# William F. Buckley JR.'s Guide to Friendship in a Polarized Era

An episode of [History Unplugged Podcast](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1237796990), 4 Dec 2025, 40 min.

Audio: https://s.gum.fm/s-62a121b02a6f7798fef24ea9/traffic.omny.fm/d/clips/5e27a451-e6e6-4c51-aa03-a7370003783c/f29261d0-2b21-4ca3-8530-b192014643e7/7cfd333e-f86b-49fc-8437-b37f00a4f405/audio.mp3?utm_source=Podcast&in_playlist=f2485583-8f85-4713-b316-b19201465f8d

William F. Buckley Jr., the charismatic intellectual who defined modern American conservatism, was famously skilled at forging friendships across the ideological divide, a talent that helped him both shape the political landscape and navigate public opinion. His capacity for personal charm allowed him to be a public extremist and a private moderate, keeping him in the good graces of the liberal elite, including figures like Senator George McGovern and activist Allard Lowenstein, even as he worked to advance his conservative agenda; however, this magnanimity had its limits, most famously with his true enemy, Gore Vidal. Today's guest is Josh Cohen, author of William F. Buckley Jr.'s Guide to Friendship in a Polarized Era, and we explore how this patrician gatekeeper of the right strategically used ideological "frenemies" and acquaintances, such as the surprising connection with Hugh Hefner, to legitimize his movement and advance his influence, culminating in the infamous, televised confrontation with Gore Vidal that exposed how even Buckley's renowned decorum shattered when his core beliefs were challenged. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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