to have these like this private
[21:40] Speaker 2: stuff release, Like it's really just tough, tough, and I'm
[21:46] Speaker 2: not really. I don't need to like harp on the
[21:49] Speaker 2: lawsuit or whatever. My conversation that I want to have
[21:52] Speaker 2: isn't about that. But I found the text exchange should
[21:54] Speaker 2: be so relatable because I feel like you and I
[21:58] Speaker 2: have had a conversation.
[22:00] Speaker 3: A hundred percent. But people are like going in on
[22:03] Speaker 3: Taylor and like saying how she's a mean girl and
[22:05] Speaker 3: she's all these things, and granted this is me. I
[22:08] Speaker 3: didn't read all of them. I read like snippets that
[22:10] Speaker 3: like Dumois posted, so I'm not sure I'm reading like
[22:13] Speaker 3: the full exchange.
[22:14] Speaker 2: Oh, I just saw the one where Blake Lively is
[22:16] Speaker 2: basically like I don't know if I'm overthinking this, but
[22:19] Speaker 2: I feel distant, and then Taylor's response to it, so
[22:21] Speaker 2: I didn't see anything beyond that.
[22:22] Speaker 3: Oh that's not even about the justin Baldon, I know, but.
[22:25] Speaker 2: I'm saying, like that's what I saw, And I was like, man,
[22:28] Speaker 2: that is such a relatable best friend conversation, one that
[22:32] Speaker 2: I have had, because like Donny will text me and
[22:35] Speaker 2: be like, are you annoyed with me? Why? Like I
[22:38] Speaker 2: feel like I did something, and then I'm just like,
[22:40] Speaker 2: I I don't, I don't know what I've done to
[22:44] Speaker 2: make you feel that way, but I'm sorry, I don't
[22:47] Speaker 2: feel nic.
[22:47] Speaker 3: I'm like, I'll ask you something and then i'll like
[22:50] Speaker 3: follow up like an hour or two later, and then
[22:53] Speaker 3: you'll post something on Instagram and like you still haven't
[22:55] Speaker 3: answered me, and I'm just like, are you ignoring me
[22:57] Speaker 3: on purpose?
[22:58] Speaker 2: Like?
[22:59] Speaker 3: What did I do?
[23:00] Speaker 2: I just well, I'm really bad about small talk over text,
[23:05] Speaker 2: like with anyone. Like it is like if it's a
[23:08] Speaker 2: question that I don't.
[23:09] Speaker 3: Feel like, it's not even small talk. It's like can
[23:11] Speaker 3: you do the podcast at eleven thirty? And it's like crickets.
[23:13] Speaker 2: Yeah, because y'all text me and it'll be like the
[23:16] Speaker 2: night before and the schedules change, and I have other
[23:18] Speaker 2: stuff going on aside from thinking about y'all schedule in
[23:22] Speaker 2: the podcast schedule?
[23:23] Speaker 3: Do you hear that tone?
[23:28] Speaker 4: One?
[23:29] Speaker 2: So I had someone over and I was trying to
[23:31] Speaker 2: be present and they're like trying to coordinate the schedule
[23:34] Speaker 2: for a tomorrow thing. I'm like, listen, I am not
[23:38] Speaker 2: going to be as responsive as I need to be
[23:41] Speaker 2: on that because I'm trying to be respectful to someone
[23:43] Speaker 2: i'm in person with.
[23:45] Speaker 3: But I all too was being respectful because I said,
[23:47] Speaker 3: if this doesn't work, we can do it on Monday,
[23:50] Speaker 3: no problem. Literally, whatever works for you. I say, whatever work.
[23:54] Speaker 2: Whenever I responded in the group chat that you are
[23:56] Speaker 2: in and I was like tomorrow's fine. What time? No responded, I.
[24:01] Speaker 3: Said eleven thirty, and then you just were like what time?
[24:03] Speaker 3: What time? I'm like, is she mad at me?
[24:05] Speaker 2: Like?
[24:05] Speaker 3: What is going on?
[24:06] Speaker 2: I'm not mad at you?
[24:07] Speaker 3: You were.
[24:08] Speaker 2: I promise not mad at all. Nothing. I will let
[24:11] Speaker 2: you know when I'm mad at you, so you can
[24:13] Speaker 2: rest easy.
[24:14] Speaker 3: If I have an issue, there's an underlying tone happening
[24:17] Speaker 3: here with.
[24:18] Speaker 2: I promise there's no underlying tone. I promise when I
[24:22] Speaker 2: am at an age where if I have issues with you,
[24:24] Speaker 2: I will communicate them directly. Oh that's what I was saying.
[24:28] Speaker 2: So you can rest easy that unless I say something,
[24:31] Speaker 2: I'm not annoyed with you, okay, And I'm not good.
[24:34] Speaker 2: I really don't do well with like small talk text,
[24:37] Speaker 2: but this is everybody like Ali will text me multiple
[24:40] Speaker 2: times and if I don't respond, she'll just be like goodbye,
[24:44] Speaker 2: and then I'm like, hey, what's up?
[24:48] Speaker 4: I'm so with you? If I got a text, so
[24:50] Speaker 4: have you bead. I'm like, oh my god.
[24:53] Speaker 3: Okay, but I like my action. I have to do
[24:56] Speaker 3: matter robot Like, I'm like, hey, like I texted you yes,
[25:00] Speaker 3: like how are you feeling? Because I know she woke
[25:02] Speaker 3: up at three am and had a long flight home.
[25:05] Speaker 2: I was sleeping, so I gave her the whole.
[25:06] Speaker 3: Day to respond nothing. So then I texted her this morning,
[25:09] Speaker 3: how are you doing? And I responded, yeah.
[25:12] Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot of follow up. Well, it's like
[25:17] Speaker 2: I'm gonna I get to see you tomorrow and tell
[25:19] Speaker 2: you in person how I'm feeling, which is tired but grateful.
[25:24] Speaker 2: I felt a lot of gratitude being able to get
[25:26] Speaker 2: on a plane and get home yesterday because a lot
[25:28] Speaker 2: of people did not have that. Yeah, And you know what,
[25:30] Speaker 2: I had accepted it because I was like, if we
[25:32] Speaker 2: don't get out, if I'm stuck in New York, I
[25:34] Speaker 2: have a safe place, I'm warm. I'm not needing to
[25:37] Speaker 2: get anywhere. Like I was thinking about all the people
[25:39] Speaker 2: that were traveling and got canceled, that were had somewhere
[25:42] Speaker 2: really important to be, Like, there's such serious things going
[25:46] Speaker 2: on and just in life and people needing to get
[25:49] Speaker 2: somewhere and people being stuck, and I was like, you
[25:51] Speaker 2: know what if I get stuck all as well? Yeah,
[25:53] Speaker 2: I'll have a couple of cozy days in a hotel.
[25:56] Speaker 2: Everything's fine.
[25:57] Speaker 3: Well hot chocolate, hot chocolate.
[26:00] Speaker 2: So yeah, I love you and don't annoy me. I'm
[26:04] Speaker 2: sorry that my lack of response. I'll try to be better,
[26:07] Speaker 2: but like, also, just don't take it personally, because everything personally,
[26:12] Speaker 2: I know, and that's something to work on. Nothing's not.
[26:14] Speaker 2: Everything's personal. I'm learning if therapy not. Everything's personal, but
[26:20] Speaker 2: some things are, some things are, but with me and you,
[26:23] Speaker 2: it's not personal.
[26:26] Speaker 3: Yeah. We really spiraled from the Taylor Swift conversation.
[26:30] Speaker 5: Well.
[26:30] Speaker 2: I just was like, well not really, because I was
[26:35] Speaker 2: what do you want to talk about?
[26:36] Speaker 3: Because she was like there was the Justin Baldoni text
[26:39] Speaker 3: that she was saying, and again I didn't read them all.
[26:42] Speaker 3: I read the ones of like the tiny violin or whatever.
[26:45] Speaker 2: Called him a little bit or whatever.
[26:46] Speaker 3: Yeah, and I was like, I feel like this is
[26:48] Speaker 3: just like a best friend having a best friend's back,
[26:50] Speaker 3: you know, like if you're dealing with somebody at work
[26:52] Speaker 3: that like sucks and is sucking the life out of you,
[26:55] Speaker 3: I know Becca is gonna come in and like have
[26:58] Speaker 3: my back, you know.
[27:00] Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's what I'm saying, these Texter should be private.
[27:03] Speaker 2: And also what Taylor said to me was like the
[27:07] Speaker 2: most minuscule thing that she could have said about someone
[27:09] Speaker 2: that her best friend was complaining to her about. You
[27:12] Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. Yeah, So I thought it was
[27:14] Speaker 2: personally blown out of proportion.
[27:16] Speaker 3: But she's getting so much heat for him.
[27:18] Speaker 2: She gets heat for everything. One thing about Taylor's gonna
[27:21] Speaker 2: get heat.
[27:22] Speaker 3: That's the thing about Taylor. Yeah, you know what, she
[27:25] Speaker 3: doesn't take it personal.
[27:27] Speaker 2: She I don't even think she sees it because I
[27:29] Speaker 2: don't think she's chronically online. Dang, And I hope for
[27:33] Speaker 2: her sake that is the case. But so I posted
[27:38] Speaker 2: something about on Instagram that I think about all the
[27:41] Speaker 2: time and I got such an interesting response from it.
[27:44] Speaker 2: So I want to talk about that. But we're going
[27:46] Speaker 2: to take a break.
[28:03] Speaker 3: We're back, Yes, we are.
[28:07] Speaker 2: So I was talking about something that I think about.
[28:11] Speaker 2: I was laying about with Haley, and I was like,
[28:15] Speaker 2: how often do you think about sharks? Because I think
[28:19] Speaker 2: about sharks, I would say once a day at the
[28:22] Speaker 2: very least. I think about them all the time. Whether
[28:25] Speaker 2: I see videos about them, whether there's been like an
[28:28] Speaker 2: attack in Australia or something, and I read about it.
[28:30] Speaker 2: If I'm flying over water, I think about sharks like
[28:33] Speaker 2: it is a and I think about them just around
[28:37] Speaker 2: water in general. And if I'm not thinking about sharks,
[28:39] Speaker 2: something about like bears or mountain lions. I have like
[28:41] Speaker 2: a strong respect for wildlife, and Haley goes. I literally
[28:47] Speaker 2: don't think about them unless you bring them up like this.
[28:51] Speaker 3: So I don't think that. I can't tell you the
[28:53] Speaker 3: last time I thought about a shark. Wow. Even when
[28:55] Speaker 3: I'm in water, I don't think.
[28:56] Speaker 2: About sharks in the ocean.
[28:58] Speaker 3: In the ocean, I just swim. I think about fish,
[29:02] Speaker 3: not sharks.
[29:03] Speaker 2: Wow. What about you?
[29:04] Speaker 4: And with time you completely I never ever think about sharks.
[29:07] Speaker 3: Never what about other wildlife?
[29:09] Speaker 4: Never fish?
[29:10] Speaker 2: Like when you're hiking, you don't think.
[29:12] Speaker 4: About I'll think about coyotes, no mountains, But no, I
[29:16] Speaker 4: don't worry about mountain lions. I don't think about it.
[29:18] Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's crazy.
[29:20] Speaker 3: Okay, so hikes, you know what, we can sidebar a
[29:22] Speaker 3: little bit. But like I'm all done with hiking. I
[29:24] Speaker 3: think what I think I've realized. I don't want to hike.
[29:29] Speaker 3: I'll go on a walk. I'll walk on nice pavement.
[29:31] Speaker 3: I don't need to be stomping around in the dirt
[29:34] Speaker 3: my dog, rolling around and getting all dirty, getting itchy
[29:38] Speaker 3: around my ankles.
[29:39] Speaker 2: Where are you going hiking around town in the brush
[29:44] Speaker 2: like in nature?
[29:45] Speaker 4: In nature day, every day of my life.
[29:48] Speaker 3: I'm done with it.
[29:49] Speaker 2: No hiking. I love hiking.
[29:51] Speaker 4: It's so much better for you than just straight pavement.
[29:54] Speaker 3: Done, good cardio done.
[29:55] Speaker 2: Yeah, I love hiking, but I'm thinking about the wildlife.
[29:59] Speaker 4: I'm not.
[30:00] Speaker 2: I think I saw a bobcat on a walk one
[30:03] Speaker 2: time a hike. Wow, yeah, saw it on the tree.
[30:06] Speaker 2: Pretty cute, dangerous.
[30:09] Speaker 1: But not a traumatic experience for you that it would
[30:11] Speaker 1: be constantly in your mind.
[30:13] Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no. But I did go home
[30:15] Speaker 2: and google mountain lions around us. But anyways, so I
[30:19] Speaker 2: asked the question how often people think about sharks on
[30:21] Speaker 2: my Instagram? Thinking that majority would be like y'all and Haley.
[30:26] Speaker 2: I would say fifty percent were Okay, people were like,
[30:30] Speaker 2: I haven't thought about it till reading this story, but
[30:34] Speaker 2: fifty percent. Another fifty percent said I think about them
[30:37] Speaker 2: all the time, Like I think about them so often.
[30:41] Speaker 2: One girl goes and if I'm not thinking about them,
[30:43] Speaker 2: I'm thinking about bears or a lot mountain cats. I
[30:47] Speaker 2: was like, wow, me too, So there's something I don't know.
[30:50] Speaker 2: If it was being exposed to jaws at a young age,
[30:52] Speaker 2: I was going to ask.
[30:53] Speaker 4: I wonder if that was it.
[30:55] Speaker 3: It might be a therapy situation.
[30:57] Speaker 2: Which I'll talk to her. I have that two days
[30:59] Speaker 2: from now, so I'll bring it up.
[31:00] Speaker 3: Because the thing is, when you think he's here's the
[31:04] Speaker 3: therapist in me. When you think about sharks, what comes up?
[31:07] Speaker 3: What feeling? Is it fear? Like you're scared of them?
[31:13] Speaker 2: Yeah, scared, but like respect for things that are bigger
[31:17] Speaker 2: and more powerful than me.
[31:20] Speaker 3: Interesting, huh.
[31:21] Speaker 4: I mean there is a reason that Shark Week is
[31:23] Speaker 4: a thing.
[31:24] Speaker 1: There's clearly a lot of people like you that think
[31:25] Speaker 1: about them are intrigued by them.
[31:27] Speaker 4: So that's why they do that.
[31:29] Speaker 2: Yeah, But my intrigue isn't like I want to go
[31:31] Speaker 2: swim with them, right, I want to be far from them.
[31:34] Speaker 2: It's fear.
[31:35] Speaker 3: I think there's fear respect.
[31:38] Speaker 2: I don't like to give fear that much power, but
[31:40] Speaker 2: I do have a respect that when I'm entering the ocean,
[31:43] Speaker 2: I am in their home and I need to stay
[31:46] Speaker 2: ankle deep, so we avoid each other. That's how I feel.
[31:52] Speaker 2: But Haley goes and just floats in the ocean like
[31:55] Speaker 2: as far as she can get, and it stresses me out.
[31:58] Speaker 2: We're going to the Bahamas for the podcast at the
[32:01] Speaker 2: end of February, and I'm already thinking about Haley swimming
[32:05] Speaker 2: in the ocean and the sharks.
[32:06] Speaker 3: I can tell you I have swamp swam in that ocean. Yeah,
[32:10] Speaker 3: swam in that ocean shark free. No, at least where
[32:14] Speaker 3: I was.
[32:15] Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no, they're never You're never shark free in
[32:17] Speaker 2: the ocean. So anyways, it's something people think about. Someone
[32:20] Speaker 2: was like, sharks are your Roman Empire, and I was like,
[32:23] Speaker 2: they are my Roman Empire.
[32:24] Speaker 4: Oh whoa.
[32:26] Speaker 3: So anyways, there's a show that I am. I'm thoroughly
[32:32] Speaker 3: obsessed with right now, Traders.
[32:34] Speaker 2: Yes, okay, you've been obsessed with it for a few
[32:37] Speaker 2: years now.
[32:39] Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't get enough of it. Uh huh. I
[32:43] Speaker 3: wish they gave us more episodes like I hate the
[32:45] Speaker 3: one by one.
[32:47] Speaker 2: Yeah. Haley is also a binger like you, and she
[32:50] Speaker 2: was saying, though it's been she was like, it's nice
[32:53] Speaker 2: watching it one end a time because it makes me
[32:55] Speaker 2: really appreciate and like zoning.
[32:59] Speaker 3: Yeah, I wish they I did two by two. That's
[33:01] Speaker 3: like my new thing, like give us two a week.
[33:06] Speaker 3: But and also there's like so much that they show,
[33:08] Speaker 3: so you know, when the people get kicked off or
[33:10] Speaker 3: when they get banished, they show them who the traders are,
[33:15] Speaker 3: Like they show them like the photos of who the
[33:16] Speaker 3: traders are, and then they have their reactions and they
[33:18] Speaker 3: post it on their Instagram. I'm like, that's something I
[33:20] Speaker 3: want to see on the show. Oh yeah, you know,
[33:23] Speaker 3: I want to see the people finding out who the
[33:25] Speaker 3: traders are. Like that's gold. Yeah, more so than the
[33:29] Speaker 3: the whatever they call them. The my gosh they go
[33:36] Speaker 3: on the missions. Thank you, oh my gosh.
[33:39] Speaker 2: Okay, what do you think about the season so far?
[33:45] Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with it, like fully upset. Okay you need
[33:49] Speaker 3: I know you didn't watch this last episode. But Rob
[33:53] Speaker 3: spoiler alert is the best trader, Like he's been playing
[33:56] Speaker 3: such a good game and this last episode he let
[33:59] Speaker 3: his heart get in the way. M hm, and I
[34:02] Speaker 3: think he made a big mistake.
[34:04] Speaker 2: Yeah I heard that, that's what Haley said.
[34:06] Speaker 3: Yeah, he voted for his own trade.
[34:09] Speaker 2: I know, and I think once you vote for a trader,
[34:11] Speaker 2: it all goes. When a trader trader is on a trader.
[34:13] Speaker 3: Yep, it goes, it goes downhill. And they were doing
[34:16] Speaker 3: so well, the three of them. I know, he screwed
[34:19] Speaker 3: it up because he was just listening to his heart.
[34:22] Speaker 2: You can't listen to your heart. You cannot listen to
[34:26] Speaker 2: get rid of your heart feelings.
[34:28] Speaker 3: Yeah, because he was feeling empathy and like sadness for Ron.
[34:33] Speaker 3: He and then he just backed himself into a corner
[34:35] Speaker 3: because he's like, Colton's my biggest ally that everybody was
[34:37] Speaker 3: basically voting for Ron, Colton or Lisa, and he out
[34:41] Speaker 3: loud was like, I don't believe Ron's a trader. And
[34:43] Speaker 3: then Colton's like his biggest ally and then obviously nobody
[34:47] Speaker 3: knows he and Lisa are traders, so you know what
[34:50] Speaker 3: I mean. So I had to vote for Lisa, and
[34:52] Speaker 3: I'm like, no, you didn't know.
[34:53] Speaker 2: Now, Lisa's like, no, trust with you.
[34:57] Speaker 3: No, you're never going to get that back. No, once
[34:59] Speaker 3: it's out of toothpaste bottle, you cannot put it back in.
[35:02] Speaker 2: It's true.
[35:04] Speaker 3: Yeah, So he's like he should have voted for Ron
[35:06] Speaker 3: it would have been nothing and he could have gone
[35:09] Speaker 3: about his day.
[35:11] Speaker 2: Yeah, so what do you think is gonna happen now?
[35:13] Speaker 3: So I've heard this next episode that comes out this
[35:16] Speaker 3: week is like is Trader's in Trader's History. Alan Cummings said,
[35:21] Speaker 3: it's like one of the best episodes that they've ever had. Wow,
[35:25] Speaker 3: it's the banquet.
[35:27] Speaker 2: What's that?
[35:28] Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know. I think they have
[35:30] Speaker 3: to murder and plain sight at a banquet. Wow. But
[35:34] Speaker 3: they're like not talking to each other, Rob and Lisa,
[35:37] Speaker 3: So it's gonna be like total mayhem.
[35:40] Speaker 2: Well they're gonna have to talk to each other. Dun
[35:43] Speaker 2: dun dum. It's so good. Yeah, it's a good season
[35:47] Speaker 2: so far. This is a different subject. But when you
[35:52] Speaker 2: have Okay, is Robbie strict about if the kids you
[35:56] Speaker 2: swear words?
[35:57] Speaker 3: No?
[35:58] Speaker 2: So do they do. They swears here.
[36:01] Speaker 3: And there, but like they don't like use it in
[36:04] Speaker 3: their like day to day. They're not like dropping curse words.
[36:10] Speaker 3: But if matter something, if they say something like, he's
[36:13] Speaker 3: not like putting them in time out.
[36:15] Speaker 2: Okay, So when when y'all have a child, will you
[36:18] Speaker 2: be strict about that?
[36:20] Speaker 3: I don't know, because the kids are so good. You
[36:23] Speaker 3: know what I mean that I think it's better. I
[36:25] Speaker 3: think this approach is better.
[36:26] Speaker 2: Yeah, Mark, what were your rules about?
[36:29] Speaker 1: We never really had rules. It was never a punishable offense.
[36:32] Speaker 1: Eventually they would hear them, I know, elementary to middle school.
[36:35] Speaker 1: It was a big moment. They learn a lot when
[36:38] Speaker 1: transition happened, and it's fine. They pop out from time
[36:41] Speaker 1: to time now and I don't love it personally, but
[36:44] Speaker 1: it's fine.
[36:44] Speaker 4: I mean, one's an adult, Like what am I gonna do?
[36:47] Speaker 5: Well?
[36:47] Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I just meant like growing.
[36:49] Speaker 4: Up there, No, it was never a harsh thing.
[36:51] Speaker 1: But they also never really abused it either, right, we
[36:53] Speaker 1: weren't strict about that.
[36:54] Speaker 5: Well.
[36:55] Speaker 2: I grew up where I couldn't I couldn't say fart,
[36:58] Speaker 2: I couldn't say I couldn't say yeah. So I grew
[37:02] Speaker 2: up very very strict thoughts and like rule parameters around
[37:09] Speaker 2: curse words. I thought, like literally until second grade, someone
[37:13] Speaker 2: said something about the F word and I thought they
[37:15] Speaker 2: were talking about fart because I didn't even know what
[37:18] Speaker 2: the other F word was. But my parents didn't do
[37:21] Speaker 2: a curse in front of us, so like, unless I
[37:23] Speaker 2: heard it outside of that, I didn't know, and still
[37:26] Speaker 2: I'll say stuff Now, like Haley grew up totally opposite.
[37:30] Speaker 2: There was no boundaries on like I mean, I'm sure
[37:32] Speaker 2: her parents won't let her like curse at them, but
[37:36] Speaker 2: there weren't really any rules around it. And so now
[37:39] Speaker 2: like when she's been around my parents, I'm like, you
[37:42] Speaker 2: have to we have to start like a swear drawer
[37:44] Speaker 2: a week before so that happen. But there's like all
[37:50] Speaker 2: this this stuff about parents being less uptight about their
[37:53] Speaker 2: kids using swear words now. So it's always funny because
[37:56] Speaker 2: I do see people have conversations where they grew up
[37:59] Speaker 2: like me and like words that like fart and but
[38:02] Speaker 2: and everything were curse words. But then there's other people
[38:06] Speaker 2: who had no, you know, limitations on it.
[38:08] Speaker 3: So yeah, and I feel like when I was a kid,
[38:10] Speaker 3: I didn't really have limitations on it either.
[38:12] Speaker 2: Like why do I picture you as a teenager being
[38:15] Speaker 2: like if you mom, I.
[38:18] Speaker 3: Don't think I had a big I don't think I
[38:21] Speaker 3: had a potty mouth until my adult years.
[38:24] Speaker 2: Yeah, like even if I curse, Like if I curse,
[38:29] Speaker 2: and it's like I'm really mean it. Haley's like, WHOA
[38:33] Speaker 2: Like that is? So I'm so hearing you say that,
[38:35] Speaker 2: I feel.
[38:36] Speaker 3: Like when you don't use them, when you use them,
[38:38] Speaker 3: it has more of an impact, which is kind of
[38:40] Speaker 3: what I'm going for these days.
[38:41] Speaker 2: Yeah, like if you need to say it and get
[38:43] Speaker 2: it out, Yeah, this is when yes, yeah, well my
[38:46] Speaker 2: thing is the association I have at was when I
[38:50] Speaker 2: hear people just constantly use words like that, it almost
[38:55] Speaker 2: makes what the point of what they're trying to say
[38:58] Speaker 2: less impactful to me, unless it's like passionate. And sometimes
[39:03] Speaker 2: I watch people use like really passion a lot of
[39:05] Speaker 2: passion with it, and I'm like, yeah, you have to
[39:07] Speaker 2: use that word for this. But if someone's just having
[39:10] Speaker 2: a conversation they're constantly using curse words, it like dumbs
[39:13] Speaker 2: down the conversation to.
[39:14] Speaker 3: Me, right, No, I understand what you're saying.
[39:16] Speaker 2: Okay, yeah I don't.
[39:18] Speaker 4: Anyways, gen Z is into right now.
[39:20] Speaker 1: One of the phrases they're saying a lot is charge
[39:23] Speaker 1: fah without the ending on it, because then they can't
[39:27] Speaker 1: they can't get in trouble for that at school whole work, And.
[39:32] Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, yeah, man, I feel bad for teachers.
[39:37] Speaker 2: Right yeah.
[39:38] Speaker 4: Between that and.
[39:41] Speaker 3: My new word is charge it and what is it?
[39:44] Speaker 2: What does that mean is it she has to look
[39:47] Speaker 2: it up.
[39:48] Speaker 3: If you have to look at it, doesn't feel like
[39:49] Speaker 3: it's naturally, It's gonna come naturally at some point. It
[39:52] Speaker 3: means go for it. Do it, take the risk? Charge it?
[39:55] Speaker 3: Charge it the game.
[39:57] Speaker 2: Where'd you hear about it or see about itland? Oh? Okay,
[40:01] Speaker 2: I see.
[40:03] Speaker 3: I keep saying charge it, charge it to the game.
[40:06] Speaker 3: I'm like, I love it. Charge it. So if you
[40:09] Speaker 3: hear me saying that, I don't really know what it
[40:11] Speaker 3: means yet, so I can't quite use it in my
[40:15] Speaker 3: daily vocabulary. But you better watch out once I clock it,
[40:19] Speaker 3: charge it.
[40:19] Speaker 2: Clock It sounds more natural from you clock it.
[40:22] Speaker 3: Yeah, well it's not the thing.
[40:25] Speaker 2: Yeah, charge it? Okay, but you're using a weird accent
[40:28] Speaker 2: with it.
[40:29] Speaker 3: Charge it well, because it's the love island UK. Oh,
[40:33] Speaker 3: so they have their like accent. Charge it, charge it
[40:37] Speaker 3: to the game.
[40:38] Speaker 2: What if you say it in your just how you speak?
[40:40] Speaker 3: Charge it? Oh that's good. It doesn't pack the punch.
[40:44] Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't see you using it for a
[40:47] Speaker 2: long time.
[40:47] Speaker 3: Charge it to the game. I wish you were watching
[40:51] Speaker 3: that too.
[40:52] Speaker 2: No, I'm only I'm only I'm limited to a certain
[40:56] Speaker 2: amount of shows I can watch it. One time I
[40:58] Speaker 2: speaking of, while I was in New York, I was
[41:00] Speaker 2: watching old episodes of Grey's Anatomy. Man, that show used
[41:05] Speaker 2: to be hit. It was incredible TV. It was the
[41:11] Speaker 2: way I was watching, the way it was shot, like
[41:13] Speaker 2: the camera angles, like the coloring. Everything just felt so
[41:18] Speaker 2: real raw. No, it's too vibrant now. The way it's
[41:22] Speaker 2: shot right now, so bright and four K and you're like, wait,
[41:26] Speaker 2: am I in the hospital with them? But man, it
[41:31] Speaker 2: is so good made me want to just start watching
[41:33] Speaker 2: it all over again.
[41:34] Speaker 3: You know what we should do that We never follow
[41:36] Speaker 3: up on coffee with Camilla.
[41:39] Speaker 2: Yeah, let's reach out and see yeah last time we saw.
[41:46] Speaker 2: Last time we saw Camilla, she said she wanted to
[41:48] Speaker 2: get dinner or coffee or.
[41:50] Speaker 3: Something, and I was like, when do you want it?
[41:52] Speaker 3: She's like after Thanksgiving? Yeah, well after the holiday. Yeah,
[41:59] Speaker 3: but I never know, Like, and I'm also guilty of
[42:02] Speaker 3: it too. I'm like, yeah, let's grab coffee, like if
[42:04] Speaker 3: you see someone or whatever. And then I'm like, oh,
[42:06] Speaker 3: and it comes down to it, I'm just like, I'm
[42:07] Speaker 3: just tired, yeah, but I mean it, like I do
[42:12] Speaker 3: want to get coffee with you, like I miss you,
[42:13] Speaker 3: and like, whenever I.
[42:15] Speaker 1: Think Camilla's tired, She's been through a lot. I mean,
[42:17] Speaker 1: she was in the hospital, she was unconscious for a
[42:20] Speaker 1: long time.
[42:21] Speaker 4: Her babies are going to be okay. But I bet
[42:23] Speaker 4: she's exhausted.
[42:24] Speaker 3: Maybe I give her a couple more yeah, I would, Yeah, yeah,
[42:27] Speaker 3: give her a few more weeks before we reach out.
[42:29] Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I'm going to reach out coffee
[42:33] Speaker 3: with Camilla. Yeah, you know what I started watching that
[42:36] Speaker 3: was really cute, actually his ponies.
[42:38] Speaker 2: Oh I heard. I heard it was cute. Yeah, but
[42:40] Speaker 2: I heard it takes a couple of episodes to get
[42:42] Speaker 2: into it.
[42:43] Speaker 3: First episode I was in h Well, yeah, I tend
[42:46] Speaker 3: to Robbie doesn't love it, so might it might be
[42:49] Speaker 3: a solo watch from now on.
[42:50] Speaker 2: Well, lots of solo endeavors for you. No, no, no,
[42:54] Speaker 2: just that. Oh I thought he was off Love Island.
[42:56] Speaker 2: He's off.
[42:56] Speaker 3: He's off, but he'll have it on, like he'll like,
[42:59] Speaker 3: he like, I can have it all here. He allows you
[43:01] Speaker 3: to watch, well he allows, but he also is watching
[43:04] Speaker 3: it and he's like, oh what happened when I miss.
[43:06] Speaker 2: Like oh yeah, yeah, it's hard to have a show
[43:08] Speaker 2: on and not care not show interest when something interesting.
[43:12] Speaker 3: Happens, I know, especially when we know all these people. Yeah,
[43:16] Speaker 3: back for around two and three and four.
[43:20] Speaker 2: Well that's it for today, you guys. We will be
[43:22] Speaker 2: back on Thursday with a Dear Bonya.
[43:25] Speaker 3: Oh, can I give you a tease for Thursdays share
[43:27] Speaker 3: the call with a question on ya.
[43:30] Speaker 1: It's about that Easton has put together using your vocals.
[43:35] Speaker 1: He's added music to it to make a jingle for
[43:37] Speaker 1: dear Banya. Well I can will debut it on Thursday.
[43:41] Speaker 2: We love we love you all. I hope you have
[43:46] Speaker 2: a wonderful week and we will be back on Thursday.
[43:50] Speaker 2: We love you, love you Bye.

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