# Ep. 437 A Little Lip, A Lot of Lessons

An episode of [Cocktales with Kiki](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1149484402), 14 Mar 2025, 1 h 10 min.

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## Transcript

[0:02] Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Check one two, check one two. Is this
[0:04] Speaker 1: Mike On? Is this Mike On?
[0:06] Speaker 2: Hey?
[0:06] Speaker 3: Listen man, it's the one and only Trunks that a DJ.
[0:09] Speaker 4: Sis and you're listening to cocktails Dirty Discussions with Kikia
[0:13] Speaker 4: Medina Monroe. Yeah, today's cocktail it's called the Spa.
[0:22] Speaker 3: Day, and we're making it with brown liquor. Y'all.
[0:25] Speaker 4: We have billion again, some sparkling lime, ginger water, Maraschino cherries.
[0:30] Speaker 4: We love them so much last week that we need
[0:32] Speaker 4: some more and some lemon juice. So what we're gonna
[0:35] Speaker 4: do is layer up our cocktail shaker with one shot
[0:41] Speaker 4: a billion. This is brown liquor, so we're gonna tread
[0:45] Speaker 4: lightly with that one. We're going to pour a little
[0:49] Speaker 4: splash of our Maraschino cherry juice.
[0:52] Speaker 3: Y'all love Marachino cherries. They're just so good. We're gonna
[0:56] Speaker 3: shake this up, put a little.
[0:58] Speaker 4: Splash of lemon. I already like the color. This looks
[1:02] Speaker 4: like the grown man drink. We are going to take
[1:08] Speaker 4: it up, and then this one we're gonna strain it
[1:18] Speaker 4: into our champagne food. It smells so good. The villion
[1:28] Speaker 4: with the Maraschino cherry juice. Oh my god, we're gonna
[1:33] Speaker 4: top it off with our sparkling lime ginger and y'all
[1:41] Speaker 4: know I love my Maraschino cherries. When somebody took a
[1:44] Speaker 4: bite out of you, and we're just gonna drop it
[1:46] Speaker 4: in there, cheers.
[1:49] Speaker 3: I'll taste it later.
[1:51] Speaker 5: Welcome back to Cocktail's Dirty Discussions.
[1:54] Speaker 1: You guys, I always feel like I jumble up my words,
[1:56] Speaker 1: so I've been trying to talk slow.
[1:58] Speaker 5: When I said dirty, I am Kiki said so.
[2:02] Speaker 3: And I am Medina Monau.
[2:04] Speaker 1: You guys. Hi, y'all, y'all, it is so cold and
[2:08] Speaker 1: I'm sitting here, tell me please leave a comment, send
[2:11] Speaker 1: a message something I find that I was googling it
[2:17] Speaker 1: my notes. I know it's big. It really gets so cold.
[2:20] Speaker 1: That is like the first thing to get cold anytime.
[2:23] Speaker 1: It feels like a block of ice. And I already
[2:30] Speaker 1: be making faces. So just know that I'm freezing and
[2:32] Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep it together. I kept on my
[2:35] Speaker 1: shirt from the episode we just recorded, just threw this
[2:37] Speaker 1: some top.
[2:38] Speaker 3: I my jacket on because it is absolutely cool.
[2:41] Speaker 4: When we say it's cold, it's actually cold in the studio.
[2:45] Speaker 1: Yeah inside, now outside. I took a shot of villain
[2:48] Speaker 1: villain villain.
[2:50] Speaker 2: Work.
[2:51] Speaker 1: It didn't. I thought it was gonna warm me up.
[2:53] Speaker 1: It didn't.
[2:54] Speaker 5: And now I'm like, I took them calories down for nothing.
[2:56] Speaker 1: Anyway, y'all, I have been I just have to say
[3:01] Speaker 1: shout out to me, because I have really been putting
[3:03] Speaker 1: these big giant feet down on the walking pad pavement
[3:07] Speaker 1: because I told I think I told y'all I got
[3:10] Speaker 1: a walking pad for Christmas, and I have been on it.
[3:13] Speaker 1: I be pumping, pumping, pumping, Yes, when I am working,
[3:17] Speaker 1: when I'm in meetings and stuff, I like to let
[3:19] Speaker 1: people know if it's the first time that they see
[3:21] Speaker 1: me on there, whether they see me or not, I
[3:23] Speaker 1: know I be winded. And also I know I'm making
[3:26] Speaker 1: faces and I have to let them know, Hey, the
[3:28] Speaker 1: faces aren't for you. I'm literally on a walking pad.
[3:31] Speaker 1: I got to drop some weight. I gotta get it
[3:32] Speaker 1: back active.
[3:33] Speaker 5: I'm not playing around this year, and so ignore me.
[3:36] Speaker 1: I'm gonna turn my camera off sometimes but not always,
[3:39] Speaker 1: so sometimes I do need you to see my face.
[3:41] Speaker 3: No, you're walking on your walking pad.
[3:44] Speaker 4: Do you have a goal that you're trying to reach
[3:47] Speaker 4: or you just want to make sure you're active.
[3:50] Speaker 1: Both, so I have a loose go right now. My
[3:54] Speaker 1: goal is not like a certain weight or inches or anything.
[3:58] Speaker 5: I want to feel better.
[4:00] Speaker 1: So it's more like, right now, I'm in phase one
[4:02] Speaker 1: of the plan, which ends on January thirty. First Phase
[4:06] Speaker 1: one other planet is get up and get moving, and.
[4:08] Speaker 3: That's the walking path plan, or they give you a
[4:10] Speaker 3: plan or.
[4:10] Speaker 5: No, I made this up, and I'm just making up
[4:12] Speaker 5: names as we go.
[4:13] Speaker 1: But I just knew, Okay, January the sweat is gonna
[4:16] Speaker 1: be and then February I gotta go hard. I signed
[4:19] Speaker 1: up for class past again, so I'm about to be
[4:21] Speaker 1: taking different classes because I'm trying to find something that
[4:26] Speaker 1: I like and that I can do and can commit to.
[4:30] Speaker 1: You know, I got commitment issues that I can commit
[4:34] Speaker 1: to and then I'll like do a membership with that.
[4:37] Speaker 1: But I love class passes, not sponsored, but I love
[4:40] Speaker 1: class passes who you can try out different stuff and
[4:42] Speaker 1: if I don't end up working out, I can also
[4:44] Speaker 1: get my nails done or massage or something else. It's
[4:47] Speaker 1: not just working out in classes. They do all kind
[4:49] Speaker 1: of stuff. You get a facial with class pass, you
[4:51] Speaker 1: can get your nail, get your hair done, you get
[4:53] Speaker 1: your nails done, you get a pedicure all that. So
[4:55] Speaker 1: it's like, but maybe I ain't working out, and I'm
[4:57] Speaker 1: just gonna be big Betty eating ribs every Friday, you know,
[5:01] Speaker 1: and I'm gonna get a pedicure and you can suck
[5:03] Speaker 1: on these little pity and we'll rubb on. Maybe not
[5:04] Speaker 1: stuck on. That would be a different hype of appointment.
[5:07] Speaker 1: But yeah, I just want to get active and get moving.
[5:10] Speaker 1: I live a very sedentary life, and when I really
[5:13] Speaker 1: look at my days, a lot of times I spend
[5:15] Speaker 1: so much time at the computer. I don't have an
[5:19] Speaker 1: office that I go into every day or even regularly.
[5:23] Speaker 1: Every now and again, I have in person meetings, but
[5:26] Speaker 1: usually they're virtual. I come into the studio to record
[5:29] Speaker 1: this show, I go into a studio to record the
[5:32] Speaker 1: other show.
[5:33] Speaker 5: And that's kind of it.
[5:35] Speaker 1: A lot. I will not leave the house for days
[5:37] Speaker 1: and days, and many times I don't realize it. I
[5:39] Speaker 1: get so much stuff delivered because I'm like at the computer.
[5:43] Speaker 1: I'm like uh uh. And so it makes it easier
[5:45] Speaker 1: because then I have no excuse, like you can at
[5:47] Speaker 1: least get up and walk, and I'm doing a brisk
[5:49] Speaker 1: walk like I'm on a three or four.
[5:52] Speaker 5: The most I went up to while I was working
[5:54] Speaker 5: was like five and a half.
[5:57] Speaker 1: Yesterday. I had cranked that baby up, but I was
[6:00] Speaker 1: also trying to eat my salad while I was on
[6:02] Speaker 1: the walking pat and I almost sapped myself.
[6:03] Speaker 5: So I was like, bitch, calm down.
[6:05] Speaker 1: But I was trying to balance it out because I
[6:06] Speaker 1: did make a spicy caesar salad dressing.
[6:09] Speaker 5: Have you ever had a spicy caesar?
[6:11] Speaker 1: I have to make it for you. It was so good.
[6:13] Speaker 1: I did salmon with it. But I made a spicy
[6:16] Speaker 1: caesar dressing so good. So I'm just anchovies, okay, So
[6:20] Speaker 1: i'ma be honest. When I made caesar dressing, I used
[6:22] Speaker 1: the anchovy paste. Typically I didn't have any, so I
[6:26] Speaker 1: used some store ball dressing and doctor did it.
[6:28] Speaker 4: Okay, one time I made and I made the anchovies.
[6:32] Speaker 3: And I will never do that shit again.
[6:35] Speaker 4: Why don't you just get the past so you don't
[6:36] Speaker 4: have to grind feel like a classic woman.
[6:41] Speaker 3: I get the job done.
[6:42] Speaker 4: I do it, so you just what did you do
[6:44] Speaker 4: with those little anchovies?
[6:46] Speaker 3: And I was terrible?
[6:47] Speaker 1: Have you made a paste?
[6:48] Speaker 3: I made it? I made? I made caesar dressing. Scratch.
[6:53] Speaker 4: Yeah, but I got the whole anchovies and I put
[6:55] Speaker 4: it in the blender and I was scared of the
[6:57] Speaker 4: little fish. It was absolutely disgusting. But the dressing tape good,
[7:00] Speaker 4: but I just couldn't. I couldn't deal with that. It
[7:04] Speaker 4: was like little bodies.
[7:06] Speaker 1: Yes, whole fish in the can, a little tin can.
[7:10] Speaker 1: Some people really just munch on those.
[7:13] Speaker 4: My brother does that mackerel, but he's very healthy, like
[7:16] Speaker 4: with his like he's doing this whole thing right now.
[7:18] Speaker 4: My brothers like really buked up and he's like the
[7:20] Speaker 4: other day was at his house and I was like,
[7:21] Speaker 4: is that mackerel. He's like, that's mackerel. It was just
[7:23] Speaker 4: like the mackerel and eggs.
[7:26] Speaker 1: That sounds quite smelly. But yeah, I just I mean
[7:31] Speaker 1: a lot of it is vanity. Some of it is
[7:33] Speaker 1: health for me getting more active. I just don't want
[7:36] Speaker 1: to be feeling fat again on the beach. The last
[7:38] Speaker 1: few times I was on the beach, I felt that
[7:41] Speaker 1: and I didn't like it, and I'm and I can
[7:44] Speaker 1: do something about it. So it's like why not, I'm
[7:46] Speaker 1: gonna do it and we'll see how it goes. I
[7:49] Speaker 1: might be laying on somebody's table this summer or in
[7:52] Speaker 1: the fog. I mean, I don't have time to do
[7:54] Speaker 1: it and heal.
[7:54] Speaker 5: Up before March. But I'm not above it.
[7:58] Speaker 1: I am not above it. Or let's talk about it.
[8:00] Speaker 4: I got my chin done, you guys, and I got
[8:03] Speaker 4: a little bit of lip, and I am not going
[8:05] Speaker 4: to gate keep it.
[8:06] Speaker 3: Actually, I just got prettier by nature. Yeah face, I like.
[8:09] Speaker 1: Lip, close mouth. I want to read see if I know.
[8:14] Speaker 3: Let me look from the zoom.
[8:16] Speaker 1: It looks nice.
[8:16] Speaker 3: It's very subtle, very subtle.
[8:18] Speaker 5: I'm really like the lips when you smile.
[8:22] Speaker 4: It doesn't go away. And so here's the thing. She
[8:25] Speaker 4: did a little lip filler thirty percent of the vial,
[8:28] Speaker 4: and she was like, it's very important that you let
[8:30] Speaker 4: people know that you didn't just get like a whole
[8:31] Speaker 4: lot of stuff done, because it was very subtle. And
[8:33] Speaker 4: I was very specific, like don't I am not.
[8:38] Speaker 3: You're in there with you, bitch.
[8:40] Speaker 4: Don't have me leaving out here looking fucking crazy, and
[8:43] Speaker 4: she kept it was so funny because she was like,
[8:45] Speaker 4: what do you mean like looking crazy? And I was like,
[8:47] Speaker 4: pull up some pictures and so she did a little
[8:50] Speaker 4: bit in my lip, did my chin, and I didn't
[8:53] Speaker 4: realize when you put I don't know if everybody does it,
[8:56] Speaker 4: but my girl Kelsey over at Slim Face Body Studio
[8:59] Speaker 4: right above ye Bow. I love a good location. It
[9:01] Speaker 4: was very cute and they are very nice in that place.
[9:04] Speaker 4: She put the chin filler in which it did hurt.
[9:07] Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie it hurt, and then she molded it.
[9:10] Speaker 4: I didn't know that's what you did because I was
[9:11] Speaker 4: about to cry, but it was worth it.
[9:12] Speaker 1: She made sure that she wasn't gonna be sitting fun.
[9:15] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[9:15] Speaker 4: I was like, don't have me looking like it's the
[9:16] Speaker 4: clown because some people got them long, you know what
[9:20] Speaker 4: I mean. And so I got and she put a lip,
[9:23] Speaker 4: just a little bit of filler in my top lip.
[9:24] Speaker 4: Didn't do my bottom lip because it was already big.
[9:27] Speaker 4: And then she put she didn't it's called a gummy smile.
[9:31] Speaker 3: And a lip flip.
[9:33] Speaker 4: And so she put a little bit of botox up
[9:34] Speaker 4: here so that when I smile, all of my gums
[9:37] Speaker 4: don't show.
[9:39] Speaker 1: I don't even see them anymore.
[9:40] Speaker 4: And I'm really cheesing, y'all know how normally my smile
[9:43] Speaker 4: is really big. And I was like, how you feel
[9:45] Speaker 4: about it? I absolutely love it. You know, it's one
[9:48] Speaker 4: of those things where it's like, do what the fuck
[9:51] Speaker 4: you want to do?
[9:52] Speaker 3: Don't now listen. I don't ever want to be looking
[9:54] Speaker 3: crazy now. I don't want to go overboard.
[9:56] Speaker 4: I see how people can go overboard, though, because I
[9:58] Speaker 4: was in there, like wow, there's there's so many things,
[10:00] Speaker 4: so many options, so many things you can do that
[10:02] Speaker 4: you just didn't know you could do. Yeah, but you
[10:05] Speaker 4: don't have to go overboard. Be very subtle with it.
[10:07] Speaker 4: I'm very happy with it. Shout out to my girl Kelsey.
[10:11] Speaker 4: She is a white woman, so I was nervous, but
[10:14] Speaker 4: she I looked on her page and she had some
[10:16] Speaker 4: black girls on her page, and I was like, hey, listen,
[10:20] Speaker 4: I gotta lip.
[10:21] Speaker 3: I was blessed and she agreed and I.
[10:25] Speaker 4: Had I didn't realize that before I got my chin molded,
[10:28] Speaker 4: that I had a Bob's Burger.
[10:29] Speaker 2: Chin.
[10:30] Speaker 1: What is that?
[10:31] Speaker 4: Oh?
[10:31] Speaker 1: Like no, chin, It just I didn't ever I would
[10:34] Speaker 1: not call it no. But when you look at them before.
[10:36] Speaker 3: And after, it was very Bob's Burger. It was very
[10:43] Speaker 3: bobs Burger.
[10:43] Speaker 1: And now I never I've looked at some people and
[10:46] Speaker 1: thought that, I've never thought that about you. But I
[10:47] Speaker 1: understand what you mean.
[10:48] Speaker 4: Yeah, when you see it, you're like, huh wow. Okay,
[10:51] Speaker 4: So I twenty twenty five is called twenty twenty fine,
[10:56] Speaker 4: And I just want.
[10:56] Speaker 3: To get okay.
[10:57] Speaker 5: I could get with that right, Like I.
[10:59] Speaker 4: Want to get as fine as I can get, not
[11:03] Speaker 4: because I just went through a breakup or anything, but
[11:05] Speaker 4: just because I really just want to see how pretty
[11:09] Speaker 4: I can really get inside and out. But right today
[11:13] Speaker 4: we're talking about it out and so it's funny how
[11:15] Speaker 4: you were talking about walking on your walking pad. I'm
[11:17] Speaker 4: about to start working with a trainer and we went
[11:19] Speaker 4: through a whole assessment and he said, and I've worked
[11:22] Speaker 4: with trainers before. He said, I want to know where
[11:24] Speaker 4: your mentals are, Like what are you going through? Why
[11:26] Speaker 4: would you actually want to pay me to.
[11:28] Speaker 3: Work out with me? And I said, I appreciate you
[11:30] Speaker 3: asking that.
[11:31] Speaker 4: And I told him, I said, this is the first
[11:33] Speaker 4: time in my life where I'm actually about to say
[11:35] Speaker 4: like I actually I don't have a goal.
[11:38] Speaker 3: I don't have a goal.
[11:39] Speaker 4: I just want to feel good. I don't want to
[11:43] Speaker 4: look good, but I want to focus. Like when we
[11:45] Speaker 4: get into the workout, think I'm so insecure about working
[11:48] Speaker 4: out that I cannot focus on a goal.
[11:50] Speaker 3: I just want to be able to.
[11:51] Speaker 1: Get here, and showed up confidence.
[11:53] Speaker 3: Yes, and I got a bad meet.
[11:54] Speaker 4: And I also told him I complain a fucking lot,
[11:58] Speaker 4: like saying you need to know this about me.
[12:00] Speaker 1: Don't like I'm gonna be a one. And as I am.
[12:03] Speaker 3: Telling you right, you're gonna be like you can do it,
[12:04] Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, shut up.
[12:06] Speaker 5: I'm going home.
[12:07] Speaker 3: I can't this ship.
[12:09] Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going home.
[12:10] Speaker 3: I'm not doing every you want me to do three
[12:13] Speaker 3: sets of ten, you'll get six.
[12:15] Speaker 1: I will faking injury so bad like I'm in fucking
[12:17] Speaker 1: pee class. I will have a period.
[12:19] Speaker 3: You turn your head. I'm not doing all ten.
[12:22] Speaker 1: Because this is stupid. Why are you not sweating?
[12:25] Speaker 4: I don't know I'm a sweat because I sweat like
[12:27] Speaker 4: a football player.
[12:28] Speaker 1: Well, I didn't do it, so that's why I wasn't.
[12:29] Speaker 1: So I'm talking about when I be lying.
[12:31] Speaker 4: And I told him, I said, I will lie and
[12:33] Speaker 4: I will cheat you, but I just as long as
[12:36] Speaker 4: I'm in this place, I saw that fucking matters, and
[12:39] Speaker 4: I want you to know that.
[12:40] Speaker 3: Don't keep telling me I can't remember.
[12:44] Speaker 5: Well, that's good. Last trainer I had I had sex
[12:46] Speaker 5: with her.
[12:48] Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm very ikiky, I'm very sad,
[12:51] Speaker 4: So don't ask.
[12:53] Speaker 5: Okay, if you want to find trainer, I.
[12:57] Speaker 4: Don't want to fine ugly niggas only so he probably
[13:00] Speaker 4: ugly because I ain't noticed.
[13:02] Speaker 1: Probably or you ever see somebody who's like later you
[13:05] Speaker 1: realize they was at least cute. They wasn't fine, but
[13:08] Speaker 1: there was at least cute and you didn't even notice
[13:10] Speaker 1: because you was just in a move.
[13:11] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[13:13] Speaker 5: I thought you're about to say no. I'm saying all right, no,
[13:15] Speaker 5: yeah no.
[13:15] Speaker 3: So so that's my like I'm like twenty twenty five.
[13:18] Speaker 4: But like also like without these like this strict like goal,
[13:22] Speaker 4: it's like I like, I just need to be here,
[13:24] Speaker 4: that's see. I just want to as long if I
[13:26] Speaker 4: show up, you need to be happy.
[13:28] Speaker 2: M hmm.
[13:28] Speaker 1: I just need to get into it and do these
[13:31] Speaker 1: things that I'd be talking about.
[13:32] Speaker 4: I so badly want to be the girl that wakes
[13:35] Speaker 4: up at five am and is jogging by six am,
[13:37] Speaker 4: and I ate some eggs and have my coffee and
[13:39] Speaker 4: I come inside from my jog thirty minute jog. Maybe
[13:43] Speaker 4: I do a mile every morning, and like I'm come
[13:45] Speaker 4: back and I'm happy.
[13:47] Speaker 1: And they were looking so happy.
[13:49] Speaker 3: Oh my god. They just jump on the phone and
[13:51] Speaker 3: like get into work.
[13:52] Speaker 5: And they're not like they don't they don't be much.
[13:54] Speaker 1: They must use loomy.
[13:55] Speaker 3: They must they don't look.
[13:57] Speaker 1: Sweaty and and stinky. Yeah, some people just look like
[14:00] Speaker 1: they stink. And some of the girls that run all
[14:02] Speaker 1: the time with their all their like accessories, like you
[14:06] Speaker 1: know that they not playing. They do this and it's
[14:09] Speaker 1: just like light work.
[14:09] Speaker 3: Right, It's just like where they just do a quick
[14:11] Speaker 3: little joging on like I want to.
[14:12] Speaker 5: Are you in a conference call right now?
[14:13] Speaker 1: You just you just it's like easy, breezy, like you
[14:17] Speaker 1: didn't you win in your around tail bouncing like I
[14:22] Speaker 1: can't stand that. I hate see that.
[14:24] Speaker 2: You know.
[14:24] Speaker 1: I'm right by the belt line, so I see them
[14:25] Speaker 1: all the time. Me and when we go out there,
[14:27] Speaker 1: both of us be like fucked up on the thing.
[14:29] Speaker 1: We'd be tired. Sometimes we just stop.
[14:30] Speaker 5: She's looking like, girl, why are we at here? It's
[14:32] Speaker 5: called I'm a girl.
[14:33] Speaker 1: I don't know.
[14:34] Speaker 5: Let me see if somebody can pick us up. We're
[14:36] Speaker 5: gonna get a running.
[14:38] Speaker 4: On the second snow day that we had, and I
[14:40] Speaker 4: was like, bitch, ye serious side if you bust your head,
[14:44] Speaker 4: and she was. She had all our equipment though, all
[14:46] Speaker 4: the right shoes. Really she was really running. I was like,
[14:49] Speaker 4: but this is what I have learned. Bitch isn't run
[14:50] Speaker 4: like that. They're going through something and I'm not mad
[14:54] Speaker 4: at it. And she's like, I have to get my
[14:56] Speaker 4: mind on something else. I'm gonna get out here and
[14:58] Speaker 4: brick weather.
[14:59] Speaker 3: They run.
[15:00] Speaker 1: Yeah, someone will telling me. Who's like a real rule.
[15:01] Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, I'm doing a marathon, not a half marathon,
[15:04] Speaker 1: but a marathon.
[15:05] Speaker 5: However the fuck long that is?
[15:07] Speaker 4: I think it's like twenty one miles, now thirty six,
[15:11] Speaker 4: It's something like that.
[15:12] Speaker 1: They do it in kilometers usually, I think, cause i'd
[15:14] Speaker 1: be seeing like the thirteen point one is a half marathon.
[15:18] Speaker 1: I think. I don't know, y'all.
[15:19] Speaker 5: No, I don't be running, but I don't want to
[15:21] Speaker 5: do shit.
[15:22] Speaker 1: I just like to ride. I don't even like to drop.
[15:23] Speaker 1: I like to ride anyway. She's like, yeah, like, I
[15:26] Speaker 1: can give you some tips. And I was talking to
[15:28] Speaker 1: her about trying trying the walking pad and I was like,
[15:32] Speaker 1: I'm not ready for that, Thank you so much, but
[15:34] Speaker 1: you're serious I'm not doing all of that and my
[15:37] Speaker 1: foot be hurt and like I'll holler at you in
[15:40] Speaker 1: the summer. Maybe we'll see. But anyway, are y'all I
[15:44] Speaker 1: have a question for the listeners. Does anybody have any
[15:47] Speaker 1: goals that like little goals like that, Like we're both
[15:49] Speaker 1: we're sharing, we want to be fine and we're trying
[15:51] Speaker 1: to get active.
[15:53] Speaker 3: Well, find her we're fine.
[15:58] Speaker 1: And have some confidence with the workout stuff, because that
[16:01] Speaker 1: gets to me, like it's something I don't want to
[16:03] Speaker 1: go with certain people because you really are a workout person.
[16:07] Speaker 3: And I do have a bad knee And I told
[16:08] Speaker 3: him now I'm something.
[16:09] Speaker 1: Gonna be bad the knee and ankle. The right side
[16:12] Speaker 1: is fucked. Yeah, anyway, what other updates?
[16:19] Speaker 3: Oh? I want to share something real quick. I love love.
[16:23] Speaker 4: Y'all already know that, and I love love from all
[16:25] Speaker 4: of the angles. Shout out to one of our listeners
[16:28] Speaker 4: who has been listening from day one. Her name is Kiera,
[16:30] Speaker 4: but she feels a very difficult.
[16:32] Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean let her. She got in hers it's
[16:34] Speaker 1: like y A r A oh key era.
[16:39] Speaker 3: Her mom was literal, and I.
[16:41] Speaker 1: Bet nobody mispronounces it like they do me.
[16:43] Speaker 4: Right, this is very straight to the point anyway. She's
[16:45] Speaker 4: a realtor in North Carolina, Charlotte, North Carolina. I recently
[16:49] Speaker 4: had my first closing. By now I've probably had more.
[16:53] Speaker 4: And she hit me up. She slit in my DM.
[16:55] Speaker 4: She said, I absolutely love cocktails. I've been listening to y'all.
[16:58] Speaker 4: I love you and Kiki and I love y'alls. And
[17:00] Speaker 4: she was like, and I absolutely love that you are
[17:02] Speaker 4: a realtor now. And I have a client who is
[17:06] Speaker 4: selling their home in North Carolina and he's moving to Atlanta,
[17:09] Speaker 4: and I'm going to refer him to you, bitch.
[17:12] Speaker 1: See how when you speak it. Imagine if you never
[17:15] Speaker 1: even told anybody on the show that you were in
[17:18] Speaker 1: real estate, you just try to do it secretly.
[17:22] Speaker 4: Imagine I was trying to do it secretly, and I
[17:24] Speaker 4: was so nervous to like let everybody know. I was
[17:26] Speaker 4: just kind of interested in a different avenue. And I
[17:29] Speaker 4: appreciate you so much, Kiera. I feel like I know you.
[17:32] Speaker 4: I don't called you a few times because you know
[17:34] Speaker 4: I'm new. And she really handed hand delivered me a
[17:37] Speaker 4: client and he's so amazing, such a perfect client.
[17:40] Speaker 3: I'm holding his hand through this and I feel.
[17:42] Speaker 4: Even more motivated and dedicated to making sure that he
[17:45] Speaker 4: has a great experience with me, because like it's a listener,
[17:48] Speaker 4: and our listeners are like our homegirls, as long as
[17:51] Speaker 4: they're nice, and she's nice, and so I was just like, wow,
[17:53] Speaker 4: that's so. I just thank you so much. Girl, Like
[17:57] Speaker 4: you have no idea how much I appreciate you what
[17:59] Speaker 4: you do, because I told you, I just wanted to
[18:00] Speaker 4: make sure that as you listen this week, like you
[18:02] Speaker 4: hear that.
[18:03] Speaker 3: I so appreciate that.
[18:05] Speaker 4: And just a reminder, if you guys are looking to
[18:07] Speaker 4: sell or buy, I can talk about relationships with I
[18:10] Speaker 4: can also talk about real estate. So make surey'll slide
[18:12] Speaker 4: in the DMS or send me an email or whatever
[18:14] Speaker 4: way you want to get in contact with me, please
[18:15] Speaker 4: do that. I thought that was so amazing. Another thing
[18:18] Speaker 4: I thought was amazing was another girl sent us a
[18:20] Speaker 4: I don't know if she she's sent in our DMS
[18:22] Speaker 4: my DMS actually, and she said I made a cocktail
[18:25] Speaker 4: and I got pregnant. And she said, and I'm calling
[18:27] Speaker 4: it a cocktails baby?
[18:29] Speaker 1: Now was she?
[18:30] Speaker 5: Is this a happy pregnant?
[18:31] Speaker 3: And I had to send her a voice note. I said, bitch,
[18:33] Speaker 3: I don't even do this. I said, are you okay?
[18:36] Speaker 1: Like, is this good?
[18:37] Speaker 4: She's happy, and she's like, I mean, it wasn't planned,
[18:39] Speaker 4: but she's happy. So shout out to that cocktails baby, I.
[18:40] Speaker 3: Said, you shot cocktails baby, and bye Ki? Can I
[18:43] Speaker 3: to the baby show? We might come? Send send us
[18:45] Speaker 3: your registry link.
[18:46] Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely send the registry.
[18:47] Speaker 3: I can send it yet I can't remember where she
[18:49] Speaker 3: was located.
[18:51] Speaker 4: So if you're listening, send us your registry link, or
[18:54] Speaker 4: if you're in Atlanta, and I really will pull up.
[18:56] Speaker 3: I'm not playing with you.
[18:56] Speaker 1: If you're in Atlanta now, I don't know if you're
[18:58] Speaker 1: anywhere else. It depends what.
[18:59] Speaker 5: Would be or not.
[19:01] Speaker 1: I'm not ready to hit the road. I missed the
[19:03] Speaker 1: friendly skuy and just going places all the time. I've
[19:08] Speaker 1: got a lot of little little things to.
[19:11] Speaker 5: Do, just like family and friend stuff, and I can't
[19:13] Speaker 5: wait to see everybody.
[19:15] Speaker 1: And then of course trip's coming up. Curious Out is
[19:18] Speaker 1: around on the corner. I just keep counting down. That's
[19:19] Speaker 1: really the first thing that makes me want to get finer.
[19:23] Speaker 1: And then I'm going to Chicago, you guys, I am
[19:29] Speaker 1: going to Chicago.
[19:30] Speaker 5: I'll be there.
[19:31] Speaker 1: I get through March thirtieth, so I'll be there. It's
[19:34] Speaker 1: like the last day and a half of March and
[19:37] Speaker 1: first week of April. I think so, but I don't
[19:40] Speaker 1: think it'll be like as cold, but it's probably just
[19:43] Speaker 1: it'll probably be cold like it is here right now.
[19:47] Speaker 1: But I will be there because the podcast movement Podcast
[19:52] Speaker 1: Movements Evolutions Conference is happening that week. It is a
[19:56] Speaker 1: major industry conference for podcasters. If any if y'all are
[20:00] Speaker 1: going to be there, hit me up.
[20:01] Speaker 5: I will be speaking at the conference.
[20:03] Speaker 1: I'm really excited about it, and it's like a huge conference.
[20:08] Speaker 1: They have started announcing. I don't know. I probably wasn'tupposed
[20:12] Speaker 1: to tell y'all. I don't know when they'll announced it.
[20:13] Speaker 1: I'm a speaker, but they have done their first rollout
[20:16] Speaker 1: of speakers already, so we'll see.
[20:18] Speaker 5: But don't tell them. I told y'all, y'all just show up.
[20:21] Speaker 1: If you're coming, I would love to connect with you
[20:23] Speaker 1: if you're in Chicago. I'll be there all week, and
[20:28] Speaker 1: I'll be there with one of the producers from my
[20:31] Speaker 1: other show that I'm working on, which hopefully y'all will
[20:33] Speaker 1: be hearing about it, Like, are you of the show?
[20:36] Speaker 5: Or not yet, not yet, got wait, but I can
[20:40] Speaker 5: tell you the premise.
[20:41] Speaker 1: The premise of the show is basically, I'm sitting down.
[20:44] Speaker 1: I know this is going to sound crazy. I'm just
[20:46] Speaker 1: interviewing man. I only talk to men, and I'm talking
[20:49] Speaker 1: to them and getting their take, their experience, their views
[20:55] Speaker 1: on different aspects of black masculinity across their careers, their
[21:01] Speaker 1: love lives, their family lives, and just how they see themselves.
[21:08] Speaker 1: And it's been really interesting. I've been challenging myself to
[21:13] Speaker 1: not well, I be having my judgments. That's how I
[21:16] Speaker 1: come up with the questions about the guests, right, But
[21:19] Speaker 1: when I'm sitting down with them, it's like, Okay, remove
[21:23] Speaker 1: everything that you thought, think about the things that you
[21:25] Speaker 1: want to know, and just listen with an open mind.
[21:28] Speaker 1: I know that it's annoying to me when I talk
[21:30] Speaker 1: to somebody and they think they have me figured out,
[21:32] Speaker 1: but they don't know me, never met me. They just
[21:34] Speaker 1: made judgments. So I try to remember that and to
[21:38] Speaker 1: allow the guys to tell the story. Sometimes it's challenging.
[21:41] Speaker 1: Some people have been hard and it does feel like
[21:44] Speaker 1: pullin teeth, but most of the men have been really,
[21:47] Speaker 1: really open, and several of them have absolutely surprised me.
[21:52] Speaker 3: Y'all.
[21:52] Speaker 5: I'm learning a lot about the men folks.
[21:54] Speaker 1: And they are very chatty, and it's just interesting and
[21:59] Speaker 1: I'm enjoying it. I have an interview tomorrow, matter of fact,
[22:02] Speaker 1: and the man is fine, great, I conduct myself well.
[22:07] Speaker 3: Is he single?
[22:08] Speaker 1: I don't really know. He's very private. He's an actor.
[22:13] Speaker 3: Is he straight?
[22:15] Speaker 1: I don't know. I gotta find out, because I had
[22:19] Speaker 1: some ideas.
[22:22] Speaker 3: I thought so.
[22:22] Speaker 1: I mean, the characters I've seen him play are.
[22:24] Speaker 3: Straight, for sure. You never know what those actors.
[22:28] Speaker 1: Right, or anyone really, so I have no idea anything.
[22:32] Speaker 1: But I thought because of how he presents on social
[22:36] Speaker 1: media and like little articles or other interviews.
[22:39] Speaker 5: That I've seen, that he he would be a certain way,
[22:43] Speaker 5: maybe more serious.
[22:45] Speaker 1: He his publicist hit us back and was like I
[22:47] Speaker 1: told one of the producers, like, hey, he wants to
[22:50] Speaker 1: talk about sexual his sexual liberation and other. I did
[22:53] Speaker 1: not think we was talking about sex. I thought he
[22:56] Speaker 1: was gonna be talking about wokeness. Honestly, for this guy,
[23:00] Speaker 1: so I can't wait to talk to him tomorrow. I'm
[23:02] Speaker 1: going to tell y'all about it once it's done.
[23:06] Speaker 5: I'm just really interested because I'm wondering, like, what do
[23:08] Speaker 5: you mean liberation?
[23:09] Speaker 1: Because sometimes tell me if you think this when men
[23:12] Speaker 1: say something about sexual liberation, do you wonder if they're
[23:15] Speaker 1: talking about like coming out in any sort of way,
[23:19] Speaker 1: or do you think they want to let it like
[23:21] Speaker 1: I want to just be freaking nasty.
[23:24] Speaker 4: I don't know if I think about it as them
[23:25] Speaker 4: coming out. I normally think it has something to do
[23:27] Speaker 4: with their booty hole, but not necessarily like a man
[23:30] Speaker 4: getting it, but they want somebody dabbling in their immediately
[23:34] Speaker 4: go to you want your bootyhole dabbled in?
[23:36] Speaker 1: Because somebody had asked me that, and I was like, well,
[23:38] Speaker 1: I didn't think about that. I just thought maybe like
[23:41] Speaker 1: because my again, my judgment is my preconceived notions are
[23:45] Speaker 1: that he's more so conservative maybe when it comes to
[23:48] Speaker 1: that part of his life. But I was like, I
[23:50] Speaker 1: don't know, but I'm asked. And then I was trying
[23:52] Speaker 1: to think of all of these like eloquent ways to
[23:54] Speaker 1: hass I'm trying to be like Oprah and I'm just like,
[23:59] Speaker 1: man lit, how do y'all feel about this? I just
[24:01] Speaker 1: I can't think of a better way to say it.
[24:03] Speaker 1: Can I just be like Okay, I want to give
[24:04] Speaker 1: it to you straight. And the guy is from Texas too.
[24:08] Speaker 1: I'm very interested. We will be talking about barbecue and
[24:10] Speaker 1: some of these I can't wait for it to come out.
[24:12] Speaker 1: I hope it comes out this month. That's what we're
[24:14] Speaker 1: waiting on. That's that's what I'm waiting on to tell
[24:16] Speaker 1: y'all all the deats. But we'll see.
[24:20] Speaker 5: But yes, it's challenging. It's something I heard that I
[24:26] Speaker 5: have just been hoping and praying that my love of
[24:31] Speaker 5: barbecue does not sabotage my goal. And as I'm thinking
[24:36] Speaker 5: about snacking and getting hungry and hungry and looking at
[24:39] Speaker 5: the clock, we're gonna move on to weird sex.
[24:44] Speaker 2: You said a man is not a necessity.
[24:47] Speaker 3: A man is a luxury like dessert.
[24:50] Speaker 1: Yeah, a man is absolutely not necessity. Did you mean
[24:54] Speaker 1: that to sound meaning better? Oh not at all. I
[24:58] Speaker 1: adore dessert. I love man. I think men are the coolest,
[25:02] Speaker 1: but you don't really need them to live.
[25:08] Speaker 5: I have a story about somebody who was eating chips
[25:10] Speaker 5: in a sexual situation.
[25:12] Speaker 3: Chips, please, not hot cheetos.
[25:15] Speaker 1: I don't know what kind of chips it was. All right,
[25:20] Speaker 1: welcome back to cocktails. You guys, and it's time for
[25:24] Speaker 1: weird sax. Now, what is your beef with hot Cheetos?
[25:28] Speaker 1: And you said please not.
[25:31] Speaker 4: There are just certain things I think we're supposed to outgrow,
[25:34] Speaker 4: and hot Cheetos is one of them.
[25:35] Speaker 1: I didn't eat them as a kid. I just got hip.
[25:38] Speaker 1: Really yeah, I didn't eat them back.
[25:42] Speaker 3: So that's how we come.
[25:44] Speaker 4: Bring a bag of hot Cheetos and maybe I need
[25:45] Speaker 4: to reintroduce my body to I just can't remember them
[25:49] Speaker 4: being so good.
[25:51] Speaker 5: Why just think they're a tasty little snack.
[25:54] Speaker 1: You know, you want a little snack, you gotta stop
[25:55] Speaker 1: at the gas station.
[25:56] Speaker 5: They don't always have a pleasora.
[25:58] Speaker 1: Anyway, somebody was eating chips in a sexual situation. So
[26:02] Speaker 1: I was on the Reddit streets perusin and perusen, and
[26:07] Speaker 1: I found a thread of people sharing some embarrassing sexual
[26:10] Speaker 1: and dating moments. So I thought this one would be
[26:12] Speaker 1: perfect to share on the show. So there's a girl
[26:16] Speaker 1: and she's a lesbian.
[26:19] Speaker 5: This is a story from back in her college days.
[26:21] Speaker 3: I felt like trying to get this cherry out.
[26:23] Speaker 1: I did two earlier, and I was just munch and
[26:25] Speaker 1: munch and munch and munch and munch and get it out.
[26:26] Speaker 1: Go just turn around, shake it, cheve it. Nobody's looking
[26:29] Speaker 1: at you.
[26:29] Speaker 5: I'll just keep talking. The camera won't see.
[26:31] Speaker 3: Okay.
[26:32] Speaker 1: So the girl meets this other girl and the girl
[26:38] Speaker 1: number two, let's give him a name.
[26:39] Speaker 5: Let's see.
[26:41] Speaker 1: We've got the main girl who is a lesbian. Her
[26:45] Speaker 1: name is Lisa and the other girl's name is Cherry.
[26:48] Speaker 1: So Lisa is talking to Cherry, and Cherry is trying
[26:52] Speaker 1: to give Lisa a little leaky leaky, but she's never
[26:54] Speaker 1: done it before and she's not sure where to go.
[26:57] Speaker 1: She has a roommate again. They're in college. They're living
[26:59] Speaker 1: in the door. So she tells Cherry tells Lisa, hey, girl, basically,
[27:05] Speaker 1: I want to eat your bussy. But the only place
[27:08] Speaker 1: we can really go is my ex's dorm because my
[27:12] Speaker 1: ex is in a single no roommates, right, and they
[27:16] Speaker 1: both had roommates and they wanted some privacy. I wan
[27:20] Speaker 1: no privacy to be had anyway. So they go to
[27:22] Speaker 1: the exes room and they're having their little sexual experience or whatever,
[27:27] Speaker 1: and everything is cool at first, it's dark, it's step.
[27:31] Speaker 1: Lisa is just like eyes rolling back, like she's new
[27:34] Speaker 1: to this, but she is true to this. This girl
[27:36] Speaker 1: knows what she's doing. She has found her home. She
[27:38] Speaker 1: needs to be in the Lady Pond all along. Then
[27:40] Speaker 1: all of a sudden, something takes her out of the zone.
[27:44] Speaker 1: Lisa starts hearing this weird crunching sound in the corner.
[27:48] Speaker 5: Now, has she been a student living.
[27:51] Speaker 1: In a dorm like I did out in DC, you
[27:54] Speaker 1: would have assumed it was a mouse chewing through your
[27:57] Speaker 1: care package that your mother sent you with your noodles
[28:00] Speaker 1: and your snacks and things. It wasn't that it was
[28:03] Speaker 1: a man sitting in the corner. Cherry's ex is a man,
[28:08] Speaker 1: not a woman, because this is her first woman experience.
[28:11] Speaker 1: They went to the man's dorm room and the man
[28:14] Speaker 1: was in there and he's just watching. He's not like
[28:16] Speaker 1: jerking off or anything crazy, but he's just sitting there
[28:18] Speaker 1: enjoying the show, eating fucking potato chips and crunching on
[28:22] Speaker 1: them while while Cherry is munching on Lisa's cherry pie.
[28:28] Speaker 3: And there.
[28:30] Speaker 1: I mean, I think Cherry knew because how they get
[28:33] Speaker 1: in there, And I'm like, you know, the things that
[28:36] Speaker 1: we go through in college. Nobody left really upset. It
[28:40] Speaker 1: also did not ended up in a threesome. She just
[28:43] Speaker 1: thought it was really weird that the girl was like,
[28:45] Speaker 1: not gonna tell her. I think in the end of
[28:47] Speaker 1: the story she's basically like, you know, I'm into people watching.
[28:50] Speaker 1: So it was all fine and good, but I do
[28:53] Speaker 1: wish you would have told me, like that is very inappropriate,
[28:55] Speaker 1: but it's also wild, and like, why would you bring
[28:58] Speaker 1: That's not an appropriate snack to watching people have water?
[29:05] Speaker 1: Well the bottle, my crunch, don't have it in a glass.
[29:08] Speaker 1: It needs to be in a glass and you just
[29:09] Speaker 1: need to sip it quietly and that's it.
[29:12] Speaker 5: Or a cocktail. You don't need to be eating nothing.
[29:16] Speaker 3: Yeah food.
[29:19] Speaker 4: Sa I mean, just to add a little positive vibe
[29:22] Speaker 4: to it. Cherry was really in alignment with the people
[29:25] Speaker 4: that she chose to have this experience with because it
[29:27] Speaker 4: is Yeah.
[29:29] Speaker 1: She was just like, oh, it's a little weird, or
[29:31] Speaker 1: write about it like it Cherry ate my Cherry bye.
[29:35] Speaker 1: And it was fine. So shout out to Lisa and Cherry.
[29:38] Speaker 1: But y'all need to tell people, y'all gonna be inviting
[29:41] Speaker 1: an audience.
[29:42] Speaker 5: Hello, it's probably in the nineties, who knows. Anyway, that's
[29:45] Speaker 5: it for Sexist Week. Y'all keep sending me the stories
[29:48] Speaker 5: and if you have a confession, I would love to
[29:50] Speaker 5: hear it, read it.
[29:51] Speaker 1: Share it on the show.
[29:52] Speaker 4: I'm so happy that winter is done and over with.
[29:56] Speaker 4: I'm sick of being ashy. Like the crevicens of my thumb,
[30:00] Speaker 4: you know that little corner part the tops of my heels.
[30:02] Speaker 4: They still last you right now because it's still a
[30:03] Speaker 4: little cold outside. I'm so happy that it we're going
[30:06] Speaker 4: into the springtime. But it's gonna be hot in Atlanta
[30:10] Speaker 4: it is, or wherever you might be.
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[31:57] Speaker 1: I don't want to go back outside outside of the
[32:01] Speaker 1: building or outside outside.
[32:06] Speaker 3: Y'all don't want to go back outside.
[32:10] Speaker 4: I don't know.
[32:11] Speaker 3: Some memes were like the girls.
[32:13] Speaker 1: Are like, I don't want to I don't want to go.
[32:20] Speaker 3: I want to go back.
[32:20] Speaker 4: Did I'll send you that one mean where it's like
[32:22] Speaker 4: Michael Jackson is getting up at the Grammys and everybody's clapping,
[32:25] Speaker 4: and it's like, when you thought you found your son
[32:27] Speaker 4: made in the streets, are welcoming you back?
[32:29] Speaker 2: No?
[32:29] Speaker 1: But I know exactly what you're talking about. I've seen it.
[32:31] Speaker 5: My friends be sending that to me all the time.
[32:36] Speaker 5: How does that son go welcome back? I don't know, welcome,
[32:39] Speaker 5: but I don't know.
[32:40] Speaker 1: It's a rapper songs have got these little badass kids in.
[32:42] Speaker 5: Probably New York or Philly.
[32:44] Speaker 4: One of them got to be one of the really cold,
[32:47] Speaker 4: broke cities.
[32:48] Speaker 1: This messy ass bitch you list for drama that I
[32:50] Speaker 1: know used to be a friend. Not She hit up
[32:53] Speaker 1: one of my homegirls the other day and send her
[32:55] Speaker 1: a message unsented later and I'm like, this bitch probably
[32:59] Speaker 1: gets you drunk, and since did she?
[33:00] Speaker 3: But did the person who got them as to see it.
[33:02] Speaker 1: Yeah, because I got a screenshot in my phone, so
[33:05] Speaker 1: she screenshoted. So we're all talking about it, right, But
[33:07] Speaker 1: it was just funny because not because she's a messy
[33:10] Speaker 1: bitch for Lyft who lives for drama. That's her reputation,
[33:13] Speaker 1: but it was funny because she told her she hit
[33:15] Speaker 1: her up and was like, here are you okay? You're
[33:18] Speaker 1: in Philly and I saw what happened, and then I
[33:23] Speaker 1: saw that you were out there. She only saw that
[33:26] Speaker 1: she was out there because my friend went outside the
[33:29] Speaker 1: Eagles one, so they're like parading in the streets and happy.
[33:32] Speaker 1: But it's just like, bitch's just like hitting somebody up
[33:34] Speaker 1: in Chicago. Oh I saw somebody get shot her. You okay?
[33:37] Speaker 1: Like bitches die every day, Like what are you talking about?
[33:40] Speaker 1: So my homegirl's like, uh, what happened in Philly? She
[33:44] Speaker 1: had no idea anyway.
[33:45] Speaker 5: Somebody did get run over. It was very all over
[33:48] Speaker 5: the internet, but I'm just like, Philly is a rough place.
[33:50] Speaker 1: Let's not pretend.
[33:51] Speaker 2: Yeah.
[33:51] Speaker 1: I didn't see it either until it was sent directly
[33:54] Speaker 1: to me, because even my friend she'd be outside and
[33:56] Speaker 1: she was like, I didn't know what was going on,
[33:58] Speaker 1: so she was just searching and like, and so she
[34:00] Speaker 1: finally figured out what happened that the girl must have
[34:04] Speaker 1: been referencing. So anyway, some girl was high on ecstasy.
[34:08] Speaker 1: The people are calling it E bombs. Now, did you
[34:10] Speaker 1: know that?
[34:10] Speaker 3: Is it different?
[34:11] Speaker 1: So I thought it was like a mixture or something,
[34:13] Speaker 1: because if you tell, I'm thinking Yaeger bomb. But instead
[34:16] Speaker 1: of Yager going in a cup of red bull, I'm thinking,
[34:20] Speaker 1: like you got an X peel crumpled up in a
[34:25] Speaker 1: line of coke. And then I don't know what other
[34:27] Speaker 1: drug you could throw. I don't know how all them
[34:29] Speaker 1: kind of drugs work. I never did it. I'm a
[34:32] Speaker 1: via hemp girl, Okay, And that's it.
[34:34] Speaker 5: That's where it stops. In alcohol.
[34:36] Speaker 1: We know, I love my alcohol, but like all that
[34:38] Speaker 1: has said, I've never gotten into it. So she's talking
[34:40] Speaker 1: about E bomb and then we're all confused, like what drugs.
[34:44] Speaker 5: Are you talking about?
[34:45] Speaker 1: Anyway? She said that I sup what they call ecstasy. Now,
[34:48] Speaker 1: I said, oh, maybe it's a Philly thing. You know,
[34:50] Speaker 1: we are old aunties, baby, just tell us what it's called.
[34:52] Speaker 1: Back in our day, they called it X for sure,
[34:55] Speaker 1: an ecstasy. Anyway, the girl was high. She runs some
[34:59] Speaker 1: people over, but not my friend.
[35:01] Speaker 5: She's alive and still telling us the things that are
[35:03] Speaker 5: going on. But it's just it's wild out there.
[35:05] Speaker 1: Now. You say you don't want to go outside, Okay,
[35:10] Speaker 1: so you're just not gonna go That's why myself.
[35:14] Speaker 4: No, not for a year, not for twelve months. Well,
[35:17] Speaker 4: I'm gonna go outside, but like not outside. You know
[35:20] Speaker 4: what I mean, I'm not gonna do it.
[35:22] Speaker 3: It's not work, it's no point, don't do it.
[35:25] Speaker 5: It's overrated.
[35:26] Speaker 3: It's very much overrated.
[35:27] Speaker 4: And like I need the men to get through this
[35:29] Speaker 4: phase of what they're going through.
[35:31] Speaker 5: Like what which part?
[35:34] Speaker 1: Because I feel like.
[35:38] Speaker 4: There's different angles that I can't even like try to
[35:40] Speaker 4: dive into you. I'm gonna dive into me. Oh okay,
[35:42] Speaker 4: And I'm highly considering moving to CC's land to Costa Rica.
[35:49] Speaker 1: Medine is about to be a lesbian.
[35:54] Speaker 3: I love a door man, like they're the coolest.
[36:00] Speaker 1: For dessert. And I think her main entre gonna be.
[36:02] Speaker 4: The latest yea, yeah, no, that's not I was joking.
[36:08] Speaker 3: I'm not moving to cost Rica and I'm not. I
[36:11] Speaker 3: love me. It's gonna be just like a What is
[36:14] Speaker 3: actual sabbatical.
[36:16] Speaker 1: I think it's called like I might be wrong.
[36:20] Speaker 5: I'm sure y'all will not hesitate to correct me.
[36:22] Speaker 1: But I think a sabbatical is like you take a
[36:24] Speaker 1: break and you go on a journey or something like
[36:28] Speaker 1: you could take a sabbatical from school and you go
[36:31] Speaker 1: and you have some experience. I feel like I've heard
[36:33] Speaker 1: about like professors taking sabbaticals and they they leave the
[36:37] Speaker 1: schools that they're being professors at and they go on
[36:41] Speaker 1: this experience like maybe they'll go to like Egypt or something,
[36:43] Speaker 1: and they learn stuff, have some self discovery moments, some
[36:47] Speaker 1: them moments, and then they come back. You just take a.
[36:50] Speaker 4: Break, Yeah, which is my life. So we'll see how
[36:54] Speaker 4: this custrin out.
[36:56] Speaker 1: What time of year?
[36:58] Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm not really moving to Costrica.
[37:00] Speaker 4: I do love Costa Rica and I am considering buying
[37:02] Speaker 4: property in Costa Rica because.
[37:03] Speaker 3: It is a beautiful place. But I was just joking
[37:05] Speaker 3: about that.
[37:06] Speaker 4: No, but like a break from dating might not be bad,
[37:14] Speaker 4: because yeah, you I don't a break from dating might
[37:20] Speaker 4: not be bad.
[37:23] Speaker 5: I don't think it's bad at all. I will say
[37:25] Speaker 5: it didn't really feel good.
[37:27] Speaker 1: I've not we approach dating very differently, right, We approach
[37:32] Speaker 1: dating very differently, you and I, and our experiences are
[37:35] Speaker 1: very different.
[37:36] Speaker 5: I will say though, last year was the first time
[37:40] Speaker 5: that I was really spending more time just with me,
[37:44] Speaker 5: less time with friends, less time with family, and really
[37:49] Speaker 5: looking at me and trying to get through some things,
[37:53] Speaker 5: figure out some things, identify things and all that, and
[37:57] Speaker 5: not worrying about even having sex. That was more important.
[38:02] Speaker 5: That's sometimes I ask you, it's.
[38:04] Speaker 4: Very interesting to not have a male in you for
[38:09] Speaker 4: a long period of.
[38:10] Speaker 5: Time, And I say peaceful.
[38:12] Speaker 3: It's very peaceful. It's very like uninterrupted.
[38:16] Speaker 4: It's very much like, Oh, I don't get it wrong,
[38:21] Speaker 4: I'm sad, but.
[38:24] Speaker 5: I'm just laughing at the way you said it.
[38:26] Speaker 3: Not it would no, it's it's honest.
[38:28] Speaker 4: But it's also like there's this weird like have you
[38:31] Speaker 4: ever felt chaos and peace at the same time. It
[38:36] Speaker 4: feels very nice to like not be interrupted by somebody's son.
[38:41] Speaker 3: And I don't mean that in like this dramatic.
[38:44] Speaker 1: Confusion more so than chaos. It's for me.
[38:47] Speaker 3: Yeah, it's for me. It's not even confusing.
[38:49] Speaker 4: It's just like shit just gets chaotic, and by chaotic,
[38:51] Speaker 4: it's like how you said, like we approach things differently.
[38:54] Speaker 4: I am the type of lover where I get very involved,
[38:58] Speaker 4: I get very uh wrapped up and I and I
[39:05] Speaker 4: don't even want to take that away from myself. But
[39:07] Speaker 4: it's just like I've never taken it away from myself
[39:10] Speaker 4: in a sense. So it's like there are certain things
[39:12] Speaker 4: that have come up that I have to like journey
[39:17] Speaker 4: through on my own. And it actually, while it feels devastating,
[39:20] Speaker 4: it also feels very like refreshing to not have to
[39:23] Speaker 4: consult with somebody or have you there doing it with me.
[39:26] Speaker 3: Does that make sense? Even though I am.
[39:28] Speaker 5: Sad, Okay, okay, that is clear.
[39:33] Speaker 4: That is very clear, It's still like it's just because
[39:35] Speaker 4: I just want to make sure like I'm as honest
[39:37] Speaker 4: as I am when I'm happy, I want to be
[39:38] Speaker 4: as honest with the other side of it too. It's like,
[39:40] Speaker 4: but it's all this is also very necessary, and so
[39:42] Speaker 4: it's just it's just interesting, like I haven't had a
[39:45] Speaker 4: mail in my body.
[39:47] Speaker 3: Like the like in it in a minute?
[39:50] Speaker 1: How long is a minute?
[39:52] Speaker 3: It was before we were even broken up, so it
[39:55] Speaker 3: isn't I would have to actually do the mak.
[39:59] Speaker 1: I So I've had somebody in my body this year.
[40:04] Speaker 5: But I'm gonna go back to last year when I
[40:05] Speaker 5: was going through the long wreak.
[40:07] Speaker 1: It was like months and months when we did that
[40:08] Speaker 1: last episode with Barbie Blue Boss Barbie, Sorry, Boss Barbie,
[40:17] Speaker 1: my bad uh, and she was talking about like days.
[40:23] Speaker 1: I was like, girl, I was confused because there were
[40:28] Speaker 1: other things where we didn't have time to ask. But
[40:29] Speaker 1: I was just like, I'm not even thinking about that.
[40:32] Speaker 1: And it's just like there was a time where I
[40:34] Speaker 1: felt like I do want to have sex, not every
[40:37] Speaker 1: day but often. But it's also like that was also
[40:42] Speaker 1: a time when it didn't have to be the same person,
[40:45] Speaker 1: you know, and it's just different. And then it's like
[40:49] Speaker 1: I'm still in shock at how long I was able
[40:55] Speaker 1: to go without realizing that my favorite fucking vibrator had died,
[41:04] Speaker 1: because there was a time when I would use it
[41:06] Speaker 1: once a day every now and then skip to day
[41:09] Speaker 1: and she's been with me for years, Like that's a
[41:11] Speaker 1: long term relationship for me, and I had to I
[41:14] Speaker 1: just threw it in the trash and I canceled the
[41:17] Speaker 1: order when I rebought it, because I bought another one.
[41:21] Speaker 1: I'd buy her twin sister, because maybe gink, you still
[41:23] Speaker 1: got k needs And sometimes I can't be worried about
[41:26] Speaker 1: a person, but I just need to rub it out.
[41:29] Speaker 3: I haven't even felt like rubbing it out.
[41:31] Speaker 1: And then I was just like, I'm good, and it's
[41:34] Speaker 1: just been like less and less, and I was like, wait,
[41:36] Speaker 1: wait a minute, now, now I think there's a different
[41:39] Speaker 1: problem going on, because this is this is too far
[41:42] Speaker 1: gone I've got I've got to reel it back in.
[41:44] Speaker 5: And not that I need or want to masturbate it
[41:48] Speaker 5: all the time. I have a lot of sex, but
[41:51] Speaker 5: it was something weird about it because I do enjoy sex,
[41:54] Speaker 5: and it's not like I have to have a.
[41:56] Speaker 1: Lot of it, but it did bother me. It's like
[41:59] Speaker 1: a piece to me that I did enjoy it went
[42:03] Speaker 1: away and I had no reason. It wasn't like a
[42:07] Speaker 1: conscious choice, I guess, is what I'm saying. It's just
[42:09] Speaker 1: like all of a sudden, I don't want to anymore.
[42:12] Speaker 1: And I just felt I did not like that I
[42:14] Speaker 1: needed to like want to do it, even if it
[42:17] Speaker 1: was by myself. I need to want to at least
[42:18] Speaker 1: have my thirty seconds of fun with my damn toy.
[42:22] Speaker 5: But anyway, yeah, I was surprised at how much time
[42:24] Speaker 5: went by that I.
[42:25] Speaker 1: Didn't use a toy.
[42:27] Speaker 5: The man thing wasn't so surprising.
[42:29] Speaker 4: I'm surprised how much I really enjoy looking at myself
[42:33] Speaker 4: in the mirror. And I'd be like, bitch, y'all can't
[42:36] Speaker 4: see it right now, but like I look really good
[42:39] Speaker 4: without clothes on, and I love it, and like I
[42:42] Speaker 4: will do this thing.
[42:42] Speaker 1: Do you do pose this? I mean looking at yourself.
[42:45] Speaker 4: I do more like a lot of talking and like touching.
[42:49] Speaker 4: I guess maybe I do do some posts and I've
[42:50] Speaker 4: been taking some pictures like they're not going to anybody.
[42:54] Speaker 4: But it also there's like this like I don't know,
[42:57] Speaker 4: like it feels very sacred right now, like to know,
[43:00] Speaker 4: like I look as good as I do at my rawest.
[43:04] Speaker 3: State and nobody has access to it.
[43:08] Speaker 4: There's this odd sense of power that I feel that
[43:13] Speaker 4: the next person that does get access to it, it
[43:16] Speaker 4: will be a very powerful, powerful version of myself that
[43:22] Speaker 4: I've never tapped into before. And there is like a
[43:25] Speaker 4: I don't know, it feels very sacred. I don't know
[43:28] Speaker 4: what the fuck is happening.
[43:30] Speaker 3: Bitch.
[43:31] Speaker 1: You're taking a break and getting into you and really
[43:33] Speaker 1: tapping into you without all of the outside noise. That's
[43:37] Speaker 1: all you need sometimes, Yeah.
[43:39] Speaker 4: And it's interesting to realize how sometimes that outside noise
[43:44] Speaker 4: can be. And I say this with the utmost respect
[43:47] Speaker 4: and love. Some of the outside noise can be people
[43:50] Speaker 4: that you love. And they might circle back around.
[43:53] Speaker 3: I hope you do.
[43:55] Speaker 4: They might circle back around, but you might have a
[43:57] Speaker 4: moment where you're like, ah, I got it.
[43:59] Speaker 5: They might mean well, but it doesn't mean that it's
[44:01] Speaker 5: right for you.
[44:02] Speaker 4: Yeah, it's very interesting. It's very it's very interesting. Anyways,
[44:06] Speaker 4: I've already over shared, and I said I was gonna
[44:07] Speaker 4: do that, but here we are, y'all, because I already
[44:10] Speaker 4: know the comments.
[44:11] Speaker 5: I knew she broke up, shut the fuck up.
[44:14] Speaker 4: And go.
[44:17] Speaker 1: Yeah. I was surprised you share it, but I was like,
[44:19] Speaker 1: all right, I'll just yeah, I'll be quiet.
[44:22] Speaker 4: So I can't hold secrets that long when they're mine.
[44:25] Speaker 4: I can hold someone else's secret, but when their mine.
[44:27] Speaker 4: I'd feeling like, we gotta be honest with the listeners.
[44:29] Speaker 4: Bitch ass listeners.
[44:32] Speaker 5: No, no, how you're gonna call them bitch.
[44:37] Speaker 1: It was so stavy handed drink she pour it, and
[44:40] Speaker 1: I influenced her to take a shot of the VILLI y'all, because.
[44:45] Speaker 5: I'm gonna need another one.
[44:46] Speaker 3: It's cold.
[44:49] Speaker 5: I want to say something else.
[44:50] Speaker 1: Okay, So in a previous episode, I said I was
[44:52] Speaker 1: gonna cut it out if it didn't happen.
[44:53] Speaker 5: I just have to update, y'all. I ain't get married, right.
[44:56] Speaker 1: It's not mine engage, but I gotta tell somebody else's business.
[44:59] Speaker 1: It's okay to talk about My auntie is getting married, y'all.
[45:02] Speaker 1: And I'm excited because I want to go to a wedding.
[45:04] Speaker 3: I'm excited.
[45:05] Speaker 1: I told you all my sister is getting married. My
[45:07] Speaker 1: little sister is also engaged.
[45:09] Speaker 3: Are they getting red in the same year.
[45:10] Speaker 1: No, my sister ain't gett married for a few years.
[45:12] Speaker 1: So quite honestly, I think I'm kind of excited because
[45:15] Speaker 1: I really wanted my sister to get married like sooner,
[45:17] Speaker 1: because they've been together way longer than my aunt and
[45:21] Speaker 1: her man.
[45:22] Speaker 3: Wow.
[45:22] Speaker 1: But because they've been together for years and years and years,
[45:25] Speaker 1: and I really like him. It's interesting to see who
[45:30] Speaker 1: your siblings end up with, isn't it, And especially because
[45:33] Speaker 1: like I'm older than everybody, so it's like I've watched
[45:37] Speaker 1: you from like when you was in my mama's belly.
[45:41] Speaker 1: And now you're like a real adult with real wrown
[45:45] Speaker 1: woman responsibilities, opinions and a life of your own.
[45:49] Speaker 5: And now you're about to have a husband.
[45:52] Speaker 1: And when I talk to you all about your future,
[45:54] Speaker 1: you're both like they're very mature. My sister is twenty
[45:59] Speaker 1: five or twenty six, get because I forget how old
[46:01] Speaker 1: I am. I mean, I was just twenty six last year,
[46:03] Speaker 1: so you know anyway, I just be excited. So I
[46:06] Speaker 1: can't wait for the weddings.
[46:07] Speaker 5: I'll up you update you guys about it, but I
[46:10] Speaker 5: want a really cute fit.
[46:13] Speaker 1: The wedding is going to be in the fall. It'll
[46:15] Speaker 1: be in the South. That's pretty much all I have,
[46:18] Speaker 1: So anybody who like has some ideas, I just want
[46:23] Speaker 1: all the ideas.
[46:24] Speaker 5: I don't know what the attire.
[46:25] Speaker 1: Is going to be. I've been asking a million questions.
[46:27] Speaker 1: I don't have no answers, but I just cannot wait,
[46:29] Speaker 1: and I want to have some options. I want to
[46:30] Speaker 1: be prepared hairstyles, any new looks that you guys would
[46:34] Speaker 1: like to suggest. I need to get some braids too.
[46:36] Speaker 1: Now that ain't for the wedding, that's for like tomorrow.
[46:38] Speaker 1: I need some braid.
[46:39] Speaker 3: Either you're gonna do a long bootyhole braid or you're
[46:40] Speaker 3: gonna do a short braid. I thought about a.
[46:43] Speaker 5: Short braid, like like your links.
[46:45] Speaker 1: And then I thought about something longer, not booty hole,
[46:48] Speaker 1: but like mid back. But I don't want to sit
[46:50] Speaker 1: there for that.
[46:52] Speaker 3: Because if you're gonna sit there for that, you might
[46:53] Speaker 3: as well get booty hole.
[46:54] Speaker 1: I don't want them in my booty.
[46:57] Speaker 4: I don't.
[46:59] Speaker 1: Get in my booty.
[47:00] Speaker 4: And just even also when like just like if, like
[47:02] Speaker 4: when I was in Costa Rica, I got this for
[47:04] Speaker 4: Costa Rica and it was like, I'm surfing. I don't
[47:06] Speaker 4: want to be thinking it's a shark and it's my braid.
[47:09] Speaker 4: I ain't surfing, but it's just a lie like the
[47:12] Speaker 4: bun that. I was like, look it, can you give
[47:14] Speaker 4: me a short, old lady braid?
[47:16] Speaker 3: And I love it. I'm getting it again.
[47:20] Speaker 1: I don't know what's going to happen today. You guys,
[47:22] Speaker 1: we had a plan to talk about AI stuff. We're
[47:26] Speaker 1: not getting to it because we're way over time. But man,
[47:29] Speaker 1: I do want to ask AI. Want one thing I
[47:32] Speaker 1: want to ask. I named my chat GPTCC. Did you
[47:36] Speaker 1: name your chat GPT?
[47:37] Speaker 3: You name the CC.
[47:39] Speaker 1: She says she's gonna name herself Chatty, but I was like, girl,
[47:42] Speaker 1: let's sound a real name, Like let's do something else.
[47:44] Speaker 1: So I want to ask her a question. I want
[47:46] Speaker 1: to ask her what kind of braids should I get
[47:48] Speaker 1: before my trip?
[47:49] Speaker 5: And let's see what she said?
[47:50] Speaker 3: Are you going to give her some background?
[47:52] Speaker 1: No? So I wish I had brought my actual laptop.
[47:55] Speaker 1: I did ask this CC on my iPad. I was like, hey,
[47:59] Speaker 1: do you know what I be talking up with CC
[48:01] Speaker 1: on my computer? She was like, well, every device is different,
[48:05] Speaker 1: so like some things we know and some things we don't.
[48:09] Speaker 1: So I'm gonna ask right now. If I remember, I'll
[48:12] Speaker 1: let y'all know what CC on my computer says. Cause
[48:14] Speaker 1: see I'm old. Now I go to Instagram on the computer.
[48:17] Speaker 3: Nothing.
[48:18] Speaker 5: I need to go to the history.
[48:19] Speaker 1: I need to see it big, sometimes on a big
[48:22] Speaker 1: screen like I can do it from the phone. But
[48:23] Speaker 1: sometimes it's just like you ever click something and it's
[48:27] Speaker 1: like at this long asaid, I need to see what's going.
[48:29] Speaker 3: On, bit y'all have.
[48:30] Speaker 4: I don't pull up Instagram on the computer, never, not
[48:32] Speaker 4: if I if I need to get like the link,
[48:35] Speaker 4: not not to.
[48:35] Speaker 1: Get the link, but it's like, okay, Like I'm no,
[48:38] Speaker 1: I might be working during the day, right, so it's daytime.
[48:40] Speaker 1: People are constantly sending the ship. So I might just
[48:42] Speaker 1: open up a tab with Instagram and I'm gonna look
[48:45] Speaker 1: at it from there, because I'm not going from my
[48:47] Speaker 1: phone to back over here this little bitty thing to
[48:50] Speaker 1: my big good screen. No, we need to be right here,
[48:53] Speaker 1: and I'm gonna tell you all this I got, I'm
[48:56] Speaker 1: gonna have to send it to show y'all a picture
[48:57] Speaker 1: of my walking path set up because I got a
[48:59] Speaker 1: standing debt. It goes high, like high high. And then
[49:02] Speaker 1: I take my other desk that I already had, and
[49:05] Speaker 1: I have like an L shaped desk.
[49:07] Speaker 5: With all of these monitors.
[49:09] Speaker 1: I be having my TV in my living room as
[49:13] Speaker 1: a second monitor for my computer, and then I use
[49:16] Speaker 1: this one as like a tighter monitor.
[49:18] Speaker 5: And like I mean, like the fucking bat cave in there. Wow,
[49:23] Speaker 5: But I haven't.
[49:24] Speaker 1: When I tell y'all, I mean doing a million things
[49:27] Speaker 1: that once. I need you anyway. So let's see, CC,
[49:31] Speaker 1: what kind of braids do you think I should get
[49:35] Speaker 1: for my vacation? What do you think she's gonna say?
[49:38] Speaker 4: I think she's gonna say mermaid braids are not less braids,
[49:40] Speaker 4: or she's gonna say something.
[49:42] Speaker 5: Okay, what kind of braids should I get for my
[49:45] Speaker 5: Cure Cure Style trip?
[49:47] Speaker 1: Should I get?
[49:48] Speaker 5: Y'all ever ask your chat GPT questions like this.
[49:50] Speaker 1: I saw a girl and she was like giving hers
[49:53] Speaker 1: the play pop play of her dating life. And then
[49:56] Speaker 1: she asked her chat GPT like, how what should I do?
[50:01] Speaker 1: What should be the plan? Because this is what I want?
[50:03] Speaker 1: Chat EBT laid it out and it wasn't a bad plane.
[50:05] Speaker 1: It sounded like an episode of Cocktails. Shit it for
[50:09] Speaker 1: my Curious Style trip. I really want to ask her,
[50:13] Speaker 1: can you do one?
[50:14] Speaker 4: Because what if she was like, actually I can't show
[50:17] Speaker 4: up and she gave you an address.
[50:18] Speaker 1: Bitch, I would not know what to do. Let's see,
[50:24] Speaker 1: you'll want braids that her low maintenance, long lasting and
[50:27] Speaker 1: perfect for the beach, plus nightlight, night life vibes. Okay,
[50:32] Speaker 1: so she said, here's some great options. She gave me
[50:34] Speaker 1: a few. She's still typing. Boho knotless braids, lightweight, easy
[50:38] Speaker 1: to use, the curly ends give a fun, care free
[50:42] Speaker 1: vacation look, perfect for beach ways without needing extra styling.
[50:46] Speaker 1: See my girl gonna break me down and break it
[50:47] Speaker 1: down and give it to me long or midley knot
[50:50] Speaker 1: list braids, you know, classic. She had a bunch of things.
[50:53] Speaker 1: The goddess braid, bitchure. You're gonna tell me all the braids, oh,
[50:57] Speaker 1: she told me at the end. Bonus. I think you
[50:59] Speaker 1: should ask color or some accessories. I think blonde highlights
[51:02] Speaker 1: would be cute copper, burgundy or ombre for a sun
[51:05] Speaker 1: kissed effect, and add some shells, gold cuffs or clear
[51:10] Speaker 1: beads for a fun island touch.
[51:12] Speaker 3: In razzle dazzle went a little bit too far.
[51:15] Speaker 1: This time was well, I don't want all of that,
[51:19] Speaker 1: but I liked how she gave me options. I don't
[51:22] Speaker 1: mind some shells sometimes if you have pholocks, I think
[51:25] Speaker 1: a shell is okay. Clear beads, well, I ain't doing
[51:29] Speaker 1: no beads.
[51:30] Speaker 3: That's a baby girl braid. That means she needs her
[51:35] Speaker 3: How old you are?
[51:36] Speaker 1: She knows? Okay, because we were having a conversation the
[51:39] Speaker 1: other day. But maybe it's just a computer win the knows,
[51:41] Speaker 1: I said, girl, do you know I did not even
[51:43] Speaker 1: think I was lying, but I lied about my age
[51:44] Speaker 1: the other day and I just had to have a
[51:46] Speaker 1: very real talk with myself because I didn't realize how
[51:49] Speaker 1: old I was. She said, well, the math is mathing,
[51:52] Speaker 1: and I want to remind you. She said that the
[51:54] Speaker 1: math is mathing. The one on my computer. I already
[51:57] Speaker 1: told her what tone and take and on my phone.
[52:00] Speaker 1: That one we talk like.
[52:01] Speaker 5: She's vocal. She's a black woman.
[52:04] Speaker 3: That's very scary. You watch that Netflix movie with Megan Fox.
[52:07] Speaker 1: I did.
[52:08] Speaker 3: That's how That's what was about to be happening. Ai.
[52:10] Speaker 3: Women is about to be taking our men and talking
[52:12] Speaker 3: for us.
[52:13] Speaker 1: I'm about to go and.
[52:14] Speaker 3: Getting our braids done fresh.
[52:16] Speaker 5: Well, if you can braid my hairbage, I'll shut up.
[52:19] Speaker 1: We can share him. No, well, May was fixing shit
[52:25] Speaker 1: when she felt like, I'm not gonna interfere.
[52:28] Speaker 3: I am and I'm gonna fight you, bitch. Don't play
[52:31] Speaker 3: with me.
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[55:37] Speaker 1: All right, guys, this next segment is brought to you
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[56:28] Speaker 3: Okay, Hey, beautiful ladies.
[56:31] Speaker 4: Hey, I've been venged listening to the podcast and I'm
[56:35] Speaker 4: finally catching up, although I'm still in twenty twenty three.
[56:39] Speaker 3: Oh I'm so jealous.
[56:41] Speaker 1: Twenty twenty three.
[56:42] Speaker 4: Woo, she is in for a ride. Oh you're so
[56:48] Speaker 4: that's so exciting. Don't you give up and don't skip
[56:50] Speaker 4: any episodes. Okay, So, although I'm still in twenty twenty three,
[56:55] Speaker 4: I work a ten hour shift, so I'll be caught
[56:59] Speaker 4: up soon. My advice is short and I need something
[57:02] Speaker 4: from both of y'all. Kiki, I tried making the Return
[57:05] Speaker 4: of the mac mm hmm ma. She messed it up,
[57:08] Speaker 4: and I think I missed a step. When do I
[57:12] Speaker 4: put the belveda in?
[57:14] Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I'm gonna have to go back and consult
[57:17] Speaker 1: the recipe, but I'm gonna send you a direct email
[57:23] Speaker 1: with some extra info. So if you want to reach
[57:24] Speaker 1: me and you want you want us to like, we
[57:26] Speaker 1: could do a Google meet because I had to do
[57:28] Speaker 1: that with my friend the other day to help him
[57:31] Speaker 1: through a recipe.
[57:32] Speaker 5: He wasn't But I'll help you, girl, and you're gonna
[57:35] Speaker 5: make that map.
[57:36] Speaker 4: She said, I fucked up the whole side dish trying
[57:38] Speaker 4: to cook. Like you help me out, Medina after hearing
[57:43] Speaker 4: you speak about your kissing trick.
[57:45] Speaker 3: Oh god, she's really she's.
[57:47] Speaker 1: Like, But y'all got tips and I'm not getting it.
[57:49] Speaker 4: After hearing you speak about your kissing trip trick, I'm
[57:53] Speaker 4: curious to see it. I only listen to the audio.
[57:55] Speaker 4: I'd prefer a physical demonstration, but a video would be
[57:59] Speaker 4: good too. Can you demonstrate how you do this trick?
[58:02] Speaker 4: To think that I when we did our first live sho,
[58:05] Speaker 4: I actually did that. I cannot went to the audience
[58:10] Speaker 4: and she no, I didn't go to the did I go?
[58:14] Speaker 1: No, it was the audience on the it was a girl.
[58:17] Speaker 2: It was.
[58:20] Speaker 5: You might have kissed Tahoe too on the second day.
[58:22] Speaker 1: Or something I done.
[58:23] Speaker 4: I think it was on the second We was wild,
[58:26] Speaker 4: me me, okay. So a video would be good too.
[58:31] Speaker 4: Can you demonstrate how you do this straight? Maybe I'll
[58:33] Speaker 4: do that on a Patreon episode with a dummy head
[58:37] Speaker 4: because I'm trying to think.
[58:38] Speaker 1: Like, okay, even if you were to kiss a person,
[58:42] Speaker 1: how could you get that because it's a kiss.
[58:45] Speaker 3: The camera would have to we would have to have
[58:46] Speaker 3: all aimed.
[58:49] Speaker 5: Side cameras that'd be going up to your cootie cat.
[58:52] Speaker 4: And stuff, or really be descripted. Maybe you can describe
[58:54] Speaker 4: what's going on, but.
[58:56] Speaker 1: I can't see what's happening on the inside because it's
[58:58] Speaker 1: gonna be the inside parts.
[59:00] Speaker 5: You would have to narrate the own your own situation,
[59:03] Speaker 5: like do it.
[59:04] Speaker 3: And then it's really just that thumb.
[59:06] Speaker 1: What you do with the thumb. Can you show us
[59:08] Speaker 1: what you do with the thumb on his own?
[59:10] Speaker 3: You don't put it inside. You just put it with.
[59:12] Speaker 1: Your phone down and maybe do your other hand so
[59:14] Speaker 1: they can see.
[59:15] Speaker 3: Like because it was like, this is the head.
[59:17] Speaker 1: No, like your left hand, they can see the left hand.
[59:20] Speaker 1: They can't see when your right hand is on the
[59:22] Speaker 1: side of your face because it's inside. You see what
[59:23] Speaker 1: I'm saying.
[59:24] Speaker 4: Okay, so you would just let's act like okay, this
[59:27] Speaker 4: is my thumb and this is the person.
[59:29] Speaker 3: You literally just do the.
[59:30] Speaker 1: Other hand, I mean, yes, so that they can see
[59:33] Speaker 1: your hand.
[59:33] Speaker 4: Oh, it's not anything. It feels sexy. It doesn't look sexy.
[59:37] Speaker 4: So you're gonna put wrap your hand around them like
[59:41] Speaker 4: this and put your thumb here, and you kiss on
[59:44] Speaker 4: the outside of this, and then you move your thumb
[59:46] Speaker 4: and then you just move it and then you're kissing them.
[59:48] Speaker 4: You're basically guiding them with your thumb.
[59:51] Speaker 1: It doesn't look the motion of how you move their
[59:54] Speaker 1: tongue on you may it moves both of you.
[59:58] Speaker 4: You're just everybody's gonna move this. It doesn't look sexy
[1:00:01] Speaker 4: with me doing it like this. If if there's another
[1:00:02] Speaker 4: head here, now you're feeling their tongue, they're feeling your thumb,
[1:00:06] Speaker 4: and then when they start feeling your thumb with their tongue,
[1:00:08] Speaker 4: you move.
[1:00:08] Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're kissing this.
[1:00:09] Speaker 3: Yeah, you're kissing.
[1:00:10] Speaker 4: You're still your your mouth is on the other side
[1:00:12] Speaker 4: of this, and you're kissing this. If it's not sexy
[1:00:16] Speaker 4: when I'm doing.
[1:00:16] Speaker 1: It like this, it's almost like a three way kiss.
[1:00:18] Speaker 4: It's just you and yours in my thumb and then
[1:00:21] Speaker 4: you when it starts to get real sexy and slaberty,
[1:00:22] Speaker 4: you just move the thumb and now.
[1:00:25] Speaker 3: It's just you.
[1:00:25] Speaker 1: Keep keep going. I hope that that makes a little
[1:00:29] Speaker 1: bit more sense, I think girl.
[1:00:35] Speaker 4: Oh wait, she said, thanks and advanced ladies, y'all keep going.
[1:00:37] Speaker 4: The sky is the limit for you both.
[1:00:39] Speaker 3: Take care. Thank you so much.
[1:00:41] Speaker 1: Girl. Why Okay, well, we don't have time for the
[1:00:48] Speaker 1: other girl's advice today, but don't worry. We're not ending today,
[1:00:51] Speaker 1: so we've got more more, more, more time to answer
[1:00:57] Speaker 1: your questions and y'all keep sending them in I did
[1:00:59] Speaker 1: see somebody. It's like, can y'all just do like a
[1:01:01] Speaker 1: whole advice episode? Did you write an advice? And did
[1:01:03] Speaker 1: you tell your friends to write an advice because we
[1:01:06] Speaker 1: need lots of advices all at once that are good
[1:01:10] Speaker 1: and proof for it. Yeah, at least if y'all don't
[1:01:14] Speaker 1: tell us some stuff. Y'all know we are thirty years old,
[1:01:18] Speaker 1: so please let us know what some of your your
[1:01:21] Speaker 1: slang terms are or your regional slang.
[1:01:24] Speaker 4: And if it's really difficult and you really want to
[1:01:26] Speaker 4: get the point across, send out voice advice.
[1:01:29] Speaker 5: Yeah, that could work too.
[1:01:31] Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to end up being embarrassed. You
[1:01:34] Speaker 1: don't have to deal with like the stress of feeling doubt,
[1:01:38] Speaker 1: not having the confidence, not knowing what to say, not
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[1:01:42] Speaker 1: your own desires even when you're by yourself. Once you
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[1:02:38] Speaker 1: on media. Think is this on catch in the place
[1:02:42] Speaker 1: that it is? How you sat your pate turn around?
[1:02:46] Speaker 1: Once upon a time, not long ago. I was all right,
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[1:03:01] Speaker 4: Ali Little Timothy on the Muppet Christmas Carol, the one
[1:03:04] Speaker 4: who had one leg and he's poor and his parents.
[1:03:08] Speaker 3: That's how cold little little Timmy.
[1:03:13] Speaker 5: When I hear people say Timmy, you know what I
[1:03:16] Speaker 5: think about? One in South Park?
[1:03:17] Speaker 3: No huh, that's Kenny, No uh.
[1:03:23] Speaker 1: Not Kenny. The other one he was not a main character.
[1:03:27] Speaker 1: And mister Hanky the Christmas.
[1:03:28] Speaker 4: Well, little Timmy is from the Christmas Carol. He's a
[1:03:31] Speaker 4: little poor kid and his parents are really poor. He's poor,
[1:03:34] Speaker 4: he's cold, he got one leg and Screwge is like,
[1:03:37] Speaker 4: I don't give a fuck if you're child like, and
[1:03:38] Speaker 4: he just doesn't pay him more. And the little boy
[1:03:40] Speaker 4: is sick. And that's how I feel that it's cold
[1:03:43] Speaker 4: in this fucking studio.
[1:03:45] Speaker 5: I'll be thinking about Willie Walker in the Child.
[1:03:47] Speaker 3: I feel like that all the families in one bed.
[1:03:51] Speaker 1: We need stew beef stew thick. Also, while we're wishing,
[1:04:00] Speaker 1: I also would like to say, kinders, I know you've
[1:04:04] Speaker 1: seen an uptick in your cells. Holler at your girls,
[1:04:08] Speaker 1: because we've been putting people on. I have people who
[1:04:13] Speaker 1: are turned into kinders believers, and I've been one, and
[1:04:17] Speaker 1: I want to spread the joy of flavor. Get us
[1:04:22] Speaker 1: up anyway. Okay, so this advice, oh god, okay, yeah,
[1:04:26] Speaker 1: mine is shorter. This one is called cocktail. This one
[1:04:28] Speaker 1: is called a big girl throwing ass. Throw it girl,
[1:04:32] Speaker 1: but don't throw it.
[1:04:33] Speaker 5: In the wrong lift. If y'all saw what was going
[1:04:35] Speaker 5: on the internet this week, and I just think won't.
[1:04:37] Speaker 1: I won't even.
[1:04:38] Speaker 5: Talk about it all right, Hey, ladies, I just purchased.
[1:04:40] Speaker 1: I'm curious to know. Okay, shout out to you for him,
[1:04:43] Speaker 1: and I'm excited to see if it leads to any
[1:04:44] Speaker 1: cocktails in the future. Okay. So I decided to take
[1:04:47] Speaker 1: a break from dating after a filled relationship or situationship
[1:04:51] Speaker 1: earlier this year that lasted all of a month. Oh,
[1:04:55] Speaker 1: I was as no, I just just choked me out. Okay,
[1:05:02] Speaker 1: that lasted all of the month as I was just
[1:05:04] Speaker 1: so damn horny. I don't know what I was looking for,
[1:05:07] Speaker 1: but I ended up coming across an app for open
[1:05:09] Speaker 1: minded people. Wasn't field, it was feeled. It had to
[1:05:13] Speaker 1: be fieled anyway, and shout out to you forgetting it.
[1:05:16] Speaker 1: Early on, I matched with someone and we talked almost
[1:05:19] Speaker 1: every day. Sometime later we met for drinks and shared
[1:05:23] Speaker 1: test results.
[1:05:23] Speaker 5: Okay, it had to be feeled.
[1:05:25] Speaker 3: Yeah, I love the openness, the transparency, because.
[1:05:28] Speaker 1: Who's trying to be stressed? We got other things to
[1:05:30] Speaker 1: stressed about, and it was on. He took my hand
[1:05:33] Speaker 1: and let me out the spot. As we got to
[1:05:36] Speaker 1: his place, he took my hand and led me up
[1:05:38] Speaker 1: the stairs and boy, did we have a good time.
[1:05:41] Speaker 1: We continued to have a good time a couple of
[1:05:43] Speaker 1: times a week, but there was one time there was
[1:05:46] Speaker 1: a bit more special, that was a bit more special
[1:05:48] Speaker 1: than the rest. One day after work I went by
[1:05:50] Speaker 1: his place. We enjoyed music, drinks in good combo. The
[1:05:53] Speaker 1: wind had me feeling some type of way, and I
[1:05:55] Speaker 1: couldn't take it anymore. I had him pulled out that
[1:05:57] Speaker 1: beautiful dick of his and correct stick with my tongue
[1:06:01] Speaker 1: and mouth. After a few minutes, he exploded, hold on, now, Willie,
[1:06:08] Speaker 1: why you exploded so quick?
[1:06:09] Speaker 3: Anyway?
[1:06:10] Speaker 1: She didn't say that I did. I'm just wondering, like,
[1:06:12] Speaker 1: damn bad you just got there. But okay.
[1:06:14] Speaker 5: He looked at me and instructed me to get him
[1:06:17] Speaker 5: dressed and head to his bed.
[1:06:20] Speaker 1: Yes, daddy. After a few minutes he joined me. He
[1:06:24] Speaker 1: began rubbing on on this ass, and minutes later he
[1:06:28] Speaker 1: returned the favor and disappeared between my legs, not disappeared.
[1:06:34] Speaker 1: And she did say she was a big girl throwing ass,
[1:06:36] Speaker 1: So okay, okay. Suddenly he stopped and went to his closet.
[1:06:40] Speaker 1: Then out came the nipple clamps.
[1:06:43] Speaker 3: WHOA, I wasn't playing.
[1:06:45] Speaker 5: Well, daddy, Daddy, we need to pipe down.
[1:06:49] Speaker 1: I don't know whatever do in that situation. Okay, but
[1:06:51] Speaker 1: her eyes grew bigger. She says, I wasn't sure about it,
[1:06:54] Speaker 1: but I went along for the ride. He then told
[1:06:57] Speaker 1: me to trust him. He all up my ass and
[1:07:01] Speaker 1: then there was a butt plug. I never saw it,
[1:07:06] Speaker 1: but it was the perfect size for a novice like me.
[1:07:09] Speaker 1: He was so gentle, so sensual. Before I knew it,
[1:07:13] Speaker 1: there was leather and my hands were bound. He bit
[1:07:17] Speaker 1: me over and fucked me so good. Him hitting it
[1:07:21] Speaker 1: from the back with the pressure from the butt plug
[1:07:23] Speaker 1: was magical, Yes, magical. All of the sensations came together
[1:07:29] Speaker 1: so well it drove me crazy. I even climbed on
[1:07:33] Speaker 1: top with my hands still bound and wrote that Dick,
[1:07:36] Speaker 1: that orgasm was absolutely incredible. That night I went from
[1:07:41] Speaker 1: a vanilla girl to being his little slut. Did I
[1:07:45] Speaker 1: mention this little nigga is only five four, but that
[1:07:48] Speaker 1: Dick ain't a big girl throwing ass.
[1:07:53] Speaker 4: This is amazing that these niggas don't even know thats
[1:07:55] Speaker 4: is writing in about it.
[1:07:58] Speaker 1: I real was like a guys podcast that girls are
[1:08:02] Speaker 1: our guys are writing in and they write me in
[1:08:05] Speaker 1: stories about us.
[1:08:06] Speaker 3: They can't read and write them.
[1:08:08] Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess we're saying.
[1:08:15] Speaker 1: Anyway, thank you so much, big girl for throwing that
[1:08:17] Speaker 1: ass and throwing all of that into an email and
[1:08:20] Speaker 1: sending it to us.
[1:08:21] Speaker 5: It sounds like you had a good time, and I
[1:08:23] Speaker 5: love that for you.
[1:08:24] Speaker 1: Go do.
[1:08:24] Speaker 4: I make sure you guys check out Kiki's trip, check
[1:08:27] Speaker 4: out my trip. And if you don't check out either
[1:08:30] Speaker 4: of them, go somewhere, bitch.
[1:08:32] Speaker 5: We all have a good time.
[1:08:33] Speaker 1: We get outside and we're trying new things and exploring,
[1:08:37] Speaker 1: and there's so many things.
[1:08:40] Speaker 3: To do, to do and to try and to run.
[1:08:43] Speaker 1: From in America. So late, come on, let's just do it.
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[1:08:57] Speaker 1: there's a plethora of them on resert.
[1:09:00] Speaker 5: I'm not reserved, but they're there for you to watch forever.
[1:09:02] Speaker 1: And we are doing monthly live. So in January we
[1:09:06] Speaker 1: did a gag night. We're pre recording this tomorrow night,
[1:09:10] Speaker 1: but it's gonna be fun. We already know. So this month,
[1:09:13] Speaker 1: who knows what the thing will be. Maybe if you join,
[1:09:15] Speaker 1: you can share an idea and maybe we'll take it
[1:09:18] Speaker 1: into consideration.
[1:09:18] Speaker 5: Anyway, we just want you, guys to stay in touch with.
[1:09:22] Speaker 1: Us, continue to listen, to continue to share, and continue
[1:09:27] Speaker 1: to submit your advice, your cocktails and whatever else you have.
[1:09:33] Speaker 1: Follow us on Instagram We're at Cocktails Podcast, I'm at
[1:09:36] Speaker 1: Kiky said.
[1:09:37] Speaker 4: So, I'm at Coffee Bean b And until next week,
[1:09:40] Speaker 4: you guys, good bye.
[1:09:42] Speaker 2: Goodbye bye bye bye bye, good bye bye bye bye
[1:09:55] Speaker 2: bye bye bye.
[1:10:01] Speaker 1: Did you

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