# Overcoming the Odds: Toxic Relationships - When you cut toxic ties, you thrive.

An episode of [Money Making Conversations Master Class](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1264705641), 22 Oct 2025, 31 min.

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Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily. I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed El' Deity Princey. 📝 Summary of the Interview El' Deity Princey is a transformational master coach, author, and speaker with a background in social science, neuroscience, and trauma recovery. In this powerful and deeply personal interview, she shares her journey from childhood trauma and dysfunction to becoming a high-achieving coach helping others reprogram their minds, cut toxic ties, and build wealth-driven lives. Her book, Monetize a Mind That’s Colonized, and her coaching business, 11 Master Consulting, are tools she uses to empower others to transcend adversity and manifest success. 🔑 Key Takeaways 1. Mindset is the Foundation of Wealth • “Energy is currency.” True prosperity begins with internal transformation. • Reprogramming the subconscious mind is essential to breaking free from societal conditioning and limiting beliefs. 2. Cutting Toxic Ties • Toxic relationships—whether personal, familial, or professional—drain energy and hinder growth. • “When you cut toxic ties, you thrive.” • Applies to both employees and employers: focus on those who contribute positively to your mission. 3. Coaching vs. Therapy • Coaching focuses on present and future goals, while therapy often addresses past trauma. • El' Deity emphasizes accountability, strategy, and results in her coaching practice. 4. Routine Builds Wealth • Daily habits, environment, and self-care routines are critical to building internal and external wealth. • “Everyone has a gift. Everyone has a talent.” Routine helps unlock and monetize those gifts. 5. Healing from Trauma • She shares her personal experience with Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES) and how childhood PTSD mirrors veteran PTSD. • Her journey from dysfunction and cult-like environments to academic and personal success is a testament to resilience. 6. Manifestation Requires Action • Her concept of “Coagulation Law” emphasizes that belief alone isn’t enough—resources and action are required to manifest goals. • Life is like Monopoly: strategy and movement are key to winning. 7. Empowering Language • Words shape reality. Avoid saying “I’m struggling”—instead, affirm your intelligence and capability. • “Speak life into yourself.” 8. Client Success Stories • She helped a client leave a toxic home, pursue her talents, and attract a supportive partner—demonstrating how mindset shifts lead to real-world success. 9. Accessibility & Services • Offers free live coaching on TikTok three times a week. • Book: Monetize a Mind That’s Colonized is available on Amazon under her real name, Princess Halo. • Coaching and courses available through 11 Master Consulting. 💬 Notable Quotes • “When you master your emotions, you master your reality.” • “Healing doesn’t take years—it takes intention.” • “I got tired of begging for crumbs of love and began to give myself loads of love.” • “Your self-image is what you attract.” • “Are you tired yet? If yes, it’s time to pivot.” #SHMS #STRAW #BEST Money Making Conversations Master Class with Rushion McDonald is America's premier entrepreneurship, business leadership, financial literacy, and wealth-building podcast featuring successful entrepreneurs, executives, founders, celebrities, and industry experts sharing actionable insights for professional and financial success. Business Podcast Entrepreneurship Small Business Business Growth Financial Literacy…

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: Hi.
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[0:23] Speaker 2: a small business owner, entrepreneur, motivational speaker, influencer, or nonprofit
[0:28] Speaker 2: now let's get this show started. My guest is a
[0:31] Speaker 2: transformational master coach, author and speaker dedicated to helping high
[0:36] Speaker 2: achievers transcend adversity. With a master's degree in social science
[0:41] Speaker 2: and expertise and neuroscience and Trauma Recovery, she empowers individuals
[0:46] Speaker 2: to reprogram their minds, cut toxic ties, and build wealth
[0:51] Speaker 2: driven lives. Please welcome to Money Making Conversation Masterclass. Ldality Princy.
[0:57] Speaker 2: How you doing, LDLT, I'm amazing.
[0:58] Speaker 3: How are you?
[1:00] Speaker 2: I've met a lot of people. That's a unique name.
[1:03] Speaker 2: Tell me about your name?
[1:04] Speaker 3: Thank you?
[1:04] Speaker 4: Yes, l DNC is my higher self and I went
[1:08] Speaker 4: through a major spiritual waken in during college and after
[1:12] Speaker 4: and I realize that we're all source experience and stuff.
[1:15] Speaker 4: So that's my god, awesome, awesome. So you went to college, well,
[1:22] Speaker 4: west Chester University. Now you have a book here. I
[1:24] Speaker 4: want to jump into it. First.
[1:26] Speaker 1: Monetize a mind that's colonized. What does that mean?
[1:30] Speaker 4: Monetization is not just physical, it's mental. So when you
[1:34] Speaker 4: monetize your mind, you will begin to see prosperity unwine
[1:37] Speaker 4: because all this energy energy is a currency. And when
[1:41] Speaker 4: you deprogram your mind from societal beliefs things like that,
[1:45] Speaker 4: then you begin to grow wealth within. Wealth within, then
[1:47] Speaker 4: it comes on the outside of you. Everything within is
[1:50] Speaker 4: externalized on the outside.
[1:52] Speaker 1: So let's talk.
[1:53] Speaker 2: Let's slow down and talk about that because you talk
[1:54] Speaker 2: real fast now, deity, I'm just going to tell you,
[1:56] Speaker 2: because you know what you're talking about.
[2:00] Speaker 1: About.
[2:01] Speaker 2: What I'm hearing is about getting yourself right before you
[2:04] Speaker 2: try to pursue the dollar.
[2:08] Speaker 4: Correct, It's all encompassing. So when you get yourself right,
[2:13] Speaker 4: you attract mentally right, yes, mentally, physically, emotionally because our
[2:18] Speaker 4: emotional pools is what we continue to attract. So when
[2:22] Speaker 4: you master your emotions, when you master your mindset, you
[2:26] Speaker 4: know exactly where you desire to go in life, and
[2:28] Speaker 4: you're not easily astrayed by other people.
[2:32] Speaker 3: Let us stray by other people.
[2:33] Speaker 4: So when you have mastery over your mindset, you have
[2:36] Speaker 4: mastery over your reality and the things that you experience.
[2:40] Speaker 4: So that starts with having to deprogram yourself. Because ninety
[2:42] Speaker 4: five percent of our thoughts, of our behaviors, of our
[2:46] Speaker 4: actions is coming from our self conscious so it's already programmed.
[2:50] Speaker 4: So when you are aware, when you are aware of
[2:52] Speaker 4: your own patterns, the more you begin to master yourself.
[2:55] Speaker 4: Now you're doing a pattern interrupt which then puts you
[2:57] Speaker 4: into the direction you ultimately the desire to go.
[3:01] Speaker 2: Let's talk about cutting toxic ties, because that seems like
[3:04] Speaker 2: that's a part of it too. Yeah, we talk about
[3:07] Speaker 2: a lot of entrepreneurs on this show, small business owners,
[3:10] Speaker 2: and I'm always trying to let them know how the
[3:13] Speaker 2: mental side plays a major role and how you treat
[3:16] Speaker 2: your staff and how.
[3:17] Speaker 1: You build your company. So we said, cut toxic ties.
[3:22] Speaker 1: What are you talking about?
[3:23] Speaker 4: It's beautiful that you said that, because that even just
[3:25] Speaker 4: using companies for example, I remember where I worked at
[3:28] Speaker 4: as being a therapist, a lot of micromanaging and people
[3:32] Speaker 4: project onto others what they're internally going through. So cutting
[3:36] Speaker 4: ties would be not only how you are being treated,
[3:40] Speaker 4: but how you allow other people to treat you. So
[3:42] Speaker 4: when you cut toxic ties from your own mentality, this
[3:46] Speaker 4: pours onto other people. So in the workplace, if you
[3:49] Speaker 4: have a manager who can micro managing you, that's coming
[3:52] Speaker 4: from a deeper space within. There's something called ten x
[3:55] Speaker 4: and versus two x. It's a mindset, and when you
[3:57] Speaker 4: ten x your mindset, you're not micro managing other people.
[4:01] Speaker 4: But it even even getting to family, even with family,
[4:06] Speaker 4: just because someone's your family, but it's toxic. It doesn't
[4:08] Speaker 4: mean that you have to stay. You have to pour
[4:11] Speaker 4: into them. Because everything's energy. So the more you pouring
[4:14] Speaker 4: energy into places that's not bringing you value, the more
[4:17] Speaker 4: it drains you. So when you cut these ties, you thrive,
[4:20] Speaker 4: and it goes for everything work, family, friends, relationships. When
[4:24] Speaker 4: you remove that the weeds, the things that's not serving you,
[4:28] Speaker 4: you're going to blossom.
[4:29] Speaker 2: I'm talking about DIT Princy Master's right, yeah, and neuroscience.
[4:35] Speaker 4: W social science, social science right, So psychology, social all those.
[4:39] Speaker 2: Things because my mind either did the mind or sociology
[4:42] Speaker 2: you know, not saying that's you. But it's about the
[4:45] Speaker 2: mindset the people and how people think. And I want
[4:48] Speaker 2: to stay on this cutting ties, especially in this conversation
[4:51] Speaker 2: because it's called.
[4:53] Speaker 1: Let's talk about employees, because.
[4:55] Speaker 2: When I hear as a company that we're cutting ties
[4:59] Speaker 2: ties to employees, they might not be good for what
[5:02] Speaker 2: you're trying to do. If you are an employer or
[5:06] Speaker 2: a supervisor, how would you approach cutting ties from I
[5:10] Speaker 2: won't use the word toxic, but basically employees that are
[5:13] Speaker 2: not benefiting what you want them to do exactly.
[5:17] Speaker 3: It goes both ways.
[5:18] Speaker 4: It goes for employees too, but in employers that's the
[5:22] Speaker 4: ten X versus two X. Ten X thinking is basically
[5:26] Speaker 4: accumulating more abundance. Two X is when it's slowed down.
[5:31] Speaker 4: So if you have employees who it's something called I
[5:35] Speaker 4: can't think of the exact terminology, but it's like an.
[5:37] Speaker 3: Eighty twenty rule.
[5:38] Speaker 4: So if you have if eighty percent of your employees
[5:41] Speaker 4: are doing what they have to do, well, twenty percent
[5:45] Speaker 4: doing what they have to do, but the other eighty
[5:46] Speaker 4: is not, it's better to focus on the ones who are,
[5:49] Speaker 4: because that's where you're getting the most productivity, the most
[5:53] Speaker 4: longevity and the most success the ones who are not
[5:56] Speaker 4: doing what they're supposed to do.
[5:57] Speaker 2: That's more of a liability, right, So that really causes
[6:01] Speaker 2: friction that your workspace. Exactly, employees are here complaining about
[6:05] Speaker 2: the employees who are doing it, and employees who are
[6:07] Speaker 2: complaining it but you do it too much.
[6:10] Speaker 3: Exactly Exactly. I had a client like that.
[6:13] Speaker 4: He said, I'm doing all the work and they're not helping,
[6:17] Speaker 4: and that made him frustrated. You know, that made him
[6:20] Speaker 4: very frustrated. And he's hoping that the management sees that.
[6:22] Speaker 4: So the more the mindset begins to integrate into the
[6:28] Speaker 4: higher ups per se, it trickles down into everyone. The
[6:31] Speaker 4: more everyone is more aware of how they're treating others,
[6:34] Speaker 4: how they're treating themselves.
[6:35] Speaker 3: Everyone benefits from that.
[6:37] Speaker 1: Okay, now thank you for coming on the shore. When
[6:40] Speaker 1: speaking of LD.
[6:42] Speaker 2: My book Monetize a Mind That's Colonized, Watch Prosperity Unwind.
[6:48] Speaker 2: You know when I when I when I'm always talking
[6:50] Speaker 2: about success. That's what this conversation is about. And you
[6:55] Speaker 2: have a course called eleven Master Consultant.
[6:58] Speaker 1: What exactly is that?
[7:00] Speaker 4: That's my business name, eleven Master Consultant. Anyone who knows numerology.
[7:04] Speaker 4: I add the eleven because I along my journey, I
[7:07] Speaker 4: found thought I was a life path eleven. But you
[7:09] Speaker 4: know everyone sees eleven eleven, so eleven is.
[7:13] Speaker 3: Just good numbers. It's just prosperity.
[7:16] Speaker 4: And I am a master teacher and I consult those
[7:19] Speaker 4: to help them with coaching, to help them with their mindset.
[7:22] Speaker 4: So right now I am self owned, so it's just me.
[7:25] Speaker 4: But that's what I do. I help coach people, I
[7:28] Speaker 4: help guide them. I have courses, I do lives three
[7:32] Speaker 4: times a week. A lot of people are being reprogrammed
[7:34] Speaker 4: for free through my energy thirty minute sessions on Live
[7:38] Speaker 4: because energy is trans is transferable. So that's what my
[7:42] Speaker 4: whole company and bodies just to reprogram and help those,
[7:46] Speaker 4: especially those who look like us, to know that they
[7:49] Speaker 4: are free.
[7:50] Speaker 2: Let's walk through the steps of how we get into
[7:51] Speaker 2: the first how do we in touch with your deity?
[7:54] Speaker 4: Yes, the easiest way to get in touch with me
[7:56] Speaker 4: would be through you can just reach out to me
[7:58] Speaker 4: by phone to six seven five to one two nine
[8:00] Speaker 4: nine five.
[8:01] Speaker 1: What's that number again?
[8:02] Speaker 3: Two sixty seven five two one two nine nine five.
[8:05] Speaker 2: Now, a lot of people get out their website, get
[8:07] Speaker 2: they social media.
[8:08] Speaker 1: You are comfortable with somebody calling you?
[8:10] Speaker 4: Oh, yes, I'm comfortable. I'm very comfortable. And if you
[8:13] Speaker 4: I'm the only LDT prince. So if you google me
[8:15] Speaker 4: on any platform, you'll see me. I'm comfortable because I
[8:18] Speaker 4: attract who I am. I attract my reflections just like you.
[8:21] Speaker 4: I attracted you, So I don't I'm not worried too
[8:24] Speaker 4: worried about you know, just the crazy stuff.
[8:29] Speaker 3: So I'm very I'm very comfortable. I'm very comfortable with
[8:31] Speaker 3: what I offer.
[8:32] Speaker 4: I'm comfortable in my energy, and I know I always
[8:34] Speaker 4: get the right people who reach out to me anyway.
[8:36] Speaker 2: Okay, good, So somebody calls you, what's what's the process?
[8:40] Speaker 4: The process is first, I would need to see what
[8:42] Speaker 4: are they looking for coaching or if they want to
[8:45] Speaker 4: take I have people who just want my courses. Everyone's
[8:47] Speaker 4: on different learning journeys. Some people are willing to invest
[8:50] Speaker 4: in coaching. Coaching is something though I went to school
[8:53] Speaker 4: for therapy, I am a coach now. Therapy kind of
[8:56] Speaker 4: has this connotation of.
[8:57] Speaker 3: Your broken, you need healing.
[9:00] Speaker 4: Healing doesn't take years, Healing doesn't take decades. Coaching focuses
[9:04] Speaker 4: on the now and the future, giving you the results,
[9:06] Speaker 4: giving you the strategy. So sometimes people have to know
[9:10] Speaker 4: what are they looking for, And coaching is really that
[9:12] Speaker 4: God just to sit with you, hold you accountable, and
[9:16] Speaker 4: take you through the steps, take you through the journeys.
[9:18] Speaker 4: So that's the first step is to realize, is to
[9:20] Speaker 4: find out what this person is actually looking for. Because courses,
[9:24] Speaker 4: it's self paid, you can do that on your own time.
[9:27] Speaker 4: But when you work with me, I'm serious. I guess
[9:29] Speaker 4: I'm very disciplined. So we get stuff done.
[9:34] Speaker 2: You know, you say I'm serious, like it's some people
[9:36] Speaker 2: like that not serious.
[9:36] Speaker 3: What makes you I'm serious?
[9:40] Speaker 4: As if you say you want this life, we gotta
[9:42] Speaker 4: do it. We have to get it done, no excuses,
[9:46] Speaker 4: you know, because this is our time. So if you
[9:48] Speaker 4: say you want this coaching, it's time for us to
[9:50] Speaker 4: get started, to get rid of the things that's not
[9:53] Speaker 4: serving us. I know that there's always a process, but
[9:56] Speaker 4: just a mindset just to be open to say I'm
[9:58] Speaker 4: ready to be open to say I want to become
[10:01] Speaker 4: the version of me that I desire to be, and
[10:03] Speaker 4: that's what I'm here to do.
[10:04] Speaker 3: I'm here to help.
[10:04] Speaker 4: Those be that version with no fluff, with no games,
[10:08] Speaker 4: because I do consider life as a game. But when
[10:11] Speaker 4: you when it comes to money, and if you're making
[10:13] Speaker 4: money where you don't desire to be, that's not fun.
[10:16] Speaker 3: That's not a game. That's draining.
[10:18] Speaker 1: Right.
[10:18] Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Let's get a little back up a little
[10:21] Speaker 2: bit so people can know your academic training and not
[10:24] Speaker 2: say we jumped in too quickly, but because I wanted
[10:26] Speaker 2: to really get into the book Monetize a mind that's colonized.
[10:31] Speaker 1: Where did you get your training?
[10:33] Speaker 3: Where Westchester University?
[10:36] Speaker 1: And where's that located at?
[10:37] Speaker 3: It's located in Pennsylvania.
[10:39] Speaker 2: Where did you choose this path academically and now professionally?
[10:44] Speaker 4: Really because of my own childhood. Clinically speaking, I would
[10:47] Speaker 4: be considered a veteran. My child is there's something called
[10:51] Speaker 4: the ac of score with stands for adverse childhood experiences
[10:54] Speaker 4: and this.
[10:55] Speaker 1: Deity you talk really really fast.
[10:58] Speaker 2: I don't know exactly what you just said, and I
[11:01] Speaker 2: don't think it's age either.
[11:03] Speaker 1: I think you just a fans talker.
[11:05] Speaker 3: I am.
[11:05] Speaker 2: I've always been told that little doubts on my fans
[11:09] Speaker 2: were't tune out.
[11:10] Speaker 1: Yes, what did you just say? Yes?
[11:13] Speaker 4: I got into this profession because of my own experiences.
[11:17] Speaker 4: There's something called the ACIS score, which stands for adverse
[11:20] Speaker 4: childhood Experiences.
[11:21] Speaker 3: I studied this in college.
[11:23] Speaker 4: Childhood psychology, and childhood trauma is equivalent to veteran PTSD.
[11:29] Speaker 4: Childhood PTSD is equivalent to veteran PTSD. So that's what
[11:33] Speaker 4: made me really intrigued by this because I had to
[11:36] Speaker 4: do my own healing. I had a ten out of
[11:37] Speaker 4: ten ACIST score, which meant that you are likely to be,
[11:41] Speaker 4: you know, re victimized again, go through things again. And
[11:44] Speaker 4: that was my journey a good part until I went
[11:46] Speaker 4: off to school. I went to school specifically because I
[11:49] Speaker 4: wanted to be a therapist because I felt like my
[11:51] Speaker 4: therapist was there for me.
[11:53] Speaker 3: I had someone to talk to.
[11:55] Speaker 4: And it just kind of shifted because then the more
[11:58] Speaker 4: the more I began to a sin and just learn
[12:02] Speaker 4: life more, I realized that I'm not a victim.
[12:05] Speaker 3: I'm not a victim.
[12:07] Speaker 4: I'm a victor, and I've already proven it to myself
[12:10] Speaker 4: by moving around.
[12:11] Speaker 3: So that's what shifted me into coaching.
[12:13] Speaker 4: I've been coached by Maron Golden, and being coached by
[12:16] Speaker 4: him just inspired me so much.
[12:17] Speaker 3: So that's where I.
[12:19] Speaker 4: Kind of came from I came from healing my own
[12:21] Speaker 4: adversities to going to school to study these things, then
[12:25] Speaker 4: realizing that coaching is just who I am. I lost
[12:29] Speaker 4: seventy five pounds on my own, so it's just kind
[12:31] Speaker 4: of I'm just that person. I am a high achiever,
[12:34] Speaker 4: so I want to help those high achievers as well.
[12:36] Speaker 2: So why like a therapist was important to you just
[12:41] Speaker 2: had somebody to talk to? Why was that important?
[12:44] Speaker 4: It was important because I did not have that growing up.
[12:47] Speaker 4: I did not have someone to talk to, someone to
[12:49] Speaker 4: validate me and to validate the things that I've experienced
[12:52] Speaker 4: growing up in a project and having a dysfunctional family.
[12:56] Speaker 3: So having a.
[12:57] Speaker 4: Therapist gave me that validation that I'm not crazy, because
[13:01] Speaker 4: I thought I was crazy at first.
[13:02] Speaker 3: So that's why I.
[13:03] Speaker 1: Should work crazy.
[13:04] Speaker 2: What do you mean when you find that term because
[13:06] Speaker 2: you because you you know in that neuroscience area masters,
[13:11] Speaker 2: when you used the word crazy, it might be different
[13:12] Speaker 2: when I say the word crazy.
[13:14] Speaker 3: I use it all interchangeably. But at that point, at
[13:17] Speaker 3: that point in my.
[13:18] Speaker 4: Life, it was more so being gas lit, being told,
[13:21] Speaker 4: you know, what I'm going through is my my fault,
[13:24] Speaker 4: and just feeling like, you know, my my I say
[13:28] Speaker 4: egg and sperm donor for you know, parents, but feeling like,
[13:32] Speaker 4: you know, my egg and my sperm donor were very
[13:34] Speaker 4: abusive towards me. So I felt like, you know, no
[13:37] Speaker 4: one believes me until once I started to speak up
[13:40] Speaker 4: and talk to you know, the social workers at school,
[13:42] Speaker 4: to therapists.
[13:43] Speaker 3: Then I began to find peace.
[13:45] Speaker 4: So I felt crazy because my environment would tell me
[13:48] Speaker 4: that's not happening when it was right.
[13:51] Speaker 2: So you used the word dysfunctional family, I want to
[13:54] Speaker 2: hear that conversation because of the fact that a lot
[13:57] Speaker 2: of people feel dysfunctional as normal and it's not normal.
[14:01] Speaker 2: And I like for you to explain your version of
[14:04] Speaker 2: what you experience is to be dysfunctional, and maybe some
[14:07] Speaker 2: people might hear that, go that's me and get.
[14:11] Speaker 1: Out of that because it's not going to get better.
[14:14] Speaker 4: And that's actually the neuroscience of it all, because the
[14:17] Speaker 4: more our nervous system is responding, and.
[14:21] Speaker 3: That's our fire fight er freeze.
[14:23] Speaker 4: The parasympathetic nervous system is when we are more able
[14:26] Speaker 4: to relax and be calm.
[14:27] Speaker 3: So when you're walking on.
[14:28] Speaker 4: Eggshells, when you are feeling like you have to fight back,
[14:32] Speaker 4: when you're feeling like you.
[14:33] Speaker 3: Know your blood is boiling.
[14:36] Speaker 4: That's not in your pair of sympathetic nervous system at all.
[14:39] Speaker 3: That's not a calm body at all.
[14:41] Speaker 4: So any relationship, any environment that makes you have to
[14:45] Speaker 4: be on high alert, which being on higher alert that's
[14:48] Speaker 4: your higher beta waves of your mind. So when you
[14:51] Speaker 4: are on higher alert, you're stressed out. That's not conducive,
[14:54] Speaker 4: that's not healthy to build wealth because your prefrontal cortex
[14:58] Speaker 4: is the part, is the aspect that creates.
[15:00] Speaker 3: That planning, the decision making.
[15:02] Speaker 4: When a person is constantly in fire fight or freeze,
[15:05] Speaker 4: they're not able to think clearly and to make decisions clearly.
[15:09] Speaker 4: So this can again your mom, your dad, sisters, brothers.
[15:13] Speaker 4: If it's not healthy, it's going to stay within that
[15:17] Speaker 4: program and within your nervous system is going to respond
[15:20] Speaker 4: to these things. You're going to attract more of those
[15:22] Speaker 4: experiences because we do attract what we are.
[15:25] Speaker 1: I'm speaking to l Deity Princy.
[15:28] Speaker 2: She's a Master Code Transformational Master Coach, a master's degree
[15:32] Speaker 2: in social science and expertise in neuroscience and trauma recovery.
[15:37] Speaker 2: Champael's individuals to reprogram their minds, cut toxic ties which
[15:42] Speaker 2: we've just talked in great detail about and build wealth
[15:46] Speaker 2: driven lives. This show us money Making Conversation masterclass. When
[15:50] Speaker 2: I hear the word wealth driven lives, what are you
[15:53] Speaker 2: talking about?
[15:54] Speaker 3: Wealth driven lives? Again?
[15:56] Speaker 4: You master your mindset, you do the things that bring
[16:00] Speaker 4: you joy instead of working. I've had over thirty different jobs.
[16:03] Speaker 4: What you'll read about that in.
[16:04] Speaker 1: The book, and thirty different jobs.
[16:06] Speaker 3: I had over thirty different jobs. Yes, because coming from
[16:08] Speaker 3: the function trying to figure.
[16:10] Speaker 4: Out life, and it was a horrible experience. I was
[16:13] Speaker 4: never happy, never fulfilled. Amazon, I did all kinds of things.
[16:18] Speaker 4: So building wealths begins within the things you eat, the
[16:22] Speaker 4: things you do, having a routine, and the more you
[16:26] Speaker 4: have this momentum, the more you routine.
[16:29] Speaker 2: Yes, routine is tea I always talk about I preach
[16:31] Speaker 2: routine on this.
[16:32] Speaker 3: Yes, when you.
[16:33] Speaker 1: Say routine, what do you mean when you say routine?
[16:35] Speaker 3: Routine is important.
[16:37] Speaker 4: It's the things that you're consuming, the things that you're doing,
[16:40] Speaker 4: the environments you put yourself in. The better routine that
[16:43] Speaker 4: you have, the more you are going into the wealth
[16:47] Speaker 4: that you desire to have, which is our wealth is within.
[16:50] Speaker 4: Everyone has a gift, Everyone has a talent. And the
[16:53] Speaker 4: more you're doing a routine. I like to meditate. Like
[16:56] Speaker 4: I said, I lost seventy five pounds, so I work out.
[16:59] Speaker 4: But when you find that your niche, when you find
[17:01] Speaker 4: what brings you.
[17:01] Speaker 3: Joy, Now you realize, oh I have I want to
[17:05] Speaker 3: be a painter.
[17:06] Speaker 4: Just because society or if someone told you you can't
[17:08] Speaker 4: do that doesn't mean you won't be profitable. Then you
[17:10] Speaker 4: realize I can do that. I can do a rapper
[17:14] Speaker 4: or a singer, whatever you want. Because you're building this routine,
[17:16] Speaker 4: and the wealth starts within because it's all energy. Energy
[17:19] Speaker 4: is a currency, So the more you build your own
[17:21] Speaker 4: energy within, it comes out.
[17:24] Speaker 5: Please don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with more
[17:26] Speaker 5: Money Making Conversations Master Class. Welcome back to Money Making
[17:34] Speaker 5: Conversation Mastered Class with me Rashawn McDonald.
[17:37] Speaker 2: Let's talk about this seventy five pounds. You mentioned that
[17:40] Speaker 2: several times in this interview, so obviously less important paths
[17:43] Speaker 2: that you are a positivity in your life. But at
[17:47] Speaker 2: some point you were comfortable with that seventy five pounds
[17:49] Speaker 2: or you were uncomfortable and you used to know how to.
[17:51] Speaker 3: I was uncomfortable. I just didn't know how to deal
[17:55] Speaker 3: with it.
[17:55] Speaker 4: You know, I grew I did grow up in a
[17:58] Speaker 4: cold so I was not socialized. I did not you
[18:02] Speaker 4: a cult, an actual cult?
[18:04] Speaker 3: C ult?
[18:05] Speaker 1: Yes, cult, a cult? So so what do you call them?
[18:10] Speaker 1: A cult?
[18:10] Speaker 3: A cult? See ult? So there is a cult, a cult,
[18:14] Speaker 3: A cult, cults seul and a cult is more so esulteric.
[18:19] Speaker 4: But a cult is when you know you're basically manipulation, abuse,
[18:23] Speaker 4: things like that.
[18:24] Speaker 3: It can be verbal, all those things. Okay, that's where
[18:27] Speaker 3: my weight came from.
[18:27] Speaker 4: So that's why for me, losing weight was a big
[18:30] Speaker 4: milestone for me because I grew up, like I said,
[18:33] Speaker 4: sick asthma exma. I was uncomfortable, but I didn't know
[18:37] Speaker 4: what to do. And I was uncomfortable as well, because
[18:39] Speaker 4: society does judge you when you are if you're not.
[18:42] Speaker 4: If your weight is not proportioned a certain.
[18:44] Speaker 3: Way, you get judged. So my weight was not proportioned
[18:48] Speaker 3: the ideal way.
[18:49] Speaker 1: Right.
[18:49] Speaker 2: Okay, Now there's something that we talk about cut and
[18:53] Speaker 2: thrive method.
[18:55] Speaker 1: Who is that for that you talk about?
[18:57] Speaker 4: That's for anyone who's ready to cut toxic ties and
[19:01] Speaker 4: thrive and to their desired reality, their dream life.
[19:05] Speaker 2: Uh huh now you're interesting from a standpoint of I
[19:10] Speaker 2: see a very your high achieving person, motivated, fast talking. Okay,
[19:16] Speaker 2: So what are the type of people that you invite
[19:19] Speaker 2: in your life illdality, personally.
[19:22] Speaker 4: As on a personal level, I invite people who are
[19:25] Speaker 4: doing the same things as me. Entrepreneurs, people who are
[19:29] Speaker 4: building themselves up, not again, not in a victim mentality
[19:35] Speaker 4: and the victor mentality, knowing that they can succeed and
[19:39] Speaker 4: have whatever they put their focus on. Whatever you focus
[19:42] Speaker 4: on is what will grow.
[19:44] Speaker 3: So those are the.
[19:44] Speaker 4: Type of people I love to have around me because again,
[19:48] Speaker 4: coming from poverty, that wasn't the beginning stages. So now
[19:51] Speaker 4: I get to choose, and it's so empowering for me
[19:53] Speaker 4: because that only elevates me even more and we become
[19:56] Speaker 4: like those we are around. I elevate my team.
[19:59] Speaker 1: Elevates Was it really interesting?
[20:01] Speaker 2: I grew from the hood a six sisters, two brothers,
[20:04] Speaker 2: grew up and grew up in a two bedroom shotgun
[20:06] Speaker 2: house in Atlanta. In Atlanta and in Houston, Texas where I
[20:10] Speaker 2: grew up, and so you know, I had teachers who
[20:15] Speaker 2: saw things in me and pushed me and guided me
[20:18] Speaker 2: to where I am today. If they didn't push me
[20:20] Speaker 2: ra Sean McDonald be operating a four fourthlift because that's
[20:25] Speaker 2: all I wanted to be when I graduated.
[20:26] Speaker 1: From high school was to be a fourth clift driver.
[20:28] Speaker 1: That was my dream.
[20:29] Speaker 2: But they saw more things in me that I didn't see.
[20:33] Speaker 2: What helped you? Was it an individual or was it life?
[20:36] Speaker 2: What got you pointed in the right direction at Deity?
[20:40] Speaker 2: Because you were in a cult c U l T
[20:43] Speaker 2: even in a very dysfunctional family. It seems like it
[20:48] Speaker 2: almost feels like you couldn't escape that, but you did.
[20:51] Speaker 4: How Really, it was just I just had to keep
[20:56] Speaker 4: persisting because.
[20:57] Speaker 3: The more I will always get kicked out.
[21:00] Speaker 4: Actually, so I started to leave around nine, so come
[21:03] Speaker 4: back and forth, something to call it the cycle of abuse,
[21:05] Speaker 4: the cycle of abuse, and you keep coming back, you
[21:08] Speaker 4: keep leaving. So I just really got tired of it.
[21:11] Speaker 4: And then I got my first apartment when I was
[21:15] Speaker 4: about eighteen, but it didn't work because I didn't know
[21:18] Speaker 4: what I was doing.
[21:19] Speaker 3: But then someone.
[21:20] Speaker 4: Said, oh, you could go to college. I only wanted
[21:23] Speaker 4: to go to college just to have a place to live.
[21:25] Speaker 4: I didn't Again, I didn't grow up educated, so I
[21:28] Speaker 4: didn't know much of anything. So I didn't think I
[21:31] Speaker 4: would really succeed in college. I just knew, oh, free housing,
[21:33] Speaker 4: I can get myself together. But I ended up going
[21:36] Speaker 4: to college and I end up finding out I'm smart.
[21:38] Speaker 4: So then it turned into now I'm obsessed with my
[21:42] Speaker 4: grades and learning. I just was sitting in front of class,
[21:45] Speaker 4: and I just changed my identity. Your self image is
[21:48] Speaker 4: what you would tract. So my self image went from
[21:50] Speaker 4: being the victim to I'm in front of the class.
[21:53] Speaker 4: I'm talking to all my teachers, going to the you know,
[21:55] Speaker 4: the after hours. If I get a B on my paper,
[21:58] Speaker 4: hey can I get an A? How can I redo
[21:59] Speaker 4: this to get my A? I graduated summa cum lade.
[22:02] Speaker 4: So I just kept on pushing as much knowledge as
[22:04] Speaker 4: I can, putting myself going to different business events. And
[22:08] Speaker 4: I just changed my self image because I got tired
[22:10] Speaker 4: of going through the pain and going through basically begging
[22:13] Speaker 4: for love. I got tired of begging for crumbs of love,
[22:16] Speaker 4: and I began to give myself loaves of love.
[22:19] Speaker 1: Wow, this is a very powerful story. Den tell, I
[22:22] Speaker 1: thank you for coming to the Mind Show.
[22:24] Speaker 2: This interview is not over, but just looking at it's
[22:26] Speaker 2: a journey of earnesty and a journey of power self
[22:31] Speaker 2: power because of the fact that.
[22:33] Speaker 1: You can't turn your life around.
[22:34] Speaker 2: Yes, but sometimes the Lord here, this is what I
[22:39] Speaker 2: love about your personality. Okay, you're willing to pivot. Yes,
[22:43] Speaker 2: and a lot of people aren't will willing to pivot?
[22:47] Speaker 2: You know, this is what you do. You know, a
[22:49] Speaker 2: transformational coach talking to you about audience, how can they
[22:53] Speaker 2: pivot and also how we want to give out that
[22:56] Speaker 2: number so they can call you again because you can
[22:58] Speaker 2: help them pivot if they're.
[23:01] Speaker 3: Yes.
[23:02] Speaker 4: I actually said this yesterday on Live. You have to
[23:05] Speaker 4: ask yourself are you Are you tired yet? Are you
[23:10] Speaker 4: tired yet? If the answer is yes, it's you've got it.
[23:14] Speaker 4: You gotta move because in order to get anywhere, it
[23:18] Speaker 4: has to start from an action. So no matter what
[23:21] Speaker 4: the experience is, it's all asking yourself. It's just bringing
[23:25] Speaker 4: value to my life again being inside of that, you know.
[23:28] Speaker 3: Fire fight or freeze.
[23:29] Speaker 4: Am I tired of always having to defend myself like
[23:33] Speaker 4: that song? All my life I had to fight, right
[23:35] Speaker 4: like am I.
[23:36] Speaker 3: Tired of fighting.
[23:37] Speaker 4: That's how you start and that's how you pivot out
[23:40] Speaker 4: because it's all about the only person who can move
[23:43] Speaker 4: us is us. You are, and you are the only
[23:46] Speaker 4: person even if somebody was to come and say, hey,
[23:48] Speaker 4: here's a million dollars if you don't feel like a
[23:51] Speaker 4: million dollars is not going to last long because you're
[23:54] Speaker 4: you have to program yourself to exactly. So, if somebody
[23:58] Speaker 4: can tell you all day you're beautiful, hands on whatever,
[24:00] Speaker 4: if you don't feel it for yourself, it's not going
[24:02] Speaker 4: to land where it's supposed to.
[24:05] Speaker 2: And you're not gonna pivot to take advantage of the
[24:07] Speaker 2: opportunities that are being presented to you. Exactly like you
[24:10] Speaker 2: said your examples of million dollars, Yes, million dollars and
[24:13] Speaker 2: you feel the wrong way, you just gonna spend it.
[24:16] Speaker 2: And then million dollars is not going to have any
[24:18] Speaker 2: value ten years because you spent it like in a month.
[24:20] Speaker 4: Exactly if you didn't think about investing, getting a financial planner.
[24:24] Speaker 4: How do I want to actually make this lucrative instead
[24:27] Speaker 4: of getting it? Because again I'm from the hood, so
[24:29] Speaker 4: you get it. I'm about to go shopping. I'm gonna
[24:32] Speaker 4: go get me a new car. You know it sound good,
[24:34] Speaker 4: and of course you can have all those beautiful things
[24:37] Speaker 4: with your first mindset. You want to be strategic. It's
[24:40] Speaker 4: all strategy. It's monopoly. I consider life like the game Monopoly.
[24:43] Speaker 4: When you play Monopoly, the goal is to get the
[24:46] Speaker 4: most off that board.
[24:47] Speaker 3: So that's what we get to do.
[24:49] Speaker 4: We get to get the most out of our life
[24:51] Speaker 4: and when we leave, we get to leave behind a legacy.
[24:54] Speaker 1: Wow.
[24:54] Speaker 2: Talking to our deity, Princy Business eleven Master consultant, we
[25:00] Speaker 2: just talked about cutting thrive, not coagulation law. That's first
[25:04] Speaker 2: time I ever heard that. I think I'm an educated person.
[25:08] Speaker 2: But what does that mean? Coagulation law?
[25:10] Speaker 4: I made that, So coagulation is No, I didn't make
[25:14] Speaker 4: the word, but I made the law. Coagulation is basically
[25:17] Speaker 4: the bonding of blood. But the way I said, yeah,
[25:20] Speaker 4: with manifesting, manifesting is not just belief alone, just thought alone.
[25:25] Speaker 4: Like I know, you know my car, for example, my
[25:28] Speaker 4: car is going to get me from here to be
[25:30] Speaker 4: for forever. But if you don't put oil, if you
[25:32] Speaker 4: don't change the tires, change the brakes, if you don't
[25:36] Speaker 4: put gas, it's not going to get But so far,
[25:39] Speaker 4: so coagulation law is resources. It is Sustainment is actually
[25:44] Speaker 4: movement because it's more than just belief and thought alone.
[25:48] Speaker 4: You have to add the resources and you have to
[25:50] Speaker 4: add the action as well.
[25:52] Speaker 2: Ideality again, this name I show Money Made Conversation Masterclass.
[25:56] Speaker 2: How do you get people, your clients to map themselves
[26:01] Speaker 2: to eventually mash the money.
[26:03] Speaker 4: Yes, that's a beautiful question. So it starts with mastering themselves.
[26:08] Speaker 4: I had a client. This is a beautiful and example
[26:10] Speaker 4: one of my clients. She also was dealing with toxic
[26:13] Speaker 4: parents as well, and just to be brief, she was
[26:16] Speaker 4: really tired of that. So she already had talents. She
[26:20] Speaker 4: already did modeling, singing, acting. I got her to really
[26:24] Speaker 4: look in and hone into that. When she did that,
[26:27] Speaker 4: she moved out of her parents' house. She would keep
[26:28] Speaker 4: going back and forth as I would do as a kid.
[26:31] Speaker 4: She'm a bit older, but she would just go back
[26:33] Speaker 4: and forth, back and forth, and then until one day
[26:35] Speaker 4: when she met me, we made a plan.
[26:36] Speaker 3: She left. When she left, she.
[26:39] Speaker 4: Had got a job, but her job is of course temporary.
[26:41] Speaker 4: She's working doing her own talents, modeling, singing, singing.
[26:45] Speaker 3: Then from there she.
[26:47] Speaker 4: Attracted her provider, her man, her partner, and from there
[26:52] Speaker 4: they're building. They're building together. Now they're coming together. He
[26:55] Speaker 4: does I'm not sure what he does, but I know
[26:57] Speaker 4: she's in the industry. So now her getting away from
[27:01] Speaker 4: her toxic pearance, her believing in herself and again having
[27:04] Speaker 4: that person there to remind her of her own power
[27:07] Speaker 4: that pivoted her and allowed her to bring forth more wealth,
[27:11] Speaker 4: to meet the right people in her life.
[27:13] Speaker 3: Who's gonna build with her?
[27:15] Speaker 2: Now just about show it's about money making conversations with
[27:18] Speaker 2: small business owners and entrepreneurs. How what device would we
[27:22] Speaker 2: give for entrepreneurs struggling to monetize their genius.
[27:27] Speaker 4: The advice I would give is change the wording. Change
[27:30] Speaker 4: the wording, cause when we say I'm struggling again, our
[27:34] Speaker 4: reality is being commanded through the words that we speak,
[27:38] Speaker 4: so our brain listens to that. So if we say
[27:41] Speaker 4: I'm struggling, if you play around and say, oh, I'm fat,
[27:44] Speaker 4: your brain gonna keep saying, okay, well, let me show
[27:46] Speaker 4: you that you are. So if you feel like you're
[27:48] Speaker 4: struggling with your own genius, change that. And affirmations are
[27:52] Speaker 4: powerful because this is the neuroscience. When you speak positivity,
[27:55] Speaker 4: your brain hears that and accept that is true. So
[27:59] Speaker 4: I'm not you know, don't say I'm struggling and change
[28:01] Speaker 4: the words for you, of course. But I'm empowered. I'm
[28:04] Speaker 4: very intelligent, I'm very smart. Speak life into yourself and
[28:07] Speaker 4: then dive into those aspects. If you feel like you
[28:10] Speaker 4: know I'm lacking in this area, now sit with that.
[28:14] Speaker 4: Instead of doing ten things a day, allow your schedule
[28:17] Speaker 4: to go down and do that one or two things.
[28:19] Speaker 4: Doing less is not people think when you do a
[28:21] Speaker 4: little bit, you're not doing nothing.
[28:23] Speaker 3: No, that's actually better.
[28:24] Speaker 4: If you can focus on one thing, you're going to
[28:26] Speaker 4: feel ten times better a year.
[28:28] Speaker 2: I've heard that you say the statement live, what do
[28:32] Speaker 2: you reference?
[28:33] Speaker 3: Oh lives? I do a live streaming on TikTok.
[28:37] Speaker 1: A little bit more detail about that.
[28:39] Speaker 4: So if you find me on all platforms of dit
[28:41] Speaker 4: princ but on my TikTok, I do go live three
[28:44] Speaker 4: days a week where I'm able to talk to people
[28:46] Speaker 4: about reprogramming their mindset, giving them advice. People come through,
[28:50] Speaker 4: they get free coaching. That's the time I do free
[28:52] Speaker 4: coaching for thirty minutes a day Monday, Wednesday and Friday
[28:55] Speaker 4: three thirty East your standard time.
[28:57] Speaker 2: As you close out and tell us one more time
[28:58] Speaker 2: about your book, Manda Tithes of Mind. That's colonized and
[29:02] Speaker 2: what readers can expect when they pick up this book.
[29:05] Speaker 1: I know you're talking about your thirty jobs in here briefly.
[29:10] Speaker 3: Yes, this book is going to shift you.
[29:12] Speaker 4: It's not a long read at all. It's a very
[29:15] Speaker 4: easy read. I made it like that on purpose. It's
[29:17] Speaker 4: going to reprogram you. Was going to activate you. And
[29:21] Speaker 4: it's a portal. It's really a portal for you to
[29:23] Speaker 4: reprogram yourself. Know that your wealth lies within and for
[29:26] Speaker 4: you to create that wealth on an external.
[29:30] Speaker 1: So where can I get it?
[29:31] Speaker 3: Oh, it's available on Amazon. Yes, if you go to Amazon,
[29:35] Speaker 3: you can type in monetize a mind that's colonized. It
[29:38] Speaker 3: will pop right up.
[29:39] Speaker 4: It is under my real name, Princess Hill, so you
[29:41] Speaker 4: will be able to see. But I'm the only monetize
[29:44] Speaker 4: a mind that's colinized too, So it's a black book
[29:46] Speaker 4: and it will.
[29:46] Speaker 3: Pop right up for you.
[29:47] Speaker 2: Well, you know, first of all, you contacted me. I
[29:50] Speaker 2: fell out to be a guest document that wonderful.
[29:54] Speaker 3: Thank you for having me.
[29:55] Speaker 2: What an honest conversation journey. The fact that I always
[29:59] Speaker 2: tell people going to college change my life. And I
[30:02] Speaker 2: always tell people to go to college because it allows
[30:04] Speaker 2: you to find who you are, and I found myself
[30:07] Speaker 2: in college. It looks like you outside of room and board.
[30:11] Speaker 2: You found yourself in college exactly.
[30:14] Speaker 3: You absolutely wrapped just what for room and board, but
[30:16] Speaker 3: it shifted me.
[30:18] Speaker 2: So congratulations in your life and congratulations on any future
[30:22] Speaker 2: success that you have. And thank you your deity for
[30:24] Speaker 2: coming on Money Making Conversations Class.
[30:27] Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. I'm so grateful.
[30:29] Speaker 5: This has been another edition of Money Making Conversations Masterclass
[30:33] Speaker 5: hosted by me Rashaan McDonald. Thank you to our guests
[30:37] Speaker 5: on the show today and thank you our listening audience.
[30:41] Speaker 5: Now if you want to listen to any episode I
[30:43] Speaker 5: want to register to be a guest on my show,
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[30:57] Speaker 1: Keep winning.

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