# The RSVP | Who Shows Up,Who Flakes, And What It Really Means

An episode of [Cocktales with Kiki](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1149484402), 28 Aug 2026, 55 min.

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In this solo episode of CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into what it really means to show up — for your friends, your relationships, and yourself. After a Sip & Spill caller admits she’s nervous about planning a party only to have people cancel, the conversation opens up into flakiness, dating etiquette, last-minute cancellations, and the difference between protecting your peace and simply being inconsiderate. Kiki also answers an Ask Kiki letter from a listener who feels like she’s wasting her twenties waiting for the next chapter of her life to finally begin, plus another very different dilemma involving a boyfriend, old sex videos, and one extremely questionable camera roll. From RSVP anxiety to mixed signals and learning how to enjoy your life before everything is perfectly figured out, this episode is about who shows up, who flakes, and what it really means. Follow me! @kikisaidso & @cocktalespodcast Contact Me! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Advertising: cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com Sip & Spill where I sip and you spill: 404-692-0039 Sponsors/Special Offers: IROHA August is Orgasm Month! Celebrate by upgrading your wellness routine with Iroha and check out my faves at https://tidd.ly/4wPnFa8 SOAKING WET Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off soakingwet.com Interested in Podcasting? Join the Cohort to learn from me! Fill Out The Interest Form https://forms.gle/TrzDVEUHtaHv6fW89 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

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