# Ep. 439 "Slumber Party Vibes"

An episode of [Cocktales with Kiki](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1149484402), 27 Mar 2025, 1 h 05 min.

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## Transcript

[0:02] Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Check one two, check one too. Is this
[0:04] Speaker 1: Mike on? Is this Mike going? Hey listen, man, it's
[0:07] Speaker 1: the one and only Trunks that the DJ sis. And
[0:10] Speaker 1: you're listening to Cocktails Dirty Discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe.
[0:14] Speaker 2: Here, welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions, you guys.
[0:26] Speaker 3: I'm Kiki, said so.
[0:27] Speaker 1: And I'm Medina Monroe.
[0:29] Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, And this week we are in our Jammy's
[0:33] Speaker 2: were cozy and comfy.
[0:35] Speaker 1: It's caught outside.
[0:36] Speaker 3: Then it's two am. Well not really bedamn near. I
[0:38] Speaker 3: mean you'd also the same after two girl.
[0:41] Speaker 1: And you know, it's so funny that you said that,
[0:43] Speaker 1: because now I have really full days. I used to
[0:47] Speaker 1: be a late night sleeper, a Kiki. I'm late morning,
[0:51] Speaker 1: late night.
[0:52] Speaker 3: Sleeper, like go to sleep late.
[0:54] Speaker 1: Oh okay, did I say it wrong, A late night sleeper,
[0:58] Speaker 1: go ahead late, like creep night. I was up in
[1:02] Speaker 1: the week hours of the night. And I just that
[1:04] Speaker 1: used to be like my thing, like I'm staying up late.
[1:06] Speaker 1: I like to be in the bed at a decent
[1:10] Speaker 1: hour like I like to be. Now sometimes my days
[1:13] Speaker 1: run long, but let me say this, I look forward
[1:16] Speaker 1: to getting in the bed like I'm talking about showered, teeth,
[1:18] Speaker 1: brushed skin routine done by like nine pm.
[1:22] Speaker 3: Did you have a secret baby?
[1:24] Speaker 2: Because it's given mom the most be going to bed
[1:28] Speaker 2: and in the bed, I'll be tired.
[1:31] Speaker 3: I mean, I get it.
[1:33] Speaker 1: And you know what else I'm realizing, like when you
[1:35] Speaker 1: have certain lifestyle changes, you cannot commit to them if
[1:39] Speaker 1: you don't get quality sleep. I can't get up early
[1:42] Speaker 1: and go work out with the trainer. That is expensive.
[1:46] Speaker 1: If I don't get in the bed early.
[1:49] Speaker 3: How long do you typically sleep?
[1:51] Speaker 1: I need my eight hours, bitch. Now I might not
[1:54] Speaker 1: I need them. I don't always get them, but I
[1:56] Speaker 1: need my eight hour. I really enjoy resting, and I don't.
[2:00] Speaker 1: I'm not a nap person. I've never have been. I
[2:02] Speaker 1: told myself on my goals list I was going to
[2:04] Speaker 1: incorporate more naps. I haven't done it, and so I'd
[2:08] Speaker 1: like to get in the bed and get a quality sleep. Now.
[2:10] Speaker 1: If I can't do it, I can't do it. But
[2:12] Speaker 1: I like when the days that I get to do it,
[2:14] Speaker 1: which have not been in a minute, I'm hoping on
[2:17] Speaker 1: Sunday I can get some quality sleep, go to sleep
[2:19] Speaker 1: by nine thirty pm and wake up at like seven.
[2:25] Speaker 2: Okay, I do get wanting some rest. I haven't been
[2:31] Speaker 2: able to do that, like on my busy days, and
[2:33] Speaker 2: it's hard, and some days I do. Honestly, it's like
[2:36] Speaker 2: I can't do stuff. I can't interact with people like
[2:39] Speaker 2: I just can't because I'm burnt out.
[2:41] Speaker 1: I'm tired.
[2:42] Speaker 3: So I get it. I wish I could.
[2:44] Speaker 2: I was gonna ask you when you do get in
[2:46] Speaker 2: your bed and you've done all your routine, you're laying down,
[2:49] Speaker 2: you know you have an early morning. Do you just
[2:51] Speaker 2: close your eyes and fall asleep or do you need
[2:54] Speaker 2: to do something to like lull yourself to sleep.
[2:58] Speaker 3: I have a whole routine. What you do.
[3:00] Speaker 1: I like a vanilla candle. I like the smell vanilla
[3:03] Speaker 1: or something warm when I go to sleep. I've noticed
[3:05] Speaker 1: that I wake up in a happier mood when that is,
[3:08] Speaker 1: and I let it run all night. So I light
[3:10] Speaker 1: my candle, turn off the lights. I talk to God.
[3:15] Speaker 1: I journal, even if it's a quick little sentence. It
[3:18] Speaker 1: might not be like a fool, you know, it might
[3:21] Speaker 1: just be like a quick little sentence. I talk to God,
[3:23] Speaker 1: thank him, have some conversations, ask him some questions, and
[3:27] Speaker 1: then I take my AirPods out, I put one in
[3:30] Speaker 1: my left ear, and I've been doing this guided sleep
[3:34] Speaker 1: meditation and it's like a three hour long thing, so
[3:38] Speaker 1: that by the time it's done, I'm sleep And yeah,
[3:41] Speaker 1: I put it in my ear, I roll over, put
[3:44] Speaker 1: my eyemask on, and I lay there listen and go
[3:47] Speaker 1: to sleep. And some nights if I always do the
[3:50] Speaker 1: little listen in the prayer, sometimes I'll add in a
[3:53] Speaker 1: little reading. I'm reading a lot of books right now.
[3:55] Speaker 3: So what is the latest book you start reading? It's
[3:58] Speaker 3: called Trust Issues. Mm hmm, it's nonfiction. I take this
[4:01] Speaker 3: is not a dramatic novel.
[4:03] Speaker 1: No myself. I want to try to start getting into
[4:08] Speaker 1: like fantasy books. I want to read, like if y'all
[4:11] Speaker 1: are into like dragons and stuff, I want to read
[4:13] Speaker 1: a book about a dragon. But no, that one is
[4:16] Speaker 1: not dragons. It is about uh, losing trust in niggas.
[4:21] Speaker 2: Oh wow, I might wrote a chapter and that book
[4:26] Speaker 2: didn't even know it.
[4:28] Speaker 1: Do you have a sleep routine when you get in
[4:30] Speaker 1: like or do you just go to bed? Mmm?
[4:34] Speaker 2: Honestly, well, it's not a healthy routine. Nobody needs to
[4:37] Speaker 2: do this. But I usually work until my eyes get blurry.
[4:45] Speaker 3: Then out of habit.
[4:47] Speaker 2: I like to have the TV on, so sometimes I
[4:51] Speaker 2: put something on that I know will make me go
[4:53] Speaker 2: to sleep because it's gonna be boring, or it's really dark,
[4:56] Speaker 2: like not.
[4:57] Speaker 3: Darkened thing, but the lighting on the show.
[5:00] Speaker 2: So that's why I always fall asleep to Silo, even
[5:02] Speaker 2: though when I watch it during the daytime it is
[5:04] Speaker 2: so good.
[5:05] Speaker 3: But at night I put it on and I'll be
[5:06] Speaker 3: out in a few minutes. Set the sleep tiper on
[5:10] Speaker 3: the TV. When I remember. Sometimes I have me a
[5:13] Speaker 3: little by him Zin or Cloud Nine. It depends on
[5:18] Speaker 3: the day.
[5:19] Speaker 2: I might even throw in a little beverage, the Ta
[5:23] Speaker 2: She Beverages. I've been cutting back on my alcohol and
[5:27] Speaker 2: going back, well not going back, but starting up something else.
[5:30] Speaker 2: And then some days I just try to skip off
[5:32] Speaker 2: of that now to calm my mind. This usually happens
[5:36] Speaker 2: before I go to bed, like when I take a
[5:38] Speaker 2: shower and I know, Okay, you gotta wind down. You
[5:41] Speaker 2: can't keep staying up until the wee hours of the
[5:43] Speaker 2: morning and still waking up early.
[5:45] Speaker 3: You're gonna look more old than you already do, and
[5:47] Speaker 3: it's just not good.
[5:49] Speaker 2: Usually, whenever I take my shower, or my bath. While
[5:55] Speaker 2: I'm in there, I'm like, Okay, what I need to
[5:56] Speaker 2: talk to God about? What do I need to be
[5:58] Speaker 2: thankful for today? What do I want to journal about?
[6:01] Speaker 2: What do I want to make sure that I try
[6:04] Speaker 2: different tomorrow? And how I approach today. Like while I'm
[6:08] Speaker 2: washing my face, I usually don't be wrapping my hair.
[6:11] Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna lie to y'all. But while I'm
[6:14] Speaker 2: in the bathroom and just having a calm moment, I
[6:17] Speaker 2: like to light candles and all that in there, but
[6:21] Speaker 2: not everywhere else because I'm afraid that I'll burn my
[6:24] Speaker 2: place down. Okay, like what if something happens. What if
[6:28] Speaker 2: Whitley jumps on something and something falls on a candle
[6:31] Speaker 2: and I'm sleep and I would thank God for insurance,
[6:35] Speaker 2: but you just never know. So anyway, I have my
[6:37] Speaker 2: reflective moments then and then I go back on the
[6:41] Speaker 2: computer watch something on TV. Those are probably the calm nights,
[6:45] Speaker 2: but I'm trying to do better. I want to sleep
[6:47] Speaker 2: on the couch so many times, and that shit is
[6:49] Speaker 2: not comfortable. I want to get in my bed and
[6:51] Speaker 2: that was an expensive bed and it feels good.
[6:53] Speaker 1: Yeah, my sleep has to be topped tier like it
[6:56] Speaker 1: really and that's like a new thing, but it has.
[6:59] Speaker 3: It feels good. Everything is different.
[7:03] Speaker 2: I've been trying to recharge on the weekends and really
[7:07] Speaker 2: get a lot of sleep then and like make sure
[7:10] Speaker 2: that I'm comfortable and do like more relaxing things. But
[7:12] Speaker 2: my every day is very hectic, very not nothing nobody
[7:16] Speaker 2: needs to do.
[7:17] Speaker 1: Yeah, life, life is life is live. But speaking of
[7:22] Speaker 1: watching shows, this isn't a show. This is a movie.
[7:24] Speaker 1: I watched this movie the other night and it was
[7:26] Speaker 1: actually so good. My sister told me about it. It's
[7:29] Speaker 1: called The Photograph. Have you watched that. It's on Amazon Prime.
[7:33] Speaker 1: It has like I've heard of it. It has Ray
[7:35] Speaker 1: and Lakeith Stanfield. He is so fine to me. Do
[7:40] Speaker 1: you think he's fine? He's so fine to me. This
[7:43] Speaker 1: movie he really had like I wanted. This is gonna
[7:46] Speaker 1: sound really crazy, but the whole time I was watching
[7:48] Speaker 1: the movie, I wanted to masturbate the whole movie. And
[7:50] Speaker 1: I've never felt like that just watching a normal movie.
[7:53] Speaker 2: Their chemistry was on fire to masturbate, because I remember
[7:56] Speaker 2: he had a little scandal when he was on whatever
[7:58] Speaker 2: that telegraph or whatever the fuck app He was on
[8:01] Speaker 2: there moaning and ship. It was just moaning, sexual moaning
[8:05] Speaker 2: in like one of those audio room apps, and everybody's
[8:08] Speaker 2: talking about him.
[8:09] Speaker 1: But did he know he could be heard.
[8:11] Speaker 3: That's all you can be on there. You can't be seen,
[8:13] Speaker 3: you can only be hot. I don't know what happened.
[8:15] Speaker 3: He was he was SI that movie.
[8:18] Speaker 1: Everybody was looking fine, and I was just it was
[8:20] Speaker 1: just such a good movie, like this, the storyline, this,
[8:25] Speaker 1: the love story.
[8:25] Speaker 3: It wasn't It was just such.
[8:27] Speaker 1: A good watch. I didn't I didn't even know him
[8:29] Speaker 1: and East had that movie together. It was amazing.
[8:31] Speaker 2: Yeah, I forgot about that one. I started watching. Okay,
[8:35] Speaker 2: White Lotus came out.
[8:36] Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I didn't even know. I've been going
[8:40] Speaker 1: to sleep at nine pm. I can't wake up, you.
[8:47] Speaker 3: Do, but it's, you know, on demand new episodes.
[8:50] Speaker 2: I think every Sunday. Not a sponsor, but you could be.
[8:54] Speaker 2: White Lotus is back. They are in Bali, right, I
[8:58] Speaker 2: think that's Bali where they staying the Ritz. Remember, I
[9:03] Speaker 2: don't think it's the Ritz. I kind of feel like
[9:06] Speaker 2: it it's another one of those nice ass hotels. But
[9:08] Speaker 2: I don't think it's the Rits anyway.
[9:10] Speaker 3: I don't know what it is. But they're there.
[9:12] Speaker 2: There's lots of new people on the show, on the cast.
[9:16] Speaker 2: Her name is escaping me right now. But the actress
[9:20] Speaker 2: who was on who played Kelly on Insecure, she's back
[9:25] Speaker 2: because in the last season, if y'all remember, she was
[9:28] Speaker 2: working in the hotel, So now she's at this hotel.
[9:32] Speaker 2: What was the girl's name, the like ditzy one that
[9:35] Speaker 2: always seems like she has several Xanax with her when yeah,
[9:39] Speaker 2: she died last season.
[9:42] Speaker 1: That was just such a shock. Soals, that was such
[9:47] Speaker 1: a shock.
[9:48] Speaker 3: Maybe she wanted to break, maybe she wanted to sleep.
[9:50] Speaker 1: I don't know.
[9:51] Speaker 3: I don't know, but that was good.
[9:54] Speaker 2: And I started something new, but I can't think of it.
[9:56] Speaker 2: If it comes to me, I'll tell y'all later. And
[9:58] Speaker 2: then I have been in the book club for February.
[10:02] Speaker 2: We read this book called Real Like r E E
[10:07] Speaker 2: L by Kennedy Ryan. This is like the second, third
[10:11] Speaker 2: or fourth book.
[10:11] Speaker 3: I don't know. We've read a lot of her books.
[10:13] Speaker 2: It's a love story, but it's about an actor and
[10:16] Speaker 2: a director.
[10:17] Speaker 3: That was pretty good.
[10:18] Speaker 2: And then I got Will Packer, the producer has a
[10:24] Speaker 2: new book, and so I started reading that.
[10:28] Speaker 3: I'm trying to see what the name is.
[10:29] Speaker 2: I keep forgetting, but it's really good and a lot
[10:34] Speaker 2: of times I don't like autobiographies, Sometimes I do.
[10:38] Speaker 3: It depends, and I prefer to want.
[10:41] Speaker 2: I like to listen to a lot of books, but
[10:42] Speaker 2: I really like to listen to autobiographies when the person
[10:47] Speaker 2: who wrote the book is reading it, because I want
[10:50] Speaker 2: to hear it in their voice.
[10:51] Speaker 3: With Thera, it just does something different.
[10:53] Speaker 1: You can connect better.
[10:55] Speaker 2: And this one is more of like a graphic audio
[10:57] Speaker 2: novel where it's multiple people speaking, there's narrator. She's funny.
[11:01] Speaker 2: I did not expect the book to be funny. It's
[11:04] Speaker 2: not about acting, writing, producing, or none of that. And
[11:06] Speaker 2: it's really good and there's a lot of good lessons
[11:08] Speaker 2: in there. I'm like halfway through, I definitely want to
[11:10] Speaker 2: finish it. That was really good. And then what else?
[11:14] Speaker 3: There was another book? I can't think of that either.
[11:16] Speaker 2: But I've been trying to find more stuff and doing
[11:20] Speaker 2: nonfiction and fiction.
[11:24] Speaker 3: But sometimes because like.
[11:25] Speaker 2: When I'm listening to the nonfiction, when I'm reading the
[11:27] Speaker 2: non fiction, I want to focus on just that it'll
[11:30] Speaker 2: be too much.
[11:31] Speaker 3: I think Sundays will be my non fiction days.
[11:35] Speaker 1: I love that I can just.
[11:36] Speaker 3: Relax and read something to grow.
[11:39] Speaker 1: Okay, that's growing learning like to learn so much to learn.
[11:44] Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm trying to learn words. I'm trying
[11:49] Speaker 1: to explain expand my vocabulary.
[11:51] Speaker 3: And I'd be like, do you use an app or
[11:54] Speaker 3: like people? Or what do you do to like.
[11:59] Speaker 1: Big words? What that means? I'm use.
[12:02] Speaker 3: I was not expecting that at all.
[12:05] Speaker 1: I don't need not another app, but okay, I wanted
[12:08] Speaker 1: to talk really quick about my Paradise and Vibe trip
[12:10] Speaker 1: to Sedona, Arizona. Somebody here I had just been saying
[12:14] Speaker 1: Sedona and somebody was like, what country is that in.
[12:16] Speaker 1: I was like, y'all, America. I'm in Arizona, which is
[12:21] Speaker 1: Arizona is in America. But with Paradise and Vibe, I
[12:25] Speaker 1: host all of their retreats. We're going August twenty fourth
[12:29] Speaker 1: to the twenty seventh, and you guys, are you ready
[12:32] Speaker 1: for this? Perhaps, Oh my gosh, guess what we have
[12:36] Speaker 1: coming as a special guest Beyonce.
[12:39] Speaker 3: That is exciting.
[12:42] Speaker 1: I have been dying like for the longest, we couldn't
[12:45] Speaker 1: say anything about it because stuff wasn't sure yet. We
[12:50] Speaker 1: just weren't sure. And the whole theme of this trip
[12:53] Speaker 1: is the magic of big thinking. And the way that
[12:57] Speaker 1: we even got her, it was just the magic of
[13:00] Speaker 1: big thinking, just being like, bro, let's just try. Let's
[13:03] Speaker 1: just try to get And we have several other guests
[13:06] Speaker 1: that will be making appearances. This retreat is going to
[13:09] Speaker 1: be like a festival. It's called Vibefest. Like I said,
[13:12] Speaker 1: the theme is the magic of big thinking. There is
[13:15] Speaker 1: nothing that is impossible for you. Us. Booking Isa Ray
[13:18] Speaker 1: has been a gift, like this is I get to
[13:21] Speaker 1: interview her like we're doing a whole were Oh my god,
[13:24] Speaker 1: Like I'm just like where Paradise and Vibe is going.
[13:27] Speaker 1: It's I'm shaking. I'm so excited. There are several that
[13:30] Speaker 1: will have two New York Times bestsellers lit on the
[13:34] Speaker 1: guest list, and Lion Babe is going to be joining us.
[13:39] Speaker 3: She's actually gonna do.
[13:40] Speaker 1: We do a farewell dinner every retreat, but this time,
[13:43] Speaker 1: since it's like a festival, it'll be like a We
[13:46] Speaker 1: have top DJs coming, y'all. This is going to be
[13:49] Speaker 1: one of the best retreats. And I'm so happy that
[13:51] Speaker 1: it's stateside so that as many people that can come
[13:55] Speaker 1: that have issues, you know, traveling long distances you can
[13:58] Speaker 1: come Paradise and Vibe has honestly like changed my life.
[14:02] Speaker 1: It has brought a level of wellness and just community
[14:09] Speaker 1: to my life that I've always needed. And yes I
[14:11] Speaker 1: work with them and host their retreats, but it's like family,
[14:13] Speaker 1: and it feels like family. Every guest that we've ever
[14:16] Speaker 1: booked to come and do a workshop or to speak,
[14:19] Speaker 1: they feel like family. They end up coming and you
[14:22] Speaker 1: think you're just coming to like work and do your
[14:23] Speaker 1: thing and did, but people end up being like, like,
[14:25] Speaker 1: I want to actually like interact with y'all. Like so
[14:29] Speaker 1: to know that is going to be joining us on
[14:32] Speaker 1: this I love. I have watched her from the beginning
[14:35] Speaker 1: of her career. I remember I joined a church group
[14:38] Speaker 1: last year and it was a business group and they
[14:40] Speaker 1: were like, we had to do like a fake pitch
[14:42] Speaker 1: and they're like, who do you pick somebody that you
[14:44] Speaker 1: want to do a fake pitch to? It was and
[14:46] Speaker 1: the fact that now I get to like, I'm going
[14:48] Speaker 1: to get to have a one on one interview with
[14:49] Speaker 1: her on a stage and then behind the scenes. I
[14:52] Speaker 1: am so excited. I hope you guys will join us
[14:55] Speaker 1: go to Paradise and Vibe dot Com. We're just now
[14:57] Speaker 1: announcing that is going to be joining. So so I
[15:01] Speaker 1: really advise you to save your spot because there's already
[15:03] Speaker 1: not enough seats left because I was hosting it. If
[15:06] Speaker 1: people was trying to buy all the tickets because of me,
[15:09] Speaker 1: but I'm just playing. They really don't be Vine and
[15:12] Speaker 1: when we when everybody finds out about Easter Ray, So
[15:14] Speaker 1: reserve your spot, bring your girlfriends, put the link in
[15:17] Speaker 1: the group chat. And I cannot wait until August twenty fourth.
[15:21] Speaker 1: It's going to be life changing and it's going to
[15:23] Speaker 1: be well wellness. Come get well with us and have
[15:26] Speaker 1: a good time.
[15:27] Speaker 3: That sounds really good. I'm happy, y'all.
[15:29] Speaker 1: I'm so excited, Like I just have this idea that
[15:32] Speaker 1: I'm going to talk to her and we're gonna.
[15:33] Speaker 3: Be friends, and I hope that works out.
[15:36] Speaker 1: How amazing would that be? Like I am an awkward
[15:38] Speaker 1: black girl just like you. I need you to know that.
[15:43] Speaker 1: So y'all, come book the trip. Come and don't don't
[15:46] Speaker 1: be complaining it be sad this year. Come to Arizona.
[15:50] Speaker 1: I didn't know that Sedona specifically. Oh, and we're staying
[15:54] Speaker 1: at the Enchantment Resort, which is a really nice resort.
[15:58] Speaker 1: They it is one of the most healing places in
[16:00] Speaker 1: the world because of all the rocks, the different yeah.
[16:03] Speaker 3: And somewhere where they are some kind of line. I
[16:06] Speaker 3: don't know.
[16:08] Speaker 2: Sean had told me about that place. Well, I knew
[16:10] Speaker 2: what Sedona was, but I didn't know about the magic
[16:15] Speaker 2: and the mystic nature of it and how it's like
[16:18] Speaker 2: this great like spiritual place for all of these different things.
[16:22] Speaker 2: She had actually talked to me about moving there at
[16:25] Speaker 2: one point. Many more the problem she was my age.
[16:27] Speaker 2: Damn we both anyway, life change.
[16:31] Speaker 3: She didn't move. We both to steal in Atlanta. But yeah,
[16:35] Speaker 3: I heard about it. It seems really cool.
[16:37] Speaker 2: I'm about to check my schedule. Yeah, let's see about coming.
[16:42] Speaker 2: I also want to remind you guys before we move
[16:45] Speaker 2: on to Weird Sex, to sign up for Patreon patreon
[16:49] Speaker 2: dot com slash cocktails.
[16:51] Speaker 1: I promise we're gonna post the bonus episode very soon
[16:53] Speaker 1: one day.
[16:54] Speaker 2: But we have been in a live and we have
[16:58] Speaker 2: been staying on for quite some time. I really enjoys
[17:00] Speaker 2: a gay night. It was that we did at the
[17:02] Speaker 2: end of January. We haven't done our February one. When
[17:06] Speaker 2: we're recording this, but I.
[17:07] Speaker 3: Think it'll be cool. And then what else I want
[17:10] Speaker 3: to tell y'all?
[17:11] Speaker 1: I forgot.
[17:11] Speaker 3: It'll come to me later. We'll move on to weird sex.
[17:16] Speaker 1: You said a man is not a necessity.
[17:19] Speaker 3: A man is a luxury like dessert. Yeah, a man
[17:23] Speaker 3: is absolutely not necessity.
[17:25] Speaker 1: Did you mean that to sound meaning bitter?
[17:29] Speaker 2: Oh not at all.
[17:30] Speaker 3: I adore dessert. I love man. I think men are
[17:33] Speaker 3: the coolest, but you don't really need them to live.
[17:40] Speaker 2: All right, So this week's weird sex. I was going
[17:43] Speaker 2: to tell you guys some pleasurable thing, but I'm not.
[17:48] Speaker 1: Okay, okay, it's gonna be something crazy.
[17:51] Speaker 2: I just want to remind everybody to be careful who
[17:55] Speaker 2: you choose to be with.
[17:59] Speaker 3: Talk to these people, get to know them.
[18:03] Speaker 1: And play the game with them.
[18:05] Speaker 2: Also do background checks because sometimes people really be repeat offenders.
[18:11] Speaker 2: I'm just saying. So, anyway, this week's where sex. A
[18:15] Speaker 2: coworker actually send this to me and he's like, you
[18:17] Speaker 2: can do this for your show, and I was like, yes,
[18:19] Speaker 2: thank you.
[18:20] Speaker 3: This man committed.
[18:24] Speaker 2: A crazy crime and for what so and this was
[18:29] Speaker 2: on the news. He drove seven hundred miles to burn
[18:36] Speaker 2: down the home of a man who.
[18:40] Speaker 3: Was talking to his ex girlfriend. If that's not.
[18:46] Speaker 1: Okay, I'm confused. Was he in a gay relationship with
[18:48] Speaker 1: the man, or he was talking to his girlfriend and
[18:51] Speaker 1: he went and burned down his.
[18:55] Speaker 3: Who So a man went.
[18:59] Speaker 2: And drove and burned down another man's house because that
[19:02] Speaker 2: other man was talking to his ex girlfriend. A jealousy
[19:05] Speaker 2: type thing, not that the men were together, but it's like,
[19:08] Speaker 2: don't talk to my girl.
[19:10] Speaker 3: It's one of those misplaced angry things. You mad at him.
[19:13] Speaker 2: And now I don't know if it's the ex girlfriend
[19:16] Speaker 2: now because you know you've burned this man's house down,
[19:19] Speaker 2: or if it's the ex girlfriend because they were already
[19:22] Speaker 2: broken up, But either way it goes.
[19:24] Speaker 3: People be crazy and you drive seven hundred miles.
[19:27] Speaker 2: No car is driving seven hundred miles without having to
[19:31] Speaker 2: stop of the gas station and refuel multiple times. There
[19:35] Speaker 2: were multiple shocks where you could have stopped, refueled, and
[19:38] Speaker 2: turned your ass around.
[19:39] Speaker 1: Like you had several miles to think about what you
[19:42] Speaker 1: was about to do.
[19:43] Speaker 3: I'm convinced it was math.
[19:44] Speaker 2: I'll find out when the trial happens, and I'll just
[19:47] Speaker 2: maybe I'll I'll update y'all somewhere maybe on the Patrech.
[19:49] Speaker 1: I'm so happy that winter is done and over with.
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[20:01] Speaker 1: I'm so happy that it we're going into the springtime.
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[22:00] Speaker 1: even still when people do stuff like that, like okay,
[22:02] Speaker 1: you're you're clearly your emotions were out of whack. You
[22:05] Speaker 1: were something told you to do it. When you get
[22:08] Speaker 1: locked up and you're sitting in the jail cell and
[22:09] Speaker 1: everything has calmed down, are you like, dang, I shouldn't
[22:12] Speaker 1: have did that, or you think he's sitting in there
[22:15] Speaker 1: like and that's damn and I didn't kill him, Like yeah,
[22:18] Speaker 1: like are you proud of yourself?
[22:20] Speaker 2: I'd be joking sometimes and I'd be talking about people
[22:23] Speaker 2: being on math or crack or whatever. But a lot
[22:25] Speaker 2: of times I really am convinced his drugs or you
[22:28] Speaker 2: used to be on drugs real bad and you might
[22:31] Speaker 2: be off now, but your your mind is much I
[22:34] Speaker 2: just don't know.
[22:35] Speaker 3: I don't know, but some other or some mental illness.
[22:38] Speaker 1: When I was on my way here today and I
[22:40] Speaker 1: was sitting in traffic, I have a brother and my
[22:42] Speaker 1: dad has other kids. I think I've spoken about it before.
[22:44] Speaker 1: He and uh, he's in prison and he's never getting out,
[22:47] Speaker 1: and we talked. We've been like kind of like building
[22:49] Speaker 1: a relationship. So he will call me almost like every week.
[22:53] Speaker 1: And so when he when I was driving here to record.
[22:56] Speaker 1: I was in traffic. He called me. I picked up,
[22:57] Speaker 1: and we're on the prison call. And every time we're
[22:59] Speaker 1: on the prison call, the you ever talk to somebody
[23:01] Speaker 1: in prison? No, okay, well it's always somebody like I
[23:05] Speaker 1: lie African, like, oh yeah, you did talk. So you know,
[23:08] Speaker 1: it's like you'll be talking and then you just get
[23:09] Speaker 1: interrupted by the voice comes up and it's like this
[23:12] Speaker 1: is a correctional facility call, and it's like all these
[23:15] Speaker 1: they say, all these things like and it's like you
[23:17] Speaker 1: just he just be talking over it, and I'd be like,
[23:19] Speaker 1: did he not hear it? No, you can hear it.
[23:21] Speaker 1: Everybody here, Oh he could hear it. I could hear it.
[23:23] Speaker 1: We could hear it, Like everybody just hears it. And
[23:25] Speaker 1: the lady just pops in and says, it's reminding us
[23:27] Speaker 1: and this is a correctional facility call, bitch, we know,
[23:30] Speaker 1: like this is. It just makes it really uncomfortable. And
[23:33] Speaker 1: so sometimes when I'm talking to him on the phone,
[23:36] Speaker 1: he's never getting out. And I'm the way that my
[23:39] Speaker 1: mind like processes things, it's like you really, yes, we
[23:42] Speaker 1: all make mistakes, and we've all done some things that
[23:43] Speaker 1: maybe could have lend you in jail, but you never been.
[23:45] Speaker 1: You have never I know you haven't and I have
[23:47] Speaker 1: never been like I'm setting myself out to go burn
[23:49] Speaker 1: a house down or kill somebody today.
[23:51] Speaker 3: Absolutely not.
[23:52] Speaker 1: And my brother kills somebody and so he's not getting out.
[23:55] Speaker 1: And so like one day we were on the phone.
[23:56] Speaker 1: I was just like, like, do you miss life? Like
[24:01] Speaker 1: I understand you have to do things to make yourself
[24:04] Speaker 1: feel happy as you sit your life in this prison cell.
[24:09] Speaker 1: And he was like yeah. I was like, do you
[24:11] Speaker 1: ever think about like, what like the bad decisions you
[24:16] Speaker 1: made to like landing yourself here, And he was like
[24:17] Speaker 1: I do, like and do you know that they were bad?
[24:20] Speaker 1: Like because it was like when you were making those decisions,
[24:22] Speaker 1: we all know that killing someone, you're going to prison,
[24:26] Speaker 1: we all know what you stand to lose. You don't
[24:29] Speaker 1: And this is just on a small scale. You don't
[24:30] Speaker 1: ever get to touch a woman again. Like that's I
[24:34] Speaker 1: don't know if there's the correction off, but yeah, but
[24:36] Speaker 1: a little frumpy woman, I'm some of them.
[24:38] Speaker 3: Don't be frump behind.
[24:40] Speaker 2: Oh you know, I've done some stories on them, fucking
[24:43] Speaker 2: the prisoners and putting it all only fans, but anyway continue,
[24:46] Speaker 2: but like you still don't get You don't get to
[24:48] Speaker 2: just wake up and like make some eggs. You don't
[24:52] Speaker 2: get to just go breathe the fresh air and just
[24:54] Speaker 2: like take a walk outside. You are like locked up
[24:57] Speaker 2: with like aggressive people for the rest of your life.
[25:05] Speaker 1: Was it worth it? What did he say? No? And
[25:09] Speaker 1: it's just really sad because it wasn't drugs for him.
[25:11] Speaker 1: It was just like bad decisions, bad decisions, unfortunate upbringing. No.
[25:19] Speaker 1: I mean, it was several different occasions where he was
[25:21] Speaker 1: in jail, but this was the one that landed him
[25:23] Speaker 1: in prison for the rest of your life. And it's
[25:24] Speaker 1: just like I just can't imagine just really sitting in jail,
[25:27] Speaker 1: like I really burned somebody's house now, and I don't
[25:29] Speaker 1: get to get out and just like put my feet
[25:31] Speaker 1: in some grass or just be how we were talking
[25:33] Speaker 1: about like a night routine. No, you're laying on a
[25:35] Speaker 1: metal piece of material with the with the little mats
[25:41] Speaker 1: from pe class I would I'm sitting here talking about
[25:47] Speaker 1: how sleep is so important. It's niggas in here just
[25:49] Speaker 1: screaming and wanting to stab you in the side of
[25:51] Speaker 1: your head because they mentally like I really think about
[25:54] Speaker 1: going to sometimes I watch those jail shows. If you
[25:56] Speaker 1: go to jail, even if you just go to county
[25:58] Speaker 1: jail for a little bit or prison, like you're in
[26:00] Speaker 1: there with you're in there essentially with like mentally ill
[26:03] Speaker 1: homeless people. Think about it before you go drive seven
[26:12] Speaker 1: hundred miles to burn some bies. I just can't know.
[26:16] Speaker 3: I watched a movie called Trial by Fire.
[26:20] Speaker 2: It's based on a true story.
[26:25] Speaker 3: It's on Netflix right now.
[26:26] Speaker 1: You guys.
[26:28] Speaker 2: The man goes to prison but he didn't do the crime,
[26:33] Speaker 2: and he's on death row in Texas. I mean they
[26:35] Speaker 2: executed him. It's done, but.
[26:38] Speaker 1: He didn't do it.
[26:41] Speaker 3: Oh no, so they were in course to Cana.
[26:45] Speaker 2: The movie's really good and it's there's a book and
[26:49] Speaker 2: I was like, wait a minute, because the writer of
[26:52] Speaker 2: the book is Elizabeth Gilbert, but it's not your Elizabeth Gilbert.
[26:54] Speaker 3: It's another one. And what's so crazy about all this?
[27:00] Speaker 2: She was just like some random person that just like
[27:03] Speaker 2: it's crazy how the world works and how you meet somebody,
[27:06] Speaker 2: and so nobody believed him. He goes to prison because
[27:10] Speaker 2: this is the other thing and you can't do nothing
[27:11] Speaker 2: to avoid this. He went to prison for this he
[27:16] Speaker 2: goes to trial, they find him guilty. He's on death row.
[27:21] Speaker 2: They don't give you your date until later. You just
[27:24] Speaker 2: know you're going to be executed. Who knows when it's
[27:26] Speaker 2: going to be, and then tell you a day and
[27:28] Speaker 2: you don't know what it's going to be. And he
[27:29] Speaker 2: was in there because they said that he killed his
[27:33] Speaker 2: children by setting the house on fire.
[27:36] Speaker 3: And he maintained his innocence throughout.
[27:39] Speaker 1: And he.
[27:42] Speaker 2: Met her towards the end of his sentence, and so
[27:46] Speaker 2: she starts like trying to fight for him and raise
[27:50] Speaker 2: awareness and find an experson in all this other stuff.
[27:53] Speaker 2: He didn't have a fair trial, all this stuff. I mean,
[27:55] Speaker 2: I'm saying he didn't do it, but it's not like
[27:57] Speaker 2: he ever got let off. They did execute him, is
[28:00] Speaker 2: the stories.
[28:01] Speaker 1: But anyway, was there any sort of proof that looked
[28:04] Speaker 1: like he did it?
[28:05] Speaker 3: Oh, that looked like he did it?
[28:08] Speaker 1: No.
[28:10] Speaker 3: The way that they the problem was he was in
[28:13] Speaker 3: a small town.
[28:14] Speaker 1: Was he black?
[28:15] Speaker 3: No white people? He was in a small town.
[28:19] Speaker 2: He had a bad reputation for being like a ladies man,
[28:22] Speaker 2: and all this other stuff. He was abusive to his
[28:26] Speaker 2: girlfriend slash baby mama with or no that was his wife.
[28:29] Speaker 2: Maybe it was karma that got him. I don't know,
[28:32] Speaker 2: but there were other little things that happened. But people
[28:35] Speaker 2: already had it in their mind about him, right, and
[28:38] Speaker 2: so they had experts who were sharing things and saying
[28:43] Speaker 2: this is proof that he did it and that it
[28:46] Speaker 2: went a certain way. But nobody ever challenged it. Nobody
[28:49] Speaker 2: looked at what else it could be. They just took
[28:52] Speaker 2: this person who says that they were an expert based
[28:54] Speaker 2: on whatever. They took their word for it. And ordinarily,
[28:59] Speaker 2: if you have a good look where the lawyer, your
[29:02] Speaker 2: lawyer will challenge, challenge that and find your own set
[29:05] Speaker 2: of None of that shit happened anyway. It was interesting
[29:08] Speaker 2: because he went to prison and spent the rest of
[29:10] Speaker 2: his life there and he ain't even do it.
[29:12] Speaker 1: Prison just seems very like just even they.
[29:15] Speaker 3: Beat his ass in there real bad. They was call
[29:17] Speaker 3: him baby killer.
[29:19] Speaker 1: I can't go to jail, y'all. Like I'm just like no, no.
[29:22] Speaker 2: And then even when I watch those other shows, it's like,
[29:24] Speaker 2: like you said, you might go to County for a
[29:26] Speaker 2: little bit, A lot of people be going to county
[29:28] Speaker 2: for a long time because you got to wait on
[29:29] Speaker 2: your child day. You might not get bail, the judge
[29:33] Speaker 2: won't give it to you, or you can't make the bill.
[29:36] Speaker 1: I'll never forget one time when I was dating Carlos
[29:38] Speaker 1: and he did go to jail. He went to County John.
[29:40] Speaker 2: I was he was in the movie Carlos. Yes, he
[29:43] Speaker 2: was a prisoner in there. I forgot to mention that, Yeah,
[29:47] Speaker 2: he's in the movie.
[29:48] Speaker 1: So wild that that made me think of it.
[29:50] Speaker 3: Well, once he was right there on death row.
[29:52] Speaker 1: Carlos went to jail and I had to go pick
[29:54] Speaker 1: this nick up, and that's I was really like, I
[29:56] Speaker 1: don't know what I'm here to pick up my life.
[29:58] Speaker 1: This is not my life. I don't think this is
[30:00] Speaker 1: I don't think it's cool. But anyways, he was sharing
[30:02] Speaker 1: the jail stores and he was just at Rice Street.
[30:04] Speaker 1: But Rice Street is apparently rough, and he was like,
[30:06] Speaker 1: the man took a hot cheeto bag out of his
[30:10] Speaker 1: booty hall and wait a.
[30:12] Speaker 2: Minute, now, what else have I been through that booty
[30:15] Speaker 2: hole to get a whole bag of them?
[30:17] Speaker 1: It was an empty bag of he had cigarettes in
[30:19] Speaker 1: the bag and it was selling them, and they was
[30:22] Speaker 1: selling the cigarettes and all.
[30:25] Speaker 2: Because I also heard the snacks in there behind as fuck.
[30:29] Speaker 1: Yeah, that's absolutely wet to smoke a cigarette hot cheeto
[30:32] Speaker 1: bootyhole cigarette? What what type of life? A decision?
[30:37] Speaker 3: The fire under your ass. It brings a whole new
[30:40] Speaker 3: meaning to it. That is, I just.
[30:43] Speaker 1: Can't even like the slightest things that happened. If somebody
[30:47] Speaker 1: gets too heightened with their anger and I'm around, no,
[30:50] Speaker 1: I got to turn around. I'm not doing this with you.
[30:52] Speaker 1: I was at cava today. I don't know when they
[30:54] Speaker 1: put akava in Summer Hill, but Summer Hill isn't fully
[30:57] Speaker 1: gentrified yet, so it's still a little spicy. But I
[31:01] Speaker 1: was like, oh, there's a kava. So I went to
[31:03] Speaker 1: Kava and it was real. Everybody was hood up inside
[31:09] Speaker 1: the cava. It was a difference they did. They were
[31:11] Speaker 1: just yelling and screaming and cussing. And I was like,
[31:15] Speaker 1: the customers or the workers are both. So I'm getting
[31:18] Speaker 1: my I was getting two orders, and I was telling
[31:20] Speaker 1: the lady the difference between like I didn't want the
[31:22] Speaker 1: whole what this comes with, like I need this not
[31:24] Speaker 1: to be on this, and like this, I don't want
[31:26] Speaker 1: to ask some stuff on this and I wasn't making
[31:27] Speaker 1: it confusing. I used to be in the serving industry,
[31:29] Speaker 1: so I understand, like, I'm not going to make things confusing.
[31:32] Speaker 1: And I was real tired and real sore because I
[31:34] Speaker 1: worked out and I'm just tired. And so I was
[31:35] Speaker 1: talking to her real calm, just like this, like hey,
[31:37] Speaker 1: can you add corning that and don't put the Vinegartte
[31:39] Speaker 1: on that? And she was like, you confusing me. And
[31:45] Speaker 1: I'm immediately like when people come with that energy, I'm like,
[31:48] Speaker 1: I'm not giving you the same energy back because this
[31:50] Speaker 1: can lead to somebody going to jail.
[31:53] Speaker 2: And you know what is so sad. My immediate thought
[31:55] Speaker 2: it goes back to drugs. I'd be like, that's a
[31:56] Speaker 2: crack baby, It's.
[31:57] Speaker 1: A crack baby, it's something. Why are you so made
[32:02] Speaker 1: like a scoop of corn? And so I was just
[32:04] Speaker 1: looking at her like and she wanted a reaction, like
[32:07] Speaker 1: you know when you could tell somebody wants to reaction.
[32:09] Speaker 1: She was like, uh, do you understand that you were
[32:12] Speaker 1: confusing me?
[32:12] Speaker 3: And I do you understand that you're slow?
[32:15] Speaker 1: See I just looked at her and I was like, okay,
[32:20] Speaker 1: you know what, never mind. No, I was like, do
[32:22] Speaker 1: you understand that I don't want Vinegarde on this one?
[32:24] Speaker 1: And I was like a scoop of corn in that one. Well,
[32:27] Speaker 1: now I do, but I was confusing. She needed to
[32:28] Speaker 1: explain herselfing, so I let her explain herself, and I said, so,
[32:31] Speaker 1: now that we have an understanding, what should we do next?
[32:35] Speaker 2: Should we did somebody yell at you behind, like why
[32:38] Speaker 2: you take it so long?
[32:39] Speaker 1: No, that was just like everybody was looking at her like, oh,
[32:42] Speaker 1: you just have this anger in you. You gotta get help.
[32:45] Speaker 1: You gotta seek some help. Friends.
[32:46] Speaker 2: Sometimes I want to ask people what happened today because
[32:50] Speaker 2: I feel like it's gonna be some hot juice.
[32:51] Speaker 1: And I wanted to ask for that, but I felt
[32:53] Speaker 1: like it might have. It might've. She was just so mad,
[32:56] Speaker 1: and I was like, this is how people be in jail,
[32:58] Speaker 1: and you just like and I was at kava instead
[33:00] Speaker 1: somebody in the chest because I was just scarrying so
[33:02] Speaker 1: much anger with me. Let the anger go. I don't
[33:04] Speaker 1: be walking around with anger like that, like you gotta
[33:05] Speaker 1: you gotta get your life together. Jail scares the fuck
[33:08] Speaker 1: out of me. They need to show kids with jail's
[33:10] Speaker 1: really like you. There's in that video of that man
[33:12] Speaker 1: where he's like, I'm gonna get your booty, and we
[33:14] Speaker 1: could do this the easy way or the hard way.
[33:16] Speaker 1: They need to show that to the little boys in school,
[33:18] Speaker 1: the sagging their pants and trying to act hard. You
[33:20] Speaker 1: want to go to jail. Well, I don't.
[33:24] Speaker 2: Know about all that, but I do think that maybe
[33:27] Speaker 2: a little bit more fear of consequences could be helpful
[33:33] Speaker 2: to people because it don't be there.
[33:37] Speaker 3: That's such a rough experience.
[33:41] Speaker 2: Oh, it's a really thinking like girl, what and this
[33:46] Speaker 2: is just getting a ball at Coo at.
[33:48] Speaker 1: Kava of all places. Like I was like, I think
[33:51] Speaker 1: I'm gonna write an email to Kava.
[33:54] Speaker 3: What you gonna say in the email to help?
[33:58] Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask GBC, what did I tell Kava about
[34:00] Speaker 1: the treatment that I received today from this lady who
[34:02] Speaker 1: was just angry.
[34:03] Speaker 2: You should tell chat GBT the whole story, Okay, so
[34:06] Speaker 2: they can get the full feel of it, so they
[34:09] Speaker 2: can recap that situation. Because when you send the email,
[34:12] Speaker 2: you're about to be eating that cava for free.
[34:16] Speaker 3: At least a year. We'll see.
[34:21] Speaker 2: I was about to ask you about something. Oh, you
[34:23] Speaker 2: told me you were doing a gallantines.
[34:24] Speaker 3: How was it?
[34:25] Speaker 1: I did two galentines? Okay, so it was fun. One
[34:28] Speaker 1: was one weekend of the normal of Valentine's Day, and
[34:31] Speaker 1: then one was before the weekend before Okay, it was
[34:34] Speaker 1: such a good time. I was really tired and I
[34:37] Speaker 1: couldn't stay the whole time at Chanelle's because I was
[34:39] Speaker 1: just I was really tired. It was my mom's birthday weekend.
[34:42] Speaker 1: My mom was in town. I took my mom. I
[34:44] Speaker 1: had driven around all of Atlanta, all of Georgia for real,
[34:48] Speaker 1: like with my mom. Yeah, just we were going to
[34:50] Speaker 1: do a lot of stuff. And then I took her
[34:51] Speaker 1: to Stone Mountain and be hanging with my cousin while
[34:53] Speaker 1: I was at the Galentine's Day party, so she wasn't
[34:55] Speaker 1: by herself. Because I was like, I couldn't bring my
[34:56] Speaker 1: mom to the Galentine'sday party because it was gonna get wild.
[34:58] Speaker 1: Last time Chanelle had party, the stripper Paul came out.
[35:01] Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not bringing my mom around.
[35:02] Speaker 3: Did you haves too?
[35:04] Speaker 1: One of the girls is a pole instructor, and some
[35:06] Speaker 1: girls used to be strippers, but they not no mores
[35:08] Speaker 1: but technically yes because they was performing on the pollone
[35:11] Speaker 1: they're not like not hired strippers. But it was beautiful.
[35:15] Speaker 1: Every there were like little sandwiches shaped like hearts. A
[35:18] Speaker 1: charcouterie board. Every all the pieces of cheese and the
[35:20] Speaker 1: pieces of fruits were shaped like hearts. Chanelle got us
[35:23] Speaker 1: all gifts. We played this game. I thought this game
[35:27] Speaker 1: was so much fun. Everybody it was like thirty people there.
[35:30] Speaker 1: We had to go around in a circle and you
[35:31] Speaker 1: have to say my pussy is blank. But the way
[35:34] Speaker 1: that it goes is you have to start with the
[35:35] Speaker 1: letter A, then you start with the letter B, then
[35:37] Speaker 1: you start with the letter C. Then you start and
[35:39] Speaker 1: you go all around. If you don't get it, then
[35:40] Speaker 1: you're out. It was so much fun. We danced the
[35:43] Speaker 1: night away, We drank connected. It was just a ball
[35:47] Speaker 1: of joy. Honestly, I couldn't say to the end because girl,
[35:49] Speaker 1: I was tired. I was tired. I had taken my
[35:52] Speaker 1: mom to the tea party. Oh, I took my mom
[35:54] Speaker 1: to tea around town the tea party bus and it
[35:59] Speaker 1: I'm right that letter.
[36:01] Speaker 3: I'm glad to go. My mama wanted to do that
[36:03] Speaker 3: for me.
[36:03] Speaker 1: They got a lot of work to do. Yeah, don't it.
[36:06] Speaker 1: Don't do unless somebody's paying for your ticket. Because I
[36:10] Speaker 1: was like you, They definitely had a hired videographer to
[36:16] Speaker 1: make the I was mad. The best is it's not cheat,
[36:20] Speaker 1: it's not cheat and so but anyway, so I did
[36:25] Speaker 1: that Valentine's Day, and then CC had a Galentine's Day
[36:28] Speaker 1: and me and Iyana way and it was fun and
[36:31] Speaker 1: we played a lot of games. I met a few
[36:33] Speaker 1: different people and CEC's just always a vibe and it's
[36:37] Speaker 1: always luxurious, but chill with her. I had a good
[36:41] Speaker 1: Galentine's Day. It was full of love, laughter and friendship.
[36:47] Speaker 1: It was fun.
[36:48] Speaker 2: I missed CC's Gallentine's and I wanted to go, but
[36:51] Speaker 2: my family was here. So Valentine's Day, I did go
[36:55] Speaker 2: our own day, and that was nice. I got to
[37:00] Speaker 2: It wasn't a total relaxation day just because life happens,
[37:04] Speaker 2: but I did get to relax a little bit more
[37:07] Speaker 2: than normal, and there was definitely definitely lots of love.
[37:13] Speaker 2: My mom, my stepdad who's not my stepdad because they divorced,
[37:16] Speaker 2: I guess, and my three nieces, my sister's daughters all
[37:21] Speaker 2: came to Atlanta for the weekend.
[37:23] Speaker 3: So they got here on Valentine's Day in that morning
[37:28] Speaker 3: and then or no, actually they didn't get here till
[37:30] Speaker 3: the afternoon. So I was doing some running around.
[37:32] Speaker 2: I had some meetings and things, and then we hung
[37:34] Speaker 2: out that night, but then I left them because I
[37:37] Speaker 2: had a date for Valentine's Day. And then afterwards I
[37:42] Speaker 2: came back because I really didn't want to do a
[37:44] Speaker 2: whole lot because I knew I was tired. So then
[37:48] Speaker 2: Saturday we did a crawfish boil and and.
[37:53] Speaker 3: Her new fiance and her son came over.
[37:55] Speaker 2: And usually, you know, Walker is my Valentine. And so
[38:00] Speaker 2: he went and bought me a gift like he always does,
[38:04] Speaker 2: got me a bottle of champagne. He got me a card,
[38:08] Speaker 2: he got me some chocolates. Even though I'm not trying
[38:11] Speaker 2: to be eating on them chocolates because I need to
[38:13] Speaker 2: drop some pounds, but I ate something.
[38:15] Speaker 1: I love, especially Valentine's Da chocolates. I'm tearing it up.
[38:18] Speaker 2: And the little box was it was just so cute, and.
[38:22] Speaker 3: His mom was like yeah.
[38:23] Speaker 2: I asked him about Valentine's Day, if he needed to
[38:24] Speaker 2: get a gift for anybody whose Valentine's was, and he
[38:28] Speaker 2: was like, same, Valentine, I always have. You know it's
[38:31] Speaker 2: gonna be kiky, And I just I love that special
[38:34] Speaker 2: bar that we have. Because he'd be looking out for
[38:35] Speaker 2: me as many times. I don't have like a grown
[38:38] Speaker 2: man Valentine anyway, So we did that and then hung
[38:43] Speaker 2: out Saturday and Sunday. Sunday I cooked for everybody. I
[38:49] Speaker 2: tried out some new stuff. I made some crawfish queso
[38:55] Speaker 2: that was so fucking good. I wish I could eat
[38:57] Speaker 2: it every day. My mom always trying to put it
[38:59] Speaker 2: on everything. It was like, this case, so just dip
[39:01] Speaker 2: the chip in there.
[39:02] Speaker 3: We don't need to.
[39:03] Speaker 2: She's like, you can probably put it on this tortellini
[39:05] Speaker 2: you got in the fridge. I said, no, no, now,
[39:07] Speaker 2: you're going too far. This is some real big back behavior. No,
[39:11] Speaker 2: we just dip it. She was like, I think it
[39:14] Speaker 2: would be good. I said, no, that's not what that
[39:16] Speaker 2: is for. That's where my kale soup.
[39:18] Speaker 3: Actually. Just just get out of there. Anyway.
[39:21] Speaker 2: It was really good to spend time with them. It's
[39:23] Speaker 2: so interesting watching the girls grow up. I know when
[39:27] Speaker 2: we were talking about when we had Stacey on, we
[39:30] Speaker 2: were talking about how the kids be kind of grown.
[39:33] Speaker 2: But it's funny because I don't feel like they're that grown.
[39:36] Speaker 2: Like I think that they can be sassy and have
[39:38] Speaker 2: a lot of personality. But sometimes I'm like, y'all are
[39:40] Speaker 2: really like kitty to me, especially the oldest one because
[39:43] Speaker 2: she'll be sixteen this year. And then I've been talking
[39:45] Speaker 2: to my sister about planning her sweet sixteen.
[39:47] Speaker 3: I've just been excited, and then wedding planning with my aunt.
[39:50] Speaker 2: It's just a lot of love going around and it's
[39:54] Speaker 2: been exciting and fun. None of the stresses on me
[39:58] Speaker 2: and those departments. I just have my regular stressors.
[40:02] Speaker 3: But it's been good.
[40:03] Speaker 2: I do wonder, as they could the nieces as they
[40:08] Speaker 2: continue to get older, what they're going to be like
[40:11] Speaker 2: just watching their personalities blossom. It's so interesting. None of
[40:16] Speaker 2: them are like I thought they would be, and they
[40:19] Speaker 2: are fifteen, eleven, and five.
[40:27] Speaker 3: And then dang, there was something else I wanted to say.
[40:32] Speaker 3: Oh well, I forgot. It has escaped me.
[40:34] Speaker 2: But yeah, I just I really enjoyed that time. It
[40:36] Speaker 2: was something that I really needed. I felt really good
[40:39] Speaker 2: after they left. I needed Monday to recharge. I was
[40:42] Speaker 2: glad it was a holiday. I need a recharge day,
[40:44] Speaker 2: even though I need another one.
[40:46] Speaker 1: Yeah, I need another. Like I'm literally like, okay, I
[40:48] Speaker 1: need to start like really figuring out. I don't think
[40:50] Speaker 1: I can have a recharge every week, but every two
[40:52] Speaker 1: weeks it needs to be figured out.
[40:54] Speaker 3: Yeah, I need to make a plaint.
[40:56] Speaker 2: Yeah, because life is getting exhausting and I'm like, oh,
[41:00] Speaker 2: I don't want to be getting super snappy all the
[41:03] Speaker 2: time and irritable and like.
[41:06] Speaker 1: Just angry like the lady at kava and when people
[41:10] Speaker 1: behave like where you're just angry all the time, which, bro,
[41:13] Speaker 1: that is not my spirit, Like that's not there are
[41:14] Speaker 1: some people where that's just your spirit, and it's because
[41:16] Speaker 1: you really do need to relax and like write a
[41:19] Speaker 1: letter to yourself saying walking around angry like that is
[41:22] Speaker 1: not healthy and it is not okay. You need to
[41:24] Speaker 1: find some peace and happiness. I don't want to be
[41:26] Speaker 1: like that when I have a heart attack.
[41:27] Speaker 2: Yeah, when I start feeling myself good like that, I
[41:30] Speaker 2: try my best. I need to be alone and get
[41:33] Speaker 2: this shit figured out. I don't need to spread this
[41:35] Speaker 2: to anybody else. I mean, sometimes it don't work out,
[41:37] Speaker 2: but I do try my best, and I hope y'all
[41:39] Speaker 2: do to stop going out in the world like that.
[41:42] Speaker 3: Yeah, take a bath, a shower or something.
[41:44] Speaker 2: Just go Maybe you need to go reset and go
[41:46] Speaker 2: do a hard reset go to bed. Yeah, sometimes you
[41:48] Speaker 2: just have to say, fuck all this shit, I have
[41:50] Speaker 2: to go to bed.
[41:50] Speaker 3: I cannot take it.
[41:52] Speaker 1: Yeah, if you have to reset your technology devices like
[41:56] Speaker 1: your computer and your phone, you have to do that
[41:57] Speaker 1: every so often. You definitely need to do that. Your
[42:00] Speaker 1: whole your motherboard. Take a fucking reset. Bitch. M m oh.
[42:05] Speaker 2: I know what it was. This is random, but I
[42:07] Speaker 2: wanted to ask you. So I went to this scene,
[42:09] Speaker 2: this event the other day, and this man was talking
[42:13] Speaker 2: about a first trip that he took with his then
[42:18] Speaker 2: girlfriend now wife. So he says they went they were
[42:23] Speaker 2: going to Jamaica, and he was so excited to take
[42:27] Speaker 2: her on this trip. He really liked her, like he
[42:29] Speaker 2: was trying to like do it big for her and
[42:31] Speaker 2: all this stuff and really impress her. Why when they
[42:33] Speaker 2: got to the airport and he's trying to check in
[42:35] Speaker 2: and everything.
[42:37] Speaker 3: And this was many moons ago, they're older, his uh
[42:41] Speaker 3: passport was expired.
[42:43] Speaker 1: How do you not know?
[42:44] Speaker 2: It was something that he didn't think about. So, because
[42:49] Speaker 2: this is before digital age, I was.
[42:51] Speaker 3: Like, damn, how old are you? But this is besides
[42:53] Speaker 3: the point.
[42:53] Speaker 2: Anyway, they went through and he was able to finesse
[42:57] Speaker 2: his way through secure. But then it's like, you get
[43:01] Speaker 2: to the gate, what you're gonna do? He figured something out.
[43:05] Speaker 2: Then he gets to Jamaica and he's like, I didn't
[43:07] Speaker 2: think about customs, And he was like, I knew it
[43:09] Speaker 2: was going to jail. I knew it was going to jail.
[43:10] Speaker 2: I knew it was going to jail.
[43:12] Speaker 3: He didn't go to jail.
[43:14] Speaker 2: But if you aside from that, that situation, if you
[43:18] Speaker 2: are at the airport with a man who's trying to
[43:19] Speaker 2: impress you, you get there and his passport is expired
[43:24] Speaker 2: and they're telling him he can't get in, He's like,
[43:26] Speaker 2: go ahead and go through security.
[43:27] Speaker 3: I'll meet you at the gate. What would you do?
[43:31] Speaker 1: No, you already know I'm an ride together, die Together's situation.
[43:36] Speaker 1: What's going on?
[43:37] Speaker 2: Well, he's telling you, I'm gonna figure it out. Just
[43:38] Speaker 2: go through the gate. I mean, go through security.
[43:42] Speaker 3: I'll meet you at the.
[43:42] Speaker 1: Gate, And I'm not I'm gonna sit here with you
[43:46] Speaker 1: and figured it out with you, know, because what if
[43:48] Speaker 1: you don't get through, I'm gonna just go to Jamaica
[43:50] Speaker 1: without you.
[43:51] Speaker 3: No, you wouldn't see him at the gate because you
[43:53] Speaker 3: wouldn't get on.
[43:54] Speaker 1: With Yeah, I'm gonna stay with you and figure this out.
[43:57] Speaker 1: What we doing? Baby?
[43:58] Speaker 4: What?
[43:59] Speaker 1: And why? Yeah? Let me just stay here and help.
[44:01] Speaker 2: I forget how the whole story worked out. I don't
[44:03] Speaker 2: want to tell it and mix it up. But it
[44:05] Speaker 2: was funny because she did do what he said. He
[44:08] Speaker 2: was nervous and scared and embarrassed. He makes it through,
[44:11] Speaker 2: they make it there, they make it back. It all
[44:13] Speaker 2: worked out in the end, and that's how he knew
[44:15] Speaker 2: that was going to be his wife. Wow, because she
[44:19] Speaker 2: did end up having a help and it is just funny.
[44:22] Speaker 1: Yeah. Let me ask you a question that I heard
[44:24] Speaker 1: a group of guys talking about. I don't know if
[44:26] Speaker 1: it was started on Instagram, but then I heard some
[44:28] Speaker 1: guys in my real life talking about it. They were like,
[44:31] Speaker 1: what is your favorite hairstyle on a woman? And like
[44:33] Speaker 1: the men? Did you see the man talking about it?
[44:34] Speaker 1: And they were talking about the sole. I was like,
[44:35] Speaker 1: I didn't even realize men pay attention to that to
[44:37] Speaker 1: be able to name the hairstyles. And I was like,
[44:39] Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask Kiky, what is your favorite hairstyle on
[44:41] Speaker 1: a man? Like a clean taper, a dread, a braid,
[44:49] Speaker 1: a Dowworth.
[44:51] Speaker 2: Shag, absolutely not that is not anywhere on my list.
[44:56] Speaker 2: I want a dow wortht shag, no south side.
[45:00] Speaker 1: Sometimes my pastor has a dollar shag. But it's a
[45:03] Speaker 1: sophisticated one.
[45:04] Speaker 3: How is that?
[45:06] Speaker 1: It just is a different type, But it's definitely.
[45:08] Speaker 3: Do you think he makes it seem sophisticated because it's what.
[45:11] Speaker 1: It just is a different version of the Dowar shag.
[45:13] Speaker 1: But I was like, it's definitely that's a that's a shag.
[45:17] Speaker 2: I'm not a fan of those. I like like Beyonce.
[45:22] Speaker 2: The girl said, I like a low cut Caesar with
[45:24] Speaker 2: the deep waves, as long as your head ain't too
[45:29] Speaker 2: funny shape.
[45:29] Speaker 3: I do like a bald head.
[45:31] Speaker 2: The men be going bald and hang on to hope
[45:38] Speaker 2: and ten hair follicles. And I just want y'all to know, baby,
[45:42] Speaker 2: it's okay to be bald. Morris Chestnut is bald. Boris
[45:47] Speaker 2: Kojo is fine and bald. Now, all y'all don't look
[45:50] Speaker 2: like that, So again, assess your head shapes, and all
[45:52] Speaker 2: you mama's and daddy's cousins. Auntie's everybody out there. If
[45:55] Speaker 2: you've got a little baby in your arms right now,
[45:57] Speaker 2: or you can reach out and touch one shape that head.
[46:01] Speaker 2: Help mold that baby's head before it's too late, because
[46:04] Speaker 2: that's nobody's fault. But who they came from, you can't
[46:08] Speaker 2: help how your your head is shaved and it like
[46:12] Speaker 2: you come through a birth connect babies be looking like
[46:14] Speaker 2: cone heads. I haven't had one, but I've seen people
[46:17] Speaker 2: posting their baby pictures and some of the girls have
[46:19] Speaker 2: been very honest.
[46:20] Speaker 3: I was scared.
[46:21] Speaker 2: I thought someone was wrong with my baby. I didn't
[46:22] Speaker 2: want to take it home. I didn't know what to do.
[46:24] Speaker 2: I thought he was gonna have to wear one of
[46:26] Speaker 2: them cranium helmet things. And it's just like it's fresh,
[46:30] Speaker 2: give it a minute, but you gotta mold those heads anyway.
[46:34] Speaker 2: I like a bald head, low haircut. There's mainly things
[46:38] Speaker 2: I don't like, and I also think you just got
[46:40] Speaker 2: to do what works for you. I don't think you
[46:42] Speaker 2: need to be super trendy. I don't like the Bart Simpson.
[46:47] Speaker 1: I called kind of like up and then shaved around
[46:49] Speaker 1: and just.
[46:49] Speaker 2: Be like, well, okay, I see how you think that
[46:52] Speaker 2: I be calling this Bart Simpson. Nobody else calls it that.
[46:54] Speaker 2: You cannot go to a bark Barbara like that. But
[46:56] Speaker 2: it's just like your hair just be everywhere. It to me, okay,
[47:03] Speaker 2: I'm not a fan. I'll be feeling like it looks
[47:06] Speaker 2: uncap and maybe.
[47:08] Speaker 3: You have a lineup and all that and that's.
[47:10] Speaker 2: Cute, but that's like it's a little too natural for you.
[47:13] Speaker 2: It's not even the natural. It's still like, you gotta
[47:17] Speaker 2: take care of your natural.
[47:19] Speaker 3: Do you call me? I don't know. Sometimes it doesn't
[47:21] Speaker 3: look calm, it.
[47:21] Speaker 2: Doesn't look they take that little sponge. It don't be
[47:26] Speaker 2: looking moisturized. I'm just like, you gotta have a healthy
[47:29] Speaker 2: scalp up under there. Have you seen it?
[47:30] Speaker 3: Have you gotten to it? Like what's up in there?
[47:32] Speaker 3: I don't know.
[47:33] Speaker 2: I don't I'm not a super fan of that. But again,
[47:36] Speaker 2: if you find enough pretty, privilege always wins in my book.
[47:40] Speaker 3: I don't make the rules.
[47:41] Speaker 1: Yeah, what you like? I too? Like a low cut
[47:43] Speaker 1: season with the deep wave.
[47:45] Speaker 3: It's just something about it.
[47:48] Speaker 2: A minute in science something like that hurts half because
[47:52] Speaker 2: I like that. Whatever he got going on, I like it.
[47:54] Speaker 2: A wife, I know that I'm talking about a look
[47:59] Speaker 2: he does his hair.
[48:01] Speaker 1: There are some people with papers and it's a low cut,
[48:03] Speaker 1: but it's not a wave.
[48:04] Speaker 3: Well, he took his helmet all do you see him
[48:07] Speaker 3: when he's strutting?
[48:10] Speaker 1: I can't think about his hair. I'mna have to look
[48:11] Speaker 1: up a picture because I don't think that he.
[48:12] Speaker 3: Has a smile for me.
[48:13] Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, who else?
[48:16] Speaker 1: I like her? Yeah? I like her Fade, I.
[48:18] Speaker 3: Like you don't like a bald head.
[48:20] Speaker 1: I don't like a bald head unless you're just one
[48:22] Speaker 1: of the ones. Like we said, some people just look
[48:24] Speaker 1: really good, and your universal looking good. But I'm trying
[48:27] Speaker 1: to think of somebody with a bald head that I
[48:28] Speaker 1: think is fine, and it's not. Nothing's coming to mind.
[48:31] Speaker 1: And I like even MOR's chestnut. I don't think he's
[48:33] Speaker 1: fine anymore. Really, And I watched The Best Hair. I
[48:38] Speaker 1: watched The Best Man when I was in Costa Rica.
[48:40] Speaker 1: We made Elizabeth Gilbert watch it and she absolutely loved it.
[48:42] Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, Morris was fine, not that he's ugly.
[48:45] Speaker 1: I just don't like the bald head that is a
[48:47] Speaker 1: fine man to me. I don't like a bald head
[48:51] Speaker 1: that I.
[48:52] Speaker 3: Don't Just Mark Moore gobald.
[48:54] Speaker 1: I don't know. I'n't seen him in a while, I.
[48:56] Speaker 2: Forget, but something in my head is telling me that
[49:00] Speaker 2: he kind of has a bit of a like a
[49:01] Speaker 2: squidward head or something.
[49:03] Speaker 1: I don't know.
[49:03] Speaker 2: I feel like he should have hair, and I don't
[49:05] Speaker 2: know if maybe I saw one. Y'all need to cut
[49:07] Speaker 2: it out with all these AI mock up.
[49:09] Speaker 3: Ships because I'm getting confused, and that's how I know.
[49:11] Speaker 2: I'm also getting old, and that's why I spend less
[49:13] Speaker 2: and less time scrolling.
[49:15] Speaker 1: But I do like a b. Simpson, but I like
[49:17] Speaker 1: it with you have like a little clean up, the
[49:20] Speaker 1: little clean up edge, yeah, the little yeah, the little
[49:22] Speaker 1: edge of with your Bart Simpson. And I don't want
[49:24] Speaker 1: it to be a lot of Bart, like a short Bart.
[49:26] Speaker 3: Now do you like the faded Bart with just like
[49:29] Speaker 3: truly Bart?
[49:30] Speaker 1: Now?
[49:31] Speaker 3: If you I guess that's more of a Lisa Simpson.
[49:33] Speaker 3: If it's all yeah, it's Lisa's, it is a Lisa.
[49:36] Speaker 1: I like a bar, but it's no never. I don't
[49:40] Speaker 1: like a traditional Bart if we're going to traditional bar,
[49:42] Speaker 1: but I do. But Keith Sandfield is fine to me,
[49:44] Speaker 1: and sometimes he got at it. He got a bar,
[49:47] Speaker 1: but he don't have he has a Lisa.
[49:50] Speaker 3: I thought it was fading, but I don't know.
[49:52] Speaker 1: He fine, Okay, I don't.
[49:56] Speaker 3: Think he's ugly or anything but any means. But I
[49:58] Speaker 3: keep trying to think. I just picture him in that
[50:01] Speaker 3: what is that movie?
[50:02] Speaker 1: Get Out?
[50:03] Speaker 3: No, the Book of Clarence.
[50:08] Speaker 1: Oh, he had a wild Lisa in the book.
[50:10] Speaker 2: And I'm thinking about his outfit in ancient times, and
[50:13] Speaker 2: I'm like, have I ever really looked at him and
[50:14] Speaker 2: been like, do I think he's fine or not?
[50:17] Speaker 3: I haven't he fine?
[50:21] Speaker 1: Yeah?
[50:22] Speaker 3: Where what made you think of that? The men's hair
[50:24] Speaker 3: styles said.
[50:27] Speaker 1: Men were talking about their favorite hairstyles on women.
[50:29] Speaker 3: What they say?
[50:31] Speaker 1: A lot of men were saying that they liked updues.
[50:33] Speaker 1: It was really interesting, like I was kind of.
[50:36] Speaker 3: The new updud.
[50:38] Speaker 1: Find the video. It was like the new loose updu
[50:41] Speaker 1: okay like that. Yeah, they were like they didn't like,
[50:45] Speaker 1: you know, quick weaves, like harsh looks. They like the knotlets, braids.
[50:49] Speaker 1: Y'all really be knowing the hairstyles. And I guess we
[50:52] Speaker 1: do too.
[50:53] Speaker 2: Having to pay for him, sometimes I need some knock
[50:55] Speaker 2: the sprays. Let me show you, can you please?
[50:59] Speaker 1: Yeah?
[51:00] Speaker 3: All right, well, I guess.
[51:03] Speaker 1: We'll move on to indecisive Diane.
[51:05] Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll move on to indecisive Diane. And when we
[51:07] Speaker 2: come back, we'll answer some of your advice emails. You guys,
[51:11] Speaker 2: let's just be honest with each other. Sometimes, even when
[51:16] Speaker 2: you want to be in the mood, your mind and
[51:19] Speaker 2: your body and all the parts down south just are
[51:21] Speaker 2: not on the same page.
[51:23] Speaker 3: And that's why I'm.
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[52:10] Speaker 2: I just my body was feeling weird, like it didn't want.
[52:13] Speaker 1: To do it.
[52:13] Speaker 3: Like girl, go later, your little help.
[52:15] Speaker 2: It needed some help, Jane, High Love did what it
[52:18] Speaker 2: needed to do, and then because he took it to
[52:21] Speaker 2: we were both taking High Love and feeling high on love.
[52:24] Speaker 1: I think that it was such a great decision for
[52:28] Speaker 1: Vya to make what was supposed to be a limited
[52:31] Speaker 1: Valentine's Day edition, the High Love. Now it's a part
[52:34] Speaker 1: of their permanent lineup, because that is how much the
[52:37] Speaker 1: people loved it, including me and obviously including my friends.
[52:40] Speaker 1: Because one of my girlfriends took my whole bottle of
[52:43] Speaker 1: High Love. I said, she took the whole bottle and
[52:46] Speaker 1: took it on a trip with her and her back,
[52:47] Speaker 1: and then she was texting me the whole day while
[52:49] Speaker 1: they were tooted it up in can Coon, talking about
[52:52] Speaker 1: this high Love really works. And I was like, yeah, girl,
[52:55] Speaker 1: you took the whole bottle. She was only supposed to
[52:56] Speaker 1: take the sample pack because when you order from High Love,
[52:59] Speaker 1: when you were from Hilo, when you order from Via Hemp,
[53:01] Speaker 1: you get to pick sample packs. So I have a
[53:03] Speaker 1: little sample pack. I got a little variety of everything.
[53:06] Speaker 1: My friends just be jacking all my stuff.
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[53:31] Speaker 2: Those little sample packs Modina was just talking about. After
[53:34] Speaker 2: you purchase, they ask you where you heard about them.
[53:36] Speaker 2: Please please please support our show and tell them that
[53:40] Speaker 2: we sent you. Take your passion and pleasure to a
[53:43] Speaker 2: whole new love with high love from ya.
[53:48] Speaker 1: Would you stop figuring about what everyone wants? Stop thiguring
[53:51] Speaker 1: about what I want? When you want, what your parents want?
[53:54] Speaker 4: What do you want?
[53:55] Speaker 1: What do you want? It's not a simple what do
[53:58] Speaker 1: you want? What do you want?
[54:06] Speaker 5: Hey, ladies, it's me Die and this week's state idea.
[54:11] Speaker 5: I know you're not gonna like it, but fitness is
[54:15] Speaker 5: important and summer is around the corner, So grab your
[54:19] Speaker 5: bay and go to Hills for Atlanta. It's every Wednesday
[54:22] Speaker 5: in the morning. It starts at seven thirty and they
[54:25] Speaker 5: have an evening workout at six thirty pm. That's typically
[54:28] Speaker 5: where the BBL crew works at. I prefer the morning,
[54:31] Speaker 5: but if you have to go in the evening, grab
[54:33] Speaker 5: your bay and go bye.
[55:04] Speaker 2: All right, and we are back from Indecisive Diana. It's
[55:07] Speaker 2: time for the advice. Make sure if you want to
[55:09] Speaker 2: send us an email, you send it to us advice
[55:11] Speaker 2: at kotaiospod dot com.
[55:14] Speaker 1: Oh okay, this we had an advice from the last week.
[55:20] Speaker 1: I wonder if I should go.
[55:21] Speaker 3: I put it on here.
[55:22] Speaker 1: Oh you did? Okay? Okay, read yours? This one is
[55:26] Speaker 1: This one is long?
[55:27] Speaker 2: Okay, this one says Lil Wayne, mister officer Lord, I
[55:31] Speaker 2: need to vent and figure out how to move forward
[55:33] Speaker 2: from this situationship. I'm having an affair with a policeman
[55:37] Speaker 2: six years older than me who has a three month
[55:39] Speaker 2: old baby girl.
[55:40] Speaker 1: Why.
[55:43] Speaker 2: We met at a party he hosted, and I made
[55:45] Speaker 2: a move on him because I was drinking. I don't
[55:46] Speaker 2: usually initiate things, but he was attractive and he seemed interested.
[55:50] Speaker 2: I d kay, I have a thing for a man
[55:52] Speaker 2: in a uniform. Your girl have fantasies, so what Anyways,
[55:57] Speaker 2: the next day he asked to see me and I
[55:59] Speaker 2: invited him over. He came over and hung out for
[56:01] Speaker 2: a couple hours, stepped outside to make a call, and
[56:04] Speaker 2: then returned to me. We did more than just talk.
[56:07] Speaker 2: When he returned. It was that baby making sex. I
[56:11] Speaker 2: hope this doesn't end inny pregnancy, so damn good y'all
[56:15] Speaker 2: the best I'd ever experienced. He's interested in me and
[56:18] Speaker 2: aware of what I'm seeking. While I don't want a
[56:21] Speaker 2: relationship right now, I do want long term, consistent, beneficial relationship,
[56:26] Speaker 2: which he's okay with.
[56:29] Speaker 1: Oh fancial friendship.
[56:30] Speaker 2: Okay, which he's okay with. He keeps it open and
[56:34] Speaker 2: honest with me. But I want to know more about him.
[56:36] Speaker 2: I really like him and want to continue spending time.
[56:39] Speaker 2: But they live together. He has a pretty busy schedule
[56:43] Speaker 2: and a newborn. I don't want to get into the
[56:44] Speaker 2: mix with that. I don't want to bring nothing but
[56:47] Speaker 2: peace and happiness into what we have, but I want
[56:50] Speaker 2: my mean time to I don't want to be naggy
[56:52] Speaker 2: and push pushy him away. Just a girl asking for advice.
[56:57] Speaker 2: XO xoxo send from my ephol.
[57:00] Speaker 1: I don't know what the question was.
[57:04] Speaker 3: Well, I guess she wants to know what she should do.
[57:06] Speaker 1: I didn't move on to something else. You said you
[57:09] Speaker 1: want peace. This is the opposite of peace, friend. That's
[57:12] Speaker 1: all I have to say.
[57:13] Speaker 2: As a newborn baby girl, you need to start before
[57:15] Speaker 2: your house get burned out.
[57:16] Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's a police officer. And I'm not trying
[57:18] Speaker 1: to talk about about police officers, but police officers have
[57:21] Speaker 1: a lot of power, and when shit goes wrong and
[57:23] Speaker 1: when they utilize that power, it is scary. Scary.
[57:28] Speaker 2: Do you want to be on Snapped, Fatal Attraction or
[57:32] Speaker 2: any of those other shows? Do you want to be
[57:34] Speaker 2: the next case on Crime Junkies? I think the fuck not.
[57:38] Speaker 2: You need to move around. And then the baby mama,
[57:41] Speaker 2: you don't even know what's going on with her and
[57:43] Speaker 2: she just had a baby. Girl, you're gonna be next?
[57:46] Speaker 2: And do you want that stress and strife in your life?
[57:49] Speaker 2: So sorry, girl, but this ain't the We aren't the
[57:51] Speaker 2: ones to tell you how to make this work. Ain't
[57:53] Speaker 2: no happy ending here. Goodbye, And now it's time for cocktails.
[57:58] Speaker 2: So if you got a cocktail that doesn't involve fucking
[58:02] Speaker 2: somebody who has a newborn, please submit it to us
[58:06] Speaker 2: cocktails at cocktailspod dot com. And if you are fucking
[58:10] Speaker 2: somebody with a newborn, please be careful because we want
[58:12] Speaker 2: you to have your life. And sometimes fun things feel
[58:15] Speaker 2: fun and you don't think about the consequence. I gotta
[58:18] Speaker 2: bring the crimes back because y'all.
[58:23] Speaker 1: What happened? Okay?
[58:25] Speaker 4: Uh, but if you ain't got to fucking cop on me,
[58:39] Speaker 4: is it some cash?
[58:43] Speaker 1: Once upon a time, not long ago, I was, She says, hey, ladies,
[58:50] Speaker 1: no subject, no title, no intro, no nothing. Here we go.
[58:53] Speaker 1: My side piece and I went out for the super
[58:55] Speaker 1: Bowl events around town. We met up early Sunday afternoon
[58:57] Speaker 1: for some drinks and relaxation. He wanted me to stop
[59:00] Speaker 1: by his place, but I really didn't want to, so
[59:03] Speaker 1: he told me straight up, you're coming now, hurry up.
[59:06] Speaker 1: I shut my mouth and got ready. He picked me
[59:09] Speaker 1: up on time, just like he said he would. He
[59:11] Speaker 1: brought me some toilet trees and I freshened up since
[59:13] Speaker 1: I didn't have time to go home from my previous
[59:15] Speaker 1: night out wink. Not long after that, his hands started
[59:19] Speaker 1: all over my body. It was exactly what I needed.
[59:22] Speaker 1: They got to it quick, but I didn't know I
[59:24] Speaker 1: needed it. I mean, my pussy was fluttering and my
[59:27] Speaker 1: heart was skipping more than several beats. His kisses were
[59:30] Speaker 1: long and deliberate. He sucked my bottom lip and my
[59:33] Speaker 1: tongue strongly. He had me imagining what he would do
[59:38] Speaker 1: to my pussy lips. Oh, my I don't really like
[59:41] Speaker 1: my pussy lips being sucked on, but she jumped again,
[59:45] Speaker 1: blood swelling, blood swelling her inner lips. My pussy needed
[59:50] Speaker 1: it badly. I didn't fight it anymore. He started yanking
[59:54] Speaker 1: at my clothes, and I gladly obliged. Naked, exposed, and feeding,
[59:59] Speaker 1: he climbed on top of me and entered his herdsterned dick.
[1:00:02] Speaker 1: I welcomed that shit with the most eager, exasperated sigh
[1:00:06] Speaker 1: and a head tilted a woman in heat would have expressed,
[1:00:09] Speaker 1: oh my god. His shit felt so good with a
[1:00:13] Speaker 1: capital T. I needed it like water to the nile.
[1:00:17] Speaker 1: But to my disappointment, it ended just as quickly as
[1:00:19] Speaker 1: it started. He kissed me until I begged for him
[1:00:22] Speaker 1: to keep going. He slowly pulled away from on top
[1:00:25] Speaker 1: of me and laid next to me. I asked him,
[1:00:27] Speaker 1: what's the matter and if he came. He embarrassingly said yes,
[1:00:31] Speaker 1: ooh w let's just say as the side piece, he
[1:00:36] Speaker 1: should have known better than to come inside of me
[1:00:38] Speaker 1: when we have raw sex. I gave him an evil
[1:00:41] Speaker 1: side eye and he apologized. Let's just say he has
[1:00:44] Speaker 1: some making up to do, but I'll save that for
[1:00:46] Speaker 1: another cock tail for now. This is my cock fail.
[1:00:53] Speaker 1: I am actually amazed at the amount of people that
[1:00:56] Speaker 1: are just and I always ask my friends this question,
[1:01:00] Speaker 1: like the amount of women that just be like, yeah,
[1:01:02] Speaker 1: he came inside of me. Don don't be scared of pregnancy, and.
[1:01:09] Speaker 3: Okay, people don't.
[1:01:13] Speaker 1: I mean, it's really a normal not.
[1:01:14] Speaker 2: Just like people feel like they birth control works one
[1:01:19] Speaker 2: hundred percent or they just are some plan be popping animals.
[1:01:24] Speaker 1: I just got out of a two year relationship, and
[1:01:27] Speaker 1: I can really honestly say the mistake happened one time.
[1:01:31] Speaker 1: I don't. I really don't play that. I know how
[1:01:32] Speaker 1: fertile I am. I don't need to keep playing with it,
[1:01:35] Speaker 1: like what wap it up or pull it out? Pull
[1:01:39] Speaker 1: it out?
[1:01:45] Speaker 3: You really got upset on that.
[1:01:46] Speaker 2: I mean, but a lot of people do be on
[1:01:48] Speaker 2: birth control and other things. So I think that people
[1:01:52] Speaker 2: just have a lot of faith in that. I'm less
[1:01:55] Speaker 2: concerned about pregnancy and more concerned about disease that people don't.
[1:02:02] Speaker 2: People don't be.
[1:02:03] Speaker 3: Caring about that too much.
[1:02:04] Speaker 2: I guess they feel like they got the meds for
[1:02:06] Speaker 2: everything and I'll just take them. I mean, I don't know,
[1:02:10] Speaker 2: but that's what I can assume. I mean, I've definitely
[1:02:12] Speaker 2: had my fair share of wild nights, interesting experience, but
[1:02:17] Speaker 2: I too feel like you. I don't want to play
[1:02:20] Speaker 2: around with.
[1:02:21] Speaker 1: That, especially not if we're not in a relationship. Like
[1:02:24] Speaker 1: it's don't play with either either of them.
[1:02:26] Speaker 3: But like no, none of it matter.
[1:02:28] Speaker 2: Yes, so this isn't what the goal is is to
[1:02:32] Speaker 2: go half on a baby.
[1:02:34] Speaker 3: Let us not.
[1:02:35] Speaker 1: Let us not.
[1:02:36] Speaker 2: It's gonna be unnecessary stress, stress that we don't need,
[1:02:42] Speaker 2: and a host of other issues. Wrap it up, please do,
[1:02:46] Speaker 2: And we about to wrap it up before we go.
[1:02:48] Speaker 3: I do want to.
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[1:04:26] Speaker 3: until next week, you guys, goodbye.
[1:04:29] Speaker 4: Goodbye, bye, bye bye.
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