# Ep. 428 "Cocktails & Self Care"

An episode of [Cocktales with Kiki](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1149484402), 9 Jan 2025, 1 h 08 min.

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## Transcript

[0:02] Speaker 1: Yeah, you a check one two, check one two?
[0:04] Speaker 2: Is this Mike on?
[0:05] Speaker 1: Is this Mike going?
[0:06] Speaker 2: Hey listen man, it's the one and only Trenks that
[0:08] Speaker 2: a DJ sys and you're listening to cocktails Dirty Discussions
[0:12] Speaker 2: with Kikia Medina Monroe. Here, today's cocktail is called every
[0:22] Speaker 2: Rose has its Thorn. Don't pitch me, so listen. I
[0:28] Speaker 2: don't have a jigger today, guys, so I am free pouring.
[0:30] Speaker 2: So I don't know how this cocktail is going to
[0:32] Speaker 2: turn out, but here we go. Roses have thorns. So
[0:34] Speaker 2: what we want to do is this cocktail calls for cognac,
[0:38] Speaker 2: but if you don't have cognac, just use some sort
[0:40] Speaker 2: of dark flicker. I'm gonna use villion and you're going
[0:43] Speaker 2: to pour two parts into your shaker. That's about two parts.
[0:48] Speaker 2: I might maybe like a little two and a half parts,
[0:51] Speaker 2: and then you want to do one part rose water.
[0:57] Speaker 2: It smells so good. It comes out slow when I'd
[1:03] Speaker 2: be saying one part, and I'm like, why couldn't you
[1:05] Speaker 2: just put the measurement?
[1:06] Speaker 1: What is the part?
[1:08] Speaker 2: And then you're gonna do a half apart vanilla bean syrup.
[1:11] Speaker 2: I'm doing a regular simple syrup because Kiki doesn't like
[1:14] Speaker 2: a lot of flavors, but try the vanilla bean syrup.
[1:17] Speaker 1: It's really good.
[1:18] Speaker 2: And then two dashes of cinnamon bitters. I don't like cinnamon,
[1:22] Speaker 2: so I'm gonna leave that part out and do just
[1:25] Speaker 2: regular orange bitters the angostora and you're going to get
[1:29] Speaker 2: a little ice. Put it in your shaker.
[1:35] Speaker 1: M this smells good. Shake it up.
[1:45] Speaker 2: Some days I do miss being a bartender. We're gonna
[1:49] Speaker 2: get our strainer, strain it into our champagne flute, and
[2:00] Speaker 2: I think.
[2:00] Speaker 1: I needed the jigger, y'all.
[2:05] Speaker 2: But it's okay because we still have to top it
[2:06] Speaker 2: off with our prosecco, so we'll just put more than
[2:09] Speaker 2: a top.
[2:13] Speaker 1: There we go.
[2:14] Speaker 2: And if you want to be very fancy, maybe you're
[2:16] Speaker 2: having a girl's night or a date night and you're
[2:18] Speaker 2: trying to make it look luxurious, get some rose petals
[2:23] Speaker 2: and that is every row. Every rose has its thorn.
[2:32] Speaker 2: That might be the best one I've made.
[2:35] Speaker 3: Cheers, Welcome back to cocktails durty discussions.
[2:40] Speaker 2: You guys, I'm Kiki said, So, I'm Medina Monroe, and
[2:45] Speaker 2: how's your week bend.
[2:47] Speaker 1: This Tuesday?
[2:51] Speaker 3: Since you've seen since we've seen each.
[2:52] Speaker 2: Other last It's been busy. It has been very busy.
[2:56] Speaker 2: I'm still very much a real to, a real to,
[3:00] Speaker 2: and it is just such a whole It's a different
[3:04] Speaker 2: type of lifestyle, a lot of Like it's really teaching
[3:09] Speaker 2: me consistency, persistence, how important relationships are, which I already
[3:14] Speaker 2: really knew, already knew that, like my whole business model
[3:18] Speaker 2: is about relationships.
[3:19] Speaker 1: But I'm really loving it, Kiki, Like it's.
[3:22] Speaker 2: Keeping me busy and giving me like a new zest
[3:26] Speaker 2: and purpose for life, like it feels it feels good
[3:31] Speaker 2: to be learning and also helping people get into homes
[3:34] Speaker 2: or even just if you're not ready to buy a home,
[3:37] Speaker 2: helping people learn more and myself about the whole process
[3:40] Speaker 2: and inspiring people to want to buy, like a lot
[3:44] Speaker 2: of the times I'm talking to influencers, like I really
[3:46] Speaker 2: want to work with a lot of influencers who make
[3:48] Speaker 2: a lot of money but are still renting because you're
[3:50] Speaker 2: scared to buy, because you don't know if you're going
[3:53] Speaker 2: to keep making the money, but you just spending your
[3:54] Speaker 2: money on frivolous shit, Like it is just amazing to
[3:58] Speaker 2: me when anyway, and so it feels good to be
[4:02] Speaker 2: giving people this information like you can do it, like inspiring,
[4:04] Speaker 2: you can own a home, like just try see what
[4:07] Speaker 2: you would get approved for, make some changes in your
[4:09] Speaker 2: spending habits, and go for it. And so my week
[4:14] Speaker 2: has been very real estate y. That's why I got
[4:17] Speaker 2: this stressed on.
[4:18] Speaker 3: I'm glad to see you smiling about real estate because
[4:20] Speaker 3: last week you was stressed, and so I'm glad that
[4:24] Speaker 3: it just took a little time and whatever happened in
[4:26] Speaker 3: between last week and this week, you got a big
[4:27] Speaker 3: smile when you talking about it this week.
[4:29] Speaker 1: So I'm very I don't know I'll still be looking
[4:31] Speaker 1: like this next week, but you.
[4:32] Speaker 3: Know, whatever today, we worry about today and be grateful
[4:35] Speaker 3: for today, whatever happened today. Yeah, I've been good. I
[4:40] Speaker 3: just got back from Texas. I went and saw my
[4:43] Speaker 3: niece in the Little Mermaids.
[4:44] Speaker 1: How did she do?
[4:45] Speaker 3: She did well.
[4:46] Speaker 2: I didn't know.
[4:48] Speaker 3: I knew that she was in the chorus, or at
[4:50] Speaker 3: least that's what I was told, So I just thought
[4:52] Speaker 3: she would be singing and just doing group numbers, but
[4:54] Speaker 3: she had a bigger part than that. She did really good.
[4:58] Speaker 3: I was so proud of her. The production overall was
[5:02] Speaker 3: really good. I didn't go to many high school plays.
[5:07] Speaker 3: I went to plays, but not at Buie And so
[5:11] Speaker 3: just from what I can remember, and you know, helping
[5:15] Speaker 3: in the drama class when we would go down there
[5:17] Speaker 3: to the theater and have to help with props and stuff,
[5:20] Speaker 3: technology has come a long way. They had a lot
[5:22] Speaker 3: of special effects going on. Some of the girls whoever
[5:26] Speaker 3: played Ursula and the Two Eels. First of all, makeup.
[5:33] Speaker 3: They deserve an award. The makeup was so amazing and
[5:38] Speaker 3: they had a makeup tech who's a student. They had
[5:40] Speaker 3: like glowing the dark stuff going on, and like even
[5:43] Speaker 3: the costume choice with the long nails and everything. When
[5:46] Speaker 3: after the show I could see more in detail what
[5:49] Speaker 3: it looked like up close, and I was just like, Wow,
[5:51] Speaker 3: these are high school students that really put this amazing.
[5:54] Speaker 3: They had several dance numbers because it was the Little
[5:56] Speaker 3: Mermaid like musical style, so I was just like, oh Lord,
[5:59] Speaker 3: I don't know how this is gonna go.
[6:01] Speaker 2: I would have been in there blurting out, busting out
[6:03] Speaker 2: in song with them. I can't wait to have kids.
[6:06] Speaker 2: They need somebody's gonna be in drama class.
[6:08] Speaker 3: Yeah, but that was really good. And then it was
[6:11] Speaker 3: also her birthday, so we celebrated. We did a little
[6:15] Speaker 3: after party after the show because she didn't even get
[6:17] Speaker 3: home till like after eleven o'clock and the play was at.
[6:20] Speaker 1: Seven with her friends are with y'all.
[6:23] Speaker 3: Well, she had to stay behind because they had to
[6:25] Speaker 3: like break all that stuff down and then whatever the
[6:28] Speaker 3: students do afterwards. But that was also their very last
[6:31] Speaker 3: show because they had also done it the weekend before,
[6:35] Speaker 3: and so anyway, she didn't get home till later. So
[6:38] Speaker 3: I went. Pretty much everybody in the family went. My
[6:41] Speaker 3: sister and her new fiance came, so that was the
[6:44] Speaker 3: first time I've seen him since they got engaged. So
[6:47] Speaker 3: we got to tell them congratulations and stuff. They looked
[6:49] Speaker 3: so happy. Love to see it. Sandra came with me
[6:53] Speaker 3: and brought her daughter. Her daughter wore her little mermaid outfit,
[6:57] Speaker 3: her little costume. She loved it.
[6:59] Speaker 1: She was in the play a black girl, no, she's
[7:02] Speaker 1: a white girl.
[7:04] Speaker 3: Curious and most of the most of the people were white.
[7:09] Speaker 3: Lots of white people over there, and one of them,
[7:11] Speaker 3: I was just like, you know, it's a little anxious
[7:14] Speaker 3: so to know how things was going to go. Why
[7:16] Speaker 3: do people especially those people always had well not always,
[7:21] Speaker 3: but a lot of times have this sense of entitlement.
[7:22] Speaker 3: So when we got there, they had told this guy
[7:27] Speaker 3: that he could sit in these seats.
[7:28] Speaker 2: Right.
[7:29] Speaker 3: Why he could sit in the seats, I don't know,
[7:31] Speaker 3: because we pay for these reserved seats. But when we
[7:33] Speaker 3: got there, the lights were already dim. We thought the
[7:35] Speaker 3: show started later then it did. So anyway, it's fine,
[7:38] Speaker 3: we'll wait till intermission to move up. So when intermission comes,
[7:41] Speaker 3: we go to our seats, and he did not want
[7:43] Speaker 3: to move, and he had like the general admission seats
[7:47] Speaker 3: for the back. If you wanted to see your grand
[7:49] Speaker 3: baby or you're whoever you were watching in the play,
[7:53] Speaker 3: you should have bought the seats. We bought that whole row.
[7:56] Speaker 3: So if one person wasn't there and you decided to
[8:00] Speaker 3: sit that seat, sorry, you have to move. I don't
[8:02] Speaker 3: care if you're old. That pissed me off. And he
[8:04] Speaker 3: was sitting there acting like he couldn't listen to anything
[8:07] Speaker 3: any of us had to say, and we had to
[8:09] Speaker 3: go get help. And then it just that put a
[8:13] Speaker 3: funk on it, and I appreciate that, but I'm glad
[8:15] Speaker 3: it got rectified and he had to go sit his
[8:16] Speaker 3: ass in the back. But other than that, the play
[8:19] Speaker 3: was great. The students were really happy. They did a
[8:22] Speaker 3: really good job. It was and then just seeing how
[8:25] Speaker 3: many you need to relax. It was interesting to see
[8:28] Speaker 3: how many people were involved because at the end, like
[8:31] Speaker 3: you think about all the people who are in the show,
[8:34] Speaker 3: and you know that there's all these people behind the seat.
[8:35] Speaker 3: It was a lot of people part of that production,
[8:37] Speaker 3: like a lot. It felt like a Broadway musical. But
[8:42] Speaker 3: it was really good. I spent some time with my siblings.
[8:45] Speaker 3: I had to catch up with some friends. I got
[8:48] Speaker 3: to see one of my friends who haven't seen in
[8:49] Speaker 3: a while and met his girlfriend. And she's been around
[8:54] Speaker 3: but I never get to meet her, so it's nice
[8:56] Speaker 3: to meet her, and you know, for my assessment, she
[9:00] Speaker 3: was really cool. And what else happened other than that,
[9:04] Speaker 3: just work, more of the same work, work work. I
[9:07] Speaker 3: am happy that it is almost holiday season. I am
[9:12] Speaker 3: staying here for Thanksgiving, but I'm gonna go home sometime
[9:15] Speaker 3: in December and split my time between Louisiana and Texas.
[9:21] Speaker 3: I'm really looking forward to that. I can't wait to
[9:23] Speaker 3: see my grandparents, the rest of my family that's not
[9:26] Speaker 3: in Texas. Yeah, I just can't wait. I love this
[9:30] Speaker 3: time of year. Usually I would leave for Thanksgiving, but
[9:33] Speaker 3: since I just left Texas, I'm just like, I can
[9:35] Speaker 3: just wait. Yeah, And I need to spread it out
[9:38] Speaker 3: so that I don't get annoyed. I've been working on
[9:40] Speaker 3: protecting my peace and reminding myself. You know how you are,
[9:43] Speaker 3: and you know how other people are, and you set
[9:47] Speaker 3: a boundary before respect your own boundary. Why would anybody
[9:51] Speaker 3: else respect it if you don't. So I'm staying my
[9:53] Speaker 3: ass at home.
[9:53] Speaker 1: That's a good piece of advice. I am not staying
[9:56] Speaker 1: my ass at home for Thanksgiving.
[9:58] Speaker 2: I'm going to Pittsburgh to see my family, and I'm
[10:01] Speaker 2: so excited to see my grandma. I am so excited
[10:04] Speaker 2: to see my grandma. She is just such a wonderful
[10:06] Speaker 2: woman and she has lived so much life. She's she
[10:09] Speaker 2: ate it out her ninety I think she's ninety. And
[10:12] Speaker 2: my grandma is spicy, so it's so different to see
[10:15] Speaker 2: her now. She has dementia and she comes in and
[10:18] Speaker 2: out like and I was talking to her on the
[10:20] Speaker 2: phone the other day and I could tell she didn't
[10:22] Speaker 2: remember me, and she was looking at the picture that
[10:25] Speaker 2: that my aunt had on the phone for my profilety.
[10:27] Speaker 3: Yeah.
[10:28] Speaker 1: She was like, this young lady is so pretty.
[10:35] Speaker 3: She's just so pretty.
[10:36] Speaker 1: She said, Darling, you're so gorgeous, and I was just like, well,
[10:40] Speaker 1: I'm glad she never was lying, like she really thinks that,
[10:45] Speaker 1: and I was just like wow.
[10:46] Speaker 2: But it's really interesting when dealing with people in different
[10:49] Speaker 2: stages of dementia, because my grandma is at a point
[10:52] Speaker 2: where she can sometimes tell that she can't remember, but
[10:55] Speaker 2: she should know who you are, and she doesn't want
[10:57] Speaker 2: to hurt your feelings. She's not just flat out like,
[11:00] Speaker 2: so what.
[11:01] Speaker 3: Does she say. She'll just be like, oh, she'll try
[11:04] Speaker 3: to act.
[11:05] Speaker 2: Like she remembers and she and you can tell she
[11:06] Speaker 2: doesn't because you know when you know somebody like and
[11:09] Speaker 2: so I'll be like, Graham, you know it's Dean, I
[11:12] Speaker 2: love you, and she'll be like, Okay, Okay, you're gorgeous.
[11:18] Speaker 1: She's just so sweet.
[11:19] Speaker 2: I just can't wait to get there and love on her.
[11:22] Speaker 2: I love asking her about relationships and men, and she's
[11:26] Speaker 2: just funny. She's still funny. I'm bringing my dog. She
[11:29] Speaker 2: loves my little dog. I can't wait to go home
[11:33] Speaker 2: for Thanksgiving and just see that side of the family
[11:34] Speaker 2: because I don't get to see them often, so it'll
[11:37] Speaker 2: be it'll be good.
[11:39] Speaker 3: Is that side of your family really big?
[11:41] Speaker 2: Yes, My my mom's side of the family's really big,
[11:44] Speaker 2: and my dad's side of the family's really big. My
[11:46] Speaker 2: mom has five ceilings, my dad I think eight seven
[11:51] Speaker 2: or eight. And everybody has kids and everybody has grandkids.
[11:53] Speaker 2: So there's so many cousins and aunties and then family
[11:56] Speaker 2: members and I'm not sure if we're actually blood related,
[11:58] Speaker 2: but we're calling them aunt you uncle. So yeah, I'm
[12:03] Speaker 2: excited for the holidays. We're doing the night before Thanksgiving
[12:07] Speaker 2: when we do it with the whole family like that,
[12:09] Speaker 2: the extended family. My aunt Peachee loves to do like
[12:11] Speaker 2: an Italian night before Thanksgiving, but this year.
[12:14] Speaker 1: We're doing it.
[12:15] Speaker 2: She was like, I don't want to do an Italian
[12:16] Speaker 2: peach is my reach aunt. Okay, she's the reach auntee.
[12:19] Speaker 2: And she was like, this year before Thanksgiving, we're going
[12:21] Speaker 2: to do a Feast of seven Fishes.
[12:24] Speaker 1: And I was like yeah.
[12:25] Speaker 2: I was like, I hadn't heard of it before, and
[12:27] Speaker 2: she was, so that's what we'll do the night before
[12:28] Speaker 2: and we're just gonna like wear pajamas, have girl talk
[12:32] Speaker 2: and just have a really good time family.
[12:35] Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm looking forward to it a few Christmases, maybe
[12:39] Speaker 3: even Thanksgiving too. We were kind of tired of the
[12:42] Speaker 3: traditional meal, so we've never done the Feast of Seven Fishes,
[12:47] Speaker 3: but we have done an Italian we did barbecue before,
[12:49] Speaker 3: we did seafood definitely, and we've done just lots of
[12:54] Speaker 3: different themes for the food because I get tired of
[12:57] Speaker 3: turkey and the traditional stuff. I mean, it's good back
[13:00] Speaker 3: to back Thanksgiving and Christmas. One of them we could
[13:02] Speaker 3: flip it. You ate all the chicken. I'm trying to
[13:05] Speaker 3: think of what else. I guess that's it.
[13:10] Speaker 4: I see.
[13:11] Speaker 3: I do want to remind you guys that there's still
[13:13] Speaker 3: a few spots left at least when we're recording this,
[13:16] Speaker 3: to come with me next year. If you're looking for vacation,
[13:20] Speaker 3: I know I have been. I'm going on vacation and
[13:24] Speaker 3: you cannot come.
[13:25] Speaker 1: You're not taking away le Nope.
[13:27] Speaker 3: I feel like it's gonna be a lot of red
[13:29] Speaker 3: tape and she's gonna be holding me back, and what
[13:32] Speaker 3: if something happens to her over there? I would just
[13:35] Speaker 3: be so sad, and then like, how do you bring
[13:37] Speaker 3: a dog body back? I just don't know, so she's
[13:40] Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know Walker. I'm gonna have
[13:42] Speaker 3: to have ask Walker to watch Walker and his mom
[13:46] Speaker 3: or send her somewhere. I don't know, but I'm going.
[13:49] Speaker 3: Mama needs a break. I have been a mother for
[13:52] Speaker 3: almost a year now, and while I love it, it's fulfilling,
[13:57] Speaker 3: it's very challenging and I'm looking forward to my break.
[14:00] Speaker 3: So anyway, if you guys, if there's still spots left,
[14:03] Speaker 3: which I hope that there's a few for you guys
[14:06] Speaker 3: to come, I'm going to Kirosou March nineteenth through the
[14:09] Speaker 3: twenty third.
[14:09] Speaker 1: We're gonna have a.
[14:10] Speaker 3: Really good time relaxing, luxuriating, eating good, having fun, have
[14:15] Speaker 3: a yacht day, a cooking class, some beach clubs. We
[14:18] Speaker 3: might even add on a little dance class. I find
[14:21] Speaker 3: a dance class that I think it might be fun,
[14:23] Speaker 3: so we might ask some people come out to the resort,
[14:25] Speaker 3: and so while we're hanging out there, they can come
[14:27] Speaker 3: teach us a few of the dances. I couldn't find
[14:31] Speaker 3: anything that's kuras South specific, but kuras Out is in
[14:35] Speaker 3: the Caribbean. It's near Aruba. It's right above Venezuela, so
[14:39] Speaker 3: They have a huge South American influence and some other
[14:43] Speaker 3: cultures too, so they do a lot of the Latin
[14:45] Speaker 3: dances there and even their language is like a mix
[14:48] Speaker 3: of English, Dutch in Spanish. So I'm really excited about it,
[14:52] Speaker 3: looking forward to it. So if you haven't already signed up,
[14:55] Speaker 3: then come on, and I'm excited to meet everybody who has.
[14:57] Speaker 3: We are gonna have a glass. I cannot wait. And
[15:01] Speaker 3: just like she's having a blast on my foot, we.
[15:03] Speaker 1: Just I won't even see her in the camera.
[15:06] Speaker 3: Can you can when it's wide, you absolutely can. And
[15:10] Speaker 3: she's just going to town this girl. I mean, I
[15:13] Speaker 3: gave you all the chicken. She's eaten all of her chicken, breast,
[15:16] Speaker 3: stella and chewy. She loves these. If anybody from there
[15:19] Speaker 3: is watching, please send me some more because she just
[15:21] Speaker 3: can't get enough. There's no more. You ate it all,
[15:25] Speaker 3: you ate the whole thing.
[15:26] Speaker 2: Anyway, bad baby was really doing her thing, Okay, I guess.
[15:29] Speaker 2: On that note, we'll move on to weird sex, and
[15:31] Speaker 2: when we come back, we'll dive into a few topics.
[15:34] Speaker 5: You said a man is not a necessity.
[15:37] Speaker 3: A man is a luxury like dessert. Yeah, a man
[15:41] Speaker 3: is absolutely not necessity. Did you mean that to sound
[15:46] Speaker 3: mean it bitter? Oh not at all. I adore dessert.
[15:50] Speaker 3: I love man. I think men are the coolest, but
[15:52] Speaker 3: you don't.
[15:53] Speaker 1: Really need them to live.
[15:58] Speaker 3: Okay, speaking of this week, we were talking about well,
[16:03] Speaker 3: I'm thinking about Whitley, oh humping my foot ankle, But
[16:08] Speaker 3: they say she's over stimulated. Everybody's telling me something different,
[16:11] Speaker 3: so we're gonna go with that anyway. There is a
[16:15] Speaker 3: story coming out of Youngstown, Ohio, not Florida's surprising, and
[16:21] Speaker 3: there's a woman who's house caught on fire. Now she
[16:24] Speaker 3: lives in the home with her husband and guests who
[16:27] Speaker 3: caught it, who set it on fire or the suspect
[16:30] Speaker 3: their children, No, her cousin. And her cousin set the
[16:34] Speaker 3: house on fire allegedly because he wants to be with
[16:37] Speaker 3: her and it's mad that they can't be together.
[16:40] Speaker 1: And he has.
[16:41] Speaker 3: Already done something to the husband that sent him to
[16:44] Speaker 3: the hospital.
[16:44] Speaker 1: Well, you do put vising in his well, I don't.
[16:48] Speaker 3: Know what he did exactly. I'm gonna link this the
[16:51] Speaker 3: report below, And I don't know how the newscaster got
[16:54] Speaker 3: through with the straight face, but he did, so shout
[16:56] Speaker 3: out to him. But y'all this cousin shit. I just
[17:00] Speaker 3: I don't understand. I didn't know that that was like
[17:02] Speaker 3: such a thing in Ohio. But when I was trying
[17:05] Speaker 3: to find out what happened to her husband, I was
[17:06] Speaker 3: running into way too many stories about arson and incest
[17:11] Speaker 3: out there. What are y'all doing?
[17:12] Speaker 2: You know? Even though it's crazy and it's an uncomfortable topic.
[17:15] Speaker 2: I would love to have like an incest couple on
[17:18] Speaker 2: the show to just like ask them, like, what are
[17:23] Speaker 2: y'all doing and why.
[17:25] Speaker 3: You wanted ad I don't know because I don't know, Uh,
[17:30] Speaker 3: if I could control my facial expression, you never do. Yeah,
[17:34] Speaker 3: but it's it's a little different, and I would want
[17:37] Speaker 3: to call the police on them. Sometimes I do believe
[17:40] Speaker 3: it or not. Sometimes I do, or I just I
[17:42] Speaker 3: can keep it quiet or I just have blank stare.
[17:45] Speaker 3: But I don't know about that.
[17:48] Speaker 2: That would be a good conversation or the product of incests.
[17:51] Speaker 3: That would probably be a sad conversation. Yeah, I wonder,
[17:55] Speaker 3: and I wonder if peop would admit to it, because
[17:57] Speaker 3: it is very much not legal, maybe in some places,
[18:01] Speaker 3: but very much not legal. I think I wanted to
[18:04] Speaker 3: tell y'all this too. I was browsing. I think his
[18:06] Speaker 3: sign Max. Did you know that they have a whole
[18:09] Speaker 3: TV show now about the wild shit that happens in Florida.
[18:13] Speaker 3: It's called Florida Man. Yes, you guys, there is a
[18:16] Speaker 3: show called Florida Man, and I was watching an episode.
[18:19] Speaker 3: I thought about it with the arson just now because
[18:22] Speaker 3: this guy, it's a gay couple. They live together in
[18:25] Speaker 3: this trailer somewhere in Florida, and the man set I
[18:29] Speaker 3: might have told you all about this, but anyway, the
[18:31] Speaker 3: man got upset because he walked in and saw his
[18:35] Speaker 3: boyfriend on the couch with another man, and for some reason,
[18:38] Speaker 3: they were dressed up in like animal costumes or animal pajamas.
[18:43] Speaker 3: And I know it's so weird, but again, this is Florida.
[18:46] Speaker 3: So anyway, he decides that he's going to one of
[18:50] Speaker 3: the men who is dressed up. He's upset that he's
[18:53] Speaker 3: getting put out or whatever. The man said, who's trailer
[18:55] Speaker 3: they're in. So he's gonna set the whole trailer on fire.
[18:59] Speaker 3: And it's like this, I'm gonna blow it up. If
[19:01] Speaker 3: I can't be here, no one can. So he made
[19:04] Speaker 3: some spaghetti and he didn't have any period blood in there.
[19:09] Speaker 3: So he just decided he was gonna blow everything up,
[19:11] Speaker 3: and he set like some pots on fire with a
[19:13] Speaker 3: towel or something, hoping that by the time he was
[19:16] Speaker 3: gone and came back, that he would come back and
[19:18] Speaker 3: the trailer would be up in flames because it's been
[19:20] Speaker 3: burning on the stove all this time, everything should catch fire. Well,
[19:23] Speaker 3: he came back too soon. There was smoke coming out,
[19:27] Speaker 3: but the whole trailer had not been burned down, and
[19:29] Speaker 3: somebody had already called the police, so the police were
[19:32] Speaker 3: there when he pulled up.
[19:33] Speaker 1: So he's he wanted insurance money.
[19:36] Speaker 3: Well, it wasn't his home. He was just mad because
[19:38] Speaker 3: his boyfriend whose trailer it is, caught him cheating on him.
[19:41] Speaker 3: Oh and he's still riding around with the other man
[19:44] Speaker 3: and the other animal outfit. And I just don't know
[19:46] Speaker 3: what happened, what the reason was. But even when it
[19:49] Speaker 3: was all said and done, there were lots of other
[19:50] Speaker 3: charges that came up at the end of this episode.
[19:53] Speaker 3: The man whose trailer it was, he still has his trailer,
[19:57] Speaker 3: and the other man who put the place on fire,
[20:00] Speaker 3: he lives in the backyard in a tent, and he
[20:02] Speaker 3: had made him catfish and spaghetti that day or fried
[20:06] Speaker 3: chicken and spaghetti that day, and they were having dinner
[20:08] Speaker 3: on the back porch of the trailer. I guess love
[20:10] Speaker 3: conquers all anyway, it's wild. It's all kind of stuff
[20:15] Speaker 3: going on on there.
[20:16] Speaker 2: Wow, Like that is some people are so lucky, like
[20:18] Speaker 2: to have someone love you that much that nobody love
[20:21] Speaker 2: me like that. They're gonna forgive you for burning the
[20:25] Speaker 2: trailer down, like that's for better for worse.
[20:29] Speaker 3: I feel like I would be like, well, what are
[20:31] Speaker 3: you gonna do to me? I would definitely need to
[20:33] Speaker 3: sleep one eye open. It's a lot easier to burn
[20:35] Speaker 3: up a tent than a trailer. Anyway. That's weird sex
[20:41] Speaker 3: this week. If you guys have seen Florida Man, drop
[20:44] Speaker 3: a comment and let us know. And if you have
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[24:30] Speaker 2: Speaking of catfish and spaghetti. We recently had a holiday
[24:35] Speaker 2: pot luck at Keller Williams Buckhead and it was so
[24:40] Speaker 2: funny because I was like, what Kiky do?
[24:43] Speaker 3: What would you do? Would I participate?
[24:47] Speaker 2: Just like well, I was just wondering what you would
[24:49] Speaker 2: have said about some of the dishes. Not that if
[24:51] Speaker 2: anybody's listening to this, it was wonderful. It was wonderful
[24:56] Speaker 2: what they there was a variety of foods, but I
[24:59] Speaker 2: was It's like I got there early to help set up.
[25:02] Speaker 2: That is one thing I love about being in like
[25:03] Speaker 2: a work setting again, like just the being around people
[25:06] Speaker 2: and doing stuff and so.
[25:10] Speaker 1: I was like, where, how is everybody going to eat
[25:11] Speaker 1: their food? Like do we have warmers? And they were
[25:13] Speaker 1: like no, and I was like, what, it's macaroni chase sitting.
[25:17] Speaker 2: I was like, let's bring the microwave down from upstairs
[25:20] Speaker 2: so people can at least eat their plates up and
[25:21] Speaker 2: heat up their dishes if they want to. But there
[25:23] Speaker 2: was just it's so interesting when you have such different,
[25:26] Speaker 2: a diverse group of people together and you get to
[25:29] Speaker 2: see what everybody eats, how everybody cooks, like how they
[25:32] Speaker 2: want to.
[25:33] Speaker 3: See everybody's kitchen, and how they clean up that I'm
[25:35] Speaker 3: scared of pot looks.
[25:37] Speaker 1: How they presented like there was cats. Who has halts?
[25:44] Speaker 1: I didn't even I don't know, but somebody brought Do
[25:47] Speaker 1: you like cranberry sauce?
[25:49] Speaker 3: No?
[25:49] Speaker 2: I love cranberry sauce, but I don't like the cranberry
[25:52] Speaker 2: sauce with the seeds. And whenever anybody decides to get
[25:55] Speaker 2: that and pour it in a bowl and really try
[25:58] Speaker 2: to spruce it up, it's like, why would you get this?
[26:00] Speaker 1: Get the jellied one where it's you sound like my mom?
[26:03] Speaker 3: Every year it's like a thing because Sean likes the
[26:07] Speaker 3: kind with the real cranberries and sea. So she makes
[26:10] Speaker 3: it and then my mom is like, nobody eats that.
[26:13] Speaker 3: Get the kind, get the spray, yes, jellylice it along
[26:18] Speaker 3: the ridges, so you know how much to get everybody
[26:21] Speaker 3: wants to slice of cranberry? Yeah, Like, what is this?
[26:26] Speaker 3: I just always think to think it's funny, But I
[26:29] Speaker 3: don't know anybody besides her that's like adamant about having it.
[26:32] Speaker 3: Somebody eat it.
[26:34] Speaker 1: I already got my cranberry size.
[26:36] Speaker 3: Adamant about having the kind with the cranberry seeds and stuff.
[26:39] Speaker 3: And I just know people feel strongly about the jelly.
[26:43] Speaker 3: And I don't eat it, but I get it because
[26:44] Speaker 3: everybody's worked up about it, so I understand it's important.
[26:47] Speaker 1: It's important.
[26:48] Speaker 3: Nobody brought it.
[26:49] Speaker 2: Nobody brought the regular dressing or stuffing or something. Somebody dressing,
[26:55] Speaker 2: somebody about dressing and stuffing. They were both very different.
[26:57] Speaker 2: I could tell who was black that made it, and uh,
[27:01] Speaker 2: somebody brought a Bulgarian dish.
[27:03] Speaker 1: It was. It was interesting.
[27:04] Speaker 2: It was a I don't know how to pronounce it,
[27:06] Speaker 2: but it was some sort of like pastry situation. And
[27:09] Speaker 2: then it's interesting to see like the types of things
[27:11] Speaker 2: people bring because it's like a breakfast food. But this
[27:13] Speaker 2: was like the I'm I'm a traditional Thanksgiving meal top
[27:16] Speaker 2: of girl. I want the yams, I want the dressing,
[27:17] Speaker 2: I want gravy. I want greens with a turkey legging
[27:21] Speaker 2: and not the pork foot. I want turkey, I want whatever.
[27:29] Speaker 2: But so but everybody brought so many Somebody had brought
[27:32] Speaker 2: some macarine cheese in it. I thought it was cornbread,
[27:35] Speaker 2: and I was like, let me just be quiet and
[27:36] Speaker 2: not ask about stuff because now you because it had
[27:39] Speaker 2: a lot of crumbs on the top of it.
[27:41] Speaker 3: Oh, I've seen people prepare would.
[27:43] Speaker 1: Make Why you would make mac and cheese like that?
[27:46] Speaker 2: You like?
[27:47] Speaker 3: You wonder if they bought it from the grocery store
[27:50] Speaker 3: because I've seen the homestyle kits and they have bread
[27:53] Speaker 3: crumbs that they put on top, So I wonder if
[27:55] Speaker 3: they did one of those.
[27:57] Speaker 1: I was and it's always interesting.
[27:59] Speaker 2: I love having this conversation with non black people who
[28:01] Speaker 2: don't have abnormal we are traditional Thanksgiving food is totally different,
[28:05] Speaker 2: Like do you understand that white people don't know what
[28:07] Speaker 2: greens are? Well, they're like greens like southa And I'm like.
[28:11] Speaker 3: No, kind of white people.
[28:14] Speaker 1: Not deep South Country white people, because I.
[28:16] Speaker 3: Just feel like in the South you should know whether
[28:19] Speaker 3: you country or not. In the South, you should know.
[28:21] Speaker 2: If you ask a white person, be like, do you know,
[28:24] Speaker 2: do y'all have greens? And they're gonna be like green beans.
[28:26] Speaker 2: It's an interesting cond It's like ask.
[28:30] Speaker 3: Somebody was like, I really don't interact with a lot
[28:32] Speaker 3: of white people on a regular basis. I don't work
[28:35] Speaker 3: with any white people at all.
[28:38] Speaker 1: Wow.
[28:39] Speaker 3: Well there's one guy I know. He doesn't really he's
[28:41] Speaker 3: like a contractor.
[28:42] Speaker 1: He comes in and out, but him ask him if
[28:44] Speaker 1: he's had greens.
[28:44] Speaker 3: He's had greens. He's from Alabama, the country. Yeah, I
[28:49] Speaker 3: don't know the California ones. They do green bean casserole.
[28:54] Speaker 1: Somebody had brought some gravy with.
[28:57] Speaker 3: Something wrong with the gravy or it was different.
[28:59] Speaker 1: It was different. It was different. It was just it
[29:02] Speaker 1: was too watery. It was too loose. I like flavored,
[29:08] Speaker 1: my mom.
[29:09] Speaker 3: You like, you know, like a roast beef sandwich, like
[29:12] Speaker 3: a friend ship has that.
[29:13] Speaker 2: Really it was like that, but that's not how grug you.
[29:17] Speaker 2: It was supposed to go on the dressing. It was
[29:21] Speaker 2: a dressing dry.
[29:22] Speaker 1: There was a seafood dressing that was not dry. It
[29:24] Speaker 1: was good.
[29:25] Speaker 2: And then there was a dressing where I was like,
[29:26] Speaker 2: oh my god, I did not get that one. And
[29:28] Speaker 2: then this one man, his name is Mark, I really
[29:30] Speaker 2: love him. He brought a whole bunch of public fried chicken,
[29:33] Speaker 2: and I said, you a real one, because that's what
[29:35] Speaker 2: I'm gonna get, and that's gonna be easy every time.
[29:37] Speaker 2: It's gonna taste good. I love public fried chicken. Public's
[29:40] Speaker 2: fried chicken. I know it got all the hormones pumped
[29:43] Speaker 2: in the breast, but it's good.
[29:45] Speaker 3: I mean, at this point, they're gonna be in a
[29:47] Speaker 3: somehow some way. We've been around for a long time.
[29:50] Speaker 2: Long.
[29:51] Speaker 3: What did you bring?
[29:52] Speaker 2: I just brought some rice. I was very busy, and
[29:54] Speaker 2: I was like, if y'all, I just I white rice.
[29:57] Speaker 2: I do a little like spanishy rice. I actually learned
[29:59] Speaker 2: how to make the rice from my ex boyfriends Carlos.
[30:04] Speaker 2: His mom, you know, he was from a Salvador and
[30:06] Speaker 2: she made this rice and it would just be so
[30:09] Speaker 2: tasty and it was so simple and she would put
[30:11] Speaker 2: onions in it and tomatoes in it. And then I'm
[30:13] Speaker 2: making a Suspanish rice, but I add a little soul
[30:15] Speaker 2: flare to it. So I put a little sage in it.
[30:17] Speaker 2: I love sage. I just love the way it smells
[30:20] Speaker 2: around this time, especially around this time of year. So
[30:23] Speaker 2: I literally just brought rice. And I was glad that
[30:25] Speaker 2: I just brought rice because so many people route Macaciet,
[30:27] Speaker 2: so many people by dressing, and I was like.
[30:28] Speaker 3: We don't need all this was anybody competing.
[30:31] Speaker 2: No, but we did a chili cook off and that
[30:33] Speaker 2: was a competition and the people were not playing about
[30:36] Speaker 2: their chili. But the man that won, he deserved to win.
[30:39] Speaker 1: It was good. It was good.
[30:40] Speaker 2: I mean we were people were trying to scrape the ball.
[30:42] Speaker 2: That's how good it was. And that same man, I
[30:44] Speaker 2: didn't know this. He's married to a black man. It
[30:46] Speaker 2: makes sense now. He brought a Hennessy honey corn bread.
[30:51] Speaker 2: It was so and he came in so proud.
[30:55] Speaker 3: He was like a chap.
[30:57] Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm a jasty. Wasn't dry. You
[31:00] Speaker 1: could taste the Henessy, you could taste the honey, you
[31:01] Speaker 1: could taste the butter. It was so good.
[31:04] Speaker 3: That sounds tasty.
[31:05] Speaker 1: Yeah.
[31:06] Speaker 3: I was talking to one of my friends. They do
[31:09] Speaker 3: like a Thanksgiving pot luck at his job too, and
[31:12] Speaker 3: he gets very serious about it. So he uses my
[31:15] Speaker 3: macaroni and cheese recipe that's available on my cookbook and
[31:18] Speaker 3: he's like, I always do it exactly the same every time,
[31:21] Speaker 3: and they're always wild and he gets stressed out every year.
[31:24] Speaker 3: He calls me every year asking me about cheese it.
[31:26] Speaker 3: I'm like, you have made this so many times, you
[31:28] Speaker 3: should be able to make it in your sleep. But
[31:30] Speaker 3: that's just how he is. And I love him so much,
[31:32] Speaker 3: but he was he was stressed out because he was thinking, like, you, like,
[31:35] Speaker 3: how we gonna warm this up? Yeah, And so he
[31:38] Speaker 3: was like, well, I'm gonna prepare. I'm gonna start prepping
[31:41] Speaker 3: the night before, cook it in the morning when I
[31:43] Speaker 3: get up, and then when I come back, I can
[31:45] Speaker 3: just reheat it at home and bring it up there
[31:47] Speaker 3: because he's only ten minutes away from his job. And
[31:50] Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, that's the best thing, because nobody
[31:51] Speaker 3: wants cold mac and cheese, and you need the cheese
[31:53] Speaker 3: to spread and to be good. You don't want to
[31:56] Speaker 3: mess with a texture. You don't want it to sit
[31:58] Speaker 3: too long and reheat it too many times. Because it
[32:00] Speaker 3: is so much cheese, all the oils will start to separate,
[32:03] Speaker 3: and that's going to ruin your presentation and people are
[32:05] Speaker 3: gonna be like, well, why does he think his mac
[32:06] Speaker 3: and cheese is so good? And who taught him that?
[32:08] Speaker 3: And don't say my name if it's not looking right.
[32:10] Speaker 3: So anyway, yeah he does that. I haven't. We don't
[32:15] Speaker 3: do a potla at a station. It's so many men
[32:17] Speaker 3: they don't cook. But a lot of times what happens
[32:20] Speaker 3: is somebody will sponsor and we'll just have like them
[32:24] Speaker 3: cater something. So usually Thanksgiving isn't something. But last time
[32:29] Speaker 3: I went to the station for a meeting, there was
[32:30] Speaker 3: a company I forgot their name, I hate that, but
[32:33] Speaker 3: they're a catering company. It's a couple out of New Orleans,
[32:37] Speaker 3: and they made a bunch of different food. They had greens,
[32:40] Speaker 3: they had like a shrimp alfredo, they made gumbo, they
[32:44] Speaker 3: made some ribs, There was corn bread. I think that
[32:49] Speaker 3: they brought the beverages and the dessert, so they didn't
[32:53] Speaker 3: make that. And there were a few other things that
[32:54] Speaker 3: they made, oh, jumbalaya and jerk chicken. So everything except
[33:00] Speaker 3: for the alfredo and the jerk chicken was like all
[33:03] Speaker 3: like Louisiana style food. But everything was really good, and
[33:08] Speaker 3: I was like, I'll be the judge of this. Everybody's
[33:10] Speaker 3: always like, oh, we got a new catering company. You
[33:12] Speaker 3: gotta come down and try and see. Tell us what
[33:14] Speaker 3: you think, because everybody knows I'm a foodie. I thoroughly
[33:17] Speaker 3: enjoyed it, So shout out to them. I forgot who
[33:19] Speaker 3: they are. If I can find them or remember, I'll
[33:22] Speaker 3: put it somewhere.
[33:23] Speaker 2: I went to an open house the old Tyler Perry
[33:26] Speaker 2: houses for sale, and one of my friends is the
[33:28] Speaker 2: listing agent, and so he threw this huge like event
[33:34] Speaker 2: for people to come and tour the home. It was
[33:36] Speaker 2: where they filmed Dire from That Black Woman. That is
[33:38] Speaker 2: one of my favorite Tyler Perry movies. I know every
[33:40] Speaker 2: word to me and my mom used to watch it
[33:41] Speaker 2: almost every day. So I went in every room and
[33:44] Speaker 2: was like, oh, oh my god, this is where. This
[33:46] Speaker 2: is where she threw him in the tub. Oh my gosh,
[33:48] Speaker 2: this is where Charles threw her out, Like, this is
[33:50] Speaker 2: where this is what Helen said here, like this is
[33:53] Speaker 2: where media chopped up the closet and chopped up the
[33:56] Speaker 2: you know anyways. And so they had a caterer there.
[33:59] Speaker 2: This was such an it was just to go toward
[34:01] Speaker 2: the property. We in here eaton having champagne. This woman,
[34:04] Speaker 2: I can't remember who the caterer was it, but the
[34:06] Speaker 2: macari cheese was so good. She had macaroni cheese, she
[34:09] Speaker 2: had oxtail, she had a shrimp alfredo, she had some
[34:13] Speaker 2: amazing like lemonade. I'm not even a juice drinker like that,
[34:16] Speaker 2: but it was so good. And I was just looking
[34:18] Speaker 2: around at all of us in Tyler Perry's house just
[34:21] Speaker 2: eating all this high cholesterol food. It was just like
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[35:12] Speaker 1: Our topic for our topic.
[35:14] Speaker 2: So the first thing on here that I had to
[35:16] Speaker 2: ask you was and I've been asking several people in
[35:19] Speaker 2: my life this, women and men, adults and kids.
[35:23] Speaker 1: What do you love about women?
[35:26] Speaker 4: I love how, no matter what, women will find a
[35:29] Speaker 4: way to make things happen, whether it's to make their
[35:32] Speaker 4: day better, make somebody else's day better, get a job done,
[35:35] Speaker 4: get a meal prepared.
[35:36] Speaker 3: Women just do so much every day. And it's admirable
[35:40] Speaker 3: how sometimes women can make things look so easy. But
[35:43] Speaker 3: I love how we don't let things stop us. I
[35:46] Speaker 3: think it's a beautiful thing.
[35:50] Speaker 1: It's so many things.
[35:52] Speaker 3: I love.
[35:55] Speaker 2: How women love, whether it's your children, or your man,
[36:01] Speaker 2: or your woman or your friend. Like I love how
[36:04] Speaker 2: women show up for each other, show up for their families,
[36:08] Speaker 2: show up.
[36:09] Speaker 1: Sometimes it's not for themselves.
[36:11] Speaker 2: But women just really be women in like you really
[36:15] Speaker 2: wouldn't have color in the world if it wasn't for
[36:20] Speaker 2: a woman, you wouldn't have.
[36:24] Speaker 1: Love and light in the world.
[36:26] Speaker 2: Like literally when you look at like the workplaces, where
[36:28] Speaker 2: when women aren't in the workplace, it would just be
[36:30] Speaker 2: like a dirty dry stanch smelling like there would be
[36:36] Speaker 2: no color a factory, there would be no color. And
[36:39] Speaker 2: I put that on here because I know so many women,
[36:43] Speaker 2: and I see so many women post certain things on
[36:45] Speaker 2: social media where they're just like beating themselves up about
[36:51] Speaker 2: several things, not making certain deadlines if it's a work thing,
[36:54] Speaker 2: or maybe you're going through relationship issues and you're only
[36:56] Speaker 2: looking at like what you have done wrong, which I'm
[36:59] Speaker 2: not saying like don't hold yourself accountable, but women will
[37:01] Speaker 2: beat themselves up over something or talk crazy to yourself,
[37:04] Speaker 2: or or not believe in I'm probably feeling this way
[37:07] Speaker 2: because I'm reading Power Moves by Sarah Jakes in the
[37:09] Speaker 2: way that she's just talking about how a lot of
[37:11] Speaker 2: women don't let the power move through their body, how
[37:14] Speaker 2: you can and you can sometimes feel yourself not doing it.
[37:16] Speaker 2: And I just be wanting women to believe in themselves
[37:19] Speaker 2: and really don't stop because we're fucking amazing.
[37:23] Speaker 1: Amen to that amazing. And I hope.
[37:25] Speaker 2: Kamala ain't sitting down. You think she's sad or you
[37:28] Speaker 2: think she's like, oh, I'm glad I didn't win.
[37:30] Speaker 3: I think she's probably going through a plethora of emotions.
[37:34] Speaker 3: But I do think that she sees the silver lining
[37:37] Speaker 3: that at least I don't have to do this shit,
[37:39] Speaker 3: because this is stressful. It is a lot, and whether
[37:42] Speaker 3: she decides to run again or not, now she has
[37:45] Speaker 3: a little bit more time with her family. Maybe people
[37:49] Speaker 3: soon enough, in the next few months, they can relax
[37:51] Speaker 3: and stop asking what the fuck she's doing all day
[37:53] Speaker 3: as if she was already the president. You don't do
[37:57] Speaker 3: their social studies work, and they don't know how the
[37:59] Speaker 3: government works. But Welli'll back on that, but yeah, I
[38:03] Speaker 3: think she probably feels a sense of relief. But I
[38:06] Speaker 3: think that she knows that she's powerful, she knows that
[38:10] Speaker 3: she doesn't need to beat herself up too bad, and
[38:13] Speaker 3: I think she's very aware of the odds being stacked
[38:16] Speaker 3: against her and she went really far. And I'm still
[38:19] Speaker 3: very proud of her and everything that just the images
[38:25] Speaker 3: and the things that it meant to so many different
[38:27] Speaker 3: people in a positive way. I'm glad that she did it.
[38:32] Speaker 3: I hate everything negative that happened, but I'm glad that
[38:34] Speaker 3: she did it. And it gave like an extra sense
[38:37] Speaker 3: of pride and happiness to me personally, because it's like,
[38:43] Speaker 3: this is a woman, a black woman, a black woman
[38:46] Speaker 3: that went to my alma mater. You know, like both
[38:48] Speaker 3: of us went to HBCUs and you know how people
[38:50] Speaker 3: always talk about HBCUs as if they're less than and
[38:53] Speaker 3: we had a graduate right there running for president who
[38:55] Speaker 3: made it very far to the very end, you know
[38:57] Speaker 3: what I mean. And it's just like to anybody thinking
[39:01] Speaker 3: about schools and somebody's trying to tell you that you
[39:03] Speaker 3: can't because of these schools, that is not true. It's
[39:06] Speaker 3: people out here doing it at any school. And yeah,
[39:10] Speaker 3: don't forget that. And women can be anything. Unfortunately many
[39:14] Speaker 3: people don't believe that yet, but you can try. And
[39:18] Speaker 3: I I just love that, and I hate how sad
[39:21] Speaker 3: she was. But I did see her chilling with her family.
[39:23] Speaker 3: What was happening at somebody's house, probably her sister's house.
[39:26] Speaker 3: She was with her nieces and she was laughing and
[39:28] Speaker 3: playing games with the little girls, and so she looked happy.
[39:31] Speaker 3: I mean, it was photos. You never really know what
[39:32] Speaker 3: was going on behind the photo. She had her glass
[39:34] Speaker 3: of wine, she had a Howard hoodie on and her
[39:36] Speaker 3: hair was pulled up chilling a makeup on, and I
[39:39] Speaker 3: was like, well, I know. She's like, man, I'm glad
[39:41] Speaker 3: actually that I don't have to go through this. That
[39:42] Speaker 3: is a stressful job and people come out looking old.
[39:45] Speaker 3: Have you ever looked at the photos that they do
[39:48] Speaker 3: of a president every year throughout their presidency and they
[39:52] Speaker 3: show how drastically they age, and like if they weren't
[39:55] Speaker 3: great when they went in, how they're super gray later.
[39:58] Speaker 3: Somebody must be here super gray layer. She's probably like, yeah,
[40:02] Speaker 3: I'm already.
[40:04] Speaker 1: I don't want to be looking crazy.
[40:06] Speaker 2: That's when I don't want to age badly. Like so far,
[40:08] Speaker 2: I'm doing great. Keep your comments to yourself if you
[40:11] Speaker 2: don't think so. Because I opened up.
[40:15] Speaker 3: Where I used my speaking of looking great, uh and aging,
[40:20] Speaker 3: I've been using my Oca Kiki.
[40:22] Speaker 1: I'm addicted. I used the body scrub last night.
[40:26] Speaker 3: The polish or the other one.
[40:27] Speaker 1: The polish.
[40:28] Speaker 3: That polish, y'all. That polish is the truth and it
[40:32] Speaker 3: smells so good. I just want to it smells that
[40:37] Speaker 3: it feels good. I went online and I was when
[40:42] Speaker 3: we were recording this. The seal didn't happen yet, so
[40:43] Speaker 3: I'm ana wait till the sale my freebies, but they
[40:46] Speaker 3: are having a Black Friday sale and I absolutely need
[40:48] Speaker 3: to get it. This is definitely going to be a
[40:50] Speaker 3: gift for many people, and I want all of the
[40:52] Speaker 3: travel pouches for myself to put in my luggage. I
[40:56] Speaker 3: brought them no issues of that oil, the body polished,
[41:00] Speaker 3: the body washed, the hyaluronic serrum. I don't know what
[41:04] Speaker 3: it's for, but I put it on my butt because
[41:08] Speaker 3: that's where I got the most stretch marks. Put it
[41:10] Speaker 3: on my butt. I also put it on my breast
[41:13] Speaker 3: so that even though I only got a scoop of breast.
[41:15] Speaker 3: I don't ever want them to get saggy like they
[41:17] Speaker 3: sit pretty right now, but like you just never know
[41:19] Speaker 3: when Father Tom is gonna bring them down.
[41:22] Speaker 1: I really can't imagine that.
[41:23] Speaker 3: That would be so sad. But when I see girls
[41:25] Speaker 3: with little titties that are saggy, they look like flapjacks.
[41:28] Speaker 3: And it's no shade to y'all. Y'all probably proud of
[41:30] Speaker 3: your flat jacks. I don't want them because I ain't
[41:31] Speaker 3: got I had no baby to suck the life out
[41:33] Speaker 3: of it. It's like, bitch, what happened? You need to
[41:35] Speaker 3: have your hyaluronic serrum. If that's even what it does,
[41:37] Speaker 3: I don't know. But I've been putting all over my
[41:38] Speaker 3: titties and all of my bodies. I'm about to be
[41:41] Speaker 3: out of the little travel thing and I'm like, I've
[41:43] Speaker 3: got to get some more. But that stuff is good, y'all.
[41:46] Speaker 2: I'm rocking with Elsie. I love it. It smells good
[41:51] Speaker 2: and it looks good. It's very luxurious. Or my next question, okay,
[41:56] Speaker 2: how do you feel about what do you love most
[41:59] Speaker 2: about men?
[42:00] Speaker 3: And oh, it's funny you should ask me that I
[42:06] Speaker 3: have been on a personal challenge and a professional challenge
[42:10] Speaker 3: to find the beauty and men. So let's see what
[42:14] Speaker 3: do I love most about them?
[42:18] Speaker 1: This is crazy.
[42:20] Speaker 3: There's a few things that I love, but I'm trying
[42:22] Speaker 3: to think of what I love most. I don't think
[42:24] Speaker 3: men are all bad or anything like that, aside from
[42:29] Speaker 3: being esthetically pleasing sometimes because that is one of my
[42:32] Speaker 3: favorite things. That's what was coming to mine first. What
[42:34] Speaker 3: I wanted to have a deeper answer. I like how,
[42:37] Speaker 3: even though sometimes I think that men can take it
[42:40] Speaker 3: too far, the idea of protecting and providing for their family,
[42:44] Speaker 3: whether it be espoused children or other family members. I
[42:49] Speaker 3: like that many men do just accept the role of
[42:53] Speaker 3: I have to get it like. It's no way that
[42:56] Speaker 3: I cannot be successful. I have to be able to
[42:59] Speaker 3: do these things. This is part of being a man
[43:01] Speaker 3: and just accepting that role. I can understand how people
[43:05] Speaker 3: on in either gender could not want to accept traditional things,
[43:10] Speaker 3: and I am very appreciative to the men who do
[43:13] Speaker 3: and just they will. Many of them will stick up
[43:16] Speaker 3: for you, whether they know you or not. I've been
[43:18] Speaker 3: in situations where a stranger, a man who's a stranger,
[43:22] Speaker 3: did stick up for me, or did get in between
[43:24] Speaker 3: me and some form of danger or some stop somebody
[43:27] Speaker 3: from disrespecting me or just doing something like that, and
[43:30] Speaker 3: they don't know me. And I appreciate men for.
[43:34] Speaker 2: That me too, I agree with that and they and
[43:37] Speaker 2: they like doing it. It's not ever their life.
[43:39] Speaker 1: I gotta go pick up the heavy stuff.
[43:41] Speaker 3: I like when they look happy about or the.
[43:46] Speaker 1: Men that love doing stuff for their wives.
[43:48] Speaker 2: They're not like I always got it he or she
[43:51] Speaker 2: or they love being with their kids, like I love
[43:54] Speaker 2: when I see a family man, a family man, or
[43:57] Speaker 2: kids acting up, Like if you're in the household with
[43:59] Speaker 2: a family, whether it's cousins or even your sister, and
[44:04] Speaker 2: like the kids are acting up, and then I listening
[44:05] Speaker 2: to the mom and then the dad comes in, and.
[44:07] Speaker 1: All the dad gotta do is like, hey, let me
[44:09] Speaker 1: tell you.
[44:10] Speaker 2: And everybody's like, even if their dad is like little
[44:13] Speaker 2: and short, it's like, that's still a man, like the
[44:15] Speaker 2: man the presence of a man alone, Like everybody.
[44:21] Speaker 3: I get what you mean. I was in the car
[44:23] Speaker 3: on the way to brunch actually this weekend, so with
[44:26] Speaker 3: my friends. They're married. They have a daughter playing a
[44:28] Speaker 3: game in the car. I don't even know how the
[44:30] Speaker 3: game works. I was on the phone. The little girl
[44:33] Speaker 3: says something slick to her mama and was like stop
[44:36] Speaker 3: being silly or something like that. But she said it
[44:38] Speaker 3: in a tone where I guess this is a thing
[44:41] Speaker 3: where she's getting smart with her mama. So mama didn't
[44:44] Speaker 3: say anything, and her daddy stepped in. Well you know,
[44:47] Speaker 3: he's driving, but he's like, hey, you don't talk to
[44:49] Speaker 3: your mom like that. It's disrespectful. She's she's straightened up
[44:53] Speaker 3: and it didn't happen again. And I was like, I know,
[44:55] Speaker 3: that's right.
[44:56] Speaker 1: I love that.
[44:58] Speaker 3: Thank you for sticking up for me. I said, they're
[45:00] Speaker 3: gonna have a good night tonight because that was good.
[45:03] Speaker 3: And I like when men do things like.
[45:05] Speaker 2: I love that.
[45:07] Speaker 3: That's a good one.
[45:09] Speaker 1: That's a good one. Yeah, I do. I love men and.
[45:13] Speaker 3: I love seeing like because they're not old, they're our age.
[45:16] Speaker 3: I love seeing that. Even though depending on what you
[45:19] Speaker 3: see on your social media, what you're clicking through your
[45:21] Speaker 3: algorithm might be over there in the getto and the
[45:25] Speaker 3: sad side of the internet, but it's nice to see
[45:29] Speaker 3: in real life. And when I see it on social media,
[45:31] Speaker 3: men who are doing these things and they're doing it
[45:33] Speaker 3: with pride and they're happy about it, and they're happy
[45:36] Speaker 3: to do it, they're proud of it, they love whoever
[45:38] Speaker 3: they're with, and they're showing positive images. I think that's
[45:42] Speaker 3: really important. And so what I was saying, you know,
[45:44] Speaker 3: I'm on this personal and professional journey to find these stories.
[45:48] Speaker 3: That is what I've been working on. And it's interesting
[45:50] Speaker 3: hearing the stories from men like that because so often
[45:53] Speaker 3: it's so easy to get the clickbait in the little
[45:55] Speaker 3: situations where people are being trifling. But I love the
[45:58] Speaker 3: men who are standing up and being men.
[46:03] Speaker 1: Yeah, proud of it.
[46:04] Speaker 3: I love it.
[46:05] Speaker 2: I feel like if you live with the man, or
[46:06] Speaker 2: you in a relationship, or you married or something, I
[46:09] Speaker 2: feel like those are like good conversations to have with
[46:11] Speaker 2: each other, Like ask your man what does he love
[46:13] Speaker 2: about women? And then ask him what he loves about men,
[46:16] Speaker 2: like just and then have him ask you and y'all
[46:18] Speaker 2: share those those conversations with each other so it can
[46:21] Speaker 2: be like a moment of appreciation, because we do live
[46:23] Speaker 2: in a world right now where everybody just be going
[46:25] Speaker 2: in on every little thing, and it's like, all right, y'all,
[46:28] Speaker 2: I'm starting to get sick because this stuff. Like tell
[46:30] Speaker 2: me something positive. I haven't been on Instagram for two days,
[46:33] Speaker 2: and that is rare.
[46:33] Speaker 3: Doesn't that feel good?
[46:35] Speaker 1: Girl?
[46:35] Speaker 2: I got so much, when I tell you, I got
[46:40] Speaker 2: so much done, Like the past several days even though
[46:48] Speaker 2: I was still on Instagram. But the past two days
[46:49] Speaker 2: I haven't had time to get on Instagram. And I
[46:51] Speaker 2: didn't want the energy, the energetic flow that I've been
[46:54] Speaker 2: in to be disrupted by the slightest thing, and so
[46:58] Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I'm gonna stay off social
[47:00] Speaker 2: media unless I have to get on my in my
[47:02] Speaker 2: not even Instagram. I don't be on Facebook, but there
[47:04] Speaker 2: was a program I needed to link to my business
[47:06] Speaker 2: Facebook page and that was the only thing I did.
[47:09] Speaker 2: And it's like, wow, like you really got to pay
[47:11] Speaker 2: attention to your energy flow because the slightest thing can
[47:14] Speaker 2: mess it up.
[47:16] Speaker 3: I know, I go on block parties all the time.
[47:18] Speaker 3: When I do get on social media and I'm scrolling
[47:20] Speaker 3: and I see too much stuff that I don't like,
[47:22] Speaker 3: I will just block the account. Yeah, I don't want
[47:24] Speaker 3: to see it, because I don't want that in my life.
[47:26] Speaker 3: The other day, I actually clicked the thing on Instagram
[47:30] Speaker 3: where it'll show you like the average time or how
[47:33] Speaker 3: much time, not even the average, but the total amount
[47:36] Speaker 3: of time you had spent on Instagram in the past week.
[47:38] Speaker 3: It was an hour and thirty minutes, and I was
[47:40] Speaker 3: happy about that, but I was like, I want it
[47:42] Speaker 3: under an hour because I can just get on. I
[47:45] Speaker 3: could turn on post notifications for the cocktails page and
[47:48] Speaker 3: post notifications for anyone or anything that I follow, so
[47:52] Speaker 3: I know that it's probably something important. And I can
[47:55] Speaker 3: check it. I've been limiting my time on there, so
[47:57] Speaker 3: it's not that I'm ignoring people, and sometimes I hate that.
[48:00] Speaker 3: I even have to use it sometimes to promote things
[48:03] Speaker 3: and you know, interact, and I don't hate interacting, but
[48:06] Speaker 3: sometimes you get sidetracked, you know, from what you're supposed
[48:10] Speaker 3: to be there to do, and it's just so much
[48:13] Speaker 3: information overload, all of this stuff overloaded. And just like
[48:16] Speaker 3: I was in a good mood until I saw some
[48:18] Speaker 3: dumb shit and now I'm arguing with people in the
[48:21] Speaker 3: comments and telling them to go watch it's a bill
[48:24] Speaker 3: on Capitol Hill and I don't want that. So you know,
[48:27] Speaker 3: I've definitely been limiting my time, and I've noticed the
[48:29] Speaker 3: difference just in my overall mood productivity, whether it's being
[48:33] Speaker 3: productive in anything professional or even just making sure that
[48:37] Speaker 3: I'm dedicating time to me. And this week I was like,
[48:40] Speaker 3: you know what, I've got to micro manage my day
[48:43] Speaker 3: a little bit more. And something that I always forget
[48:45] Speaker 3: about is making sure I'm waking up early enough to
[48:48] Speaker 3: have a slow morning and be able to do that,
[48:50] Speaker 3: because when I do get up and have a slow morning,
[48:53] Speaker 3: the day just works so much better for me.
[48:56] Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to work on too. It's difficult
[48:58] Speaker 2: for me, but so far, I'm getting better. I'm getting better.
[49:02] Speaker 3: What I found is adding twenty minutes every day or
[49:05] Speaker 3: every other day to the earlier, to waking up earlier
[49:09] Speaker 3: makes it a little bit easier. And that damn snooze
[49:11] Speaker 3: button is so good. But I've got to leave it alone.
[49:13] Speaker 3: But yeah, m hm, it's just like girl, why did
[49:18] Speaker 3: you even have the alarm set?
[49:19] Speaker 2: It is one thing that I wish they would do
[49:23] Speaker 2: with social media, which they probably would never do, but
[49:25] Speaker 2: I really wish they would do this instead of banning abortion.
[49:29] Speaker 1: I wish so.
[49:30] Speaker 3: Many other things right like this would.
[49:32] Speaker 1: Really be helpful.
[49:33] Speaker 2: I wish that my mom told me when they were
[49:35] Speaker 2: growing up, TV went off at a certain time. It
[49:36] Speaker 2: just went off. There was nothing else to play. It
[49:38] Speaker 2: just went off, and a message would pop up and say,
[49:40] Speaker 2: do you know where your kids are?
[49:41] Speaker 1: Did you know that used to happen.
[49:42] Speaker 2: I wish they would do something like that with social media,
[49:45] Speaker 2: Like it just stops at six pm or at seven pm.
[49:48] Speaker 2: No one has access to it anymore, and it says
[49:51] Speaker 2: something like do you.
[49:52] Speaker 3: Do you pause?
[49:56] Speaker 2: Okay, it's okay, I'm glad we got it itby we're
[50:05] Speaker 2: almost done.
[50:09] Speaker 3: But you wanted to cut off all.
[50:11] Speaker 1: Social media just cuts off at a certain time.
[50:13] Speaker 2: It turns on, let's say at six am, turns off
[50:17] Speaker 2: seven thirty pm.
[50:18] Speaker 1: You know one has access to it anymore.
[50:20] Speaker 2: So it would force you to either organize what you
[50:22] Speaker 2: gotta post, talk to who you got talked to.
[50:24] Speaker 1: And you cannot. I think people will go crazy.
[50:27] Speaker 3: Well yeah, and realistically that won't work because it's a
[50:30] Speaker 3: global thing. So when TV goes off, you got your
[50:33] Speaker 3: local channels, so your time zone, but the other side
[50:36] Speaker 3: of the world they still up and they're like, wait
[50:38] Speaker 3: a minute, now, I got to be up at six
[50:40] Speaker 3: six am.
[50:41] Speaker 2: Well, it would adjust to everybody's time zone, like you
[50:43] Speaker 2: wouldn't be like everyone's just on America's time.
[50:46] Speaker 3: Well, social media, you can stop your own phone though.
[50:50] Speaker 2: I'm saying I wish it was like a this was
[50:51] Speaker 2: like in stated you can't.
[50:54] Speaker 1: Nobody can do it. Like it's just like you don't
[50:55] Speaker 1: even have the option.
[50:56] Speaker 2: That's like putting your money in savings account you got
[50:59] Speaker 2: access to you're not supposed to spend it, but now.
[51:01] Speaker 1: You done dabbled in and switched it over. To the checkings.
[51:04] Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, but yeah, social media can be so good, right,
[51:10] Speaker 3: like we've done so much with it. That's positive. But
[51:13] Speaker 3: sometimes you need a break. So if you haven't taken
[51:15] Speaker 3: a little social media break, don't have to delete your
[51:18] Speaker 3: page or make public service announcements about it. But maybe
[51:22] Speaker 3: just challenge yourself when you find yourself bored, instead of
[51:26] Speaker 3: jumping to Instagram or whatever your social media of choices,
[51:29] Speaker 3: do something different. Yeah, you go outside and take a
[51:31] Speaker 3: little walk, Go run an errand go to the store,
[51:34] Speaker 3: go to a coffee shop. Just walk. Walking is easy
[51:36] Speaker 3: and it's free, and you need to be moving anyway.
[51:39] Speaker 3: It's nice to get out if you can't go outside
[51:41] Speaker 3: because you ain't walk in the garage. Yeah, do something,
[51:44] Speaker 3: get your walking pathy workout, Good luck, good look.
[51:48] Speaker 2: All right, y'all, we're gonna move on to Indecisive Diana.
[51:51] Speaker 2: When we come back, we have an advice letter to
[51:53] Speaker 2: read to you guys, and then we have cocktails.
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[55:14] Speaker 1: Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants?
[55:16] Speaker 2: Stop thinking about what I want? What do you want?
[55:18] Speaker 3: What your parents want?
[55:20] Speaker 2: What do you want?
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[56:32] Speaker 3: is time for the advice. If you have a question
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[56:46] Speaker 2: Okay, this one is titled does size Matter? Hey, ladies,
[56:51] Speaker 2: I've been watching y'all for a while now, and I
[56:53] Speaker 2: am proud of your progress. Let's jump right into it.
[56:56] Speaker 2: I am a thirty four year old mail and I
[56:58] Speaker 2: have been with quite a few women and I've never
[57:00] Speaker 2: had any complaints.
[57:02] Speaker 1: Some of them were even obsessed with my manhood. Is manhood?
[57:05] Speaker 1: How old you think? Oh, he's thirty four.
[57:08] Speaker 2: I've had women tell me they love me during sex
[57:11] Speaker 2: and even pull up when and even pull up whenever
[57:14] Speaker 2: I was out. Recently, I met this woman who was
[57:16] Speaker 2: gorgeous and just my type. We met at a lounge
[57:19] Speaker 2: and exchange numbers the same night. Fast forward about a month.
[57:22] Speaker 2: We had been sexting about what we would do to
[57:24] Speaker 2: each other, and when we finally got the chance. A
[57:27] Speaker 2: few weeks later, she comes over for dinner and everything
[57:29] Speaker 2: was amazing. She was smiling from ear to ear and
[57:32] Speaker 2: the whole night. Oh, she was smiling from ear to
[57:34] Speaker 2: ear the whole night, laughing at all my jokes. We
[57:37] Speaker 2: start talking about everything we were going to do to
[57:39] Speaker 2: each other, and we were ready to make it happen.
[57:41] Speaker 2: We go to the bedroom and we were kissing and
[57:43] Speaker 2: touching all over each other. At this point, I'm rock
[57:46] Speaker 2: hard and ready to go to work. She reaches down
[57:49] Speaker 2: and grabs my wood, and her demeanor instantly changes. She
[57:52] Speaker 2: pulls out my meat, my meat. He has called it
[57:55] Speaker 2: everything my meat.
[57:57] Speaker 1: I don't like what Okay, this is a man of God.
[58:02] Speaker 2: She pulls out my meat and looks me dead in
[58:05] Speaker 2: my face and says, is that it? I look down
[58:10] Speaker 2: at my six and a half inch best friend with
[58:13] Speaker 2: a curve and said, bitch, hell yeady. She said, you
[58:18] Speaker 2: couldn't be with me because I wasn't. She said, you couldn't.
[58:21] Speaker 1: You can't be with me because you're not big enough.
[58:23] Speaker 1: She grabbed her things and left.
[58:25] Speaker 3: Even I'm sorry, I'm so sorry.
[58:27] Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. That was just a natural reaction. Oh
[58:29] Speaker 1: my gosh.
[58:30] Speaker 2: Even though I've been with multiple beautiful women, now I'm
[58:34] Speaker 2: having confidence issues. I find myself looking in the mirror
[58:37] Speaker 2: and saying, am I big enough? So, ladies, do size matter?
[58:40] Speaker 2: And would you be okay with six and a half inches?
[58:43] Speaker 2: Keep up the great work, and I can't wait to
[58:44] Speaker 2: see what you guys do in the future. Anonymously, I
[58:46] Speaker 2: think it's so funny when you do something to like
[58:49] Speaker 2: mess with a man's confidence and it's like.
[58:50] Speaker 1: The end of the world to them. When mind you
[58:52] Speaker 1: were over here, take your wig off so I could
[58:55] Speaker 1: see your edgies.
[58:56] Speaker 3: Take me wash your face, wash.
[58:58] Speaker 1: It off, throw her in the take the body suit off.
[59:02] Speaker 3: Oh you got a little punch.
[59:04] Speaker 2: It's like, y'all stay telling us stuff, and now you
[59:06] Speaker 2: shock because the lady talking about your little thing.
[59:09] Speaker 3: That's a little thing.
[59:11] Speaker 1: Size don't matter to me, though I'm not gonna lie
[59:12] Speaker 1: like all size.
[59:16] Speaker 3: Does not matter that much. I don't really want a
[59:19] Speaker 3: really big dig So you just got to keep going
[59:21] Speaker 3: out there because some girls are total size queens and
[59:24] Speaker 3: they want it to be big and rip all their
[59:26] Speaker 3: insides up. I don't want that. I think that will hurt.
[59:29] Speaker 3: That would scare me. If you pulled out something that
[59:31] Speaker 3: was like twelve inches longer looked very large. It's frightening. Really,
[59:37] Speaker 3: it looks like a weapon of mass destruction, and I
[59:42] Speaker 3: don't want it, right, But.
[59:44] Speaker 6: My offer just got accepted and we're finey wait offer,
[59:52] Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Okay, sorry congratulating Whitley.
[59:56] Speaker 3: Willy's excited too, she says, congratulate you with She's like, oh,
[1:00:00] Speaker 3: we clapping. But yeah, I think that you just got
[1:00:05] Speaker 3: to find somebody else. Some people are gonna look at
[1:00:06] Speaker 3: you and be like that small Because I just had
[1:00:08] Speaker 3: a Google So an iPhone fourteen Pro Max is about
[1:00:12] Speaker 3: is a little over six and a half inches. You
[1:00:14] Speaker 3: got the pro Max. I think, okay, mine is the
[1:00:17] Speaker 3: pro I think you do have the max because mine
[1:00:19] Speaker 3: is smaller than you, so diagonal, that's six and a
[1:00:22] Speaker 3: half inches. That's I thought that looked smaller than what
[1:00:28] Speaker 3: I thought six and a half inches was it says
[1:00:31] Speaker 3: it was like six point seven inches, So like, I'm surprised,
[1:00:34] Speaker 3: but I think but then when I put my hands
[1:00:38] Speaker 3: around it, you know, looking at a phone is a
[1:00:40] Speaker 3: little different. I don't think it's I mean, I'm sorry
[1:00:42] Speaker 3: she did that to you. That's up. But girls are
[1:00:45] Speaker 3: not going to care that. But it's not like you
[1:00:46] Speaker 3: have a belly button. And even if you did, for
[1:00:49] Speaker 3: those of you who are watching this to do somebody
[1:00:51] Speaker 3: can appreciate it. And it's way easier to suck a
[1:00:54] Speaker 3: six and a half incher than it is anything bigger
[1:00:57] Speaker 3: than that. So you know, counter blessing, be proud of you,
[1:01:02] Speaker 3: and good luck with the future endeavors. Maybe if that
[1:01:07] Speaker 3: really really bothered you, because that would be fucked up
[1:01:10] Speaker 3: if I was a man and somebody looked at me
[1:01:12] Speaker 3: like that and then pack their stuff and left like
[1:01:15] Speaker 3: like trying to sit out and lick it, flick it nothing.
[1:01:20] Speaker 1: She is a woman, that is not She is about her,
[1:01:22] Speaker 1: but she's not playing with y'all. And there's apartment that's.
[1:01:24] Speaker 3: Proud of her. Yeah, because because good for you, because
[1:01:26] Speaker 3: some people just sit back and they and taking.
[1:01:28] Speaker 1: It and she said, I'll get what I want, and
[1:01:30] Speaker 1: this ain't it.
[1:01:31] Speaker 3: Yeah, so count your blessings. But maybe if you can
[1:01:34] Speaker 3: do it in like an appropriate way, maybe lett somebody
[1:01:38] Speaker 3: feel you up first, so that you don't have to
[1:01:41] Speaker 3: go through dropping your pants and then seeing it and
[1:01:44] Speaker 3: running away again. I would try that, because if I
[1:01:48] Speaker 3: was gonna let you be naked, i'd feel it through
[1:01:50] Speaker 3: your pants. And if it was too small, I'm sure
[1:01:53] Speaker 3: that would be easier to run away from. And you
[1:01:56] Speaker 3: say some something dignity, but good luck, and I'm sorry
[1:02:00] Speaker 3: that happened. But many women I've asked, lots of girls,
[1:02:02] Speaker 3: a lot of girls do not want a big ass dick.
[1:02:04] Speaker 3: And six and a half inches is good. Many people
[1:02:07] Speaker 3: have four inches or smaller, no matter their race. Contrary
[1:02:11] Speaker 3: to popular belief, that's true.
[1:02:14] Speaker 1: This is true.
[1:02:16] Speaker 3: Anyway, it's not little.
[1:02:20] Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm not. If anybody else got a little thing,
[1:02:23] Speaker 1: be proud of you.
[1:02:27] Speaker 3: All right, So on that note to we're going to
[1:02:30] Speaker 3: move on to the cocktails. If you have a cocktail
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[1:02:36] Speaker 3: it in the email is cocktails at c O C
[1:02:39] Speaker 3: K T A L E S at cocktailspod dot com
[1:02:52] Speaker 3: but it can't go on me. You think, is this
[1:02:58] Speaker 3: on catching the face in your hand?
[1:03:03] Speaker 1: Once upon a time not long ago?
[1:03:04] Speaker 3: I was, okay, I'll read this one. It says cocktails
[1:03:14] Speaker 3: more like cliptails. All right, girl, Hey y'all. Uh, here's
[1:03:18] Speaker 3: one of my many stories I hope I get to share.
[1:03:21] Speaker 3: As some of you may know, lesbian sex can last
[1:03:24] Speaker 3: from sunset to sunrise. Ooh, I'd be tired. I dedncare
[1:03:27] Speaker 3: about y'all, but I need multiple alarms to warm up
[1:03:30] Speaker 3: the wake up. I know that's right. This particular morning,
[1:03:33] Speaker 3: I woke up before the fourth wake up wake up
[1:03:36] Speaker 3: alarm went off. Oh, woke up before the fourth wake
[1:03:39] Speaker 3: up alarm went off? Who was just talking about that?
[1:03:41] Speaker 3: Forstance News? I rolled over, realized there was some time needed.
[1:03:46] Speaker 3: There was some time before we needed to get out
[1:03:47] Speaker 3: of bed, and decided to cuddle up tight next to
[1:03:50] Speaker 3: my girlfriend. She's not so much a light sleeper, but
[1:03:54] Speaker 3: my sudden movements in the bed started to wake her up.
[1:03:56] Speaker 3: With her back to my stomach, I decided to wake
[1:03:59] Speaker 3: her up with some light kisses around her shoulders and neck.
[1:04:03] Speaker 3: All I wanted to do was thank her for pleasing me.
[1:04:05] Speaker 3: The way that she did the night before. I trace
[1:04:09] Speaker 3: her spine with the pads of my fingers. With each
[1:04:12] Speaker 3: tracing lower and lower, I feel her back arch away
[1:04:16] Speaker 3: from my fingers. Her breathing gets a little heavier as
[1:04:19] Speaker 3: I get closer to her hips. More kisses to her neck.
[1:04:22] Speaker 3: I use the tip of my tongue to wrap around
[1:04:25] Speaker 3: her ears, letting out a small, breathy moan. I whisper,
[1:04:29] Speaker 3: do you want me to stop? While still running my
[1:04:33] Speaker 3: fingers so slightly against her skin, She pushed her back
[1:04:36] Speaker 3: into me, allowing me to move her leg forward, slipping
[1:04:40] Speaker 3: my hands between her thighs, tracing the inside of her
[1:04:43] Speaker 3: legs and slightly grazing her pussy. I can feel her
[1:04:46] Speaker 3: wetness pouring out. She lets out another moan, this time
[1:04:51] Speaker 3: a little louder. I move my hand forward to rest
[1:04:54] Speaker 3: on her pussy. I feel her clit pulsating in the
[1:04:58] Speaker 3: palm of my hand. I move my my hand and
[1:05:00] Speaker 3: go back to tracing her sides, down to her thighs
[1:05:04] Speaker 3: and back around to her neck. I ask again, do
[1:05:07] Speaker 3: you want me to stop? I can see from the
[1:05:09] Speaker 3: back of her how much she's enjoying my light tracings
[1:05:13] Speaker 3: while I'm infatuated with each curve. My fingers touched. My
[1:05:18] Speaker 3: index and middle finger meet her clit again, and this
[1:05:22] Speaker 3: time I separate them and slide them back and forth.
[1:05:25] Speaker 3: Gliding between my fingers. I can feel her clit jumping
[1:05:29] Speaker 3: and her wetness is drenching my hand. At this point,
[1:05:32] Speaker 3: her legs open up, allowing me more access to her
[1:05:36] Speaker 3: sweet spots. At this point, I can't help but to taste,
[1:05:40] Speaker 3: kissing from her spine to her hips, to inside of
[1:05:44] Speaker 3: her legs. My lips meet her pussy. Instead of flicking
[1:05:47] Speaker 3: the bean, I wrap my lips around her clit, giving slow,
[1:05:52] Speaker 3: soft kisses and sucks. Her hand reaches down to my
[1:05:56] Speaker 3: head and rests on the back of my neck. As
[1:05:59] Speaker 3: my mouth opens to taste her inside. I hear another sound. Y'all,
[1:06:04] Speaker 3: it's the fourth and final Get the fuck up before
[1:06:06] Speaker 3: you're late. Alarm goes off. Thanks for reading, guys, I'll
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