# And the Answer is Yes

An episode of [Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1279955329), 18 Dec 2025, 38 min.

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The Mastermind Becca Tilley continues the story of her fairytale engagement to Hayley! How did the big moment go down?? Did she drop to one knee? COULD SHE KEEP THE SECRET?? All is revealed in this dramatic conclusion!! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beta Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
[0:04] Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
[0:11] Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.
[0:15] Speaker 1: It's that scrubbing in life with my scrubbing in wife stunning.
[0:20] Speaker 3: Yeah sounds good, it does. Yeah, it's fun. We are
[0:24] Speaker 3: back with the proposal story, my proposal to Haley. Can
[0:28] Speaker 3: I just tell you something?
[0:29] Speaker 1: Sure, I'm so happy that you did it before the
[0:35] Speaker 1: year ended. It just feels so nice that, like she
[0:39] Speaker 1: proposed in twenty twenty five, you proposed, Like I don't know,
[0:42] Speaker 1: there's something very like symmetrical about it. I don't know
[0:46] Speaker 1: how to explain, but like, I'm just so happy that
[0:48] Speaker 1: you did it before the year was over.
[0:51] Speaker 3: Thank you. Yeah, I too, am happy I did it
[0:54] Speaker 3: before the year was over.
[0:56] Speaker 2: It was really fun and I the really part is
[1:00] Speaker 2: that when we went to Japan five years ago and
[1:03] Speaker 2: we had the moment of staying at the Four Seasons,
[1:06] Speaker 2: I it was the same week.
[1:08] Speaker 3: That we were there.
[1:10] Speaker 2: So it was really cool because it was like we
[1:13] Speaker 2: kind of went back to that time and place.
[1:16] Speaker 3: And so I called Tanya.
[1:19] Speaker 2: It's the day before I FaceTime her, and she anytime
[1:23] Speaker 2: I FaceTime Tanya.
[1:24] Speaker 3: She always answers the same. She goes hey, because I'm
[1:29] Speaker 3: like and I'm like, what are you doing? She's like,
[1:31] Speaker 3: what are you doing? And I'm like, oh, I'm.
[1:34] Speaker 1: Just you know, we're just cooking dinner. We're in the kitchen,
[1:38] Speaker 1: like cooking some.
[1:40] Speaker 3: For those are Easton asked me to clarify this.
[1:42] Speaker 2: So I had talked about going to Japan on the
[1:44] Speaker 2: podcast because the plan was that I was gonna go
[1:47] Speaker 2: to London for my work trip and then I was
[1:49] Speaker 2: gonna leave and meet up with them on Sunday in Japan.
[1:52] Speaker 2: So I always talked about going to Japan, so that
[1:54] Speaker 2: I tried to make it feel like very no one
[1:57] Speaker 2: like suspicious of it, you.
[2:00] Speaker 3: Know, meaning Haley, Yeah, meaning like.
[2:03] Speaker 2: Haley wouldn't think anything of it, or like a lot
[2:06] Speaker 2: of the scrubbers were like, as soon as you said
[2:08] Speaker 2: you were going to Japan, I knew you were going
[2:09] Speaker 2: to propose.
[2:10] Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, everybody the whole thing. After you call.
[2:14] Speaker 2: So I call her, they're cooking in the kitchen and
[2:18] Speaker 2: they're like, what are you doing? And I was like, well,
[2:22] Speaker 2: did I say I'm in Japan. I'm in Japan.
[2:24] Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I am in Japan.
[2:27] Speaker 4: And I'm going to propose to Haley tomorrow.
[2:29] Speaker 1: I was like, what, like so nonchalant. Yeah, And then
[2:35] Speaker 1: I started putting the pieces together and I was like,
[2:39] Speaker 1: oh my gosh. For some reason, I didn't think you
[2:41] Speaker 1: had the ring yet. So I was like totally thrown
[2:44] Speaker 1: off that you like were proposing because I didn't think
[2:47] Speaker 1: you had the ring.
[2:48] Speaker 3: By the way, I didn't tell this in the last part.
[2:50] Speaker 3: I got the ring the day I left, so I
[2:52] Speaker 3: left it.
[2:52] Speaker 2: I left at midnight or like eleven thirty pm on
[2:56] Speaker 2: Tuesday night.
[2:57] Speaker 3: I got the ring on Tuesday afternoon.
[3:00] Speaker 2: She met me in the park, like I found a
[3:02] Speaker 2: dolor spot. So I didn't plan that. I did not
[3:07] Speaker 2: plan that. But no, she was like, it's not going
[3:09] Speaker 2: to be ready until December second. And I was like,
[3:12] Speaker 2: I leave December second, and she was like, i'll get
[3:14] Speaker 2: it to you.
[3:15] Speaker 3: What time do you leave?
[3:16] Speaker 2: And I was like at night. She's like, I'll get it.
[3:17] Speaker 2: I'll bring it to you in the afternoon. The reason
[3:21] Speaker 2: why I didn't have.
[3:22] Speaker 1: The ring till I love and I guess like, silly me,
[3:26] Speaker 1: I thought maybe you would like send me pictures of
[3:28] Speaker 1: the ring when you got it, Like I was so I.
[3:31] Speaker 4: Knew you were going to Japan, and I knew it.
[3:33] Speaker 1: Was like through this through SS Global to say global
[3:37] Speaker 1: SS Gold, and so in my mind I was just
[3:40] Speaker 1: like I just had ruled it out, like I just
[3:43] Speaker 1: didn't even think that you were going to be proposing. Yeah,
[3:46] Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh my gosh, her location,
[3:49] Speaker 1: she stopped sharing her location, like I'm such a dingling,
[3:52] Speaker 1: Like she couldn't have given me more signs as she
[3:55] Speaker 1: was proposing and dingling.
[3:57] Speaker 4: Tanya was like, did not put the pieces together.
[4:01] Speaker 3: Don't call yourself a dingling, but I felt very dingling.
[4:04] Speaker 2: But my so two days before I left, I was
[4:07] Speaker 2: over at Alley's and she straight up looked at me
[4:10] Speaker 2: and she goes, are you proposing in Japan? And that
[4:12] Speaker 2: was the first time where I was like I'm yeah.
[4:15] Speaker 2: I was just like, yeah, I am, because she looked
[4:17] Speaker 2: at me dead in my eyes and asked, and I
[4:19] Speaker 2: was I was thinking, I'm so grateful and I would
[4:23] Speaker 2: have told you if you like straight up asked me
[4:24] Speaker 2: to my face, I will add you.
[4:26] Speaker 1: I'm I'm happy you said that because I've been trying
[4:29] Speaker 1: to be like more respectful of boundaries. Yeah, and like
[4:33] Speaker 1: not press you and ask you these things.
[4:36] Speaker 3: Yeah, but I do think if you had thought you
[4:39] Speaker 3: would have asked me. I don't feel like that would
[4:40] Speaker 3: have been off the table if it had come to
[4:42] Speaker 3: your mind.
[4:43] Speaker 5: But he did it and really did not And so yeah,
[4:47] Speaker 5: I called and she was like wait what, And the
[4:51] Speaker 5: whole everything about it just happened so sleep seamlessly that
[4:54] Speaker 5: it went as according to plan as possible.
[4:58] Speaker 2: So when I called Tanya and Robie, it's like, oh
[5:00] Speaker 2: my gosh, what And he's like, Babe, how did you
[5:03] Speaker 2: not know? I was like, Robbie, don't make her feel worse.
[5:07] Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, ah, he was like, so pick
[5:11] Speaker 1: up on my own engagement, Like, so.
[5:12] Speaker 3: She's going to Japan.
[5:14] Speaker 2: She turned her location off, and you knew that, like
[5:17] Speaker 2: there was a chance she would at some point was
[5:20] Speaker 2: proposing to Haley.
[5:21] Speaker 1: I just assumed that you would tell me, And I
[5:24] Speaker 1: know you said you weren't, but I just really thought.
[5:28] Speaker 3: You would, silly me, literally.
[5:33] Speaker 1: So naive, Like I'm like, also with my own proposal,
[5:36] Speaker 1: there were so many things I should have picked up
[5:38] Speaker 1: on that I just didn't.
[5:40] Speaker 3: Robbie did a really good job though how he said
[5:42] Speaker 3: it up.
[5:44] Speaker 1: Though in hindsight, I should have really like picked up
[5:46] Speaker 1: on some p's and q's.
[5:48] Speaker 3: But it's fine, y'all go to the four seat, like
[5:51] Speaker 3: y'all do I mean you go to the mayboard and
[5:53] Speaker 3: did your massage all the time. Like what he did
[5:55] Speaker 3: was very like casual and calm. Yeah, did not know
[6:01] Speaker 3: in hindsight, there were some clues.
[6:02] Speaker 6: Okay, proposing is such a special part of like a
[6:05] Speaker 6: love story. But like it's so weird to like enter
[6:08] Speaker 6: this new phase of your life by like committing the
[6:11] Speaker 6: most wise yeah secrets you've ever had.
[6:14] Speaker 3: Truly, truly, it was.
[6:15] Speaker 6: Like so uncomfortable for me when I did.
[6:19] Speaker 2: It sucks, it's so true, and I was always I
[6:23] Speaker 2: was kind of like, well, we've already committed.
[6:25] Speaker 3: We're pretty locked in, you know, so I'm just putting
[6:27] Speaker 3: the dead bowl on.
[6:28] Speaker 4: Yeah exactly.
[6:30] Speaker 3: She knows it's all in good fun.
[6:32] Speaker 1: So Becca facetimes us and gives us like the thrill
[6:35] Speaker 1: of a lifetime, like we were like riding high after that,
[6:38] Speaker 1: like and then I was just like counting down the minutes,
[6:40] Speaker 1: like I was like, I don't know what time it
[6:41] Speaker 1: is there. I know she's doing it tomorrow, but like
[6:43] Speaker 1: is that tomorrow tomorrow?
[6:44] Speaker 4: For us?
[6:44] Speaker 2: Like I just yeah, the timing was weird because I
[6:47] Speaker 2: was like a full day ahead.
[6:49] Speaker 3: Yeah. So then I called.
[6:53] Speaker 2: I had already called her parents and her sister and
[6:55] Speaker 2: her brother and then and by the way, I didn't
[6:58] Speaker 2: tell marlaw is with it and doing all.
[7:01] Speaker 4: She's smart though, that would be the worst person to tell.
[7:04] Speaker 2: Well, I just thought, I don't want her to feel
[7:07] Speaker 2: the burden of having to like lie, lie and keep
[7:10] Speaker 2: the secret, and so I just was like, I'm not
[7:12] Speaker 2: going to tell her.
[7:12] Speaker 3: She'll be surprised too.
[7:15] Speaker 2: So the the morning of I pick my outfit and
[7:23] Speaker 2: I the photographer, and so that's it.
[7:26] Speaker 4: You just called her parents and me and that was it.
[7:28] Speaker 4: I called there's more people.
[7:30] Speaker 2: I called Taylor Banks, and I called Laura, and I
[7:34] Speaker 2: called my sister Henk and Caroline and my mom.
[7:40] Speaker 3: Oh wow, so like a lengthy list. Yeah. I just
[7:43] Speaker 3: called to be like this is happening. Yeah, okay, so
[7:47] Speaker 3: honored to be on the top of that. Yeah, you
[7:49] Speaker 3: were the first.
[7:50] Speaker 7: Thank you.
[7:50] Speaker 3: Yeah, I think after heink it's nine. Placement doesn't matter.
[7:55] Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, it was more about timing of
[7:56] Speaker 2: when you were going to answer, et cetera. Yeah, So
[7:59] Speaker 2: the plan was that the photographer and videographer. Haley thought
[8:03] Speaker 2: she was going to a tea ceremony that morning.
[8:06] Speaker 3: So my idea was that the photographer morning time you
[8:09] Speaker 3: did it was like eleven. Oh.
[8:12] Speaker 2: She was like, or the photographer and videographer came to
[8:15] Speaker 2: my room, and my plan was they were gonna go
[8:18] Speaker 2: with the ico who worked for the four Seasons, and
[8:21] Speaker 2: she was she was gonna be with them and tell Haley, hey,
[8:25] Speaker 2: we have this photographer and videographer. They're gonna basically capture
[8:28] Speaker 2: your content for you to use to post for the
[8:30] Speaker 2: hotel in ess Gold.
[8:32] Speaker 3: So I'm smart because I.
[8:34] Speaker 2: Was like, there it was like three people with all
[8:36] Speaker 2: this gear, Like, she's gonna be suspicious. So my plan
[8:41] Speaker 2: there was a little basically you can write these wishes
[8:46] Speaker 2: and you go up and you hang them and it's
[8:48] Speaker 2: like a little like shrine thing, and it was up
[8:51] Speaker 2: the stairs in the garden. So I went and that's
[8:53] Speaker 2: where I was waiting. So she was walking along the
[8:55] Speaker 2: path and they were like, we're we're gonna stop and
[8:58] Speaker 2: have her take photos at this spot and you're gonna
[9:00] Speaker 2: walk down and you're gonna like kind of walk up
[9:04] Speaker 2: behind her and just tap her on the shoulder surprise her.
[9:06] Speaker 2: So she's taking photos and she's like serving, like she
[9:11] Speaker 2: is posing.
[9:12] Speaker 3: For her life.
[9:13] Speaker 2: And I walk up behind her and she said that
[9:15] Speaker 2: she was like, oh my god, someone's in my shot,
[9:18] Speaker 2: Like they'll photoshop them out.
[9:20] Speaker 3: I'm a professional. So she like stayed just like posing,
[9:24] Speaker 3: locked in and then I tapped her on the shoulder
[9:27] Speaker 3: and she was like, oh my gosh. She was like,
[9:31] Speaker 3: are you kidding? And she was like, I have my
[9:33] Speaker 3: glasses on. She was gonna put her contacts in, and
[9:37] Speaker 3: then they decided.
[9:38] Speaker 2: She had these like cooler glasses that like were an
[9:41] Speaker 2: accessory for her outfits.
[9:42] Speaker 3: So she was like, let me take my glasses off.
[9:46] Speaker 3: And so.
[9:47] Speaker 2: I will say it proposing in front of people, because
[9:51] Speaker 2: you know, I had the photographer, videographer, another person there.
[9:55] Speaker 3: I go from the hotel and Marla while I was
[9:58] Speaker 3: like trying to say myself.
[10:02] Speaker 2: And Hailey's like totally caught off guard, like she can't
[10:05] Speaker 2: believe it.
[10:06] Speaker 3: So we're both like trying to be present and we're
[10:08] Speaker 3: both crying. And then I.
[10:10] Speaker 2: Got on a knee, which the whole getting on a
[10:12] Speaker 2: knee conversation is so funny because back in twenty twenty,
[10:17] Speaker 2: we were with Laura, and Hailey made the comment about like,
[10:21] Speaker 2: oh yeah, like when Becka gets on a knee, and
[10:24] Speaker 2: I was like, I'm not getting on a knee.
[10:26] Speaker 3: Why would I get on a knee? Like I had
[10:28] Speaker 3: such a stereotypical role of like who was supposed to
[10:32] Speaker 3: be on a knee?
[10:32] Speaker 2: Right, And so I was like I never pictured myself
[10:36] Speaker 2: getting on a knee.
[10:37] Speaker 1: Do you go down on a knee? Like in reality?
[10:40] Speaker 1: Like what's the point of it should be?
[10:43] Speaker 3: Like like present? I don't know, you know what I mean?
[10:48] Speaker 3: I don't know. Yeah, I don't know either.
[10:50] Speaker 6: Really, it's it comes from medieval times when knights would
[10:53] Speaker 6: kneel to pledge loyalty to lords and ladies.
[10:58] Speaker 3: And ladies to ladies.
[10:59] Speaker 1: Yeah, so I I remember when I was like, you
[11:04] Speaker 1: were not gonna get on a knee?
[11:05] Speaker 3: Well I was.
[11:06] Speaker 2: That was the last conversation we had about it, and
[11:09] Speaker 2: she was like what.
[11:10] Speaker 3: Like I always expected when I got proposed to that
[11:12] Speaker 3: someone would be on the knee. And I'm like, is
[11:14] Speaker 3: there a way we can both be sitting down or something?
[11:19] Speaker 3: But I will say I felt like I loved getting
[11:23] Speaker 3: down on a knee. You did. It just felt powerful.
[11:26] Speaker 2: I felt very like empowered to do it, and like,
[11:29] Speaker 2: also it was something that was really important to her,
[11:31] Speaker 2: so it felt very important to.
[11:33] Speaker 3: Me, right, and so I proposed and.
[11:38] Speaker 2: It was hilarious, like it was just so funny, and
[11:40] Speaker 2: so then we hug and everything, and Marla runs over
[11:44] Speaker 2: because I.
[11:44] Speaker 4: Wish someone had a video on Marla's face.
[11:46] Speaker 2: No, I was weirdly focused on her face because I
[11:51] Speaker 2: was watching her and she she really played it cool,
[11:53] Speaker 2: but I could see her being like like, oh my gosh.
[11:59] Speaker 3: And they all had to keep their cool.
[12:01] Speaker 4: She had to keep her cool because she would have
[12:02] Speaker 4: given it away.
[12:03] Speaker 3: Yeah, by the way, I didn't. I forgot to talk
[12:05] Speaker 3: about this.
[12:05] Speaker 2: But the whole time leading up to this, when Haley
[12:08] Speaker 2: was facetiming me, I was pretending that I was sick.
[12:10] Speaker 2: She thought I had the flu in London, like she
[12:12] Speaker 2: was like, Becca's so sick, because I thought it was
[12:15] Speaker 2: weird that I wouldn't be out and about with people.
[12:18] Speaker 2: When she facetiming, oh, like every time, You're just like
[12:20] Speaker 2: I'm all the time in the room. Yeah, so it
[12:23] Speaker 2: was like, what would be a reason I'd be in
[12:24] Speaker 2: my room? And I was like, oh, because I'm jet
[12:26] Speaker 2: laden and sick. So at one point, I was like, Okay,
[12:28] Speaker 2: they're sending a doctor to me, because in my mind
[12:31] Speaker 2: I had to get I was like, I don't know
[12:33] Speaker 2: how I'm going to get on another flight to Japan
[12:36] Speaker 2: if I'm sick. So the whole time she's thinking, I'm like,
[12:39] Speaker 2: maybe not going to make it to Japan. So when
[12:42] Speaker 2: she saw me, it was not only surprising to see me,
[12:44] Speaker 2: but she was like, you're not sick. Yeah, So then
[12:47] Speaker 2: she goes, she goes, but you ran into someone at
[12:51] Speaker 2: the airport. And that was the last minute, desperate attempt
[12:55] Speaker 2: for me to prove that I was going on that trip,
[12:58] Speaker 2: and it worked.
[12:59] Speaker 3: It was like one thing where she was like that
[13:01] Speaker 3: she held on to that.
[13:02] Speaker 2: She was like, but she ran into someone, Like she
[13:04] Speaker 2: said the day before, she was at breakfast and they
[13:07] Speaker 2: were like looking at the garden, which is where I proposed,
[13:10] Speaker 2: and she was like, I can't believe Becca is not
[13:12] Speaker 2: going to propose here, like this is my dream and
[13:15] Speaker 2: she's gonna miss the opportunity to do it, and and
[13:19] Speaker 2: Marla was like, you don't think maybe she's still gonna
[13:21] Speaker 2: do it when she comes and she goes, I don't know,
[13:25] Speaker 2: but I do know She's.
[13:26] Speaker 3: Like in London because she ran into someone there. Damn smart,
[13:31] Speaker 3: I know.
[13:32] Speaker 2: I know, and that was just the last ditch attempt,
[13:35] Speaker 2: and so she was like.
[13:37] Speaker 3: And you're not sick. And so the whole trip she
[13:40] Speaker 3: was thinking, she was like, wait, so did s nim
[13:42] Speaker 3: plan And I'm.
[13:43] Speaker 2: Like, I am sin, I yeah, the sponsorship, right, You're like,
[13:47] Speaker 2: here's my credit cardinal credit.
[13:49] Speaker 8: Card, she said the night before the first night they
[13:52] Speaker 8: got to the hotel, because I got there on Thursday
[13:55] Speaker 8: and they got there Friday morning, and then I proposed
[13:57] Speaker 8: on Saturday because I don't want to propose to her,
[13:59] Speaker 8: like right, and she got in and feel jet lagged
[14:02] Speaker 8: and stuff.
[14:02] Speaker 2: So I let her have a day really thinking it's
[14:05] Speaker 2: not gonna happen. And that night they went to dinner
[14:07] Speaker 2: at the hotel and they're like, we got to meet
[14:09] Speaker 2: the per diem that the hotel gave us, and they
[14:11] Speaker 2: were just like, should we order the tenderloin.
[14:17] Speaker 4: It's so freaking funny.
[14:19] Speaker 3: It's so funny.
[14:20] Speaker 2: I wish she was here to tell it, because, like her,
[14:22] Speaker 2: we should have her come back on and tell her perspective.
[14:25] Speaker 2: She actually did get sick at the end of the trip,
[14:27] Speaker 2: so she's at homesick.
[14:29] Speaker 3: No, that's a bummer. So it was so much fun.
[14:34] Speaker 1: I was like, there was a point when you had
[14:37] Speaker 1: called and told us and then maybe yeah, maybe was
[14:40] Speaker 1: like twenty four hours or maybe like a little bit more.
[14:42] Speaker 1: And I see Haley like posting ss goal, thank you this,
[14:47] Speaker 1: and I'm like, I like Robbie's like sending the story
[14:51] Speaker 1: to me too, like we're sending it back and forth
[14:52] Speaker 1: to each other, like oh.
[14:53] Speaker 2: Hell, Like it was so good and it was so
[14:58] Speaker 2: amazing because Sinnim would be like, they're wanting to get
[15:01] Speaker 2: her lawyer involved, like to sign the contracts, and I
[15:03] Speaker 2: was like, just do it.
[15:05] Speaker 3: It'll all be voided.
[15:06] Speaker 2: Wait what, like just for because it was a brand,
[15:09] Speaker 2: like it was a collaboration Deale so like her team
[15:12] Speaker 2: and like her lay like just making sure like contracts
[15:14] Speaker 2: and everything were signed.
[15:16] Speaker 3: And so Sinema would be like, they're asking for like
[15:18] Speaker 3: this document and I'm like, I don't know what that is.
[15:20] Speaker 3: Let me ask d Like it was O kao, why
[15:23] Speaker 3: don't you ask Robbie? Oh because you didn't tell us?
[15:26] Speaker 3: Yeah no. So it was so much fun and it
[15:32] Speaker 3: was such a success. She was so so.
[15:34] Speaker 1: Like nerve wrecking for cinem too, like she's like signing
[15:37] Speaker 1: all these like leal documents when it's all a rude
[15:39] Speaker 1: it's so scary, literally total I'm not kidding, like cinem
[15:45] Speaker 1: and honestly having someone do.
[15:48] Speaker 3: The travel like she really planned.
[15:50] Speaker 2: She planned the we did like a kimono experience, We
[15:53] Speaker 2: did the tea ceremony, she did the day trip for us,
[15:56] Speaker 2: and like all the travel, it was next level.
[15:59] Speaker 1: No, that's like the whole thing too, is like when
[16:02] Speaker 1: you when we worked with her, it's like they think
[16:04] Speaker 1: of everything, so it's like you don't have to you
[16:06] Speaker 1: just don't have to think, and like there's so much
[16:10] Speaker 1: freedom in that, like it just takes the like travel
[16:13] Speaker 1: anxiety away.
[16:14] Speaker 3: Yes, And she was like we in our room.
[16:17] Speaker 2: She had framed photos of us set up like it
[16:20] Speaker 2: was just everything was so thoughtful. And the girls from
[16:23] Speaker 2: four Seasons, like the IC sent me room service the
[16:27] Speaker 2: night before and she had chat gpted what I like
[16:30] Speaker 2: to eat and she was like I saw that you
[16:31] Speaker 2: like junk food, so she sent me like French fries
[16:33] Speaker 2: and chocolates and like sorry with the sweetest letter that
[16:37] Speaker 2: was like you've got this, like you are amazing, Like
[16:41] Speaker 2: good luck tomorrow.
[16:42] Speaker 3: It was just the most thoughtful, perfect experience.
[16:46] Speaker 2: And I had a moment like the night before where
[16:49] Speaker 2: I was just like I was feeling very grateful for
[16:53] Speaker 2: being able to do it that and like being able
[16:55] Speaker 2: to plan such a like elaborate proposal and travel and
[16:59] Speaker 2: all that stuff. I had this moment of like heavy
[17:02] Speaker 2: gratitude where I was like, this is so freaking cool
[17:06] Speaker 2: that I get to do this, and like that I
[17:09] Speaker 2: had the support and help from Sinnam and like the
[17:13] Speaker 2: girls that forced it. Like it was just I was
[17:15] Speaker 2: just very overwhelmed of like, oh my gosh, I'm so
[17:17] Speaker 2: grateful I get to do this for Haley.
[17:21] Speaker 3: And it was so fun and worth it.
[17:23] Speaker 1: And wait, so you like left his hanging and you
[17:25] Speaker 1: propose you put the ring on her?
[17:27] Speaker 3: And she said yes, I think going into it. Obviously,
[17:33] Speaker 3: if I had proposed first, I know that she would
[17:35] Speaker 3: have said yes. But it really took off like the
[17:37] Speaker 3: nerves of you know.
[17:41] Speaker 4: What, No, even if you had gone first, it would
[17:44] Speaker 4: be a nervous she was a second.
[17:47] Speaker 2: It just like really elimit, like I got to just
[17:50] Speaker 2: fully be excited and giddy about the surprise.
[17:52] Speaker 1: You know, So you propose and then I want to know,
[17:56] Speaker 1: like what you did after you with Hailey and Marla,
[18:00] Speaker 1: But we to talk about.
[18:01] Speaker 3: That when we come back.
[18:02] Speaker 9: Nice, We're back with some breaking.
[18:22] Speaker 2: News, Becca Well, breaking news in terms of a very
[18:26] Speaker 2: special guest who was willing to hop on zoom for
[18:29] Speaker 2: us to talk and share her experience of the story.
[18:32] Speaker 3: Please welcome my fiance two time. Do you want winning fiance?
[18:37] Speaker 7: Like, Hi, guys, I'm very long sick.
[18:43] Speaker 3: Yeah she got she went down.
[18:44] Speaker 4: Heyers, We're so sorry that you're sick.
[18:49] Speaker 3: Yeah, she got to ring Anna virus.
[18:53] Speaker 1: Ana virus such as life I know highs and lows.
[19:00] Speaker 3: Babe.
[19:00] Speaker 2: I basically told the story of like me planning it
[19:03] Speaker 2: and what happened, and we had just gotten to.
[19:05] Speaker 3: The proposal part. But I feel like we should go back.
[19:07] Speaker 2: And kind of talk about your experience of the all
[19:11] Speaker 2: the planning and what you thought going into it and everything.
[19:15] Speaker 7: Well, did you tell them like all the things like
[19:18] Speaker 7: that convinced me that you weren't going to propose? Yeah?
[19:22] Speaker 2: Well, I told him that I said I wanted to
[19:24] Speaker 2: do it myself and plan my own proposal, not on
[19:27] Speaker 2: like a sponsored trip. And then I told him that
[19:30] Speaker 2: I had gardened and you had straight up asked me
[19:33] Speaker 2: like did you do this?
[19:34] Speaker 3: And ID lock it?
[19:36] Speaker 7: I got so mass manipulated.
[19:38] Speaker 6: It was crazy.
[19:40] Speaker 4: Honestly, it is so wild.
[19:42] Speaker 10: The amount still confused. How I'm sick and Becca's not
[19:46] Speaker 10: sick in London. Everything's confusing for me right now. I'm
[19:52] Speaker 10: an inception.
[19:55] Speaker 2: Yeah, so I told him about running into someone at
[19:58] Speaker 2: the airport.
[20:00] Speaker 3: Yeah that.
[20:01] Speaker 10: So I was telling Mecca, like so the night before,
[20:05] Speaker 10: the day before, like I'm like in Japan and I'm
[20:08] Speaker 10: with my best friend Marla, and I'm like, oh, if
[20:11] Speaker 10: only Becca was here, this is like my dream hotel.
[20:14] Speaker 10: And I like woke up and had my dream breakfast
[20:18] Speaker 10: buffet and I was just like, oh my god, if
[20:21] Speaker 10: only I was getting proposed to here, like what I
[20:23] Speaker 10: missed opportunity. And then I got dinner with Marla and
[20:27] Speaker 10: like I had negotiated a per diem, which was like
[20:30] Speaker 10: not real, and so Marlon I went to dinner and
[20:33] Speaker 10: I was like charging the car and we like had
[20:35] Speaker 10: steaks and lobsters who were just like it's free and
[20:42] Speaker 10: I'm looking outside the garden and the lights are all pretty,
[20:46] Speaker 10: and I was like I didn't cry to Marla, but
[20:49] Speaker 10: I was definitely like convincing myself that I wasn't going
[20:54] Speaker 10: to be upset that I wasn't getting proposed to at
[20:57] Speaker 10: the Japanese ID.
[20:58] Speaker 3: I know that feeling. It's really sad.
[21:02] Speaker 1: I've heard you know that, Yeah, spoiler alert didn't work
[21:06] Speaker 1: out so well for me.
[21:12] Speaker 11: But so yeah, so like it was so surreal because
[21:15] Speaker 11: I was just so sad about it.
[21:17] Speaker 7: Then I was like, whatever, it's fine, like it doesn't matter.
[21:21] Speaker 10: And then and then so Maril and I were getting
[21:23] Speaker 10: ready for the tea ceremony and we're She was being
[21:27] Speaker 10: like mart had no idea, but for some reason, she
[21:30] Speaker 10: felt inspired to curl my hair, so she like did
[21:33] Speaker 10: my hair.
[21:34] Speaker 7: And then I.
[21:37] Speaker 10: Know, and I was like rushing, and I was like,
[21:40] Speaker 10: do I put my glasses on?
[21:41] Speaker 7: Joy not?
[21:42] Speaker 10: I put my contacts in And then and then Marla
[21:44] Speaker 10: was like, it looks cuter with your glasses. So I
[21:46] Speaker 10: put on like my big prescription glasses. Run out and
[21:49] Speaker 10: I see the videoographer and photographer and they're like, you know,
[21:54] Speaker 10: we're going to capture this experience for you.
[21:57] Speaker 7: And I'm thinking, like, gosh, Japan is so official. They
[22:00] Speaker 7: just get it, like they've hired a team, they know
[22:03] Speaker 7: what it's like.
[22:04] Speaker 10: It's so stressful to get content and they just get it,
[22:08] Speaker 10: and so I think it's.
[22:09] Speaker 4: The same thing, though, like that seems believable.
[22:11] Speaker 3: I think twice, Yeah, I wouldn't.
[22:13] Speaker 7: And so I walk in the garden.
[22:15] Speaker 10: And you know, and then obviously Becca surprised us and
[22:20] Speaker 10: I had my big chunky glasses on and I was like,
[22:22] Speaker 10: oh my god, I had con like I was so
[22:25] Speaker 10: stressed and I had contacts in but then I had
[22:27] Speaker 10: put my glasses on. Anyways, it was I was so
[22:30] Speaker 10: shocked and I looked at her and I was like,
[22:33] Speaker 10: how are you not sick in London? And like throughout
[22:36] Speaker 10: the whole trip, I kept I kept being confused, like
[22:41] Speaker 10: I kept being like, wait, all of this was fake?
[22:44] Speaker 10: And I remember at that dinner with Marla, I had
[22:47] Speaker 10: to asked Marla. I was like, do you think Becca
[22:49] Speaker 10: would be crazy enough to fake being sick and being
[22:52] Speaker 10: in London? And like, do you think she's gonna because
[22:54] Speaker 10: I thought she if she was faking it, I thought
[22:56] Speaker 10: she was going to maybe propose to me at Ina,
[22:59] Speaker 10: like because this this like really cute fishing village I
[23:01] Speaker 10: wanted to go to. And then I just kept thinking
[23:04] Speaker 10: about that girl that Becca ran into at the airport,
[23:07] Speaker 10: and I was just like, it's not fake, Like she
[23:11] Speaker 10: ran into a girl at the airport and she forgot
[23:15] Speaker 10: her name and it was uncomfortable for her, and like
[23:19] Speaker 10: that was real.
[23:22] Speaker 7: That was saying, I have so much mind perspective.
[23:25] Speaker 3: I have so much pride in that moment because I
[23:28] Speaker 3: thought it was like a last minute decision, one before
[23:32] Speaker 3: I get on the flight, and I'm just gonna try
[23:34] Speaker 3: and seal the deal to make sure she knows him
[23:37] Speaker 3: on this trip with Starbucks.
[23:39] Speaker 1: I don't know get when she uh like dis looked dislocated,
[23:43] Speaker 1: just disarmed her find my.
[23:46] Speaker 10: So you know what, she did a reverse psychology on
[23:49] Speaker 10: me again and again. You guys, I don't know if
[23:52] Speaker 10: I should be proud or terrified.
[23:53] Speaker 1: Right, It's like a combo bol like I'm locked in
[23:57] Speaker 1: no matter, you know, good or bad.
[24:01] Speaker 10: And but she so the location got turned off. I immediately
[24:06] Speaker 10: got suspicious. I was like, this girl is about to
[24:08] Speaker 10: surprise me. And then she told me that you had
[24:13] Speaker 10: texted her panicked and I was like, oh, so what
[24:16] Speaker 10: happened to everyone? So that kind of like disarmed me
[24:19] Speaker 10: a little bit. And then she was like, can you
[24:22] Speaker 10: go on my computer and try to fix it, and
[24:24] Speaker 10: so when she told me to go on her computer,
[24:28] Speaker 10: it immediately made me feel like I wasn't suspicious because
[24:34] Speaker 10: and then, you know what's so crazy, this reverse psychology.
[24:37] Speaker 10: She told me to go on her computer, so then
[24:40] Speaker 10: I didn't. I couldn't find her computer, and I was like,
[24:42] Speaker 10: you know what, whatever, and I just left it. Yeah,
[24:46] Speaker 10: Like that's how trusting I was. I just was like,
[24:49] Speaker 10: she told me to go on the computer, so she's
[24:50] Speaker 10: got nothing to hide like that, that's crazy.
[24:54] Speaker 6: The Scorpio final boss, Yeah scared.
[24:58] Speaker 3: I'm scared too. Yeah, you all should be glad you're
[25:02] Speaker 3: on my good side.
[25:04] Speaker 9: Stay there.
[25:07] Speaker 10: But I know, the most amazing thing ever was the
[25:10] Speaker 10: most amazing surprise because your.
[25:11] Speaker 4: Dreaming proposal, Like you literally got your dream.
[25:15] Speaker 10: I like was able to eat all my favorite snacks, PM,
[25:19] Speaker 10: my favorite food. I was in Kyoto like it just like, oh,
[25:23] Speaker 10: I got it proposed to.
[25:25] Speaker 7: It was so cool. Yeah, it was so fun.
[25:28] Speaker 3: It was so fun.
[25:29] Speaker 2: And the kimono experience was actually not a real thing,
[25:32] Speaker 2: but Haley kept talking about it.
[25:34] Speaker 3: So I told Snim, I.
[25:35] Speaker 4: Was like, can you actually find I just want.
[25:37] Speaker 2: A kimono experience for real, because she's really excited about
[25:40] Speaker 2: that and it ended up being so cute.
[25:43] Speaker 4: It was the totos you guys say, yeah, okay, yeah.
[25:46] Speaker 6: Seeing you in the grocery store with did you get
[25:49] Speaker 6: to keep those?
[25:50] Speaker 3: No? I wish, but it's a.
[25:51] Speaker 10: Whole like surprisingly come comfortable, like the socks and the
[25:56] Speaker 10: everything that was pretty cozy.
[25:58] Speaker 7: Yeah.
[25:59] Speaker 3: Theys like they had a team like come.
[26:03] Speaker 2: We thought we were going somewhere to do the experience
[26:05] Speaker 2: and we got that. We went to the lobby and
[26:07] Speaker 2: I was like, Hi, we were doing the kimono experience
[26:10] Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, yeah, the tea they're here.
[26:12] Speaker 3: And it was like a team of.
[26:13] Speaker 2: These women with suitcases and they're like, we're doing it
[26:16] Speaker 2: in your room. So we all went up to the
[26:17] Speaker 2: room and they like it was so fun.
[26:20] Speaker 7: Yeah, they did our hair, were getting ready for the dala.
[26:24] Speaker 3: It was so cute. It was so cute.
[26:26] Speaker 1: I want to say, those photos are iconic, Like you
[26:28] Speaker 1: need to use that at Do you guys send holiday cards?
[26:30] Speaker 3: I don't know if we're doing that. I got to
[26:32] Speaker 3: decorate for Christmas. Maybe use those next year next year
[26:35] Speaker 3: because they're so good.
[26:38] Speaker 10: We haven't done holiday cards yet, but we were going
[26:42] Speaker 10: to eventually.
[26:43] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[26:43] Speaker 2: Yeah, so we had like a full trip after and
[26:47] Speaker 2: leading up to it, Hailey had been really stressed about
[26:49] Speaker 2: planning the trip and because because she thought, Okay, Becka's proposing,
[26:55] Speaker 2: she's going to plan the whole trip. And so I
[26:57] Speaker 2: told Sanim that she said that, like Haley made a
[26:59] Speaker 2: cam about that, and and she was like, let her
[27:03] Speaker 2: plan it, Like don't even act like you're like gonna
[27:06] Speaker 2: help with anything. Because Haley was trying to figure out
[27:08] Speaker 2: where are we gonna go for our day trips, where
[27:10] Speaker 2: are we gonna eat? And I just kind of like
[27:12] Speaker 2: let her take it on.
[27:13] Speaker 1: Oh, like meaning when you got there, no before because because.
[27:18] Speaker 10: I had a Google doc, like I did a full itinerary,
[27:21] Speaker 10: like every day was planned out.
[27:24] Speaker 2: Because she always plans everything, and so if I took
[27:28] Speaker 2: over and started planning stuff, she would be.
[27:30] Speaker 3: Like why is she doing this right?
[27:32] Speaker 7: Right?
[27:32] Speaker 2: So she was like stressed, and I was like, babe,
[27:35] Speaker 2: it's fine. We're just gonna go, you know, fly by
[27:38] Speaker 2: the seat of our pants.
[27:40] Speaker 3: Oh I was like why are you?
[27:42] Speaker 10: I literally like we didn't get in a fight, but
[27:44] Speaker 10: I was like, babe, no one seems to be stepping
[27:47] Speaker 10: up here, and like I'm planning everything and like like
[27:51] Speaker 10: Japan is like it's not going to like Santa Barbara,
[27:55] Speaker 10: you know, like it's we gotta like make sure we're
[27:58] Speaker 10: going to all the good spots.
[28:01] Speaker 3: Fun.
[28:01] Speaker 2: So yeah, we had the best time, and I I
[28:05] Speaker 2: proposed and a lot of I know, a lot of
[28:07] Speaker 2: people were like, I don't get it. What's the point
[28:09] Speaker 2: You already like she proposed to you and you were engaged.
[28:12] Speaker 2: But I really think everyone should get a proposal.
[28:15] Speaker 3: I really want to see what.
[28:16] Speaker 10: Is the point I've always dreamed of being proposed to.
[28:19] Speaker 7: No, why is that being taken away? Because I proposed to.
[28:22] Speaker 6: You the same I would love to be proposed to.
[28:25] Speaker 3: I literally, like I feel.
[28:27] Speaker 1: So that's like my only regret from like my wedding
[28:30] Speaker 1: era of life, season of life was that I didn't
[28:34] Speaker 1: I mean at this point, like.
[28:37] Speaker 3: I mean, it would be shocking. Not now, it wouldn't
[28:43] Speaker 3: be shocking. He would to see it coming, he would
[28:44] Speaker 3: not see it coming.
[28:46] Speaker 1: But it's so true, like why doesn't each party in
[28:49] Speaker 1: the partnership get to have that special moment, Like it
[28:52] Speaker 1: is so special.
[28:54] Speaker 2: And it was so fun getting to do it, Like
[28:57] Speaker 2: it was so fun being on the other side, And
[29:00] Speaker 2: it was funny because.
[29:01] Speaker 3: When Haley proposed to me.
[29:03] Speaker 2: She was like, you were so caught off guard that
[29:05] Speaker 2: the look on your face was just like confused the
[29:07] Speaker 2: whole time.
[29:08] Speaker 3: And then she did the same thing when I'm surprised.
[29:12] Speaker 10: Yes, I got so like like I think, I said, like,
[29:19] Speaker 10: And the answer is yet, I got like so.
[29:24] Speaker 7: Like, I don't even know.
[29:43] Speaker 1: Also, I just want to talk about the ring for
[29:45] Speaker 1: a second, because it is gorgeous, Like, you did such
[29:49] Speaker 1: a good job.
[29:49] Speaker 3: I've never seen a ring like that.
[29:51] Speaker 2: Well, I don't think I haven't talked about this on
[29:53] Speaker 2: the podcast, but I did I talk about this on
[29:57] Speaker 2: the podcast. Surprising her with the ring shopping, I don't
[30:01] Speaker 2: think so. I think I told.
[30:02] Speaker 3: You, Oh, just me personally.
[30:04] Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think many people knew about the ring shopping.
[30:08] Speaker 3: But I surprised Hailey.
[30:11] Speaker 2: By going on to try rings. She thought we were
[30:13] Speaker 2: going She thought we were going to the spa, and
[30:15] Speaker 2: I had the jeweler there with like rings for her
[30:18] Speaker 2: to try on. So I it was hard because she
[30:22] Speaker 2: was able to surprise me with everything, and I kind
[30:25] Speaker 2: of had to like be sneaky and figure out ways
[30:27] Speaker 2: to surprise her and still make it special.
[30:29] Speaker 3: But she was so specific about what kind of ring
[30:31] Speaker 3: she wanted because she didn't really know what she liked that.
[30:36] Speaker 3: I was like, we're gonna have to do this together. Yeah,
[30:39] Speaker 3: but yeah, baby, you can tell them about your ring.
[30:42] Speaker 7: Yeah.
[30:42] Speaker 10: I mean, I just again, like I didn't growing up.
[30:46] Speaker 10: I didn't know that I was ever going to get
[30:48] Speaker 10: like proposed to her get married. So I just had
[30:51] Speaker 10: no idea what kind of ring I dreamt of, and
[30:56] Speaker 10: or like what kind of ring would look good on
[30:58] Speaker 10: my hand? Right, And so it was so cool to
[31:01] Speaker 10: get to like try on different shapes and like certain
[31:05] Speaker 10: shapes like compliment in my hand more than others or like,
[31:09] Speaker 10: and so the ring that I have, if you were
[31:11] Speaker 10: to be like what.
[31:13] Speaker 7: I would, I don't.
[31:14] Speaker 10: I couldn't tell you, like what ring I would have
[31:17] Speaker 10: picked out. Like I'm staring at.
[31:18] Speaker 7: It right now.
[31:19] Speaker 10: I'm sick on the couch and I'm just like, Wow,
[31:21] Speaker 10: I can't believe I have like this square diamond on
[31:25] Speaker 10: its side and this is like the one you know,
[31:29] Speaker 10: it's so cool, but it soaks my hands, Like I
[31:33] Speaker 10: don't have the skinniest, like longest finger. So I wanted
[31:36] Speaker 10: a ring that was gonna just be complimentary. So I'm
[31:40] Speaker 10: obsessed with it. I love it beca like I feel
[31:43] Speaker 10: like a princess.
[31:46] Speaker 3: You are a princess.
[31:48] Speaker 7: Princess, I'm a princess.
[31:54] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[31:54] Speaker 2: So it was It was really fun and everyone every
[32:00] Speaker 2: thing went a court. It made me feel also so
[32:03] Speaker 2: confident in knowing Haley because I just almost could predict
[32:07] Speaker 2: how she was going to react to every ring like
[32:10] Speaker 2: it was perfect.
[32:11] Speaker 10: It's so scary, like she literally she plans like this
[32:15] Speaker 10: New Zealand trip in January, and I'm over here like
[32:18] Speaker 10: having meetings with my team, Like, hey, like Becca's gonna
[32:21] Speaker 10: propose to be in January, so I need to take
[32:24] Speaker 10: I know I'm leaving for Japan, but I need to
[32:27] Speaker 10: take a couple more weeks off because like.
[32:29] Speaker 7: Like you know, this is happening and all of that
[32:32] Speaker 7: was fake.
[32:33] Speaker 2: Yeah, And then we got home less and yesterday at
[32:35] Speaker 2: the airport, she goes, so did to nim get us
[32:38] Speaker 2: a car?
[32:38] Speaker 8: And I was like, I am again, it is me, right,
[32:43] Speaker 8: I am her?
[32:44] Speaker 3: She is me? Andem is done needs a break from us.
[32:51] Speaker 7: Yeah, she doesn't want to hear from us for a
[32:53] Speaker 7: long time.
[32:54] Speaker 2: Tom would be like, Haley's back with more requests, Okay,
[33:00] Speaker 2: tell her, yes, I guess they are.
[33:01] Speaker 10: When you're going on a big trip like that. You know,
[33:04] Speaker 10: it's like there's a lot of pieces components to it. Yeah,
[33:07] Speaker 10: people plan trips to Japan and like for years.
[33:11] Speaker 3: You know, yeah, it's a lot.
[33:13] Speaker 2: It made me realize how much of a planner I
[33:16] Speaker 2: am not, and that I just like go on these
[33:18] Speaker 2: trips like we'll figure.
[33:19] Speaker 4: Right, give me a fighting hotel and I am good to.
[33:21] Speaker 3: Go, and I'm good to go. It's not what I need.
[33:27] Speaker 2: Well, babe, I hope you're feeling better on the couch.
[33:29] Speaker 2: I'll be home to take care of you soon.
[33:31] Speaker 3: But we love you, Haley.
[33:32] Speaker 4: Congratulations, so so happy for you.
[33:35] Speaker 6: Thanks for letting us in on your love story. You guys,
[33:38] Speaker 6: that was such a beautiful thing. And I feel so
[33:40] Speaker 6: lucky that we get to like witness this happen.
[33:42] Speaker 10: Oh, I love you, I love you guys, have fun,
[33:49] Speaker 10: love you.
[33:51] Speaker 7: Okay, bye bye.
[33:53] Speaker 4: This really is like the best season of life.
[33:55] Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so fun.
[33:57] Speaker 2: And you know, for a long time it was the
[33:59] Speaker 2: question was like when we wedding plane, when youre in
[34:01] Speaker 2: a wedding plane, and I was like, well, I want
[34:03] Speaker 2: to propose to her first. So now I feel like
[34:04] Speaker 2: we can really like kind of start thinking about that now,
[34:08] Speaker 2: because for a long time I was.
[34:10] Speaker 3: That text out there. What I did throw that text
[34:13] Speaker 3: out there?
[34:13] Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean everyone's like, okay, when's the wedding. One
[34:17] Speaker 2: thing at a time, people, but it does open. Now
[34:20] Speaker 2: that that's done, it feels like, Okay, now we can
[34:22] Speaker 2: start going into that process.
[34:25] Speaker 3: So it was so fun.
[34:27] Speaker 2: And unfortunately she did get sick at the end of
[34:29] Speaker 2: the trip, but you know, it was like at least
[34:32] Speaker 2: at the end and not the beginning.
[34:34] Speaker 4: And yeah, how many days, like the last day.
[34:36] Speaker 3: Last two days. I know she had a tough flight home.
[34:41] Speaker 4: I know, peaks and valleys, you know, hids and lows,
[34:44] Speaker 4: highs and lows.
[34:44] Speaker 3: Life keeps you humble. Yeah, So it was really amazing
[34:49] Speaker 3: and thank you all for all the love. I loved.
[34:51] Speaker 3: All the scrubbers were.
[34:52] Speaker 2: Like I knew it was going to happen, and it
[34:54] Speaker 2: was hard because we didn't get our photos for a minute.
[34:56] Speaker 2: And our photographer, his name's Gilbert. He is incredible and.
[35:01] Speaker 4: The photos were stunning.
[35:04] Speaker 2: I like wanted it to look like a movie and
[35:06] Speaker 2: he absolutely delivered. His Instagram is Gilbert. I don't know
[35:11] Speaker 2: how you say his It's Gilbert R. H. E. Zap
[35:16] Speaker 2: and he was incredible. He's a destination photographer, so even
[35:20] Speaker 2: if you're not in Japan.
[35:22] Speaker 3: Oh, he goes anywhere. We'll go anywhere. I'll have the
[35:24] Speaker 3: right price.
[35:27] Speaker 2: But anyways, Yeah, it was just amazing and it was
[35:31] Speaker 2: so fun and and then it was so nice to
[35:34] Speaker 2: come home to our cozy new backyard and house and Phoebe.
[35:40] Speaker 3: Miss Phoebe so much.
[35:41] Speaker 2: But it just felt like, Okay, we're I just am
[35:45] Speaker 2: beaming with gratitude.
[35:47] Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it feels official now, even though it was
[35:49] Speaker 1: official before.
[35:50] Speaker 2: Yeah, like I said, it was like we were locked in.
[35:52] Speaker 2: I just added a little extra security. Yeah, dead bolted.
[35:56] Speaker 3: It wasn't even that though.
[35:57] Speaker 2: It was more like I knew how important it was
[36:00] Speaker 2: to Haley to have that, and like she as she
[36:03] Speaker 2: said before, like she didn't think she would ever get
[36:05] Speaker 2: to have like marriage or the potential to get married.
[36:10] Speaker 2: And I feel like being her partner and like getting
[36:13] Speaker 2: to be the one to plan that and propose and
[36:16] Speaker 2: buy her ring.
[36:16] Speaker 3: You know, it was just like how so.
[36:18] Speaker 4: Special that is a memory that you guys are gonna
[36:20] Speaker 4: have forever.
[36:21] Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just so and I'm so happy Marla
[36:24] Speaker 2: got to be there and be a part of it,
[36:25] Speaker 2: and it was just it was so fun.
[36:27] Speaker 1: It was such a Moore Marla, like if the shoe
[36:29] Speaker 1: it feels like reverse and like you and I Ron,
[36:32] Speaker 1: and then Haley proposed I would literally be like Homer
[36:34] Speaker 1: Simpson and just like the back into the No.
[36:38] Speaker 2: It was perfect because like we had separate rooms and
[36:41] Speaker 2: like she would go do her own thing and like
[36:43] Speaker 2: do what because I was like, listen, I want you.
[36:45] Speaker 2: This is your trip to Japan, so like I want
[36:47] Speaker 2: you to enjoy yourself and don't feel like you have
[36:50] Speaker 2: to be on our schedule. But it was so fun.
[36:52] Speaker 2: We did so much together but also thing and it
[36:56] Speaker 2: was it was perfect. So yeah, it was a dream
[37:02] Speaker 2: and it's so fun going into the holidays.
[37:05] Speaker 3: Now. Yeah, and now we start a wedding planning and
[37:08] Speaker 3: now wedding planning begins.
[37:10] Speaker 4: Which we'll get into in our next podcast.
[37:11] Speaker 1: Wow, have some questions.
[37:16] Speaker 4: Love you, Love you bye,

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