# Ep. 425 Love, Laughs, and Reality Show Dreams

An episode of [Cocktales with Kiki](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1149484402), 19 Dec 2024, 1 h 07 min.

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Join us as we kick off with the Red Ribbon Refresher, a mocktail recipe that's perfect for anyone not wanting to wake up with a hangover. Our conversation flows through the quirks of communication and social media, peppered with the joy of sisterhood and the ongoing saga of allergies. TikTok, you're next on our exploration list, and we might just need some help keeping up with the trends! Reality TV aficionados, this one's for you. We express a longing for the glamorous days of reality TV's past and brainstorm fresh concepts that could shake up today's scene. From the working women series to influencer content battles, we offer a playful peek into potential new shows, speculating on celebrity participants like Britney Renner. With casting secrets and show premises that leave jaws dropping, the discussion meanders through the behind-the-scenes chaos, painting a vivid picture of the reality TV world that’s rarely seen by the public eye. Navigating the minefield of modern relationships? We've got insights ranging from dating in your twenties to the delicate dance of maintaining friendships with children when adult relationships falter. Whether it's the expectations of stay-at-home partnerships, the allure and pitfalls of social media romance, or the ethical dilemmas within prison romances, our reflections are both humorous and heartfelt. Tune in for a thoughtful exploration that encourages intentionality and self-discovery, all wrapped up in engaging storytelling and genuine camaraderie. Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Try Soaking Wet! Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the host and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Cocktales With Kiki Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on Cocktales? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

## Transcript

[0:02] Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
[0:03] Speaker 2: Check one two, check one two.
[0:04] Speaker 3: Is this Mike On?
[0:05] Speaker 2: Is this Mike On?
[0:06] Speaker 1: Hey?
[0:06] Speaker 4: Listen man, it's the one and only trunks that a
[0:08] Speaker 4: DJ SYSM and you're listening to Cocktails Dirty Discussions with
[0:12] Speaker 4: Kikia Medina Monroe. Here.
[0:19] Speaker 2: Today's cocktail is called the Red Ribbon Refresher, And so
[0:23] Speaker 2: for this cocktail, it's actually a mocktail, but you can
[0:26] Speaker 2: add any spirit of your choice to turn it up
[0:29] Speaker 2: a notch. So what you're gonna need is some ice,
[0:30] Speaker 2: and you can go ahead and fill your cup up
[0:32] Speaker 2: with ice. You'll need about half a cup of pomegranate juice,
[0:35] Speaker 2: half a cup of fresh lemon juice. We're gonna pretend
[0:38] Speaker 2: that this is fresh. I got it from sprouts and
[0:40] Speaker 2: it says organic. That should count for something, and then
[0:42] Speaker 2: some ginger beer. So what we're going to do is
[0:45] Speaker 2: add in the pomegranate juice, just gonna eyeball it, palm juice,
[0:57] Speaker 2: the lemon juice, had a little bit more, and then
[1:06] Speaker 2: we're gonna top it off with the ginger beer. I
[1:13] Speaker 2: forgot my spoon, so we're gonna pretend that I stirred
[1:15] Speaker 2: this up. But you'll just stir it up and then
[1:18] Speaker 2: if you're feeling fancy, you can garnish it with a
[1:20] Speaker 2: mint sprig and that is a cute little mocktail. The
[1:23] Speaker 2: red ribbon refresher. Enjoy. Welcome back to cocktails. Jerry discussions
[1:30] Speaker 2: you guys. I am Kiki said.
[1:32] Speaker 3: So, and I'm the DNA Monroe and I've.
[1:35] Speaker 2: Got the sniffles as usual.
[1:37] Speaker 3: Is this you're getting sick or are you feeling it's allergies.
[1:40] Speaker 2: I spent a lot of time outside this week every day,
[1:43] Speaker 2: and I had gotten back into my routine of my
[1:45] Speaker 2: zotech and I fell off the bandwagon on Tuesday, so
[1:50] Speaker 2: I'm feeling it. I've been trying to go outside more
[1:52] Speaker 2: with Whitley. I'm like, let's take advantage of it not
[1:56] Speaker 2: being freezing cold, at least in the middle of the day.
[1:58] Speaker 2: It's cold still in the morning.
[2:00] Speaker 3: To me, it'd be cold, but I am like it
[2:01] Speaker 3: should be way colder than that it should.
[2:03] Speaker 2: So I'm like, Okay, we're gonna spend a little bit
[2:05] Speaker 2: more time outside, but maybe it's too much for me.
[2:07] Speaker 2: I need to dial back. I need to be wearing
[2:09] Speaker 2: a mask because you used to be able to go
[2:12] Speaker 2: everywhere and just see masks right there, at the register
[2:15] Speaker 2: everywhere you go. And now I just need to order
[2:16] Speaker 2: them on Amazon so they'll be at my mailbox because
[2:20] Speaker 2: I keep forgetting to get some. That's what the doctor told.
[2:22] Speaker 3: Me to do. Get a mask, wear a mask.
[2:24] Speaker 2: Or hire a dog walker.
[2:25] Speaker 4: I'm really proud of I love that we're both saying mask, right.
[2:29] Speaker 4: I don't like when people say.
[2:30] Speaker 3: Masks, Say what masks? Mask? Like nok no that they
[2:35] Speaker 3: don't say the k, they just say masks.
[2:36] Speaker 1: You know.
[2:36] Speaker 2: If he works to me Max like m a ks,
[2:41] Speaker 2: Max's Max, it's just like you're flipping it. Are you dyslexic?
[2:45] Speaker 2: You gotta work that out.
[2:46] Speaker 4: But the mask one really makes me there's there's masks,
[2:49] Speaker 4: there's Christ.
[2:51] Speaker 3: It's a tea a thing. Why you just drop the
[2:54] Speaker 3: whole Christ?
[2:55] Speaker 2: They're from Atlanta. I feel like say they don't like teas,
[3:00] Speaker 2: because they'd be saying Atlanta.
[3:01] Speaker 4: Have you ever seen the video of the man be
[3:03] Speaker 4: like where is your mask? And he just keep saying, oh, yes,
[3:06] Speaker 4: I know he's talking about Andrew callwell, where is your mask?
[3:10] Speaker 2: Were your mask? We're your mask?
[3:13] Speaker 3: Yeah?
[3:13] Speaker 2: And he's always talking about he puts on his stepdaddy's
[3:16] Speaker 2: voice to talk to North because he loves Kim.
[3:19] Speaker 3: He's in those caves.
[3:21] Speaker 2: He don't be saying those caves. But he's gonna save
[3:23] Speaker 2: some SSEs and he's gonna throw some extrasses on everything.
[3:26] Speaker 2: Mass mass were were we where? Where? Where?
[3:33] Speaker 3: Where? I really like when things are pronounced right.
[3:38] Speaker 2: I just sometimes. I was reading a screenshot of someone's
[3:43] Speaker 2: text message rap the other day and I was just like,
[3:47] Speaker 2: I cannot understand because first I'm reading it because it
[3:51] Speaker 2: looked like English, but I'm like, these words don't go here.
[3:54] Speaker 2: So then I was like, oh, maybe they are. This
[3:57] Speaker 2: is how they speak, so let me like and I
[3:59] Speaker 2: did it out loud to see if it would be different,
[4:02] Speaker 2: and I was on FaceTime with my sister and she
[4:04] Speaker 2: was just like this is funny because like, girl, what
[4:07] Speaker 2: And I said, I don't know. Can you just cipher this?
[4:09] Speaker 2: She was like me, neither, And we were really trying
[4:11] Speaker 2: to figure out. And I mean the end of the
[4:12] Speaker 2: story is we still don't know what they was trying
[4:14] Speaker 2: to say. But people the way that they spell things
[4:18] Speaker 2: or put sentences together or pronounce words, sometimes it just
[4:23] Speaker 2: really leaves me in a state of confusion, and I'm
[4:26] Speaker 2: just wondering, like punctuation matters. You don't have to use
[4:28] Speaker 2: it all the time if it's casual convo. But there
[4:31] Speaker 2: is no reason that there should be a full iPhone
[4:34] Speaker 2: screen of text with no punctuation, because then a sentence
[4:39] Speaker 2: could go a lot of different ways. So we were
[4:41] Speaker 2: trying to figure out which way does this go?
[4:44] Speaker 3: Don't you love having a sister?
[4:46] Speaker 2: I do?
[4:46] Speaker 4: I have several I love having a sister. I'd be
[4:49] Speaker 4: on the phone with my sister all day long, sometimes.
[4:53] Speaker 3: Not long, but like throughout the day. It'll just be
[4:55] Speaker 3: a quick call, like did you know this? Okay?
[4:57] Speaker 2: Bye went away? Here In the morning, I to check
[5:00] Speaker 2: our thread on Instagram to see what she sent me
[5:03] Speaker 2: because she will get up really early in the morning.
[5:05] Speaker 2: So if she doesn't do it late night when she
[5:07] Speaker 2: can't sleep and it's trying to fall asleep, I know
[5:09] Speaker 2: by the time I get up, I'm gonna have so
[5:10] Speaker 2: many funny videos. She's always sending me stuff, and then
[5:15] Speaker 2: I like to send her stuff. She went off on
[5:16] Speaker 2: me because I don't be looking at TikTok and she's like,
[5:18] Speaker 2: you need to check it. It's so many ways for
[5:21] Speaker 2: people to call me, beat me if they want to
[5:23] Speaker 2: reach me. And it gets overwhelming. I check a few
[5:25] Speaker 2: and I'm like, I'm closing it, or I see someone
[5:27] Speaker 2: on like closing it. But yes, I do love having
[5:30] Speaker 2: a sister or having several. I was when we got here,
[5:34] Speaker 2: I was catching up with Madison and I was on
[5:38] Speaker 2: the phone with my mom and I was like, oh,
[5:40] Speaker 2: Madison's calling me. She never calls by and we have
[5:43] Speaker 2: a good long chat. I mean, I didn't want to
[5:45] Speaker 2: miss the call. She's a busy girl and now she's
[5:48] Speaker 2: getting married off. I just gotta spend my time. And
[5:52] Speaker 2: I like me in the oldest. Do you like me
[5:53] Speaker 2: and the baby?
[5:54] Speaker 4: Sometimes I do until some of being the baby issues
[5:59] Speaker 4: show up in my life.
[6:02] Speaker 2: Like outside of yours, outside.
[6:04] Speaker 3: Of just being the baby sibling.
[6:06] Speaker 4: Like I just feel like ranking matters a lot, just
[6:09] Speaker 4: in life and how you kind of live.
[6:12] Speaker 3: And the oldest.
[6:13] Speaker 4: I've always said this, the oldest always gets the better
[6:16] Speaker 4: parts of the parents, you think, so I.
[6:19] Speaker 2: Feel like the babies do.
[6:20] Speaker 4: They were preparing for you, they were excited for you.
[6:24] Speaker 4: They are wanting to do all of the things right
[6:27] Speaker 4: for you. They're like reading the books. Oh don't just
[6:30] Speaker 4: let anybody watch or no, you can't hold or wash
[6:32] Speaker 4: your hands. And then by the time the baby comes,
[6:34] Speaker 4: it's like, somebody take the child and we don't and
[6:36] Speaker 4: we don't care what you do. Go ahead, get on out.
[6:39] Speaker 4: I think it's totally different with.
[6:41] Speaker 2: My experience is a little different. But that baby staff, Yeah,
[6:45] Speaker 2: I'm like, y'all are so lax. This is what is happening.
[6:49] Speaker 2: And then I feel like, well, somebody needs to be
[6:51] Speaker 2: a mama today and it's gonna be me. Me and
[6:56] Speaker 2: Mallory re tag team. We have a great co parenting
[7:00] Speaker 2: relationship going on amongst the siblings.
[7:02] Speaker 3: I love it.
[7:02] Speaker 2: Yeah, I like it, And I like being the oldest grandchild.
[7:05] Speaker 2: I really enjoy being the oldest.
[7:07] Speaker 3: I like it the oldest normally does enjoy being the oldest.
[7:09] Speaker 3: It's like the family.
[7:12] Speaker 2: Yeah, and have you seen those memes where it's like,
[7:15] Speaker 2: I think it's Courtney Kardashian's voice and she was like,
[7:17] Speaker 2: none of you would even be here if it wasn't
[7:20] Speaker 2: for me. I practically started this whole family. That's how
[7:23] Speaker 2: I be feeling.
[7:24] Speaker 3: Do you still watch the Kardashians. I haven't watched it
[7:26] Speaker 3: in such a long time. No.
[7:28] Speaker 2: I did watch a few episodes, maybe even just a few,
[7:33] Speaker 2: Like I turned it on and I saw some of
[7:35] Speaker 2: it when they went over to Hulu. It's different. I like,
[7:38] Speaker 2: I've seen.
[7:39] Speaker 3: Some of them, but I haven't used to watch I
[7:42] Speaker 3: watch it anymore.
[7:43] Speaker 2: I've fallen off from a lot of TV shows, some
[7:47] Speaker 2: of some of it's because of time, and then others
[7:50] Speaker 2: just like this is not interesting. And right now I'm
[7:52] Speaker 2: so sad because I'm falling off from all of my Housewives,
[7:55] Speaker 2: and you know, I just don't like it anymore. It's
[7:57] Speaker 2: just like this is boring and I miss them. I
[8:01] Speaker 2: miss the beginning era of Housewives and even some of
[8:04] Speaker 2: the middle but especially in the beginning. What I loved
[8:06] Speaker 2: about it was watching these bitches just go out and
[8:10] Speaker 2: have these rich bitch lifestyles. They're showing, oh she has
[8:13] Speaker 2: a driver. They pay this person sixty five thousand dollars
[8:17] Speaker 2: a year, Big Papa just bought a Catly, I didn't
[8:19] Speaker 2: care if it was really free. It was just fun
[8:22] Speaker 2: to watch girls go out not have to work, not
[8:25] Speaker 2: be trying to get to it, and just like do
[8:28] Speaker 2: things that I could not do.
[8:29] Speaker 3: What they'd be doing now, fighting.
[8:33] Speaker 2: Or just like the drama feels so manufactured and it's
[8:36] Speaker 2: just like so much drama. I don't mind the drama.
[8:38] Speaker 2: That's TV, you know, but I want you to do
[8:41] Speaker 2: fun stuff too, Like y'all can never just do rich
[8:43] Speaker 2: girl stuff. This is just looking like real life. What
[8:46] Speaker 2: do I want to do?
[8:47] Speaker 4: That a opposite version of Housewives? Since I don't know,
[8:50] Speaker 4: I haven't watched it for everybody, I've heard a lot
[8:52] Speaker 4: of people say it's getting boring. Could you imagine if
[8:54] Speaker 4: they did, like a what's the opposite of a housewife?
[8:56] Speaker 3: Working wife?
[8:58] Speaker 2: Well, that's what they really all are, because they to
[9:00] Speaker 2: work and half of them don't have husbands.
[9:02] Speaker 3: But yeah, okay, so it's not like it's not just
[9:05] Speaker 3: like a regular girl, Like.
[9:06] Speaker 2: Just take a regular show.
[9:08] Speaker 4: Well, go ahead, take the regular Take a regular girl.
[9:11] Speaker 4: Maybe and maybe one's a nurse, maybe one's a They
[9:14] Speaker 4: just a regular and they still have to go to work,
[9:18] Speaker 4: come home from work. Maybe you have kids, maybe don't,
[9:19] Speaker 4: maybe have a husband, maybe you don't, you have your friends,
[9:22] Speaker 4: and like, they show that side of life.
[9:27] Speaker 3: And see what it's like.
[9:28] Speaker 2: They probably not gonna feel like And by the time
[9:30] Speaker 2: I get off work from flipping these big old people
[9:32] Speaker 2: over at the hospital because I'm a nurse working twelve hours.
[9:36] Speaker 3: I got a great confessional. I would love to hear it.
[9:38] Speaker 2: It's just gonna be confessionals and I'll be like, y'all
[9:40] Speaker 2: need to get the fuck up out of my house.
[9:41] Speaker 2: I'm tired. I work forty eight hours this week and
[9:44] Speaker 2: it's Tuesday. I think that would be I would watch
[9:47] Speaker 2: it and then they be like, what, yeah, I think
[9:51] Speaker 2: they would be too tired to show up to work
[9:53] Speaker 2: and how much are you paying me?
[9:55] Speaker 4: And they take and they go to work with them.
[9:57] Speaker 4: The cameras go to work with them.
[9:59] Speaker 2: Now, how that's go work at the hospital.
[10:01] Speaker 4: Maybe it's not a nurse. I just threw that out,
[10:02] Speaker 4: and maybe you do something else. Maybe you're a lash tech.
[10:04] Speaker 4: I don't know, but just the regular girl's side where
[10:07] Speaker 4: it's not so like okay, like okay housewife women.
[10:11] Speaker 2: Well, that's what I enjoy about watching bogs do watch
[10:13] Speaker 2: a lot of blogs. I guess it's kind of like that.
[10:15] Speaker 2: But if they would bring multiple people together.
[10:18] Speaker 4: Or maybe they do a reality show where they get
[10:20] Speaker 4: I would I maybe would watch this. They get all
[10:22] Speaker 4: of the top influencers or YouTube girlies and they put
[10:26] Speaker 4: them on a house and one camera and everybody whoever
[10:28] Speaker 4: wakes up the earliest grabs the camera and tries to
[10:30] Speaker 4: get their content done, and they're like, yeah, it's like
[10:35] Speaker 4: you see who can out content?
[10:36] Speaker 3: The other one I would actually love to watch that.
[10:39] Speaker 2: Maybe you should package that up and pitch it. You
[10:42] Speaker 2: might have an idea in your hand. I hear about
[10:45] Speaker 2: a lot of reality shows and I heard of that one.
[10:47] Speaker 3: Yet what good?
[10:48] Speaker 2: Maybe we need to bleep this out. We might need
[10:50] Speaker 2: to out would you watch it?
[10:53] Speaker 3: Don't?
[10:53] Speaker 2: The only idea is stamped on the internet. She said it.
[10:56] Speaker 2: First they get to write and.
[10:58] Speaker 4: Every week they come in and drop some bread and
[11:00] Speaker 4: you get it. You better grab one girl.
[11:03] Speaker 2: And then what if they had like some shitty brands
[11:05] Speaker 2: or like brands that are canceled and the last person.
[11:09] Speaker 4: But if you know how to do it, you know
[11:11] Speaker 4: how you can maybe make something shake that you got
[11:14] Speaker 4: Walmart war.
[11:15] Speaker 2: Or maybe start crying and you quit what's.
[11:18] Speaker 3: The somebody quit cash price?
[11:21] Speaker 4: There's like, yeah, you get like a huge brand deal
[11:23] Speaker 4: with some major brand.
[11:26] Speaker 2: Get like three million dollars deal with I don't.
[11:29] Speaker 4: Know, and your own inhow what influencers would you put
[11:33] Speaker 4: in there. I'm definitely putting Britney Renner. I'm putting her
[11:35] Speaker 4: in there, just so we need some dramatics.
[11:38] Speaker 2: Is she still Muslim? This week?
[11:40] Speaker 3: I think was she really Muslim? Was she just doing
[11:42] Speaker 3: a fashion Ova campaign?
[11:44] Speaker 2: She was she was steal in Fashion Nova ambassador and
[11:47] Speaker 2: was trying to like make it happen because she was
[11:49] Speaker 2: saying that she was going on the modest journey. I
[11:51] Speaker 2: don't believe shit that girl says. Honestly, I don't know.
[11:53] Speaker 2: I think it was just like, Okay, we're gonna try
[11:56] Speaker 2: something new because I was acting all coked out and
[11:59] Speaker 2: crazy the last time y'all saw me doing that interview
[12:02] Speaker 2: with Charleston White and I'm like going crazy. So now
[12:05] Speaker 2: I've got to like go on the other end to
[12:07] Speaker 2: keep you guys interested. That's what it was given to me.
[12:09] Speaker 2: But I don't know. I don't know that lady. Which
[12:11] Speaker 2: influencers were I put in the house?
[12:14] Speaker 3: Brown, I just need to do that.
[12:15] Speaker 2: That's the one with Cam Newton. She need to stay home.
[12:18] Speaker 2: She just had that baby.
[12:19] Speaker 3: She needs to be on the show.
[12:20] Speaker 2: Okay, cauld she bring a little baby. That would add
[12:23] Speaker 2: another layer because she needs a room to herself with
[12:26] Speaker 2: a lot.
[12:26] Speaker 4: Jackie Anna, she needs to be in there. She's probably
[12:29] Speaker 4: gonna win, but you never know.
[12:30] Speaker 2: I don't think she would come. Hell no, I'm not
[12:32] Speaker 2: living in here with these bitches in their nosy. She
[12:36] Speaker 2: would be I would imagine her to be in the
[12:38] Speaker 2: y'all can come to my house. It's better anyway.
[12:39] Speaker 3: We need to put a white influencer in there too.
[12:41] Speaker 2: Well beats me. I don't really ill.
[12:47] Speaker 3: So I at a show and like you, I'm.
[12:51] Speaker 2: Trying to think the girls that I like, the influencers
[12:56] Speaker 2: that I really like and stuff. A lot of them
[12:59] Speaker 2: are bloggers, like the YouTube girls, but I feel like
[13:03] Speaker 2: they would be like, I'm not doing it because they're
[13:07] Speaker 2: not gonna want to do the drama, and I don't
[13:08] Speaker 2: want them on there doing the drama.
[13:10] Speaker 3: I want to just say, Okay, maybe there's no drama,
[13:12] Speaker 3: but there is.
[13:12] Speaker 2: Just it's gotta be drama for TV. You gotta do it,
[13:14] Speaker 2: but somebody's gonna do it. I'm just thinking about the
[13:16] Speaker 2: ones that I personally like. It's just like it's very
[13:18] Speaker 2: laid back.
[13:19] Speaker 3: But not the one like you get one hundred million
[13:21] Speaker 3: dollar brand deal with.
[13:22] Speaker 2: Something a hundred million dollars. Wait a minute, medea.
[13:25] Speaker 3: Let's just say somebody going.
[13:27] Speaker 2: We need to bring it down. Let's say five, five,
[13:30] Speaker 2: fifty Medina fifty million dollar.
[13:34] Speaker 3: Let's say twenty.
[13:34] Speaker 2: Medina who's getting twenty million dollars?
[13:37] Speaker 3: Call you daddy girls.
[13:38] Speaker 2: That's not a brand deal. And it's one girl who
[13:41] Speaker 2: got one hundred and twenty million, but she has a part,
[13:43] Speaker 2: So that's that's different. But that's different because when when
[13:46] Speaker 2: you're saying brand deals, I'm thinking, like, you have a
[13:49] Speaker 2: brand deal with I don't know.
[13:51] Speaker 3: Maybe it's a package.
[13:53] Speaker 4: Maybe it's a package that equals up to that equals
[13:55] Speaker 4: up to fifty. So it's not just one brand, you
[13:57] Speaker 4: get several.
[13:59] Speaker 2: I mean, it's sure. Yeah, well let me stop on
[14:01] Speaker 2: your show. Okay, So who else you gonna put on there?
[14:03] Speaker 3: I don't know.
[14:04] Speaker 2: Do you think you would? You need to get some
[14:06] Speaker 2: young young.
[14:06] Speaker 4: Girls and some newbies so that are hungry, don't nobody
[14:09] Speaker 4: know who they are, and this could make them.
[14:11] Speaker 2: Pop for the newbies. Do you think that when you
[14:15] Speaker 2: go through your casting process you would say what it is?
[14:19] Speaker 2: Or would you do one of those castings where it's
[14:21] Speaker 2: like they think they're about to do one kind of
[14:22] Speaker 2: show and it's a totally different thing.
[14:24] Speaker 3: I would definitely say what it is?
[14:26] Speaker 2: Oh you would, Yeah, I would trick them, but like,
[14:29] Speaker 2: something's still in line. But I wouldn't want them to
[14:31] Speaker 2: know that this is what it is, because I want
[14:34] Speaker 2: you to be thirsty for something less. So you really
[14:36] Speaker 2: turn up the thirst when you find out what happens
[14:38] Speaker 2: when you get to the house. Did you ever watch
[14:40] Speaker 2: Joe Millionaire?
[14:41] Speaker 3: No?
[14:41] Speaker 2: Okay, So that came on when we were like in
[14:43] Speaker 2: high school or junior high and the premise of the
[14:44] Speaker 2: show was.
[14:45] Speaker 3: It sounds familiar.
[14:47] Speaker 2: So the premise of the show was they take a
[14:49] Speaker 2: regular Joe. His name wasn't Joe, but they take a
[14:50] Speaker 2: regular Joe. He was like a construction worker or something,
[14:53] Speaker 2: and they send all of these women who are going
[14:56] Speaker 2: on this dating show with a guy and they really rich,
[14:59] Speaker 2: but he's not. They just make it seem like it.
[15:01] Speaker 2: So the show is called Joe Millionaire. They didn't know.
[15:04] Speaker 2: I was watching The Truth behind Reality TV, and every
[15:08] Speaker 2: episode is about different shows, and so there was one
[15:11] Speaker 2: about that, and they didn't know that they were going
[15:13] Speaker 2: on the show and that the premise was really, we're
[15:16] Speaker 2: taking a bunch of women and they're all really thirsty
[15:19] Speaker 2: for this man's attention because he's rich. They thought they
[15:21] Speaker 2: were going on a typical dating show and it wasn't
[15:23] Speaker 2: about him being rich. And they got there and they
[15:24] Speaker 2: were surprised the show when it came out. They it
[15:28] Speaker 2: had a different title and everything when it was announced.
[15:30] Speaker 2: They didn't even know that the show was coming out
[15:33] Speaker 2: and that it had a new name. They hadn't told them.
[15:35] Speaker 2: It was all kind of janki stuff going on. Did
[15:37] Speaker 2: you ever watch this other one? It was called kids something?
[15:39] Speaker 2: This is on this series. The series is on Fice
[15:41] Speaker 2: and it's available somewhere online like Prime, Apple TV and
[15:45] Speaker 2: some other places. But there were kids Did you ever
[15:48] Speaker 2: read Lord of the Flies? Okay, so imagine that a
[15:52] Speaker 2: reality TV form. They take these kids away from their parents,
[15:56] Speaker 2: ages like eight to fourteen or thirteen or like that,
[15:59] Speaker 2: and they go to New Mexico and they're in like
[16:03] Speaker 2: I forget the name of the town, but they're in
[16:04] Speaker 2: this town and it just looks like the wild, wild West,
[16:06] Speaker 2: and they have to build a society. So the way
[16:09] Speaker 2: they sell it to the parents is that they're going
[16:12] Speaker 2: to be kind of like an intensive summer camp where
[16:15] Speaker 2: they're going to be learning all of these different life
[16:18] Speaker 2: skills and leadership skills and how to work together and
[16:21] Speaker 2: working with different groups, and they knew that there was
[16:23] Speaker 2: a wide age range and all this stuff. So this
[16:26] Speaker 2: is way back when it's like two thousand and five,
[16:28] Speaker 2: I want to say. So the parents are signing these
[16:32] Speaker 2: contracts reality TV then what it isn't wasn't what it
[16:37] Speaker 2: is today. They were not looking it over thoroughly, and
[16:42] Speaker 2: so they ended up being in New Mexico and there
[16:45] Speaker 2: were like all of these clauses in there that were
[16:48] Speaker 2: unheard of, especially because your cast is children and they
[16:52] Speaker 2: weren't in like sanitary conditions. And so at the end,
[16:55] Speaker 2: the parents come and they see how their kids have
[16:58] Speaker 2: been living and who would do this to theirs?
[17:03] Speaker 3: I'm talking about the parents, you know.
[17:05] Speaker 4: Way my mom would be like, I'm gonna go put
[17:06] Speaker 4: you on the show and they're taking you to New Mexico.
[17:09] Speaker 2: What. Yeah, So all these different parents, all these different kids,
[17:14] Speaker 2: and they just go into detail about the manufactured drama
[17:17] Speaker 2: and I was like, that is really crazy. There were
[17:20] Speaker 2: siblings on there. It was on their grind and stuff.
[17:22] Speaker 2: They're fighting. There was something about if the kids get
[17:25] Speaker 2: SGDs or pregnant, and I was just like, how do
[17:28] Speaker 2: you how do you not look something over thoroughly for
[17:31] Speaker 2: your kid. That was wild to me, But I was
[17:33] Speaker 2: enjoying all them shows, not the shows, but that show.
[17:37] Speaker 4: When I did Temptation Island, it was a it was
[17:41] Speaker 4: the behind the scenes stuff, that's the real show, Like
[17:43] Speaker 4: that should actually be the show, like they were they
[17:46] Speaker 4: have like medics on the scene, and like we were
[17:49] Speaker 4: trying to figure out, like why are some people everybody
[17:52] Speaker 4: taking all these blue pills?
[17:53] Speaker 3: Like what's going on?
[17:54] Speaker 2: Like the men's blue pills?
[17:56] Speaker 3: No, like herpes blue.
[17:58] Speaker 2: Pills, but I didn't even know Herbie's bills was blue.
[18:03] Speaker 4: We were like, why some people taking Why if some
[18:05] Speaker 4: people like to cut and go and leave and take
[18:06] Speaker 4: these little blue We were trying to be nosy and
[18:09] Speaker 4: as you should, and it was like obviously the medic's
[18:12] Speaker 4: not going to be like hey, but it was how'd
[18:15] Speaker 4: you find out what they were? I just started being
[18:18] Speaker 4: nosy and asking some of the camera people and like
[18:22] Speaker 4: just asking, and then it was like it came I
[18:23] Speaker 4: was like, Okay, behind the scenes is absolutely wild.
[18:30] Speaker 3: Like I was just like I don't know why y'all
[18:31] Speaker 3: don't this would be on.
[18:33] Speaker 2: HBO because the losses would be out the ass and
[18:36] Speaker 2: people would be up in an uproar and then they're
[18:38] Speaker 2: not gonna be brand safe for the advertisements that need
[18:42] Speaker 2: to run on commercial break. That's why. But that's why
[18:45] Speaker 2: it shows like the one I was watching when the
[18:47] Speaker 2: NBA's expire and all those things. This show two yeah,
[18:51] Speaker 2: and they start talking, it's a wild time.
[18:54] Speaker 3: It's a wild time. Do you think you'd ever do
[18:56] Speaker 3: reality TV?
[18:58] Speaker 2: I would if it was a show like a like
[19:00] Speaker 2: an ensemble cast, like a house web type show or
[19:03] Speaker 2: something like that, or a show with my family, that
[19:07] Speaker 2: would be ideal, but I already know everybody wouldn't want
[19:10] Speaker 2: to participate, so I'd have to get to extend the family.
[19:15] Speaker 4: My family's always like we should have a show, and
[19:17] Speaker 4: I'm like, if we really had a show, would You'll
[19:20] Speaker 4: be like, are you gonna sart acting funny when the
[19:22] Speaker 4: cameras come around? Like would you would you let all
[19:24] Speaker 4: this be shown? Because this is what has to be shown,
[19:26] Speaker 4: this part this has.
[19:27] Speaker 2: To be shown, And then the internet is talking about it.
[19:31] Speaker 2: I know I would do it.
[19:33] Speaker 3: I could do it.
[19:33] Speaker 2: I know you would, but I could imagine how some
[19:36] Speaker 2: people would not. And I already know because we have
[19:40] Speaker 2: intense discussions about I mean, we even talk about game
[19:42] Speaker 2: shows and who's gonna make the cut and who's not.
[19:45] Speaker 2: You only have so many people, But that's a different
[19:48] Speaker 2: reason to get it would be.
[19:49] Speaker 4: Fun to do a practice round, like just hire a
[19:51] Speaker 4: camera crew and just say y'all were gonna try it
[19:52] Speaker 4: for a week.
[19:53] Speaker 2: If I won the lottery, I said I would do that.
[19:55] Speaker 4: I would definitely do it, yeah, and just be like, Okay,
[19:57] Speaker 4: everybody don't.
[19:57] Speaker 3: But I just know everybody would be. My dad would
[19:59] Speaker 3: be saying, I'm like, Dad, this is don't act.
[20:03] Speaker 2: I think my stepdad and mom would steal the show.
[20:07] Speaker 2: Them together would be so funny. They're really funny. And
[20:12] Speaker 2: then Madison probably would not participate. It's like, yeah, no,
[20:19] Speaker 2: she would be that one. And Joseph, like I hate
[20:23] Speaker 2: to say he'd be like Rob, but he would just
[20:25] Speaker 2: probably be like Rob, like yeah, and then it'll be
[20:28] Speaker 2: it'll be the kids. And I just don't know what
[20:30] Speaker 2: kind of show that would be because I don't think
[20:32] Speaker 2: we all need to be mixed up like that. Is
[20:33] Speaker 2: it for kids or is it for grown folks? I
[20:35] Speaker 2: don't know. I was gonna say something about game shows.
[20:39] Speaker 2: Have you seen the ad there's a place coming here,
[20:41] Speaker 2: but there's one in Dallas. Well, it's Farmer's Branch. But
[20:45] Speaker 2: you go and it's like a game show, but you
[20:48] Speaker 2: go with a group, So you could go with your
[20:50] Speaker 2: family and they have like primetime games and then they
[20:53] Speaker 2: have the other games, and it's coming to Dunwoodie this year.
[20:57] Speaker 2: I think I'll have to find it and send it
[20:59] Speaker 2: to you guys. But you go and it's like thirty
[21:02] Speaker 2: something dollars a person. You gotta have a minimum number
[21:04] Speaker 2: of people. Minimum is eight and then max of whatever
[21:07] Speaker 2: you deserve your spot, and you get to play three
[21:10] Speaker 2: different games. So there's like a family Feud style game.
[21:12] Speaker 2: There's a Prices Right style game, and another game, and
[21:15] Speaker 2: then the primetime shows. There's still the family Feud style game.
[21:17] Speaker 2: But then they have like somewhere you have to do
[21:19] Speaker 2: stuff like it's not trivia type of things. But you
[21:24] Speaker 2: go and you play and it's like you're on a
[21:25] Speaker 2: game show. You have to wear the little name tag.
[21:28] Speaker 2: They have all the lights and all this stuff and
[21:30] Speaker 2: it's a really big place. I gotta find it. But
[21:32] Speaker 2: I asked my family if they wanted to do it.
[21:34] Speaker 2: They said, we can't do it when I come this
[21:36] Speaker 2: weekend because the time didn't work. But we're gonna do
[21:38] Speaker 2: it for Christmas.
[21:39] Speaker 3: That's fun.
[21:39] Speaker 2: I am so excited. I'm like, who thought of this?
[21:42] Speaker 2: As much as I've been wanting to go on a
[21:43] Speaker 2: game show. I mean, I don't have the money to
[21:45] Speaker 2: open one of these places going the streets, but I'm excited.
[21:47] Speaker 2: But they're opening one in Dunwoodie and they have them
[21:50] Speaker 2: other places too. Let me find it.
[21:52] Speaker 3: Heard of it?
[21:53] Speaker 4: But a few years ago I was this close to
[21:55] Speaker 4: getting on this what's that singing game show with at
[21:57] Speaker 4: Jamie Foxx House?
[21:58] Speaker 2: Oh, I know it's talking about I don't know what
[22:00] Speaker 2: it's called Shazam.
[22:01] Speaker 4: And I made it to the unto the last round,
[22:03] Speaker 4: uh huh. And they didn't pick me though they didn't,
[22:07] Speaker 4: you know. It was the audition part was just fun.
[22:09] Speaker 4: They played the song, I guess the songs and there's
[22:12] Speaker 4: a a whole different genres of songs. And me and
[22:16] Speaker 4: my brother's ex we're gonna do it together because she's
[22:18] Speaker 4: really good member Margo, she's really good with music too,
[22:21] Speaker 4: and so you need somebody.
[22:22] Speaker 3: Who's like good. Yeah, and we almost made it.
[22:25] Speaker 2: But then would you try again?
[22:27] Speaker 3: I would definitely try against.
[22:29] Speaker 2: That's a cool show.
[22:30] Speaker 3: That's a cool show.
[22:31] Speaker 2: The place is called for anybody listening, It's called game
[22:34] Speaker 2: show battle Rooms. They have one here well coming soon
[22:38] Speaker 2: and done Wood either they have one Charlotte, Chicago, Cincinnati, Columbus, Dallas, Denver, Houston, Indianapolis.
[22:44] Speaker 2: It was everywhere, Kansas City, Milwaukee, Minneapolis, Phoenix. It got
[22:47] Speaker 2: two locations and Saint Louis and then they go on
[22:51] Speaker 2: the road.
[22:52] Speaker 3: Huh.
[22:52] Speaker 2: I'm gonna go to the road show where theyre going. Yeah,
[22:55] Speaker 2: I don't know eight people. I don't know who would be,
[22:58] Speaker 2: who I would bring m I'll have to think on that,
[23:01] Speaker 2: but I definitely want to do it. I'm excited. I
[23:02] Speaker 2: can't wait to Christmas.
[23:04] Speaker 3: That sounds like fun.
[23:04] Speaker 2: What are you doing for Christmas?
[23:06] Speaker 3: I'm going to Oklahoma? Okay, Oklahoma?
[23:09] Speaker 4: Yeah, I think we're doing in Oklahoma since she since
[23:11] Speaker 4: Mac has the little kids, We're gonna go to Oklahoma
[23:15] Speaker 4: and cold.
[23:16] Speaker 2: During that time of year in Oaka's never been to Oklahoma.
[23:19] Speaker 4: In Oklahoma, it is may be in real snow, oh
[23:22] Speaker 4: like real snow like I'll be like, Okay, I don't
[23:24] Speaker 4: want to go outside.
[23:26] Speaker 2: Okay, where are my slippers?
[23:30] Speaker 3: Where is your mask?
[23:32] Speaker 2: Okay?
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[27:04] Speaker 2: You said a man is not a necessity. A man
[27:07] Speaker 2: is a luxury like dessert. Yeah, a man is absolutely
[27:12] Speaker 2: not necessity. Did you mean that to sound meaning bitter?
[27:16] Speaker 3: Oh not at all.
[27:18] Speaker 2: I adore dessert. I love man, and I think men
[27:21] Speaker 2: are the coolest, but you don't really need them to live.
[27:28] Speaker 2: So this particular article, it says twenty one sexual fetishes
[27:32] Speaker 2: and kings you've never heard of before? Why is the
[27:34] Speaker 2: very first one bondage? What hold did these people crawl
[27:38] Speaker 2: out of? So I will just say, you know, in
[27:40] Speaker 2: some parts of the world, people really don't be living
[27:43] Speaker 2: and they ain't never heard of nothing, Because how is
[27:45] Speaker 2: bondage something that anybody's never heard of? Fifty Shades of
[27:48] Speaker 2: Gray was such a major there was thing that's odd.
[27:51] Speaker 4: I really thought they were going to make Christian Gray
[27:53] Speaker 4: look totally different than what they had.
[27:55] Speaker 2: Yeah, I fell asleep on the movie. I mean I
[27:59] Speaker 2: didn't read the book, but I've been hearing so much.
[28:01] Speaker 2: I'm just like, these housewives are deprived because this is
[28:05] Speaker 2: what's getting you going. And then the movie. I mean,
[28:08] Speaker 2: I think the movie did well, right.
[28:10] Speaker 4: I think the movie did really well, Like that whole
[28:11] Speaker 4: brand does really well. I just not I always wonder
[28:14] Speaker 4: like does that has that type of thing really happened
[28:17] Speaker 4: to someone where you really just meet this I mean,
[28:20] Speaker 4: crazy rich millionaire man. He has a helicopter, he has
[28:24] Speaker 4: a boat, he owns the whole block. He gets you,
[28:28] Speaker 4: I mean like and it's just and he's also not
[28:31] Speaker 4: right and he really likes you, and he's not crazy.
[28:33] Speaker 4: He's not going upside your head unless y'all are doing
[28:35] Speaker 4: bondage in his sex basement.
[28:37] Speaker 2: And like, I'm just like, does somebody really have that story?
[28:40] Speaker 4: Because I feel like people have pieces of that story,
[28:42] Speaker 4: but there is like an immense amount of mental illness
[28:46] Speaker 4: in somebody's brain, Like it's not really what's happy is
[28:50] Speaker 4: probably the man and he cheating on you and you're
[28:52] Speaker 4: really sad and you're just posting these things on Instagram,
[28:54] Speaker 4: like look what he did today, and.
[28:55] Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure that that's happened.
[28:57] Speaker 3: That's definitely happy.
[28:58] Speaker 2: But the just see, I don't know. I guess I
[29:02] Speaker 2: never really thought about it because I would just be
[29:05] Speaker 2: like anybody like that.
[29:06] Speaker 4: Could you imagine if you met like I'm talking about
[29:08] Speaker 4: filthy rich man. Like he's almost like the Saudi Arabian
[29:11] Speaker 4: prince and he just comes over here. He finds you
[29:13] Speaker 4: at the store one day, you're looking crazy, and he's
[29:15] Speaker 4: just like, I love you. And then he's like, can
[29:19] Speaker 4: I take you to dinner? But let's say you don't
[29:21] Speaker 4: think he's crazy yet, and he's like, can I take
[29:23] Speaker 4: you dinner?
[29:23] Speaker 3: You say yes, and he pulls up in a helicopter
[29:27] Speaker 3: the way.
[29:31] Speaker 4: He lands on top of the apartment building and they're
[29:33] Speaker 4: just like, that's the show's name, Hammon. And he lands
[29:37] Speaker 4: on the time he's like, actually, I own this building,
[29:39] Speaker 4: and then he pays the rest of your rent for
[29:41] Speaker 4: the rest of the year, Like.
[29:42] Speaker 2: Would you buy the building?
[29:43] Speaker 1: Man?
[29:43] Speaker 2: Damn, I don't know me. You would think he.
[29:48] Speaker 3: Was gonna be scared.
[29:51] Speaker 2: Well, I would try it out.
[29:55] Speaker 3: I'm gonna get on their helicopter. I'm probably gonna fuck
[29:59] Speaker 3: this whole relationship up. Too, because I'm going I.
[30:02] Speaker 2: Would definitely self sabotage, and imagine if you self sabotage
[30:05] Speaker 2: and it really was just we're.
[30:07] Speaker 4: Seeing down the restaurant eating the little Arabian soup. I
[30:09] Speaker 4: done picked up the wrong spood. I'm blowing it like
[30:12] Speaker 4: he like.
[30:14] Speaker 1: Him?
[30:14] Speaker 2: Or what if he's like, this is so cute. You
[30:17] Speaker 2: don't even know anybody and he just finds everything you
[30:19] Speaker 2: do like I like her.
[30:22] Speaker 3: You're racist. I'm not ruined it, like.
[30:25] Speaker 2: I see, you're not even playing fun, like not let
[30:29] Speaker 2: me get lost in this at all. Oh my gosh.
[30:32] Speaker 2: I definitely would be very skeptical. I would be looking
[30:36] Speaker 2: at him up on every most wanted list possible. Then
[30:39] Speaker 2: I would probably find myself looking at different plastic surgeons pages,
[30:43] Speaker 2: especially in Turkey, and looking at it before and after
[30:45] Speaker 2: seeing if anybody look like him, because I know plenty
[30:47] Speaker 2: of people commit crimes and they have enough money to
[30:49] Speaker 2: get some cosmatic surgery and they want to shift their
[30:52] Speaker 2: face around. So that yeah, that happens all the time.
[30:56] Speaker 2: Wh I say all the time, but it's happened a
[30:58] Speaker 2: few times. I've seen a few documentaries on people are crazy.
[31:01] Speaker 2: I was just watching one documentary called Sweet Bobby. Have
[31:03] Speaker 2: you seen it? No ro als on Netflix? So this
[31:07] Speaker 2: girl was in a relationship with this guy online, right,
[31:11] Speaker 2: and there were the the web of lies was so deep.
[31:16] Speaker 2: There were so many different people intertwined in this story,
[31:19] Speaker 2: like so many different profiles and people she had talked
[31:21] Speaker 2: to and all these stories. Her cousin had created all
[31:27] Speaker 2: of these different characters and taken pictures and her and
[31:32] Speaker 2: the boyfriend which is her cousin. She was just doing
[31:36] Speaker 2: this shit to her. It's crazy. You need to watch it.
[31:38] Speaker 2: But just somebody created a ton of people.
[31:41] Speaker 3: Why is it called sweet Bobby.
[31:43] Speaker 2: Because she thought Bobby was a sweet guy? Oh and
[31:45] Speaker 2: he wasn't. It was her cousin, who's not sweet? Wow?
[31:49] Speaker 2: And I'm just like, what kind of cousin are you? Fuck?
[31:51] Speaker 2: Are you mad about? I don't know. I did fall
[31:53] Speaker 2: asleep on part of the explanation of it all, but
[31:55] Speaker 2: I know that that bitch was fucking crazy because who
[31:57] Speaker 2: does that? And you need job?
[31:59] Speaker 4: Did you watch the one documentary on I finished this
[32:02] Speaker 4: in a day. I was it was so good. It's
[32:05] Speaker 4: the lady that I forget her. No, it's the lady
[32:08] Speaker 4: that was worked in the prison and fell in love
[32:10] Speaker 4: with the prisoner and then they she escaped. She oh, I.
[32:13] Speaker 2: Haven't watched it. I'm saving that for this weekend. So
[32:17] Speaker 2: because I'm watch on the plane.
[32:18] Speaker 4: It's such a good watch. Like I really was just
[32:20] Speaker 4: like the things where you're like, how in the world
[32:25] Speaker 4: does something like this happen? Like you're working in the prison,
[32:29] Speaker 4: like how lonely do you have to be for this
[32:32] Speaker 4: man to be spent And they have all the calls,
[32:35] Speaker 4: they have all the calls, they're like having full story.
[32:37] Speaker 2: I can't remember. But she helped him escape.
[32:39] Speaker 4: They escaped together, and she was like well known in
[32:42] Speaker 4: this prison. She worked high up. Everybody loved her. She
[32:45] Speaker 4: was such a great employee.
[32:46] Speaker 2: They were like drugs. She wasn't on drugs, always assuming drugs.
[32:50] Speaker 4: She wasn't drugs. She she loved him, she fell in
[32:51] Speaker 4: love with him. She was lonely and he was saying
[32:56] Speaker 4: the right things. He was a violent man, and she
[33:00] Speaker 4: in love. Like they would be on the phone, their
[33:01] Speaker 4: phone sex. So I was just like, this is this
[33:03] Speaker 4: is what. I can't wait till you watch it and
[33:05] Speaker 4: then you gotta tell me how you feel. But but
[33:06] Speaker 4: she's like, how do you do that? And they have
[33:07] Speaker 4: all the camera footage of her like testing out the doors,
[33:11] Speaker 4: but they didn't think anything of it because she was
[33:12] Speaker 4: such a great employee.
[33:14] Speaker 3: And I was just like, excuse me, that.
[33:16] Speaker 4: Is wild to really get to a point where you're
[33:19] Speaker 4: working in this prison.
[33:20] Speaker 3: I really think it's crazy that they let female.
[33:22] Speaker 4: Officers work in the male area and then male officers
[33:25] Speaker 4: be in the female with the female prisoners, because you
[33:28] Speaker 4: already know something is going to happen. Men are gonna
[33:30] Speaker 4: men and women are king to women. And I do
[33:32] Speaker 4: bet I've dot some of them. Prisoners be fine, but you.
[33:35] Speaker 3: Can't do that. You can't do that.
[33:37] Speaker 4: He didn't even kill you right when y'all busts out.
[33:40] Speaker 4: Now he acting crazy. You don't see today, miss Linda.
[33:44] Speaker 3: It was good.
[33:44] Speaker 4: I was just really like and they were rampaging around
[33:48] Speaker 4: the town. It took him a minute to find him.
[33:50] Speaker 3: What were they doing around the tailing cars, staying in
[33:52] Speaker 3: the hotels having sex?
[33:54] Speaker 2: And it was no drugs even when they got out
[33:57] Speaker 2: the prison.
[33:57] Speaker 3: Did he do drugs? She didn't do drugs. She just
[34:00] Speaker 3: loved him and he I think maybe.
[34:02] Speaker 2: He loves a hell of a drug because baby, what
[34:06] Speaker 2: now I'm risking my freedom? The people who end up
[34:10] Speaker 2: doing these things when they are free. If you already
[34:13] Speaker 2: locked up on some shit and like you probably won't
[34:15] Speaker 2: see freedom again, I kind of get why you would
[34:17] Speaker 2: risk it, because like, what you're really risking? You hear? Anyway,
[34:20] Speaker 2: let's just try and see life. It's pouring behind the bars.
[34:24] Speaker 2: But the people who are free. I just do not
[34:26] Speaker 2: understand how you convince yourself this is this is a
[34:29] Speaker 2: good idea, this is what I want to do with
[34:30] Speaker 2: my life. Like what and now you're the next Netflix
[34:34] Speaker 2: superstar from a crime documentary that's not really only what
[34:39] Speaker 2: you want it.
[34:41] Speaker 3: It's a good watch.
[34:42] Speaker 4: I was like, this is absolutely crazy, but okay, so
[34:46] Speaker 4: we'll dive into a few of our topics. This is just,
[34:48] Speaker 4: you know, an easy, fun week and it's just a
[34:50] Speaker 4: would you ever? Okay, would you ever go to jail
[34:53] Speaker 4: and be with somebody?
[34:55] Speaker 2: I'm playing? I know you wouldn't.
[34:56] Speaker 3: I definitely would not, but I do have on here?
[35:01] Speaker 2: Would do I have that on here?
[35:05] Speaker 1: No?
[35:06] Speaker 3: I don't, but I do have on here. Would you
[35:09] Speaker 3: ever move for love? Yes? You would?
[35:12] Speaker 2: I would do now where to depends, but I would move.
[35:16] Speaker 3: What if he was like wyoming? What the fuck is beautiful?
[35:25] Speaker 3: Have you ever been to Wyom? It is a beautiful place.
[35:28] Speaker 2: So of her to visit. But do they have black
[35:31] Speaker 2: people in Wyoming?
[35:33] Speaker 3: A lot?
[35:33] Speaker 2: But you can start with the farm afar.
[35:37] Speaker 3: I did not come.
[35:38] Speaker 2: My ancestors did not pray and have me come this
[35:41] Speaker 2: far just to go back to the farm to get
[35:43] Speaker 2: somebody else? Why owning? It's cold. I read a book
[35:46] Speaker 2: right now called Lost Girls, and she bought a house
[35:49] Speaker 2: in Wyoming and is back in the day. And this
[35:52] Speaker 2: sounds miserable. No, why are we moving to white own?
[35:56] Speaker 1: Like?
[35:56] Speaker 2: Why the reason? What was the reason? Do you own?
[35:59] Speaker 3: Let's say he does. Yeah, He's like I have to
[36:02] Speaker 3: be here.
[36:03] Speaker 2: Okay, Well, like, okay, we can move here, but where else?
[36:06] Speaker 2: We gonna live Wyoming because I'm from the South and
[36:10] Speaker 2: I need some son.
[36:13] Speaker 3: And some soul food.
[36:15] Speaker 2: Well I can make it, but like I want? Yeah, no,
[36:20] Speaker 2: I can move for love. But like it was, I
[36:25] Speaker 2: gotta be crazy in love, drunken love? What's another in love?
[36:30] Speaker 2: Were crazy in love again? To move there? It's just
[36:34] Speaker 2: like I could not have magined. How would I even
[36:36] Speaker 2: meet him?
[36:37] Speaker 3: M the airport?
[36:39] Speaker 2: Oh maybe I'm gonna go walk by the airport to
[36:43] Speaker 2: see who's going to Wyoming. What's going on over there?
[36:47] Speaker 2: I think about like national parks and people becoming missing persons.
[36:50] Speaker 4: It's a beautiful I went when I was a flight
[36:52] Speaker 4: attendant and we flew a client there and it was
[36:54] Speaker 4: just it was Jackson.
[36:56] Speaker 2: Hole that was picturing.
[36:58] Speaker 4: Yeah.
[36:58] Speaker 3: I was like, oh, this is a dip of I know.
[37:00] Speaker 2: The old I knew an old rich man and he
[37:03] Speaker 2: would go there and he was always telling me about
[37:05] Speaker 2: it and asking if I wanted to go. No, you
[37:08] Speaker 2: feel like there's plenty of land to hode a dead body,
[37:10] Speaker 2: and that dead body won't be me. Okay? Would you? Oh?
[37:17] Speaker 2: Would you ever be a godmother to an ex friend child?
[37:22] Speaker 1: Mm?
[37:24] Speaker 2: I wonder how that would even come about.
[37:26] Speaker 4: Cause let's say she reached out like I know we're
[37:28] Speaker 4: not friends anymore, but I still know your heart and
[37:31] Speaker 4: like you're a really great person and I just want
[37:33] Speaker 4: my child to like have you as a role model
[37:35] Speaker 4: in their life.
[37:36] Speaker 3: I probably would say yes, depending.
[37:37] Speaker 4: On what happened, what ended the friendship, like what was
[37:40] Speaker 4: the fallout about. I think I would do it for
[37:43] Speaker 4: the kid. For the kid, I don't have to turn
[37:46] Speaker 4: that down.
[37:46] Speaker 2: Because I don't know that kid. I'd be like oh,
[37:48] Speaker 2: the nigga finally left you? Huh, and because like, why
[37:51] Speaker 2: are you why are you even calling me? So now
[37:52] Speaker 2: you're thinking about me, but we're not. I don't know.
[37:57] Speaker 3: Becoming a mother changed me.
[38:00] Speaker 2: So you want me to take on the responsibility of
[38:02] Speaker 2: your child, but you still ain't trying to make amends
[38:04] Speaker 2: with me. Outside of that, I would just that would
[38:06] Speaker 2: rub me the wrong way, But I don't know now.
[38:10] Speaker 2: I will say this, if it was like I'm friends
[38:12] Speaker 2: with somebody, they make me a godparent and then we
[38:15] Speaker 2: have a falling out, I would not distance myself from.
[38:18] Speaker 4: The I think it's very ghetto when people do that,
[38:19] Speaker 4: and that happens often. That's why I really think people
[38:22] Speaker 4: need to choose wisely. Yeah, where you made somebody the
[38:24] Speaker 4: godmother and now you're not friends, no more than the
[38:26] Speaker 4: person who was the godmother, just really dad.
[38:29] Speaker 2: Just like the people I know, yeah, are anybody's godmother?
[38:34] Speaker 3: No me neither. Why I wonder why nobody asked me
[38:37] Speaker 3: to be their godmother.
[38:38] Speaker 2: A lot of my friends don't have kids, It's only
[38:40] Speaker 2: a handful.
[38:41] Speaker 3: I guess a lot of mine don't either, or they're.
[38:44] Speaker 2: Not like they don't do the godmother godparent thing, because
[38:49] Speaker 2: I have some friends that are like that and they
[38:51] Speaker 2: don't they just didn't do it. But yeah, no, I'm not.
[38:56] Speaker 2: I feel like I'm my cousin's mama sometimes. If I
[39:02] Speaker 2: was talking to my sister about that today, I'm like, yeah,
[39:04] Speaker 2: I'm not his godmother, but I mean, next best thing.
[39:09] Speaker 3: Would you ever be a stay at home wife or mom?
[39:14] Speaker 3: But you don't want kids? So wife?
[39:19] Speaker 2: Yeah, but I still want to do something.
[39:20] Speaker 3: What if he was like, I don't want you to
[39:21] Speaker 3: do anything.
[39:22] Speaker 4: I want you to have like a passion project, but.
[39:24] Speaker 2: But I can't make no money off of it.
[39:26] Speaker 4: Yeah, he was like, I mean, if you want to
[39:28] Speaker 4: make a little change, make a little change, but I
[39:29] Speaker 4: want I want dinner on the table.
[39:32] Speaker 3: I want you to be just looking solved.
[39:36] Speaker 2: Well, I don't mind making the dinner. That part is
[39:38] Speaker 2: not unattractive to me. But I still need to have
[39:40] Speaker 2: the freedom to do the things that I want. I mean,
[39:41] Speaker 2: I don't leave the house really to work till I
[39:44] Speaker 2: come to a studio or something really unless I have
[39:46] Speaker 2: a meeting. But I wouldn't mind not having a traditional job.
[39:50] Speaker 2: But I still would need the freedom to be able
[39:54] Speaker 2: to create or come up with something or do a project,
[39:57] Speaker 2: not just a passion project, but like build a business
[39:59] Speaker 2: or do something. I feel like that would be really controlling,
[40:03] Speaker 2: given my personality and the things that I actually enjoy doing.
[40:07] Speaker 2: And so I'm sade eye in him, because why are
[40:09] Speaker 2: you trying to control me like this? You're trying to
[40:10] Speaker 2: keep me in the house so that I don't have
[40:12] Speaker 2: friends and nobody's checking on me anymore and they think
[40:14] Speaker 2: this is where I want to be, And now you're
[40:15] Speaker 2: about to kill me and I'm be dead in the
[40:17] Speaker 2: basement or in Wyoming m Yeah, could you do it?
[40:21] Speaker 3: Oh?
[40:22] Speaker 4: You would have to have some very intense like stipulations,
[40:25] Speaker 4: like if I'm doing this, I want it to be
[40:28] Speaker 4: like you're paying me to do it, not like a sugar.
[40:32] Speaker 2: Cleaning and doing all everything alone.
[40:35] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[40:35] Speaker 4: I feel like if somebody was really requesting like you,
[40:37] Speaker 4: I really do want you to just like live this
[40:39] Speaker 4: soft life and be a stay at home mom or wife.
[40:41] Speaker 4: First of all, if kids are involved, I gotta leave
[40:43] Speaker 4: the house at some point because these little niggas are
[40:45] Speaker 4: driving me crazy.
[40:47] Speaker 2: You don't want to go crazy.
[40:48] Speaker 4: Yeah, if you're like you don't have to work, I
[40:50] Speaker 4: still would be like you just hear so many horror stories.
[40:52] Speaker 4: You need to we need to have something in place,
[40:54] Speaker 4: a contract where you are still like, there's a salary
[40:57] Speaker 4: being paid to me to do this, because that's just
[41:02] Speaker 4: why it's wild, because then you you just you see
[41:04] Speaker 4: all the time. Now it's like if something goes left
[41:06] Speaker 4: or wrong, you now it's like, well.
[41:08] Speaker 3: I shouldn't have to give ri No, no, no, this
[41:10] Speaker 3: is a job.
[41:11] Speaker 2: People need to job pree ups and you work these
[41:13] Speaker 2: things out. You got to think about what could happen
[41:16] Speaker 2: if it is worse, Not that you want to put
[41:18] Speaker 2: that in your relationship, but just to protect yourself and
[41:21] Speaker 2: so that you're not wondering about this later on down
[41:24] Speaker 2: the line. Could you be with someone who never wanted
[41:30] Speaker 2: to spend holidays with your family?
[41:33] Speaker 4: No, I don't care, like how much of a twiddle
[41:37] Speaker 4: in my heart feels around you twiddle like that, because
[41:41] Speaker 4: to me, that just that's one of my values family.
[41:44] Speaker 2: Like it's like I got plenty of family and can
[41:46] Speaker 2: come with us.
[41:47] Speaker 4: And I'm someone where I'm like, I'm not gonna I'm
[41:49] Speaker 4: not one of those women where it's like we're just
[41:51] Speaker 4: gonna be with my family and never you're like we
[41:53] Speaker 4: can split it up and do how we need to do.
[41:55] Speaker 4: But you're just like, we're never gonna be with your family.
[41:57] Speaker 4: That means you don't like my family or you don't
[41:58] Speaker 4: like something about it, and we don't have to just
[42:01] Speaker 4: stop because that's not nice. These people made me like,
[42:05] Speaker 4: do you like me?
[42:06] Speaker 3: Do you like me?
[42:08] Speaker 2: What's going on?
[42:09] Speaker 3: You never?
[42:10] Speaker 2: Yeah?
[42:10] Speaker 4: Wild and you're probably talking about me behind my back.
[42:13] Speaker 4: I'm gonna find that journal and find out. Oh, don't
[42:17] Speaker 4: even write about it. I'm not playing with you.
[42:20] Speaker 2: Don't even think about it.
[42:22] Speaker 3: Would you ever propose to a man?
[42:23] Speaker 2: Hell? No, next the fuck? But I proposed to a man.
[42:30] Speaker 2: I would marry myself before I proposed to a man. Absolutely.
[42:36] Speaker 2: If you girls want to do that, don't you write
[42:40] Speaker 2: us no advice because I.
[42:41] Speaker 4: Don't want you to come on the show. I really
[42:42] Speaker 4: do want to have a couple on where the woman
[42:44] Speaker 4: proposed to the man.
[42:45] Speaker 3: I would love that. Not to drag you. We don't
[42:47] Speaker 3: want to drag you. I just want to hear how
[42:48] Speaker 3: this win.
[42:49] Speaker 2: I won't have nothing to say because I'm gonna be
[42:50] Speaker 2: all ears. I would like to hear your story, yeah,
[42:53] Speaker 2: and just talk walk us through it because I'm confusion
[42:55] Speaker 2: and I need you to break it down. I need
[42:58] Speaker 2: to know the psyche everything. No, I didn't. I couldn't
[43:00] Speaker 2: do it.
[43:01] Speaker 3: No, no, no, no no no.
[43:03] Speaker 2: Could you say with someone if they proposed to you
[43:05] Speaker 2: and then said, actually, I don't think I'm really ready,
[43:08] Speaker 2: let's under the engagement.
[43:10] Speaker 4: Just go back, and I would be pissed and I'd
[43:15] Speaker 4: be like, this is how people end up on snapped.
[43:17] Speaker 2: That's what I was singing here.
[43:18] Speaker 4: You're telling me you went and got the ring and proposed.
[43:22] Speaker 4: I said yes, and then we get home and you're.
[43:24] Speaker 2: Like, hey, well not that day, maybe like the month later.
[43:28] Speaker 2: That's mean, Like I actually would be been sure before
[43:31] Speaker 2: you gave me.
[43:31] Speaker 3: The ring, and I'm keeping the ring. I'm leaving. The
[43:34] Speaker 3: ring is coming with me and you need to go.
[43:38] Speaker 2: Loop.
[43:39] Speaker 3: That's mean.
[43:41] Speaker 4: Would you ever help your man pay for your wedding
[43:43] Speaker 4: ring again?
[43:46] Speaker 2: I would rather marry myself. No, you need to get
[43:49] Speaker 2: me when you can get me. And if you don't
[43:52] Speaker 2: feel like it's enough, we're not. We don't need to
[43:55] Speaker 2: be getting married. You need to be figuring other things out. No,
[43:58] Speaker 2: I'm not pay what This is not a token of
[44:01] Speaker 2: your affection. This is like a TV something we just
[44:05] Speaker 2: bought for the house together. It's just a piece of jewelry, Like, what, No,
[44:09] Speaker 2: what are people doing that out here?
[44:12] Speaker 3: Yeah, people are doing it. I know a few people
[44:14] Speaker 3: that get it. I mean, I don't go brock.
[44:16] Speaker 2: Think, yeah, they're doing that. I wonder is it because
[44:20] Speaker 2: I wonder this though, if that happened. Is it because
[44:25] Speaker 2: you guys talked about what he could afford and you
[44:28] Speaker 2: really wanted something nicer, so you was just like, I'm
[44:30] Speaker 2: gonna throw you an extra.
[44:31] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[44:31] Speaker 4: That's that's the stories that I've heard, And they're like,
[44:33] Speaker 4: I want the ring that I want, he can't afford it,
[44:35] Speaker 4: and I'm just gonna give him then what he what
[44:37] Speaker 4: he can't pay for.
[44:40] Speaker 2: Not even being funny, but I would rather not because
[44:43] Speaker 2: I feel like that's gonna set a precedent for me
[44:49] Speaker 2: not treating you right or just like kind of I
[44:52] Speaker 2: don't naturally operate this way where it's like looking down,
[44:55] Speaker 2: but it's like, if I feel like it's more important
[44:57] Speaker 2: than I have this big ring that is my engagement ring,
[45:00] Speaker 2: and what he gives me is not enough, I feel
[45:03] Speaker 2: like I'm gonna constantly feel like whatever he does, it's
[45:05] Speaker 2: not enough in the relationship and I'm gonna have to
[45:07] Speaker 2: ask myself, am I getting married for the right reasons?
[45:09] Speaker 2: Or is this what I think I need to do
[45:11] Speaker 2: just for me.
[45:12] Speaker 3: That's why I just say away with the diamonds. I
[45:15] Speaker 3: want your rib I want you to take peace. It's
[45:20] Speaker 3: too far.
[45:21] Speaker 2: That's why you're gonna take it too far.
[45:22] Speaker 3: No, I want it. I want That's.
[45:24] Speaker 2: Gonna be expensive too, because that's a surgery.
[45:27] Speaker 3: I want to see maybe can be covered with health insurance.
[45:29] Speaker 2: I want to see this is not a necessity.
[45:32] Speaker 3: But that's a that's just such a deeper me.
[45:34] Speaker 2: They're gonna give you an engagement a breed insurance. I
[45:39] Speaker 2: talked to a dog in this new presidency that you're
[45:41] Speaker 2: not even gonna have damn insurance. You're just gonna have
[45:43] Speaker 2: to get out there and figure it.
[45:45] Speaker 4: Oh, I don't think it's way that is way more
[45:47] Speaker 4: important than a die.
[45:51] Speaker 2: No, think about insurance. They don't want to give the
[45:54] Speaker 2: people with can this guy I know he didn't went
[45:57] Speaker 2: blind and I saw the gun play. Matter of fact,
[45:58] Speaker 2: I'm gonna put in the description because it's really so.
[46:00] Speaker 2: And he something crazy happened and he lost his sight
[46:03] Speaker 2: like out of nowhere. But you want to use up
[46:05] Speaker 2: the insurance dollars on your damn rib because I want
[46:08] Speaker 2: to make sure we really and then what happens if
[46:09] Speaker 2: it don't work out? You gotta get it's not gonna be.
[46:12] Speaker 4: No, it don't work out. You went, you underwent surgery.
[46:15] Speaker 4: We our rings are made from your rigs.
[46:18] Speaker 2: He's gonna be like, give me my rib, rib back ring,
[46:22] Speaker 2: rib ring back.
[46:24] Speaker 4: We came from the man's rib. I want this to
[46:27] Speaker 4: this how real this needs to be.
[46:28] Speaker 3: Give me your.
[46:29] Speaker 2: Rib You're supposed to just be his rib.
[46:34] Speaker 3: He need to give me a piece of it so
[46:36] Speaker 3: I can be ris.
[46:37] Speaker 2: I'll take my ribs from Foster Brothers barbecue. Okay, I
[46:41] Speaker 2: don't need it raps around. If it's if it can't
[46:43] Speaker 2: have a little barbecue rub on it, add some sauce,
[46:47] Speaker 2: a smoke ring on it. That's the ring. I want
[46:49] Speaker 2: a smoke ring. Give me a slap of ribs before
[46:51] Speaker 2: you try to ask me, and then you go give
[46:53] Speaker 2: him some of your ribs.
[46:54] Speaker 4: That's not how we go now, listen, I told you
[46:57] Speaker 4: any journey, that's not how it goes.
[46:59] Speaker 3: You don't take it. Take a piece of my rib.
[47:01] Speaker 2: We don't getting That was not everybody down the line
[47:05] Speaker 2: you talk about, that's how those that's not how any
[47:07] Speaker 2: of them you give.
[47:10] Speaker 4: And we would get both of our rings made out
[47:12] Speaker 4: of his from his rib So enough rib taking, shaved
[47:14] Speaker 4: some of the ribs and you don't need all your ribs.
[47:18] Speaker 2: Billy Bob Thordan and Angelina Joe when they was walking
[47:21] Speaker 2: around with them voles of blood and what's the other
[47:22] Speaker 2: one with the funny thumb?
[47:24] Speaker 4: Megan Fox and machine Gun Kelly she's pregnant with his baby.
[47:31] Speaker 3: I thought they were broken up. I did to see
[47:34] Speaker 3: they didn't get the rib.
[47:37] Speaker 2: Blood is not enough apparently, blood and witchcraft and spells
[47:40] Speaker 2: and everything else. That's a lot to think about, y'all
[47:46] Speaker 2: getting those mac rib rings and talking about, okay, gonna
[47:51] Speaker 2: be a recipe for marry me ribs.
[47:57] Speaker 3: Chicken. Now you got marry me ribs.
[47:59] Speaker 2: That we at the reception, Yo, do a little beef.
[48:05] Speaker 4: Ask kenders as ask kenders to make a little season
[48:09] Speaker 4: of specials.
[48:10] Speaker 3: Love seasoning.
[48:10] Speaker 2: You know they have a good blend. That would be good.
[48:13] Speaker 2: That cherry Chipotle, it would be good. I tried it
[48:16] Speaker 2: on a few things. Everybody has been hit me up
[48:21] Speaker 2: about candors. Candors where you at can we help you out.
[48:26] Speaker 2: The girls didn't know, and we put them on.
[48:27] Speaker 4: I've never been through seasoning so fast, like you know,
[48:31] Speaker 4: normally you have seasons, they you don't use them all.
[48:33] Speaker 4: If I get the small Kenders, it's gone.
[48:36] Speaker 2: I don't even bother with the small I gotta stop
[48:38] Speaker 2: bothering with I got. I have it on auto ship
[48:41] Speaker 2: that the blend the salt pepper and uh garlic powder.
[48:44] Speaker 2: I have that one on autoship on Amazon because I
[48:46] Speaker 2: hate when I hit the bottom of it.
[48:49] Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, good y'all gonna get you some candors.
[48:51] Speaker 4: Okay, I have another one. Okay, would you ever start
[48:54] Speaker 4: a couple's I G page? Did we get one of
[48:58] Speaker 4: those hundred million dollar brands?
[49:02] Speaker 2: If it is for money? Hell yeah? If okay, let
[49:10] Speaker 2: me be serious for three seconds. Uh, I'm trying to
[49:13] Speaker 2: think a while. So I would do except for money.
[49:16] Speaker 1: M m.
[49:17] Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gotta be money related. And like, whether I
[49:19] Speaker 2: already have it or I'm working towards it, it would
[49:21] Speaker 2: be a money thing. Maybe if it's like, uh, neither
[49:24] Speaker 2: of us had traditional jobs and but I need some
[49:28] Speaker 2: kids stone in there. I would only do it if
[49:30] Speaker 2: it's just us.
[49:31] Speaker 3: Like, and if I did it, it would be like,
[49:36] Speaker 3: we show the ugly side. We don't. We do we
[49:38] Speaker 3: stepped out here and do something different.
[49:40] Speaker 4: We don't even show like the cues that we're showing
[49:42] Speaker 4: full blown fights.
[49:45] Speaker 2: It's gonna be world Star Relationship Edition. Remember world Star.
[49:50] Speaker 2: Everyone used to be posted and they said world Star.
[49:53] Speaker 2: That's how we are.
[49:55] Speaker 3: See that I think has nothing to do with this person,
[49:58] Speaker 3: but it just did.
[49:58] Speaker 2: You see Chubby died, That's why everybody was posting his picture.
[50:02] Speaker 2: I read the captions. They were too long. I thought
[50:05] Speaker 2: it was his birthday. I did you.
[50:11] Speaker 3: No, he didn't die. He died. I don't know what happened.
[50:14] Speaker 3: I don't know.
[50:15] Speaker 4: Well, I was like, dang, rest in peace, Chebby, Rest
[50:18] Speaker 4: in peace, Chebby. But he's the nigga that one time
[50:20] Speaker 4: they gave me forty dollars to get my hair done.
[50:21] Speaker 4: Remember I told the story, and I was like, it
[50:23] Speaker 4: was hair.
[50:23] Speaker 3: It was Chubby.
[50:24] Speaker 2: Now see.
[50:27] Speaker 3: He has some nerves, Yeah he did. But I really
[50:29] Speaker 3: was shocked. I was like, I wonder. I went to
[50:30] Speaker 3: look at his it looked like maybe he was dealing
[50:31] Speaker 3: with some sickness.
[50:32] Speaker 4: But I don't know. I haven't asked anybody what happened.
[50:34] Speaker 4: They rest in peace to that man.
[50:35] Speaker 3: That's sad. Okay, would you ever throw a drink on someone?
[50:43] Speaker 2: Yeah?
[50:44] Speaker 3: Have you ever done it before? I haven't. I ain't
[50:47] Speaker 3: never thrown a drink on nobody.
[50:48] Speaker 2: No, But like, I don't think I would ever seriously
[50:52] Speaker 2: do it, like getting physical like that, I've never really
[50:57] Speaker 2: done that. I would definitely do it for dramatic effects
[51:01] Speaker 2: if we're on the same page, if we've got our
[51:03] Speaker 2: family reality show or something like that, I could see
[51:05] Speaker 2: it happening then, But to throw a drink on somebody,
[51:09] Speaker 2: it's just.
[51:09] Speaker 3: Like that is so nasty behavior, and.
[51:12] Speaker 2: Then you mess up their outfit. The what if you
[51:14] Speaker 2: get something in their eye and they have like bad
[51:17] Speaker 2: effects afterwards, like lasting effects, and then like, oh yeah,
[51:22] Speaker 2: I would never do it seriously. But like again, if
[51:26] Speaker 2: it's between me getting cut and somebody else getting cut
[51:29] Speaker 2: on the thirty seventh season of Real Housewives of Atlanta
[51:31] Speaker 2: and I've finally been cash, you better believe I'm about
[51:34] Speaker 2: to get this check. Okay, sorry girl, but you get
[51:37] Speaker 2: in this drink throat all you it won't be vodka
[51:39] Speaker 2: or wine, it'll just be water. But you need to
[51:44] Speaker 2: act like it burns. We need to fight for this.
[51:46] Speaker 2: It's really in the grand scheme of things. That's an
[51:48] Speaker 2: easy check. Yeah, maybe making paint these days.
[51:52] Speaker 4: Maybe would you if you were out with a friend
[51:54] Speaker 4: and she got in a fight, would you fight?
[51:57] Speaker 2: Baby? I'm grown hill now, we're not fighting.
[52:00] Speaker 3: What she was like, beat up?
[52:04] Speaker 2: You need Jesus because you shouldn't have been out here fighting.
[52:07] Speaker 2: Jesus told us to turn the other cheek. What are
[52:09] Speaker 2: you doing? I remember one of my friends had gotten
[52:12] Speaker 2: a fight at a concert and it was going viral
[52:15] Speaker 2: on TikTok and people were in the comments like is
[52:17] Speaker 2: this such and such because she's popular and her friend
[52:22] Speaker 2: had gotten a fight at a concert and she was
[52:26] Speaker 2: just in the middle of the melee.
[52:28] Speaker 4: And I was like, see, I would be really mad
[52:31] Speaker 4: if I go out with somebody and she got me
[52:33] Speaker 4: in a fight.
[52:34] Speaker 3: She was.
[52:36] Speaker 2: No, I didn't see her punching or anything, and I
[52:37] Speaker 2: guess she would have.
[52:38] Speaker 3: I don't know.
[52:39] Speaker 2: I can't remember how the story went, but I just
[52:40] Speaker 2: remember thinking that is so ghetto, like that is a lot,
[52:43] Speaker 2: and I don't want to hang around nobody who's gonna
[52:45] Speaker 2: have me in a situation like that, because girl, what
[52:48] Speaker 2: grow up? We are forty now? What if I break
[52:51] Speaker 2: my head? What you gonna do about that?
[52:53] Speaker 1: You know? Yeah?
[52:54] Speaker 3: That's crazy? Would you ever take care of your men?
[52:58] Speaker 2: Huh? Like when he's sick?
[53:00] Speaker 1: Yeah?
[53:00] Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean you know, sickness matters. You mean
[53:04] Speaker 2: like pay his bills?
[53:06] Speaker 3: Yeah? Hard times?
[53:07] Speaker 2: Your husband? Husband, husband, Yes, but you're gonna have to
[53:12] Speaker 2: stand up. Now, you're gonna have to stand up and
[53:16] Speaker 2: we're gonna figure something out, and I'll help you. I
[53:18] Speaker 2: have lots of ideas, but like I'm we're gonna have
[53:21] Speaker 2: to talk about some things. How do we get here?
[53:23] Speaker 2: What's going on? Is this like you have this career
[53:27] Speaker 2: and you got laid off? Or are you irresponsible taking
[53:32] Speaker 2: care of a man? It's just like I just always
[53:34] Speaker 2: hear this voice that says you can do bad by yourself.
[53:38] Speaker 2: That's gonna stress me out? And are you trying to
[53:40] Speaker 2: kill me? Not the voice but the situation, because now
[53:42] Speaker 2: it's like I gotta take care of me, my dog,
[53:45] Speaker 2: Whitley and you and are you not an able bodied
[53:48] Speaker 2: man anymore?
[53:49] Speaker 1: Like?
[53:49] Speaker 2: How do we get here? That's stress me out thinking
[53:53] Speaker 2: about it?
[53:55] Speaker 3: Would you my husband?
[53:58] Speaker 2: You all been together a while? Like you talk, I've
[54:00] Speaker 2: been together a while because it is different. Husband, Yes
[54:03] Speaker 2: he got to be, but you're still gonna have to
[54:04] Speaker 2: give up here.
[54:05] Speaker 4: And then it depends on like what do you mean
[54:06] Speaker 4: take care? I cannot even take care of you. I
[54:09] Speaker 4: can because what yeah, we're gonna I can give you
[54:11] Speaker 4: some creative ideas what you need, Like I don't know
[54:14] Speaker 4: if I can give it to you.
[54:15] Speaker 2: So you gonna have to work somewhere. Then maybe you
[54:17] Speaker 2: don't want to work you. I feel like it's too
[54:19] Speaker 2: easy to sign up for door Dash. They don't even
[54:21] Speaker 2: check if you can read, speak nothing. You just gotta
[54:24] Speaker 2: have a phone, which apparently not even your own damn phone,
[54:27] Speaker 2: because I don't know how many times it says like
[54:29] Speaker 2: Teresa or something and the nigga's at the door. So like,
[54:32] Speaker 2: just get a phone and sign up and get to delivery.
[54:35] Speaker 4: Your husband was like, baby, I met this mass scaring me?
[54:38] Speaker 4: Now what he was like, I met this man at
[54:41] Speaker 4: the casino, and he's.
[54:43] Speaker 2: What do you mean man at the casino? What you mean?
[54:47] Speaker 4: And he had and he he saw you on Instagram
[54:50] Speaker 4: and he wanted to He asked me if he he
[54:54] Speaker 4: asked me if he could have your body.
[54:58] Speaker 2: And that's when I'm gonna throw a drinking anyway.
[55:01] Speaker 4: He's gonna pay though, and he's gonna pay and he's
[55:05] Speaker 4: and he's.
[55:05] Speaker 2: Gonna you don't have a job, I do. What are
[55:07] Speaker 2: you talking about?
[55:08] Speaker 4: He's gonna pay you three million dollars and will I
[55:12] Speaker 4: will split it if you it's just one night?
[55:14] Speaker 2: Why are we swinding? And if I'm the one that's
[55:16] Speaker 2: gotta bust it open the far?
[55:19] Speaker 3: Have you ever seen an indecent proposal?
[55:21] Speaker 2: Watching what Ie? You kept telling me to watch it.
[55:23] Speaker 2: I kept watching at nineteen I never finished.
[55:25] Speaker 4: Oh so if it's an old movie, but that's the
[55:28] Speaker 4: premise of the movie, and who has a good movie?
[55:31] Speaker 2: I mean, now, wait a minute.
[55:32] Speaker 3: Three million dollars, it's like three million. He's like, he
[55:35] Speaker 3: actually money, my.
[55:36] Speaker 2: Man got this is the same man that fell on
[55:39] Speaker 2: hard times.
[55:40] Speaker 3: No, it's a different one. But y'all, I'm.
[55:42] Speaker 2: Also like, well, maybe you need to go back to
[55:45] Speaker 2: the casino and find somebody else for you to get
[55:47] Speaker 2: some three million dollars and we just need to go
[55:49] Speaker 2: our separate ways. Do you think this could be a
[55:51] Speaker 2: sign from God? Where was you at exactly when you
[55:56] Speaker 2: was in vein? Like what's going on? But yeah, that
[55:59] Speaker 2: was stress me out? I would feel infended, though I'll jokes.
[56:01] Speaker 3: Aside, like I don't think I would do. It's gonna
[56:03] Speaker 3: ruin the relationship because and you would to be mad?
[56:06] Speaker 3: Do you do it?
[56:07] Speaker 2: And then what if it was all a trick? And
[56:09] Speaker 2: now I'm not getting three million dollars? Are you mad?
[56:11] Speaker 2: And you don't have three million dollars, easer? And now
[56:13] Speaker 2: I'm mad again? This just sounds like a trick, So
[56:16] Speaker 2: I would say no.
[56:19] Speaker 3: I'll say no.
[56:20] Speaker 4: All right, y'all, We're gonna move on to indecisive Diane.
[56:23] Speaker 4: Let us know if all of these things, these questions
[56:25] Speaker 4: that we asked each other, would you ever if you
[56:27] Speaker 4: have ever, we would love to hear them, get it
[56:29] Speaker 4: in the form of advice or cocktail.
[56:31] Speaker 2: And if you was at the casino, what did that
[56:33] Speaker 2: man look like? And is he's still looking for somebody
[56:34] Speaker 2: that can just pretend like they're marriage to somebody? Because
[56:37] Speaker 2: I'm just joking, all right?
[56:42] Speaker 3: Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants? Stop thinking
[56:45] Speaker 3: about what I want, what he wants, what your parents want,
[56:47] Speaker 3: what do you want? What do you want?
[56:50] Speaker 2: It's what do you want?
[56:54] Speaker 3: What do you want?
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[59:32] Speaker 2: If you have a question, email us advice at cocktailspod
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[59:36] Speaker 4: Okay, let me pull up this advice from Okay. This
[59:41] Speaker 4: one is titled Struggling in My twenties. Hey, Kiki Amadina,
[59:46] Speaker 4: I really appreciate your podcast so much. I honestly feel
[59:49] Speaker 4: like you guys give great advice and are so experienced
[59:52] Speaker 4: in life. That is a hell of a compliment, because baby, yeah,
[59:57] Speaker 4: but what I am not that experienced in life.
[1:00:00] Speaker 3: I'll be fucking up all the time.
[1:00:02] Speaker 2: That's still experience.
[1:00:03] Speaker 4: All experience experience. They do say you learn the most
[1:00:05] Speaker 4: from failure. Okay, now let's get to my structure. Now
[1:00:10] Speaker 4: let's get to my struggling life. I'm currently single in
[1:00:13] Speaker 4: dating but having problems meeting men who are consistent with
[1:00:15] Speaker 4: communication and don't have children. I want to settle down
[1:00:18] Speaker 4: already because I'm so tired of dating and starting over
[1:00:21] Speaker 4: with someone new all over again. These dating apps are
[1:00:24] Speaker 4: really trash. All of the men I meet or either
[1:00:27] Speaker 4: have kids.
[1:00:28] Speaker 3: Or just looking for hookups.
[1:00:29] Speaker 4: Can you guys please give me some advice to a
[1:00:31] Speaker 4: girl in her early twenties with no kids and looking
[1:00:33] Speaker 4: today intentionally ps, I added a picture of myself because
[1:00:36] Speaker 4: why not? And I'm twenty four by the way, if
[1:00:38] Speaker 4: that matters, you know. I like to always say like,
[1:00:48] Speaker 4: and I tell this to myself too.
[1:00:50] Speaker 3: We have to calm down.
[1:00:53] Speaker 4: You have to remember, like, sometimes I look at some
[1:00:55] Speaker 4: of the reasons why I've ever said I wanted to
[1:00:58] Speaker 4: be in a relationship in my early twenties, or whatever,
[1:01:01] Speaker 4: or why I said I was lonely, or why I
[1:01:03] Speaker 4: said I wanted a man, or the things around the whys.
[1:01:07] Speaker 3: And when you say you're ready to settle down because
[1:01:11] Speaker 3: you're so tired.
[1:01:14] Speaker 4: That is not a good Yeah, it's just not a
[1:01:18] Speaker 4: good reason to be like, I'm so tired of trying
[1:01:20] Speaker 4: new things and meeting new people that I just want
[1:01:23] Speaker 4: to just hurry up and jump on the first person
[1:01:25] Speaker 4: that jumps on me. Really, friend, Like, I get it,
[1:01:28] Speaker 4: I do get it, But you got to change the
[1:01:30] Speaker 4: mindset and you got to change some of the talking
[1:01:32] Speaker 4: around what you're saying. There are a lot of men
[1:01:36] Speaker 4: in this world. All of them do not have kids,
[1:01:39] Speaker 4: even though it seems like it, they do not all
[1:01:43] Speaker 4: have kids, I promise you. And so you just it's
[1:01:45] Speaker 4: a part of the dating game. You want to make
[1:01:47] Speaker 4: sure that you do find the right person that is
[1:01:51] Speaker 4: for you and you for them. Because you're talking about
[1:01:54] Speaker 4: you tired now and it's get annoying. Now, imagine you
[1:01:57] Speaker 4: do just like take the next person because he don't
[1:01:59] Speaker 4: have kids, you're ready to get married, and he might
[1:02:01] Speaker 4: marry you, but it might be the wrong person. And
[1:02:03] Speaker 4: now you get a divorce and you got three babies,
[1:02:04] Speaker 4: and don't nobody got a job. I'm not saying that's
[1:02:06] Speaker 4: your situation, but that.
[1:02:08] Speaker 3: Stuff that's like real life for some people.
[1:02:11] Speaker 4: And it's like you wanted to get married, you got married,
[1:02:13] Speaker 4: and you have the kids in it's shambles. And so
[1:02:15] Speaker 4: you said you're intentional, So try to get even more intentional. Friend,
[1:02:19] Speaker 4: get intentional with those words, get intentional with those thoughts.
[1:02:23] Speaker 3: Get off the dating app. I am I don't think that.
[1:02:26] Speaker 4: I think when you're saying you're an intentional person, I'm
[1:02:28] Speaker 4: not sure that the dating app is for you because
[1:02:30] Speaker 4: it's just.
[1:02:31] Speaker 3: Weird people on there. I'm sorry, I used to do
[1:02:33] Speaker 3: it too.
[1:02:33] Speaker 4: It's not if you're If you're someone where you like
[1:02:36] Speaker 4: to socialize and you have no problem talking to people
[1:02:39] Speaker 4: in real life, the dating apps aren't for you. And
[1:02:42] Speaker 4: so just remember that there's men out here. Say that
[1:02:45] Speaker 4: literally when you wake up. If that's what you know,
[1:02:47] Speaker 4: there are good men out here, and I'm gonna meet
[1:02:48] Speaker 4: one one day. You got to take your time. You
[1:02:51] Speaker 4: just got to take your time.
[1:02:53] Speaker 2: I have slightly different advice. I think you know, sometimes
[1:02:56] Speaker 2: when you're just like everything you're just thinking about I
[1:02:59] Speaker 2: want to man, I want to. I want to man.
[1:03:00] Speaker 2: Your energy gives thirsty and you may not want to
[1:03:03] Speaker 2: call yourself that or you may not see that, but
[1:03:06] Speaker 2: that is what it's giving. And I think that when
[1:03:09] Speaker 2: you're being intentional, you're being intentional about wanting today. You
[1:03:12] Speaker 2: don't want a man with kids, you don't want somebody
[1:03:14] Speaker 2: who wants to smash. I don't know the age range
[1:03:16] Speaker 2: that you're looking at, and I'm not going to advise
[1:03:18] Speaker 2: you to date somebody older that is more established in life.
[1:03:21] Speaker 2: I'm actually going to tell you that you need to
[1:03:23] Speaker 2: do more things for yourself. You need to work on
[1:03:25] Speaker 2: your hobbies, explore some own interests of your own and
[1:03:29] Speaker 2: things that really just make you happy outside of where
[1:03:33] Speaker 2: you think you can go to find a man, Because
[1:03:35] Speaker 2: what's going to happen is you're going to You're going
[1:03:37] Speaker 2: to enjoy yourself. You're going to learn more about yourself
[1:03:39] Speaker 2: because you are in your early twenties, I'm sure you
[1:03:42] Speaker 2: still have a lot to learn. And then when you
[1:03:44] Speaker 2: start doing those different things, you're going to attract different
[1:03:47] Speaker 2: people and you might meet somebody who already has a
[1:03:49] Speaker 2: shared interest with you that's not on some bullshit, not
[1:03:51] Speaker 2: just trying to fuck doesn't have a bunch of kids.
[1:03:53] Speaker 2: You'll meet them and you might have like this hobby
[1:03:56] Speaker 2: in common or something else. Sometimes good things come to
[1:03:59] Speaker 2: you when you're not looking for them. You can be
[1:04:01] Speaker 2: intentional about wanting love by putting love out there and
[1:04:05] Speaker 2: by working on yourself and working on being the best
[1:04:08] Speaker 2: version of yourself, because really ask yourself, what have you
[1:04:11] Speaker 2: shown men? Are you expecting them to do certain things?
[1:04:14] Speaker 2: Where are you meeting them at and what kind of
[1:04:17] Speaker 2: questions in conversations are you having? Because you can meet
[1:04:20] Speaker 2: someone anywhere, but when you do meet them, what are
[1:04:23] Speaker 2: the conversations like? Are you initiating conversations with men that
[1:04:27] Speaker 2: you find attractive when you are out doing whatever you're doing.
[1:04:30] Speaker 2: Just try some different things and don't just always be
[1:04:34] Speaker 2: looking for the next man. Sometimes they smell it on you.
[1:04:37] Speaker 4: And I will also want you to remember this. I
[1:04:39] Speaker 4: said this in one of these most recent episodes. My
[1:04:41] Speaker 4: good friend Ayana had said it to me, and it
[1:04:43] Speaker 4: just hit home for me. Think of some of the
[1:04:45] Speaker 4: things that you might be lacking, or think of some
[1:04:48] Speaker 4: of the areas where you're not whole yet and you
[1:04:50] Speaker 4: and your twenties so you so far from it. That's
[1:04:53] Speaker 4: not a dig it's just the truth, and then know
[1:04:57] Speaker 4: that that's most more than likely what you're to get
[1:05:00] Speaker 4: in a partner, and that just hits differently when you
[1:05:05] Speaker 4: look at it like that, because you don't. I'm one
[1:05:09] Speaker 4: of my worst fears is getting locked in with somebody.
[1:05:11] Speaker 4: When I say locked in like married and kids and
[1:05:15] Speaker 4: all the things come out after that.
[1:05:16] Speaker 3: And we've seen that happen to people, and you really
[1:05:18] Speaker 3: are like, oh my god.
[1:05:19] Speaker 4: I was reading an old journal entry and it was
[1:05:22] Speaker 4: about the dude that wrote the six page Google doc
[1:05:24] Speaker 4: and it was interesting because in before he had even
[1:05:27] Speaker 4: did that, we were still dating. And in the journal
[1:05:29] Speaker 4: I put, he's something's off about him and I didn't
[1:05:33] Speaker 4: listen to my intuition own inner medina, And so, yeah, girl,
[1:05:39] Speaker 4: just take your time dating and dating.
[1:05:41] Speaker 3: You're gonna take a couple l's. Most people want.
[1:05:44] Speaker 2: Them to learn what's out there and what you actually like,
[1:05:47] Speaker 2: because you can also think that you want something. You
[1:05:50] Speaker 2: get a taste of it while you're out dating and
[1:05:52] Speaker 2: meeting different men, and you be like I thought it
[1:05:54] Speaker 2: would be like this, but I actually don't really like
[1:05:56] Speaker 2: that and enjoy the process you're learning. You're so if
[1:06:00] Speaker 2: you're learning what you want. Don't be in a rush.
[1:06:03] Speaker 2: You probably don't have a really long time ago. They
[1:06:05] Speaker 2: keep saying people are gonna live longer and longer. You
[1:06:07] Speaker 2: your twenty, so you're probably gonna be about one hundred
[1:06:09] Speaker 2: and something. Girl.
[1:06:10] Speaker 3: That was a Cassie song. We got a long way
[1:06:12] Speaker 3: to go.
[1:06:16] Speaker 2: I don't know the worst, and it sounded like she
[1:06:18] Speaker 2: didn't either because she was mumbling beautiful girl, beautiful gowns. Anyway,
[1:06:23] Speaker 2: So that's it for the advice. Remember if you have
[1:06:25] Speaker 2: a question that you want to ask us, you need
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