# Who should pay for a first date?

- Institution: TED
- Department: TEDxReno
- Speaker: Jared Freid
- Year: 2022
- Level: For everyone
- Language: English
- Source: [TED](https://www.ted.com/talks/jared_freid_who_should_pay_for_a_first_date)
- Licence: [CC BY-NC-ND 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/4.0/) (Non-commercial use only, and no changed versions.)
- Who can watch: Teens profiles and older (sources give no ratings; placed by Invisible Network from the source's own words)

In a dating landscape plagued with anxiety about double-texts and who grabs the check, "it's way easier to have rules than to have feelings," says stand-up comedian and podcast host Jared Freid. In this funny talk, he shares how owning your feelings can help you avoid a minefield of trick questions and shifting social norms.

## Lectures

1. [Who should pay for a first date?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/learn/ted/jared_freid_who_should_pay_for_a_first_date/2b1de4bae517), 19 min (TED's player)