# Ep. 431 "Pura Porky Vida"

An episode of [Cocktales with Kiki](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1149484402), 30 Jan 2025, 1 h 26 min.

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Ever wonder what it's like to veer from a strict diet and discover the crispy joy of bacon for the first time? Join us as we navigate the colorful world of Costa Rican culture and the unexpected delights it holds. Medinah Monroe returns from a transformative Costa Rican sabbatical, sharing her hot yoga retreat adventures with Paradise and Vibe amidst lush landscapes and vibrant wildlife. From savoring bacon to forming powerful connections, Medina's stories are filled with laughter and insight, highlighting the magic of personal growth when surrounded by nature's beauty. As the excitement of engagements and weddings fills the air, we revel in the humorous chaos of secret proposals and viral moments. Our conversations are peppered with stories of extravagant celebrations, like a legendary Galentine's Day party, where themed pajamas and a chef-prepared menu set the stage for unforgettable memories. Whether sharing a laugh over a walking pad mishap or spotting celebrities at the nail salon, the importance of staying connected and celebrating all forms of love remains a central theme. The episode also takes us on thrilling journeys of personal and professional growth. From reminiscing about Costa Rican surfing lessons to planning an upcoming retreat with surprise gifts, the anticipation is palpable as we embrace new adventures and connections. A venture into the world of celebrity interviews unveils the complexities of authenticity and content creation. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home? Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

## Transcript

[0:00] Speaker 1: I really felt like I lived in Costa Rica for
[0:03] Speaker 1: a moment.
[0:04] Speaker 2: For a moment, I was like, I'm never coming back.
[0:06] Speaker 1: Oh dunde a is binos?
[0:12] Speaker 3: Where's the bathrooms?
[0:15] Speaker 1: Your kettle chakra belbitch I am. There was a moment
[0:20] Speaker 1: where I was present to the opportunity to eat bacon.
[0:24] Speaker 3: That's what let's hear about it. I want to hear
[0:27] Speaker 3: about the bacons. Come on over, I.
[0:33] Speaker 2: Oink oink, motherfucker.
[0:37] Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, check one two, check one too. Is this
[0:39] Speaker 3: Mike On? Is this Mike On?
[0:41] Speaker 1: Hey listen man, it's the one and only trunks that
[0:43] Speaker 1: the DJ sys and you're listening to cocktails dirty discussions
[0:47] Speaker 1: with Medina Monroe.
[0:49] Speaker 4: Yeah, today's cocktail is called I forgot his name, and
[0:59] Speaker 4: this is how you're gonna make it.
[1:01] Speaker 1: So once again, we're using Billion. So this cocktail is
[1:04] Speaker 1: really easy. You kind of just throw it together because
[1:06] Speaker 1: you forgot his name. So you're gonna layer each of
[1:08] Speaker 1: these ingredients. So we're gonna take our billion add like
[1:15] Speaker 1: a shot. I really like Billion. It's a very rich
[1:19] Speaker 1: flavored liquor. You're gonna take your coconut water and put
[1:23] Speaker 1: one part coconut water. I don't know how this is
[1:27] Speaker 1: gonna taste coconut water and liquor hmmm, some lime juice
[1:36] Speaker 1: just a little bit, and then you should have tonic,
[1:42] Speaker 1: but we couldn't. I didn't have a bottle opener, so
[1:44] Speaker 1: I'm going to replace it with club soda.
[1:45] Speaker 2: I love club soda. This is interesting, y'all.
[1:53] Speaker 1: A little bit of bitters, just a little bit, and
[1:57] Speaker 1: then you want to put a couple of ice cubes.
[2:03] Speaker 2: And this is a I forgot his name. Have you
[2:07] Speaker 2: got somebody's name, somebody that you actually like? It's so embarrassing.
[2:21] Speaker 2: That's tasty, y'all.
[2:23] Speaker 1: That's a really I thought it was gonna be disgusting.
[2:25] Speaker 1: This is actually a really good drink.
[2:27] Speaker 3: Cheers, Welcome back to Cocktails, Dirty Discussions, you guys, I
[2:35] Speaker 3: am Kiky said So okay, y'all, I'm Adina Monro.
[2:39] Speaker 2: And welcome back to the show.
[2:42] Speaker 3: All right, so you guys, this week, we don't have
[2:49] Speaker 3: a guest.
[2:50] Speaker 5: It's just us and it's been a while since we've
[2:52] Speaker 5: been in the studio, so we will be catching up,
[2:54] Speaker 5: but we also have some fun things to talk about.
[2:58] Speaker 3: So this is the first time I've seen you in
[3:00] Speaker 3: like a month.
[3:02] Speaker 5: Yeah, after you're sabbatical in Costa Rica.
[3:05] Speaker 3: How was it?
[3:07] Speaker 1: I really felt like I lived in Costa Rica for
[3:10] Speaker 1: a moment.
[3:11] Speaker 3: For a moment, I was like, I'm never coming back.
[3:13] Speaker 3: Did you learn Spanish? Don?
[3:20] Speaker 2: Where's the bathroom?
[3:22] Speaker 1: Hey?
[3:23] Speaker 3: How are you as a bathroom? That would be a
[3:25] Speaker 3: useful question.
[3:26] Speaker 1: May I'm Medina? Mm hmm uh, save save sabas cattle,
[3:38] Speaker 1: Daco bellbich am a fucking Costa Rican. They actually called
[3:43] Speaker 1: Costa Ricans ticos.
[3:44] Speaker 2: I didn't know that.
[3:45] Speaker 3: Do you know that they?
[3:46] Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I got a lot to tell you. So
[3:49] Speaker 1: hosted a retreat with Paradise and Vibe. If you're interested
[3:52] Speaker 1: in learning more, go to Paris and Vibe dot com.
[3:55] Speaker 1: And I was in Costa Rica from December twenty seventh
[3:59] Speaker 1: until January tenth.
[4:01] Speaker 3: That is a ridiculously long time.
[4:03] Speaker 2: It was very long, but it was so needed and
[4:06] Speaker 2: so worth it. The retreat.
[4:07] Speaker 1: Let me start with the retreat, because the trip just
[4:09] Speaker 1: ended up getting extended. But the retreat was from December
[4:11] Speaker 1: twenty eighth January second, and it was I think this
[4:16] Speaker 1: was my favorite retreat.
[4:18] Speaker 6: Really.
[4:18] Speaker 3: What made this one different?
[4:20] Speaker 1: It was very challenging in the sense of well not challenging,
[4:23] Speaker 1: like the people and putting the retreat together, which is
[4:26] Speaker 1: very difficult.
[4:27] Speaker 2: This was the people were amazing. Nobody was complaining.
[4:30] Speaker 1: Stuff, didn't go wrong with the rooms, nobody was allergic
[4:33] Speaker 1: to anything like. It was just like very.
[4:35] Speaker 2: Smooth as far as that process.
[4:36] Speaker 1: But the people that came, and there were a bunch
[4:40] Speaker 1: of cocktails listeners that I when we do these retreats
[4:44] Speaker 1: and I connect with the people that come based off
[4:46] Speaker 1: of trusting me from this show. It is like a
[4:50] Speaker 1: different type of connection. It's not a connection like a
[4:52] Speaker 1: live show connection. It's not a connection like when you
[4:54] Speaker 1: listen to the show.
[4:54] Speaker 2: It is very raw.
[4:55] Speaker 1: You get to know what's really going on in the
[4:57] Speaker 1: life of everybody that's on there the retreat, and so
[5:01] Speaker 1: it was very like just a versonal retreat, very personal.
[5:04] Speaker 1: This was a hot yoga retreat. And I don't do
[5:06] Speaker 1: hot yoga every day, Like I practice hot yoga and
[5:08] Speaker 1: I've gotten way better, but bach I'll be about to die,
[5:12] Speaker 1: but I love it at the same time like I
[5:13] Speaker 1: love hot yoga, and so this was a very intentional retreat.
[5:17] Speaker 1: Anybody who came was going through some type of shit
[5:20] Speaker 1: because a hot yoga retreat is a lot, like you're
[5:23] Speaker 1: committing to a lot. We did hot yoga twice a
[5:25] Speaker 1: day every day in Costa Rica. In Costa Rica, they
[5:29] Speaker 1: and they didn't have like a proper hot yoga studio,
[5:32] Speaker 1: so we had. They had to They hooked up these
[5:34] Speaker 1: machines to propel tanks. Please don't let us be on
[5:40] Speaker 1: the news, and we don't blow up the whole jungle.
[5:43] Speaker 1: Two cans flying the big ass ants. The ants are
[5:46] Speaker 1: so big in Costa Rica anyways, so we had to
[5:50] Speaker 1: create like a hot yoga studio and they helped us. Anyways,
[5:53] Speaker 1: it was I told myself going in. I was like, Okay,
[5:56] Speaker 1: I'm gonna really connect with people, and I'm gonna make
[5:59] Speaker 1: sure that I go to every yoga hot yoga session
[6:02] Speaker 1: because we every retreat we do yoga, but it's not
[6:04] Speaker 1: hot yoga.
[6:05] Speaker 2: It's just regular yoga. And I don't always be going
[6:06] Speaker 2: Sometimes I I'm just gonna go twice and that's it.
[6:08] Speaker 2: I'm not going on. I'm not getting up at six
[6:10] Speaker 2: am go and do this. I'm about to sleep.
[6:11] Speaker 1: But this one, I was like, I'm gonna really challenge myself.
[6:13] Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to both yogas every day and I
[6:16] Speaker 1: did it, and it's very It's just a lot. It
[6:20] Speaker 1: takes a lot of mental strength to get through hot yoga.
[6:24] Speaker 1: And that's why I like it, because you can't think
[6:25] Speaker 1: about anything else that's going on.
[6:26] Speaker 2: You just gotta get through that.
[6:27] Speaker 5: You gotta stay alive because it's hot, yes fuck, and
[6:30] Speaker 5: you still gotta contort your body, hold the poses, stay focused,
[6:34] Speaker 5: do the damn thing, and.
[6:35] Speaker 1: Do the damn thing and so and we were all me,
[6:38] Speaker 1: Cassandra and Ayana raw worried, like are people gonna be like,
[6:42] Speaker 1: I'm not fucking doing it?
[6:43] Speaker 2: Like you know, you get.
[6:45] Speaker 1: Everybody came to almost every hot yoga session. It was
[6:49] Speaker 1: just like I said, it was just a lot. Every
[6:52] Speaker 1: twenty twenty four was busting everybody upside the head, left
[6:55] Speaker 1: and right. It was just.
[6:58] Speaker 3: Uppercut, get over here.
[7:00] Speaker 1: And so everybody was just like in there and it
[7:03] Speaker 1: was just there were there were men on the retreat,
[7:06] Speaker 1: there were a bunch of women, and it was just
[7:08] Speaker 1: like a very bonding retreat. We did a bunch of activities.
[7:13] Speaker 1: It wasn't just about the yoga, but for me, it
[7:15] Speaker 1: was about the hi yoga. The workshops were incredible, led
[7:18] Speaker 1: by Elizabeth Gilbert, and.
[7:21] Speaker 2: It was just so much fun.
[7:22] Speaker 1: I told myself that there was a moment where I
[7:25] Speaker 1: was presented the opportunity to eat bacon.
[7:29] Speaker 5: That's how your story. Let's hear about it. I want
[7:31] Speaker 5: to hear about the bacons. Come on over if you.
[7:37] Speaker 2: Point pink.
[7:38] Speaker 1: Motherfuckerhit was good. So I was just like very open,
[7:42] Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what I'm gonna I want.
[7:44] Speaker 1: I just want to make like my own decisions and
[7:47] Speaker 1: make sure they're coming from like me, like.
[7:49] Speaker 3: Who I am, because you know what, Jesus forgave all
[7:53] Speaker 3: that stuff that's in Leviticus.
[7:55] Speaker 5: Okay, did you learn that in your church? Lest you
[7:58] Speaker 5: ain't got to worry about it? Jesus said, it's cool.
[8:01] Speaker 5: Yeah he did, and that's why.
[8:03] Speaker 3: I love him and I love him.
[8:06] Speaker 1: And I said, somebody made Elizabeth made bacon and she
[8:10] Speaker 1: was making breakfast plates and I was like.
[8:12] Speaker 2: It was stick to huh. It wasn't even fake. It
[8:15] Speaker 2: was thinning, crispy.
[8:16] Speaker 3: Oh no, you got to get the thick cut.
[8:18] Speaker 2: Yeah, tritting on.
[8:19] Speaker 1: From December twenty eighth until January tenth, I ate bacon
[8:22] Speaker 1: every day.
[8:25] Speaker 3: What I don't even have that much bacon, girl.
[8:30] Speaker 1: I have had bacon in a Caesar style of bacon
[8:32] Speaker 1: with olives, Bacon on a burger, bacon on a turkey sandwich, bacon, bacon, bacon, bacon, bacon,
[8:37] Speaker 1: call me young bacon. I was, like, I said, And
[8:40] Speaker 1: this was the first day that I was like, I
[8:42] Speaker 1: was about to because I'm always like, no, I don't
[8:43] Speaker 1: eat pork if it's pork juice, porking.
[8:44] Speaker 2: And and then I like have this thought because I'm
[8:47] Speaker 2: all open.
[8:47] Speaker 1: We're doing all this spiritual work, We're doing all this
[8:49] Speaker 1: stuff like who are you really? And I do this
[8:52] Speaker 1: type of shit every year, and something is something different,
[8:55] Speaker 1: is always exposed. You can never not stop learning yourself,
[8:58] Speaker 1: something new happening. So I was like, why am I
[9:01] Speaker 1: not eating bacon?
[9:02] Speaker 2: Right?
[9:04] Speaker 3: Why am I s this? I been asking for fifty years?
[9:06] Speaker 3: This is why am I not eating pork?
[9:07] Speaker 2: And I thought about it.
[9:08] Speaker 1: I said, Okay, well, I was raised Muslim, like legitimate Muslim.
[9:12] Speaker 2: My last name is Ali.
[9:13] Speaker 1: If y'all don't know, I used to wear her job
[9:15] Speaker 1: when I was a kid, like we used to go
[9:17] Speaker 1: to the mosque like the I.
[9:19] Speaker 2: Mean, I was raised Muslim, and so that's just that's over.
[9:23] Speaker 1: I never ate for my dad and my mom were
[9:25] Speaker 1: not playing that, and so we're not Muslim anymore. And
[9:28] Speaker 1: I'm an adult and you are to make my own decisions.
[9:32] Speaker 3: Yes, and I can and I did.
[9:35] Speaker 1: And so I and I sat there and I said,
[9:38] Speaker 1: I will have a slack. I will have a piece
[9:39] Speaker 1: of that bacon. Absolutely, I have a piece of that.
[9:44] Speaker 1: And I had three and you cut us up and
[9:48] Speaker 1: she gave me three slices of that bacon and I
[9:51] Speaker 1: and I ate it and I said this what could
[9:55] Speaker 1: keep me talking about?
[9:56] Speaker 3: It was so good?
[9:57] Speaker 1: And then later on that day Live was like, you guys,
[10:00] Speaker 1: I'm gonna make a salad and I said, would you
[10:03] Speaker 1: put bacon in it?
[10:05] Speaker 3: Because bacon bit Hello, I'm sure that's a million dollar business.
[10:11] Speaker 3: It's been around forever it was and that ain't real.
[10:14] Speaker 3: This is real bacon.
[10:15] Speaker 1: It was so good, So okay, so every morning I
[10:17] Speaker 1: did have bacon. And then there was one day where
[10:22] Speaker 1: at the when we had our farewell dinner, they had
[10:26] Speaker 1: a rib and I said, I've been.
[10:28] Speaker 3: Saying pork rib.
[10:29] Speaker 2: It was a pork costa rica.
[10:31] Speaker 3: How prepared? How was it prepared like a barbecue rib?
[10:36] Speaker 1: Like it was a real other side and you could
[10:38] Speaker 1: put it onto and then my friend Evan was like, oh,
[10:40] Speaker 1: you know, my Ninna, you gotta you never had a
[10:41] Speaker 1: rib before, Like I've never had.
[10:43] Speaker 2: A rib before. I just got introduced to baking. He said,
[10:45] Speaker 2: go put the barbecue sauce on it and everything un
[10:47] Speaker 2: once you finished.
[10:48] Speaker 3: But everything was very hate your first rib it was
[10:52] Speaker 3: in Costa Rica.
[10:53] Speaker 2: I don't hate it.
[10:53] Speaker 3: It was so juicy, and I'm sure it was.
[10:57] Speaker 5: I got this rib turned out it was going a brother,
[11:00] Speaker 5: that's where we're gonna have the next meeting.
[11:02] Speaker 3: You need to have a real We have a Texas rib.
[11:07] Speaker 1: It is pretty and so I got that. They put
[11:09] Speaker 1: They gave me the rib and so I put them.
[11:12] Speaker 1: I put a little doll with barbecue sauce on top of.
[11:14] Speaker 3: American or Costa Rican, because what the fuck is even that?
[11:17] Speaker 3: In the CARDI the barbecue sauce.
[11:19] Speaker 2: It was a bowl, so I don't know, but it
[11:21] Speaker 2: was good.
[11:22] Speaker 3: It was like the hot sauce.
[11:25] Speaker 1: It was some sauce, like dark barbecue sauce. It was
[11:30] Speaker 1: a little darker than that, and it had a spice
[11:32] Speaker 1: to it. Hold on, I don't have nothing to compare
[11:35] Speaker 1: it to.
[11:36] Speaker 3: Why don't you like dark barbecue sauce?
[11:39] Speaker 2: I don't like what I like. I like it to
[11:41] Speaker 2: be kind of loose.
[11:42] Speaker 3: I don't like it to be you like a more
[11:46] Speaker 3: vinegar base.
[11:47] Speaker 1: I like it to be kind of spicy. I just
[11:50] Speaker 1: don't want it to be a thick like molasses barbecue sauce.
[11:53] Speaker 1: I needed to run a little bit like that's and
[11:55] Speaker 1: that's how I like my ranch. I don't like like
[11:56] Speaker 1: a hidden Valley ranch. I want to loose ranch like Cheddars.
[12:00] Speaker 1: Have you ever had the ranch at Cheddars? No?
[12:01] Speaker 3: First of all, fuck ranch.
[12:03] Speaker 2: I don't really like it.
[12:04] Speaker 3: I my niece did tell me Wingsip Fries with their ranch,
[12:08] Speaker 3: which is ranch is.
[12:09] Speaker 2: A good It's a loose ranch. It's loose.
[12:11] Speaker 3: I wouldn't consider it loose. But it's not as thick
[12:13] Speaker 3: as Hidden Valley.
[12:14] Speaker 5: But it's funny because they just take buttermilk and Hidden
[12:16] Speaker 5: Valley packets.
[12:17] Speaker 2: I need it to be loose.
[12:19] Speaker 5: You think you want watery sauce, watery, I want to
[12:23] Speaker 5: we need to have an episode about why do you
[12:25] Speaker 5: want loose booty sauce on anything that you're in Jessee.
[12:28] Speaker 2: I just don't like it.
[12:29] Speaker 3: Thick, I don't I don't get it dick. But okay, okay, So.
[12:33] Speaker 2: I get the rib and it was beautifully made. And
[12:35] Speaker 2: you know how I have a pretty plate.
[12:37] Speaker 1: I like it was.
[12:38] Speaker 2: It was a beautiful presentation.
[12:39] Speaker 3: How many ribs you eat? I got?
[12:41] Speaker 2: I just started with one. Then it was thick. It
[12:43] Speaker 2: wasn't the type of ribs that I seen in America.
[12:46] Speaker 3: That's why I'm asking, is it beef for pork?
[12:48] Speaker 2: It was pork.
[12:49] Speaker 1: It was definitely pork because there was a moment where
[12:51] Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, you don't have bacon every day.
[12:55] Speaker 2: Dive in so I got. It was a thick. It
[12:58] Speaker 2: was like the rib wasn't I've seen a slab of
[13:00] Speaker 2: it where it's like long and flat. This was a
[13:02] Speaker 2: It was a beautiful rib. I was like, why this
[13:04] Speaker 2: is beautiful?
[13:05] Speaker 3: Take a picture.
[13:06] Speaker 1: Let me I look through my phone and see you
[13:08] Speaker 1: because I think I did. I'm pretty sure I took
[13:10] Speaker 1: a picture of the rib and I saw.
[13:12] Speaker 3: Because it sounds like a short rib.
[13:15] Speaker 1: But I was like, I was cutting it and everyone
[13:18] Speaker 1: was like pick it up, right, pick and I said no,
[13:21] Speaker 1: So I cut it and then I did start.
[13:24] Speaker 2: After I took my first bite on the fork, I.
[13:25] Speaker 3: Felt you gotta get down up in there.
[13:27] Speaker 2: I picked it up. I ate the fat.
[13:33] Speaker 5: Every time we explore food, we unlike a new domain
[13:39] Speaker 5: of like what we.
[13:40] Speaker 3: Talked about this before with brisket.
[13:42] Speaker 5: I think we were all talking about everybody in the room,
[13:45] Speaker 5: and some of y'all like fat, the fat on the
[13:48] Speaker 5: brisk y'all eat it.
[13:48] Speaker 3: I like the fatty brisket cut.
[13:51] Speaker 5: But to put that fat in my mouth, in my mouth,
[13:55] Speaker 5: it's what I imagine, well blobber is like.
[13:57] Speaker 3: And I'm not.
[13:58] Speaker 2: It wasn't just a piece of fact. It was fat
[14:00] Speaker 2: and ribbed me.
[14:01] Speaker 1: It was so I just sat there and was like,
[14:04] Speaker 1: I can't believe I ain't never had this in my
[14:06] Speaker 1: life before I got I gotta dial this back, because okay,
[14:10] Speaker 1: so I had the I had bacon, I had a rib.
[14:12] Speaker 2: I had a pork to Maale.
[14:13] Speaker 3: In the middle of that ship was busting.
[14:15] Speaker 1: With this gay man named David, and he also is
[14:17] Speaker 1: a designer. I bought some clothes from him, and he
[14:20] Speaker 1: welcomed us into his home. The storefront was his home,
[14:23] Speaker 1: and then towards the back. You go in the back
[14:25] Speaker 1: and they he welcomed us with a meal.
[14:27] Speaker 2: And I was like, what's that to my len is this?
[14:28] Speaker 2: He was like, it's a pork to my sad, I'm
[14:29] Speaker 2: not gonna eat it. I've been eating it.
[14:31] Speaker 1: It was why not?
[14:32] Speaker 2: So it was so good? Kiki. I ate pepperoni.
[14:36] Speaker 1: I had a slice of pepperoni pizza, real pepperoni, a
[14:39] Speaker 1: real pepperoni in Costa Rica.
[14:41] Speaker 2: And then I had some pizza that had ham under
[14:43] Speaker 2: the cheese.
[14:44] Speaker 3: It was like Canadian bacon ham.
[14:47] Speaker 5: I don't know, because you know when they be putting
[14:49] Speaker 5: ham on pizza, it's usually Canadian bacon.
[14:52] Speaker 3: Canadian bacon is ham.
[14:53] Speaker 1: I called my mom and I said, she said, Mom,
[14:57] Speaker 1: I've been out here even pork. She said, Medina, what
[14:59] Speaker 1: all did you eat? And I gave her a rundown
[15:01] Speaker 1: and she was like, I don't tell your dad.
[15:04] Speaker 2: And I still haven't told my dad.
[15:06] Speaker 1: I've been eating a decision that I'm only going to
[15:09] Speaker 1: eat pork out of the country because I really went
[15:12] Speaker 1: two ham keeps.
[15:13] Speaker 3: Wait, I was e it, no, please, please just one time.
[15:16] Speaker 3: We can do it in one day next week so
[15:19] Speaker 3: we can wash it away when January is done.
[15:22] Speaker 1: I need you.
[15:24] Speaker 3: This is not even certain. Jesus was still here. You
[15:30] Speaker 3: are going with me.
[15:32] Speaker 5: To Fox Brothers barbecue and they are not paying me
[15:36] Speaker 5: to say this is coming from the goodness of my heart,
[15:38] Speaker 5: you are going to eat at least one rib. They're
[15:44] Speaker 5: not gonna be them big meat ribs. What you're talking about,
[15:46] Speaker 5: it's it's not eat the plates.
[15:51] Speaker 3: I need you to have one. You can also get
[15:53] Speaker 3: some beef brisket.
[15:54] Speaker 5: There's other meats that they have, but I need you
[15:57] Speaker 5: to have a traditional Texas style barbecue riba. They have sauce,
[16:05] Speaker 5: they have a spicy, and they have their regular, which
[16:07] Speaker 5: is on the sweet side. We will put that on
[16:09] Speaker 5: the side so you can dip some of the meat
[16:11] Speaker 5: if you like it. Okay, but you will take one rib.
[16:16] Speaker 5: I will eat the rest of them on the plate.
[16:17] Speaker 5: I got it because I love them ribs. You can
[16:21] Speaker 5: also get a friedo chili pie. It's got brisket chili,
[16:23] Speaker 5: which is beef safe. Everything else is gonna be beef
[16:27] Speaker 5: and it's gonna be safe. Texas barbecue is mostly beef,
[16:29] Speaker 5: but you got to have an American pork barbecue rib.
[16:35] Speaker 5: I wish I could take it to a barbecue competition,
[16:38] Speaker 5: and I really want you to eat some buda add
[16:40] Speaker 5: but we're not gonna take it too far.
[16:42] Speaker 1: No.
[16:43] Speaker 2: After I have this Texas South rib there's.
[16:46] Speaker 3: Some alligator, budhan or some well it's still in cases.
[16:49] Speaker 1: Speaking of alligators, we saw, I saw so okay socodile.
[16:53] Speaker 3: After the retreat, I want to taste this hot.
[16:55] Speaker 1: We went on a road trip around Costa Rica. Bit
[17:00] Speaker 1: I didn't know that Costa Rica had a Caribbean side.
[17:03] Speaker 1: This is my second time I going to Costa Rica.
[17:05] Speaker 1: The first time I ever went to Costa Rica went
[17:07] Speaker 1: to Alaweja and that is like very jungle side, very country,
[17:10] Speaker 1: and that was it. I didn't really have a lot
[17:12] Speaker 1: to say about it. I loved it and I love
[17:13] Speaker 1: how it is like healthy it is, but like that
[17:15] Speaker 1: was the first time. This second time, we started in
[17:17] Speaker 1: Haco and that was I didn't know this. That's apparently
[17:20] Speaker 1: the hood of Costa Rica. That's where the retreat was.
[17:22] Speaker 1: But everybody had a great time. That's where we spent
[17:23] Speaker 1: New Year's Eve. After that, me cast Cassandra and Liz,
[17:27] Speaker 1: we drove to San Jose and we spent some time
[17:30] Speaker 1: there and that's that's that's where I had the pepperoni pizza.
[17:33] Speaker 1: That's where had the hand pizza, and that's it was
[17:34] Speaker 1: just this beautiful city.
[17:35] Speaker 2: It was really, Uh, wonder if there's sports you've sent
[17:40] Speaker 2: it probably pleda.
[17:43] Speaker 1: After we spent time in Santo, spent a few days
[17:45] Speaker 1: in San Jose, and then we went to Puerto Viejo.
[17:49] Speaker 1: That's the Caribbean side of Costa Rica. If you have
[17:51] Speaker 1: never been to the Caribbean side of Costa Rica, it
[17:55] Speaker 1: was it's like Jamaica, but it's just brown Spanish people.
[17:58] Speaker 1: The food is Jamaican food. Though it was beautiful, it
[18:00] Speaker 1: was so much fun. My friend Ceci she has a
[18:02] Speaker 1: place out there. Not only does she have a place
[18:04] Speaker 1: out there, she bought land out there. She is creating
[18:07] Speaker 1: a women's commune. Cec was being very humble saying she
[18:10] Speaker 1: just bought a plot of land. That bitch bought a jungle.
[18:12] Speaker 1: We went and toward her jungle and it was just
[18:15] Speaker 1: I had a time. I got to Eat Pray in
[18:18] Speaker 1: Love with the author of Eat Pray Love.
[18:19] Speaker 2: Who is Elizabeth Gilbert, and it was just such a beautiful.
[18:22] Speaker 1: Time that I needed, got to bond, got to explore
[18:25] Speaker 1: so much, got to try new things, and it was
[18:28] Speaker 1: just such a good time. And it just reminded me
[18:32] Speaker 1: of like why I love doing these retreats. I always
[18:36] Speaker 1: told myself when I wasn't going to continue being a
[18:39] Speaker 1: flight attendant because I fucking hated it. After I didn't
[18:42] Speaker 1: love it anymore, and I was like, dang, like, how
[18:45] Speaker 1: am I still going to travel? Like I always wanted
[18:46] Speaker 1: to be able to travel on somebody else's dime, and
[18:49] Speaker 1: I was like, how am I going to do this?
[18:51] Speaker 1: And so I just feel like I have always manifested
[18:54] Speaker 1: travel into my life. And I say that because I
[18:56] Speaker 1: think it's very important that people travel. I think it's
[18:59] Speaker 1: whether you manifested and you are traveling on somebody else's diamond,
[19:02] Speaker 1: you are deciding to be a flat attend You're like,
[19:03] Speaker 1: I'm going to see the world, bitch.
[19:04] Speaker 2: Fuck everybody do it.
[19:06] Speaker 1: It is. It just opens up your heart and your
[19:09] Speaker 1: mind and you get to just like traveling to me
[19:12] Speaker 1: is healing. So I'm always gonna push somebody's trip a retreat,
[19:15] Speaker 1: whether you go to Paradise and Vibe, you go on
[19:17] Speaker 1: Kiki's trip. I'm going to my first retreat as an
[19:20] Speaker 1: attendee in June to Spain, so and I've never I've
[19:23] Speaker 1: always part of Spain. I think it's gonna be like
[19:26] Speaker 1: outside of Barcelona. Okay, So I don't know if you
[19:29] Speaker 1: guys remember when we had Shinisha Boswell on the show.
[19:32] Speaker 1: I met her through my sister from social media and
[19:35] Speaker 1: then she came on the show and then we became friends.
[19:37] Speaker 2: And she also hosts retreats and I told her, I
[19:39] Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I love Spain.
[19:41] Speaker 1: I only got to go when I was a flight
[19:42] Speaker 1: attendant for a quick, little split second. The men were
[19:45] Speaker 1: very fine and the food was very good.
[19:46] Speaker 2: That's all I need.
[19:47] Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, I'm actually going
[19:49] Speaker 1: to book a spot and go as an attendee to
[19:52] Speaker 1: just be able to relax and see what it's like
[19:53] Speaker 1: to go on a retreat. She does self care retreats
[19:56] Speaker 1: and it's June twenty second. I think through the twenty seventh.
[20:01] Speaker 1: Maybe you're interested in going, I highly suggest.
[20:04] Speaker 2: You going whatever retreat.
[20:05] Speaker 1: I'm just like, travel is just so necessary, and if
[20:09] Speaker 1: you're scared to do it, or you're like I don't
[20:10] Speaker 1: have the money plan ahead, most people have payment plans,
[20:14] Speaker 1: and if you can't go out of the country, that's fine.
[20:17] Speaker 1: America has beautiful places to visit, even Georgia. If you're like,
[20:21] Speaker 1: I don't know what, I just I just think traveling
[20:23] Speaker 1: is just so necessary.
[20:24] Speaker 3: For the soul.
[20:25] Speaker 1: Like if you like to write, if you like to
[20:27] Speaker 1: meet new people, if you like to try new things,
[20:29] Speaker 1: like travel is a very good way to do that.
[20:32] Speaker 1: And I just cannot express that enough, Like twenty twenty
[20:35] Speaker 1: four bust me ins on my head, and travel saved
[20:37] Speaker 1: me each and every time. So like I'm always gonna say, like, bitch,
[20:40] Speaker 1: even if you're not gonna go on a trip with me,
[20:42] Speaker 1: go on a trip with somebody, even if it's just yourself,
[20:45] Speaker 1: to just experience a different part of the world. So
[20:49] Speaker 1: Costa Rica was fucking phenomenal. So I didn't want to
[20:51] Speaker 1: come back because years going.
[20:54] Speaker 3: For three weeks, I was gone, and.
[20:56] Speaker 2: I thought we were gonna get stuck because of the
[20:57] Speaker 2: snow dawn. I was like, sure, I was wondering that too.
[21:00] Speaker 2: Blissfully came back.
[21:02] Speaker 3: Because that shit was melting fast.
[21:04] Speaker 2: I was like, well, I really did snow. Though people
[21:06] Speaker 2: were skiing on the belt line.
[21:08] Speaker 3: I saw them skiing Peepont Park on the belt line.
[21:12] Speaker 5: When I woke up, it was still dark outside, and
[21:16] Speaker 5: I went and peeked outside like a kid.
[21:17] Speaker 3: On Christmas, and it was covered in snow.
[21:20] Speaker 5: Nobody drove anywhere, like on the street where my side
[21:25] Speaker 5: of the building faces perfect snow, the buildings.
[21:29] Speaker 3: It just looked really beautiful. I showed my baby girl
[21:33] Speaker 3: Whitley and she she hated it, hated it. She was
[21:38] Speaker 3: not fucking with it. When she had to go peek,
[21:40] Speaker 3: she was looking at me like, girl, what is this really?
[21:44] Speaker 3: Then I was like, you have to go out, like
[21:47] Speaker 3: it's a lot of people driving around.
[21:48] Speaker 5: I will let her go in the garage because whatever
[21:51] Speaker 5: that's outside to me, I'm picking up, it'll be clean.
[21:54] Speaker 3: We go outside, and I wanted to see if she
[21:56] Speaker 3: would enjoy the snow.
[21:57] Speaker 5: I'm like, but you're from Ohio and I got you
[22:01] Speaker 5: last winter. My baby girl said, Baby, I don't know that.
[22:05] Speaker 5: Oh you adopted and saved me. Fuck some other people.
[22:09] Speaker 2: I'm down for you.
[22:10] Speaker 3: We don't do this for southern girls, and I get it. So, yeah,
[22:13] Speaker 3: we were inside. She didn't like it.
[22:16] Speaker 5: She's very upset about her paws getting wet and cold.
[22:19] Speaker 5: She was just like she was irritated, and she was like,
[22:22] Speaker 5: pick me up, pick me up.
[22:24] Speaker 3: So I picked her up and I snuggled her clothes
[22:26] Speaker 3: like I always do, and I brought her inside and
[22:29] Speaker 3: then she had to get clean, and I was like,
[22:31] Speaker 3: your hair appointment got canceled today.
[22:34] Speaker 5: Because of the weather, so we're gonna have to reschedule.
[22:36] Speaker 5: I don't know what we're gonna do because I'm not
[22:38] Speaker 5: fighting you in the tub.
[22:40] Speaker 3: That's she don't like to take a bath. She dosn't
[22:43] Speaker 3: like doing it with me because the groomers are always like.
[22:45] Speaker 2: She was great as usual. She didn't do anything.
[22:47] Speaker 3: She's very Calfiou's upset when you left, but once we
[22:49] Speaker 3: got to the back, we gave her a treat. It
[22:50] Speaker 3: was fine. It's like, Oh, you'll be showing out like
[22:53] Speaker 3: real kids do.
[22:54] Speaker 5: I wish I would, but that's cool. You show out
[22:58] Speaker 5: for me, don't show out for them. You will just
[23:01] Speaker 5: go to them anyway.
[23:04] Speaker 3: I've got some updates too, but i'll say them for
[23:06] Speaker 3: after weird sex. I do have a quick story that
[23:09] Speaker 3: I researched. You said a man is not a necessity.
[23:14] Speaker 3: A man is a luxury like dessert. Yeah, a man
[23:19] Speaker 3: is absolutely not necessity.
[23:21] Speaker 2: Did you mean that to sound meaning better?
[23:24] Speaker 3: Oh not at all. I adore dessert. I love men.
[23:28] Speaker 3: I think men are the coolest, but you don't really
[23:31] Speaker 3: need them to live. Since some people are set about crimes,
[23:38] Speaker 3: they'll be back next week, though. Crimes a few people
[23:42] Speaker 3: are like, I always have to hear about crimes, yes, bitch,
[23:44] Speaker 3: because we need to be aware the people are doing crimes.
[23:48] Speaker 3: And I am a true crime girl. And if you
[23:50] Speaker 3: don't like this part, skip it. It's a transcript on YouTube.
[23:54] Speaker 5: Anyways, Okay, so this week's weird sex. I was thinking
[24:00] Speaker 5: about the cold weather, the snow days, and pregnancy, right.
[24:03] Speaker 2: I think it's in pregnancy. I thought they got on
[24:07] Speaker 2: the snow day.
[24:08] Speaker 3: They don't even know yet, you know it, it's too soon.
[24:11] Speaker 2: It was just bucking on.
[24:12] Speaker 3: Ty own flashback.
[24:15] Speaker 5: Anyway, I think that many people are currently brewing a baby,
[24:21] Speaker 5: and it may be happening. I mean, we are in
[24:23] Speaker 5: the thick of it with winter and there's going to
[24:26] Speaker 5: be more days. We're in Atlanta, but people are all
[24:28] Speaker 5: over Anyway, let me down a rabbit hole thinking about
[24:32] Speaker 5: what were people doing back in the day for contraceptives.
[24:37] Speaker 5: I have shared stories about like nasty looking condoms.
[24:42] Speaker 3: And stuff, but I was like, is that it?
[24:45] Speaker 1: You know?
[24:45] Speaker 3: I fell down a black hole on the internet and
[24:48] Speaker 3: I was reading about the ancient Egyptians.
[24:52] Speaker 5: Do y'all know that they used to take crocodile dug,
[24:56] Speaker 5: which is their douchie their turns put it up their
[25:00] Speaker 5: vaginas and use it as a contraceptive.
[25:07] Speaker 2: What's in the crocodile dunted whatever they ate that day?
[25:12] Speaker 3: So this is the thing.
[25:14] Speaker 5: When they would get the douchie and put it in
[25:17] Speaker 5: their pussy, it would harden and it's thick, I know, gross, right.
[25:23] Speaker 3: So just follow me though, follow me. So they put
[25:26] Speaker 3: it in there, it kind of hardens.
[25:28] Speaker 2: So it's like a very.
[25:30] Speaker 3: Antiquated, horrible version of a diaphragm, like the female condom
[25:36] Speaker 3: that they have.
[25:36] Speaker 5: So it's like it's basically making a shield. And it
[25:40] Speaker 5: wasn't totally like ineffective. It worked to a certain degree.
[25:45] Speaker 5: But I just wonder what them pussies were smelling like
[25:49] Speaker 5: it had to be crazy. And then I was like, well,
[25:53] Speaker 5: what else were other people doing, because there's crocodiles in
[25:55] Speaker 5: Egypt shore but what else they were using honey, mixing
[25:58] Speaker 5: it up with a case leaves.
[26:00] Speaker 3: I think it's how you pronounce it and other things
[26:02] Speaker 3: are putting up there. But everything wasn't like all the
[26:06] Speaker 3: way wrong.
[26:06] Speaker 5: While you know, obviously that's not practical and totally healthy.
[26:12] Speaker 5: Some what we have learned through time and people building
[26:16] Speaker 5: on whatever we've learned. They took some things that we
[26:20] Speaker 5: learned from our ancestors from back of the day. The
[26:23] Speaker 5: crocodile dune wasn't ideal. But some of these things, like
[26:26] Speaker 5: the honey and some of the components, I guess you
[26:30] Speaker 5: would say of the leaves and some of the other
[26:32] Speaker 5: products that people were using, they actually are the same
[26:35] Speaker 5: things that they put in spermicide that will kill the
[26:38] Speaker 5: sperm so it.
[26:39] Speaker 2: Doesn't impregnate you.
[26:40] Speaker 3: They were building things about I just.
[26:43] Speaker 2: Want to know who was down there hunt getting in
[26:46] Speaker 2: the alligator hut to get there.
[26:49] Speaker 5: You don't even they dropping in by the river, down
[26:52] Speaker 5: by the nile, down by the nile where the crocs
[26:55] Speaker 5: get nasty.
[26:57] Speaker 3: Leopatri said, I'm about to have a baby or whatever
[27:01] Speaker 3: was going on. They was down there by the creek,
[27:04] Speaker 3: well the river.
[27:05] Speaker 2: Did you watch that Cleopatrick documentary on Netflix?
[27:09] Speaker 3: Did you know the newest one?
[27:13] Speaker 2: I don't know if it's new or not, but it
[27:14] Speaker 2: was good. It's like a Jada Pinkett had a hand
[27:17] Speaker 2: in her or something.
[27:20] Speaker 3: I feel like she might have been a producer.
[27:22] Speaker 2: I don't know. In recent years, I watched it a
[27:26] Speaker 2: few I watched it last month.
[27:28] Speaker 1: I don't know if it's actually new, but I do
[27:30] Speaker 1: know that I did not know she had a baby
[27:32] Speaker 1: by Caesar.
[27:33] Speaker 2: Mm hm.
[27:34] Speaker 5: I used to be obsessed with ancient Egyptian culture. That's
[27:39] Speaker 5: why I found the story interesting.
[27:40] Speaker 3: But I was like, I didn't nobody told me. I
[27:42] Speaker 3: guess I was reading children's books.
[27:43] Speaker 5: But like nobody told me, I was putting crocodile dookie
[27:46] Speaker 5: up your pussies to not have baby by Caesar.
[27:50] Speaker 3: And King tut Well, she was, but the rest of
[27:52] Speaker 3: the people.
[27:54] Speaker 2: Julius, Caesar and his best friend, she's a wild girl.
[27:59] Speaker 3: I mean, it is what it is. No, I haven't
[28:02] Speaker 3: seen the documentary, but I have watched some. I think
[28:05] Speaker 3: that Cleopatra is very fascinating, and I love the more
[28:08] Speaker 3: and more that we find out about her. Anyway, I
[28:10] Speaker 3: just wanted to let y'all know that we should all
[28:12] Speaker 3: be grateful to everybody who came before us, so that
[28:14] Speaker 3: we no longer have to stick dookie up our pussies
[28:16] Speaker 3: to try to not get pregnant from trifling ass tyrone
[28:20] Speaker 3: and maybe better choices, because this is not what the
[28:26] Speaker 3: ancestors wanted us.
[28:27] Speaker 2: To be going through.
[28:28] Speaker 5: For some of y'all, that be writing an advice anyway.
[28:31] Speaker 5: That's it for weird sex, y'all, send me stories or
[28:34] Speaker 5: anything you're interested. I don't mind doing a deep dive either.
[28:37] Speaker 5: I've been finding some really strange things. People are into
[28:40] Speaker 5: a lot, yeah, and they're doing They're just doing more
[28:44] Speaker 5: and more.
[28:45] Speaker 3: Everything's not necessarily a crime. I think I'm going back
[28:48] Speaker 3: to crimes because those are less disturbing.
[28:50] Speaker 2: All right, y'all.
[28:51] Speaker 1: So twenty twenty five in my world has been all
[28:54] Speaker 1: about healing, journeys, journeys towards finding yourself, learning who you are.
[29:00] Speaker 1: And also in twenty twenty five, people have been getting
[29:02] Speaker 1: dating app fatigue. And what I like most about Field
[29:07] Speaker 1: is that it's an app created for you to figure
[29:10] Speaker 1: out what you actually like. What do you want in
[29:13] Speaker 1: a date or in a sexual friend, or just what
[29:16] Speaker 1: are some things that you might want to explore. Field
[29:20] Speaker 1: is an app dedicated to you finding yourself. That's important
[29:25] Speaker 1: to me, Kiki, It's important to me too.
[29:27] Speaker 5: And something that I think that maybe, depending on where
[29:32] Speaker 5: you are in life, you might not really consider, but like,
[29:35] Speaker 5: change happens, and sometimes it happens a lot more often
[29:38] Speaker 5: than you.
[29:39] Speaker 3: Might want to admit.
[29:40] Speaker 5: One thing that I think is really cool about Field
[29:44] Speaker 5: is not only does it have so many different options
[29:47] Speaker 5: for you to select a gender, sexual orientation, all of that,
[29:51] Speaker 5: you can change it a lot, and other people are
[29:55] Speaker 5: changing it a lot too, and it's like it's not
[29:58] Speaker 5: really a judgment zone when it comes to that. And
[30:01] Speaker 5: you know in with Field, the cultural space there, it's
[30:04] Speaker 5: like changes in norming. People are figuring themselves out and
[30:07] Speaker 5: whether you're there to date or find friends, find somebody
[30:11] Speaker 5: that you could relate to and just see what happens,
[30:14] Speaker 5: you can do that there, and they really have been
[30:16] Speaker 5: working towards building a sense of community.
[30:19] Speaker 3: It's more than just a dating app.
[30:21] Speaker 5: You can use it for so many different things and
[30:23] Speaker 5: in fact, they say that sixty two percent of the
[30:25] Speaker 5: members evolve their sexuality, their interest, and their desires. And
[30:29] Speaker 5: you get to select all of that and update it
[30:32] Speaker 5: whenever you feel like it on the Field app.
[30:34] Speaker 1: And I'm not even gonna lie when I've had some
[30:36] Speaker 1: of my friends be like, I'm really I'm bored dating.
[30:39] Speaker 1: I've sent them a Field app, and so I'm gonna
[30:41] Speaker 1: send it to y'all too. You guys, download the Field
[30:43] Speaker 1: app on the App Store or a Google Play and
[30:46] Speaker 1: tell us.
[30:46] Speaker 5: What you think anyway, back to what what we were
[30:50] Speaker 5: talking about earlier updates and stuff. I'm glad that you
[30:53] Speaker 5: had a good retreat though, and thank you for the
[30:55] Speaker 5: hot sauce. Medina brought me this hot sauce. I'm so
[30:57] Speaker 5: thirsty for gifts and food.
[31:00] Speaker 3: I'm hungry.
[31:02] Speaker 1: It was wrapped up hot sauce I like, so I
[31:04] Speaker 1: was like, let me not torture, Kiki. The type of
[31:07] Speaker 1: hot sauce that I like is the type of hot
[31:08] Speaker 1: sauce that makes your nose run mouth getting them so
[31:11] Speaker 1: like the hot sauce that I got for myself, It's
[31:13] Speaker 1: like ghost.
[31:14] Speaker 2: I was like, why the fuck would you get? I
[31:16] Speaker 2: just love it. It's so good.
[31:19] Speaker 1: Another thing I wanted to tell you that we did
[31:20] Speaker 1: while we were in Costa Rica was we went surfing.
[31:23] Speaker 2: Mm hmm, Kiki.
[31:24] Speaker 1: It was so much fun and my I didn't know
[31:27] Speaker 1: that everybody didn't get a one on one surf lesson,
[31:29] Speaker 1: but I did. Some people were in little groups of
[31:32] Speaker 1: three and four, and I was like, I was by myself,
[31:34] Speaker 1: get my hown surf lesson. Meanwhile, my little surfer lesson
[31:36] Speaker 1: dude was trying to flirt with me, talking about you
[31:37] Speaker 1: trying to have a Coasta Rican baby.
[31:39] Speaker 3: I was like, and that's why you had your own lesson,
[31:41] Speaker 3: and I'm so.
[31:42] Speaker 2: Happy that I did. It was oh so much?
[31:44] Speaker 3: Is it a costa Rican baby?
[31:46] Speaker 5: Coming?
[31:48] Speaker 2: He was first? While he was too young, I said,
[31:49] Speaker 2: I how older you? He was twenty twelve.
[31:51] Speaker 1: I could be your brother, Like stop, so just teach
[31:54] Speaker 1: me how to surf. There was a shark in the
[31:56] Speaker 1: water while I was surfing and.
[31:58] Speaker 2: I and I feel like I conjured it up. You know,
[32:00] Speaker 2: I got my little I got my little shark.
[32:01] Speaker 3: Tech and you was talking about it.
[32:02] Speaker 2: You wanted to swim with the shark indeed, but I
[32:05] Speaker 2: was asking did you surf?
[32:08] Speaker 3: Like did you say that?
[32:09] Speaker 7: Once? It was?
[32:10] Speaker 2: I was horrible, but it was still so much fun.
[32:12] Speaker 1: There were so many moments where like the waves were
[32:14] Speaker 1: just busting me upside my head, like twenty twenty four,
[32:17] Speaker 1: and he was like, do you want to stop?
[32:19] Speaker 2: Do you want to get out? And I was like no,
[32:21] Speaker 2: I want to keep going. He was like, I really
[32:22] Speaker 2: love you, and I was like, I love you too.
[32:27] Speaker 3: Love is such a strong word that people just be
[32:29] Speaker 3: thrown around y'all out there, sir, I love you. I
[32:31] Speaker 3: love you too, girl, what I've enjoyed.
[32:34] Speaker 2: If y'all have never served before, please serve. It was
[32:36] Speaker 2: so such a challenge, but it was so much fun. Anyways,
[32:38] Speaker 2: how are you sicks? What have you been up to?
[32:43] Speaker 3: Something was in my throat. I have been up to
[32:46] Speaker 3: more than saying I just feeling good. Let me think.
[32:49] Speaker 5: Okay, so my trip, my trip is coming up. Curious
[32:52] Speaker 5: how I'm very excited about it. I have been reaching
[32:57] Speaker 5: out to different companies and experience and stuff because we
[33:02] Speaker 5: have a set itinerary, which is everything that everybody has
[33:06] Speaker 5: already paid for, and then I have gifts that I
[33:09] Speaker 5: just personally wanted to give to everyone. This is my
[33:12] Speaker 5: first trip that I'm actually hosting, not just promoting, and
[33:15] Speaker 5: I want people to have a good time. And I
[33:17] Speaker 5: appreciate anybody who chooses to spend their money and most
[33:20] Speaker 5: importantly time, because we can't get that back. You can
[33:22] Speaker 5: make some more money, you can get your time back.
[33:24] Speaker 5: And I want people to go and come with an
[33:26] Speaker 5: open mind and all the other things I've said before.
[33:31] Speaker 5: They did open up some more spots, so the trip
[33:33] Speaker 5: is happening. It is March nineteenth through twenty third. You
[33:37] Speaker 5: can still sign up when you hear this. I don't
[33:39] Speaker 5: know if there's any more private rooms left. I know
[33:42] Speaker 5: that there are definitely like double rooms, So if you
[33:45] Speaker 5: have questions or whatever, hit me up.
[33:46] Speaker 3: I can help you.
[33:47] Speaker 5: And they're being pretty flexible with payments, even though initially
[33:51] Speaker 5: I was telling y'all, you know, there were payment plans
[33:54] Speaker 5: and you had to have it paid by December. But
[33:57] Speaker 5: now that we're closest to the date, they did open
[34:00] Speaker 5: up some more spots, So hit me up if you're interested.
[34:03] Speaker 2: But I'm really excited about it.
[34:05] Speaker 5: I'm also talking to different companies and trying to put
[34:08] Speaker 5: stuff together, and I've been reaching out to the different ladies.
[34:11] Speaker 5: Not everybody yet, but a few people, and just getting
[34:14] Speaker 5: to know people I don't know. I know one person
[34:18] Speaker 5: that is going on the trip for sure, and then
[34:21] Speaker 5: I have two friends who have signed up, but one
[34:25] Speaker 5: person is coming like with me, so they're gonna come
[34:27] Speaker 5: early and help me out.
[34:28] Speaker 3: But then the other two they're coming. Everybody else I
[34:31] Speaker 3: don't know.
[34:32] Speaker 5: So I am so excited to like get to meet
[34:34] Speaker 5: the people in person if we've never met before, Like
[34:37] Speaker 5: I'm just looking at their names I'm not sure and
[34:40] Speaker 5: making new friends and just trying to have like a
[34:43] Speaker 5: good quality in person experience, and then outside of what
[34:47] Speaker 5: we're already doing, I'm really excited to be able to
[34:51] Speaker 5: provide like some extras that they don't know about. And
[34:53] Speaker 5: I'm not gonna tell y'all on the show because I
[34:55] Speaker 5: wanted to be like a total surprise. But I've been
[34:57] Speaker 5: working really hard on it and I'm just really excited.
[34:59] Speaker 5: And it's a place that I mean, I've only been once,
[35:02] Speaker 5: but I really fell in love with it and as
[35:04] Speaker 5: many places I go and I hate it, it's very
[35:07] Speaker 5: rare that I ever go anywhere, whether it's in America
[35:11] Speaker 5: or out of the country, where I'm just like, I
[35:13] Speaker 5: love it.
[35:13] Speaker 3: It was just the people, the culture, the food. That's
[35:17] Speaker 3: my biggest thing.
[35:19] Speaker 2: That food.
[35:20] Speaker 3: I was not hungry when I laughed. I had so
[35:22] Speaker 3: many different things, even the things that I tasted.
[35:24] Speaker 5: And tried and didn't like. The experience overall was cool.
[35:27] Speaker 5: So I'm really excited about that trip.
[35:30] Speaker 1: And then.
[35:32] Speaker 5: I was I gonna say, so, I know that we
[35:35] Speaker 5: talked about goals and stuff for the end of twenty
[35:38] Speaker 5: twenty five, and I mean twenty twenty four, I'm skipping
[35:41] Speaker 5: a whole year.
[35:42] Speaker 3: I said the end of twenty twenty five. We just
[35:44] Speaker 3: got here, moving quick.
[35:47] Speaker 2: It is moving quick.
[35:48] Speaker 6: Though.
[35:50] Speaker 5: I had talked about, like several episodes, having imposter syndrome
[35:54] Speaker 5: and self doubt and just like not feeling myself like
[35:57] Speaker 5: I need to feel myself like I know things. But anyway,
[36:02] Speaker 5: I am going to be speaking at a conference. I
[36:05] Speaker 5: was selected to speak at a conference about podcasting and
[36:08] Speaker 5: live shows, and I'm very very excited about that. I
[36:10] Speaker 5: was very nervous about it. I don't know if it
[36:12] Speaker 5: was gonna happen.
[36:12] Speaker 3: I don't even know. I'm supposed to say nothing yet,
[36:14] Speaker 3: but don't tell nobody.
[36:16] Speaker 2: If I wasn't.
[36:17] Speaker 3: But I'm so excited.
[36:18] Speaker 5: It was a big, big goal for me for so
[36:23] Speaker 5: many different reasons outside of podcasting. It was a lot
[36:25] Speaker 5: of like personal challenges that I've been trying to overcome,
[36:31] Speaker 5: and so just being selected for that experience and being
[36:36] Speaker 5: able to do it and getting excited about that, that's
[36:39] Speaker 5: really cool. I have been talking about like a new
[36:42] Speaker 5: project that I've been working on and I haven't shared
[36:46] Speaker 5: a ton about it, but it's a new show, and
[36:51] Speaker 5: on the show, I don't know what I've shared, but
[36:53] Speaker 5: on the show, I'm only interviewing people.
[36:56] Speaker 3: It's not about me at all, which is very different
[36:58] Speaker 3: in a good way.
[36:59] Speaker 1: I like it.
[37:01] Speaker 3: It wasn't my idea, so it's new.
[37:03] Speaker 5: It's like it's challenging in a good way in so
[37:07] Speaker 5: many ways, because it's like, Okay, somebody tells you I
[37:09] Speaker 5: have an idea for something, and I would like to
[37:11] Speaker 5: hire you to do this.
[37:12] Speaker 3: I want you to produce this show. I want you
[37:14] Speaker 3: to host this show. But this is the vision.
[37:16] Speaker 5: And now I've got to take somebody else's vision and produce,
[37:21] Speaker 5: like produce something. I've got to come up with something.
[37:25] Speaker 5: I've got to make it happen. I tell them, oh,
[37:28] Speaker 5: I can do this, I can do this, I can
[37:29] Speaker 5: do this, but then you got to actually deliver because
[37:31] Speaker 5: they pay you on time in advance, and so it's
[37:35] Speaker 5: like you definitely don't want to.
[37:37] Speaker 3: Fuck that up, and I haven't so far.
[37:42] Speaker 5: But it's a new show coming in late February after
[37:46] Speaker 5: Valentine's Day.
[37:47] Speaker 3: But I'm very excited about it. I was very surprised,
[37:49] Speaker 3: and I tell them.
[37:49] Speaker 5: Probably every time we have a meeting, these people ask
[37:52] Speaker 5: me to do a show where I'm interviewing me in
[37:55] Speaker 5: first of all, that in and of itself is just like.
[38:00] Speaker 2: Me from cocktails.
[38:01] Speaker 3: You want me to talk to the men vote and
[38:05] Speaker 3: I'm interviewing them.
[38:07] Speaker 5: It's not like cocktails at all. It's different, but it's
[38:11] Speaker 5: like it's less about me. My personality is still going
[38:14] Speaker 5: to be there and it's more about them. But you
[38:16] Speaker 5: guys will get to see me in a different light.
[38:19] Speaker 5: And I'm excited and anxious about that to see like
[38:23] Speaker 5: how it is received and how it goes. But I've
[38:26] Speaker 5: been having so much fun with it. I've learned a lot,
[38:28] Speaker 5: and it's also outside of just the show itself and everything.
[38:36] Speaker 5: It's been something that I've wanted to get in more
[38:38] Speaker 5: rooms with more people who are passionate about what I'm
[38:43] Speaker 5: passionate about, which is podcasting, digital media, creating content, all
[38:50] Speaker 5: that stuff Like podcasting is very important to me. I
[38:54] Speaker 5: really love it. I literally went to school for broadcast journalism.
[39:00] Speaker 5: I thought I would do news or radio and I
[39:02] Speaker 5: didn't know about podcasting. But once I found out about podcasting,
[39:06] Speaker 5: like that was something that just really resonated with me.
[39:10] Speaker 5: And I really want to continue to grow, not as
[39:14] Speaker 5: necessarily a host, but just in so many different aspects.
[39:18] Speaker 5: And so it's nice to work with a ton of
[39:22] Speaker 5: other people who love behind the scenes stuff, because it's
[39:26] Speaker 5: different working with people who are hosting or people who
[39:29] Speaker 5: are just not in a bad way, but people who
[39:32] Speaker 5: are just in it for like, Okay, I think I
[39:35] Speaker 5: can make a lot of money because we all see
[39:37] Speaker 5: the stories about the podcasters who do get multimillion dollar.
[39:40] Speaker 2: Dad seem all the time all the time, but.
[39:44] Speaker 3: That is not the reality for everybody.
[39:46] Speaker 5: And there's so many different ways to also be a storyteller,
[39:50] Speaker 5: whether you're making skits, whether you are doing a podcast
[39:54] Speaker 5: of law and there's a radio show.
[39:57] Speaker 1: Those of us that do it, and you if you're
[40:00] Speaker 1: not making the millions love which love is just like
[40:04] Speaker 1: the art of it, like the behind the scenes, like okay,
[40:07] Speaker 1: how are you about to make whether anybody's listening, watching,
[40:10] Speaker 1: or subscribing or not, like you have a.
[40:11] Speaker 3: Passion and something about you that makes you want to
[40:15] Speaker 3: do it.
[40:15] Speaker 5: And then also being able to work with a company
[40:18] Speaker 5: that gets digital because I haven't always had that experience
[40:23] Speaker 5: throughout my career, Like I've always worked in media as
[40:27] Speaker 5: a professional, like post college, but it hasn't always been
[40:32] Speaker 5: like what I wanted it to be. So it's just
[40:35] Speaker 5: nice and I just especially love that I work with
[40:37] Speaker 5: so many women who are so driven, creative and talented
[40:42] Speaker 5: and encouraging. Even one day, we were having a meeting
[40:45] Speaker 5: and we were doing feedback about stuff and I personally
[40:48] Speaker 5: I didn't even tell them this.
[40:49] Speaker 3: They might be listening, but I felt like they.
[40:54] Speaker 5: Were a little like timid to give thoughts on me
[41:00] Speaker 5: right in my performance. And I was like, y'all can
[41:03] Speaker 5: like straight up tell me. I'm not gonna get offended.
[41:05] Speaker 5: I'm not gonna flip it. I don't because I'm also like, well,
[41:07] Speaker 5: I don't know who else they've worked with. Maybe they've
[41:09] Speaker 5: had an experience where like somebody who is operating as
[41:12] Speaker 5: talent is like a diva and they cut up or whatever.
[41:16] Speaker 3: I was like, just tell me. I want the feedback.
[41:18] Speaker 3: I need the feedback. I want the feedback. And they're like, okay, good, well,
[41:21] Speaker 3: I'm glad this person said something.
[41:22] Speaker 5: And then I said to this and I'm like, okay,
[41:24] Speaker 5: I'm gonnapply these notes whatever, and it's just good.
[41:27] Speaker 3: Sometimes I've had a lot.
[41:30] Speaker 5: Of work experiences all over the board. Every time I
[41:33] Speaker 5: work with women, it's not always been positive. So it's
[41:36] Speaker 5: just good to be in something new that I was
[41:39] Speaker 5: very anxious and nervous about. That is positive and it's
[41:42] Speaker 5: been continuing.
[41:44] Speaker 3: To go down that path, so that feels good. But
[41:47] Speaker 3: that show is scheduled to launch late February. I tell
[41:50] Speaker 3: y'all real details when I'm suposed to tell y'all, don't
[41:52] Speaker 3: tell nobody.
[41:52] Speaker 5: I told y'all that this is secret Cocktails information, even
[41:55] Speaker 5: though it's all over the internet. I will be posting
[41:58] Speaker 5: pics soon. I'll be getting back to it, but I'll
[42:01] Speaker 5: be having time. So okay, So we talked about heres ou.
[42:05] Speaker 5: We talked about I wanted to make sure.
[42:08] Speaker 2: You got your whole thought out.
[42:10] Speaker 3: Thank you.
[42:11] Speaker 1: Congratulations. That is thank you exciting. I can't wait to
[42:14] Speaker 1: tune in, subscribe, listen. However, I can support congratulations. Thank you.
[42:19] Speaker 5: I'm hoping that we can do a launch party. You're
[42:21] Speaker 5: gonna come, I'll tell you, but we'll see. They'd be like,
[42:24] Speaker 5: but you got a deadline with episodes. That's the other part. Oh,
[42:28] Speaker 5: you need X amount of episodes before the end of
[42:31] Speaker 5: the month. You need this, and you need that, and
[42:32] Speaker 5: it's like nothing, I can't do it. But it's like, babe,
[42:34] Speaker 5: it's not just me.
[42:35] Speaker 3: I'm available. I gotta have a guest. I don't have
[42:38] Speaker 3: a co host. This is so different.
[42:41] Speaker 5: I'm finding solo on this when it's time to sit down,
[42:44] Speaker 5: and like, honestly, the first episode I was like, I
[42:47] Speaker 5: was like, it was weird.
[42:50] Speaker 3: I have to kind of find my footing, especially because
[42:54] Speaker 3: it's also different, and it's.
[42:57] Speaker 2: Like just like it's just like not funny, Like there's
[43:01] Speaker 2: no comical.
[43:02] Speaker 5: There's comical moments, but it's like initially when it's presented,
[43:06] Speaker 5: it's like, Okay, this is like an interview series and
[43:09] Speaker 5: you're going to be interviewing these people and the topics
[43:12] Speaker 5: and subject matter.
[43:13] Speaker 3: To me, you seem more serious. So I'm like, Okay,
[43:16] Speaker 3: I can do it, don't worry, I got you. How
[43:19] Speaker 3: do I put some personality in this to make it entertaining?
[43:22] Speaker 3: How do I not overstep and make it about me
[43:24] Speaker 3: when it's really about the gas?
[43:26] Speaker 2: If you had to compare it to something, what would
[43:28] Speaker 2: you compare it to? Like a show? Like is it
[43:30] Speaker 2: like A Is it like Oprah? Is it like Solo Dad?
[43:33] Speaker 1: Is it like.
[43:35] Speaker 2: CNN?
[43:37] Speaker 5: I don't know, Maybe it's like a contingent version. I
[43:42] Speaker 5: don't watch that show. I just watched the men coming
[43:44] Speaker 5: down the hallway move.
[43:46] Speaker 2: Fosa, everybody coming down the hallway.
[43:49] Speaker 3: I don't.
[43:51] Speaker 2: So bad.
[43:52] Speaker 3: I want to watch in the hallway too, but it's
[43:54] Speaker 3: just like I don't like watching. I did like Move Fasa,
[43:59] Speaker 3: and I watched Move Fosa over and over again. Hey, Arperre,
[44:02] Speaker 3: you wanna come on?
[44:04] Speaker 1: Uh but.
[44:06] Speaker 3: Falsa, We're gonna talk about this later, girl, because wool
[44:11] Speaker 3: is you did not see him with the light eyes?
[44:14] Speaker 1: Yes, you know, I don't like light eyes niggas, but
[44:16] Speaker 1: he's but he is, Okay, I gotta I haven't seen.
[44:21] Speaker 2: I've been in Costa Rica living the Jungle Line.
[44:24] Speaker 3: He was in other movies before that. We're not gonna
[44:27] Speaker 3: disrespect air Pierre. Disrespect him because he's fine as yeah, cute, cute,
[44:33] Speaker 3: and he's fancy because he's got that British accent. And
[44:37] Speaker 3: I've never heard him talk because he find it's fun.
[44:40] Speaker 3: You don't have to hear him talk.
[44:41] Speaker 2: That means he's probably a problem.
[44:44] Speaker 3: We're not gonna project that show. No, but he's on
[44:48] Speaker 3: my list, so baby, I mean sorry, excuse me, excuse me, sir?
[44:53] Speaker 2: Is he married?
[44:54] Speaker 7: Yeah?
[44:54] Speaker 3: I don't know.
[44:55] Speaker 5: I didn't want to google it. I did interview somebody
[45:00] Speaker 5: who is funnest fuck on the internet. Why I interviewed
[45:04] Speaker 5: a few fine people. Okay, so there's one guy. He's
[45:08] Speaker 5: very handsome, but the Internet will be like questioning his sexuality.
[45:15] Speaker 5: When I met him in person and did the interview,
[45:17] Speaker 5: I was like, Okay, you're not the same.
[45:21] Speaker 2: As the Internet.
[45:22] Speaker 3: I see, I see the difference.
[45:24] Speaker 2: Right, Do you see how people could question his sexuality on.
[45:28] Speaker 3: The Internet in person? It's not that I think that
[45:31] Speaker 3: the thing is and you'll see it when that episode
[45:35] Speaker 3: comes out. That was probably my favorite episode that I've
[45:37] Speaker 3: done on the On Instagram, he's a very handsome man.
[45:42] Speaker 3: He's tall, he's a try.
[45:43] Speaker 2: When I first.
[45:46] Speaker 3: Knew about him, he was a dancer for Beyonce and
[45:48] Speaker 3: one of her leading fine ass Nigga dancers when she'd
[45:52] Speaker 3: be doing stuff at her tour. And then we did
[45:57] Speaker 3: the show, and it's like, okay.
[46:00] Speaker 5: On Instagram, it's just like anybody on Instagram who has
[46:03] Speaker 5: a very procured Instagram feed.
[46:08] Speaker 3: Your pictures are professional. They're going to be.
[46:11] Speaker 5: Edited now that you look like another person, but they're
[46:13] Speaker 5: professional images. You ain't paying no hundreds or thousands of
[46:18] Speaker 5: dollars for pictures that looked like you took him straight
[46:20] Speaker 5: off the phone for real, you know, so when I
[46:25] Speaker 5: saw him a person, he still looked the same.
[46:27] Speaker 3: But it's like, Okay, you.
[46:28] Speaker 5: Don't give as much of a pretty boy as you
[46:31] Speaker 5: did before on the pictures.
[46:33] Speaker 3: Yeah, he's married as a wife.
[46:36] Speaker 5: And then when we were talking, I was like, he
[46:39] Speaker 5: is so different than everything that I had in my mind,
[46:44] Speaker 5: like all the preconceived notions because of course I don't
[46:46] Speaker 5: know him.
[46:47] Speaker 3: And I was like, you're really cool, You're really interesting,
[46:49] Speaker 3: and you have a great story.
[46:51] Speaker 5: I hope that this experience will propel you to be
[46:54] Speaker 5: able to tell more of your story because it's a
[46:56] Speaker 5: good one.
[46:57] Speaker 3: Anyway, the man looks good. He still looks good. It
[47:00] Speaker 3: didn't look as pretty, not in a bad way, but
[47:02] Speaker 3: not as pretty, like not as put together in manicure.
[47:08] Speaker 3: It's like you still, man.
[47:10] Speaker 5: It's not like you're trying too hard, I guess, is
[47:12] Speaker 5: what I'm saying, because on the images that you might
[47:14] Speaker 5: see on Instagram, you might think he's trying too hard.
[47:16] Speaker 3: Anyway, it's really cool, baby girl. He cried on this
[47:21] Speaker 3: on the interview. He cried. He evoked so much emotion
[47:26] Speaker 3: and I was shook. He had Warren filmed it. Oh,
[47:33] Speaker 3: he had to give him some tissues. And I was
[47:36] Speaker 3: just like, oh my god, it's gold.
[47:41] Speaker 5: I can't wait to show you. I'm currently editing. I
[47:45] Speaker 5: cannot wait to share this with you. That interview was
[47:48] Speaker 5: probably my favorite. I've interviewed a few other people, and
[47:51] Speaker 5: what I will say across the board, I've done some
[47:55] Speaker 5: virtual interviews and I've done some in person ones. I
[47:58] Speaker 5: think that this is it a weird way just alignment
[48:04] Speaker 5: with my personal growth, because sometimes y'all know, if you're
[48:09] Speaker 5: new here, you don't but if you owe, you know,
[48:11] Speaker 5: niggas be bothering me.
[48:14] Speaker 3: They frustrate me.
[48:15] Speaker 5: I get upset when y'all be doing my girls wrong.
[48:18] Speaker 5: I get upset when y'all do me wrong. That's why
[48:20] Speaker 5: I don't participate.
[48:21] Speaker 3: And I'm just like right, but in talking to these
[48:25] Speaker 3: men who are able to articulate themselves and express their opinions,
[48:32] Speaker 3: I don't agree with everybody.
[48:34] Speaker 5: I don't agree with everything that everybody has said. However,
[48:37] Speaker 5: what I've appreciated about every person pretty much that I've
[48:42] Speaker 5: interviewed thus far is that they have an opinion, they're
[48:47] Speaker 5: able to articulate it, and they can express themselves. And
[48:50] Speaker 5: even if we just agree to disagree, it's nice to
[48:53] Speaker 5: hear men who can stand on what they feel and
[48:57] Speaker 5: not revert back to things they song, Twitter, Instagram or
[49:01] Speaker 5: like like trending topics types of things or Twitter topics
[49:05] Speaker 5: and stuff like that. It's like, Okay, this is my experience,
[49:07] Speaker 5: this is why I feel this way, this is how
[49:08] Speaker 5: I move, and this is what it is, and this
[49:11] Speaker 5: is how I view manhood, this is how I view masculinity,
[49:14] Speaker 5: this is what I think we should do. This is
[49:16] Speaker 5: my experience.
[49:17] Speaker 3: It's refreshing to hear that versus people who are always
[49:20] Speaker 3: trying to tell us as women what we need to
[49:23] Speaker 3: be doing and where we're lacking and why they are
[49:27] Speaker 3: so great and all the other things that we constantly
[49:30] Speaker 3: hear regurgitated on the internet. So it's been a fun journey.
[49:34] Speaker 3: I will let y'all know if we meet the date
[49:38] Speaker 3: or not.
[49:38] Speaker 5: We're working on it, and if there are any men
[49:42] Speaker 5: that you would like to hear from. I'm open to
[49:46] Speaker 5: hearing who people might be interested. I have a wish
[49:49] Speaker 5: list of some people and we were working The first
[49:52] Speaker 5: person that comes to mind is Altus Hodge.
[49:54] Speaker 2: I thought you were going to say Tyler Play He's
[49:57] Speaker 2: on the.
[49:57] Speaker 3: List, but that's not at the top. I think that
[50:00] Speaker 3: might be coming.
[50:01] Speaker 2: He was so quiet. I actually don't even know if
[50:02] Speaker 2: I've ever heard him.
[50:03] Speaker 5: He talks a lot, actually, and honestly, I told him this,
[50:10] Speaker 5: I want to run through everybody that Mary Jane ran
[50:14] Speaker 5: through on being Mary Jane, every single person. So the
[50:18] Speaker 5: show started as like an interview series where it was
[50:21] Speaker 5: articles and they did like Instagram interviews and other stuff
[50:24] Speaker 5: years ago, and then they started turning into like.
[50:27] Speaker 3: A show show. So I was like, when you're running
[50:29] Speaker 3: back being Mary Jane, miss Mary Jane, Paul, she has
[50:34] Speaker 3: some fun niggas, because that is a requirement and great storyline.
[50:41] Speaker 3: I want to rewatch it. I've been talking to some
[50:45] Speaker 3: friends who have started rewatching. I was like, I'm about
[50:47] Speaker 3: to catch up. You did recently well last year? Okay,
[50:50] Speaker 3: that's recent, that's recent.
[50:51] Speaker 2: I re watched that.
[50:52] Speaker 1: Last year we watched Insecure. I love a good rewatch,
[50:55] Speaker 1: And right now I have my mom rewatching Insecure.
[50:58] Speaker 2: She never watched Insecure. In my bad she's watched its
[51:01] Speaker 2: just like this y'all be doing.
[51:02] Speaker 3: Yes, this is a good depiction of American black American
[51:08] Speaker 3: woman in life.
[51:08] Speaker 2: She loves it.
[51:10] Speaker 7: She loves it.
[51:11] Speaker 3: I was like, I'm so glad you're watching it and
[51:13] Speaker 3: now y'all can talk about it.
[51:15] Speaker 2: Now we can talk about it.
[51:17] Speaker 3: Yeah, I love being Mary Jane. But I feel like
[51:20] Speaker 3: that was like ten years ago, right when it ended.
[51:23] Speaker 5: Yeah, at this point, So I want to rewatch it
[51:26] Speaker 5: again with.
[51:29] Speaker 3: These old eyes and see what I think about it.
[51:33] Speaker 5: But I enjoyed that show, and at the bottom line,
[51:37] Speaker 5: end of the day, whatever we're going to say, those
[51:39] Speaker 5: niggas was fine, and I want to see it.
[51:41] Speaker 3: I want to see them again. I would like to
[51:43] Speaker 3: interview them.
[51:44] Speaker 2: Even y'all use the N word on your new show.
[51:47] Speaker 2: I haven't.
[51:48] Speaker 3: Some of the men have. We'll probably leep it, but
[51:54] Speaker 3: we were trying to be classy. But they do say niggas.
[51:57] Speaker 3: Sometimes they drink.
[51:59] Speaker 2: We don't have cocktails.
[52:01] Speaker 3: Now, I did hear somebody went out of or whatever
[52:05] Speaker 3: y'all be doing.
[52:06] Speaker 5: For your druss uh huh, And I didn't. Well, I'll
[52:09] Speaker 5: save it for another day. I didn't know that that's
[52:12] Speaker 5: what he did. I thought something else happened, And it
[52:14] Speaker 5: was funny because I didn't even know till two weeks later.
[52:16] Speaker 3: I'd be oblivious.
[52:17] Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it's funny when people think that I
[52:20] Speaker 5: indulge in that I guess because I don't know.
[52:23] Speaker 3: Why actually in the weeds and I'm like, y'all know
[52:29] Speaker 3: aa or anything adjacent to that, that's where you find
[52:32] Speaker 3: me at baby, But like we.
[52:35] Speaker 2: It stank, it does.
[52:37] Speaker 3: It hurts my eyes irritates them. The food part where
[52:43] Speaker 3: people be wanting having munchies.
[52:46] Speaker 5: No, I meant like the munchies afterwards. But I can
[52:49] Speaker 5: enjoy an animal every now and but it always makes
[52:52] Speaker 5: me sleep anyway. That also, I can't remember if I
[52:56] Speaker 5: said this. There are wedding veils on my way for
[53:00] Speaker 5: people in your family, yes' not me.
[53:03] Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna let me have a little
[53:05] Speaker 3: break to lead up to like pretend. Oh, I guess
[53:10] Speaker 3: this is not Disneyland, kiddos.
[53:14] Speaker 1: Always if we want a reality the storylines that would
[53:18] Speaker 1: be created would be so funny. You have wedding bills.
[53:20] Speaker 1: I thought I had wedding bills in my family lineup.
[53:24] Speaker 2: And it got canceled. That's all I say that. And
[53:30] Speaker 2: I hope you've seen this episode, all right.
[53:35] Speaker 3: Will not sign on that, but on this side on
[53:38] Speaker 3: I won't even go through the last name skol and
[53:40] Speaker 3: thinks they matched my now that I think about it.
[53:42] Speaker 3: But We've got some wedding bells over here.
[53:45] Speaker 2: So are you in the wedding?
[53:48] Speaker 5: Oh no, because the first wedding that I will mention
[53:51] Speaker 5: is my baby sister, not technically my baby sister, but
[53:54] Speaker 5: my baby sister, but my mama. You know, I got
[53:56] Speaker 5: a hashtag modern family. So she got proposed to on
[54:01] Speaker 5: her birthday. I think I mentioned that before, Madison. She's engaged.
[54:04] Speaker 5: I am very happy for them.
[54:06] Speaker 2: Does she have a rid ring or a normal diamond ring.
[54:08] Speaker 3: Just a diamond.
[54:12] Speaker 5: Nobody had surgery or any of that mess you was
[54:18] Speaker 5: doing so or talk about. So she is engaged, she
[54:23] Speaker 5: doesn't want to get married for a few years, why said,
[54:27] Speaker 5: God damn it.
[54:28] Speaker 3: I was ready to start my diet and be skinny Auntie.
[54:33] Speaker 5: And sing Selena at a reception and see whose uncle
[54:38] Speaker 5: wanted a bitty bitty bum bomp You know what I mean?
[54:43] Speaker 3: I don't know.
[54:45] Speaker 2: This bitch is morio.
[54:47] Speaker 3: I would like to be.
[54:52] Speaker 2: There bitty bitty bumm with uncles, but not till five
[54:54] Speaker 2: years later.
[54:55] Speaker 3: So I want to be bitty b bumpomb. Now ain't
[54:58] Speaker 3: gonna be no bitty bitty nothing in five years. My
[55:01] Speaker 3: hip gonna go out or something.
[55:02] Speaker 5: Anyway, she so honestly, they have their own goals. She's
[55:07] Speaker 5: not gonna let anybody rush her. I personally don't want
[55:10] Speaker 5: to put pressure on her.
[55:10] Speaker 3: I'm happy for them. I just wish there was a
[55:13] Speaker 3: sooner wedding. Oh shout out to a positive note.
[55:18] Speaker 5: Orlando and Mela Mila from Good Mom's Bad Choices. They
[55:22] Speaker 5: got engaged over the past weekend or two ago whatever.
[55:27] Speaker 3: Now. I did miss the zoom call because I forgot
[55:30] Speaker 3: that they are on the Pacific coast, and he said
[55:33] Speaker 3: it was at eleven PM over their time. That's two
[55:36] Speaker 3: o'clock in the morning. Baby girl is sleep. I don't
[55:40] Speaker 3: watch all my Westerns and fell asleep. I wasn't gonna
[55:42] Speaker 3: be up for that. I really wanted you to join
[55:44] Speaker 3: this soon. I thought it was going to be eleven
[55:47] Speaker 3: pm here, and then I really read it and say,
[55:50] Speaker 3: oh no. But congratulations to them. They seem very happy.
[55:54] Speaker 5: And I love seeing people in love. I love seeing
[55:58] Speaker 5: people be happy and whether I love seeing people be happy,
[56:05] Speaker 5: and it's just nice to see, especially when sometimes depending
[56:10] Speaker 5: on what you're looking at, it could be a lot
[56:13] Speaker 5: of negativity and other bullshit cloud in your judgment. But
[56:16] Speaker 5: it's nice to see that people are still falling in
[56:18] Speaker 5: love and finding there forever love.
[56:23] Speaker 2: Going down that path I don't know about.
[56:26] Speaker 1: It made its way to Instagram and it was the
[56:28] Speaker 1: girl getting proposed to and the man. They had hired
[56:30] Speaker 1: a singer, and he was singing all of the all
[56:34] Speaker 1: of the like spots for the Jagged Edge song Let's
[56:38] Speaker 1: get married. Oh my god, I last night silently.
[56:42] Speaker 7: I was.
[56:44] Speaker 2: Really.
[56:45] Speaker 3: I was mad.
[56:46] Speaker 1: You couldn't even pay attention to the proposal because the
[56:48] Speaker 1: comments had me die.
[56:49] Speaker 3: I didn't even read the I was upset. I was like,
[56:51] Speaker 3: is this a joke? Is this a skit? Like what's
[56:53] Speaker 3: going on? It seems real? But he was singing so bad,
[56:56] Speaker 3: and I was like, I could have done this, and
[56:59] Speaker 3: that's not a good thing. Nobody hear me squat and
[57:04] Speaker 3: it doesn't sound good. Nobody's sound horrible.
[57:07] Speaker 2: Someone said this is the team moved Jacketedge.
[57:11] Speaker 3: No, thank you. I didn't like it.
[57:13] Speaker 2: I hated it. Love is in the air.
[57:16] Speaker 1: I congratulations to everybody who's getting proposed to or getting married.
[57:19] Speaker 1: That is a beautiful step in life. I hope you're ready,
[57:23] Speaker 1: and I hope you last mm hmm.
[57:26] Speaker 3: I want to go to some more weddings. It's funny
[57:28] Speaker 3: because my grandma was like, oh.
[57:30] Speaker 2: You should talt your care.
[57:31] Speaker 1: I was like, talk to me about what I have
[57:33] Speaker 1: two weddings to go to this year and this year, yeah,
[57:37] Speaker 1: family members, my cousin. And it was funny because my
[57:40] Speaker 1: mom called me today she was like, are we going
[57:41] Speaker 1: to the Brice's wedding.
[57:42] Speaker 2: I was like yeah, Mom. She was like, this is
[57:43] Speaker 2: going to be really expensive, and I was like, Mom,
[57:45] Speaker 2: we're going.
[57:46] Speaker 3: Where is it?
[57:46] Speaker 2: It's an Arizona It is a.
[57:51] Speaker 1: Rather pricey situation, but we're going, like this is This
[57:54] Speaker 1: is a cousin that I really do love.
[57:55] Speaker 2: If I didn't love him that much, I wouldn't go.
[57:57] Speaker 1: But I know, I know it's going to be you
[57:59] Speaker 1: know how some people's and usually like you know, it's
[58:00] Speaker 1: gonna be a time and we probably only with our
[58:02] Speaker 1: own gifts.
[58:04] Speaker 2: So yeah, okay. So I was talking to some friends
[58:11] Speaker 2: about Valentine's Day, and.
[58:13] Speaker 3: You know I love Valentine's you dooo, So I wanted
[58:16] Speaker 3: to ask you, okay, in the spirit of Valentine's Day.
[58:20] Speaker 3: It's not a Valentine's Day episode, but in the spirit
[58:22] Speaker 3: of it, I was curious about I've heard you talk
[58:26] Speaker 3: about Gallantines things love Gallentine. Do you have Do you
[58:31] Speaker 3: happen to have Gallantine's plans this year?
[58:35] Speaker 2: What are you doing?
[58:36] Speaker 1: So?
[58:37] Speaker 2: I have a girlfriend, her name is Chanelle. I have
[58:39] Speaker 2: a few Galentine's Day plans.
[58:41] Speaker 3: Oh you racked them up.
[58:43] Speaker 1: I do my mom's birthday first, so I was February tenth.
[58:46] Speaker 1: So we're doing like a little party for her. But
[58:49] Speaker 1: my girlfriend Chanelle, she is like my friend. That is,
[58:52] Speaker 1: she is the hostess with the mostest, the queen of activities.
[58:56] Speaker 1: She is going to do whatever, like her Chris. This party,
[59:00] Speaker 1: we had so much fun. There were strippers involved.
[59:02] Speaker 2: It was so much fun.
[59:03] Speaker 1: Anyways, she has sent out the invitations for the Gallantine's
[59:06] Speaker 1: Day party, and.
[59:07] Speaker 2: It's a thing like it's a it is like a
[59:09] Speaker 2: yearly thing. She does not play. She's like, bitch, can
[59:12] Speaker 2: you come? You can't come. I'm changing the day.
[59:14] Speaker 1: So she has sent out the evie. She has a
[59:17] Speaker 1: whole little registry on there. We get gifts, we bring
[59:20] Speaker 1: her gifts.
[59:21] Speaker 2: There is a chef.
[59:22] Speaker 1: She's like, there's a dress code, there are games planned out.
[59:26] Speaker 1: I cannot wait until we.
[59:29] Speaker 2: Have this part.
[59:30] Speaker 1: So the birth the birthday party, it feels like a
[59:32] Speaker 1: fucking birthday party. It's not It's Gallentine's Day, and y'all.
[59:35] Speaker 1: Chanel was a guest on our show. She talked about
[59:37] Speaker 1: her getting the Wars and her husband, she and her
[59:39] Speaker 1: and doing some crazy shit.
[59:40] Speaker 2: It's a it's always a big situation. A bunch of
[59:42] Speaker 2: girls are coming.
[59:43] Speaker 1: We have to wear Gallentine's Day themed pajamas and everybody
[59:48] Speaker 1: brings a bottle.
[59:49] Speaker 2: We play games, dance. I mean, it's just such a
[59:52] Speaker 2: good time. Every year.
[59:53] Speaker 1: It's the same thing every year. Okay, but it's such
[59:56] Speaker 1: a tradition. But it's a tradition now it's so much fun.
[1:00:01] Speaker 1: There's a valet like it's it's just like a thing.
[1:00:03] Speaker 1: Everybody pulls up in their pajamas with a little jacket.
[1:00:06] Speaker 1: We go inside and it is just a time. It's
[1:00:08] Speaker 1: a time from the time you step in to the
[1:00:11] Speaker 1: time you leave. If you leave, because more than likely
[1:00:13] Speaker 1: you're probably gonna spend the night.
[1:00:15] Speaker 2: It's just such a good time with really good people.
[1:00:17] Speaker 1: And she's a type of person where she's always making
[1:00:20] Speaker 1: new friends, so there's always gonna be like a new
[1:00:21] Speaker 1: wave of bitches coming through.
[1:00:23] Speaker 2: But everybody is cool.
[1:00:24] Speaker 1: It's not like you get there and there's like there
[1:00:27] Speaker 1: have been so many situations that I've been in where
[1:00:29] Speaker 1: you get around people and it's like, dang, your friends
[1:00:31] Speaker 1: aren't nice, Like it's giving very much mean girl vibes.
[1:00:35] Speaker 2: And it's just not like that.
[1:00:36] Speaker 1: It's a it's a group of women that everybody gets along.
[1:00:39] Speaker 1: Everybody is from different walks of life. It's different careers, and.
[1:00:43] Speaker 2: It's just a really good time and you leave with
[1:00:45] Speaker 2: a gift and drunk that that's the best way to leave.
[1:00:51] Speaker 2: And nobody is like there's no male energy.
[1:00:56] Speaker 1: So it's very much just a really good good time
[1:00:59] Speaker 1: to to gather with your girls and have a good
[1:01:01] Speaker 1: time bonding, bonding if you will. And everything is like catered.
[1:01:06] Speaker 1: So it's also like a there's like a standard that
[1:01:09] Speaker 1: she always meets. She never misses, you know what I mean,
[1:01:12] Speaker 1: you know who never missed the the most. It's not
[1:01:16] Speaker 1: like everybody bring food. It's like everything is. You don't
[1:01:18] Speaker 1: got to bring anything but your be and your pajamas.
[1:01:22] Speaker 1: And even if you don't bring a bottle, there's there's
[1:01:25] Speaker 1: bottles there. It's it's just it's like a it feels
[1:01:28] Speaker 1: like an Instagram reel when you walk into Chanelle's house.
[1:01:30] Speaker 1: You feel like you've entered into an Instagram reel that
[1:01:33] Speaker 1: was edited precisely and virally rotated around the internet.
[1:01:40] Speaker 2: Gallentine's Day plans for you? Do you have anything?
[1:01:42] Speaker 3: So I don't have any.
[1:01:44] Speaker 5: I have been trying to plan, but it has been
[1:01:47] Speaker 5: so hard for several reasons, but the biggest one being
[1:01:51] Speaker 5: everybody is so goddamn busy, and busy in a good way.
[1:01:55] Speaker 5: And I'm happy for everybody because it's just like so
[1:01:58] Speaker 5: many things have been happening. I have some friends who
[1:02:00] Speaker 5: are currently filming a show, like a TV show, and
[1:02:04] Speaker 5: so they're traveling around the world and they're like, well, girl,
[1:02:09] Speaker 5: we want to plan this, but we'll have to plan
[1:02:11] Speaker 5: at the end of the month. We'll see and then
[1:02:13] Speaker 5: people we have men.
[1:02:16] Speaker 2: But Galentine's Day isn't Valentine's Day. It's a different date.
[1:02:20] Speaker 3: Oh, we'll be doing it on Valentine's Day.
[1:02:22] Speaker 5: Oh, or it could be another day. But like, if
[1:02:25] Speaker 5: everybody's single and don't have plans, we will do it
[1:02:28] Speaker 5: on Valentine's Day.
[1:02:30] Speaker 3: Valentine's Day is the season, I guess for whatever day
[1:02:33] Speaker 3: you want.
[1:02:35] Speaker 5: But even still, it's like, Okay, well, everybody is actually busy.
[1:02:38] Speaker 5: They have obligations and stuff, so we're trying to figure
[1:02:41] Speaker 5: out a date to do things, and people are literally
[1:02:44] Speaker 5: scattered across the world, even though every the main people
[1:02:47] Speaker 5: I'm thinking about right now home base is here, but
[1:02:50] Speaker 5: people are all over, so we'll see how it goes.
[1:02:53] Speaker 5: I do have a friend who has a birthday coming up,
[1:02:55] Speaker 5: and I was like, well, girl, even if we have
[1:02:57] Speaker 5: to take it back to twenty twenty and do a
[1:02:59] Speaker 5: fuck zoom party, we're gonna celebrate you.
[1:03:03] Speaker 3: You always celebrate us.
[1:03:05] Speaker 1: Uh.
[1:03:06] Speaker 5: We will get on the phones, on the computers and
[1:03:08] Speaker 5: the iPads or whatever the fuck, because at the end
[1:03:10] Speaker 5: of the day, no matter where we are in the world,
[1:03:13] Speaker 5: it feels good to have people who are in your
[1:03:16] Speaker 5: corner and we're gonna celebrate each other. And we're not
[1:03:18] Speaker 5: gonna stop because you moved away to the fucking mountains
[1:03:21] Speaker 5: and Oregon, so we'll do that Oregon. She's an organ
[1:03:25] Speaker 5: on like a contract out there. But then it's like, okay, well.
[1:03:31] Speaker 3: Valentine's Day Galentinees is two weeks away, and we've all
[1:03:34] Speaker 3: got to figure out how that works. So I don't know.
[1:03:37] Speaker 5: And I was also toying with some different ideas about
[1:03:40] Speaker 5: different things that I could do, whether it be with
[1:03:43] Speaker 5: friends or something that I would open up to the public.
[1:03:46] Speaker 2: Have you seen this tea party bus?
[1:03:48] Speaker 3: Yes, I wanted to go with my mama, which came
[1:03:51] Speaker 3: back here for my birthday.
[1:03:52] Speaker 5: I was literally about to book it, and she was
[1:03:55] Speaker 5: giving me weird vibes like, yeah, but you are the
[1:04:01] Speaker 5: tea party queen, like you've been talking. You are the
[1:04:03] Speaker 5: one who put me onto tea parties. But it was
[1:04:05] Speaker 5: because she had already planned a surprise party for me
[1:04:08] Speaker 5: and I didn't know that and that's why she was
[1:04:11] Speaker 5: like And I was like, She says, anyway, I won't
[1:04:14] Speaker 5: go to that tea party bus, and I am going
[1:04:17] Speaker 5: this year.
[1:04:18] Speaker 3: We can go together.
[1:04:19] Speaker 5: If we don't go about the Indiduce year, we're going
[1:04:21] Speaker 5: by the Indus Year. I think it's cute, but yeah,
[1:04:26] Speaker 5: we're gonna do some something, whether we're in person or
[1:04:30] Speaker 5: virtual or whatever.
[1:04:31] Speaker 3: I think everybody could use that. And I think it's really.
[1:04:35] Speaker 5: Important with your girlfriends to still check in whether people
[1:04:38] Speaker 5: are single or not, it don't matter, check over their people.
[1:04:41] Speaker 3: Because as I get older, I realized.
[1:04:44] Speaker 5: How much Valentine's Day is about love and we are
[1:04:50] Speaker 5: conditioned to think about like romantic love, but all the
[1:04:53] Speaker 5: love matters, and I want everybody to feel love that day.
[1:04:57] Speaker 5: And I want to be really intentional this year, especially
[1:04:59] Speaker 5: because I've feel like I have better energy. I want
[1:05:02] Speaker 5: to share that, and I want people to feel good.
[1:05:05] Speaker 5: I don't want people to be sad, especially anybody that
[1:05:09] Speaker 5: I talked to, touch or like it's close to me.
[1:05:12] Speaker 5: I want everybody feel good because that can be a
[1:05:15] Speaker 5: sad day, no matter how trivial it may seem to some.
[1:05:19] Speaker 5: It's just like we all got our things.
[1:05:22] Speaker 3: Do we all want to see motherfucker's kissing every day.
[1:05:25] Speaker 3: I know I haven't always and it would trigger me.
[1:05:28] Speaker 3: I'm getting triggered right now, so let me move on.
[1:05:31] Speaker 3: But you know, I'm excited about that Valentine's Day. Valentine's Day,
[1:05:38] Speaker 3: I guess that's really it. I've just been trying to
[1:05:41] Speaker 3: stick to things that I said I was gonna do.
[1:05:43] Speaker 3: A I always working out. Well, y'all bust my face.
[1:05:47] Speaker 3: You busted your face well the side. I think that's
[1:05:51] Speaker 3: why my eyes are stated now that I think about it.
[1:05:54] Speaker 2: I got a walking path for Christmas. It's a gift
[1:05:57] Speaker 2: and I want to curved ones or is it just
[1:05:59] Speaker 2: a straight I'm.
[1:06:00] Speaker 3: Not advanced straight flat. It don't even go that fast.
[1:06:04] Speaker 3: It goes to three point oh whatever that means in
[1:06:07] Speaker 3: speed terms of a treadmill. Inded, I I put it by.
[1:06:11] Speaker 3: I was trying to figure out could I put it
[1:06:12] Speaker 3: by the stove or could I put it.
[1:06:14] Speaker 2: By the sink.
[1:06:16] Speaker 3: I did both, so I was trying to do like
[1:06:19] Speaker 3: side lunges and do it slow.
[1:06:21] Speaker 2: That don't seem like that's supposed to happen.
[1:06:24] Speaker 3: I saw a video and the girls were doing it.
[1:06:27] Speaker 2: But were they athletic girls? I don't know.
[1:06:29] Speaker 5: She had rolls in her hair and a roband. I
[1:06:32] Speaker 5: had a bottle and a roband. To me, same, okay,
[1:06:36] Speaker 5: my trip fell well.
[1:06:37] Speaker 1: He was like.
[1:06:39] Speaker 5: She had to come see it by her mama because
[1:06:41] Speaker 5: I fell in bust my ass. Then my dumb ass
[1:06:45] Speaker 5: just moved it, and I was.
[1:06:45] Speaker 3: Like, maybe I should wash dishes.
[1:06:49] Speaker 5: Just cook, y'all, do not recommend that. I'll report back
[1:06:53] Speaker 5: in three weeks and let y'all know about my new placement.
[1:06:56] Speaker 3: But I do watch it.
[1:06:57] Speaker 5: While I watched the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City
[1:07:00] Speaker 5: to tell me a Beverly Hills and that's probably the
[1:07:02] Speaker 5: safest activity.
[1:07:04] Speaker 3: Speaking of the.
[1:07:04] Speaker 1: Real Housewife, Yesterday, I was getting my nails done and
[1:07:07] Speaker 1: I saw Kim. Did we get our nose done at
[1:07:09] Speaker 1: the same place?
[1:07:09] Speaker 3: And I was like, Jim, moo, not so chat, where
[1:07:13] Speaker 3: is your scooter? Do you know what that's from?
[1:07:17] Speaker 2: I just know it was Kim? And oh wow, that's Kim.
[1:07:23] Speaker 6: I just was like, she looked very cute. I never
[1:07:26] Speaker 6: the last time I saw her, she wasn't cute, but
[1:07:28] Speaker 6: she had looked good. Wig was on fly Bleak it
[1:07:31] Speaker 6: was it was on there, secure it, it was on there.
[1:07:35] Speaker 2: She looked very cute. And I was just like looking
[1:07:36] Speaker 2: at her. I was looking at her face.
[1:07:38] Speaker 1: I'm doing this thing now where I just look at
[1:07:39] Speaker 1: all the women that have gotten a lot of fillers
[1:07:41] Speaker 1: and a lot of work done on their face. And
[1:07:44] Speaker 1: and I'm starting to get very nervous. I'm trying not
[1:07:46] Speaker 1: to back out of my appointment. When is it Friday morning?
[1:07:51] Speaker 1: I'm getting this Friday so after the so yeah, and
[1:07:54] Speaker 1: I'm starting to get very nervous because I've never.
[1:07:56] Speaker 2: Touched my face.
[1:07:57] Speaker 1: I've gotten a little botox right in the middle of
[1:07:59] Speaker 1: my foor, but that's it. And so this time I'm
[1:08:02] Speaker 1: going all.
[1:08:03] Speaker 2: In full fledged.
[1:08:05] Speaker 3: What are you getting?
[1:08:05] Speaker 2: Just chin right, I'm getting a few things I'll tell
[1:08:08] Speaker 2: have camera.
[1:08:09] Speaker 1: But I am still very nervous because it's like that's
[1:08:11] Speaker 1: your face and some shit goes wrong, like it goes wrong.
[1:08:14] Speaker 1: And I'm also I have an audition to audition for
[1:08:16] Speaker 1: the worship team in my church, and so I don't
[1:08:18] Speaker 1: want to look up fucking fool.
[1:08:21] Speaker 3: The worship team will be fine. It's gonna be the internet.
[1:08:23] Speaker 3: That's the problem.
[1:08:26] Speaker 2: Feelers in worship doesn't go together.
[1:08:30] Speaker 3: So don't let them people lie to you. Well, so scared.
[1:08:40] Speaker 2: I'm so scared, and that's.
[1:08:41] Speaker 3: Fine, but don't let them people lie to you. They'd
[1:08:43] Speaker 3: be getting it.
[1:08:45] Speaker 2: I just don't want to look crazy, that's all.
[1:08:46] Speaker 3: I'm just understandable, understandable.
[1:08:48] Speaker 1: Because I'm just worried about like the swelling and I
[1:08:51] Speaker 1: think I'm just going to cover my face.
[1:08:54] Speaker 2: When is your audition? My audition is January twenty third,
[1:08:59] Speaker 2: so it's yeah, I don't want to.
[1:09:01] Speaker 5: Look crazy your mask or my mask and sing, oh
[1:09:07] Speaker 5: you have to sing?
[1:09:07] Speaker 3: I thought you was praised.
[1:09:08] Speaker 2: Dan, No bitch, let me stop.
[1:09:13] Speaker 3: So big Alaine, I.
[1:09:14] Speaker 1: Can't be the Laine and Jesus knows my heart and
[1:09:17] Speaker 1: he was befriended, so bad, go ahead.
[1:09:20] Speaker 2: He was befriending prostitutes and thieves.
[1:09:22] Speaker 1: So I'm not either of those, So I have to sing.
[1:09:27] Speaker 1: I'm actually like, I'm auditioning to be on the worship
[1:09:29] Speaker 1: team and my church are the singers.
[1:09:32] Speaker 3: Oh okay, so I have to sing. I think you
[1:09:35] Speaker 3: did tell me that before.
[1:09:36] Speaker 2: I was I have to sing.
[1:09:38] Speaker 1: I'm really like, I'm really At first I was like
[1:09:41] Speaker 1: I was just playing, and now it's like I'm really
[1:09:43] Speaker 1: doing it.
[1:09:45] Speaker 3: January twenty third.
[1:09:47] Speaker 2: Yeah, they sent me my list of songs and it's
[1:09:50] Speaker 2: a live band.
[1:09:51] Speaker 3: Like it's like you have sheet music and suck.
[1:09:53] Speaker 1: No, it's not sheet music and not actually the list
[1:09:56] Speaker 1: of songs that they send me, I don't know any
[1:09:57] Speaker 1: of them.
[1:09:59] Speaker 3: You you know who you need to listen to?
[1:10:02] Speaker 1: Who?
[1:10:02] Speaker 3: The Clark Sisters?
[1:10:04] Speaker 7: No?
[1:10:05] Speaker 2: Why because I already have a song that I want
[1:10:07] Speaker 2: to sing, so I asked them.
[1:10:08] Speaker 5: But those are great gospel singers. Just to get you
[1:10:10] Speaker 5: going and get you pumped up. Not that you need
[1:10:13] Speaker 5: to sound like that, but just to pump you up.
[1:10:16] Speaker 3: They're encouraged. Karen Clark's shared a Bomb and Gilead listen
[1:10:22] Speaker 3: it's gonna get you pumped up and then you get
[1:10:24] Speaker 3: your pipes warmed up and you do your own thing.
[1:10:26] Speaker 3: Now that you need to emulate them, but.
[1:10:30] Speaker 5: They gonna get your spirit right. I'm telling you, what
[1:10:34] Speaker 5: is it? I know it sounds a little Mermaid.
[1:10:37] Speaker 2: It has to be a I know.
[1:10:39] Speaker 3: I was just wondering because you was like, no to
[1:10:41] Speaker 3: the Clark Sisters. Is like everybody know the Clark's Sisters.
[1:10:45] Speaker 3: Tear it down, tear it down like a Clark sister.
[1:10:50] Speaker 3: I'm just saying to get you in your zone so
[1:10:51] Speaker 3: that you can get into your zone.
[1:10:53] Speaker 1: And a different way to get into my zone. So
[1:10:56] Speaker 1: what you do that I have a different song. I'm
[1:10:58] Speaker 1: not gonna announce it here because because I don't feel
[1:11:00] Speaker 1: like hearing anybody. God, Oh, I am so nervous, and
[1:11:07] Speaker 1: I am just like this is such a different realm,
[1:11:10] Speaker 1: and I'm just like, Okay.
[1:11:11] Speaker 2: We're doing We're really doing this, like we're actually committing
[1:11:13] Speaker 2: to this.
[1:11:14] Speaker 1: And I'm going to be a background singer for the
[1:11:18] Speaker 1: guy for the sky Daddy, and I'm excited for it.
[1:11:21] Speaker 2: If I get chose. If I get chose, you probably will,
[1:11:23] Speaker 2: I mean I know I will. Yeah, I may wants
[1:11:27] Speaker 2: to be real. I will, but this is very this
[1:11:32] Speaker 2: is just so different, and I was like, I just
[1:11:35] Speaker 2: wonder how this is about to go for real?
[1:11:37] Speaker 1: Like this is a very this is just very different.
[1:11:42] Speaker 1: But I feel so like it feels so perfect. And
[1:11:45] Speaker 1: I told myself twenty twenty five, I'm living in integrity.
[1:11:49] Speaker 1: If it makes sense or if it doesn't make sense,
[1:11:51] Speaker 1: and a lot of shit hasn't been making sense, but
[1:11:54] Speaker 1: it also feels very right. So I'm very excited about it.
[1:12:00] Speaker 1: I go, I'm singing the song when I'm saying I'll
[1:12:02] Speaker 1: say it, I'm gonna text it to you.
[1:12:04] Speaker 3: Okay, I'm anxious to hear this song.
[1:12:06] Speaker 1: Now.
[1:12:06] Speaker 3: I got a peace. So we'll we're way over time.
[1:12:10] Speaker 3: We're gonna take a break, and when we come back
[1:12:12] Speaker 3: from Indecisive, Diane, it'll be time for advice.
[1:12:18] Speaker 7: Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants?
[1:12:20] Speaker 1: Stop thinking about what I want? What do he wants?
[1:12:22] Speaker 7: What your parents want?
[1:12:24] Speaker 8: What do you want?
[1:12:25] Speaker 1: What do you want?
[1:12:26] Speaker 7: It's not what do you want?
[1:12:30] Speaker 3: What do you want?
[1:12:36] Speaker 8: Hey, ladies, it's me Diane, And this week's date idea
[1:12:42] Speaker 8: is perfect for the girls. Or if you have a
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[1:12:48] Speaker 8: Have you guys heard of the tear around Town Atlanta
[1:12:51] Speaker 8: tea bus potty? Oh my god, it looks incredibly fun.
[1:12:57] Speaker 8: I'm actually going this weekend, so I'll tell you about it.
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[1:13:04] Speaker 2: Bye. Okay, we are back from Indecisive Diane.
[1:13:08] Speaker 1: And before we move on to advice, I want to
[1:13:11] Speaker 1: let everybody know that I'm hosting a state side retreat.
[1:13:15] Speaker 1: The theme is enchantment. If you don't know what enchantment means,
[1:13:17] Speaker 1: please google it. I'm not going to give you the definition,
[1:13:20] Speaker 1: but it is a beautiful definition. I'm hosting a retreat
[1:13:24] Speaker 1: August twenty fourth through the twenty seventh, and we are
[1:13:27] Speaker 1: starting the early bird tickets February sixth. We are going
[1:13:31] Speaker 1: to Arizona, you guys. Arizona, if you don't know, is
[1:13:34] Speaker 1: one of the most magical places in the world and
[1:13:38] Speaker 1: it is in the States. So one of the things
[1:13:41] Speaker 1: that feedback that I always get about my trips is
[1:13:43] Speaker 1: people are like, hey, like, are you guys ever going
[1:13:46] Speaker 1: to do a state side trip? We're finally doing one,
[1:13:48] Speaker 1: and this is going to be festival style. I cannot
[1:13:51] Speaker 1: wait to announce who we have leading.
[1:13:53] Speaker 2: Some of the workshops.
[1:13:54] Speaker 1: It is going to be five personal personally, AM going
[1:13:58] Speaker 1: to probably be a fangirl. So go to Paris and
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[1:14:04] Speaker 1: If you feel like you can't afford it, it's okay.
[1:14:06] Speaker 1: We have payment plans. So join the email list, get
[1:14:09] Speaker 1: some information and come. Have a really good time and
[1:14:12] Speaker 1: get well in whatever way you need it, whether it's fun, health, yoga, connection,
[1:14:18] Speaker 1: vibe and making new friends, just a new environment.
[1:14:21] Speaker 3: Come.
[1:14:21] Speaker 2: It's gonna be such a good time.
[1:14:23] Speaker 1: Nobody ever has negative feedback, and that's one thing that
[1:14:26] Speaker 1: I really pride myself on on hosting these trips.
[1:14:28] Speaker 2: So I hope you can make it okay.
[1:15:00] Speaker 1: So our first advice letter is titled heartbreak Advice, and
[1:15:09] Speaker 1: this is rather lengthy. Hey ladies, I'm a twenty seven
[1:15:14] Speaker 1: year old female and I was dating a guy, twenty
[1:15:17] Speaker 1: eight year old male for a month and we really.
[1:15:19] Speaker 2: Hit it off.
[1:15:21] Speaker 1: On the fourth date, he asked me to be his
[1:15:23] Speaker 1: girlfriend and I said yes, that's very soon. Last week
[1:15:28] Speaker 1: he told me that he would be signing up for
[1:15:30] Speaker 1: school on Tuesday. When he told me this, I told
[1:15:32] Speaker 1: him he needs to be realistic if that's something that
[1:15:37] Speaker 1: he's going to work, If that's something that he's going
[1:15:39] Speaker 1: to work. Now that he's in a relationship and his
[1:15:43] Speaker 1: job increased his schedule to fifty hours. Fast forward to today,
[1:15:46] Speaker 1: he broke it off with me. Today was also the
[1:15:48] Speaker 1: day he told me he'd be signing it for school.
[1:15:51] Speaker 1: I also can't help but think he was intimidated by
[1:15:54] Speaker 1: my actions.
[1:15:55] Speaker 2: He knew I had my master's. She may be something.
[1:15:58] Speaker 2: She got a little mental illness going on.
[1:16:01] Speaker 1: He knew I had my master's and I made thirty
[1:16:03] Speaker 1: k more than him and was a homeowner. Our first
[1:16:07] Speaker 1: NFL game was fun and he paid, but our second one,
[1:16:10] Speaker 1: I paid for the tickets and got us better seats.
[1:16:12] Speaker 1: He asked me how much I paid for them because
[1:16:14] Speaker 1: they were club access and he had been to the
[1:16:16] Speaker 1: stadium ten times and never seen them before. I never
[1:16:19] Speaker 1: told him because I didn't want him to feel away.
[1:16:22] Speaker 1: He also moved into an apartment and I bought some
[1:16:25] Speaker 1: basic necessities ruds, curtains, a fan, and some soap, and
[1:16:31] Speaker 1: it meant the world to him. He said, a girl
[1:16:34] Speaker 1: has never spent a.
[1:16:34] Speaker 2: Dime on him. I also told him I have a.
[1:16:36] Speaker 3: Full rightfully, so raggedy ass.
[1:16:38] Speaker 2: I'm sorry, what is the raggedy ass him?
[1:16:41] Speaker 3: Or heard bo?
[1:16:43] Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I guess just sounds like mental illness. He said,
[1:16:48] Speaker 1: A girl has never spent a dime on him. I
[1:16:50] Speaker 1: also told him I have a full week work trip
[1:16:53] Speaker 1: in New York and he was welcome to tag along.
[1:16:57] Speaker 1: I take care of his ticket through points I'd get
[1:17:00] Speaker 1: booking on my travel. This is going to sound crazy,
[1:17:03] Speaker 1: but these are the moments I understand playing.
[1:17:04] Speaker 3: Oh, this is going to fun crazy.
[1:17:06] Speaker 1: He spends his whole life trying to figure out the
[1:17:09] Speaker 1: secret recipe for the Krabby Patty, and here I am
[1:17:11] Speaker 1: trying to understand these niggas, and I feel every time.
[1:17:14] Speaker 5: Is this an analogy or is this because I'm something
[1:17:19] Speaker 5: is telling me. You really meant that he really wants
[1:17:21] Speaker 5: to figure out, like an actual recipe.
[1:17:24] Speaker 2: For a cartoon.
[1:17:25] Speaker 5: This is a woman, crabby, I mean, but she's talking
[1:17:27] Speaker 5: about a man, right, Yeah, So I'm saying something is
[1:17:31] Speaker 5: telling me she means literally, he's trying to figure out
[1:17:34] Speaker 5: the Krabby Patty recipe.
[1:17:36] Speaker 1: And she's trying to figure out the crowd. She said,
[1:17:38] Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out and understand these niggas like
[1:17:41] Speaker 1: the kind of pat recipe. Okay, I respect the fact
[1:17:43] Speaker 1: that he took what I said into consideration and let
[1:17:45] Speaker 1: me go instead of driving me. But it doesn't hurt
[1:17:48] Speaker 1: any less. We would laugh during sex, have deep conversations,
[1:17:51] Speaker 1: and was always a perfect He was always a perfect
[1:17:53] Speaker 1: gentleman when I was with him. Oh sorry, ladies, but
[1:17:56] Speaker 1: any advice love from a listener who's been listening. Advice
[1:17:59] Speaker 1: on what, girl don't actually know what you even need?
[1:18:01] Speaker 2: Advice on you need?
[1:18:04] Speaker 1: He don't like you, she don't like herself. I don't
[1:18:08] Speaker 1: even understand next. Next, I wouldn't know.
[1:18:12] Speaker 2: Really, I don't know what the question was.
[1:18:15] Speaker 1: And I knew that already before I read this, But
[1:18:17] Speaker 1: I wanted to put this out here because people be crazy.
[1:18:19] Speaker 2: What are you talking about?
[1:18:20] Speaker 1: Man?
[1:18:25] Speaker 5: After Medija joins the Praise and Worship Team, we will
[1:18:30] Speaker 5: update you guys on where to go see her perform
[1:18:34] Speaker 5: in service.
[1:18:36] Speaker 3: Because you need Jesus, we don't have it, Medina, we
[1:18:40] Speaker 3: don't have it. Because this is deeper than us, This
[1:18:42] Speaker 3: is bigger than us. And I told y'all, I clocked
[1:18:47] Speaker 3: out after my after my sister Kamla didn't get what
[1:18:51] Speaker 3: she was supposed to get fucked up my hair. We're
[1:18:54] Speaker 3: had to come from riding. Y'all got me frustrated over here,
[1:18:57] Speaker 3: looking like the roll out fragile. I cocked out, But
[1:19:04] Speaker 3: baby girl, I don't know. We don't have nothing for you, spelt.
[1:19:08] Speaker 3: I didn't have nothing for you before you send this email,
[1:19:10] Speaker 3: So we're good.
[1:19:11] Speaker 1: This is mad that he's going to school and not
[1:19:13] Speaker 1: one to spend time with herd. Can't nobody help.
[1:19:15] Speaker 3: You help yourself? Next, I'll table the next advice because.
[1:19:23] Speaker 5: We are well over times eleven. We're gonna move on
[1:19:27] Speaker 5: to the cocktails.
[1:19:28] Speaker 7: Uh huh uh, but it can't go I'm on, come,
[1:19:38] Speaker 7: how it on me?
[1:19:39] Speaker 1: You think?
[1:19:42] Speaker 7: Is this on cash and the.
[1:19:47] Speaker 3: Once upon a time not long ago?
[1:19:48] Speaker 1: I was.
[1:19:52] Speaker 3: I don't mind y'all send us your fucked up advice
[1:19:54] Speaker 3: situation stuff.
[1:19:55] Speaker 2: It is entertaining.
[1:19:56] Speaker 5: So if you don't mind us laughing, joking and all
[1:19:58] Speaker 5: that keeps sitting in. If you do mine sending it anyway,
[1:20:01] Speaker 5: and I guess you'll click off anyway, then the email
[1:20:04] Speaker 5: for advice again is advice at cocktailspot dot com. Now
[1:20:07] Speaker 5: we're moving on to the actual cocktails. If you have
[1:20:09] Speaker 5: a cocktail, you want to share on the show, or
[1:20:12] Speaker 5: you want to tell somebody else's business. We welcome in
[1:20:15] Speaker 5: cocktails at cocktailspod dot com. Keep you anonymous, don't you worry?
[1:20:22] Speaker 5: All right, So the cocktail this week, this one says, hey, ladies,
[1:20:28] Speaker 5: please keep me anonymous. We will because y'all gonna be
[1:20:31] Speaker 5: mad later and we're not gonna edit it out. I
[1:20:34] Speaker 5: am on the younger side of your following and I'm married.
[1:20:36] Speaker 5: Oh you want to cherup that in.
[1:20:38] Speaker 3: You got your husband young and we're old bitties just waiting. Okay,
[1:20:44] Speaker 3: we see you.
[1:20:46] Speaker 5: My husband and I have known each other since you
[1:20:48] Speaker 5: were in nineteen and got married this year at the
[1:20:51] Speaker 5: age of twenty six.
[1:20:52] Speaker 3: Oh, you're so young titties. Not sagging, no stretch marks,
[1:20:57] Speaker 3: No debt collectors have actually come to collect the debts
[1:21:01] Speaker 3: that she thought she wrote off with them, damn credit
[1:21:04] Speaker 3: repair people.
[1:21:05] Speaker 2: Let me digress.
[1:21:07] Speaker 3: Since we have had on and off sex for so
[1:21:10] Speaker 3: many years, it feels like our sex life can become
[1:21:13] Speaker 3: routine at times, only that little bit of time. Hmm.
[1:21:19] Speaker 5: Okay, we both know for effect, we haven't tried everything
[1:21:25] Speaker 5: out there, and there's some things out there that neither
[1:21:29] Speaker 5: of us are ready for. I believe you right now
[1:21:32] Speaker 5: on just the cocktail, came up with the right idea
[1:21:35] Speaker 5: to put those expensive ass airpot maxes to use. While
[1:21:39] Speaker 5: my husband was taking his shower, I s at the
[1:21:40] Speaker 5: ambiance to the room by lighting candles and running the
[1:21:44] Speaker 5: oil diffuser with lavender ad mint. I found an addie
[1:21:48] Speaker 5: on YouTube of crashing waves and made short press skip
[1:21:52] Speaker 5: on all those annoying ass ads. Once my husband was
[1:21:56] Speaker 5: out of the shower, I started kissing him and rubbing
[1:21:59] Speaker 5: in his low sh all over his body so he
[1:22:01] Speaker 5: could relax even more. ID have laid down on the
[1:22:04] Speaker 5: bed and put on his sad phones. With the noise
[1:22:07] Speaker 5: cancelation turned on. I could tell he couldn't hear me
[1:22:10] Speaker 5: because he was allowed as hell, saying.
[1:22:12] Speaker 3: Dahn, oh my god, this feels so good.
[1:22:17] Speaker 5: Right when I could tell he was finna come, I
[1:22:20] Speaker 5: switched the noise cancelation to transparency. Now he could hear
[1:22:24] Speaker 5: the waves crashing on the beach and me slurping it
[1:22:27] Speaker 5: spitting off his dick. So there's my first cocktail. And hopefully,
[1:22:31] Speaker 5: if you ladies haven't already tried putting these expensive electronics
[1:22:35] Speaker 5: to use in other ways, here's an idea. Well, I
[1:22:40] Speaker 5: haven't tried the noise cancelation on the air pods and
[1:22:44] Speaker 5: then turning it off.
[1:22:46] Speaker 3: That's not a bad idea, sister. I might try that.
[1:22:49] Speaker 2: I'll report back later.
[1:22:51] Speaker 1: Have you. I've done headphone sex, but it wasn't with AirPods.
[1:22:54] Speaker 1: It was with a different len all the way around
[1:22:56] Speaker 1: your ears headphones. It was amazing, but also into waves.
[1:23:00] Speaker 2: It was music. But great idea.
[1:23:04] Speaker 1: You're not.
[1:23:05] Speaker 3: I'm not mad, as I'm true to Actually.
[1:23:09] Speaker 2: Like a little bit of Costa Rican hot spots.
[1:23:11] Speaker 3: Strike uh, spice it up, switch it up. We love
[1:23:15] Speaker 3: to hear any of you guys.
[1:23:16] Speaker 5: If you have a cocktail that you want to share
[1:23:17] Speaker 5: on the show in the future, please email us cocktails
[1:23:20] Speaker 5: at cocktailspot dot com. I want to remind you guys
[1:23:24] Speaker 5: that Curious Out is coming up. I've got a few
[1:23:27] Speaker 5: more trips in the lineup that I'll share with you soon,
[1:23:30] Speaker 5: but Curious Outs first up. So March nineteenth through twenty third,
[1:23:33] Speaker 5: we're gonna have a blast. It's currently all ladies, but
[1:23:39] Speaker 5: men are welcome. Men are welcome, So.
[1:23:41] Speaker 3: For any of the man who might have been skeptical,
[1:23:47] Speaker 3: just no. It's several women and last of them been
[1:23:50] Speaker 3: hitting me up and they seem single and ready to mingle.
[1:23:53] Speaker 3: So like you got questions, you want to know what's up?
[1:23:57] Speaker 3: What's t let me know?
[1:23:58] Speaker 2: Come on, and like I said, it's beginning of the episode.
[1:24:01] Speaker 2: Travel is so.
[1:24:01] Speaker 3: Important, So it's good to get out of your comfort zone.
[1:24:04] Speaker 1: So good to get out of your comfort zone. Even
[1:24:06] Speaker 1: if you're going by yourself, going with the group. If
[1:24:08] Speaker 1: you plan on a birthday you don't know what to do,
[1:24:10] Speaker 1: book Kiki's trip if you also don't know what to
[1:24:13] Speaker 1: do still, I told you I'm attending a self care
[1:24:16] Speaker 1: retreat with Shanisha. We're going to Spain. If you've been
[1:24:19] Speaker 1: wanting to go to Spain, go to Spain with us.
[1:24:21] Speaker 1: If you want to go somewhere states like, come to
[1:24:23] Speaker 1: Arizona with me with Paradise and Vibe dot Com. Travel
[1:24:25] Speaker 1: is essential for your soul and your well being and
[1:24:28] Speaker 1: your mental health. So y'all aren't writing emails about Krusty
[1:24:31] Speaker 1: Krab recipes mm hmm.
[1:24:33] Speaker 3: You can be sending in cocktails about wonderful nights, new
[1:24:39] Speaker 3: experiences and being happy.
[1:24:42] Speaker 2: That's what we're doing this year.
[1:24:44] Speaker 3: We're being happy and we're cutting everything off that is
[1:24:47] Speaker 3: making us feel anything else. And mancha that okay, hallolu. Anyway,
[1:24:55] Speaker 3: you guys, that's the end of this week's episode. I
[1:24:57] Speaker 3: hope you enjoy kick it in with us today. Hey uh,
[1:25:01] Speaker 3: we will see you all next week and make sure
[1:25:04] Speaker 3: again make sure you follow us at Cocktails Podcast. I
[1:25:07] Speaker 3: met Kooky said so. And until next week, you guys.
[1:25:10] Speaker 3: Good Bye bye bye.
[1:25:15] Speaker 2: Bye bye bye ba, good bye bye bye wait on
[1:25:23] Speaker 1: Dry bye bye bye

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